I agree with you with some women, but don’t label all women this way because I would not do that. My kid has been a brat and I said him in his place sometimes the grandparents are at fault.!!! my point is don’t generalize not all women are jerks and go out and sleep with the guy just because they didn’t get their way that is absurd and she is a fruit on the tree. She’s not a classy woman at all.!!!
I came so close in my mid thirties to getting into a LTR with a single mom who had a 14 year old son. One day she had asked me to come over and as I got to her place she was unloading groceries from her car. I grabbed two armfuls to help out and said to her son “You should help your mom.” He immediately gave me the “You are not my father” bullshit. I finished helping carry in the groceries, hopped in my truck and drove away. Completely ghosted her. Ran into her a couple of years later and the pride thing was still with her. She went off on how I had no right to ask her son to do anything. I replied that is why her and I couldn’t have a relationship. No way I take shit from a snot nosed punk.
@@THamm-xt8jm clearly your just like the son, heres how: since when is bad behaviour and rudeness acceptable? oh wait, when kids are raised badly, that cant be the fault of single mother's can it? i wonder whose fault it is then? according to you, its the innocent man who wants to rescue this mother's collapsing family. solution: punish the right, praise the wrong. its insane you people!
My ex wife didn't work. I took care of all the bills, was the breadwinner, took her on several vacations each year. But she refused to do my laundry because of her feminist indoctrination. The crazy part is that her separating her laundry from mine actually ended up being more effort than just doing it all in bulk.
You weren't "that guy" for her. I've had a full on feminist calling me daddy and saying she wants me to own her. She always thought such things were ridiculous until she started talking to me. I'm that guy for her. Yes, even feminists will submit.
Rich, you're hitting on so many key topics lately, man.... Great work. This girl you describe is now my ex. I asked her to start paying her portion of rent. I also made it clear that I was not going to share her in salsa clubs. She didn't respect the boundaries. She said she wanted a "provider," in exchange for nothing. And, I said nope, not going to happen anymore. I had provided enough. One month later, she's now living in the back of a shared space with 2 random roommates, paying rent there, technically owes me money for rent and other things, and is back to clubbing with her single broke friends who all have broken relationships, and she's on dating apps. Men need to realize that there are not many high value women on dating apps looking for someone else to make up for her bad financial decisions. Never live with a woman you are dating. Do NOT DO IT. That's a topic for another day. Raise your standards, men. Do not let these women walk all over you and own you. Stop sponsoring them for sex. Stop it. She must bring value and be able to provide for herself. You are more than a wallet. The most feminized women will talk about how they are independent and all of this nonsense, and at the end of the day, they're depending on men 100% of the time. Same about cutting the grass. Good story man. Great content in general man. Spot on. Pride leads women into poverty, broken relationships, divorces, as well as a life of bad decisions. Great topic.
She didn’t sound like she had much going on for herself at her age. I started seeing a lot of college grad women like this about 15 years ago. They don’t have a sense of urgency. They have no idea what awaits them in 40 years.
I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to become celibate, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is sooooo much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.
My husband just bought us a beautiful brand new house recently. I’m a stay at home mom, we don’t have any appliances yet, so I’ve been taking our laundry across town to a laundromat once a week and I spend about $30 each time. It’s about 6-8 loads because we are a family of 4. It’s not ideal but it’s what I do! Because I’m grateful that we have a beautiful new house and in time we will be able to afford a washer and dryer ♥️ also, I’ve been doing my husband’s laundry for 24 years and for 15 years before we had our children.
if sh'es making $75k a year, ill need to be making 10x that for her not to chip in on some of the bills, food costs etc. jeez, some men simply allow themselves to be doormats.
True that. Yrs ago my woman chose to stop working. I said to her, now that I pay 100% of the bills, you now work for me. I'm willing to forgive mistakes & the occasional bad day. But I have no patience left for being treated as a doormat. We are still together after several decades.
@@Ace.0.0.0. Good on you man. Yeah, she got the "hint" that she needed to contribute something for the relationship to work, and it appears she did. Some to many women seem to think that all she needs to offer is: to look good when going out as a "trophy wife", give up the ya-ya in bed, and other companionship (offering her time). thats it. all the domestic stuff needs to be done by maids and stuff i guess.
@@Gizziiusa I didn't give her any hint. I was polite, honest, and direct. And, I have the spine to enforce my reasonable boundaries. She tested my resolve. And with her in the same room, I started scanning the 'net for a new place to live. When she asked me what I was doing, I told her exactly what I was doing, and why. I also said I would stop looking if she gave me a legit apology for her behavior, with no ifs, ands, or buts. And she must give me a reasonable assurance it would not happen again. Faced with these options, she gave me a legit apology. Since that day, her testing has reduced exponentially. I have discovered that when a woman tests a man, she is asking "can I depend on you?'" Women want (& need) a man they can count on. I demonstrated that I meant what I said. Not following through would tell her (& others) that at best, I was not reliable, or at worst, I was deliberately being dishonest. Neither is a good look to wear. We are all walking billboards, in that everything we say and do shows people who we are. When I make a mistake, I acknowledge it, then try to fix it. I am also comfortable to politely say 'no,' when I am asked to participate in something that is optional, and I enforce my reasonable boundary by standing my ground, or leaving, as appropriate. Since becoming this kind of person, my life has gotten easier.
Rich I was married 6 years together 13 total two kids blah blah blah. The amount of money I was spending on her was crazy. I have a new FWB. Shes great will do the dead basically anytime I want. All it costs is a homemade dinner and a six pack maybe. I will never move in with her or anything more. These women exist gentleman. Have fun with them, let them S and S you and thats it dont ever get tied down anymore. Im 36 and thanks to men like Rich ive finally figured it out.
@@KingLouisDaSaint nope 11 years and counting and I have a 4 woman dating rotation. I do what I want whenever I want and they give it up whenever I want. Life is beautiful.
Long before the manosphere I was very sceptical of moving in with a woman. Because i learned she would not respect my boundaries as I would do to her. I got mommy issues. Mom threw away most of my sacred things when I was away.
They are never happy anyway though. When I went through a depressed phase after some major surgery, she was on my case about money, demanding to know what’s my plan and where are we going and all that, but now that I’m grinding 24/7 to set up my own business, she’s complaining that we don’t need the extra money, she would rather spend more quality time together, bla bla bla. Never listen to them guys.
They will literally prefer to nuke their life and future just to be able to make a point that they did not follow your lead. Been there, seen that first hand.
I really feel sorry for you guys man. One could think that our unique ability to reflect on things as a species would somehow make us better, but most people are truly like animals if not worse.
My #1 rule on women is to keep my money in my pocket. Just that simple. Men have jobs, women have jobs, women want equality, so they are supposed to be participatory financially, but a lot of women try to squeeze out of this. All of these people out there using others, hard to get used if you keep your money in your pocket. If you want to spend money on a women, do it in a careful, well thought out, planned manner.
I lost my wife of over 30 years to cancer last year. She was loving, kindhearted, and perfect in every way for me. I feel like I had won the lottery finding her. As odds are astronomical against winning a lottery not only once, but twice, I just feel I'll never find another like her - especially with the way women today are. Most are manipulative, cunning, selfish, arrogant, narcissistic, toxic as hell, and many are inked like walking comic books. I just don't have the energy or inclination to look for the proverbial needle in a haystack.
@@RichardBecker-yn7sp Thanks Richard, but I'm not really up to looking for anyone anymore. I also find many churches are of a socialist bent so that's not really an option for me. Appreciate the suggestions just the same.
HAHA did my ex call in to the show or what? How did you get this story from her LOL. I knew it was finished when she picked up only HER laundry and stepped over mine
Spot on my friend ! My example here was my, now ex, wanted to live by the coast where she had fond memories, so I offered for us to sell our properties ( both of us) and go in together and buy her dream home. Also she could retire which is a significant thing. I mentioned that I’d go 2/3 to her 1/3 because I have significantly more wealth. Cutting a long story short she then walks because she was expecting me to pay 100% and she lives with me for free and keeps her home too. So I’m all in and she keeps her options open!! Upon reflection afterwards and speaking to others it seems she had many many narcissistic traits that I’d ignored not knowing what narcissism was. You never stop learning 🙄
I went through a horrible marriage with a horrible woman who alienated my daughters, who sadly have become as toxic as mom. My relationship with my daughters effectively ended when they said they want money from me but not a relationship. I put my foot down very politely by saying, “I can’t do that.” Would appreciate Unplugged Men’s advice. I always had a vision of what my family would look like into my 60s and 70s. I can’t believe this is where we are at. I am a multi-millionaire, possibly 8-figures depending on the value of my company at exit. I am now at the point of writing them out of my will and putting it into a trust for my future grand-children. Also, FWIW I have been in a solid relationship with a Latina for 3 years. Couldn’t be happier.
Don‘t give them anything. They will spend it without caring about your passing for one second. Probably they will be even happy that you passed, so that they have access to your money. My advice, completely abandon them.
I love to do seemingly small acts for my bf to show my love for him. I take his clothes to be mended as a surprise . ( he has never asked me ) To be thoughtful and loving is a joy an honor and a win win . The more you give the more you get with a grounded , balanced , stable, mature .partner . If he is sick I love to try to help him to alleviate his discomfort . It makes me feel satisfied to be helpful and useful . He also is very kind , loving, loyal and generous to me . There still are girls who are very traditional despite this society .
I was working for My Dad at age 9 using a Chainsaw on the Our Property to trim and take down trees to service the houses fireplaces to supplement the Oil furnace heat.
1. Women refusing to the household monetarily is based on their feeling that they provide already sex and should have in return everything else free. As if they felt exploited if they cannot prostitute themselves. 2. The story about the gas tank sounds very much like narcissism. Calling her brat to order means making it obvious she has been neglecting that educational task in the past, that she is not always perfect. Narcissism is a defense mechanism that tries to find a save place above reality to be protected from what might happen to the narcisstic person if she was on an equal level. Usually there was some traumatising event in childhood. Reminding them that they are no better then everybody else translates for them into having to realize that they are still in the danger zone, being pulled down into it right now; also called narcisstic injury. You touched on her defenses. The hissy fit she threw was the narcisstic rage that usually follows up in such a scenario. And her cheating on you later on was her tactic to get up above you again, back up above reality, out of the danger zone again by elevating her and devaluing you. By cheating on you she in her perception gained an advantage over you which she needed to prove to herself that she still is superior. These are the mechanisations of a narcisstic mind.
Yeah it’s just incredible how (a large but perhaps not all women) they can have this attitude that they’re the more valuable partner in the act of sex and yet still somehow act all superior to the suggestion that they are just an overpaid sex worker.
My wife is on a girls trip right now. Life is easier without her. Over the last 7 years or so, she decided, not in words but in her actions, to never ever help with cooking, washing dishes (can't even get her own dish to the sink - let alone actually WASH IT TO HELP!), doing laundry (does ZERO and can't get her clothing even into the laundry bin - just chucks them on the floor for me to pick up, wash, dry, fold or hang - NEVER a thank you by the way), will do absolutely NOTHING to help care for our two kids (I do EVERY bedtime, bath, doctor's appointment, school meeting, etc - EVERYTHING!!! LITERALLY ALL OF IT!), spends lots and lots of money on herself and creates chaos in all of our relationships with friends, family, etc. This has been going on for years, about 7 now as I said. In that time, I have steadily increased my salary to well over 6 figures, paid off the mortgage, paid off the car, eliminated all debt and been entirely at home and available. I realize now I have been an absolute fool for this woman. She does NOTHING to help me or the children. She is a feminist. She is breathtakingly selfish. She has refused to even be intimate about 80% of the time I make a move. She contributes NOTHING to this relationship. I think she has been enjoying single life, while having me bankroll the image of a marriage and family. I am so angry with her but more so with myself for letting someone completely take advantage of me like this. I don't know how it is possible for a woman to be so selfish and without empathy toward her husband.
Bought a car for my ex , a strong independent women whom wanted to maintain the car herself so I told her about changing the oil which she never did and blew the engine. Within a few years I split and screened thereafter for feminist think. It's just the badest attitude that they can come up with. They think it's tough.
These videos make me grateful for what I have and show me where I surely would have been. 😅 Had to add, had a friend with the kid story. She moved into his house with with her son. Lasted about six months. Buddy had to kick the 18 year old out. Now my buddy and the girl have broken up but he’s allowed her to stay in his house because she can’t afford to live on her own. I told him exactly how that was gonna go, so of course, I’ve not heard from him in three years, typical 🤷♂️
Pride. Pride for women. Nobody told me. Young men: A woman’s pride: she will leave you behind and down over her pride. It’s like her image. She will NEVER admit to anything that makes her look bad. Please heed this warning.
A person who lives in a house for free and does not suggest to help out should be kicked out of the house. The guy should not have had to ask her to do those loads of laundry.
My ex recently died. She was 54 and passed from many bad habits that caught up to her. It has really f#*ked with my head. Don't keep grudge my dudes. Life is way too short. Every day she is gone selfishly feels like a small victory. Some days are dark because we made 5 children together...damn.
I work full time. My husband has no job, tinkers on his guitar, doesn’t do laundry and waits for me to come home and cook. It’s my fault. I didn’t kick him out way back when, and he just won’t work. (Do you want me to be a labourer) I’m exhausted, and tho I’m attached emotionally I feel I am being used. Some advice pls.
@8:36 I have another way of saying this exact thing that ive been saying for YEARS Women have NO concept of ANYTHING outside of Themselves. And even THAT they dont understand.
I waited until my children were 18 to divorce and waited till they were almost fully independent to actually bring someone to my home. My son always treated him with respect as he would anyone- although he loves to mess with him. Son and daughter moved out we’ve been married and completely happy for years. I do the inside of the house he does the outside.
What's funny about the female pride especially when they leave a relationship that could've been worked out, they sure lose that so-called pride when they try coming back to the man.
Teaching a kid how to do something is important!!! His mother should have told him to go and help!!!! Agreed as my kids can be brats at times!!!! Drives me nuts!!! I agree with you kids are brat needs to learn. Kids needs to learn how to have respect and they need to learn how to take care of their selves no matter what!!
Women, alike most people in general, don’t like to confront directly and rather create a set rules, excuses and problems to leave or even make you leave. Most people are uncomfortable saying loud that they don’t want you - guys suddenly becoming busy at work, women needing a break, all kinds of reasons instead of simply saying “sorry, I’m not interested anymore”.
I can’t find the link to the full podcast. It didn’t come up on the right of the video. I’d really like to hear the rest of this one. Can someone provide me with the link?
Where the hell doe anyone get off by not pitching in and helping out, whether its a relationship or house sharing. Its a lazy short term approach as the other parties resentment will just build and build until there is an explosion.
The next guy will be expected to knock her up within months of starting ‘relations’ with her before she’ll start to act out in ways that will force him to walk away then she’ll try to hoover him back with an only if you knock me up type of setup which if he’s dumb enough to follow will lead to all sorts of misery. You’ll barely get a chance to get to know the woman. It would make more sense to knock up a total stranger on a street corner it’s soo dumb.
And if you ask her for something, she'll try to shame you, saying you want a mother to look after you, while she expects you to take care of her like a child.
The last lady wouldnt show appreciation much. Always wanted to be pursued but wanted to be nurtured and protected. I told her she's killing the vibe by not even communicating on a basic level. She just wanted to play even though she loved the idea of marriage, kids, a protective man (which I am very accomplished and caring), yet just wanted to up and leave. I've definitely been learning a lot. I always think of your advice about men growing business, etc want an easy to get along with woman. Being in sales and working a lot, I want a woman to just relax with after work. Not extra unnecessary work!
I pay all house bills she does all the laundry But she really doesn't do much for me now. Doesn't make food, back rub, rub and tug even. Together 6yrs not married 1-3yr old kid. It's been rough, I'm having issues thinking of staying with her. It's my house btw. She had nothing when we got together.
Wow, you all know the wrong sort of people. I believe in equality as both parties in a relationship always do their best. My husband when made redundant, leant on me and I picked up more work, when my dad was sick he picked the slack at home, so I could go say goodbye. Love is caring as much for your partner as yourself and knowing they feel the same. Married and happy 30 years.
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Not doing the laundry was just an excuse, this babe wanted out of the relationship to do her own thing. She is part of the pump and dump crowd and your lucky to get away from her early before any kids came along.
For the love of God, enjoy their company, but don’t live with them, let alone marry! Women in 2024 are not the same as even ten, twenty , thirty years ago, it just gets worse and worse. They comprise on nothing but have a full list for you………….
This is no information at all. We are certainly aware, after all, there are always underlying causes. But that doesn’t negate the fact that the laundry request was the trigger. Clearly she would have stayed a bit longer if not for the trigger.
Do they have options ? They look in mirror at 30 40 50 if they can say to themselves " if I lay on the spackle and 5 coats of laquor paint and head down the block to the pub tonight will I be P & D ' d by 3am ? " If answer is " yup " then u as a partner r milk after a 12 hour power outage
To say that “not many women” have healthy pregnancies after 35 is wildly incorrect. Could you please correct that? The complication rate is higher, but the vast majority of babies born to women after 35 years are perfectly healthy and the overwhelming majority of women who get pregnant after 35 get pregnant naturally.
My very traditional Asian mom who is no longer with us gave me and my sisters long talks when we were teenagers, I’m now 51. She told us, ‘Whatever you do to get him, you’re going to have to do to keep him.’ She was married to my dad for 55 years until his death and they never fought and they loved each other immensely.
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I agree with you with some women, but don’t label all women this way because I would not do that. My kid has been a brat and I said him in his place sometimes the grandparents are at fault.!!! my point is don’t generalize not all women are jerks and go out and sleep with the guy just because they didn’t get their way that is absurd and she is a fruit on the tree. She’s not a classy woman at all.!!!
If she can’t stomach doing laundry she doesn’t deserve a family.
I folded a load of laundry literally while listening to that segment. That lady is is the opposite of a wife.
😂 didn’t we on Rich’s video posted a few days ago, moan excessively about women using the washing machine too much! 😂? ?
Got that right..
Wait til she has to change diapers
@@RavingAgavethis is a man's space. Leave
I came so close in my mid thirties to getting into a LTR with a single mom who had a 14 year old son. One day she had asked me to come over and as I got to her place she was unloading groceries from her car. I grabbed two armfuls to help out and said to her son “You should help your mom.” He immediately gave me the “You are not my father” bullshit. I finished helping carry in the groceries, hopped in my truck and drove away. Completely ghosted her. Ran into her a couple of years later and the pride thing was still with her. She went off on how I had no right to ask her son to do anything. I replied that is why her and I couldn’t have a relationship. No way I take shit from a snot nosed punk.
damn right!!
The son was right. Why would he take orders from u
@@THamm-xt8jm you wouldn’t understand because you are a beta simp.
@@THamm-xt8jm clearly your just like the son, heres how:
since when is bad behaviour and rudeness acceptable? oh wait, when kids are raised badly,
that cant be the fault of single mother's can it? i wonder whose fault it is then?
according to you, its the innocent man who wants to rescue this mother's collapsing family.
solution: punish the right, praise the wrong.
its insane you people!
My ex wife didn't work. I took care of all the bills, was the breadwinner, took her on several vacations each year. But she refused to do my laundry because of her feminist indoctrination. The crazy part is that her separating her laundry from mine actually ended up being more effort than just doing it all in bulk.
Sounds familiar. When we were breaking up, mine had to ask how to use the washing machine by herself… and it wasn’t a new machine either.
Wow what a loser. I’m glad you gents made the exit from that usury.
Start listening to Derek Prince. The issue will be clear after years of study. It’s much deeper than a person refusing a task in the home.
You weren't "that guy" for her.
I've had a full on feminist calling me daddy and saying she wants me to own her. She always thought such things were ridiculous until she started talking to me.
I'm that guy for her. Yes, even feminists will submit.
Why did you even marry her if she was such a feminist 🤦🏿♂️
Rich, you're hitting on so many key topics lately, man.... Great work. This girl you describe is now my ex. I asked her to start paying her portion of rent. I also made it clear that I was not going to share her in salsa clubs. She didn't respect the boundaries. She said she wanted a "provider," in exchange for nothing. And, I said nope, not going to happen anymore. I had provided enough. One month later, she's now living in the back of a shared space with 2 random roommates, paying rent there, technically owes me money for rent and other things, and is back to clubbing with her single broke friends who all have broken relationships, and she's on dating apps. Men need to realize that there are not many high value women on dating apps looking for someone else to make up for her bad financial decisions. Never live with a woman you are dating. Do NOT DO IT. That's a topic for another day. Raise your standards, men. Do not let these women walk all over you and own you. Stop sponsoring them for sex. Stop it. She must bring value and be able to provide for herself. You are more than a wallet. The most feminized women will talk about how they are independent and all of this nonsense, and at the end of the day, they're depending on men 100% of the time. Same about cutting the grass. Good story man. Great content in general man. Spot on. Pride leads women into poverty, broken relationships, divorces, as well as a life of bad decisions. Great topic.
She didn’t sound like she had much going on for herself at her age. I started seeing a lot of college grad women like this about 15 years ago. They don’t have a sense of urgency. They have no idea what awaits them in 40 years.
It's not pride. It's female nature. You want to destroy a woman's life? Sit back and let her make all of her own decisions.
I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to become celibate, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is sooooo much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.
My husband just bought us a beautiful brand new house recently. I’m a stay at home mom, we don’t have any appliances yet, so I’ve been taking our laundry across town to a laundromat once a week and I spend about $30 each time. It’s about 6-8 loads because we are a family of 4. It’s not ideal but it’s what I do! Because I’m grateful that we have a beautiful new house and in time we will be able to afford a washer and dryer ♥️ also, I’ve been doing my husband’s laundry for 24 years and for 15 years before we had our children.
Your a rare gem!
Thanks for those stories. Women never cease to amaze me.
Amen Rich. It’s funny how nice they treat you in the beginning but it all goes out the window once you commit…
Exactly! It's like politics: They make all kinds of promises on the campaign trail, but once you vote for them you're fucked.
If I’m paying the bill, she will do all of the laundry, or she can leave. Period!
if sh'es making $75k a year, ill need to be making 10x that for her not to chip in on some of the bills, food costs etc.
jeez, some men simply allow themselves to be doormats.
@@Gizziiusa 100 percent true.
True that. Yrs ago my woman chose to stop working. I said to her, now that I pay 100% of the bills, you now work for me. I'm willing to forgive mistakes & the occasional bad day. But I have no patience left for being treated as a doormat. We are still together after several decades.
@@Ace.0.0.0. Good on you man. Yeah, she got the "hint" that she needed to contribute something for the relationship to work, and it appears she did.
Some to many women seem to think that all she needs to offer is: to look good when going out as a "trophy wife", give up the ya-ya in bed, and other companionship (offering her time). thats it.
all the domestic stuff needs to be done by maids and stuff i guess.
@@Gizziiusa I didn't give her any hint. I was polite, honest, and direct. And, I have the spine to enforce my reasonable boundaries. She tested my resolve. And with her in the same room, I started scanning the 'net for a new place to live.
When she asked me what I was doing, I told her exactly what I was doing, and why.
I also said I would stop looking if she gave me a legit apology for her behavior, with no ifs, ands, or buts. And she must give me a reasonable assurance it would not happen again.
Faced with these options, she gave me a legit apology. Since that day, her testing has reduced exponentially.
I have discovered that when a woman tests a man, she is asking "can I depend on you?'" Women want (& need) a man they can count on. I demonstrated that I meant what I said. Not following through would tell her (& others) that at best, I was not reliable, or at worst, I was deliberately being dishonest. Neither is a good look to wear.
We are all walking billboards, in that everything we say and do shows people who we are. When I make a mistake, I acknowledge it, then try to fix it.
I am also comfortable to politely say 'no,' when I am asked to participate in something that is optional, and I enforce my reasonable boundary by standing my ground, or leaving, as appropriate. Since becoming this kind of person, my life has gotten easier.
They leave relationships, because the reality of their situation collides with the delusions they have of themselves.
Rich I was married 6 years together 13 total two kids blah blah blah. The amount of money I was spending on her was crazy. I have a new FWB. Shes great will do the dead basically anytime I want. All it costs is a homemade dinner and a six pack maybe. I will never move in with her or anything more. These women exist gentleman. Have fun with them, let them S and S you and thats it dont ever get tied down anymore. Im 36 and thanks to men like Rich ive finally figured it out.
Yup same here bro my life is 100% better
Yeah yeah. You’ll be married again in 2 years
@@KingLouisDaSaint haha i promise I wont
@@KingLouisDaSaint nope 11 years and counting and I have a 4 woman dating rotation. I do what I want whenever I want and they give it up whenever I want. Life is beautiful.
Where? Even fwb have demands
I'm sure she's a strong & independent who needs no man to tell her what to do.
Run city boy Run 🏃
Dumb
Long before the manosphere I was very sceptical of moving in with a woman. Because i learned she would not respect my boundaries as I would do to her. I got mommy issues. Mom threw away most of my sacred things when I was away.
so sad to hear…
Same man, my mom never gave a sh*t about me either.
They are never happy anyway though. When I went through a depressed phase after some major surgery, she was on my case about money, demanding to know what’s my plan and where are we going and all that, but now that I’m grinding 24/7 to set up my own business, she’s complaining that we don’t need the extra money, she would rather spend more quality time together, bla bla bla. Never listen to them guys.
They will literally prefer to nuke their life and future just to be able to make a point that they did not follow your lead. Been there, seen that first hand.
You and me both brother. They were so strong. So independent. I had to give them what they wanted and get out of the way and let them go 😄
I really feel sorry for you guys man.
One could think that our unique ability to reflect on things as a species would somehow make us better, but most people are truly like animals if not worse.
@@SayfumaniMyG Exactly! That's why I removed those animals from my home and my life. 🤡😀
@@SayfumaniMyG Exactly! That's why I had to remove the animal from my house and my life. They didn't make me or anything else better.
My #1 rule on women is to keep my money in my pocket. Just that simple. Men have jobs, women have jobs, women want equality, so they are supposed to be participatory financially, but a lot of women try to squeeze out of this. All of these people out there using others, hard to get used if you keep your money in your pocket. If you want to spend money on a women, do it in a careful, well thought out, planned manner.
I lost my wife of over 30 years to cancer last year. She was loving, kindhearted, and perfect in every way for me. I feel like I had won the lottery finding her. As odds are astronomical against winning a lottery not only once, but twice, I just feel I'll never find another like her - especially with the way women today are. Most are manipulative, cunning, selfish, arrogant, narcissistic, toxic as hell, and many are inked like walking comic books. I just don't have the energy or inclination to look for the proverbial needle in a haystack.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Marriage with the right person is so wonderful. May her memory be a blessing ❤
@@GusFring1992 Thank you for the kind thoughts.
Try your local church on Sundays and special events. You might find something worth wile there.
@@RichardBecker-yn7sp Thanks Richard, but I'm not really up to looking for anyone anymore. I also find many churches are of a socialist bent so that's not really an option for me. Appreciate the suggestions just the same.
You are correct. Don't bother looking for a replacement. They don't exist today.
HAHA did my ex call in to the show or what? How did you get this story from her LOL.
I knew it was finished when she picked up only HER laundry and stepped over mine
Spot on my friend ! My example here was my, now ex, wanted to live by the coast where she had fond memories, so I offered for us to sell our properties ( both of us) and go in together and buy her dream home. Also she could retire which is a significant thing. I mentioned that I’d go 2/3 to her 1/3 because I have significantly more wealth. Cutting a long story short she then walks because she was expecting me to pay 100% and she lives with me for free and keeps her home too. So I’m all in and she keeps her options open!! Upon reflection afterwards and speaking to others it seems she had many many narcissistic traits that I’d ignored not knowing what narcissism was. You never stop learning 🙄
I went through a horrible marriage with a horrible woman who alienated my daughters, who sadly have become as toxic as mom. My relationship with my daughters effectively ended when they said they want money from me but not a relationship. I put my foot down very politely by saying, “I can’t do that.”
Would appreciate Unplugged Men’s advice. I always had a vision of what my family would look like into my 60s and 70s. I can’t believe this is where we are at. I am a multi-millionaire, possibly 8-figures depending on the value of my company at exit. I am now at the point of writing them out of my will and putting it into a trust for my future grand-children.
Also, FWIW I have been in a solid relationship with a Latina for 3 years. Couldn’t be happier.
Hopefully you'll make sure she's looked after if you pass?
Be careful that the Latina will stole your multimillion dollar assets!
Don‘t give them anything.
They will spend it without caring about your passing for one second.
Probably they will be even happy that you passed, so that they have access to your money.
My advice, completely abandon them.
I attended an all male Christian high school. For example if I had your money, that’s where the will would be written to.
@@Devonshireoldfart that is the plan for my girlfriend. She deserves it.
I love to do seemingly small acts for my bf to show my love for him. I take his clothes to be mended as a surprise . ( he has never asked me ) To be thoughtful and loving is a joy an honor and a win win . The more you give the more you get with a grounded , balanced , stable, mature .partner . If he is sick I love to try to help him to alleviate his discomfort . It makes me feel satisfied to be helpful and useful . He also is very kind , loving, loyal and generous to me . There still are girls who are very traditional despite this society .
I was working for My Dad at age 9 using a Chainsaw on the Our Property to trim and take down trees to service the houses fireplaces to supplement the Oil furnace heat.
I think orion said it was somewhere like SanFran, and she is now spending 60k/year on rent and bills... that's some expensive laundry 😅
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Women refusing to the household monetarily is based on their feeling that they provide already sex and should have in return everything else free. As if they felt exploited if they cannot prostitute themselves.
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The story about the gas tank sounds very much like narcissism. Calling her brat to order means making it obvious she has been neglecting that educational task in the past, that she is not always perfect. Narcissism is a defense mechanism that tries to find a save place above reality to be protected from what might happen to the narcisstic person if she was on an equal level. Usually there was some traumatising event in childhood. Reminding them that they are no better then everybody else translates for them into having to realize that they are still in the danger zone, being pulled down into it right now; also called narcisstic injury. You touched on her defenses. The hissy fit she threw was the narcisstic rage that usually follows up in such a scenario. And her cheating on you later on was her tactic to get up above you again, back up above reality, out of the danger zone again by elevating her and devaluing you. By cheating on you she in her perception gained an advantage over you which she needed to prove to herself that she still is superior. These are the mechanisations of a narcisstic mind.
Wow
Yeah it’s just incredible how (a large but perhaps not all women) they can have this attitude that they’re the more valuable partner in the act of sex and yet still somehow act all superior to the suggestion that they are just an overpaid sex worker.
Correct. They always need to score points, and they're always keeping score.
My wife is on a girls trip right now. Life is easier without her. Over the last 7 years or so, she decided, not in words but in her actions, to never ever help with cooking, washing dishes (can't even get her own dish to the sink - let alone actually WASH IT TO HELP!), doing laundry (does ZERO and can't get her clothing even into the laundry bin - just chucks them on the floor for me to pick up, wash, dry, fold or hang - NEVER a thank you by the way), will do absolutely NOTHING to help care for our two kids (I do EVERY bedtime, bath, doctor's appointment, school meeting, etc - EVERYTHING!!! LITERALLY ALL OF IT!), spends lots and lots of money on herself and creates chaos in all of our relationships with friends, family, etc. This has been going on for years, about 7 now as I said. In that time, I have steadily increased my salary to well over 6 figures, paid off the mortgage, paid off the car, eliminated all debt and been entirely at home and available. I realize now I have been an absolute fool for this woman. She does NOTHING to help me or the children. She is a feminist. She is breathtakingly selfish. She has refused to even be intimate about 80% of the time I make a move. She contributes NOTHING to this relationship. I think she has been enjoying single life, while having me bankroll the image of a marriage and family. I am so angry with her but more so with myself for letting someone completely take advantage of me like this. I don't know how it is possible for a woman to be so selfish and without empathy toward her husband.
Bought a car for my ex , a strong independent women whom wanted to maintain the car herself so I told her about changing the oil which she never did and blew the engine. Within a few years I split and screened thereafter for feminist think. It's just the badest attitude that they can come up with. They think it's tough.
I also screen now after getting divorced after 10 years and 2 kids. Thinking of going overseas
I've never met a happy woman.
These videos make me grateful for what I have and show me where I surely would have been. 😅
Had to add, had a friend with the kid story. She moved into his house with with her son. Lasted about six months. Buddy had to kick the 18 year old out. Now my buddy and the girl have broken up but he’s allowed her to stay in his house because she can’t afford to live on her own. I told him exactly how that was gonna go, so of course, I’ve not heard from him in three years, typical 🤷♂️
Great video Rich, keep telling us stories like this.
You are talking about NARCISSISTS that's what they do all the time extremely fragile ego because they are empty as a drum .
Yup. Nothin' in there.
Pride.
Pride for women.
Nobody told me.
Young men:
A woman’s pride: she will leave you behind and down over her pride.
It’s like her image.
She will NEVER admit to anything that makes her look bad.
Please heed this warning.
If she does not leave you,the disrespect will be too much for you that you the man will have leave 💯.
Great video...highly recommend your book. Eye opener to any man in western civilization
Great reminder. Perfect video. Thank you.
Yes, correct Rich, you recalled accurately what Orion had said.
A person who lives in a house for free and does not suggest to help out should be kicked out of the house. The guy should not have had to ask her to do those loads of laundry.
For all their pride they sure do act trashy.
Rite🎉😂
Thank you Rich. Enjoy your content
My ex wife did the same thing theyre stupid
Feminism has so much to answer for
My ex recently died. She was 54 and passed from many bad habits that caught up to her. It has really f#*ked with my head. Don't keep grudge my dudes. Life is way too short. Every day she is gone selfishly feels like a small victory. Some days are dark because we made 5 children together...damn.
Lol. My ex wife refused to do everything in house saying is not my slave even she was not working and finally move out.
That’s why so many men are becoming passport bros…
100% correct
I work full time. My husband has no job, tinkers on his guitar, doesn’t do laundry and waits for me to come home and cook. It’s my fault. I didn’t kick him out way back when, and he just won’t work. (Do you want me to be a labourer) I’m exhausted, and tho I’m attached emotionally I feel I am being used. Some advice pls.
U r.
@8:36 I have another way of saying this exact thing that ive been saying for YEARS
Women have NO concept of ANYTHING outside of Themselves.
And even THAT they dont understand.
I waited until my children were 18 to divorce and waited till they were almost fully independent to actually bring someone to my home. My son always treated him with respect as he would anyone- although he loves to mess with him. Son and daughter moved out we’ve been married and completely happy for years. I do the inside of the house he does the outside.
What's funny about the female pride especially when they leave a relationship that could've been worked out, they sure lose that so-called pride when they try coming back to the man.
Don't *EVER* take them back.
This is why giving a woman an ultimatum is just a gentlemanly way of letting her know why you’re leaving.
Teaching a kid how to do something is important!!! His mother should have told him to go and help!!!! Agreed as my kids can be brats at times!!!! Drives me nuts!!! I agree with you kids are brat needs to learn. Kids needs to learn how to have respect and they need to learn how to take care of their selves no matter what!!
Women, alike most people in general, don’t like to confront directly and rather create a set rules, excuses and problems to leave or even make you leave. Most people are uncomfortable saying loud that they don’t want you - guys suddenly becoming busy at work, women needing a break, all kinds of reasons instead of simply saying “sorry, I’m not interested anymore”.
I can’t find the link to the full podcast. It didn’t come up on the right of the video. I’d really like to hear the rest of this one. Can someone provide me with the link?
Where the hell doe anyone get off by not pitching in and helping out, whether its a relationship or house sharing. Its a lazy short term approach as the other parties resentment will just build and build until there is an explosion.
Jesus, that story at the end unraveled fast
The next guy will be expected to knock her up within months of starting ‘relations’ with her before she’ll start to act out in ways that will force him to walk away then she’ll try to hoover him back with an only if you knock me up type of setup which if he’s dumb enough to follow will lead to all sorts of misery. You’ll barely get a chance to get to know the woman. It would make more sense to knock up a total stranger on a street corner it’s soo dumb.
Briffault's Law = "What have you done for me lately?"
Janet Jackson was ahead of her time.
Free comedy show with these kinda chix
That's not why she left...
They barked women rights. Pay your own way or keep it moving 💯
And if you ask her for something, she'll try to shame you, saying you want a mother to look after you, while she expects you to take care of her like a child.
@RichCooperUnplugged how did you find out after she spitecheated on you?
So she rather be alone and pay 100% of the bills than be with someone she loves and pay 50%. Seems she didn't love him that much.
7:56 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.
Agree
The last lady wouldnt show appreciation much. Always wanted to be pursued but wanted to be nurtured and protected. I told her she's killing the vibe by not even communicating on a basic level. She just wanted to play even though she loved the idea of marriage, kids, a protective man (which I am very accomplished and caring), yet just wanted to up and leave. I've definitely been learning a lot.
I always think of your advice about men growing business, etc want an easy to get along with woman. Being in sales and working a lot, I want a woman to just relax with after work. Not extra unnecessary work!
"The toxic version of feminism today," great insight.
I pay all house bills she does all the laundry But she really doesn't do much for me now. Doesn't make food, back rub, rub and tug even. Together 6yrs not married 1-3yr old kid. It's been rough, I'm having issues thinking of staying with her. It's my house btw. She had nothing when we got together.
He shouldn't have asked her to do the laundry! She should have just done it!
Honestly, that guy is way better off without her . He should be thankful that happened
You neglected to mention that the man did not show any appreciation for the woman initiating doing this chore.
Ego is the ennemy.
It’s something MUCH deeper than ego. Start listening to Derek Prince. He spoke about this in the 1980s when truth was still up for discussion
He should have told her what she needed to do ie tasks, right off the bat
I prefer no nagging over doing these low value tasks, such as making meals and laundry
Wow, you all know the wrong sort of people. I believe in equality as both parties in a relationship always do their best. My husband when made redundant, leant on me and I picked up more work, when my dad was sick he picked the slack at home, so I could go say goodbye. Love is caring as much for your partner as yourself and knowing they feel the same. Married and happy 30 years.
In terms of money I expect the girl to be all in if she lives with me.
Is this a reupload?
Pride is a problem.
Laundry is not a low value task.
*I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!*
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She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
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+1520
I am the hypergamous one, I always see women who the same or more money. Education must be equal too!
Did he just call the jerry cans "cherry cans"? Yup, he did
The prideful woman is definitely the biggest red flag bar none
Not doing the laundry was just an excuse, this babe wanted out of the relationship to do her own thing.
She is part of the pump and dump crowd and your lucky to get away from her early before any kids came along.
You don't need "THESE" in the title.
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For the love of God, enjoy their company, but don’t live with them, let alone marry! Women in 2024 are not the same as even ten, twenty , thirty years ago, it just gets worse and worse. They comprise on nothing but have a full list for you………….
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I’m sorry to inform you guys…… she left because she didn’t want to be there. She just used that as her excuse.
This is no information at all. We are certainly aware, after all, there are always underlying causes. But that doesn’t negate the fact that the laundry request was the trigger. Clearly she would have stayed a bit longer if not for the trigger.
Good point
Yep. She simply wasn't into him
@@scottverge938anymore
LOL, yup!
Let's all sing the SOCIAL ENGINEERING song !
A 3 *** restaurant want you to have an "experience" when you drink a glass of water. Men can make this analogy with women.
Revelation 17:1
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I dont need a woman to do my laundry.
Doing my own laundry devalues her.
Just here for the comments.
A relationship is teamwork, equal c**p,good times,bad and fun. You both pull together between you to get everything done
Mom ruining that kid, you tried man.
MGTOW!!!!
Do they have options ? They look in mirror at 30 40 50 if they can say to themselves " if I lay on the spackle and 5 coats of laquor paint and head down the block to the pub tonight will I be P & D ' d by 3am ? "
If answer is " yup " then u as a partner r milk after a 12 hour power outage
To say that “not many women” have healthy pregnancies after 35 is wildly incorrect. Could you please correct that? The complication rate is higher, but the vast majority of babies born to women after 35 years are perfectly healthy and the overwhelming majority of women who get pregnant after 35 get pregnant naturally.
Okay you take a chance on those odds then have a child to take care of for your whole life
entitled princess gonna be a lonely old spinster.
That ain’t why she left..that was a reason for her to leave
She left cause she's for the streets ..
My very traditional Asian mom who is no longer with us gave me and my sisters long talks when we were teenagers, I’m now 51. She told us, ‘Whatever you do to get him, you’re going to have to do to keep him.’ She was married to my dad for 55 years until his death and they never fought and they loved each other immensely.
I know the feeling what a dope I am