It’s hell living with chronic OCD and battling it daily hoping that I will recover

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  • @Ciskuss
    @Ciskuss 2 місяці тому +58

    RIP Johnny thanks for everything. This world is so cruel and fucked up and our fragile hearts and minds suffer a lot

    • @infamous1454
      @infamous1454 2 місяці тому

      Wait what, why did you put RIP? Did Johnny pass away?

    • @Ciskuss
      @Ciskuss 2 місяці тому

      @infamous1454 yes unfortunately

    • @infamous1454
      @infamous1454 2 місяці тому

      @@Ciskuss, That's horrible, What happened?

    • @Spyro-
      @Spyro- 2 місяці тому +1

      @@infamous1454 He CTB'd.

    • @infamous1454
      @infamous1454 2 місяці тому

      @@Spyro-, ?

  • @BeneConfidenceCoaching
    @BeneConfidenceCoaching 2 місяці тому +32

    Johnny was one of my best mates and a coach mentor to me. He struggled with his mental health and had a breakdown in 2017 which he came back from, I worked closely with Johnny and he coached me and changed my life. He is the most generous, patient friend I have met and would always be there to listen. I miss the walks in the park and the long chats we had together. RIP Johnny I love you and you inspired me and many others I will never forget you ❤. Be fearless guys !

    • @AminaAmina-xq4bb
      @AminaAmina-xq4bb Місяць тому +2

      It's a disaster he's gone. I watched some of his PUA stuff over a decade ago, could be 14 years ago now. I really thought he was the most genuine guy and he mentioned being a follower of Jesus Christ which i also am so I always remembered him and would look him up from time to time but not in the last 7 years so i had no idea he was struggling so much... a few weeks ago his name popped into my head out of nowhere and i went to look him up and i saw that a few days earlier he had left us. It's just terrible and it seems he was under constant attack by darkness... i really pray that he has a place in Heaven waiting for him.
      🙏🙏

  • @michelbardini
    @michelbardini 2 місяці тому +17

    RIP Johnny, thanks for the help you gave me and the people around me. It was also a pleasure to meet you in 2018 at one of your st james park fearless events. You helped me and others become better men. We will miss you. Your legacy will live on.

  • @jinsakai2800
    @jinsakai2800 27 днів тому +4

    Truly heart breaking. R.I.P brother.

  • @Travelagainmike
    @Travelagainmike 2 місяці тому +31

    So sad to hear about the news. He was a great guy with a big heart. Met in London a couple of years ago when he was waiting for a client to meet up with. He reminded me of another person from UA-cam and so we started having a chat. He told me about his passion to help people who are struggling to speak to women or other humans in general.
    His videos and even his older ones that have been either privated or deleted from around 2011-2013 were all an inspiration and a help all at once. He was open about his failings in life and yet I would have never thought that a day would come where his life on earth comes to an end like this. May he find peace with our Lord Jesus and be always remembered by his family, his friends, his clients and everyone else he had inspired. Thank you John 😢

  • @rjflores438
    @rjflores438 2 місяці тому +30

    R.I.P Johnathan. Im so sorry you were in so much pain that you didnt want to live another day on this Earth. You will be missed by so many people.

  • @rickybobby8056
    @rickybobby8056 2 місяці тому +20

    I’m sorry for what you were going through Johnny, if you’re are suffering from mental health don’t suffer alone, reach out for help there are good people out there who care. From my perspective Johnny lived his passion and pursued what he loved. Much respect, with love from vancouver Canada.

  • @satnambhathe8552
    @satnambhathe8552 Місяць тому +7

    Johnny was one of my closet friends when I lived in London. I am absolutely heartbroken. Trust me when I say he was one of the kindest people I have met in my life a true biblical brethren who gave so generously as if everything belong to God. He was absolutely hilariously funny and witty and so much fun to be around. I really tried to bring him to church and disciple him through the scriptures. I tried reaching out a few times but he never got in touch and I am realising that it was all part of his illness. I know his Mother, Father and younger brother will be devastated. Johnny you were a true friend and in my eyes a legend. Love you always beloved brethren!

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo Місяць тому

      Sorry for your loss man, all our loss. RIP Johnny

    • @joshnreviews9988
      @joshnreviews9988 Місяць тому

      Thanks for sharing, Johnny was a great man. I’m halfway across the world but I would’ve loved to meet Johnny

  • @AISoundwave-d4d
    @AISoundwave-d4d 2 місяці тому +11

    Good luck on your eternal journey sir. You were a positive force in the world

  • @kovar2344
    @kovar2344 2 місяці тому +16

    Nooo Johnny! This cant be true. Your videos helped me a lot in my journey to overcome anxiety. You did it your own way and I respected you for that. Your og videos from way back were like a light of hope that made me realize I can improve my life and be able to talk to people around me. And helped me realize that I am a person worth of respect and attention from others. Rest easy you helped more people than you realized! Sending love to you and your family from Czech Rep.

  • @mrkingphil10
    @mrkingphil10 2 місяці тому +17

    Shocked and saddened by this!! I was depressed myself but I knew I could give more to this world. Johnny got me out of the house doing confidence building, approach anxiety challenges and eventually daygame. Thanks to Johnny I learnt how to deal with life. This news is a real kick in the balls! RIP Johnny

  • @geronimocochise2033
    @geronimocochise2033 2 місяці тому +17

    Jonathan, you were the most courageous person I’ve ever met. A true hero. You’ll never be forgotten.

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +3

      So sad man. I agree with you

  • @sarahclarke5103
    @sarahclarke5103 2 місяці тому +13

    Johnathan was a childhood friend, I am so sad to have learned of his passing and how he struggled so hard. He was a lovely boy, incredibly funny and always kind and he will be missed by all who knew him. My heart breaks for his family. God bless you Johnathan, may you now find the peace you were searching for.

    • @AliBhai-sl8gc
      @AliBhai-sl8gc Місяць тому

      Will u be there at the funeral x

  • @KingLeonidas29
    @KingLeonidas29 2 місяці тому +22

    R.I.P Brother - I remember the early days of my Daygame journey, your videos & advices have helped me immensely which I will never forget.

  • @msilence2009
    @msilence2009 2 місяці тому +11

    It's very sad to hear about what happened. Jonathan provided me with valuable advice for many years. I'm very grateful to him. Sending love and support to his family. Stay strong.
    M. from Ukraine.

  • @ryanhider2788
    @ryanhider2788 Місяць тому +3

    Johnny I’m so sorry you lost your battle with your demons your videos have helped me with mine you have helped so many people. RIP

  • @TheJohnCooperShow
    @TheJohnCooperShow 2 місяці тому +20

    Very sad. Clearly a guy that had authenticity

  • @gevryphosphor4761
    @gevryphosphor4761 2 місяці тому +12

    Truly a good man. I watched many of his videos since 2013 and was a follower of him on social media. I very sorry to hear his leave. RIP good man

  • @MrFatherJack
    @MrFatherJack 2 місяці тому +9

    I'm actually in complete disbelief, I discovered Johnny over 10 years ago now and his videos of his story of how he overcame his depression and developed his social skills where a huge inspiration too me and helped me out of my own dark place. His advice helped me alot with confidence with girls and got me to pluck up the courage to do some cold approaches of my own an I owe alot of my success in my dating life too him. I even once met him at one of his free events. I have always made sure to still check in on his channel over the years and I'm still finding it hard to comprehend that he is really gone 😢 R I P Johnny thankyou you will be missed

  • @SharonVillarreal-k7w
    @SharonVillarreal-k7w Місяць тому +52

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @GorgeTracy-d3v
      @GorgeTracy-d3v Місяць тому

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @SharonVillarreal-k7w
      @SharonVillarreal-k7w Місяць тому

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @GorgeTracy-d3v
      @GorgeTracy-d3v Місяць тому

      His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @GorgeTracy-d3v
      @GorgeTracy-d3v Місяць тому

      he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @SharonVillarreal-k7w
      @SharonVillarreal-k7w Місяць тому

      I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤

  • @italianstallion118
    @italianstallion118 2 місяці тому +7

    You are an inspiration. Thanks for sharing your journey and struggle for so many years. You helped me grow as a human being. Rest in peace Johnny.

  • @Doffman100
    @Doffman100 2 місяці тому +8

    A great guy and a genuinely helpful individual, you added tremendous value to my life during my early years of university. I wish your family comfort during this sad time and am grateful to have met you. RIP Johnny.

  • @blizzleceo
    @blizzleceo 29 днів тому +3

    Rip my G. In 2016 watched his videos, bought his $50 course, did the exercises, met a wonderful girlfriend, some of the happiest experiences of my life.

  • @bobbyyyy819
    @bobbyyyy819 2 місяці тому +26

    RIP Johnny, you definitely inspired me in a positive way and many others❤🙏

  • @Candyman00191
    @Candyman00191 2 місяці тому +15

    RIP Johnny, you were good genuine guy

  • @vafixer8885
    @vafixer8885 6 днів тому +1

    Seen you grow man and it hurts to see how it ended. Eye opening for everyone to keep their mental health in check and to hold people close around you, hurts me so much to see a guy I never met but followed for so long and gained alot from go like this.

  • @KLGroupUK
    @KLGroupUK 2 місяці тому +9

    Im so flipping gutted for you. You are a huge part of why I am where I am today. Thank you johnny for your impact. You truely are one of the angels on the side of good for so many of us men who struggled.
    You were an inspiration I'm so sorry you felt this was the only way out brother. Rest in peace.

  • @sm64no1LOL
    @sm64no1LOL 2 місяці тому +11

    Johnny I regret not messaging to ask how you were getting on these past few years. I'll never forget the time we spent when I met you in London. Very caring and genuine and you have me courage and allowed my sense of identity to approach people, particularly women that I never believed I would ever be able to do

  • @ryanalex3889
    @ryanalex3889 2 місяці тому +11

    RIP Johnny! You made a great contribution to the community. We crossed paths at certain points and definitely another one gone too soon.

  • @paawanstories9370
    @paawanstories9370 2 місяці тому +8

    One of the best… such a good man. Every time he spoke it was so genuine. I started watching his videos in 2013 to get material things, but what I remember 11 years later is how awesome he was and his group of followers was. We look forward to the destination, but remember the journey. Thanks Johnny, ur part of my journey and maybe one day I will listen to your live videos again.

  • @shanep8934
    @shanep8934 Місяць тому +4

    We have just gone into the new year "2025". I still think about you Johnny and your tragic departure from this world last year. My heart goes out to your family. I won't forget you mate. You are an eternal light! ✨

  • @romac9516
    @romac9516 2 місяці тому +12

    I see hundreds of people saying RIP. Many had a lot of love and respect for you for the help you have given them, be at rest now soldier

  • @BecksterLifestyle
    @BecksterLifestyle 2 місяці тому +9

    So sorry to hear the news. He was such a good lad. We lose too many PUAs with a good heart. RIP Johnny.

  • @Ally5325
    @Ally5325 2 місяці тому +5

    So sad..I still watched his videos to the end because he was a genuinely good guy who wanted to help others. Even if they were difficult to watch at the end because we could see he was struggling. A true man of the people who was a true warrior.

  • @tannerhazelbaker9069
    @tannerhazelbaker9069 2 місяці тому +7

    In reading all these comments, I really wish Johnny could have seen and felt this much love and appreciation, because there is a lot of people he positively impacted - including me, watching him many videos throughout the years he gave a ton of value and he had a lot of courage to put out the videos and content he did, I am surprised he didn't have 100ks subscribers and followers. Good man. Really sad day.

  • @obzenmeshuggah5912
    @obzenmeshuggah5912 2 місяці тому +10

    RIP Jonathan. It's a horrible shame you couldn't continue, may you soul find peace.

  • @AlexH-s7b
    @AlexH-s7b 2 місяці тому +8

    Rest in Peace Johnny, you inspired me to take action and better my life. I enjoyed working with you and attending the fearless events over the years. You taught me a lot and helped so many people. I always admired your honesty and courage. I am blessed to have met you, you changed my life. Thanks for everything, you will be missed.

  • @MachinesOfInterest
    @MachinesOfInterest 2 місяці тому +7

    I found Jonathon last year in my own struggle and often joined in on some of his morning live streams sometimes just me and him,I could sense he was being chased by his anxiety same as I am.Any way I checked in with him this morning after a while to this video.I am gutted he could not make it through I will carry on the fight Jonathan rest in peace my friend.

  • @transformwithtim
    @transformwithtim 2 місяці тому +10

    I remember first watching your videos in 2019, went was struggling with social anxiety, low-self esteem and depression. It was your videos that helped me get out of my shell, start approaching women, asking them out, and get my first ever date. I also so many great friends, thanks to your fearless events. You advice has inspired and helped so many guys. I love you and will never forget how you helped me. RIP Johnny ❤

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +1

      Thats really nice man. It's so sad, i wish he knew how many of us loved him

  • @ryangotto8393
    @ryangotto8393 11 днів тому +1

    Your anxiety videos resonated with me, I came from a similar dark place and you helped me find the path to a normal life. RIP Johnny

  • @alexm8949
    @alexm8949 2 місяці тому +7

    Rest in peace, you helped a lot of people.

  • @Peter-mb9mb
    @Peter-mb9mb Місяць тому +2

    RIP Johnny Berba.
    You were an inspiration to me with your social skills videos and your no-fear cold approaches. Now knowing what you were going through all these years shows how much you battled to keep putting yourself out there to overcome your own challenges.
    True to your character of always wanting to help others, this video will serve as a reminder to anyone struggling with mental health issues to know it's okay to speak about it and, most importantly, seek help/guidance.
    May your spirit live on in all you've inspired and that you're in peace now with our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ.

  • @matty85c
    @matty85c 2 місяці тому +5

    RIP Johnny, I followed you for years and can genuinely say you were a huge inspiration to me. Never got to meet you but you always came across as such a decent selfless fella. You'll be missed.

  • @andydefaoite2567
    @andydefaoite2567 Місяць тому +3

    You were an inspiration to me and thousands of other men. Your personality and genuine selflessness and love for helping others was in every single video. Your impact on the world was powerful and I will never forgot you for helping me at my lowest points. Rest in peace Johnny. See you on the other side brother ❤

  • @MinistryofFilms
    @MinistryofFilms 2 місяці тому +4

    Truly sad that it has come to this. You were a light in a dark place that we could come to when we needed help and inspiration. A beautiful kind soul. I am deeply sad that you are gone and grateful for your content. will miss seeing you on UA-cam. RIP mate.

  • @danhamtv774
    @danhamtv774 2 місяці тому +6

    RIP Top bloke. Met him for training in 2014. Great guy sad to see him go

  • @Return26-p4t
    @Return26-p4t 2 місяці тому +6

    Met you a decade ago, thank you for your words. RIP and thoughts with your friends and family.

  • @datingbyanson
    @datingbyanson 2 місяці тому +11

    RIP Johnny you got me started with self improvement so sad to hear this news, guy with good heart hope you find a good after life

  • @starcraftnewbie
    @starcraftnewbie 2 місяці тому +6

    RIP Johnny, you motivated me to stay positive when I was going through a tough time in my adolescence. Thank you for your positivity in the world. I'm sorry you're gone now

  • @kirbfx
    @kirbfx 2 місяці тому +12

    Johnny, I've worked with hundreds of people who are in similar situations. Almost all of the them have childhood trauma and disturbences that are at the root cause of the disorder. The most effective treatment is to let go of that trauma that has been trapped in the mind and nervous system for years. The Sedona Method is what I use with my patients. It's simple yet highly effective. Look up the documentary called Letting Go: The Sedona Method Movie. It explains the process.
    The answer is to welcome those negative thoughts and emotions, realize you arent those emotions, and then give yourself permission to let them go.
    OCD and trauma are not life sentences.

  • @mikegoodwin5951
    @mikegoodwin5951 2 місяці тому +6

    RIP John, I know how hard it can get brother. You seemed like good humble guy and I wish things could have been different. You will be missed brother

  • @Daneiladams555
    @Daneiladams555 2 місяці тому +4

    wow, this guy was a gem, wish he was still here, sad

  • @danielkerlin6411
    @danielkerlin6411 2 місяці тому +9

    Rip Johnny! You seemed like such a good guy!

  • @Gabriel-er8pp
    @Gabriel-er8pp Місяць тому +3

    You tried to use your darkness to bring light and help other people who were strangers. You are no longer suffering but this is so sad. God bless you. RIP.

  • @teacherjamesesl
    @teacherjamesesl 2 місяці тому +4

    Rest in Peace Johnny. Thank you for your videos, especially daygame back in the day. I live a better life now, thanks to you.

  • @jc3858
    @jc3858 2 місяці тому +9

    Oh man I’m absolutely gutted. It’s crazy because I haven’t seen Johnny’s videos in years and this one randomly popped up. I watched him all the time and other dating stuff around 2016 and met him aswell in London for one his group meet ups. Always seemed like such a nice guy and I actually suffer too from ocd so I know how it’s one of the worst mental
    Health disorders out there and I’m now 34 so was suffering very badly since 20 years old and wanted to take my own life many times. I was gonna recommend ocd recovery to Johnny because I had no idea he had it and only just found him again after all these years but also because they’ve helped me so much these past 2 years. Rip Johnny Berba 🙏🙏

  • @RedPillsAreGood
    @RedPillsAreGood 2 місяці тому +2

    Sad to hear what happened.. Johnny was a warrior. I guess in the end it became unbearable for him. He was appreciated and will be remembered. 🙏

  • @Vibethelife
    @Vibethelife 2 місяці тому +3

    RIP Johnny, I looked up to your content and it helped me along my journey.
    I always could relate to your struggles and it reminded me of myself.
    You made videos on sex addiction and porn addiction and I felt at times you shouldn’t have been so hard on yourself and understand that sex as a man with multiple partners is ok we are primal and it’s ok to have these impulses.
    I myself have tried to fight these impulses however I’ve come to the realisation with your passing that know one cares.
    Just live your life, do what you love coz if we are too hard on ourselves we are suppressing who we are.
    You taught me a lot and I love you man, thanks for everything.
    Oli

  • @ETAonTheEUC
    @ETAonTheEUC Місяць тому +2

    Man, I'm just finding out about this. I could tell he had a lot of mental issues through his videos. Regardless, he seemed like a kind person and it's always tragic to hear of such ends. I personally won't forget about Johnny.

  • @oneman9783
    @oneman9783 Місяць тому +1

    Johnny your kindness and strength of heart will be remembered always and in the lives of those who met you. We all wish we could have had that critical coffee talk reminding you of the sparks of hope in this life…and then maybe you could have been with us still, if we had said the right things, if we could have given the support back that you gave others whilst you felt the pain of the world. Thanks for being the light brother

  • @horner1641
    @horner1641 2 місяці тому +9

    I'm really sorry ur going through this man, you gotta fight the thoughts with your life. Like the thoughts are peasants and you're a king

  • @thepazidoshow3940
    @thepazidoshow3940 2 місяці тому +5

    RIP, one of the best coach ever, we will miss you bro

  • @jasherdollsunited
    @jasherdollsunited 2 місяці тому +19

    Jonathan, thank you for being there for me when i needed help with mommy. My last words to you will always be...I love you.

  • @craigkaveney857
    @craigkaveney857 Місяць тому

    RIP Johnny. Thank you for all the great videos and persistent passion on the topic of mental health and you made it your mission to help others through it.
    Truly a great man.

  • @SherrickDuncan
    @SherrickDuncan 2 місяці тому +15

    R I P Johnny Berba.
    You were an inspiration
    to Me many times.

    • @pauljensen4773
      @pauljensen4773 2 місяці тому

      Why is he called Johnny Berba instead of O'Halloran?

    • @hekikoka5792
      @hekikoka5792 2 місяці тому

      @@pauljensen4773Johnny was a born comedian . In 2008 me and him once went to a nightclub early in the evening and we were talking to the bouncer who was Algerian. I asked him if he was a “Berber” (an ethnic minority in Algeria) and he replied in disbelief with a contrived accent “how did you knoooow?! Yes we’re berrrbaa”
      Johnny found this hilarious, so much so that he adopted it as a moniker. That was 16 years ago.

  • @MrShadownex2
    @MrShadownex2 2 місяці тому +4

    RIP Johnny. My brother and I watched your content since 2014. You was such an inspiration for people who had anexity and for people who wanted to improve their lives.
    I'm truly grateful for discovering your channel and for the advice you provided.

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому

      Me too man since 2012. So grateful

  • @corriescrivener1937
    @corriescrivener1937 2 місяці тому +10

    I just got the news from my friend in his community . it's very sad because I live in Devon I never went to any of his gatherings but I used to go on Skype calls with him sometimes whenever he went live that includes UA-cam as well . I spent many years watching his videos learning from him and he will be very missed and .this also hits home because I also felt like this a couple of months ago luckily I knew what to do I rush myself to the hospital cuz I couldn't be bothered to live I'm fine now but it just goes to show that everybody needs to seek help if need be . all the best to his family in this hard time . let him rest with Jesus Christ for a while and then hopefully get reconnected into a lovely person on a new world .the universe is big and hopefully he will be happier on a different part of the universe . whether that be heaven or a different planet . rip Johnny😥😥

  • @ArkhanTheBlack
    @ArkhanTheBlack 2 місяці тому +3

    He was one of the few authentic and really good hearted people out there, it is so sad to know what happened. I've never met him personally but he was such a great inspiration, you could see from miles away he was true, so committed to help others and that he came from a place of suffering, battling his way through. This gave him so much sensibility and the strong will he had to help others.
    I remember i came across his videos some 10 years ago, literally the first videos i've seen on self development and approach anxiety. He was the first big inspiration for me, not only for what he did, but for how true he was: no marketing, no acting, just plain good advices and total dedication to help. He didnt deserve this, im so sad. But still i think he lived his life as a great man, and that's all that matters in the end.
    Thank you Johnny, you'll be always remembered

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +1

      Man. Exact same with me. 10 years ago. Was one of the first self help peeple i ever found. He was so soberly straightforward and honest, no marketing. I will live my life better in his honor.

  • @SocialStoicYouTube
    @SocialStoicYouTube 2 місяці тому +13

    RIP my friend. I have an extensive archive of footage showcasing Johnny's prime years, which we filmed together between 2011 and 2013. These clips capture his best daygame approaches and pranks, full of lightheartedness and fun. I'm thinking about uploading them-what are your thoughts?

    • @marcus2336
      @marcus2336 2 місяці тому +3

      Sounds a good idea, many would love to remember Johnny at his best and happiest. Keep me posted

    • @Travelagainmike
      @Travelagainmike 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes please ❤😢

    • @cyberprimo7947
      @cyberprimo7947 2 місяці тому +1

      It would be a tribute to his spirit. Do it bro

    • @JohnDoe-nt1sv
      @JohnDoe-nt1sv 22 дні тому

      Yes make a page and make a go fund me

  • @shockingbusiness
    @shockingbusiness 2 місяці тому +8

    RIP Johnny, this is very sad. I can't quite believe this news.

  • @ZackWilliams_TheProducer
    @ZackWilliams_TheProducer Місяць тому +1

    RIP Johnny, your videos gave me hope years ago when I found your channel, that I could overcome my anxiety/dissociation disorder and live my life. I am struggling yet again, but since that time I had many adventurous experiences meeting people and went far out of my shell, making “romantic connections” and the like. I will continue to fight and live the best life I can in your honor. The trauma I struggled with never went away, but I will never lose hope that I will overcome it. Thank you for all you did 🙏

  • @yojohnyyo
    @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +3

    Johnny, I've watched you for almost 10 years. You were the most brilliantly spoken man. We've interacted a few times in the comments and I've always wished you well. You were my friend and one of my oldest role models. I was just watching your video on comforting your father. You inspired me so much and were a role model. It's so sad that you're gone. Everyone shows their love after the fact. This is a stark reminder to show your love to people, you never know what they're feeling. His comment section was very inactive and now 113 comments. Thank you for everything Johnny Berba. Your effect on us will carry on. I would always return to your videos every here and there and always wished you well. May God rest your soul. You gave your gift to the Earth and now you must go. Rest in peace Johnny. God bless you.

  • @RustyShakleford1
    @RustyShakleford1 Місяць тому +3

    Just know your life had a positive impact and you didn't deserve to suffer like you did

  • @hymek7096
    @hymek7096 2 місяці тому +12

    This man was a warrior among men, a fighter to the bitter end .
    He helped so many men , even through just one video.
    I'm glad I got to meet him on several occasions and he was so humble and decent and always remembered me.
    We all must continue living each day to the best we know and enjoy each day on this planet for people like Johnny.
    Rest in peace Mr..

    • @JohnDoe-nt1sv
      @JohnDoe-nt1sv 22 дні тому

      Johnny was the best fighter I’ve ever seen

  • @phook85
    @phook85 2 місяці тому +20

    This is a reminder of why we should rely on God's Word instead of our own thoughts. Our emotions and minds can be unstable, like a rollercoaster of happiness and sadness.
    Jesus is the way and could have brought peace and victory over struggles like OCD.
    Rest in peace, Johnny.

    • @Easy_Now_Star
      @Easy_Now_Star 2 місяці тому

      No Sir, it's not Jesus, it's the God of Jesus you ask for help from!!

  • @i336tt9
    @i336tt9 Місяць тому +1

    I subscribed to Johnny at the age of 20 about 5 years ago. I recognized a lot in his story about social anxiety and depression it was a privilege to have found him. He helped me so much, I am so incredibly grateful to him, he was often the light in my darkness. I hope you have found your peace and you can erase yourself, but we will never forget you!!!! ❤️

  • @Brianthecitizenjournalist
    @Brianthecitizenjournalist 2 місяці тому +3

    I remember that I went on some of the first public group meetups of Fearless by Johnny Berba over 10 years ago.
    Johnny changed my life for the better and taught me not only how to approach women and ask for their numbers, but how to be more confident and just go for it. A LOT has changed from when I first went to those meet ups, thanks to Johnny. I can't believe he is gone. But Johnny's work on Earth has finished and God has given Johnny another task to save more people. ❤ RIP JOHHNY BERBA

  • @Tsourfetis
    @Tsourfetis 2 місяці тому +4

    Johnny was one of the real ones, may Jesus be on his side 😢

  • @masekin
    @masekin 2 місяці тому +1

    RIP Johnny, thanks for everything. I hope you are in a better place.

  • @Josephbyrnehistory
    @Josephbyrnehistory 2 місяці тому +13

    In 2019 when I was getting laser eye surgery I ended up messaging a load of people on Instagram because I was nervous, ironically the one person to respond was Jonathan. Someone I’d never met but followed him knowing him from UA-cam.
    He didn’t just send a message but two voice messages to help me. Says a lot about the man. Can’t imagine many other coaches doing it. I Just never realised how many inner demons he had. Looking back now it seems obvious given his previous posts, like everyone I just wish I could have helped. Rest in peace Johnny, you helped others I just wish someone could have helped you 😞

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +3

      Beautiful story man. We can all be a little more like him for the betterment of everyone. Such a sad loss

    • @Bullet-Tooth-Tony-
      @Bullet-Tooth-Tony- 2 місяці тому

      I don't know him but he sounded like a good down to earth bloke R.I.P

    • @infamous1454
      @infamous1454 2 місяці тому

      He did the same for me as well responding to my Instagram messages when everyone else left me on read. It just shows he truly cared about people and wanted to make a difference. He was an amazing person.

  • @JuanDavid-gt7gq
    @JuanDavid-gt7gq 2 місяці тому +2

    Johnny, I'm gonna miss you... I wish you had follow a different path.
    Rest in peace brother. Your advices were HUGE back in the day when I was justa a student without purpose in life.

  • @marcus2336
    @marcus2336 2 місяці тому +9

    I can't believe this, so incredibly sad. He's Been in the game uploading vids for decades, following always. I met him a few times last being in St James Park London where he held free sessions to give advice and was supportive and friendly. Suicide is happening far, far to often, particularly men in UK (remember Tom Torrero) - being let down by the system. Something is clearly very wrong in current society - too many reasons to cover here, but i will say being working class in the UK trying to make a living is a big battle on its own. Just on the suicide, i can see his last community post needing money just 5 days ago - it happened moments after that, how? I was thinking to help out financially but would torment me if over think this - did anybody donate something? RIP Johnny with Love Always ❤🙏✝️

    • @corriescrivener1937
      @corriescrivener1937 2 місяці тому +1

      although I haven't really watched his videos in a while because I've been learning from Corey Wayne I do have history from learning from Johnny in the early days of my time on the internet . may he rest in peace and wherever he ends up may he have a better life in the next one😊😊😥😥

  • @gammergq9741
    @gammergq9741 2 місяці тому +2

    Sad loss to the world a good vibe use to like seeing him go on the pull in the early to mid 10's
    R.I.P Johnny

  • @LuminousNightWorld
    @LuminousNightWorld 2 місяці тому +4

    RIP Brother. I had the good fortune to meet you once, recognising you from UA-cam… you helped me and you cared. Sometimes it’s those in the most pain who give their all to help others, as they know how dark it can be and don’t want to see others suffering.
    You were a kind, selfless person who truly cared.
    We discussed the dark times in life, which I was dealing with at the time. You tried to talk me off the ledge and I will always remember your final words to me, particularly now. I did not foresee this happening to you, as although you opened up to me about your past days near the edge, you seemed solid and positive that day in the early summer. Looking at recent videos, maybe it wasn’t just the usual theme of anxiety etc on this channel, but cries for help. I’m sorry you were suffering. You had a lot more to give to the world. This is a real tragedy.

  • @Armando316
    @Armando316 2 місяці тому +2

    RIP Johnny. You were a beautiful soul and there’s not enough people like you. I hope you’re at peace. See you on the other side, my friend. ❤🙏🏼😔

  • @joshnreviews9988
    @joshnreviews9988 Місяць тому

    Johnny thank you! I actual am starting my own coaching thing for anxiety and gut issues thanks to learning from people like you. You were one of the first life coaches I ever watched like 7 years ago? Wow. Rest in peace big man 🙏🙏

  • @JasonOfWales
    @JasonOfWales 2 місяці тому +5

    choked. rest inn peace bro.. you were a good egg

  • @mynickname123456
    @mynickname123456 2 місяці тому +3

    All this time were walking in a Dark Forest , it must have been really tough .
    Thanks for everything .

  • @TheMan-my1nw
    @TheMan-my1nw 8 годин тому

    I just got the news now about his passing which is very sad. As someone who watched his channel for 12 years Johnny was one of the few who was a genuine person who cared about people and a real inspiration for men. It’s devastating it ended this way.
    I miss you Johnny and thanks for all your work and videos helping others.
    R.I.P Johnny.

  • @Ghostrex101
    @Ghostrex101 2 місяці тому +2

    Rest in Peace Jonathan. I never knew you, but you seemed like a amazing person.

  • @aidanm4211
    @aidanm4211 2 місяці тому +4

    Bless you brother! ❤️☘️

  • @nickb-vd5nf
    @nickb-vd5nf 2 місяці тому +3

    I can't believe it, this is so incredibly sad. We never met, but I felt like I knew you through your UA-cam videos. RIP Johnny.

    • @yojohnyyo
      @yojohnyyo 2 місяці тому +1

      Same here man. So sad

  • @bigmanfrank5708
    @bigmanfrank5708 2 місяці тому +5

    Hey Jonathan I hope all goes well on your recovery you have come a long way battling your fears and struggles and I will be hear routing for you mate 🙏

    • @pauljensen4773
      @pauljensen4773 2 місяці тому +2

      Assume you heard he's gone now?

    • @bigmanfrank5708
      @bigmanfrank5708 2 місяці тому +4

      @ yes I have very sad the way it happened not good at all

  • @guusgeluk3693
    @guusgeluk3693 2 місяці тому +6

    just watched the full video after hearing about his passing. rip johnny. Someone you know might be struggling and you would have no clue. looking at him here having almost a 30 minute talk without edits, cuts and talking straight from the heart, living a very healthy lifestyle etc you would never have a clue how bad his mental health would be would he not haven spoken about it. i'm sorry you didn't get the help you needed and I hope you found peace.

    • @bobbyyyy819
      @bobbyyyy819 2 місяці тому

      Rip, what video did you watch? I havent seen it

    • @guusgeluk3693
      @guusgeluk3693 2 місяці тому +1

      @bobbyyyy819 I meant I watched this video after I heard, it's his most recently posted video and wanted to hear his thoughts and see where he was at.

    • @bobbyyyy819
      @bobbyyyy819 2 місяці тому

      @@guusgeluk3693 oh okay

  • @Me-ji2pn
    @Me-ji2pn Місяць тому +2

    He got bullied by other males (his father and male peers) which caused deep trauma anxiety. Male bullying creates fight flight and fawn anxiety response. So every time u think about fact bullies are out there you get anxiety response. So u often get it for life. You also then self sabotage to please bullies which reduces ur anxiety. His over exercise with long distance running could be seen as self sabotage and punishing himself. It does distract from anxiety but at his age would have made him feel drained.

    • @23muffin
      @23muffin 29 днів тому +1

      Is Johnny's dad alive? Did they ever reconcile? Johnny was a great guy, really sad he went out the way he did.

  • @shaneambrose349
    @shaneambrose349 2 місяці тому +1

    RIP Johnny, one of the first few PUA i found when i was a teen you helped me a lot. you’ll be missed

  • @hzskillz1721
    @hzskillz1721 2 місяці тому +1

    RIP Johny you really gave me hope while i was in a dark place in my life!

  • @infamous1454
    @infamous1454 2 місяці тому +7

    It can be a living hll having ocd, people who dont have it will never understand. Its a constant battle with your mind everyday. Your mind will try to convince you that your this person even though your not and the horrble thing is your mind will start to believe/convince you that your that person. Also you will battle horrible instrusive thoughts that come out of knowhere. People think ocd is mainly being too clean and making sure everything is organized, but thats only a small part of ocd. I wouldnt wish this mental condition on my worst enemy.

  • @rehone
    @rehone 2 місяці тому +7

    Very sad news. RIP Johnny.

  • @habanero6332
    @habanero6332 Місяць тому

    I have seen your videos periodically and have been really pleased to see you evolve into realising authenticity is the key. You actually became the best coach out of all of them. I was horrified to hear of your passing and it is so sad. You still continue to encourage others while you are going through your own hell. I go through this a lot and I know what hell it is. I really wish you had reached out to someone. I am sure many people will benefit from your experience in the future.❤❤❤

    • @SK-hx5mb
      @SK-hx5mb Місяць тому +2

      he reached out to the whole world and asked for help on his community post, that he needs money for his treatment. People failed him, so many people reach out now but not when he needed them. This is the ugly truth - that no one gave a fuck

    • @habanero6332
      @habanero6332 Місяць тому

      @ That’s really terrible. I wish I had seen it.