Police Officer with Narcissistic Personality Wreaks Havoc in Court | Richard Wills Case Analysis

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  • @CowToes
    @CowToes Рік тому +1880

    As a child raised by narcissists, I wouldn't wish a narcissist on anyone. No one comes out of that unscathed.

    • @Kat-tr2ig
      @Kat-tr2ig Рік тому +120

      I have a covert narcissist (vulnerable narcissist) mom, I feel your pain.

    • @CowToes
      @CowToes Рік тому +46

      ​@@Kat-tr2ig much love, I wish you well.

    • @haleytruslow7200
      @haleytruslow7200 Рік тому +37

      Same :(

    • @deedrathelibra
      @deedrathelibra Рік тому +35

      Same

    • @mariobroth1546
      @mariobroth1546 Рік тому +57

      Both of them ? Jeeze😢. Can't imagine how that even went. I'm just away from my youngest sons Father, 3 years. But It's still around us like a sickness.

  • @Hautenani
    @Hautenani Рік тому +1120

    What pisses me off is that everyone plays along with these people and gives all these resources and chances to them 😡

    • @antonydrossos5719
      @antonydrossos5719 Рік тому +77

      People in general want to feel accepted, and narcissists figure out how to exploit that need.

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st Рік тому +58

      @@antonydrossos5719 Agreed. Plus, once someone puts in a dent in their facade, they often smear that person.

    • @dianabodemer1889
      @dianabodemer1889 Рік тому +23

      Cut off what they think is " free" funds they'll straiten up. Make laws, that we already have. Male/ female alike. END AFFIRMATIVE ACTION. IF YOU CANNOT EARN IT, YOU CANNOT HAVE IT.

    • @jturtle5318
      @jturtle5318 Рік тому +46

      ​@Diana Bodemer I wasn't aware that affirmative action covered personality disorders.

    • @earth0128
      @earth0128 Рік тому +16

      They have such a facade that it's a total deception

  • @JacobC479
    @JacobC479 9 місяців тому +170

    It’s scary how many police officers are narcissists. Power and authority is the last thing they need.

    • @mariapilarme
      @mariapilarme 9 місяців тому +2

      Yes

    • @beatricefaria-clendinning8943
      @beatricefaria-clendinning8943 9 місяців тому +14

      Narcissists, are drawn to power type jobs…🇨🇦

    • @annemurphy8074
      @annemurphy8074 9 місяців тому +14

      Malignant narcissists/ sociopaths and psychopaths often seek positions of power and too many people don't know how to spot them.

    • @ShraddaNiche
      @ShraddaNiche 9 місяців тому +4

      Have you seen the standards for officers. HS diploma . This is a perfect scenario to be a gun wielding power and intimidation just by going to CAMP. BIG problems in US anyway.

    • @truthbetold2354
      @truthbetold2354 9 місяців тому

      Doesn't it make perfect sense that sociopaths and narcissist are drawn to certain job position they feel they are meant to be in ? Just like pedophiles will want to work with children..

  • @Jen-cc9xk
    @Jen-cc9xk Рік тому +70

    What a nightmare that trial must have been for the jury.

  • @aprilcanipe2614
    @aprilcanipe2614 Рік тому +579

    That picture of you sitting at your table eating the sponsors food and the dogs head poking over the tabletop is just plain precious 👌

    • @sallywillis610
      @sallywillis610 Рік тому

      Yes, glad to see your little dog got in the shot!

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Рік тому +54

      Don't forget the bunny salt and peppers!

    • @Thatveganlifestyle
      @Thatveganlifestyle Рік тому +14

      You posted this comment right after I timestamped and posted how cute the dog and bunny salt and pepper shaker were. You saw it gowt likes and decided to copy it 👌. I can't imagine being this lame.

    • @redbirddeerjazz
      @redbirddeerjazz Рік тому +47

      @@Thatveganlifestyle you’re joking right?! You don’t have the monopoly on commenting on cute bunny salt and pepper shakers

    • @Heywood.Jablome
      @Heywood.Jablome Рік тому +10

      🙄 You're easily entertained... 🙄

  • @danparish1344
    @danparish1344 Рік тому +519

    It’s so unfair that he can waste public money like this. 1.5 million is more than a lifetime of savings for most people and that’s just for his defense.

    • @mangomike
      @mangomike Рік тому +16

      The lawyers are smiling.

    • @CowSaysMooMoo
      @CowSaysMooMoo Рік тому +11

      it's play money...interdepartmental gov money......probably kept it out of some politicians pocket....

    • @tfs203
      @tfs203 Рік тому

      Shame western nations look down upon Vigilante justice, and do all they can to help and protect some of the world's most horrible ppl. U sentence ppl to death, just for it to get overturned by some nutjob liberal, or they allow the monster to live 20yrs until they get the sympathetic form of a Western Death Penalty with drugs. Probably why the west has so many repeat criminals, sex Offenders, killers, etc, yet put away ppl who don't pay Taxes for decades!😂😂 Enjoy that!

    • @loonie5468
      @loonie5468 Рік тому +5

      World's most expensive fart jokes in court.

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit Рік тому

      @@CowSaysMooMoo said like someone who both never paid attention in school, is a mediocre person, aka loser, and rarely picked up a book to learn things. Sum total is cynical ordinary asshat, or even narcissitic.

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    @annika_panicka Рік тому +120

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      @redbirddeerjazz Рік тому +11

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    • @benedicterosensverd5415
      @benedicterosensverd5415 Рік тому +4

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    • @jacquelinefernandez2195
      @jacquelinefernandez2195 Рік тому +2

      Omg i thought it was just me!

    • @aethrya
      @aethrya 11 місяців тому +1

      "Today's question is...."
      "Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating about what _could_ be happening in a situation _like_ this."

    • @user-zy3zd3sx2d
      @user-zy3zd3sx2d 10 місяців тому

      It has the opposite effect on me. He has a flat affect and speaks in a paused, lifeless and methodical manner which is not fluent or natural. It comes across as calculated.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Рік тому +249

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      @mtracy244 Рік тому +5

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    • @redbirddeerjazz
      @redbirddeerjazz Рік тому +11

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    • @jannywanny2201
      @jannywanny2201 Рік тому +3

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    • @LathropLdST
      @LathropLdST 10 місяців тому +7

      The dry humour feeds the cacti.

    • @susanhartline7539
      @susanhartline7539 9 місяців тому +1

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  • @brad9284
    @brad9284 Рік тому +571

    Thank you for keeping me entertained during my graveyard shift at my neighborhood grocery store. I follow very few psychology oriented channels. I like your vibe, humor and personality. You are doing an awesome job. You are a wonderful human Dr. Grande.

    • @Christanstonir
      @Christanstonir Рік тому +45

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    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Рік тому

      Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser

    • @petermccormack3786
      @petermccormack3786 Рік тому +19

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    • @catherinecarmichael3180
      @catherinecarmichael3180 Рік тому +19

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    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 Рік тому +21

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  • @MartineH1
    @MartineH1 Рік тому +131

    He managed to manipulate everyone to have it exactly how he wanted. If he could do it to the entire justice system, imagine what this guy was capable of around regular people.

    • @shadowlouise
      @shadowlouise Рік тому +5

      MH, YES! He could easily have been elected President of the United States. The description given of this killer sounded exactly like TFG, up to a point. MILLIONS of people have fallen for his bs, and continue to believe in him. I cannot understand it.

    • @MartineH1
      @MartineH1 Рік тому +1

      @@shadowlouise well maybe it is because the other alternative is a man that is senil, dement, jokes in the wrong occasion ( as he did now efter the mass shootings) and does inappropriate things ( like putting hands where they shouldn't be). To not talk about his son, a criminal that is under protection. I am so sorry for americans that have to chose between a crazy one and a dement one. But I still have an impression that the last one is damaging much more. Leftists are good in destroying things.

  • @dianacryer
    @dianacryer Рік тому +17

    Shame on the judge for allowing all this BS to continue in that trial. Wasting absolutely everyone’s time.

    • @TedBronson1918
      @TedBronson1918 9 місяців тому

      I know it makes you want gag but you have to look at it like this - the judge is only handing him more rope to hang himself with. As the guy goes on with his antics, demanding things, farting/crapping in his pants, making dumb speeches, threatening people and stringing his trial out for weeks etc... , slowly the he exposes the the REAL him to the judge and jury (if there is one), and he turns any possible sympathy they might have had against him. As you can see, they threw the book at him with a stiff sentence. Had he played it differently and claimed a crime of passion or something similar and forgone all the melodramatics and weaseling with the money he might have gotten a lighter sentence.

    • @dianacryer
      @dianacryer 9 місяців тому

      @@TedBronson1918 I guess, if it means he will never have a badge again.
      I get it.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette Рік тому +75

    Thanks for the upload. My mom was a narcissist. I did not come out unscathed.

  • @daniel_matthew0
    @daniel_matthew0 Рік тому +429

    2nd comment. Admittedly, Dr. Grande, I am a vulnerable narcissist, from a long line of narcissists. This conclusion was drawn from viewing the many videos from your catalogue, not just the educational themed videos but also those about true crime. Over the course of my lifetime, I have pondered what in essence was the main driver behind my behaviors, shortcomings, and abhorrent actions. Years of self sought therapy, diagnosis by respected psychiatrists, and working in tandem with psychologists never brought this to light. Either they were afraid to challenge me or I had unwittingly painted myself as the perpetual victim which they bought into. In conclusion, while I have now attained some insight into this one problem, I have not been able to make any substantial changes beyond trying to suppress my personality and trying to compartmentalize my life. I'm not trying to fool anyone, I'm just trying to act like a good person. When I watch some of your case files I see many parallels and marvel I have not done as much damage to others and society as seen with those. Thank you for listening Dr. Grande.

    • @kellymay8208
      @kellymay8208 Рік тому +143

      That you have gained insight about yourself is a very great achievement.

    • @OH_MY_DOGGG
      @OH_MY_DOGGG Рік тому +47

      Just the word vulnerable narcissist opened a lot of doors for me. I just thought of narcissism like Gaston, the character in beauty in the beast.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Рік тому +82

      DMB - Fighting your own nature is the hardest fight of all! If you are gaining insight and some control you are doing an amazing job! 🎖🏆🏅

    • @eikoqdupree101
      @eikoqdupree101 Рік тому +42

      U are brave and caring .u are making progress one day at a time

    • @daniel_matthew0
      @daniel_matthew0 Рік тому +68

      Thanks for the kind words all. It's very much appreciated. But, suppressing who I am at my core, unfortunately, has come with terrible consequences. I've completely lost my way. As I said, coming from a line of narcissists, and learning by their examples and believing the world existed in a certain light, I no longer know who I am or what I am. My compass was my ego. I have never known how to be any other way, I really don't know what it is to be a good person, I only have a perception of what it is to be a good person. When I talk about parallels, with some very disturbing people covered by Dr. Grande, there is sometimes a theme where individuals are exposed as actors who are empty vessels that portray what they think society would view as normal. I feel like that. And, although I have done good things in life, even great things, accomplished some great things in my life, it's those successes, and also failures, that were propelled by a massive ego that was also toxic, and ultimately led to my downfall and my current position in life. Now, I am left unsure what to do if I am no longer willing to be that person? Don't know how to recover and go forward without that person. The consensus among professionals is that there is no fix for this personality disorder. This leaves me feeling helpless and trapped. As it stands now, I've chosen to isolate myself from people, friends, family, any situation that I feel will trigger the emergence of my true personality. It's a difficult way to exist. Please comment

  • @jonaswhite5842
    @jonaswhite5842 Рік тому +237

    Most consistent uploader on YT. Thanks for all your hard work, Doc. You RULE!!!!

    • @tothesky8799
      @tothesky8799 Рік тому +2

      Ricky Berwick: Hold my beer...

    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Рік тому

      Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser

    • @philochristos
      @philochristos Рік тому +2

      Anton Petrov posts something interesting every single day.

    • @rosemadder5547
      @rosemadder5547 Рік тому +1

      To me he’s only second to CinnamonToastKen ❤ New video every single day for I don’t even know how many years…

    • @christiangasior4244
      @christiangasior4244 Рік тому +1

      Also Cr1tikal.

  • @kimdawcatgirl
    @kimdawcatgirl Рік тому +23

    The fact he did this and Canada only gave him life with possibility of being out in 25 years is a crime in itself.

    • @katerinakaye2228
      @katerinakaye2228 Рік тому +6

      Only in Canada

    • @vandeolkon
      @vandeolkon Рік тому +3

      Still better than what Karla Homolka got …although it doesn’t look like Paul Bernardo will get out any time soon!

  • @duskripper6650
    @duskripper6650 Рік тому +12

    Man and here I thought Darrell Brooks was acting wild in court, at least he didn't shit in the court room 😅

  • @Mandola-Jane
    @Mandola-Jane Рік тому +43

    Not sure what is more adorable … the pup waiting for scraps or the bunny salt & pepper shakers! They need to make cameo appearances in the Saguaro collection!

    • @Thatveganlifestyle
      @Thatveganlifestyle Рік тому

      Wow another lame copy cat commendter. Imagine reading someone's comment, seeing it gets likes and deciding to rewrote it exactly one hour later. Lame💩

    • @sylviekins
      @sylviekins Рік тому +3

      I agree-personally, seeing a cute puppy makes me feel happy❤

    • @StoneColdFox17
      @StoneColdFox17 Рік тому +2

      The shakers are super cute!!

  • @psalmsreader7997
    @psalmsreader7997 Рік тому +96

    This sounds like the narcissist decompensating over the shock of being jilted. They seem to do everything to control their partners to prevent this insufferable rejection and mortal wound. He was at his lowest point when he defecated in the courtroom like he lost any human dignity he had left and turned into a complete infant. I feel very sorry for all who had to endure this man.
    Worst of all, it happened in my home province!!

    • @kimsherlock8969
      @kimsherlock8969 Рік тому +6

      I disagree, his defication in court being something other than manipulation by the accused to appear insane.
      manipulation is the nature of his life

    • @christiangasior4244
      @christiangasior4244 Рік тому +9

      Narcissists are stunted emotionally so regressing to some anal stage kinda makes sense. Narc’s are very anal retentive, or “anal” as they say. So I guess you could say he made some progress by letting himself go, so to speak.

    • @bellesterbeatty3571
      @bellesterbeatty3571 9 днів тому

      He should come to the U.S. and run for President.

  • @AgueroNain
    @AgueroNain Рік тому +38

    I found this to be one of the most interesting, gruesome, educational, sad, entertaining, calmest voice cadence, I have heard yet… thank you, you also took me back to my days of having fun with words, any one remember the better, bitter, butter …? You are a scholar and gentleman and a phenomenal narrator!!

  • @dougstubbs9637
    @dougstubbs9637 Рік тому +15

    Howdy Dr. Grande. I have a little friend as well, a now six year old Bishon girl called Noodles. My fur baby, as all my kids are now in their forties and the grandkids are all older teens. My little girl is my playmate, constant companion. I’ve had dogs my entire life, but since being incapacitated seven years ago, Noodles has been a godsend, totally different personality from any other dog I’ve ever had.

  • @jeffmarlatt6538
    @jeffmarlatt6538 Рік тому +12

    The photo of Dr.Grande eating his meal is the best part of this video.
    Even his little dog is looking at the camera like "What do you want from me ?".

  • @Thatveganlifestyle
    @Thatveganlifestyle Рік тому +17

    02:20 the dog and the bunny salt and pepper shakers😂😂😂😂 I can't. So cute

    • @palletwizard
      @palletwizard Рік тому +4

      Every time I look forward to this ad for some reason

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 Рік тому +1

      Vegan here✌️👍🏻

    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Рік тому

      Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser

  • @Him_He_Me
    @Him_He_Me Рік тому +13

    How in the living hell, can he poop in court and get away with that?

    • @joywimer4281
      @joywimer4281 Рік тому +4

      Right!??😅

    • @pip393
      @pip393 10 місяців тому +1

      Evidently so much s@*t was flying he thought he'd add to it.

    • @Him_He_Me
      @Him_He_Me 10 місяців тому +1

      haha@@pip393

  • @jonathanwhitfield2864
    @jonathanwhitfield2864 Рік тому +13

    Dr. Grande seems like a fantastic guy. His promotion was so wholesome. Also love his dry humor.

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 Рік тому +86

    I'm puzzled as to what Wills hoped to accomplish with all of his weird and offensive behavior in court. I'm sure it didn't endear him to the jury. Fascinating profile as always, Dr. Grande.

    • @frakismaximus3052
      @frakismaximus3052 Рік тому +21

      What does any narcissist hope to accomplish? Lol

    • @paulfasse8032
      @paulfasse8032 Рік тому +7

      Dr Grande you are amazing. Love all the descriptive adjectives with words beginning with the letter B.

    • @sharonmalette81
      @sharonmalette81 Рік тому

      perhaps to make himself appear mentally ill.

    • @esteemedmortal5917
      @esteemedmortal5917 Рік тому +28

      Probably knew he wouldn’t win so wanted to inflict as much suffering as possible on everyone else in the process

    • @MusicGamesEverything
      @MusicGamesEverything Рік тому +16

      Some kind of insanity defense maybe? Even though he was clearly faking it

  • @Katkiwi25
    @Katkiwi25 Рік тому +62

    Imagine being stuck on that jury for that long :O

    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Рік тому

      Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser

    • @MusicGamesEverything
      @MusicGamesEverything Рік тому +15

      It should be considered torture to be there that long and with someone so unhinged

    • @darciparfitt5868
      @darciparfitt5868 Рік тому +2

      Sounds unbearable😶

  • @texasrefugee7888
    @texasrefugee7888 9 місяців тому +31

    "Cops don't become psychopaths, psychopaths become cops"

  • @janetroberts5140
    @janetroberts5140 Рік тому +48

    My first spouse, Narcissistic personality, body functions to no end for me, disgusting while in the kitchen, or at a meal. They (I've had a second Narcissistic spouse)are a scary bunch and difficult to live with I wish this on no one!

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 Рік тому +8

      Janet Roberts It's absolutely gross what many of them do and I recall my late father's behaviour, not to mention things I did for him, which my equally troubled mother was meant to be doing!
      I've also been reminded of a highly narcissistic man who used to call into a cafe I go to regularly. He stuck his fingers up his nose etc in front of me once, as well as other things I won't mention.
      I don't see him very often nowadays, which is a huge relief and he's lucky I didn't get up and leave, or tell everyone who knows him! I'm aware that I was conditioned to accept abnormal behaviour as a child, but I'm working on changing it. 🥺

    • @janetroberts5140
      @janetroberts5140 Рік тому +6

      @@cyndigooch1162 yes people are awful. One fellow would get on the elevator and adjust his masculine equipment every time a female got into the elevator, mind you it was daytime and the horror of it was he had family who worked in the building too!. The women I worked with were appalled with his behavior.

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit Рік тому

      @@janetroberts5140 maybe someone should write a short horror skit about such a man being found hanging in the elevator by his equipment. Oops did i say that outloud? I'm a man btw and was a child in the '70's when the last classic macho assholes were at their peak. Now we see the last gasp resurgence, w/ proud boys etc.. so pathetic.

    • @hiddenhand6973
      @hiddenhand6973 Рік тому

      What do you mean?

    • @pip393
      @pip393 10 місяців тому +4

      Farting does not a narcissist make.

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 Рік тому +128

    Happy St Patrick’s Day 🍀. What a bizarre story. This man is clearly disturbed. You did a great job of breaking it down. What I still can’t figure out is how he got a wife and mistress 🤯

    • @jimbob9086
      @jimbob9086 Рік тому +12

      Net worth well over 1 million…

    • @MasterMalrubius
      @MasterMalrubius Рік тому +11

      Did you see that mistress? Ugh.

    • @albeit1
      @albeit1 Рік тому +16

      Hard to believe such a nice gentleman would want to be a police officer and have exercise power over others.
      Highly unusual 🤪

    • @elizabethhamm5320
      @elizabethhamm5320 Рік тому +3

      Cute kitty 🥰

    • @dougaldouglas8842
      @dougaldouglas8842 Рік тому +7

      Bad as one another. Came across a narcist the other day, and when I refused to allow him to show off in stroking my dog, the mouth on him, and his other half told him to be quite, whilst he shouted expletives. Told him to go and wash his mouth out. The ego of some bag heads.

  • @mktwatcher
    @mktwatcher Рік тому +31

    Love your "Blockbuster" wrap up summary at the end, especially your choice of "Backfire" for the perp's courtroom flatulence. You are a riot.

  • @code-52
    @code-52 Рік тому +8

    Every time I hear a story like this, I feel I will never be able to wrap my head around how people come to this point.

  • @robinmorrow9023
    @robinmorrow9023 Рік тому +27

    I grew up with a narcissistic mother, one brother, 3 Aunts all Narcs..then I guess
    I needed to punish myself more and two boyfriends who were Narcs as well. As
    a child I had never heard the word “Narcissist” so I just thought they were all
    “B’s” or “A-holes.” But the day I found this word “Narcissist,” that summed up
    all these UN-answered thoughts and questions for so long.......I picked myself
    up, dusted off as much abuse as I could, still damaged emotionally, but still
    believed in, What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger! I walked away from
    them all, which is the good part, but I not only don’t trust people like I once did,
    I also don’t trust myself as much as I should, now! Narcissists to me are hollow,
    soulless evil monsters! They are sneaky, manipulative (especially if you are empathic)
    they are masters at their games! You want to know what it’s like living in hell, live
    with one of them!

    • @user-zy3zd3sx2d
      @user-zy3zd3sx2d 10 місяців тому +1

      Sadly we live in a society saturated in narcissism. Most tv ads are all about self-serving ME, ME, ME narcissism. Pay attention to ads. Narcis lack valid regard. It's all about them

    • @SatansSimgma
      @SatansSimgma 9 місяців тому

      If you meet 3 a holes in one day, your the a hole

    • @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594
      @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 9 місяців тому

      I hear you! To finally understand that I am not unlovable I just am attracted to people unable to love was the moment I was free to be happy.

    • @robinmorrow9023
      @robinmorrow9023 9 місяців тому

      @@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Yes, and you know how an Empath is, we
      just want to fix what is broken, and until we finally learn, we trust too much
      bcz we are good people inside and it’s hard for us, at least it was for me,
      to believe that there really are such monsters walking amongst us! I truly
      believe we are having a Narcissist epidemic!

    • @robinmorrow9023
      @robinmorrow9023 9 місяців тому +1

      @@SatansSimgma Maybe, but it doesn’t apply when they are
      in the family before you! I heard it like this, “If you run into an asshole in the
      morning you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you’re the
      asshole.” It’s more like an allegory or a parable.

  • @queenreg7
    @queenreg7 Рік тому +11

    Gross. I wonder if he acted gross for purposes of his defense. I’d hate to think he acted like this while married and dating someone else and they wanted to stay with him.

    • @frakismaximus3052
      @frakismaximus3052 Рік тому +4

      The reality is, anyone who stays with a narcissist for the long term Also has a mental health issue or 2 of their own.

    • @joywimer4281
      @joywimer4281 Рік тому

      ​@@frakismaximus3052 as if you know anything

    • @conradical5941
      @conradical5941 Рік тому

      So you think it's mentally normal for someone to stay around someone like that? Even if the narcissist manipulates his victim, wouldn't that indicate some sort of vulnerability such as low self esteem in the victim?

  • @farmcat3198
    @farmcat3198 Рік тому +5

    So that's why I've been so gassy. I'm a narcissist.

  • @Liz-wn9bp
    @Liz-wn9bp Рік тому +4

    "Belching bowel movements and backfiring"
    Your comic delivery is too funny lol

  • @megalopolis2015
    @megalopolis2015 Рік тому +31

    Dr. Grande, expert punster, alliterator, UA-camr, legal analyst, and even psychologist. :0) Another great job.

  • @hollyw9566
    @hollyw9566 Рік тому +13

    I'm guessin' he "reeked" havoc in that courtroom too! Imagine! 😵😵‍💫😶‍🌫

  • @annettefeka4587
    @annettefeka4587 Рік тому +52

    TWO DR GRANDE VIDEOS? BLESSED

  • @BariumCobaltNitrog3n
    @BariumCobaltNitrog3n Рік тому +52

    Better to be a narcissist than to be with one. They are charming and funny and popular until they aren't, turning cold against mates while gaslighting the response. They know what they are doing and you don't, until you do. Parents can be worse, not even hiding their deception from you while charming the pants off strangers. Everyone but you.

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit Рік тому +2

      still clearly NOT better to be one, since not being one is being a normal pro-social loving person capable of doing things like teaching kids, or raising a child. Your comment's start sounds like unconscious defeatism and victim-think.

    • @BariumCobaltNitrog3n
      @BariumCobaltNitrog3n Рік тому +4

      @@18_rabbit OK well you get an F for rational thinking. NOT being a narcissist doesn't say anything about you. Nothing.
      So you would rather be in a long-term relationship with a narcissist or be raised by one, or two than be one? They don't suffer or feel bad about their actions or judge themselves to be morally bankrupt.
      Your issues are your own, not mine and your lack of empathy is disturbing. How is imagining what it might be like to be someone else defeatism or victim-think?

    • @michelleobrien6996
      @michelleobrien6996 Рік тому +3

      Your comment makes me think of Steve Jobs and how allegedly he let Bono think it was really nice that he named a computer program after his daughter, meanwhile telling his daughter that he didn't name it after her because he doesn't value her basically.

    • @BariumCobaltNitrog3n
      @BariumCobaltNitrog3n Рік тому

      @@michelleobrien6996 Try using fewer pronouns. Who is he and his?

    • @michelleobrien6996
      @michelleobrien6996 Рік тому +1

      @@BariumCobaltNitrog3n all the pronouns refer to Steve Jobs. The story I heard (not necessarily true, but the story) is that he liked for others to think he was a great dad when in fact he was deliberately horrible to his only child.

  • @ponygirlusa
    @ponygirlusa Рік тому +4

    Your cute dog is supervising your sponsor ad! How ADORABLE! 🥰🐾

  • @kimberfields6725
    @kimberfields6725 Рік тому +57

    Dr Grande never disappoints!

  • @williamleblanc2623
    @williamleblanc2623 Рік тому +7

    "He was incarcerated in the same prison as Paul Bernando and Russell Williams, they were in the same unit" LOL Canada is so much smaller than people imagine.

    • @momof1576
      @momof1576 Рік тому +1

      I know both Bernardo’s lawyer and his lawyer. Both of these cases ruined the careers of the lawyers involved. Both lawyers were given instructions which they followed on the advice of the law society practice advisory . However, when there was public outcry the law society went after both lawyers who never recovered professionally.

  • @jackiegrice714
    @jackiegrice714 Рік тому +18

    😁Loved the ending. It’s amazing what people thing they can get away with when they have narcissistic tendencies. Thanks Dr. Grande

  • @Panos__
    @Panos__ Рік тому +3

    The factor add and smile. I can’t take it seriously 🤣 hahah

  • @MrsRitchieBlackmore
    @MrsRitchieBlackmore Рік тому +7

    I love these alliterative poems! The last two words, though.. how about "blessedly banished" to replace "finally banished." 😂

  • @catherinegrillos8739
    @catherinegrillos8739 Рік тому +31

    Your wonderful, creative word opera at the closing was wonderful. Always appreciate the spin you put on these cases. Very different, yet entertaining and informative.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Рік тому +1

      "Word opera"! Like that!

  • @Johnnykcanuck
    @Johnnykcanuck 9 місяців тому +4

    Richard Wills was one of the worst inmates I had ever dealt with... A constant struggle mentally every day... from him faking his mental illness by not washing or bathing for about 6 months.. dirty dirty human being.. after being sentenced, we wouldn't even let him back in our jail.. straight to the penitentiary... hope he never gets out!!

  • @esteemedmortal5917
    @esteemedmortal5917 Рік тому +4

    Damn, makes Darrell Brooks look civil and respectful by comparison.

  • @palletwizard
    @palletwizard Рік тому +10

    Anytime Dr G makes Factor that adorable puppy is always there! He knows what smells good!

  • @jaybuffie9624
    @jaybuffie9624 Рік тому +10

    "Back firing" - laughed out loud on that one. In the military, you're trained with a rocket launcher in basic training. Part of the safety training includes a pre-launch announcement of "back blast area, clear" shouted for everyone to realize a rocket was about to be launched. That was my thought after you said "back firing" at the end. Good times...

  • @mysightofthings
    @mysightofthings 9 місяців тому +3

    My mother is narcissistic..she’s 87 and I’ve had it with her abuse on me…I’m giving every ounce she gave me right back at her..I call myself her lesson as I continue to expose the mirror she needs to see herself in. Karma gets served best by those who had to learn the recipe in the first place.

    • @bertvosburg558
      @bertvosburg558 2 дні тому

      Having read your post Jung would say she resides in You. and by your post I'd agree. Now You can claim that's by example, BUT if you're, "Really giving it back to her" Then how can you claim the right to act as horrible as she did to you and be any different than her? You're one in the same see? Exacting Revenge is always an unhealthy place to be see? let go! Forgive and be better and bigger than her and the situation. She still owns you right now because You let her.

  • @annika_panicka
    @annika_panicka Рік тому +3

    2:17 Lol! The dog is adorable. S/he would probably be a distraction, but I would love to see him/her in a video.

  • @AZ_actual_voter
    @AZ_actual_voter Рік тому +20

    Great content, Dr. Grande😃
    Even better was the glimpse of your very adorable dog and a set of bunny salt and pepper shakers to die for!

  • @sookiebyun4260
    @sookiebyun4260 Рік тому +12

    Dr. Grande, I first started watching your videos in preparation of a complaint I am going to file against my last (psycho)therapist. Now, I'm hooked and sometimes have your videos on auto-play to catch your humor as well as the topic. Keep up the great work!

  • @sugarcoma7662
    @sugarcoma7662 Рік тому +14

    I love every video you do! You are intelligent, kind, entertaining and highly educated.. I'm so happy you exist 😊

  • @lloyd081877
    @lloyd081877 10 місяців тому +2

    Your alliteration was absolutely amazing!

  • @pennsydude9723
    @pennsydude9723 Рік тому +4

    🤣🤣Thanks Dr. Grande for the poetic poem at the end. Your dark humor never ceases to amaze me. 😂👏🏾😊

  • @katherineellinghame
    @katherineellinghame Рік тому +4

    Gee, can't believe Linda didn't wanna stick with all that.

  • @JustAnAverageWoman69
    @JustAnAverageWoman69 Рік тому +29

    I honestly couldn't help laughing at a few of the ridiculous things he did in court... Wow! He sure is a character.

    • @PrecociousFriand
      @PrecociousFriand Рік тому +9

      Yes when someone spitefully shits on the floor in a courtroom I always consider them 'amusing' and a 'character' rather than a total psycho.

    • @JustAnAverageWoman69
      @JustAnAverageWoman69 Рік тому +13

      @@PrecociousFriand Lighten up.

    • @catblack4091
      @catblack4091 Рік тому +4

      Right? It's really not funny at all but I laughed out loud at the fact he went on about debating on the caulk and the deal he got on the trash container. Man what a kook!

    • @JustAnAverageWoman69
      @JustAnAverageWoman69 Рік тому +4

      @@catblack4091 Yes, absolutely nuts! Lol

  • @elanahammer1076
    @elanahammer1076 Рік тому +3

    Dr. Grande … there is no substitute for your poker faced comedic delivery. I am just in a gas over it! Lol Thank you and happy St. Patrick’s day ☘ if you celebrate. 🤔❤🇺🇸☘

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +35

    These narcissists are so devious & scary; he was especially gross & rude also💩. Love the early upload & commercial. Thanks Dr G😊💚💚

    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Рік тому

      Check my video on narcissistic victim Masuma Khan. Masuma falsely accused Ellison for abuse while covering up for her actual abuser

    • @antonydrossos5719
      @antonydrossos5719 Рік тому

      Dealing with the aftermath of narcissist abuse isn’t easy, but the upside is that you learn to spot the red flags of manipulation

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Рік тому

      -Hello my dear friend. It's Saturday here. Managed to delete another heart from Dr Grande lol.😂. After texting you and L. Had a great sleep . When you see your mum again please give her a hug from me and you also 😚❤💙💙💙💙💔×♡×♡×♡×♡×♡--

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +2

      @@cottontails9003 Hello friend. 10pm here just seeing your reply. Sorry was busy. Your message has lines thru it tho?? Mum was good then got upset. Sending a few 💚🧡💛💚🧡💛to you for a restful day😘🌷🍀🌻🌵🍫🌞and glad you got a good 😴xoxo:>)💤

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Рік тому +1

      *-@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you my dear friend. It was wonderful texting you and L. Sending love and lots of hugs to you and your mum. Have a beautiful sleep 😚❤💙💙💙💙💔🎋🎋🎋✉🎇-

  • @evanrandall1675
    @evanrandall1675 Рік тому +5

    Aw Dr it looks like you have a friendly little puppy!! Cute little dog

  • @sharonhoyt2133
    @sharonhoyt2133 Рік тому +2

    Excellent word play at the end!

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 Рік тому +2

    Your analysis was very unique and exact

  • @roxannespahr2804
    @roxannespahr2804 Рік тому +24

    A video from Dr Grande earlier in the day❤️ I totally love the end of your videos!! I try to make up my own alliterations to match your stories😂 And also love your analysis of these different topics. Your knowledge and critical thinking skills are refreshing and entertaining to watch!! We adore you!!!!

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Рік тому

      Yes! Critical thinking! So rare!

  • @punky19761
    @punky19761 Рік тому +10

    Holy crap, some of what he did sounds like he got the ideas from an early 80’s horror movie. 😱

  • @Blissfulnessence
    @Blissfulnessence Рік тому +3

    Didn't know how you were going to get the flatulence in there .. I'm 💀 😆 🤣 😂
    Thanks Dr. Grande! 😄 🤣 😂 i just can't 😄 🤣

  • @tomgarrett7740
    @tomgarrett7740 Рік тому +17

    I wish they had bodycams back then. I can’t imagine what his interactions with the public were like.

  • @elizabethholmgren2067
    @elizabethholmgren2067 Рік тому +9

    Crazy! Truth is stranger than fiction, you can’t make this stuff up.😮

  • @beauty4ashez87
    @beauty4ashez87 Рік тому +3

    Love your cute little dog in the background of your Factor mealtime 😆

  • @puspavelai8353
    @puspavelai8353 Рік тому +7

    The 'professionals' all around this case, were either unwilling to raise the fact they were dealing with an 'unhinged, insane individual' because of ignorance - or they were just numbed, and dumb themselves! I mean, I've seen Parents/Caregivers being intolerant, harsh and threatening of repeated 'bad-behavior' from youngsters!

  • @bonnielucas3244
    @bonnielucas3244 Рік тому +2

    Let's just say that Dr. Grande is ....unique

  • @farmcat3198
    @farmcat3198 Рік тому +3

    Yes! Dr. Grande TV dinners are back!

  • @Cookinaskdee
    @Cookinaskdee Рік тому +3

    The way I screamed when he said backfiring 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Dawn-zo2ny
    @Dawn-zo2ny 9 місяців тому +3

    i can't believe there is not better screening to become a cop...Clearly he has a lot of insanity, evil and no conscience, like many other cops, males, and people...That these people wield so much power is absolutely insane and devastating....

  • @VivaCubaRoja
    @VivaCubaRoja Рік тому +2

    I find it quite disconcerting that people with these kinds of personality traits are able to become police officers and the like, judges, district attorneys, etc. Police Officers are necessarily given a large quantity of power over the civilian population. From carrying an assortment of firearms, pepper spray, stun guns, tasers, handcuffs, etc. The nature of their work puts them in a position of extreme power over all others and it’s extremely important that police academies siphon out individuals who have these pathologies.

  • @tracyking5945
    @tracyking5945 Рік тому +21

    Dr. Grande, you’re a gas, as usual. Brilliant writing and alliteration. I don’t know how you keep it up. Butt - I’m glad you do! ❤️🤗👍

  • @matthewakian2
    @matthewakian2 Рік тому +3

    2:22 You look like you’re impatiently waiting for ketchup there, doc!

  • @maddieadams75
    @maddieadams75 Рік тому +4

    Brilliantly beautifully brazenly bold banter on a billboard ❤😊

  • @michael-m
    @michael-m Рік тому +2

    Hey, its the Docs kitchen l! Ive honestly always wanted to sit down, have a drink (or meal with Dr Grande), but ill have to settle with this for now I suppose lol

  • @LaniLanilei
    @LaniLanilei Рік тому +5

    Really. A video this AM? How delightful Dr Grande. This is doing better than a good today.
    The Alliteration Wizard strikes again.

  • @Angie-AFB
    @Angie-AFB Рік тому +4

    I love your flawless transitions to your ads, I never fast forward! Great work:D

    • @narcdetester2102
      @narcdetester2102 Рік тому +1

      I never skip Dr G's ads and love to see Bella and the bunny cruet set

  • @onelonelypickle
    @onelonelypickle 3 місяці тому

    This is likely the only channel where I don't skip the ad readings because I just love hearing you talk.

  • @robertgrimes150
    @robertgrimes150 Рік тому +6

    Can’t imagine the time and research you put into making these video. To crank out quality content daily is some dedication. Really enjoy the videos and insight. This channel continues to grow. Thanks for the knowledge you share and the interesting crime stories.

  • @EJ1443
    @EJ1443 Рік тому +4

    Also you can still respect cops and call out the shady abusive behavior. And their inability to take responsibility for their actions/behavior. Being a blind sycophant who worships them while not recognizing any issues is part of the problem. And it enables the bad ones.

  • @bruceyung70
    @bruceyung70 Рік тому +6

    Factor food looks so tasty! Interesting. Looks healthy to!

    • @palletwizard
      @palletwizard Рік тому +1

      I bet it’s way better than Hello Fresh

    • @bruceyung70
      @bruceyung70 Рік тому +2

      @@palletwizardYes, hello fresh was a lot of work. Factor food is much more convenient. Just nuke it and eat’em

  • @MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis

    He sounds like Darrell Brooks. I can’t imagine letting them stretch the trial out that long. Imagine being married to human beings like that. People like that belong in prison for life.

  • @shivadasa
    @shivadasa Рік тому +1

    “When he reached for his underwear, the police told him to stop.” LMFAO!

  • @ambera5448
    @ambera5448 Рік тому +11

    Dr Grande : Have you heard of the "Omi in a hellcat" case? He is a youtuber with a large following that has just been sentenced to 5.5 years in jail. He was selling memberships for pirated TV. The story is so interesting but hardly anyone is reporting on it. I would love to hear your take!

    • @zuglymonster
      @zuglymonster Рік тому +2

      This would be an interesting one. Crazy how he was so open about all the wealth he had when he obtained it illegally. I'd imagine that didn't help him here

  • @WriterActorBaker
    @WriterActorBaker Рік тому +3

    Love this channel and your stories!

  • @neenaj365
    @neenaj365 Рік тому +2

    This is gold. Your delivery is superb, Dr G!!

  • @grahamgreene779
    @grahamgreene779 Рік тому +8

    As always, amazing alliteration and acute analysis.

  • @donprice9050
    @donprice9050 Рік тому +3

    Here's hoping that Richard will someday piss off the wrong people in prison.

  • @alliereed4247
    @alliereed4247 Рік тому +3

    OMG!! Your dog is absolutely gorgeous 🐶❤....... p.s. your ending summary/ poem was perfection 😂I loved it

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 Рік тому +3

    Good evening Dr Grande,
    Love your dry sense of humor.
    Have a great Saturday.

  • @terrilynn1110
    @terrilynn1110 9 місяців тому +2

    A juror sitting 145 + 85 days? I would vote to convict just to get my life back?

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata Рік тому +5

    Brilliant as always Dr.Grande 👌
    Thank you very much!

  • @CostasCourtComposer
    @CostasCourtComposer Рік тому +4

    So happy to watch another video today!

  • @MM-gd1dw
    @MM-gd1dw Рік тому +16

    Thank you for the exceptional content. I've been home sick today, and nothing like a dose of Dr. Grande to perk me up.

  • @lauraabate5593
    @lauraabate5593 Рік тому +3

    Dr. Grande can add the king of alliteration to his list of many talents. Will he entertain adding rhyming couplets to his repertoire? This case was another one wonderfully recounted and analyzed by our Dr. Grande. I was astonished hearing about this bizarre man and it speaks volumes that he icked out Bernardo and Williams!! 🇨🇦