Cut off what they think is " free" funds they'll straiten up. Make laws, that we already have. Male/ female alike. END AFFIRMATIVE ACTION. IF YOU CANNOT EARN IT, YOU CANNOT HAVE IT.
Have you seen the standards for officers. HS diploma . This is a perfect scenario to be a gun wielding power and intimidation just by going to CAMP. BIG problems in US anyway.
Doesn't it make perfect sense that sociopaths and narcissist are drawn to certain job position they feel they are meant to be in ? Just like pedophiles will want to work with children..
It’s so unfair that he can waste public money like this. 1.5 million is more than a lifetime of savings for most people and that’s just for his defense.
Shame western nations look down upon Vigilante justice, and do all they can to help and protect some of the world's most horrible ppl. U sentence ppl to death, just for it to get overturned by some nutjob liberal, or they allow the monster to live 20yrs until they get the sympathetic form of a Western Death Penalty with drugs. Probably why the west has so many repeat criminals, sex Offenders, killers, etc, yet put away ppl who don't pay Taxes for decades!😂😂 Enjoy that!
@@CowSaysMooMoo said like someone who both never paid attention in school, is a mediocre person, aka loser, and rarely picked up a book to learn things. Sum total is cynical ordinary asshat, or even narcissitic.
Thank you for keeping me entertained during my graveyard shift at my neighborhood grocery store. I follow very few psychology oriented channels. I like your vibe, humor and personality. You are doing an awesome job. You are a wonderful human Dr. Grande.
"Hello. This is Dr. Grande" puts me into a relaxed state at once. His voice and cadence are like ASMR for me. And the consistent format of his videos is comforting amidst all of life's chaos.
"Today's question is...." "Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating about what _could_ be happening in a situation _like_ this."
It has the opposite effect on me. He has a flat affect and speaks in a paused, lifeless and methodical manner which is not fluent or natural. It comes across as calculated.
You posted this comment right after I timestamped and posted how cute the dog and bunny salt and pepper shaker were. You saw it gowt likes and decided to copy it 👌. I can't imagine being this lame.
He managed to manipulate everyone to have it exactly how he wanted. If he could do it to the entire justice system, imagine what this guy was capable of around regular people.
MH, YES! He could easily have been elected President of the United States. The description given of this killer sounded exactly like TFG, up to a point. MILLIONS of people have fallen for his bs, and continue to believe in him. I cannot understand it.
@@shadowlouise well maybe it is because the other alternative is a man that is senil, dement, jokes in the wrong occasion ( as he did now efter the mass shootings) and does inappropriate things ( like putting hands where they shouldn't be). To not talk about his son, a criminal that is under protection. I am so sorry for americans that have to chose between a crazy one and a dement one. But I still have an impression that the last one is damaging much more. Leftists are good in destroying things.
I know it makes you want gag but you have to look at it like this - the judge is only handing him more rope to hang himself with. As the guy goes on with his antics, demanding things, farting/crapping in his pants, making dumb speeches, threatening people and stringing his trial out for weeks etc... , slowly the he exposes the the REAL him to the judge and jury (if there is one), and he turns any possible sympathy they might have had against him. As you can see, they threw the book at him with a stiff sentence. Had he played it differently and claimed a crime of passion or something similar and forgone all the melodramatics and weaseling with the money he might have gotten a lighter sentence.
I found this to be one of the most interesting, gruesome, educational, sad, entertaining, calmest voice cadence, I have heard yet… thank you, you also took me back to my days of having fun with words, any one remember the better, bitter, butter …? You are a scholar and gentleman and a phenomenal narrator!!
Not sure what is more adorable … the pup waiting for scraps or the bunny salt & pepper shakers! They need to make cameo appearances in the Saguaro collection!
This sounds like the narcissist decompensating over the shock of being jilted. They seem to do everything to control their partners to prevent this insufferable rejection and mortal wound. He was at his lowest point when he defecated in the courtroom like he lost any human dignity he had left and turned into a complete infant. I feel very sorry for all who had to endure this man. Worst of all, it happened in my home province!!
Narcissists are stunted emotionally so regressing to some anal stage kinda makes sense. Narc’s are very anal retentive, or “anal” as they say. So I guess you could say he made some progress by letting himself go, so to speak.
I grew up with a narcissistic mother, one brother, 3 Aunts all Narcs..then I guess I needed to punish myself more and two boyfriends who were Narcs as well. As a child I had never heard the word “Narcissist” so I just thought they were all “B’s” or “A-holes.” But the day I found this word “Narcissist,” that summed up all these UN-answered thoughts and questions for so long.......I picked myself up, dusted off as much abuse as I could, still damaged emotionally, but still believed in, What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger! I walked away from them all, which is the good part, but I not only don’t trust people like I once did, I also don’t trust myself as much as I should, now! Narcissists to me are hollow, soulless evil monsters! They are sneaky, manipulative (especially if you are empathic) they are masters at their games! You want to know what it’s like living in hell, live with one of them!
Sadly we live in a society saturated in narcissism. Most tv ads are all about self-serving ME, ME, ME narcissism. Pay attention to ads. Narcis lack valid regard. It's all about them
@@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Yes, and you know how an Empath is, we just want to fix what is broken, and until we finally learn, we trust too much bcz we are good people inside and it’s hard for us, at least it was for me, to believe that there really are such monsters walking amongst us! I truly believe we are having a Narcissist epidemic!
@@SatansSimgma Maybe, but it doesn’t apply when they are in the family before you! I heard it like this, “If you run into an asshole in the morning you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you’re the asshole.” It’s more like an allegory or a parable.
Your wonderful, creative word opera at the closing was wonderful. Always appreciate the spin you put on these cases. Very different, yet entertaining and informative.
My first spouse, Narcissistic personality, body functions to no end for me, disgusting while in the kitchen, or at a meal. They (I've had a second Narcissistic spouse)are a scary bunch and difficult to live with I wish this on no one!
Janet Roberts It's absolutely gross what many of them do and I recall my late father's behaviour, not to mention things I did for him, which my equally troubled mother was meant to be doing! I've also been reminded of a highly narcissistic man who used to call into a cafe I go to regularly. He stuck his fingers up his nose etc in front of me once, as well as other things I won't mention. I don't see him very often nowadays, which is a huge relief and he's lucky I didn't get up and leave, or tell everyone who knows him! I'm aware that I was conditioned to accept abnormal behaviour as a child, but I'm working on changing it. 🥺
@@cyndigooch1162 yes people are awful. One fellow would get on the elevator and adjust his masculine equipment every time a female got into the elevator, mind you it was daytime and the horror of it was he had family who worked in the building too!. The women I worked with were appalled with his behavior.
@@janetroberts5140 maybe someone should write a short horror skit about such a man being found hanging in the elevator by his equipment. Oops did i say that outloud? I'm a man btw and was a child in the '70's when the last classic macho assholes were at their peak. Now we see the last gasp resurgence, w/ proud boys etc.. so pathetic.
I'm puzzled as to what Wills hoped to accomplish with all of his weird and offensive behavior in court. I'm sure it didn't endear him to the jury. Fascinating profile as always, Dr. Grande.
Better to be a narcissist than to be with one. They are charming and funny and popular until they aren't, turning cold against mates while gaslighting the response. They know what they are doing and you don't, until you do. Parents can be worse, not even hiding their deception from you while charming the pants off strangers. Everyone but you.
still clearly NOT better to be one, since not being one is being a normal pro-social loving person capable of doing things like teaching kids, or raising a child. Your comment's start sounds like unconscious defeatism and victim-think.
@@18_rabbit OK well you get an F for rational thinking. NOT being a narcissist doesn't say anything about you. Nothing. So you would rather be in a long-term relationship with a narcissist or be raised by one, or two than be one? They don't suffer or feel bad about their actions or judge themselves to be morally bankrupt. Your issues are your own, not mine and your lack of empathy is disturbing. How is imagining what it might be like to be someone else defeatism or victim-think?
Your comment makes me think of Steve Jobs and how allegedly he let Bono think it was really nice that he named a computer program after his daughter, meanwhile telling his daughter that he didn't name it after her because he doesn't value her basically.
@@BariumCobaltNitrog3n all the pronouns refer to Steve Jobs. The story I heard (not necessarily true, but the story) is that he liked for others to think he was a great dad when in fact he was deliberately horrible to his only child.
A video from Dr Grande earlier in the day❤️ I totally love the end of your videos!! I try to make up my own alliterations to match your stories😂 And also love your analysis of these different topics. Your knowledge and critical thinking skills are refreshing and entertaining to watch!! We adore you!!!!
Happy St Patrick’s Day 🍀. What a bizarre story. This man is clearly disturbed. You did a great job of breaking it down. What I still can’t figure out is how he got a wife and mistress 🤯
Dr. Grande, I first started watching your videos in preparation of a complaint I am going to file against my last (psycho)therapist. Now, I'm hooked and sometimes have your videos on auto-play to catch your humor as well as the topic. Keep up the great work!
Gross. I wonder if he acted gross for purposes of his defense. I’d hate to think he acted like this while married and dating someone else and they wanted to stay with him.
So you think it's mentally normal for someone to stay around someone like that? Even if the narcissist manipulates his victim, wouldn't that indicate some sort of vulnerability such as low self esteem in the victim?
Can’t imagine the time and research you put into making these video. To crank out quality content daily is some dedication. Really enjoy the videos and insight. This channel continues to grow. Thanks for the knowledge you share and the interesting crime stories.
Dr. Grande can add the king of alliteration to his list of many talents. Will he entertain adding rhyming couplets to his repertoire? This case was another one wonderfully recounted and analyzed by our Dr. Grande. I was astonished hearing about this bizarre man and it speaks volumes that he icked out Bernardo and Williams!! 🇨🇦
Dr. Grande … there is no substitute for your poker faced comedic delivery. I am just in a gas over it! Lol Thank you and happy St. Patrick’s day ☘ if you celebrate. 🤔❤🇺🇸☘
Aw, now, you hope we "found [your] analysis of this topic to be informative" AND also entertaining, Doc. Your summation featuring letter b words hit the mark. Thank you!
One wonders how a personality like this can pass the psychological standards of any police or military exams. Just shows how deceptive people can really be. Unfortunately, it also shows psychologists, psychotherapists really "don't" have the ability to evaluate the human mind. Only make speculation AFTER the obvious is brought forth! Most of their "psychoanalysis" are intellectual, textbook theorems unless ppl have an overt condition in which untrained ppl even know!
Howdy Dr. Grande. I have a little friend as well, a now six year old Bishon girl called Noodles. My fur baby, as all my kids are now in their forties and the grandkids are all older teens. My little girl is my playmate, constant companion. I’ve had dogs my entire life, but since being incapacitated seven years ago, Noodles has been a godsend, totally different personality from any other dog I’ve ever had.
"He was incarcerated in the same prison as Paul Bernando and Russell Williams, they were in the same unit" LOL Canada is so much smaller than people imagine.
I know both Bernardo’s lawyer and his lawyer. Both of these cases ruined the careers of the lawyers involved. Both lawyers were given instructions which they followed on the advice of the law society practice advisory . However, when there was public outcry the law society went after both lawyers who never recovered professionally.
"Back firing" - laughed out loud on that one. In the military, you're trained with a rocket launcher in basic training. Part of the safety training includes a pre-launch announcement of "back blast area, clear" shouted for everyone to realize a rocket was about to be launched. That was my thought after you said "back firing" at the end. Good times...
Also you can still respect cops and call out the shady abusive behavior. And their inability to take responsibility for their actions/behavior. Being a blind sycophant who worships them while not recognizing any issues is part of the problem. And it enables the bad ones.
I find it quite disconcerting that people with these kinds of personality traits are able to become police officers and the like, judges, district attorneys, etc. Police Officers are necessarily given a large quantity of power over the civilian population. From carrying an assortment of firearms, pepper spray, stun guns, tasers, handcuffs, etc. The nature of their work puts them in a position of extreme power over all others and it’s extremely important that police academies siphon out individuals who have these pathologies.
Dr Todd, I was very impressed with your alliteration skills in your conclusion. It never fails that you make your analysis interesting in spite of your dispassionate delivery, and you always make me smile with your wit. I appreciate your unique content.
I notice people with narcissistic personalities who find themselves in trouble with the law are given more help than anybody else would receive. Most judges will go out of their way to give them what they want so the public don't accuse the judge of an unfair trial. Now, that is bogus. The judges think this way because they are being manipulated from the narcissist defendant. Why can't the judges stop falling for that trick and just treat them according to the law without special treatment, because in the end this is what is happening the narcissistic criminal is playing the judge and he or she are falling right into it. Furthermore, that sentence was the best the judge could give because he should have gotten a life sentence without parole. 😮
I love how you analyze things down to the point, you tell the story, give analysis of each side, and give your thoughts with some humor in as well. I love your channel ❤️ (backfired) 🤣🤣🤣
Would you please give us your thoughts on police responding to mental health calls? And your take on handcuffing mentality disturbed people who aren’t being violent? I would really love your POV as someone who deals with this population. Thank you.
My mother is narcissistic..she’s 87 and I’ve had it with her abuse on me…I’m giving every ounce she gave me right back at her..I call myself her lesson as I continue to expose the mirror she needs to see herself in. Karma gets served best by those who had to learn the recipe in the first place.
Having read your post Jung would say she resides in You. and by your post I'd agree. Now You can claim that's by example, BUT if you're, "Really giving it back to her" Then how can you claim the right to act as horrible as she did to you and be any different than her? You're one in the same see? Exacting Revenge is always an unhealthy place to be see? let go! Forgive and be better and bigger than her and the situation. She still owns you right now because You let her.
Richard Wills was one of the worst inmates I had ever dealt with... A constant struggle mentally every day... from him faking his mental illness by not washing or bathing for about 6 months.. dirty dirty human being.. after being sentenced, we wouldn't even let him back in our jail.. straight to the penitentiary... hope he never gets out!!
Oddly, i found your description of all this was rather humorous. I usually don’t laugh out loud during your videos- but Richard was super bizarre. Thanks for the chuckle.
Oh my, love your puppy and the bunny salt and pepper shakers! The meals and smoothies look good too. Your voice is very calming even telling this strange and disgusting tale.
What pisses me off is that everyone plays along with these people and gives all these resources and chances to them 😡
People in general want to feel accepted, and narcissists figure out how to exploit that need.
@@antonydrossos5719 Agreed. Plus, once someone puts in a dent in their facade, they often smear that person.
Cut off what they think is " free" funds they'll straiten up. Make laws, that we already have. Male/ female alike. END AFFIRMATIVE ACTION. IF YOU CANNOT EARN IT, YOU CANNOT HAVE IT.
@Diana Bodemer I wasn't aware that affirmative action covered personality disorders.
They have such a facade that it's a total deception
It’s scary how many police officers are narcissists. Power and authority is the last thing they need.
Yes
Narcissists, are drawn to power type jobs…🇨🇦
Malignant narcissists/ sociopaths and psychopaths often seek positions of power and too many people don't know how to spot them.
Have you seen the standards for officers. HS diploma . This is a perfect scenario to be a gun wielding power and intimidation just by going to CAMP. BIG problems in US anyway.
Doesn't it make perfect sense that sociopaths and narcissist are drawn to certain job position they feel they are meant to be in ? Just like pedophiles will want to work with children..
It’s so unfair that he can waste public money like this. 1.5 million is more than a lifetime of savings for most people and that’s just for his defense.
The lawyers are smiling.
it's play money...interdepartmental gov money......probably kept it out of some politicians pocket....
Shame western nations look down upon Vigilante justice, and do all they can to help and protect some of the world's most horrible ppl. U sentence ppl to death, just for it to get overturned by some nutjob liberal, or they allow the monster to live 20yrs until they get the sympathetic form of a Western Death Penalty with drugs. Probably why the west has so many repeat criminals, sex Offenders, killers, etc, yet put away ppl who don't pay Taxes for decades!😂😂 Enjoy that!
World's most expensive fart jokes in court.
@@CowSaysMooMoo said like someone who both never paid attention in school, is a mediocre person, aka loser, and rarely picked up a book to learn things. Sum total is cynical ordinary asshat, or even narcissitic.
What a nightmare that trial must have been for the jury.
Thank you for keeping me entertained during my graveyard shift at my neighborhood grocery store. I follow very few psychology oriented channels. I like your vibe, humor and personality. You are doing an awesome job. You are a wonderful human Dr. Grande.
Shoutout to my fellow overnight stocker 🙌🏾 This channel helps make it worth it haha 👍
Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser
Dr. Grande stars in ...'ATTACK OF THE KILLER B's !!!
So so agree!! I love the calmness of his voice and hearing about the psychological aspects.
I seriously wish Dr. Grande was my psychiatrist. ❤
Worked the graveyard shift for years, be safe. 👍
"Hello. This is Dr. Grande" puts me into a relaxed state at once. His voice and cadence are like ASMR for me. And the consistent format of his videos is comforting amidst all of life's chaos.
I concur. The predictable (yet never tedious!) format and his methodical approach are extremely gratifying to me.
I update my UA-cam sleep Playlist every day with his latest post. I put it on every evening. Almost cured my insomnia!
Omg i thought it was just me!
"Today's question is...."
"Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating about what _could_ be happening in a situation _like_ this."
It has the opposite effect on me. He has a flat affect and speaks in a paused, lifeless and methodical manner which is not fluent or natural. It comes across as calculated.
That picture of you sitting at your table eating the sponsors food and the dogs head poking over the tabletop is just plain precious 👌
Yes, glad to see your little dog got in the shot!
Don't forget the bunny salt and peppers!
You posted this comment right after I timestamped and posted how cute the dog and bunny salt and pepper shaker were. You saw it gowt likes and decided to copy it 👌. I can't imagine being this lame.
@@Thatveganlifestyle you’re joking right?! You don’t have the monopoly on commenting on cute bunny salt and pepper shakers
🙄 You're easily entertained... 🙄
I've been watching Dr Grande for years. Never will I tire of his dry humour, cacti and interesting content.
@Virginia of course he's humorous but not in a rambunctious way. The way he uses words is enthralling.🪄
@Virginia he’s hilarious! The subject matter is seldom funny but he always gets the deadpan jokes in
@@redbirddeerjazz I know it’s long past but search his video on Santa Claus-hilarious!!
The dry humour feeds the cacti.
He's getting funnier all the time..with the same excellent..dry, delivery..
He managed to manipulate everyone to have it exactly how he wanted. If he could do it to the entire justice system, imagine what this guy was capable of around regular people.
MH, YES! He could easily have been elected President of the United States. The description given of this killer sounded exactly like TFG, up to a point. MILLIONS of people have fallen for his bs, and continue to believe in him. I cannot understand it.
@@shadowlouise well maybe it is because the other alternative is a man that is senil, dement, jokes in the wrong occasion ( as he did now efter the mass shootings) and does inappropriate things ( like putting hands where they shouldn't be). To not talk about his son, a criminal that is under protection. I am so sorry for americans that have to chose between a crazy one and a dement one. But I still have an impression that the last one is damaging much more. Leftists are good in destroying things.
Shame on the judge for allowing all this BS to continue in that trial. Wasting absolutely everyone’s time.
I know it makes you want gag but you have to look at it like this - the judge is only handing him more rope to hang himself with. As the guy goes on with his antics, demanding things, farting/crapping in his pants, making dumb speeches, threatening people and stringing his trial out for weeks etc... , slowly the he exposes the the REAL him to the judge and jury (if there is one), and he turns any possible sympathy they might have had against him. As you can see, they threw the book at him with a stiff sentence. Had he played it differently and claimed a crime of passion or something similar and forgone all the melodramatics and weaseling with the money he might have gotten a lighter sentence.
@@TedBronson1918 I guess, if it means he will never have a badge again.
I get it.
Most consistent uploader on YT. Thanks for all your hard work, Doc. You RULE!!!!
Ricky Berwick: Hold my beer...
Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser
Anton Petrov posts something interesting every single day.
To me he’s only second to CinnamonToastKen ❤ New video every single day for I don’t even know how many years…
Also Cr1tikal.
I found this to be one of the most interesting, gruesome, educational, sad, entertaining, calmest voice cadence, I have heard yet… thank you, you also took me back to my days of having fun with words, any one remember the better, bitter, butter …? You are a scholar and gentleman and a phenomenal narrator!!
Lmfao classic
Not sure what is more adorable … the pup waiting for scraps or the bunny salt & pepper shakers! They need to make cameo appearances in the Saguaro collection!
Wow another lame copy cat commendter. Imagine reading someone's comment, seeing it gets likes and deciding to rewrote it exactly one hour later. Lame💩
I agree-personally, seeing a cute puppy makes me feel happy❤
The shakers are super cute!!
How in the living hell, can he poop in court and get away with that?
Right!??😅
Evidently so much s@*t was flying he thought he'd add to it.
haha@@pip393
Thanks for the upload. My mom was a narcissist. I did not come out unscathed.
Dr. Grande seems like a fantastic guy. His promotion was so wholesome. Also love his dry humor.
The photo of Dr.Grande eating his meal is the best part of this video.
Even his little dog is looking at the camera like "What do you want from me ?".
I love the picture of the little dog 🐶 in the background at 2:27 they look interested in Factor as well lol!
This sounds like the narcissist decompensating over the shock of being jilted. They seem to do everything to control their partners to prevent this insufferable rejection and mortal wound. He was at his lowest point when he defecated in the courtroom like he lost any human dignity he had left and turned into a complete infant. I feel very sorry for all who had to endure this man.
Worst of all, it happened in my home province!!
I disagree, his defication in court being something other than manipulation by the accused to appear insane.
manipulation is the nature of his life
Narcissists are stunted emotionally so regressing to some anal stage kinda makes sense. Narc’s are very anal retentive, or “anal” as they say. So I guess you could say he made some progress by letting himself go, so to speak.
He should come to the U.S. and run for President.
I grew up with a narcissistic mother, one brother, 3 Aunts all Narcs..then I guess
I needed to punish myself more and two boyfriends who were Narcs as well. As
a child I had never heard the word “Narcissist” so I just thought they were all
“B’s” or “A-holes.” But the day I found this word “Narcissist,” that summed up
all these UN-answered thoughts and questions for so long.......I picked myself
up, dusted off as much abuse as I could, still damaged emotionally, but still
believed in, What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger! I walked away from
them all, which is the good part, but I not only don’t trust people like I once did,
I also don’t trust myself as much as I should, now! Narcissists to me are hollow,
soulless evil monsters! They are sneaky, manipulative (especially if you are empathic)
they are masters at their games! You want to know what it’s like living in hell, live
with one of them!
Sadly we live in a society saturated in narcissism. Most tv ads are all about self-serving ME, ME, ME narcissism. Pay attention to ads. Narcis lack valid regard. It's all about them
If you meet 3 a holes in one day, your the a hole
I hear you! To finally understand that I am not unlovable I just am attracted to people unable to love was the moment I was free to be happy.
@@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Yes, and you know how an Empath is, we
just want to fix what is broken, and until we finally learn, we trust too much
bcz we are good people inside and it’s hard for us, at least it was for me,
to believe that there really are such monsters walking amongst us! I truly
believe we are having a Narcissist epidemic!
@@SatansSimgma Maybe, but it doesn’t apply when they are
in the family before you! I heard it like this, “If you run into an asshole in the
morning you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you’re the
asshole.” It’s more like an allegory or a parable.
Your wonderful, creative word opera at the closing was wonderful. Always appreciate the spin you put on these cases. Very different, yet entertaining and informative.
"Word opera"! Like that!
What's up with the obvious drop in pitch in Dr. Grande's voice at 12:44? That legitimately creeped me out 😆
I'm guessin' he "reeked" havoc in that courtroom too! Imagine! 😵😵💫😶🌫
Man and here I thought Darrell Brooks was acting wild in court, at least he didn't shit in the court room 😅
Every time I hear a story like this, I feel I will never be able to wrap my head around how people come to this point.
"Belching bowel movements and backfiring"
Your comic delivery is too funny lol
The fact he did this and Canada only gave him life with possibility of being out in 25 years is a crime in itself.
Only in Canada
Still better than what Karla Homolka got …although it doesn’t look like Paul Bernardo will get out any time soon!
Your cute dog is supervising your sponsor ad! How ADORABLE! 🥰🐾
😁Loved the ending. It’s amazing what people thing they can get away with when they have narcissistic tendencies. Thanks Dr. Grande
2:17 Lol! The dog is adorable. S/he would probably be a distraction, but I would love to see him/her in a video.
Great content, Dr. Grande😃
Even better was the glimpse of your very adorable dog and a set of bunny salt and pepper shakers to die for!
My first spouse, Narcissistic personality, body functions to no end for me, disgusting while in the kitchen, or at a meal. They (I've had a second Narcissistic spouse)are a scary bunch and difficult to live with I wish this on no one!
Janet Roberts It's absolutely gross what many of them do and I recall my late father's behaviour, not to mention things I did for him, which my equally troubled mother was meant to be doing!
I've also been reminded of a highly narcissistic man who used to call into a cafe I go to regularly. He stuck his fingers up his nose etc in front of me once, as well as other things I won't mention.
I don't see him very often nowadays, which is a huge relief and he's lucky I didn't get up and leave, or tell everyone who knows him! I'm aware that I was conditioned to accept abnormal behaviour as a child, but I'm working on changing it. 🥺
@@cyndigooch1162 yes people are awful. One fellow would get on the elevator and adjust his masculine equipment every time a female got into the elevator, mind you it was daytime and the horror of it was he had family who worked in the building too!. The women I worked with were appalled with his behavior.
@@janetroberts5140 maybe someone should write a short horror skit about such a man being found hanging in the elevator by his equipment. Oops did i say that outloud? I'm a man btw and was a child in the '70's when the last classic macho assholes were at their peak. Now we see the last gasp resurgence, w/ proud boys etc.. so pathetic.
What do you mean?
Farting does not a narcissist make.
I'm puzzled as to what Wills hoped to accomplish with all of his weird and offensive behavior in court. I'm sure it didn't endear him to the jury. Fascinating profile as always, Dr. Grande.
What does any narcissist hope to accomplish? Lol
Dr Grande you are amazing. Love all the descriptive adjectives with words beginning with the letter B.
perhaps to make himself appear mentally ill.
Probably knew he wouldn’t win so wanted to inflict as much suffering as possible on everyone else in the process
Some kind of insanity defense maybe? Even though he was clearly faking it
I love every video you do! You are intelligent, kind, entertaining and highly educated.. I'm so happy you exist 😊
Love your "Blockbuster" wrap up summary at the end, especially your choice of "Backfire" for the perp's courtroom flatulence. You are a riot.
Better to be a narcissist than to be with one. They are charming and funny and popular until they aren't, turning cold against mates while gaslighting the response. They know what they are doing and you don't, until you do. Parents can be worse, not even hiding their deception from you while charming the pants off strangers. Everyone but you.
still clearly NOT better to be one, since not being one is being a normal pro-social loving person capable of doing things like teaching kids, or raising a child. Your comment's start sounds like unconscious defeatism and victim-think.
@@18_rabbit OK well you get an F for rational thinking. NOT being a narcissist doesn't say anything about you. Nothing.
So you would rather be in a long-term relationship with a narcissist or be raised by one, or two than be one? They don't suffer or feel bad about their actions or judge themselves to be morally bankrupt.
Your issues are your own, not mine and your lack of empathy is disturbing. How is imagining what it might be like to be someone else defeatism or victim-think?
Your comment makes me think of Steve Jobs and how allegedly he let Bono think it was really nice that he named a computer program after his daughter, meanwhile telling his daughter that he didn't name it after her because he doesn't value her basically.
@@michelleobrien6996 Try using fewer pronouns. Who is he and his?
@@BariumCobaltNitrog3n all the pronouns refer to Steve Jobs. The story I heard (not necessarily true, but the story) is that he liked for others to think he was a great dad when in fact he was deliberately horrible to his only child.
Imagine being stuck on that jury for that long :O
Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser
It should be considered torture to be there that long and with someone so unhinged
Sounds unbearable😶
Dr. Grande, expert punster, alliterator, UA-camr, legal analyst, and even psychologist. :0) Another great job.
A video from Dr Grande earlier in the day❤️ I totally love the end of your videos!! I try to make up my own alliterations to match your stories😂 And also love your analysis of these different topics. Your knowledge and critical thinking skills are refreshing and entertaining to watch!! We adore you!!!!
Yes! Critical thinking! So rare!
2:20 I see you have a little friend to your left peeking over the table 🐶😎👍🏻
Anytime Dr G makes Factor that adorable puppy is always there! He knows what smells good!
Happy St Patrick’s Day 🍀. What a bizarre story. This man is clearly disturbed. You did a great job of breaking it down. What I still can’t figure out is how he got a wife and mistress 🤯
Net worth well over 1 million…
Did you see that mistress? Ugh.
Hard to believe such a nice gentleman would want to be a police officer and have exercise power over others.
Highly unusual 🤪
Cute kitty 🥰
Beannachtaí na Féile Pádraig ort! ☘️
Thanks!
Dr. Grande, I first started watching your videos in preparation of a complaint I am going to file against my last (psycho)therapist. Now, I'm hooked and sometimes have your videos on auto-play to catch your humor as well as the topic. Keep up the great work!
Your " last " Psychotherapist "!
Your alliteration was absolutely amazing!
Gross. I wonder if he acted gross for purposes of his defense. I’d hate to think he acted like this while married and dating someone else and they wanted to stay with him.
The reality is, anyone who stays with a narcissist for the long term Also has a mental health issue or 2 of their own.
@@frakismaximus3052 as if you know anything
So you think it's mentally normal for someone to stay around someone like that? Even if the narcissist manipulates his victim, wouldn't that indicate some sort of vulnerability such as low self esteem in the victim?
A juror sitting 145 + 85 days? I would vote to convict just to get my life back?
Dr Grande never disappoints!
@2:25 I got a good chuckle noticing Dr. Grande’s dog photobombing the photo of him showing off the promo food! 😂
TWO DR GRANDE VIDEOS? BLESSED
"Cops don't become psychopaths, psychopaths become cops"
Whose quote is that?
I love these alliterative poems! The last two words, though.. how about "blessedly banished" to replace "finally banished." 😂
OMG!! Your dog is absolutely gorgeous 🐶❤....... p.s. your ending summary/ poem was perfection 😂I loved it
02:20 the dog and the bunny salt and pepper shakers😂😂😂😂 I can't. So cute
Every time I look forward to this ad for some reason
Vegan here✌️👍🏻
Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser
Can’t imagine the time and research you put into making these video. To crank out quality content daily is some dedication. Really enjoy the videos and insight. This channel continues to grow. Thanks for the knowledge you share and the interesting crime stories.
So that's why I've been so gassy. I'm a narcissist.
I'm a malignant one
Dr. Grande can add the king of alliteration to his list of many talents. Will he entertain adding rhyming couplets to his repertoire? This case was another one wonderfully recounted and analyzed by our Dr. Grande. I was astonished hearing about this bizarre man and it speaks volumes that he icked out Bernardo and Williams!! 🇨🇦
🤣🤣Thanks Dr. Grande for the poetic poem at the end. Your dark humor never ceases to amaze me. 😂👏🏾😊
I love your flawless transitions to your ads, I never fast forward! Great work:D
I never skip Dr G's ads and love to see Bella and the bunny cruet set
Good evening Dr Grande,
Love your dry sense of humor.
Have a great Saturday.
Dr. Grande … there is no substitute for your poker faced comedic delivery. I am just in a gas over it! Lol Thank you and happy St. Patrick’s day ☘ if you celebrate. 🤔❤🇺🇸☘
Aw, now, you hope we "found [your] analysis of this topic to be informative" AND also entertaining, Doc. Your summation featuring letter b words hit the mark. Thank you!
One wonders how a personality like this can pass the psychological standards of any police or military exams. Just
shows how deceptive people can really be. Unfortunately, it also shows psychologists, psychotherapists really "don't"
have the ability to evaluate the human mind. Only make speculation AFTER the obvious is brought forth! Most of their
"psychoanalysis" are intellectual, textbook theorems unless ppl have an overt condition in which untrained ppl even know!
As always, amazing alliteration and acute analysis.
Howdy Dr. Grande. I have a little friend as well, a now six year old Bishon girl called Noodles. My fur baby, as all my kids are now in their forties and the grandkids are all older teens. My little girl is my playmate, constant companion. I’ve had dogs my entire life, but since being incapacitated seven years ago, Noodles has been a godsend, totally different personality from any other dog I’ve ever had.
"He was incarcerated in the same prison as Paul Bernando and Russell Williams, they were in the same unit" LOL Canada is so much smaller than people imagine.
I know both Bernardo’s lawyer and his lawyer. Both of these cases ruined the careers of the lawyers involved. Both lawyers were given instructions which they followed on the advice of the law society practice advisory . However, when there was public outcry the law society went after both lawyers who never recovered professionally.
This is gold. Your delivery is superb, Dr G!!
Crazy! Truth is stranger than fiction, you can’t make this stuff up.😮
Factor RULES!!! Not kidding. I was thrilled by it. I love this channel, love the criminal analysis. Great sponsor
"Back firing" - laughed out loud on that one. In the military, you're trained with a rocket launcher in basic training. Part of the safety training includes a pre-launch announcement of "back blast area, clear" shouted for everyone to realize a rocket was about to be launched. That was my thought after you said "back firing" at the end. Good times...
Back firing 😅
I misread this at a glance and was confused… I thought it said “police officer with flatulence wreaks havoc on the court”
Aw Dr it looks like you have a friendly little puppy!! Cute little dog
Also you can still respect cops and call out the shady abusive behavior. And their inability to take responsibility for their actions/behavior. Being a blind sycophant who worships them while not recognizing any issues is part of the problem. And it enables the bad ones.
I always encourage people to flatuate. However you should never force it.
Brilliantly beautifully brazenly bold banter on a billboard ❤😊
I find it quite disconcerting that people with these kinds of personality traits are able to become police officers and the like, judges, district attorneys, etc. Police Officers are necessarily given a large quantity of power over the civilian population. From carrying an assortment of firearms, pepper spray, stun guns, tasers, handcuffs, etc. The nature of their work puts them in a position of extreme power over all others and it’s extremely important that police academies siphon out individuals who have these pathologies.
Brilliant as always Dr.Grande 👌
Thank you very much!
Dr Todd, I was very impressed with your alliteration skills in your conclusion. It never fails that you make your analysis interesting in spite of your dispassionate delivery, and you always make me smile with your wit. I appreciate your unique content.
Damn, makes Darrell Brooks look civil and respectful by comparison.
I notice people with narcissistic personalities who find themselves in trouble with the law are given more help than anybody else would receive. Most judges will go out of their way to give them what they want so the public don't accuse the judge of an unfair trial. Now, that is bogus. The judges think this way because they are being manipulated from the narcissist defendant. Why can't the judges stop falling for that trick and just treat them according to the law without special treatment, because in the end this is what is happening the narcissistic criminal is playing the judge and he or she are falling right into it. Furthermore, that sentence was the best the judge could give because he should have gotten a life sentence without parole. 😮
Exactly - the phrase “The law is an ass” is more and more accurate each day!
Really. A video this AM? How delightful Dr Grande. This is doing better than a good today.
The Alliteration Wizard strikes again.
Excellent word play at the end!
The factor add and smile. I can’t take it seriously 🤣 hahah
Keep up the fantastic content Dr.Grande, adverts are everywhere anyway doesn't change the quality and enjoyment of the videos ❤
I love how you analyze things down to the point, you tell the story, give analysis of each side, and give your thoughts with some humor in as well. I love your channel ❤️ (backfired) 🤣🤣🤣
Dr Grande is the best . Watching from Australia ❤
Didn't know how you were going to get the flatulence in there .. I'm 💀 😆 🤣 😂
Thanks Dr. Grande! 😄 🤣 😂 i just can't 😄 🤣
Your analysis was very unique and exact
Gee, can't believe Linda didn't wanna stick with all that.
He spent 25 years on the force and managed to become a low level traffic officer.
Would you please give us your thoughts on police responding to mental health calls? And your take on handcuffing mentality disturbed people who aren’t being violent? I would really love your POV as someone who deals with this population. Thank you.
My wife started doing factor meals because they had keto meals, but I like them a lot (I’m not keto). They put good flavors together too.
My mother is narcissistic..she’s 87 and I’ve had it with her abuse on me…I’m giving every ounce she gave me right back at her..I call myself her lesson as I continue to expose the mirror she needs to see herself in. Karma gets served best by those who had to learn the recipe in the first place.
Having read your post Jung would say she resides in You. and by your post I'd agree. Now You can claim that's by example, BUT if you're, "Really giving it back to her" Then how can you claim the right to act as horrible as she did to you and be any different than her? You're one in the same see? Exacting Revenge is always an unhealthy place to be see? let go! Forgive and be better and bigger than her and the situation. She still owns you right now because You let her.
My mouth dropped listening to this video😮.Dr Grande it's epic how you can keep a straight face doing these videos.
Always a pleasure watching
I look forward to each one of your videos, they are not only informative but they are entertaining and always, a little funny.
I love your wit Dr. Grande! Thank you for your channel!
Richard Wills was one of the worst inmates I had ever dealt with... A constant struggle mentally every day... from him faking his mental illness by not washing or bathing for about 6 months.. dirty dirty human being.. after being sentenced, we wouldn't even let him back in our jail.. straight to the penitentiary... hope he never gets out!!
Your conclusion had me laughing! Never expected to be laughing at the end of this video!
Oddly, i found your description of all this was rather humorous. I usually don’t laugh out loud during your videos- but Richard was super bizarre. Thanks for the chuckle.
Oh my, love your puppy and the bunny salt and pepper shakers! The meals and smoothies look good too. Your voice is very calming even telling this strange and disgusting tale.