While in one hand we have Julian, who despite a good upbringing and so many second chances in life, was still able to commit murders. On the other hand we have Terry Jo, who despite having lived through a devastating experience of losing her family in this manner, was able to overcome her circumstances and even inspire others to heal from life tragedies. Fascinating case Dr. Grande, thank you.❤️
It’s so convenient to write write off the horror & lifelong traumatization to the pithy “survivor” narrative. Terry Jo was my friend. Great kid. As an adult her struggle, isolation was crushing.
I’ve read Teri’s book “Alone” 3 times. I was fascinated by her story bc I am near her age. After her rescue she went to live with family and they decided it would be best to not talk about what had happened and just to give Teri a safe environment. She didn’t talk to anyone about it until she had taken one of her children to a pediatrician. In the course of asking about her family history when she answered both parents were dead The dr asked how they died. Bingo. When she told him, the dr asked her to wait a moment and he went to get a psychologist to speak to her. This dr helped her explore the aftermath and the many ways it was still affecting her life. This part of her story captured me bc I experienced severe, long term trauma as a child. I had to escape my environment when I was 12 and afterwards lived in foster homes. I too experienced the common practice in that time era to not talk about what I had been through. This cleared the path of my early adulthood to be blind to the potholes and quick sand in my path. It would all come out in the form of self destructive behaviors and mistakes so enormous as to do lethal damage to myself. I look back and all I see is ruins. Hearing Teri’s story brought home to me how I was set up for trouble bc of the “better to not talk about” era that I was born into. It wasn’t like people weren’t aware of what had happened to me. It was too messy. To me the most compelling part of this story was Teri’s survival. I felt like she was my mirror image.
Beautifully said. My parents are from the repressed era as well. No one was overly confessional. Both of my parents were badly abused. Neither parent ever abusive. It’s only this moment in writing this tears are stinging realizing how unlikely this is and how hard they worked to break that cycle. I’m so sorry you endured all of that with so little, if any, support. You are incredibly resilient. You may see ruins but I see a lot of resilience & an amazing ability to reflect. Edit to add I want to get ahold of the book,too
I grew up with Terri. School. Camp. Somehow she came up tonight in conversation w/my husband. He got a bit bored. So I’m thinking maybe you’ll listen. Empathize. After this most horrific assault, Terri recovered (??) & was sent “home.” She had no home. Her family was murdered. Everyone avoided her. The taint of all that pain. We remained friends but only superficially. She was so dead. But we always kept the thread. So, back in our 20’s, we had meetup in Indiana where she’d gone to live. She was employed in an Amish boat building shop & living in a tiny apartment. She was a ghost. Haunted & sad. I’d written to Hollywood screenwriters back then. “Her story needs to be told.” So tonight, telling husband, thought maybe there might be something on UA-cam. Appreciate your comment. Your empathy. What she endured? And you? I despise this throwaway term “survivor.” Just a convenient way to disregard the lifetime of terror, suffering the victims endure. Terri Jo, you’re still my hero. “Lifefromaparkinglot.” You as well friend.
She must have been in shock. It is incredible she was able to manage to get on the raft and survive. My recollection is that children succumb to dehydration much faster than do adults.
Terri Jo survived because of an incredible amount of luck (being below deck as Julian began carrying out his murderous plan, letting go of the rope thereby thwarting Julian’s possible plans to dispose of her, surviving the elements once alone at sea with no water, and later being spotted and saved by a passing ship) and by being a very clever child (remembering the small raft and knowing to untie the rope freeing it from sinking along with the yacht). God bless her. She witnessed her dead family members, became an orphan and nearly died at sea at age 11.
I'll never understand people who kill others so callously. I understand serial killers/psychopaths who came from hideous childhood abuse because they are obviously just visiting the pain they feel inside on others, but these "high functioning" sociopaths should know better. I just don't get it.
@@janedmunds4218 Not all murder seems insane to me. Crimes of passion, and drug gang murders all seem a natural consequence of humans responding to either emotion or economics. It's the ones that don't fall in those categories that creep me out.
@@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 one aspect of personal trauma that has not been addressed is that he was in combat. He was probably affected by so many losses of fellow soldiers and his own close calls. Not to excuse his behavior, but to clarify his experience and reaction to it
He killed more people than just them. He never even tried to care for his two boys, either. What a colossal pos. My dad has toureettes and has been ridiculed all his life but he has always taken it like a man and never hurt anyone.
Question. I did a podcast on this. Where did you hear he never tried to care for the boys? I am not saying you are wrong. I couldn't find much on his kids.
It makes me wonder how common family annihilation was before forensic science and criminology and reliable police work was developed. I have a feeling that men did this far more than we know.
I suspect that Harvey's co-workers, the people who had to interact with him daily in the military service, knew what a "fake" he was, as did his wives. His first wife was lucky the marriage ended in annulment.
Most definitely! I remember a video he made last year on a shooting that was so disturbing to me (a neighbor shoots their two neighbors while they were shoveling snow.) that I thought about it daily with so many questions. I finally stopped racking my brain over it after Dr. Grande did an analysis of it. It helped me a lot. I will forever watch his videos. God bless him! 💝
That guy sounded like he destroyed everything he touched. It was interesting how long a person could get away with all those destructive acts in the past.
What a brave, smart little girl! I’m so glad that she survived and was smart enough to give a (most likely) true version of events. That nutjob was a serial killer!
For some reason, I'm reminded of the story of the young girl and the man who were the real life inspiration for the book "Lolita".... It's a haunting and disturbing story that makes the book even creepier than it already is.
He was incredibly close to getting away with it too. The police would have had absolutely no evidence of a crime if it wasn’t for Terry Jo. She nearly didn’t survive to tell the tale either. The human body can only endure 3 to 4 days without water and she’d been without it for three and a half.
You beautifully laid out the steps to his probable motivation for his alleged crimes. By the time you summed everything up, I'm left thinking, well, of course it's as clear as a bell. In my humble opinion, the mark of a great educator.
would love to see some of your educational content come back! I love these too, but I keep going back to your videos from 2-3 years ago about different mental health diagnoses. thanks for the great content!
I'm starting to believe that you film all these in a day and just switch shirts to give the illusion of time passing. The amount of videos that you put out is staggering and they're all high quality thank you so much
"The war was lost The treaty signed I was not caught I crossed the line I was not caught Though many tried I live among you Well disguised" Nevermind by Leonard Cohen. This song always gives me a chill down the spine
Such a great analysis of a story I never heard about, and that character analysis came across as accurate and scary. Thanks for the reprieve from my lesser problems yet again.
A friend's 85 year old widower dad married a 68 year old woman who had been married five times before. In four of those marriages the guys died in accidents, in the one marriage the guy left her after three months. My friend became suspicious of her, but his dad never listened and cut him out of his will. I was sad for my friend as he has mild developmental disability and his dad decided not to listen to him because of that. Even when my friend told me all this about the woman I felt suspicious too as it wasn't like the guys died of old age like my friend dad eventually did.
Ironically, in the two days since I wrote that I have been made aware of the destructively narcissistic behaviour of a good-looking person in my own life.
It's funny how they always say they were good looking on Snapped but then you see their pictures and it isn't really so. I think like Scarlett O'Hara (said person) wasn't really pretty but few noticed when cast under their charms.
I really like these delves into the older cases. I remember hearing/reading of some of these and it’s interesting to hear after all these years. Especially with all the advances.
To have so many wives with them wanting the divorces tells me he enjoyed hurting people. Most people who have this condition don't become killers. I agree the daughter surviving probably saved other peoples lives too. He had the skills to be a successful person financially yet prefered taking short cuts with insurance fraud. He may have become unemployable because of the consequences of his moral and lifestyle decisions.
I’ve been binging on your videos and want to thank you for all the great content. I really appreciate how you determine guilt or innocence in real life and guilt or innocence beyond a reasonable doubt. I helps me settle the questions I have in my own mind. It’s my free therapy! Thanks Doc!!🤘🏻
Well done. I haven't met an out and out murderer ( yet) with these traits, but have encountered psycho-lites. Terrible how they can reduce a man to wondering how you must take precaution to defend yourself to the death ( if need be ).
I’m old enough to remember when this happened, I was 9 or 10. It was all over the news. I’m so glad that young girl was able to make a good life for herself.
WOW!!! Thank you Dr Grande for this look back to a history that occurred only 2 years before I was born. I didn’t know about this horrible situation. I do so appreciate your concise unpacking of these events! I remember watching a few of your videos back when you first began. You have definitely made your mark and a delight to watch how you take a very awful situation and present it with respect and caution!
I know I've said this several times, but I can't say how much I appreciate all the incredibly hard work and dedication you put into all of your content, Dr. Grande!! ♡♡
Yay! You brought OCEAN back! A special suprise for my bday today. Thank you yet again for being the most consistent thing in my life right now. And yes, I'm getting help! Lol. 🧡
Teri is my hero 💙. It's just astonishing to me that she had the presence of mind to remember the dingy and survive such horrendous brutality. Also, that she managed to survive afterwards, with none of the help she so desperately needed and deserved. Teri reminds me of the awesome, beautiful, potential (and proven) strength in myself and others. Again, she is absolutely My Hero 🙏💙. Thanks for covering this story, Dr G 😁🙏.
Oh how I have missed the acronym O.C.E.A.N! This was a really interesting case I had never heard of before. Great insightful coverage as always Dr. Grande!🤠💕
This is such a tragic story. He should rot in prison for his crimes. Thank you so very much, Dr. Grande! I really appreciate the compassion that you show when speaking about such a horrendous case. You are the best.
Wow. “Wrecking ball” is the perfect way to describe this guy! Great analysis. 💖💕💖👍🏼 Wondering if (hoping 🙏🏼) you’d be interested in analyzing the movie “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf”? I watched it again last night on TCM and I thought “What would be Dr. Grande’s take on the crazy head games that go on?” It’s not true crime genre but behaviors border on being criminally abusive. 🤷🏼♀️🤞🏼
Dr. Grande can you analyse the movie “We need to talk about Kevin” and give your professional opinion on what Eva could have done differently to stop Kevin from becoming such a monstrous kid.
I hadn't heard about this case. I appreciate your time and work on these cases I've never heard of! I also love your narcissist type videos. Thanks Dr Grande!
wow really? dont want to intrude...u of course dont have to answer... but just wondering... was the letter cos u were moved by the bravery of that lass?
@@CastledarkDweller27 yes and I was about her age! What a horrific thing to live thru! I still remember her pic on the front page in the little raft she was all burnt from exposure and salt water. It was a miracle she lived. She never answered my letter it’s ok I’m sure she had thousands!
@@michelejashinsky8409 I didn't know anything about her until she wrote a book about her experiences ("Alone") and came to speak at a book signing. She's an amazing woman and I'm so glad she's been able to recover and have a good life.
I always loved these stories..Read many books--now I can just watch Dr. Grande...Your voice is so soothing I can fall to sleep watching.. However last time I did this, I was dreaming about some of what you were talking about--guess I was half asleep. Never doing that again..kinda scary...LOL..Great Dr.Grande..
$100 per day does not sound like a plausible salary in 1961. That would have been nearly 3000 per month. A huge amount of money at a time when a house could be bought for $10,000. The average annual salary at the time was about $5,500 per year.
It's always interesting how he tells the story and then he gives his professional clinical diagnosis..,...... Dr grande is definitely going to hit a million subscribers!!!!!! excellent channel that teaches and entertains 🧐😁
Obviously this guy had a hard time making up his mind pertaining to women. I guess he got sick of them fast and only really liked his own company. I enjoyed this one very much Dr.G.🤓💜
Watching Dr. Grande's analyses gives rise to a deeper understanding of evil intentions and, I hope, gives encouragement to people to be realistically aware of human evil.
Todd, I’m so glad I’ve found your channel. I really think your content is helpful. I like how I have so much content to binge on from several years. This is great and you are absolutely amazing. Thank you thank you ❤️
Dr. Grande, thank you for the dedication and punctuality with all your videos, they have been very reliable and educational and how difficult to understand the morbid stories which reminds us of the Muse of Tragedy, Melpomene.. in other words. Thank you.
Dr Grande, your channel has it all!❤️ So sorry for this family. Terry Jo is a tragic heroine. Julian is a monster! My husband grew up in St Pete, Fl and he’s an excellent sailor. I would trust him way more than this charlatan. Thanks so much!
My personality factors are 2: Eat & Sleep. Love your channel. Also your sarcasm is great. I work in the legal department and when I bring attention to a department about not being compliant with the law, I am often asked if the law is new. My response is the law is not new for the law was enacted the year the bread slicer was invented or when the stop sign was invented (depend which legal citation).
A movie with Jonhathan Rhys Meyers called The Good Neighbor has similiar plot lines. Especially the ending when things come crashing down around the protagonist.
Thanks for all your hard work Dr. Grande! I was wondering if you could cover the case of Henri Van Breda? There seems to be more than meets the eye here, especially concerning his "lack of emotion" and the way he looks. There were also details that didn't make the trial. Thanks again!
Yes! This case is fascinating! How could this preppy boy next door axe his family and show no emotion. The crime shocked South Africa which is hard to do as it is such a violent country. Also the emergency South African 911 type call is almost comedy from the operator's incompetence and Henri giggles on the call...🧐
Yes, imagine witnessing something like that. On such a small place like a boat, you know there'd be a fight for your life. The story reminds me a bit of the film Dead Calm".
Yes i agree thats why the Mother & son were murdered. Did Dr Grande mention the father of the family? i know the "baby" was somehow drowned? The older lass survived. But when did the killer get the Dad? Did he say? (maybe i zoned out? lol)
It amazes me how you were able to get so much information in this case. Juillian was very sick, and maybe a sociopath plus other things. Wow that was unbelievable. Thank-you Dr. Todd, you are a very hard worker. I always enjoy your videos.💙🇨🇦💙🥧🍩
Julian was a very frightening monster time and time again, exponentially. I pray to God I never, ever meet someone like him and thank God if I have met someone like him , I survived. Bless Teri and her family, a true survivor!
It’s crazy how much suspicious shit one person can be involved in before they get caught for something horrible.
Who knows what else he did that he was never caught for. Pretty sure the known incidents would probably scratch the surface.
@@PrecociousFriand tip of the iceberg theory almost always checks out.
Julian seemed quite good at weaseling his way out of trouble.
@@avalonjustin yeah, I’m guessing he was pretty charming & very persuasive.
Slickies
While in one hand we have Julian, who despite a good upbringing and so many second chances in life, was still able to commit murders. On the other hand we have Terry Jo, who despite having lived through a devastating experience of losing her family in this manner, was able to overcome her circumstances and even inspire others to heal from life tragedies.
Fascinating case Dr. Grande, thank you.❤️
That's the difference between a destructive, selfish narcissist and a more mentally healthy person.
Makes us wonder about the resilience or lack of each human being
It’s so convenient to write write off the horror & lifelong traumatization to the pithy “survivor” narrative. Terry Jo was my friend. Great kid. As an adult her struggle, isolation was crushing.
One was pampered, whilst the other was not.
@@blakesleyk.7166 I cannot even imagine her pain.
I’ve read Teri’s book “Alone” 3 times. I was fascinated by her story bc I am near her age. After her rescue she went to live with family and they decided it would be best to not talk about what had happened and just to give Teri a safe environment. She didn’t talk to anyone about it until she had taken one of her children to a pediatrician. In the course of asking about her family history when she answered both parents were dead The dr asked how they died. Bingo. When she told him, the dr asked her to wait a moment and he went to get a psychologist to speak to her. This dr helped her explore the aftermath and the many ways it was still affecting her life. This part of her story captured me bc I experienced severe, long term trauma as a child. I had to escape my environment when I was 12 and afterwards lived in foster homes. I too experienced the common practice in that time era to not talk about what I had been through. This cleared the path of my early adulthood to be blind to the potholes and quick sand in my path. It would all come out in the form of self destructive behaviors and mistakes so enormous as to do lethal damage to myself. I look back and all I see is ruins. Hearing Teri’s story brought home to me how I was set up for trouble bc of the “better to not talk about” era that I was born into. It wasn’t like people weren’t aware of what had happened to me. It was too messy. To me the most compelling part of this story was Teri’s survival. I felt like she was my mirror image.
Beautifully said. My parents are from the repressed era as well. No one was overly confessional. Both of my parents were badly abused. Neither parent ever abusive. It’s only this moment in writing this tears are stinging realizing how unlikely this is and how hard they worked to break that cycle. I’m so sorry you endured all of that with so little, if any, support. You are incredibly resilient. You may see ruins but I see a lot of resilience & an amazing ability to reflect. Edit to add I want to get ahold of the book,too
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Thank you, Kate for taking the time to leave a very kind and thoughtful comment. I appreciate the encouragement.
Wow, you sound like such a smart well adjusted person, thanks for sharing, childhood trauma is so hard to deal with, you're a hero!
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I appreciate your comment. Thank you for being kind 😌
I grew up with Terri. School. Camp. Somehow she came up tonight in conversation w/my husband. He got a bit bored. So I’m thinking maybe you’ll listen. Empathize.
After this most horrific assault, Terri recovered (??) & was sent “home.” She had no home. Her family was murdered. Everyone avoided her. The taint of all that pain.
We remained friends but only superficially. She was so dead.
But we always kept the thread. So, back in our 20’s, we had meetup in Indiana where she’d gone to live. She was employed in an Amish boat building shop & living in a tiny apartment. She was a ghost. Haunted & sad.
I’d written to Hollywood screenwriters back then. “Her story needs to be told.”
So tonight, telling husband, thought maybe there might be something on UA-cam.
Appreciate your comment. Your empathy. What she endured? And you? I despise this throwaway term “survivor.” Just a convenient way to disregard the lifetime of terror, suffering the victims endure.
Terri Jo, you’re still my hero. “Lifefromaparkinglot.” You as well friend.
Amazing how that girl survived. Couldn't imagine the horror she felt floating out there in the middle of the ocean.
She must have been in shock. It is incredible she was able to manage to get on the raft and survive. My recollection is that children succumb to dehydration much faster than do adults.
That’s my nightmare lol being stuck in the middle of the ocean
@@lonemaus562 Mine too. Do you ever get the feeling that you were on the Titanic?
She spoke at a book signing where we live, and said she still sometimes has nightmares about it.
These true crime stories that involve children are always difficult to hear but this one was harrowing.
Terri Jo survived because of an incredible amount of luck (being below deck as Julian began carrying out his murderous plan, letting go of the rope thereby thwarting Julian’s possible plans to dispose of her, surviving the elements once alone at sea with no water, and later being spotted and saved by a passing ship) and by being a very clever child (remembering the small raft and knowing to untie the rope freeing it from sinking along with the yacht). God bless her. She witnessed her dead family members, became an orphan and nearly died at sea at age 11.
That isn’t luck. If it is, what did the rest of those that he killed have?! Bad luck………
Luck. You mean God
@@junglekutz5625That literally means luck.
@@nick-kq6ok😅😅😅😅
YUP!
What a contrast between Terri Jo's bravery and Julian's cowardice!
I'll never understand people who kill others so callously. I understand serial killers/psychopaths who came from hideous childhood abuse because they are obviously just visiting the pain they feel inside on others, but these "high functioning" sociopaths should know better. I just don't get it.
@@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 All murder seems insane to me. I especially can't imagine taking a life for money
@@janedmunds4218 Not all murder seems insane to me. Crimes of passion, and drug gang murders all seem a natural consequence of humans responding to either emotion or economics. It's the ones that don't fall in those categories that creep me out.
It's like the contrast between men and women generally
@@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 one aspect of personal trauma that has not been addressed is that he was in combat. He was probably affected by so many losses of fellow soldiers and his own close calls. Not to excuse his behavior, but to clarify his experience and reaction to it
He killed more people than just them. He never even tried to care for his two boys, either. What a colossal pos. My dad has toureettes and has been ridiculed all his life but he has always taken it like a man and never hurt anyone.
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Your a good daughter for realizing this...
I've known people with Tourette's. A little surprising at first, but mostly just a minor annoyance.
Question. I did a podcast on this. Where did you hear he never tried to care for the boys? I am not saying you are wrong. I couldn't find much on his kids.
Who said he had Tourette’s ? All I heard was that he stammered when nervous. Big difference between Tourette’s and stammering
Such an unforgettable story. I'm glad the girl survived and moved on.
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Such a strong girl having to move on despite having lost her entire family.
What a tough, resourceful child.
"It's easy to see how this could impede sales performance." That's funny. Your delivery is right on. NOICE Grande!
Yeah this got a good chuckle from me also
I was drinking a 13yo single malt, double-barrel scotch when he said this. I'm guessing I blew about three-dollar's worth out my nose!
@@r.f.pennington746 🤤 I would never drink something so precious while watching something funny. I'd at least pause it every sip 😂
The girl survived?? Wow. Some of these cases literally are stranger than fiction. Great analysis as always.
Also loved the "He vastly underestimated his victim."
In an era when divorce was rare, this guy seems to have been responsible for most of them. 😳
holy shxt thats funny 😂
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I really appreciate the deep dives into cases that are fascinating, but not that well known. Thanks for working hard on your frequent content.
I agree. I’ve never heard of this case but it is so fascinating
Love this too!!
???? He mostly does very well known cases that have been done to death
This is the first one.
It makes me wonder how common family annihilation was before forensic science and criminology and reliable police work was developed. I have a feeling that men did this far more than we know.
I suspect that Harvey's co-workers, the people who had to interact with him daily in the military service, knew what a "fake" he was, as did his wives. His first wife was lucky the marriage ended in annulment.
Do you mean Julien?
@@everforever370 The murderer who is the focus of the video was named Julian Harvey.
@@synthiamcbride7194 my bad. Thank you..I was confused
I can see them now, pointing and yelling "BIG FAT PHONY" family guy style
Dr. Grande is the hero we didn't know we needed but am now extremely happy to have. Thanks for the upload, as always!
Dr. Grande is simply the best.
I have to say I agree with you. 😊
Most definitely! I remember a video he made last year on a shooting that was so disturbing to me (a neighbor shoots their two neighbors while they were shoveling snow.) that I thought about it daily with so many questions. I finally stopped racking my brain over it after Dr. Grande did an analysis of it. It helped me a lot. I will forever watch his videos. God bless him! 💝
No one on You tube seen dr grande walk but I am sure he can.
@@lovelylibra6490 I still think about that incident often! His video on it is very good though!
That guy sounded like he destroyed everything he touched. It was interesting how long a person could get away with all those destructive acts in the past.
I'm delighted that Julian isn't wasting tax payer money. Thank you Dr.Grande for your analysis of this tragedy.
Terry is such a strong positive person and an inspiration to all of us.
What a brave, smart little girl! I’m so glad that she survived and was smart enough to give a (most likely) true version of events. That nutjob was a serial killer!
The mindfulness of Terry Joe, and under such stress. Wow.
Especially if she knew her family had been murdered
For some reason, I'm reminded of the story of the young girl and the man who were the real life inspiration for the book "Lolita".... It's a haunting and disturbing story that makes the book even creepier than it already is.
What a frightening personality. Terri is extremely brave. 😔
Too many marriages too many accidents !!....I think the worlds a safer place without him.
That's for sure...he was dangerous
I read Terry Jo’s autobiography! I’d definitely give it a read if you enjoy that type of autobiography
She was very tough to last 3 days with no water or shade in a warm place
Thanks for the rec! 🙂
Well, he was a nice gentleman....NOT!
So glad she survived.
He did society a favour when he ended his own life!
He was incredibly close to getting away with it too. The police would have had absolutely no evidence of a crime if it wasn’t for Terry Jo. She nearly didn’t survive to tell the tale either. The human body can only endure 3 to 4 days without water and she’d been without it for three and a half.
God is good
“ God “ only saved one and let all the others die . So on that basis God is evil .
Wow…I don’t think I have heard of this one. Great to hear a story I haven’t heard 1,000x. Awesome channel thanks!
That makes 2 of us.
You beautifully laid out the steps to his probable motivation for his alleged crimes. By the time you summed everything up, I'm left thinking, well, of course it's as clear as a bell. In my humble opinion, the mark of a great educator.
How could the cops keep letting him get away with crime after crime? geez. so many red flags.
@@CastledarkDweller27 welcome to white privilege
@@cjh1438 and handsome privilege, a subcategory
That was amazing that Terry survived and was braved to speak up!!
Great video Dr Grande!!!
would love to see some of your educational content come back! I love these too, but I keep going back to your videos from 2-3 years ago about different mental health diagnoses. thanks for the great content!
I agree.
I miss those vids too!
Bc(
I'm starting to believe that you film all these in a day and just switch shirts to give the illusion of time passing.
The amount of videos that you put out is staggering and they're all high quality thank you so much
Every day I look forward to receiving a notification for one of Dr. Grande's videos. Thanks for the quality and consistency. 😃
My too!
What a disaster of a guy. Ruined so many things & took lives Scary no one caught on 😔⛵⚓Thanks Dr G😊🤍🤍
Terry Jo was a very plucky child and I’m glad that she seems to have had a happy life.
"The war was lost
The treaty signed
I was not caught
I crossed the line
I was not caught
Though many tried
I live among you
Well disguised"
Nevermind by Leonard Cohen.
This song always gives me a chill down the spine
Such a great analysis of a story I never heard about, and that character analysis came across as accurate and scary. Thanks for the reprieve from my lesser problems yet again.
It's crazy how one person can cause so much destruction and pain. I hope I never meet someone like him!!!
That 3 hour tour didn't end well. He was a murderer and a coward imo. Thanks Dr Grande for great content.
A friend's 85 year old widower dad married a 68 year old woman who had been married five times before. In four of those marriages the guys died in accidents, in the one marriage the guy left her after three months. My friend became suspicious of her, but his dad never listened and cut him out of his will. I was sad for my friend as he has mild developmental disability and his dad decided not to listen to him because of that. Even when my friend told me all this about the woman I felt suspicious too as it wasn't like the guys died of old age like my friend dad eventually did.
This is such a classic case of people being duped by someone because they are good-looking.
I get the same impression.
Ironically, in the two days since I wrote that I have been made aware of the destructively narcissistic behaviour of a good-looking person in my own life.
@@icturner23 it's time for you to stop staring in the mirror, me thinks 😉
@@martindmunro What a bizarre thing for you to say.
It's funny how they always say they were good looking on Snapped but then you see their pictures and it isn't really so. I think like Scarlett O'Hara (said person) wasn't really pretty but few noticed when cast under their charms.
I really like these delves into the older cases. I remember hearing/reading of some of these and it’s interesting to hear after all these years. Especially with all the advances.
To have so many wives with them wanting the divorces tells me he enjoyed hurting people. Most people who have this condition don't become killers. I agree the daughter surviving probably saved other peoples lives too. He had the skills to be a successful person financially yet prefered taking short cuts with insurance fraud. He may have become unemployable because of the consequences of his moral and lifestyle decisions.
I’ve been binging on your videos and want to thank you for all the great content. I really appreciate how you determine guilt or innocence in real life and guilt or innocence beyond a reasonable doubt. I helps me settle the questions I have in my own mind. It’s my free therapy! Thanks Doc!!🤘🏻
I would love to see you analyze Dr Grande. Grande on Grande could be hilarious! Love your videos.
Well done. I haven't met an out and out murderer ( yet) with these traits, but have encountered
psycho-lites. Terrible how they can reduce a man to wondering how you must take precaution
to defend yourself to the death ( if need be ).
I’m old enough to remember when this happened, I was 9 or 10. It was all over the news. I’m so glad that young girl was able to make a good life for herself.
"When someone answered the door, he ran away. It's easy to see how this would impede sales performance." I'm dyin' here.
I love your channel. I've never heard of this case. Thank you, Dr. Grande!
I have so much respect for you and the professional way you present your videos. i very much look forward to your uploads.
Just now getting around to watching your vid. What a tragic and bizarre story. You were so thorough about the backstory, which is greatly appreciated.
WOW!!! Thank you Dr Grande for this look back to a history that occurred only 2 years before I was born. I didn’t know about this horrible situation. I do so appreciate your concise unpacking of these events! I remember watching a few of your videos back when you first began. You have definitely made your mark and a delight to watch how you take a very awful situation and present it with respect and caution!
I just saw the "I Survived" episode on this case. Such an amazing story. Thanks for your insight Dr. Grande.
I love the way you, merely speculate, while nailing it on the head at the same time.👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙏😘
How many planes do you need to crash before you get a “reputation” for crashing planes?
Think the Air Force should have been concerned??
I know I've said this several times, but I can't say how much I appreciate all the incredibly hard work and dedication you put into all of your content, Dr. Grande!! ♡♡
Excellent analysis Dr. Grande. Thank you.
Excellent episode. I never heard of this story before. The way you explained him is very helpful in recognizing the behavior of others.
What an interesting analysis. Like most of the people you discuss, I'm very happy to say I don't know anyone like him.
My day just got better !!!....Dr Grande is here. :)
Yay! You brought OCEAN back! A special suprise for my bday today. Thank you yet again for being the most consistent thing in my life right now. And yes, I'm getting help! Lol. 🧡
Teri is my hero 💙. It's just astonishing to me that she had the presence of mind to remember the dingy and survive such horrendous brutality. Also, that she managed to survive afterwards, with none of the help she so desperately needed and deserved. Teri reminds me of the awesome, beautiful, potential (and proven) strength in myself and others. Again, she is absolutely My Hero 🙏💙. Thanks for covering this story, Dr G 😁🙏.
Haven't heard this story before. Nasty piece of work.
Oh how I have missed the acronym O.C.E.A.N! This was a really interesting case I had never heard of before. Great insightful coverage as always Dr. Grande!🤠💕
This is such a tragic story. He should rot in prison for his crimes.
Thank you so very much, Dr. Grande! I really appreciate the compassion that you show when speaking about such a horrendous case. You are the best.
Thank you for all your hard work; and the videos you upload daily. Thank you Dr Grande.
Right on time for lunch. Thanks, Dr. Grande.
What a fascinating case! Thank you Dr Grande.
Wow. “Wrecking ball” is the perfect way to describe this guy! Great analysis.
💖💕💖👍🏼 Wondering if (hoping 🙏🏼) you’d be interested in analyzing the movie “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf”? I watched it again last night on TCM and I thought “What would be Dr. Grande’s take on the crazy head games that go on?” It’s not true crime genre but behaviors border on being criminally abusive. 🤷🏼♀️🤞🏼
Great movie.
That is one crazy movie. Richard and Liz together, just like in real life.
“Violence!”
Another tragic but fascinating case!
Spectacular synopsis. Thank you for sharing. 👍
Dr. Grande can you analyse the movie “We need to talk about Kevin” and give your professional opinion on what Eva could have done differently to stop Kevin from becoming such a monstrous kid.
I think it's a great time for a lunch break, Dr. Grande! Thank you!❤️
I hadn't heard about this case. I appreciate your time and work on these cases I've never heard of! I also love your narcissist type videos. Thanks Dr Grande!
I grew up near GB WI and remember this! It was front page story for weeks! I even wrote Mary Jo when she was recovering in hospital!
wow really? dont want to intrude...u of course dont have to answer... but just wondering... was the letter cos u were moved by the bravery of that lass?
@@CastledarkDweller27 yes and I was about her age! What a horrific thing to live thru! I still remember her pic on the front page in the little raft she was all burnt from exposure and salt water. It was a miracle she lived. She never answered my letter it’s ok I’m sure she had thousands!
@@michelejashinsky8409 Wow! Thats fascinating! Thanks for answering my question, Have a nice day : )
@@michelejashinsky8409 I didn't know anything about her until she wrote a book about her experiences ("Alone") and came to speak at a book signing. She's an amazing woman and I'm so glad she's been able to recover and have a good life.
I always loved these stories..Read many books--now I can just watch Dr. Grande...Your voice is so soothing I can fall to sleep watching.. However last time I did this, I was dreaming about some of what you were talking about--guess I was half asleep. Never doing that again..kinda scary...LOL..Great Dr.Grande..
I remember this young girl. Astounding story.
The sad thing it was supposed to be a 3 hour tour. A 3 hour tour.
Well done lol
😂😂🤭
Ha Ha. Never take a 3 hour your. 2 or 4 but never a 3.
😢 he was an Evil Skipper
Used to love Gilligan's island.
$100 per day does not sound like a plausible salary in 1961. That would have been nearly 3000 per month. A huge amount of money at a time when a house could be bought for $10,000.
The average annual salary at the time was about $5,500 per year.
It's always interesting how he tells the story and then he gives his professional clinical diagnosis..,...... Dr grande is definitely going to hit a million subscribers!!!!!! excellent channel that teaches and entertains 🧐😁
Massacre... great ending. Thanks for making my morning 🌄. When I read it back it looks weird. Hopefully, you know what I mean. Have a great day.
Obviously this guy had a hard time making up his mind pertaining to women. I guess he got sick of them fast and only really liked his own company.
I enjoyed this one very much Dr.G.🤓💜
Women were a means to an end insurance $$$. I don't believe he could love anyone even superficially.
Marry six times = didn’t like his own company either.
Thank you for your service, Dr. Grande 👍
Loving these daily uploads!!! Especially in the spooky season :)
Watching Dr. Grande's analyses gives rise to a deeper understanding of evil intentions and, I hope, gives encouragement to people to be realistically aware of human evil.
Todd, I’m so glad I’ve found your channel. I really think your content is helpful. I like how I have so much content to binge on from several years. This is great and you are absolutely amazing. Thank you thank you ❤️
Dr. Grande, thank you for the dedication and punctuality with all your videos, they have been very reliable and educational and how difficult to understand the morbid stories which reminds us of the Muse of Tragedy, Melpomene.. in other words. Thank you.
What’s the muse of tragedy?
Dr Grande, your channel has it all!❤️ So sorry for this family. Terry Jo is a tragic heroine. Julian is a monster! My husband grew up in St Pete, Fl and he’s an excellent sailor. I would trust him way more than this charlatan. Thanks so much!
I've never heard of this story before. I usually watch or read about stories like this but I've never heard of this one before. Thanks for the video.
The girl who survived eventually wrote a book about her experiences called "Alone", she's a sweet and amazing woman.
My personality factors are 2: Eat & Sleep. Love your channel. Also your sarcasm is great. I work in the legal department and when I bring attention to a department about not being compliant with the law, I am often asked if the law is new. My response is the law is not new for the law was enacted the year the bread slicer was invented or when the stop sign was invented (depend which legal citation).
In other words you very much enjoy the Drs dead pan humor? ;)
One Mississippi two Mississippi schoolboard
He was a big coward, that's what he was. Thank you for the video, Dr.!
I subscribed long ago and still watch everyday
A movie with Jonhathan Rhys Meyers called The Good Neighbor has similiar plot lines. Especially the ending when things come crashing down around the protagonist.
Interesting episode. Thanks!
Thanks for all your hard work Dr. Grande! I was wondering if you could cover the case of Henri Van Breda? There seems to be more than meets the eye here, especially concerning his "lack of emotion" and the way he looks. There were also details that didn't make the trial. Thanks again!
Yes! This case is fascinating! How could this preppy boy next door axe his family and show no emotion. The crime shocked South Africa which is hard to do as it is such a violent country. Also the emergency South African 911 type call is almost comedy from the operator's incompetence and Henri giggles on the call...🧐
The mom and/or brother probably saw him kill his wife.
Yes, imagine witnessing something like that. On such a small place like a boat, you know there'd be a fight for your life. The story reminds me a bit of the film Dead Calm".
Yes i agree thats why the Mother & son were murdered. Did Dr Grande mention the father of the family?
i know the "baby" was somehow drowned? The older lass survived. But when did the killer get the Dad? Did he say? (maybe i zoned out? lol)
It amazes me how you were able to get so much information in this case. Juillian was very sick, and maybe a sociopath plus other things. Wow that was unbelievable. Thank-you Dr. Todd, you are a very hard worker. I always enjoy your videos.💙🇨🇦💙🥧🍩
*Maybe * a sociopath??
My days are always great with you Doc!!! An eye opener to all the craziness out there… Thank you!! ❤️
I’ve always been fascinated by this story. Thank you for covering it
Julian was a very frightening monster time and time again, exponentially. I pray to God I never, ever meet someone like him and thank God if I have met someone like him , I survived. Bless Teri and her family, a true survivor!
Happy Thursday Dr. Grande! 🥳