Days of Our Wives 5: Slipping Into the Abyss

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2018
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 188

  • @hmmmm.
    @hmmmm. 5 років тому +192

    Niko's Italian from New Jersey shined through wonderfully with "a beautiful spaghetti dinner."

    • @onlyAerik
      @onlyAerik 5 років тому +18

      LOL It was a whole story about Niko's parents trying to impress one of their bosses with a beautiful spaghetti dinner, and little Niko the dream master comes in and ruins it with her epic clacker skills.

    • @hmmmm.
      @hmmmm. 5 років тому +3

      @@onlyAerik I feel like we all have lived a variation of that lmao

  • @yourgothmom
    @yourgothmom 5 років тому +142

    Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our wives...

    • @onlyAerik
      @onlyAerik 5 років тому

      OH I should've thought of that from the first episode. Quality.

  • @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango
    @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango 5 років тому +92

    This should be a podcast!!

    • @moonzalera202
      @moonzalera202 5 років тому +4

      i was thinking the exact same thing! i realised i was watching these whilst i was doing chores or reading because its lovely to just listen to in the background!

    • @kyootkitteh
      @kyootkitteh 5 років тому +5

      I never listen to podcasts though 😩 I'm much more likely to see/listen to this as a UA-cam thing

    • @vergil1088
      @vergil1088 5 років тому

      Kikiwannabanana Watermelonmango oyo

    • @vergil1088
      @vergil1088 5 років тому

      ppplk

  • @thetrashcollector853
    @thetrashcollector853 5 років тому +82

    I live for these videos 💕💕 makes me feel like there's people in the world like me. Loads of love 🎃💕🎃

  • @lilbeefchop5845
    @lilbeefchop5845 5 років тому +28

    "That's good I'm gonna drag them all with me." *stares directly into the souls of everyone who has watched this cursed video* Love you guys!

  • @sarahglenn6874
    @sarahglenn6874 5 років тому +38

    Niko is such a wonderful woman, she really touched my heart in this video. Love y’all 💕

    • @michikomanalang6733
      @michikomanalang6733 5 років тому +5

      I know?? I've got such a crush. What a gorgeous human being.

  • @Astridologist
    @Astridologist 5 років тому +54

    I love the little bit y’all do before the intro to each episode. Also loving the closeups on Niko’s confused face from from the past few episodes

  • @Mintfaery
    @Mintfaery 5 років тому +52

    I love offering a safe place for people to celebrate the holidays 💖 Being able to give people a fun, accepting environment is a life goal of mine.
    I did the same thing after my ex and I broke up. Just, everything that I ever wanted. Every hair color, every pastel piece of clothing, every cute girl, hahaha!

  • @larsschissler1111
    @larsschissler1111 5 років тому +15

    The "that was for you Lauren" threw me off so much lol

  • @moolikeachicken
    @moolikeachicken 5 років тому +22

    The convo at 6:00 is very #relatable. 2 years my life was SO. DIFFERENT. In the worst way. Looking back, it's hard to believe life is so great now???? If I would have told myself then that life would be like this now, I probably would never have believed it.

  • @damascus21
    @damascus21 5 років тому +29

    "you know the one with the two balls and you clack em" --ALB, 2018

    • @onlyAerik
      @onlyAerik 5 років тому

      their names: ben and wa

  • @lururumakes5854
    @lururumakes5854 5 років тому +15

    Since the last video "Just Keep Showing Up" has been really working for me 😉

  • @ceeaich
    @ceeaich 5 років тому

    Preach. Having to separate yourself from junky family members is hard, especially when you don't have support from others.

  • @laurenfeinman4802
    @laurenfeinman4802 5 років тому +14

    my name is Lauren. I love teen girl squad. I'm 99% sure that I am not they Lauren they are talking to, but it definitely creeped out my brain when they said my name.

  • @ArielLVT
    @ArielLVT 5 років тому +1

    Hey Josh!
    Definitely go out and do what makes you happy! It'll make you a vibrant, interesting, attractive person. However, I would add... use dating apps, but date smart.
    1. Use OkCupid, not Tinder (OkCupid is based on values, interests and life goals, not just appearance)
    2. Be selective about who you actually go on dates with. Go on a date *because* you feel a connection not *to* feel a connection
    3. Always have a phone with your date before meeting up. Texting chemistry does not always = chatting chemistry. Talking on the phone first will save both of you an awkward first date!
    4. And just to contradict Angeline's and Niko's advice a bit... don't look for dates at events not intended for dating. It can be really awkward, especially for women, when an individual shows up at a game night looking to play Agricolo only to have a stranger hitting on them. However, if it happens organically then more power to ya!

  • @jayweasley
    @jayweasley 5 років тому +24

    So my parents announced that they’re getting a divorce the day I got into grad school (I’m 24....they were married 35 years) so I’m in this weird changey time of life and it’s making me feel weird about the holidays. But I just got engaged to my long time gf so I will get to be with her even if she works most of the day........I’m happy to think about next year and how much better it will be. Or in 2 years! And also days of our wives gives me the most life of anything ever

    • @annieisodd
      @annieisodd 5 років тому +2

      jayweasley Dang thats a lot of bad and good going on at once!! Huge congrats on grad school, that’s amazing!! My parents got divorced two years ago but it was a good thing in our situation so it’s a hard one to think about from other people’s shoes! I’m proud of you ❤️ the next 80 years of your life will be amazing and full of good and bad but mostly good and the bad will be learned from!! Go get that grad degree!

    • @jayweasley
      @jayweasley 5 років тому

      @@annieisodd thank you for this super nice comment! it's very much appreciated

  • @NoisyButters
    @NoisyButters 5 років тому +5

    thank yall for the warm and happy vibes to start my day 💖

  • @sarahv8043
    @sarahv8043 5 років тому +1

    Your hair is a mountain of cotton candy on your head and I love it so much 💖

  • @lavender2707
    @lavender2707 5 років тому +30

    just what i needed! this is the best show on youtube

  • @julialikeskittles
    @julialikeskittles 5 років тому +1

    the way ang and niko look at each other is so tender and sweet, they listen to each other so intently and it's the sweetest thing to witness!

  • @pocketmarrow
    @pocketmarrow 5 років тому

    ended on the perfect moment - that turn and stare to camera cracked me up

  • @shleighmonster233
    @shleighmonster233 3 роки тому

    "if you listen to Paul Rudd's advice you will get married by Mario at the Pizza Smash Bros Emporium" 😂 I love you both so much you're great, plus this is advice I really needed

  • @fhgirl28
    @fhgirl28 5 років тому +5

    My friend and I always refer to this time of year as "hand-cuffing season" lol (which I think is a 'real' term she didn't make up.) It's when a lot of single people will look for relationships so they're not alone during holidays, then cut it off just after the beginning of January - and it's not always a conscious decision.
    You both are so beautiful 😭💗 I love these episodes!

  • @LP-rc8kr
    @LP-rc8kr 5 років тому +3

    i don't often comment on youtube videos because i feel like my comments will be lost in the sauce, but this series has been so special to me that i try to comment every time so even if you don't read it, you know that it's being enjoyed.
    i've been fightin' with my S.A.D and i had a particularly hard day with it today.. i was literally JUST wondering if volunteering might help me find fulfillment during my winter blues. this video was so helpful to me and felt like one of those spooky SIGNS FROM THE UNIVERSE. thank you guys. seriously.

  • @knightparty4251
    @knightparty4251 5 років тому +9

    You two make me believe in love 😭💓

  • @bethanclaireprice7835
    @bethanclaireprice7835 5 років тому +3

    I found the first couple of years after I moved to Canada, whenever I got sick it took me a long time to fully shake it off. I think your immune system gets sorta localized so if you move to a new place, your body needs to adjust a little bit so it takes you longer to recover from colds. Anyway, I hope you feel better soon Niko!

  • @bluer.blues.
    @bluer.blues. 24 дні тому

    I miss this so much

  • @laurarose1259
    @laurarose1259 5 років тому +12

    We never go out for new years. I don't like people haha. But we always have it as a cosy us night where we watch films, have take away and be cosy and then at midnight we open the window and let the new year in (that's a weird thing mum does so I now do it haha) but I love it because it's just us together 😁

    • @sinlobo84
      @sinlobo84 5 років тому

      I find it charming that tradition, thanks for sharing and have a good day!

    • @laurarose1259
      @laurarose1259 5 років тому +1

      Thanks! You too 😃😃

    • @jellyacc
      @jellyacc 5 років тому

      Go watch a movie! Its nice, completely empty.

  • @7skyhorse
    @7skyhorse 5 років тому +1

    I love you two so much

  • @dannika8897
    @dannika8897 5 років тому

    At the beginning you’re Harry Potter ruining the line to Vernon Dudley’s Japanese golfer joke 😂😂 I LOVE these videos! As someone still in a long distance relationship I hope I get to where you guys are together💖

  • @ChelShell95
    @ChelShell95 5 років тому +1

    My boyfriend and I met on tinder and are currently buying a house together and planning to get married. We are so perfect for each other it’s kind of hilarious. I suggest tinder to everyone and just remind them to keep their expectations low😂

  • @psycherevivedby
    @psycherevivedby 5 років тому

    I love how much Niko pays attention to you when you're talking. She really listens and looks at you I love it

  • @faywin
    @faywin 5 років тому +3

    THANK YOU for the teen girl squad reference hello 2004

  • @angelajohnson7834
    @angelajohnson7834 5 років тому +3

    This series is the best thing on the internet ever

  • @katiegraczyk5759
    @katiegraczyk5759 5 років тому

    You both are amazing. So real, lovely and loving. It's so great to see. Keep on keepin' on!

  • @thecuteintrovert
    @thecuteintrovert 5 років тому +2

    I divorced in May and since I separated from my ex I have been doing more for myself! I've been traveling (going to Salem, MA next week), going to the movies or dinner by myself and saying yes more often when I get invited to do stuff. I have done more in 15 months than I have in the 10+ years I was with the ex. It's a trying time for me, but I think I'm doing pretty good for myself. Thank you for the reminder!

  • @jadeisntcoool
    @jadeisntcoool 5 років тому +2

    when you've been following alb for so long 24:21 makes sense to you lol

  • @asmokeus
    @asmokeus 5 років тому +1

    trans folks from jersey have a special kind of heart about us, if u ask me. thank u both for helping me heal my heart today i love u moms

  • @camahtadore7791
    @camahtadore7791 5 років тому

    You both make my fucking day, thank you for being such wholesome, wonderful, kind people

  • @Bimbolobotomy
    @Bimbolobotomy 5 років тому +4

    Tysm for making this video.... Ty for talking about difficult situations surrounding holidays etc. I have soooo much trauma surrounding Christmas and I feel like every year I just dread it and I always have REALLY bad anxiety & panic attacks this time of year. I feel like... I can't celebrate a holiday I love and that I'm not allowed to enjoy it because of what other people have chose to do to me. It's so shitty to have to think like that. It's so nice and reassuring to hear that it doesn't have to be that way forever and one day it won't be something terrible and scary. Idk I am v bad at explaining things sry lol but this made me feel... Good.

    • @annieisodd
      @annieisodd 5 років тому +2

      Ruelay xo I’m proud of you!!! That’s so hard because the world goes HARD for the holidays and really throws it in your face every chance it gets. I believe in you and hopefully eventually it’ll fade and you can enjoy the weather and the lights. Until then, screw Christmas! It’s all capitalism and inaccurate Christian symbolism anyway. You got this!!

    • @Bimbolobotomy
      @Bimbolobotomy 5 років тому

      @@annieisodd Ty for the kind words!!!! Xo

  • @kalebh3419
    @kalebh3419 5 років тому +2

    I...I GOT THAT HOMESTAR REFERENCE!

  • @isa0ber
    @isa0ber 5 років тому

    hey um so i just subscribed even though i have known about this channel for many years now. i've been catching up on your videos and this series in particular is really heartwarming. i'm in a tough spot in my life and it feels like the weight of the world is laying on my chest at all times but when i watch u two chat it reminds me of how important and beautiful love and friendship are. i'm a silly billy so i've been powering through laughing so not to cry too much and i've been loving giggling with u. i'm gay and i've never been in a healthy relationship so these are especially endearing. thank you for sharing these moments online, they're very special to me

  • @shleighmonster233
    @shleighmonster233 3 роки тому

    I don't think you'll ever understand how happy it made me to hear you reference teen girl squad, I love you guys so much so so so much I hope that I can one day have a relationship like yours. For now I just get to enjoy seeing you guys interact 😁💞💞💖💖💖

  • @tabatharich
    @tabatharich 5 років тому +3

    I’m so so glad for this series, its something that I continue to look forward to so much 💕

  • @konya1563
    @konya1563 5 років тому

    I think this is my favorite UA-cam video

  • @cindylopez3395
    @cindylopez3395 5 років тому +9

    Finally!! i kept checking lol im like "its been a week ill just rewatch the other videos" i felt the video coming. Overall..its a good day today 😅

  • @kaylamhall750
    @kaylamhall750 4 роки тому

    I love how they can make any topic/question super conversational. I just love them both so much 😩❤

  • @mariaalexandra27
    @mariaalexandra27 5 років тому

    “The last couple of days”
    “Actually it’s been a week and a half”
    I love you guys

  • @christinewyrd2364
    @christinewyrd2364 5 років тому +3

    Love these! 💕💕💕💕 Also, I love going to the movies by myself...but eating dinner by myself feels weird. Haha

  • @mariaalexandra27
    @mariaalexandra27 5 років тому

    I already love the dark vs pastel aesthetic that you guys have but I especially love the dainty cherries vs stripes it’s a very cute balance

  • @hannsolo8
    @hannsolo8 5 років тому

    I absolutely adore you guys. you bring out so much in eachother. Hahah. Love it

  • @jankoraven
    @jankoraven 5 років тому

    @24:15 My day is MADE

  • @Adriem86
    @Adriem86 5 років тому +1

    Yes Niko! I absolutely go to the movies by myself all the time 😄

  • @Darkmoon482
    @Darkmoon482 5 років тому

    "Put your arm back around me!!!!"
    "Oh ok"
    So cute lol!

  • @HerbalHag
    @HerbalHag 5 років тому

    I loooove how you and Nico are constantly setting up cute little scenarios.. 'boss's spaghetti dinner... oh yeah with the click clacker.." I do that often with my SO and it is comforting to knowing other couples do this tooooo!

  • @mooselikesjuice
    @mooselikesjuice 5 років тому +2

    This is the best series. I love it.

  • @priscillaroseauthor
    @priscillaroseauthor 5 років тому +6

    My heart is happy!!

  • @katie-vq4op
    @katie-vq4op 5 років тому +1

    Every video you angels make fills me with joy !! Thank you SO MUCH for taking the time out of your days to do these videos !!

  • @jaclynd6133
    @jaclynd6133 5 років тому +2

    Okay but where is my "keep showing up" shirt? I love these vids so much, you guys are the best 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @CommonSandpiper
    @CommonSandpiper 5 років тому +1

    i hope you feel better soon, niko!
    i really appreciate y'all's message on family and holidays being what you make.

  • @Eevee_gg
    @Eevee_gg 5 років тому

    Thank you for these gorgeous videos 💕 I love listening to these little bits of your lives, and feel lucky that you choose to share them with us all!

  • @vickisigh2674
    @vickisigh2674 5 років тому +4

    awww i love this series soo much thanks so much for continuing to do it! i hope nico feels better soon! ;-;

  • @digimaui
    @digimaui 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for making these videos, I enjoy them immensely 💕

  • @AnimeGirl823
    @AnimeGirl823 5 років тому +8

    I’m 21 and never been in a relationship, atm I’m kinda in between watching dramas and idolizing to be in a relationship and also thinking I don’t need no man lol (just not really caring that I’m not in a relationship) but I have no friends to hang out with and being kinda down about the whole situation but honestly wanting to take your advice just not knowing what to do that peaks my interest to go out to do (I’m also a homebody lol)

  • @rosebadwolf6747
    @rosebadwolf6747 5 років тому

    These just keep getting more adorable. Thank you so much for sharing these bits of life with us ❤

  • @sempervirensssp
    @sempervirensssp 5 років тому

    these are such a joy! I love listening to these over makeup/coffee time in the morning, you two are delightful :)

  • @glutenfreedaddy480
    @glutenfreedaddy480 5 років тому +1

    Feel better soon sweet mama Niko! ❤️

  • @Jerrytheworm
    @Jerrytheworm 5 років тому +3

    You guys are so cute omg. Thanks for that single advice btw!

  • @pacetivity
    @pacetivity 5 років тому

    I love this series! Both of y’all are so effing funny and seem like overall great people

  • @madilovezyooh
    @madilovezyooh 5 років тому

    I was in a really bad mood and then I watched this video. I love how positive you’re videos always are and how you guys interact it’s so cute ❤️

  • @kromeriffic978
    @kromeriffic978 5 років тому

    Ahh, this was so much fun to watch. Happy Abyss-Falling!

  • @lifeafterfailure9597
    @lifeafterfailure9597 5 років тому

    I love these videos! I get so excited when I see you guys post!!!!

  • @missbananasmith7762
    @missbananasmith7762 5 років тому +19

    Would you guys ever consider starting a podcast? I love these! I would love to listen to them at work ☺️

  • @rvsalka
    @rvsalka 5 років тому

    oh yes, drinking makes family events with terrible ppl so much better. pour me that mead (my weird drink of choice, don't judge) and let me live.

  • @eristar3832
    @eristar3832 5 років тому

    I needed to hear some of these things, thank you. Love your videos!

  • @lilyoftheveil666
    @lilyoftheveil666 5 років тому

    This was good and pure and made me feel things

  • @99schoi
    @99schoi 5 років тому

    I really enjoy these videos because the love you two share is so evident in the way you interact and even just look at each other. I am very *moved*

  • @danellparkhurst2918
    @danellparkhurst2918 5 років тому

    You two bring so much happiness together. Love your positivity. Get better Niko.

  • @dixonirene1790
    @dixonirene1790 5 років тому

    this made my day so much better 💖

  • @ICantFlyAKite
    @ICantFlyAKite 5 років тому

    I absolutely love this videos. I’ve been watching ALB for forever, but having Niko in the mix just brings a smile to my face in every video. I love you guys!

  • @amyfrancis8941
    @amyfrancis8941 5 років тому

    I wait all week for these videos! Yay! X

  • @oxpoisongirlxo8509
    @oxpoisongirlxo8509 5 років тому

    I love how in sync you both are. So glad you both chose to do this series!!! Miss you on ASMR though ALB 🖤🖤

  • @KaraCroft
    @KaraCroft 5 років тому

    The beginning of this was pure gold lmao. You two are perfect together ❤😍

  • @dreyhamilton5341
    @dreyhamilton5341 5 років тому

    Please keep making these videos! Makes my day every time.

  • @junomance
    @junomance 5 років тому

    love these so much

  • @joshs3718
    @joshs3718 5 років тому +5

    Hey thanks for answering! You guys made my day! Best series on UA-cam. And I don't hate those answers. Do you have the number for the Pizza Parlor & Smash Bros. Emporium?

  • @susieward3990
    @susieward3990 5 років тому

    I love you guys with all of my heart 💞

  • @c333th
    @c333th 5 років тому

    I love these videos so much :3 its like yall are chattin w me in my livingroom or somethin yknow :D

  • @oliviahancock2274
    @oliviahancock2274 5 років тому

    Thank you for “keep showing up” I am having such a hard time with that. I just got out of this pretty abusive relationship yesterday FINALLY and I really hope things are soooo different a year from now. Maybe even a month from now! :) thanks for these videos I look forward to them so much every week. I love you guys.

  • @beebeardia
    @beebeardia 5 років тому

    Good holiday advice from Nico :)

  • @jessicavanik6040
    @jessicavanik6040 5 років тому

    Feel better Niko!

  • @noel42069
    @noel42069 5 років тому

    Yayayayayayy I love these two

  • @FernandaGarcezC
    @FernandaGarcezC 5 років тому

    Solid advice and thoughts there :), I have been thinking about that exact subject last month and got to the same conclusion.

  • @maevefearne
    @maevefearne 5 років тому

    you said magic the gathering and i was like: !!!!!!
    excite.
    many love, you guys are great

  • @lesbianstrawbie
    @lesbianstrawbie 5 років тому

    Idk why but this went by soooo fast for me 😭 Loved it as always 💕

  • @alissapurplebunnies5955
    @alissapurplebunnies5955 5 років тому

    I love y'all ♡

  • @Lisaerien
    @Lisaerien 5 років тому

    Niko is very funny when she's sick lol, loved this episode !

  • @watchcloudspassmeby
    @watchcloudspassmeby 5 років тому

    Soooooo cute! You two make my day 💕

  • @8BitKirsty
    @8BitKirsty 5 років тому

    Ok love you both so much. Not suggesting that you dive into all the really common/boring tags and YT trends, but i would LOVE to see yall do each others makeup or somethin 💕💕💕

  • @AriaAsacura
    @AriaAsacura 5 років тому

    god i love these videos