The thing I hate about this is I did a lot of this naturally most of my life. I always had no issue making people like me. After awhile, I realized I’m consistently the only one putting work into the relationship. Every relationship… People around me get comfortable and maintain friendship/relationship cruise control, while all the heavy burden of nurturing and tending the relationship falls onto me. One day, I just stopped. Surprise surprise, most the people I considered close friends just vanished. What is the solution to making balanced friendships where you yourself aren’t the anchor to the whole friendship? It’s exhausting and lonely having no one putting work into me the way I put work into others.
I suggest making friends in situations where teamwork is needed. Join a sports team where people have to get personal and cooperative. You won't find a sports team where only one person puts in effort. Maybe join a club that you are interested in.
The older I get the more I only put my time into the people that equally reciprocate my excitement about them and love of who they are and their heart. It’s helped separate a lot of “the wheat from the chaff”
This advice on focusing entirely on the other person is clearly bonkers and doesn’t lead to fulfilling personal relationships. Maybe this advice could be applied to a competitive work setting or something like that, idk. But in general, it can be off-putting when the person you’re talking to is constantly re-directing the focus of the conversation back to you and trying to get to know you without giving you as much detail about themselves. Overall, I’ve learned that the best, most genuine way to make friends, real ones, is to get to know people and their desires while also letting them get to know you and your desires, so that you can see how they line up and help each other fulfill them. Basically, collaboration.
The same situation with me, I was always the anchor and was always looking out for my friends checking how they were and putting the effort to keep it, I realized that, unlike me, nobody really calls me unless they need something. So I stopped contacting them and nobody reached out.
@@jasonkrick1614 😂 Fr, I don't even know why I do this, as in watching these videos and reading books on this topic, when I know I can do it and I have been doing this for a while now. I blame the overthinking and constant isolation
@@tracyphoenixx I agree with you. Growing up as a kid. I was really shy. I felt insecure and insignificant in every which way. Long story short. I realized one day as a young adult. We have only one life to live. I started being more outgoing. Saying hi to strangers. Striking up conversations. Etc. I picked all these social manners, as I call them, naturally and over a long time. So, it became a part of me. And not a rehearsed script. Ever do a magic trick? The trick itself is incredibly easy. Every trick is easy. Making it look effortless and natural is the real magic.
bro as a 20yr old literally same. I don’t even think it’s about practicing from a book it’s about being able to put to perspective and truly understanding your intentions in which over time you’ll find solutions to on your own.
Ironically, even Carnegie admitted in the books that he wrote because he would often forget his own lessons and by reading them again he could keep them in his mind.
I think its important to recognize that there will be people who also take advantage of certain kinds of kindness and then have expectations of you to treat them with the same level from then on without reciprocating the energy with you. sometimes its better to just keep to yourself.
@@HekaVerse it’s time you say yes to yourself and say no to others. They come to you when they have issues anyways. Keep those who fuel you, I guess. I’m still working on this, so
i think no matter how hard it can be, how much easier it is to close yourself off and not trust anymore, it’s generally worse for you. You don’t have to continue that kindness to rude people but if you’re not open because of some peoples rudeness, you might miss out on the important people in your life
A great way to remember people´s name is to ask them if they know what it means. First because people love to talk about themselves so if you´re asking about their name its a pleasant conversations for them, and also its so much easier to remember a name if the word has an actual meaning and its more likely that you´ll remember the conversation you had with the person about their name. Also if they don´t know you can literally look it up on the spot and it can still be a very interesting conversation and will achieve the same effects of remembering and having a pleasant conversation that will leave a good impression.
I want to compliment you, you have said it all. I am a little business owner and I really want to expand my business to the next level by making myself an investor but I really don't know how to go about it..
mrs wil lburn was my hope during the 'bear summer last year. I did so many mistakes but also learned so much from it. she knows exactly when to enter and exit trades for maximum profit. her siignals are top notch
Wealth is built in both bull or bear market and also wealth transfers from the impatient to the patient. One of the best ways to succeed in crypto is by trading your assets with a good strategy..
I'm retired at 47, went from Grass to Grace. This here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife, $35k biweekly and a good daughter full of ❤ I’m forever grateful christen willburn
Excellent video but Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
21:15 This is such an effective way to communicate! Emphasizing the benefits for everyone involved not only motivates action but also creates a supportive atmosphere. Well said!
You're the only channel that I expect to post new videos for every 2-3days , videos are so good that I can't deny watching full video without stopping.
I just wanted to say how much I loved this video! The way you explained everything made it feel so practical and real-super helpful for everyday life. And the visuals were amazing! They really brought everything together and made it even more engaging. Please keep making more like this; I’m excited to stick around and watch consistently because I’m genuinely getting so much out of it. Thanks for sharing such great insights!!!
হ্যালো Escaping Ordinary, আপনার কনটেন্ট সত্যিই অসাধারণ - খুব চিন্তাশীল এবং গভীরভাবে গবেষণাপূর্ণ! আমি জানি আমার মতো আরও ২৭৮ মিলিয়ন বাংলা ভাষাভাষী দর্শক আপনার অন্তর্দৃষ্টি থেকে উপকৃত হতে পারেন, কিন্তু কখনো কখনো ভাষার প্রতিবন্ধকতার কারণে সবকিছু বুঝতে একটু কষ্ট হয়। আপনি কি দয়া করে আপনার ভিডিওতে বাংলা সাবটাইটেল যোগ করার কথা বিবেচনা করবেন?🥹🥹🥹 এতে আপনার অসাধারণ কনটেন্ট আরও বৃহত্তর দর্শকদের কাছে পৌঁছাবে, এবং আমি নিশ্চিত অনেক বাংলা ভাষাভাষী ভক্ত এই প্রচেষ্টাকে প্রশংসা করবে। আপনার সমস্ত কাজের জন্য অনেক ধন্যবাদ!
This summary was really exciting! The examples were great and should have been more frequent. I just criticised positively.... And I learned it here. Thanks😊
Was thinking to read this book from 6 months. Read somewhat and forgot. Glad you posted the video now it will be fun to watch without any knowledge about it.
@@quantlight I recommend you to read or listen to the book or audiobook. The stories Dale tells in his book are really good and help applying the concepts in the real world
@quantlight Daniel Goleman's Emotional Intelligence dives deeply into the nature of human beings. Rather than simplifying it as "humans are creatures of emotions," it distinguishes between the two aspects. Yes, humans are creatures of emotions, but they are also capable of logic. The question is, why do our emotions sometimes take over? How can we manage our emotions effectively? And why do individuals with lower IQs sometimes succeed more than those with higher IQs? This falls within the realm of emotional intelligence.
@@usemaster Thank you for this wonderful recommendation. I am astounded by your ability to clearly define the book goals (PS: I am bad at explaining about why you should this book to anyone 😅).
It’s my first time watching this video and getting a breakdown of the book, and it’s so interesting to me that a lot of these principles to me have always seemed liked common sense. It now makes so much sense how some friends of mine have a difficult time creating the connection they have with me with other people
This was one of the first self-help books I read, and remains second on my personal list right behind How to Be Miserable: 40 Steps You Already Use by Randy Patterson. I was thrilled to see you had animated this. Thank you! 🎉
Thank you for the book recommendation - I have never heard of that book before - I will check it out and thank you for the super thanks is very appreciated 🙏
This video, I feel, is going to be very helpful in my life. Your easy to understand style really catches the eye. I thank you for presenting the book this way. Keep going!
This video is the answer to every question, I've ever had on social interactions. You have opened up my mind massively. So i would just like to say thank you. For your hard work and putting the information into bite-sized chunks for my brian. brain.
Thanks for the summary. This is really beneficial for more visual learners and those that need it to be simplified and faster than reading the whole book. 📖
Thank you for this summary. The animation with narration helps people like me to make the text come alive and situate them better through past experiences. The desire to do better is heightened with reflection, and further reflection. 'Hope to remember and use what is helpful in specific situations.
Heard this book for the first time in Young Sheldon and you managed to give me a clear "summary" thank you! btw, I love your animations! Adding this channel right next to Lead Learn Leap. You guys have similar animated videos with informative knowledge ^^ Love it
- Introduction of the video - Overview of the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - Part One: Fundamental Techniques in handling someone - Principle 1: Avoid criticism - Principle 2: Genuine Appreciation vs. Flattery - Principle 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want - Part Two: Six ways to make people like you - Principle 1: Show genuine interest in others - Principle 2: Use a smile to make a good first impression - Principle 3: Remember and use people's names - Principle 4: Become a great conversationalist - Principle 5: Talk about things that interest others - Principle 6: Make people feel important instantly - Part Three: How to win people to your way of thinking - Principle 1: Avoid arguments - Principle 2: Never say "You're wrong" - Principle 3: Admit when you're wrong - Principle 4: Begin in a friendly way - Principle 5: Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately - Principle 6: Let the other person do a great deal of the talking - Principle 7: Let the other person feel the idea is theirs - Principle 8: Try to see things from the other person's point of view - Principle 9: Give people sympathy - Principle 10: Appeal to nobler motives - Principle 11: Dramatize your ideas - Principle 12: Throw down a challenge - Part Four: Nine Principles for Leadership & how to change people without causing resentment
I have red Dale Carnegie's books because of this channel, I listen to this channel over and over again even while I'm driving :) We need more LEVEL UP by Rob Dial
Criticism will usually only result in you hurting someone's ego and may cause then to dislike you. Genuine appreciation will make people like you, not exaggerating because that's flattering. (You can do it if the person thinks he's the best, let them think they are the best)
This is awesome! Haven't even started watching, but I already know. One of my favorite self-help books getting the summary from the best illustrated summariser out there!
This video is fantastic! I love the art, background music and sounds. But it's a bit long and it would be better if you made two separate videos about how to win friends and influence people :)
Thank you very much for this amazing content. Always waiting for your high quality content that really makes me understand deeper and with a lot of joy. Muchas gracias desde Colombia 🇨🇴❤️
I've learned so much thank you :)! Might this be a guideline of how to shape a better community space if this happens to be all of the people? Not just the rare one that tries to change the person's personality of itself, but imagine it starts small and suddenly spreads like 🔥. Loved this vid, might look for more 😊
I greatly appreciate the application of direct quotes from the book! And the video has excellent presentation. I have been reading the book, but I fell off recently. I’m watching this summary to get me back into it, so thanks for uh…crawling into my algorithm? 🎉🎉🎉
for own use: Don't critize others & avoid making examples of others (there is no winners of arguments), 10:40 - 5 points, avoid hurting their pride, make people feel appreciated, always talk in terms of how you can help others achieve their goals/wants, listen & be genuinely interested in others, smile, name recall, small acts of kindness, make others feel important, say sorry, 12:53 template, yes yes moment (start with common ground & make people think your ideas are theirs & phrase ideas as questions), refer to others POV & sympathise, utilize noble causes & drama/storytelling & people's competitiveness.
I liked everything about this video including but not limited to overall presentation, art style, structure, quotes and how well you connected the theory to concrete examples. If only I wasn't so lazy, I would make cue cards right away. I'm probably going to re-watch it many times. You did a great job at making the contents of the arguably old book fresh and engaging.
Though I agree with everything and it works, showing too much interest in people and making them feel important sometimes made the relationship all about them, and I got sick of them. Good way to make people like you, not always the best way to get to like people.
My main takeaway from this video is that, yes, it's true. If you do all these things, people will find you easier to talk to and you'll definitely be well-liked! The book serves its purpose which is telling us how to "win friends" and "influence" people. But as a person who's been doing these things (because i genuinely find it easier to connect with other people), it kinda leaves some off aftertaste sometimes lol because you're so used to letting them talk about themselves, you kinda forget what to talk about when people ask you stuff. I would dismiss talking about myself as "not a big deal" or "it's not as interesting" but damn! it's bad too for me then ahahah anyways, it's important to find a great balance in how to win people and know how to be open about yourself too.
The thing I hate about this is I did a lot of this naturally most of my life. I always had no issue making people like me. After awhile, I realized I’m consistently the only one putting work into the relationship. Every relationship… People around me get comfortable and maintain friendship/relationship cruise control, while all the heavy burden of nurturing and tending the relationship falls onto me. One day, I just stopped. Surprise surprise, most the people I considered close friends just vanished. What is the solution to making balanced friendships where you yourself aren’t the anchor to the whole friendship? It’s exhausting and lonely having no one putting work into me the way I put work into others.
I suggest making friends in situations where teamwork is needed. Join a sports team where people have to get personal and cooperative. You won't find a sports team where only one person puts in effort. Maybe join a club that you are interested in.
The older I get the more I only put my time into the people that equally reciprocate my excitement about them and love of who they are and their heart. It’s helped separate a lot of “the wheat from the chaff”
This advice on focusing entirely on the other person is clearly bonkers and doesn’t lead to fulfilling personal relationships. Maybe this advice could be applied to a competitive work setting or something like that, idk. But in general, it can be off-putting when the person you’re talking to is constantly re-directing the focus of the conversation back to you and trying to get to know you without giving you as much detail about themselves. Overall, I’ve learned that the best, most genuine way to make friends, real ones, is to get to know people and their desires while also letting them get to know you and your desires, so that you can see how they line up and help each other fulfill them. Basically, collaboration.
sounds narcisstic
The same situation with me, I was always the anchor and was always looking out for my friends checking how they were and putting the effort to keep it, I realized that, unlike me, nobody really calls me unless they need something. So I stopped contacting them and nobody reached out.
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
Could you be having a soft copy of the book? I would love to have a read
I learned all this by myself. It took 20 years. The hard part of reading a book about anything is putting it into practice and making it work for you.
@@jasonkrick1614 😂 Fr, I don't even know why I do this, as in watching these videos and reading books on this topic, when I know I can do it and I have been doing this for a while now. I blame the overthinking and constant isolation
@@tracyphoenixx I agree with you. Growing up as a kid. I was really shy. I felt insecure and insignificant in every which way. Long story short. I realized one day as a young adult. We have only one life to live. I started being more outgoing. Saying hi to strangers. Striking up conversations. Etc. I picked all these social manners, as I call them, naturally and over a long time. So, it became a part of me. And not a rehearsed script. Ever do a magic trick? The trick itself is incredibly easy. Every trick is easy. Making it look effortless and natural is the real magic.
bro as a 20yr old literally same. I don’t even think it’s about practicing from a book it’s about being able to put to perspective and truly understanding your intentions in which over time you’ll find solutions to on your own.
@@jasonkrick1614similar with you, also try to build good relationships with others.
Ironically, even Carnegie admitted in the books that he wrote because he would often forget his own lessons and by reading them again he could keep them in his mind.
I think its important to recognize that there will be people who also take advantage of certain kinds of kindness and then have expectations of you to treat them with the same level from then on without reciprocating the energy with you. sometimes its better to just keep to yourself.
That’s why sometimes it’s best not to care whether they like you or not.
I took this as less about offering kindness for its own sake, more about using kindness as tool to manipulate people
This, I feel it. I'm always genuine and give 100% energy to ppl, but they only give back 50%, it's so exhausting...
@@HekaVerse it’s time you say yes to yourself and say no to others. They come to you when they have issues anyways. Keep those who fuel you, I guess. I’m still working on this, so
i think no matter how hard it can be, how much easier it is to close yourself off and not trust anymore, it’s generally worse for you. You don’t have to continue that kindness to rude people but if you’re not open because of some peoples rudeness, you might miss out on the important people in your life
A great way to remember people´s name is to ask them if they know what it means. First because people love to talk about themselves so if you´re asking about their name its a pleasant conversations for them, and also its so much easier to remember a name if the word has an actual meaning and its more likely that you´ll remember the conversation you had with the person about their name. Also if they don´t know you can literally look it up on the spot and it can still be a very interesting conversation and will achieve the same effects of remembering and having a pleasant conversation that will leave a good impression.
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I want to compliment you, you have said it all. I am a little business owner and I really want to expand my business to the next level by making myself an investor but I really don't know how to go about it..
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mrs wil lburn was my hope during the 'bear summer last year. I did so many mistakes but also learned so much from it. she knows exactly when to enter and exit trades for maximum profit. her siignals are top notch
Wealth is built in both bull or bear market and also wealth transfers from the impatient to the patient. One of the best ways to succeed in crypto is by trading your assets with a good strategy..
I'm retired at 47, went from Grass to Grace. This here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife, $35k biweekly and a good daughter full of ❤ I’m forever grateful christen willburn
Excellent video but Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government,
Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment.
Job will pay your bills, business make you rich but investment build and wealth long term, the future is coming.
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21:15 This is such an effective way to communicate! Emphasizing the benefits for everyone involved not only motivates action but also creates a supportive atmosphere. Well said!
You're the only channel that I expect to post new videos for every 2-3days , videos are so good that I can't deny watching full video without stopping.
The amount of artistic expressions in making this video is world class
Your tutorials always make everything seem so clear.
The fact that nobody talks about the book social secrets mastery speaks volumes about why people struggle to build real connections…
@@bocbocigi.-hs5nd did you pay for those likes?
@@bocbocigi.-hs5nd book name?
@@CristianoTate Social secrets mastery
@@CristianoTate Social secrets mastery
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I just wanted to say how much I loved this video! The way you explained everything made it feel so practical and real-super helpful for everyday life. And the visuals were amazing! They really brought everything together and made it even more engaging. Please keep making more like this; I’m excited to stick around and watch consistently because I’m genuinely getting so much out of it. Thanks for sharing such great insights!!!
honey wake up, escaping ordinary just posted❤
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No need to hype up, he is just summarizing a book.
@@TheGoddon hater
@@escaping.ordinary hey, trust me, based on true events! 🥹
@@TheGoddon Quality>Quantity
Genuine appreciation vs flattery
Excellent video, success depends on developing good habits and the inner improvement that can be acquired through self-knowledge. Excellent video!
Best channel on UA-cam for book explanation..!
Quality > Quantity
হ্যালো Escaping Ordinary, আপনার কনটেন্ট সত্যিই অসাধারণ - খুব চিন্তাশীল এবং গভীরভাবে গবেষণাপূর্ণ! আমি জানি আমার মতো আরও ২৭৮ মিলিয়ন বাংলা ভাষাভাষী দর্শক আপনার অন্তর্দৃষ্টি থেকে উপকৃত হতে পারেন, কিন্তু কখনো কখনো ভাষার প্রতিবন্ধকতার কারণে সবকিছু বুঝতে একটু কষ্ট হয়। আপনি কি দয়া করে আপনার ভিডিওতে বাংলা সাবটাইটেল যোগ করার কথা বিবেচনা করবেন?🥹🥹🥹 এতে আপনার অসাধারণ কনটেন্ট আরও বৃহত্তর দর্শকদের কাছে পৌঁছাবে, এবং আমি নিশ্চিত অনেক বাংলা ভাষাভাষী ভক্ত এই প্রচেষ্টাকে প্রশংসা করবে। আপনার সমস্ত কাজের জন্য অনেক ধন্যবাদ!
This summary was really exciting! The examples were great and should have been more frequent.
I just criticised positively.... And I learned it here. Thanks😊
What a great book. Thanks for the summary!
Was thinking to read this book from 6 months. Read somewhat and forgot. Glad you posted the video now it will be fun to watch without any knowledge about it.
@@quantlight I recommend you to read or listen to the book or audiobook. The stories Dale tells in his book are really good and help applying the concepts in the real world
@@usemaster Yeah sure, will do. Any other books can you recommend to read after this?
@quantlight Daniel Goleman's Emotional Intelligence dives deeply into the nature of human beings. Rather than simplifying it as "humans are creatures of emotions," it distinguishes between the two aspects. Yes, humans are creatures of emotions, but they are also capable of logic. The question is, why do our emotions sometimes take over? How can we manage our emotions effectively? And why do individuals with lower IQs sometimes succeed more than those with higher IQs? This falls within the realm of emotional intelligence.
@@usemaster Thank you for this wonderful recommendation. I am astounded by your ability to clearly define the book goals (PS: I am bad at explaining about why you should this book to anyone 😅).
@@quantlight You're welcome, enjoy your reading
the animation this time is on another level
This is quite a good book about communication skills and i think this is very important in today’s society
It’s my first time watching this video and getting a breakdown of the book, and it’s so interesting to me that a lot of these principles to me have always seemed liked common sense. It now makes so much sense how some friends of mine have a difficult time creating the connection they have with me with other people
This was one of the first self-help books I read, and remains second on my personal list right behind How to Be Miserable: 40 Steps You Already Use by Randy Patterson. I was thrilled to see you had animated this. Thank you! 🎉
Thank you for the book recommendation - I have never heard of that book before - I will check it out and thank you for the super thanks is very appreciated 🙏
can you give me a summary of the book you mentioned pls
This video, I feel, is going to be very helpful in my life. Your easy to understand style really catches the eye. I thank you for presenting the book this way. Keep going!
Thanks for leaving a comment :) ... Appreciated 🙏
Of course!
This channel is really worth waiting!! 🥰
Thanks!
Thank you for your work, it is amazing what you do. Just keep going! I love it!
This video is the answer to every question, I've ever had on social interactions. You have opened up my mind massively. So i would just like to say thank you. For your hard work and putting the information into bite-sized chunks for my brian. brain.
15:44 what a absolutely expressive and articulative image 🔥
when the world needed him the most , he returned !
[02:15] This quote is so profound, it helped me view life from a completely new perspective. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for this video! I must say, the graphics, animation, and sound design are incredibly professional, and it’s also very informative.
The best summary of this book! ❤
I am waiting for Sapien 🙈Your way of explanation is easier for me to understand than reading a book. Thanks. Keep up the good work ❤
you should make sure the people around you are worth the effort you put in
Thanks for the summary. This is really beneficial for more visual learners and those that need it to be simplified and faster than reading the whole book. 📖
Best summaries on the Internet❤
There’s a lot of problems with these rules but they are still incredibly useful, even as reminders if you happen to already know and apply them.
Make sure to always manipulate people so that they feel good about themselves. Avoid expressing anything that could potentially backfire or hurt you..
Thanks so much. I learned a lot about making friends and influencing people because I don’t have many friends so this helps
pls do more videos like this one, this is just amazing.
Thank you for this summary. The animation with narration helps people like me to make the text come alive and situate them better through past experiences.
The desire to do better is heightened with reflection, and further reflection. 'Hope to remember and use what is helpful in specific situations.
Just when we need him, he comes back ✨
Heard this book for the first time in Young Sheldon and you managed to give me a clear "summary" thank you! btw, I love your animations! Adding this channel right next to Lead Learn Leap. You guys have similar animated videos with informative knowledge ^^ Love it
This deserves 1000,000,000 views and likes!!!! Thank you so much for this video 🌟
This is the best channel on book reviews ever
- Introduction of the video
- Overview of the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People"
- Part One: Fundamental Techniques in handling someone
- Principle 1: Avoid criticism
- Principle 2: Genuine Appreciation vs. Flattery
- Principle 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want
- Part Two: Six ways to make people like you
- Principle 1: Show genuine interest in others
- Principle 2: Use a smile to make a good first impression
- Principle 3: Remember and use people's names
- Principle 4: Become a great conversationalist
- Principle 5: Talk about things that interest others
- Principle 6: Make people feel important instantly
- Part Three: How to win people to your way of thinking
- Principle 1: Avoid arguments
- Principle 2: Never say "You're wrong"
- Principle 3: Admit when you're wrong
- Principle 4: Begin in a friendly way
- Principle 5: Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately
- Principle 6: Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
- Principle 7: Let the other person feel the idea is theirs
- Principle 8: Try to see things from the other person's point of view
- Principle 9: Give people sympathy
- Principle 10: Appeal to nobler motives
- Principle 11: Dramatize your ideas
- Principle 12: Throw down a challenge
- Part Four: Nine Principles for Leadership & how to change people without causing resentment
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Pls one video on Machiavellianism too... ❤👍
Thank you, this saves me money and time. I was actually plan to buy the book
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Thanks!
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Wow…. The insight, research and understanding.
Thanks for this. Amazing content and quality.
Criticism will usually only result in you hurting someone's ego and may cause then to dislike you.
Genuine appreciation will make people like you, not exaggerating because that's flattering. (You can do it if the person thinks he's the best, let them think they are the best)
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This video is fantastic! I love the art, background music and sounds. But it's a bit long and it would be better if you made two separate videos about how to win friends and influence people :)
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Hands down the best video I've seen on this subject, whoever you are well done!
i learned a lot from this video and i need to practice it, thanks for making such helpful videos
I've learned so much thank you :)! Might this be a guideline of how to shape a better community space if this happens to be all of the people? Not just the rare one that tries to change the person's personality of itself, but imagine it starts small and suddenly spreads like 🔥. Loved this vid, might look for more 😊
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I greatly appreciate the application of direct quotes from the book! And the video has excellent presentation.
I have been reading the book, but I fell off recently. I’m watching this summary to get me back into it, so thanks for uh…crawling into my algorithm? 🎉🎉🎉
Such a fast paced presentation that I couldn't keep up!
@@matins.o7812 you can change the video speed on UA-cam
Would love to get videos from this channels more regularly
for own use: Don't critize others & avoid making examples of others (there is no winners of arguments), 10:40 - 5 points, avoid hurting their pride, make people feel appreciated, always talk in terms of how you can help others achieve their goals/wants, listen & be genuinely interested in others, smile, name recall, small acts of kindness, make others feel important, say sorry, 12:53 template, yes yes moment (start with common ground & make people think your ideas are theirs & phrase ideas as questions), refer to others POV & sympathise, utilize noble causes & drama/storytelling & people's competitiveness.
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Hopefully his next video will be about grammar
@@Stierenkloot yeah true, but have you checked yours first lol
please summarize the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene 🙏🏻
I liked everything about this video including but not limited to overall presentation, art style, structure, quotes and how well you connected the theory to concrete examples. If only I wasn't so lazy, I would make cue cards right away. I'm probably going to re-watch it many times. You did a great job at making the contents of the arguably old book fresh and engaging.
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This book is literally a cheat code to life
we should remember that we don't want everyone to like us. sometimes we don't care.
3 of 9 already improve my life to amazing scale, your videos of dale carnegie's book is amazing all the ways
Thank you for your awesome work!
Applying these techniques not only enhances leadership qualities but also fosters a collaborative environment that can drive any business forward. 📘
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Though I agree with everything and it works, showing too much interest in people and making them feel important sometimes made the relationship all about them, and I got sick of them. Good way to make people like you, not always the best way to get to like people.
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Be interested in others. Do unto others. It's deceptivly simple.
The video is really meaningful, thank bro ❤
i read that book recently , and watching this video
Love strategies over theory. Thanks for this video!
My main takeaway from this video is that, yes, it's true. If you do all these things, people will find you easier to talk to and you'll definitely be well-liked! The book serves its purpose which is telling us how to "win friends" and "influence" people. But as a person who's been doing these things (because i genuinely find it easier to connect with other people), it kinda leaves some off aftertaste sometimes lol because you're so used to letting them talk about themselves, you kinda forget what to talk about when people ask you stuff. I would dismiss talking about myself as "not a big deal" or "it's not as interesting" but damn! it's bad too for me then ahahah anyways, it's important to find a great balance in how to win people and know how to be open about yourself too.