5 Types Of SINGLE MOMS You Should AVOID! (True Story of Single Momma Drama)

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  • AVOID These 5 Types Of SINGLE MOMS! (True Story of a Single Mother NIGHTMARE!)... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will give you the five types of single moms you should avoid to enjoy your dating and relationships. I will also share a viewer's true story of a single mother's nightmare. You may meet a single mother on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and ensure you watch the entire video.
    I don't want you to blindly get involved with these five types of single mothers because of the single momma drama they will involve you in. If you can avoid these five types of single moms, you will easily evade the single mother nightmare I talk of in this dating advice. If single moms can avoid the single momma drama dating a single mom will be peaceful and enjoyable.
    I want you to understand that not all single mothers are a nightmare. Some single moms can be lovable, sweet, and fun to date. I want you to know the types of single moms to avoid, and this advice on dating single mothers help you understand the types of single moms to avoid to prevent yourself from encountering the single mother nightmare.
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  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +51

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    • @leonardofernandez2230
      @leonardofernandez2230 2 роки тому

      Thank you so much exposing them

    • @Warriorcock6969
      @Warriorcock6969 2 роки тому

      @Ky Jelly Don't you know four out of three people's can't do fractions or percentages. 😒

    • @audioelitist3677
      @audioelitist3677 2 роки тому +1

      @@Warriorcock6969 You forgot to carry the one.

    • @juniorgod321
      @juniorgod321 2 роки тому +4

      I think there's only one type of single moms you should avoid: The one that have kids:)

    • @audioelitist3677
      @audioelitist3677 2 роки тому +2

      The biggest question that needs to be asked, in the case of single moms, is.... Why are these mom's single? Consider, divorce courts favor the woman so heavily, as do the family courts in determination of custody and the like... Woman are given a strong incentive to replace their men. One up the guy. Go where the grass is greener. Ditch the dude. It's to say, the courts and family services system are set up to give a woman a strong motivation to destroy the family unit for their own benefit, while forcing people to go through the state in paying for things, thus enriching the state and making people beholden to it. It's tyrannical and evil, but that's pretty much what our state is.
      If a woman is a single mother having taken part in this system, it's almost an obligation, on the part of men, to ensure she lives her life out, only to die alone with cats, atop a mountain of kitty litter. Did she divorce her husband? It's your obligation to find out why. Get the full story. Talk to the ex husband. If she left him for bull**it reasons like, "He wasn't paying enough attention to me." or the like... Not somebody you'll want to build a life with. The self serving guys will use her as a toy and discard her by their nature. That's no problem, but the nice guys of the world run the risk of further enriching this evil woman. Don't do this. Any woman that left a marriage behind should live a long, long life, utterly alone, destined to be the queen of all stray cats, and it's up to men to ensure this is her fate.
      On the other hand, if you have a woman that's trying hard to do right, that was discarded, not of her own choosing... there's potential. Now you can scrutinize what kind of behavior they exhibit.

  • @torranaga79
    @torranaga79 2 роки тому +379

    Stay away from single moms is the one of the best advice my Grandpa gave me. Saved me so much headache time and resources wasted.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 2 роки тому +19

      Stay to yourself be a survivor on your own

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +10

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @BryanBails
      @BryanBails 2 роки тому +3

      I finally found a good one. Took about 3 to get through and learn though>> LOL

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 2 роки тому +14

      @Dan The man yeah that why as a woman I left someone like this because she was looking for help not love

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 2 роки тому +4

      @Dan The man as a woman I had a friend she wanted me to do all the work I got my mines to deal with

  • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
    @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому +190

    I haven’t finished the video yet I actually just started it but I can simplify this real quick. Avoid ALL single moms at ALL cost.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +7

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому +6

      Amen!

    • @freedom4life123
      @freedom4life123 2 роки тому +10

      This is the only advice men need.

    • @larryhall7998
      @larryhall7998 Рік тому +7

      Been married to one after 41 years, take my advice and do every one a favor, stay single!

    • @meddlingmage23
      @meddlingmage23 Рік тому +5

      I was gonna comment the same thing; it's like saying 5 kinds of sui cide to stay away from

  • @skylarg5928
    @skylarg5928 2 роки тому +135

    Made the mistake of dating a single mom for 5 years, she had all the red flags mentioned in this video. After dealing with that rollercoaster of drama, I would rather be single with my sanity then ever date a single mom again.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +10

      I get that! I have a follow up video coming for men who are thinking about dating a single momma. I hope you'll provide some feedback on it!

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 2 роки тому +5

      I guess the term “dating” is an interesting colloquialism. 5 years! You don’t think you may have actually been in a relationship? Where either of you dating others? I imagine the lass had a different interpretation

    • @skylarg5928
      @skylarg5928 2 роки тому +5

      @@russellmiles2861 Just wanted to share my trials and tribulations with a single mom as warning to anyone considering it.

    • @john_from_eastcoast.
      @john_from_eastcoast. 2 роки тому +2

      @@skylarg5928 are all single moms emotionally hurt? Are they that bad?
      I never dated one. I'm tempted to. Because I like kids!

    • @mriduljayan4466
      @mriduljayan4466 2 роки тому +11

      @@john_from_eastcoast. Then get your own. Don’t lease. I have seen step dads provide and treated like shit.

  • @GeneralChangFromDanang
    @GeneralChangFromDanang 2 роки тому +67

    I remember being interested in a single mom when I was 19. Her friend actually talked me out of it.

  • @iamlimitless7543
    @iamlimitless7543 Рік тому +10

    I just got out of a relationship with a single mom..Never again. I felt like a piece of me died and I am still recovering.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @stuartkynoch7289
    @stuartkynoch7289 2 роки тому +109

    The juice is NEVER worth the squeeze. WE ARE THE PRIZE GENTS....

  • @1BEAVIS13
    @1BEAVIS13 2 роки тому +51

    I dated a single mother years ago. Her young son was disrespectful and you could tell he was heading for a hard life. She made it a point that only she was allowed to discipline him. He spent his 20th birthday starting a 5 year prison sentence..

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +5

      It definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 2 роки тому

      No way! For what?

    • @theweirdsistah7568
      @theweirdsistah7568 Рік тому +1

      Dude, you’re not supposed to discipline her child, you not the daddy 🤣that’s a fact

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 Рік тому

      A PRISON sentence? For what?

    • @zachmahomes3517
      @zachmahomes3517 Рік тому +1

      @@theweirdsistah7568 well he would've saved that poor child from prison sentence lol

  • @wyswygsommer2769
    @wyswygsommer2769 2 роки тому +18

    I dated single mom once and never again. She told me all her living expenses,needs, mortgage, etc. I smelled immediately she was looking an ATM rather than a partner

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @Lydia-Roe
      @Lydia-Roe Рік тому

      Yeah, I can see if it came up later in the relationship - and yeah, sometimes the financials hit us harder than those sans kids , which can be frustrating I imaging for someone who doesn't have the kids or experience the situations we do as the primary sole financial leanings of our single parent families. I usually have tried to see if a guy has a different strategy than I do when I encounter a snag financially, because I'm genuinely curious, and two minds are better than one. Never have I ever, nor will I ever, expect a dude to hand over his financial wellbeing. I wouldn't do it either so why expect the same? That's odd to me.

  • @craigeenglish6364
    @craigeenglish6364 2 роки тому +156

    Avoid ALL single mothers! Your expected to burden full responsibility and have ZERO authority. In addition to that, you're never in first place and expected to be fully committed financially.
    Never take on someone else's problems.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

    • @terrytorres5026
      @terrytorres5026 2 роки тому +10

      Spot on. Each kid takes about 250,000 dollars from newborn to 18. Except you put in your retirement toward her kids.

    • @semperfi-1918
      @semperfi-1918 2 роки тому +7

      I wouldnt say all. As there are a few exceptions to the rule. Like for instance the husband/ father of her kids died from whatever but she was loyal to the end. Those .... i give a concideration. Now one with 5 kids 5 baby daddy's is a full avoid.

    • @john_from_eastcoast.
      @john_from_eastcoast. 2 роки тому +2

      Some guys have the money and time! Not all single moms are bad. I guess.

    • @semperfi-1918
      @semperfi-1918 2 роки тому +2

      @@john_from_eastcoast. as my previous comment is. There are a few exceptions. But thats rare as a unicorn is.

  • @drapered7762
    @drapered7762 2 роки тому +142

    A single mom brought me to taking the red pill and dating advice videos. I just lost a parent, was grieving and vulnerable. She started talking to me and we became friends. I wasn’t looking to date anyone. She was consistent with her communication. I was not even aware of red flags before this. It turns out, she had as many red flags as a Communist parade. She was bi, had a girlfriend, BPD and major father-attachment issues. I realized that that made her easily approach men. After several months, naive as I was then, I fell for her hard. After using me as her emotional tampon for her own issues, she dropped me like yesterday’s news. Painful, yes. But it brought me knowledge and wisdom. Wished I knew all these before hand. Would have saved me time and emotion.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +17

      It's so easy to see reality in the rearview mirror! But good for you for learning, growing, and gaining wisdom. I know what it's like to lose a parent (both, actually) and that vulnerability can make it so easy to not see the flags *and* for others to pray on it. Thank you for watching and sharing your experience! :)

    • @drapered7762
      @drapered7762 2 роки тому +8

      @@YourWingmam Sorry for your loss.

    • @terrytorres5026
      @terrytorres5026 2 роки тому +1

      Yikes

    • @myni82
      @myni82 2 роки тому +2

      No way.exactly the same story As mine
      +An abusive ex who somehow is the Best man in her life ever

    • @im1who84u
      @im1who84u 2 роки тому

      Been there.

  • @fredwicker5400
    @fredwicker5400 2 роки тому +75

    If you really want to see drama, date a single mom with teenagers who do alcohol and drugs. Lets also not forget the Crazy ex husband ! Great video again.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +8

      Exactly! I actually recorded a part 2 video that notes these tips!! Thank you for watching!

    • @hiaslayer
      @hiaslayer 2 роки тому +5

      It’s most likely her that is crazy and not her ex. That’s why you have to avoid single mothers.

    • @myexperience4347
      @myexperience4347 2 роки тому

      thriller.

    • @aitormolinerobozas-urrutia2465
      @aitormolinerobozas-urrutia2465 2 роки тому

      Sounds good to me! I will take those teenagers Out direct into a rave party 😂🤣😂😈

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      Oh Christ, and just imagine if she has a 15 or 16 year-old daughter with stepdaddy fantasties caused by daddy issues stemming from an absent father.
      I'm in my 40s and several of my friends have teenage daughters who make rather INAPPROPRIATE comments to me when their dads can't hear. It's really disturbing and I tell their dads immediately because you know how dangerous something like that can be for a man. The girls have no clue the kind of danger they put a man in when they act like that. Now imagine having to live with one....
      NO THANK-YOU, NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!

  • @williamdavis8646
    @williamdavis8646 2 роки тому +42

    I was dating a single mom. We were about 3 weeks in and her brother and his GF came over for a BBQ. She got completely smashed and went inside and that's when her brother and GF told me that she was going to end up ruining me, and that she was already looking to cheat. I was like wow, and left. You should have seen the pathetic self pity she sent me and excuses.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

    • @michaelbutler1557
      @michaelbutler1557 5 місяців тому

      ‘Bros before Hoes’.

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn 2 роки тому +49

    I dated a single mom many years ago. She had her issues and they got in the way of our relationship. Also, she may have been using me to make another guy jealous. I wound up thinking the world of her son as he was a great kid but my relationship with the single mom still came to an end. She was increasingly difficult and when her plan to make the other guy jealous started to not work her interest faded (this part about the other guy is my theory as she never admitted it but I'd be willing to bet I am right). We ended our relationship with no hard feelings and I was always proud to have had a positive influence on her son. Even though it did not work out this relationship I handled well. I did it right.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +5

      You're a good man! And you bring an additional great point... you can catch feelings for the kid and if it doesn't work out, you're out. :(

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 2 роки тому +1

      As a woman you were an beta male simp time to turn into a red pill

    • @ivanvarykino8202
      @ivanvarykino8202 2 роки тому +2

      If you are right - which I don't doubt, it's deplorable that she would introduce her kid to a positive relationship (with you) without intention of a long term commitment. And then end it without any effort to save it. This underscores that she wasn't even a good Mom in the first place which I think Anna is addressing right now as I type. Red flag - not even thinking about the negative impact to her son.
      Good for you for trying. I'm a single Dad having lost my wife early last year. I will not even consider introducing my 2 daughters to any one I date until I would be damn sure things had progressed to the point of potential long term commitment.

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 2 роки тому

      @@ivanvarykino8202 bingo … right code decisions

    • @abdoul.rmamah4558
      @abdoul.rmamah4558 2 роки тому

      No you were simping

  • @M0viLover
    @M0viLover 2 роки тому +31

    "Have an exit strategy." Yes!! Couldn't agree more! I had to do that, when a bipolar psych0 bulldozed her way into chabitating with me. I was sharing the situation with a neighbor of mine, and he let me borrow a recording device he used for college courses. I recorded her threatening to perform violence upon me to the point I'd be leaving the house via an ambulance. Six-month full stay-away restraining order.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

    • @teeaymusik9811
      @teeaymusik9811 Рік тому +1

      That's the women we have to deal with these days and it gets worse. So crazy!

    • @DarrinSK
      @DarrinSK Рік тому

      chabitating

  • @Tenkai917
    @Tenkai917 2 роки тому +49

    Tried dating a few single moms after my (now ex) wife and I divorced. Having that experience behind me and not wanting to go through it again, I never let things escalate to the point of an argument or disturbance - but I still have a few words of advice for any guys out there:
    1. Don't do it.
    2. You will always come second to the kid.
    3. Even if the kid isn't a priority, she'll always use it as an excuse for doing or not doing anything she wants or doesn't want to do.
    4. Possibility of baby daddy/ex drama - no good can come from this.
    5. Don't do it.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому +5

      You dated "a few" single moms? I have a term for people like you, the same term that I have for men who get married several times:
      "A slow learner"
      Nah, I'm just raggin on ya in good fun! What's important is that you learned your lesson before something terrible happened.

    • @Tenkai917
      @Tenkai917 2 роки тому

      @@AvroBellow If it happens once, it's an accident. If it happens twice, it's a coincidence. Three or more times is on purpose.
      I'm a big believer in second chances, but beyond that you're on your own.
      Edit: I'm talking about generally poor behavior. Cheating is a red line that will result in your instant removal from my life. Thankfully I've only had to deal with that ONCE in my life, and surprisingly it wasn't from my ex-wife.

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      @@Tenkai917 I wasn't being serious, you were supposed to get a chuckle out of that.

    • @Tenkai917
      @Tenkai917 2 роки тому +1

      @@AvroBellow Nah, I got you - just wanted to throw that in for the sake of my original comment.

  • @adamhucker1758
    @adamhucker1758 2 роки тому +37

    I love these videos. When I think of dating I always remember that I like my house and the peace. And I love not being in trouble for something I did in someone else's dream!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for appreciating my videos and yes, peace has a high value!

    • @adammiller6606
      @adammiller6606 2 роки тому

      Here here.

    • @im1who84u
      @im1who84u 2 роки тому

      I was on a date like that twice.
      My first time out on a date and alone with with these girls on separate dates for the first time and both went totally off the grid and I couldn't wait to drop them off...... and when I did and came back to my own home where I lived alone, I just sat on the couch and looked up at the ceiling and thanked God that I was home, alone, safe, and she was gone.
      I could have had sex with either one of them that night, but it just wasn't worth the trade.
      One called me a few days later, but I turned her down.
      The other never called.

  • @michaelz6555
    @michaelz6555 2 роки тому +41

    These seem like the type of women I’d do well to avoid irrespective of whether or not they were a mom.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +8

      For sure, great point, and even more amplified with single moms! + more legal risks :)

  • @NWTejas
    @NWTejas 2 роки тому +50

    Summary: just ignore women, stay single. Be happy. My last 'flame' would always laugh at situations (with us or others) and "say, you can be right or you can be happy, but you can't be both!
    Shortly after I learned I can be right and happy, as long as I stayed single.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @tino2a366
      @tino2a366 Рік тому +1

      To NWTejas. I have been single for over 3yrs now. Best decision I had ever made regarding my personal life. Some single moms look my way recently. Heck NO! I love my life too much.👍

    • @bullmoose6739
      @bullmoose6739 Рік тому

      What if they won’t ignore you??? What if you made every mistake in the book and she still won’t leave you alone?

    • @bullmoose6739
      @bullmoose6739 Рік тому

      It’s difficult, because I think the world of someone. But I know I like my simple life and I’d be better off alone.

    • @NWTejas
      @NWTejas Рік тому

      @@bullmoose6739 If you are serious, then you need to learn to "go monk mode". If you are making mistakes it implies you are trying. Focus on you and your pursuits. "no means, NO!" Politely tell you you are not interested in a relationship and please don't contact me again. If that does not work, get a restraining order, because they don't deal with rejection well. But that is her problem. Don't let it become yours. You owe her nothing. You owe noone anything.
      In the redpill community it is called walking off the plantation. Drop your shovel, and walk off the field. There is nothing holding you to your burden buy you, my friend.

  • @juliusmcbean1611
    @juliusmcbean1611 2 роки тому +124

    Single moms are not looking for love. They looking for help. I been there done that and never again with one.

    • @rexossai1441
      @rexossai1441 2 роки тому +14

      fact, fact fact

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 2 роки тому +6

      And blokes are looking for low cost sex ... what are you saying?

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +4

      I talk about this a bit in my follow up video (in the queue)! :)

    • @john_from_eastcoast.
      @john_from_eastcoast. 2 роки тому +3

      $$ no money means no honey!
      LoL 😂😆

    • @mortalkomment8028
      @mortalkomment8028 2 роки тому +13

      It's a terrible terrible life choice to commit to a single mother raising another dude's kid. You'll regret it sooner or later for sure. Do not commit to a single mother, gents! Pump and dump or build your own family! Do not continue the saved game of another player!

  • @stevewise1656
    @stevewise1656 2 роки тому +146

    Everytime you say, "Just the tip Tuesday" makes me laugh. Very clever. Many single moms have been treated poorly by their ex and read a lot into actions their boyfriends do or say. Constantly needing to prove you're not that guy, is exhausting.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +6

      Glad you get a chuckle!! ;)

    • @aussiewanderer6304
      @aussiewanderer6304 2 роки тому +3

      @@denverulland9919 think Billy Joel's song 'Innocent Man'.

    • @TheSanityMachine33
      @TheSanityMachine33 2 роки тому +10

      now remember guys...
      forget all of this crap.... JUST DON'T DATE/GET INVOLVED WITH SINGLE MOMS!!!
      then you don't have to jump through all of these hoops!
      Simple! I just saved you from the shit preached here!

    • @23ofSeptember
      @23ofSeptember 2 роки тому +10

      "Constantly needing to prove you're not that guy, is exhausting" Yes, especially in the evenings when you're trying to have a romantic evening. It typically turns into her asking for promises and demands,.

    • @stevewise1656
      @stevewise1656 2 роки тому +1

      @Murray Lindsay Hmm...I'm sure there are some very solid and sane single moms out there, however you'd hope their ex isn't insane. Going out on a date with them once or even for a longer-term could be perfectly fine. They clearly also have a choice here choosing who they want to date. Many attractive single moms have options.
      You don't want to deal with a bratty kid and/or you may not want to raise someone else's child. Sadly, though ideally, they're widows. I do mean sadly, because I wouldn't wish death on any child's parent.

  • @benjiarehart2878
    @benjiarehart2878 2 роки тому +23

    I married my wife when I was 32. She's 10 years older with 3 kids. One was grown and married with kids. The other 2 were 16, and 18. We've had our bumps along the way. Found out what my step-dad went thru very quickly. Fortunately We've been happily married 26 years. So the good one are out there. I always found older women much easier to date than the younger ones.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

    • @michaelgoober3079
      @michaelgoober3079 2 роки тому +7

      Eeww.....That's needy and gross. Sorry but it is going for going that old

    • @benjiarehart2878
      @benjiarehart2878 2 роки тому +3

      @@michaelgoober3079 Let me quess. Your young, and still single. Right?

    • @michaelgoober3079
      @michaelgoober3079 2 роки тому +1

      @@benjiarehart2878 So? And 42

    • @benjiarehart2878
      @benjiarehart2878 2 роки тому +7

      @@michaelgoober3079 Listen. When I was young. I had a lot of beautiful girls in my life. They were the most trouble I'd ever seen. There is something about getting older, and seeing the beauty in an older woman. I dont think you can fully understand this when you're younger. I know I didn't. But as I aged, I started seeing the beauty in older women. I believe you will understand this better the older you get. Don't be surprised when the beautiful younger women become less attractive to you. There is more than outter beauty that makes a woman attractive.

  • @johnf3326
    @johnf3326 2 роки тому +16

    I married 'Miss Right' 😊👍 trouble is I didn't know her first name was 'Always'! 🤣

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Bahahaha! Did you see my video on when she thinks she's always right but isn't?: ua-cam.com/video/U_qg8aOB_j8/v-deo.html

  • @leeallen463
    @leeallen463 2 роки тому +55

    I prefer to just avoid all single mothers. One might fool me eventually but so far I'd rather be single.

    • @russellmiles2861
      @russellmiles2861 2 роки тому +4

      I advise women to avoid deadbeat dads too

    • @TheSanityMachine33
      @TheSanityMachine33 2 роки тому +1

      the best choice.

    • @floatingchimney
      @floatingchimney 2 роки тому

      Don't ignore ALL single mothers, there are good single mothers out there, but they are mostly widows.

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      They'll never fool you if you understand that it will always be their intention.

    • @josephtracey4411
      @josephtracey4411 2 роки тому

      @@floatingchimney a widow is not a single mother though. I'd never date a single mom, but a widow I absolutely would. It's not their fault their husband died.

  • @kurtrobinson3454
    @kurtrobinson3454 2 роки тому +11

    As a single parent, I stopped dating after my ex-wife left me raising our daughter. My daughter grown-up and the ex-wife has passed away. I now realize I've no interest in dating. Just don't need the drama.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear about the demise of your ex-wife and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @kurtrobinson3454
      @kurtrobinson3454 2 роки тому +1

      @@YourWingmam Thanks, i appreciate the thought, but I'm over it. Been divorced 27 years now. My daughter hasn't seen her mother since she was 6. She's 30 and doing great. I'm retiring soon. We are both good.

  • @elmacho7561
    @elmacho7561 2 роки тому +13

    The five types:
    *1.- The single mom.*
    2.- The single mom.
    3.- The single mom.
    4.- The single mom.
    *5.- The single mom.*

  • @stephenmoxley3004
    @stephenmoxley3004 2 роки тому +39

    Great video, Anna. This video reminds me of some of the single moms I've dated in the past. Fortunately, I saw my way clear of them and their problems. Lots of good life lessons here. Keep up the great work.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      I'm glad you escape those situations and thank you for watching and appreciating! :)

    • @romanparrish6911
      @romanparrish6911 2 роки тому +1

      @@YourWingmam Great video i get shamed for not dating a single mother to me is a headache and too much drama i don't got time for her baby daddy her kids disrespecting me and the worse thing a man can do without children get a single mother pregnant and play stepdaddy to her kid's her other kid's might be jealous of your kid or kid's and might try to hurt them or the stepdaddy

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      @@romanparrish6911 Just tell her to keep her legs closed longer in her next life and things like this won't happen! LOL

  • @colsadventures
    @colsadventures 5 місяців тому +5

    I've heard the expression that you're not dating a single mum, you're dating a broken family. Harsh but true.
    Congrats AJ, this is the most vulnerable that I have seen in your videos. By including some history, you've been so Brave, but also relatable.
    Thanks again.

  • @jayspector
    @jayspector 2 роки тому +21

    Anna, wish I saw this before dating a single psycho mom. Would have saved me many sleepless nights. Love your videos!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you! Hopefully, this will help you avoid potential sleepless nights in future! :)

  • @rgadayinmylife6675
    @rgadayinmylife6675 2 роки тому +8

    "We teach people how treat us" I know it's not an original quote but well said!

    • @TheLostBijou
      @TheLostBijou 2 роки тому

      well, it could use a preposition in there somewhere, but yeah.

  • @rquest3059
    @rquest3059 2 роки тому +11

    WOW, I wish I could have watched this video 22 years ago. Would have saved me my sanity as well as thousands of dollars and a complete distrust of single mothers. GUYS listen to this young lady, she has great information, it's to late for me but you can SAVE YOURSELVES...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I get this comment *a lot!* You're not alone in your experience, but at least you've learned. :)

    • @rquest3059
      @rquest3059 2 роки тому

      @@ngozimiracle3997 Thank you for trying to help me but my wife has since passed away.

  • @64maxpower
    @64maxpower 2 роки тому +12

    Right there. That's the kind of advice i see no one else giving. "Maybes are a yes. It's better to say no " That saves an entire session discussion when the kid is 35 and going to therapy

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @michaelgoober3079
      @michaelgoober3079 2 роки тому

      A single mom put this guy her son in Therapy in his 30s. Now 40s and still needs Therapy

    • @64maxpower
      @64maxpower 2 роки тому

      @@michaelgoober3079 were you referring to me Mike? Because you were way off. I was raised in an orphanage by nuns

  • @lettuceboy2382
    @lettuceboy2382 2 роки тому +7

    Married for 24 years and women frequently comment how lucky I am to have such as easy going wife. I had just assumed most were that way so I never really understood what they meant. I think I’m getting it now

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @badboyblue9675
    @badboyblue9675 2 роки тому +4

    For any relationship one has to ask are you better off with them or without them and take it from there

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @kencos8194
    @kencos8194 2 роки тому +21

    Great video, Anna. However, you missed one red flag. This red flag is when she says; "My kids come first."
    If she tells you this upfront, what it really means is that her kids come first, last, and always. And, that you will never be a priority. It means that your only value to her is what you can do to help her take care of her kids.
    Don't get me wrong. I think a mother should put her children first. It's wrong for selfish parents can you neglect their needs. However, when a woman invites a man into her life, it's wrong for her to ignore his needs.
    Guys, remember this; When a woman tells you something negative about herself, you can multiply it by 10 and take it to the bank.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      That's kind of in the you'll never be a priority category but yes, if she says it.. good mom, bad partner!

    • @johnh.nickels3832
      @johnh.nickels3832 2 роки тому +1

      As a widowed Dad of 3 my priority was always my offspring to this day in my old age I cross the nation to help my offspring down through the generations.

    • @stuartkynoch7289
      @stuartkynoch7289 2 роки тому +1

      @@johnh.nickels3832 Being a widower myself you are totally on point.

    • @64maxpower
      @64maxpower 2 роки тому

      I would find it hard to respect a mother if she didn't put her kids first. A dude comes in to her life and she is supposed to make him a priority? A kid needs to know his parents are always there for them. If she really loves you , in time she won't be saying her kids come first once you prove yourself many times over. If a dude can't handle that then it's best he find a woman without kids.

    • @ligafftheindifferent3495
      @ligafftheindifferent3495 2 роки тому +1

      I agree. Kids do need attention. They need time. As an adult, you need less attention and time. On the other hand, that does not mean she can simply take you for granted. It is up to her to make sure the limited time she has for you is high quality. That means she must resist all temptations to nag, complain, etc. On some level, she needs to realize that you are making.a sacrifice for her and she needs to honor that sacrifice.

  • @ronquinton7470
    @ronquinton7470 2 роки тому +8

    So...several months ago I told my single Mom girlfriend of 3 years that my business is the most important thing in my life. Reason # 1 being, nobody is going to pay my bills except me. reason #2, Ive spent 18 years building my business and have been doing it mostly by myself. 3rd reason, I gave her an opportunity to be a part of it but she lacks the motivation and dedication to work it with me and help it grow. Since then, we rarely are intimate. I try often but she says no most of the time, in fact it's been almost three months since we've made love. . Uses excuses, headache, too tired, some part of her body aches. But when she "wants" to go do something, especially with her kids, she has plenty of energy and everything seems to stop hurting. At this point I feel there is no benefit to this relationship.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

    • @roberthicks9191
      @roberthicks9191 2 роки тому +1

      Run

    • @richardbayne7566
      @richardbayne7566 2 роки тому +1

      Get out!

    • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
      @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 роки тому +1

      RUN FORREST RUN!!!!

    • @petebradt
      @petebradt 2 роки тому

      She's fucking someone else,. Count on it. Breeders are all the same. Probably fucking the babydaddy.

  • @lyfandeth
    @lyfandeth 2 роки тому +7

    Same things apply to singles without kids.
    This has been one of your best.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      You're correct! And thank you so much!!

  • @jand8303
    @jand8303 2 роки тому +30

    You should avoid all single Moms! Too much unnecessary drama!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for watching and commenting! You might appreciate this other video I did on SMs: ua-cam.com/video/RwXXRmkRWZU/v-deo.html

  • @whythis28
    @whythis28 2 роки тому +9

    Ciao Anna! Nice topic. You hit the nail on the head. Dealing with a single mom is dicey, to say the least.
    As usual appreciate the content and the energy! Remember; keep smiling!! 💯

  • @JRoss-zxzx
    @JRoss-zxzx 7 місяців тому +4

    many single mamas try to get a dude to move in early, that way she has more control cause you can't escape to your own place and own peace.

  • @josephregalado2397
    @josephregalado2397 2 роки тому +3

    “Under promise and over deliver” is, perhaps , the wisest thing you can deliver in the way of advice. I salute you in your judgement . Very impressive.

  • @Toby_the_Glen
    @Toby_the_Glen 2 роки тому +8

    Single mum's have ex's, that is a huge thing? Like a black cloud hanging over the relationship for many reasons!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @SuperSlimShady24
    @SuperSlimShady24 Рік тому +4

    Best Ginger ever, this lady is spot on and you Gentlemen need to follow her advice as she is spot on. What a sweetheart!

  • @lionelt7882
    @lionelt7882 2 роки тому +5

    My co-worker is a single Mom who dumped her boyfriend because her son’s father was feeding her son lies about him, causing the son to resent the boyfriend enough where it started causing friction between the son and that boyfriend. The boyfriend literally did nothing, the Mom (my co-worker) said he was the best guy she ever been with, knew the child’s father was telling his son lies like “your Mom isn’t with me because she’s being controlled by her boyfriend” and “we’re not a family because your Mom just wants to have fun with her new guy”. The son is only 6, so he’s believing everything his Dad is telling him. So…she dumped the boyfriend. And…she moved back in with the Dad. Wild stuff.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best because it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @matthughesrocks
    @matthughesrocks Рік тому +6

    Great video. From experience I can also add that her kids are her 1st priority, not you, eg she will spend Christmas with them, not you if there's a choice. And she will also kind of sort of treat you like her kid in a way with her extra sensitive radar that picks up on anything that may seem wrong or out of place regarding you like questioning why you are breathing differently.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR Рік тому

      Wow this makes sense….anything i have tried to explain to her or if i spoke how i feel due to how she ignored my text etc or her lack of communication she has told me that ive acted immature or like a child its BS..mainly its BS 100% bc she wont ever take accountability for anything & im the bad guy when i have shown my anger and i hate that i did

  • @aussiewanderer6304
    @aussiewanderer6304 2 роки тому +13

    I decided to leave a relationship after a girlfriend (no kids) wanted to go to an event in the morning, but instead of waking me up (I had no idea what time it was, I was sleeping in a spare room in her parent's house) and she was completely passive aggressive with me for weeks.
    When asked why she didn't wake me she said "I'm not your mother".
    If I couldn't rely her to help me do something that SHE wants to do, how can I rely on her for anything?

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

  • @304tep
    @304tep 2 роки тому +6

    She knows what she's talking about. Listen up!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching!

  • @bobbytelevision
    @bobbytelevision 2 роки тому +6

    We can not repair what we didn't break... I see that now. I ran across your videos after a relationship with a single mom. I ignored all of the flags. We were going strong from the jump. 6 months later, out of nowhere one night she plays ghost... all of a sudden "she knows nothing about me" and "I can't just show up because, she has kids"... certainly 2 out of 5 types. I was part of the problem too, though. Ignoring the flags is a problem.
    Appreciate your content @yourwingmam

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience and 100% high five for acknowledging you ignored the flags. Can't change what you don't acknowledge. You won't do that again! :))

  • @livejay9062
    @livejay9062 2 роки тому +22

    I find myself gravitating towards Anna's videos. Very good in all areas!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      Glad you like them! That makes me so happy!

  • @DominickM.
    @DominickM. 2 роки тому +3

    Hundred percent relate to the passive aggressive silent Treatment but then turns into a look that could shatter glass lol

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @vens2g
    @vens2g 2 роки тому +5

    I LOVE this video! 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿 It’s so satisfying listening to you. Thank you for doing what you do. 🤩

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @im1who84u
    @im1who84u 2 роки тому +6

    14:43
    Interesting note here.
    My father also died when I was twelve. He was an alcoholic and there's a lot of back story here, but lets just leave it that he passed away when I was twelve.
    My Italian mother chose to remain single and raised my older sister and I alone. Not that she didn't have options.
    She enrolled me in military school from eight grade to twelfth grade where I received a very good education and had very good adult male examples in my life. Which included other older cadets as well as school staff. I made lifelong friends some of which have since become very influential in world events today. I still keep in touch with many of them even to this day.
    She never remarried and just recently passed away at the age of 96.
    She was a good mother, I loved her, and I could never have done enough for her.
    God has blessed my sister and I in life and I've never had any problems attracting women and the same for my sister with men. I just need to be better at discernment. My sister always had the pick of the bunch and could even easily steel a man away from another woman. Often times with no encouragement from her.
    As for myself, even today as an older person I can still turn heads when I walk into a room. It's not the life I had hoped for, but its been a pretty darn good one.
    I look younger than I am and when women flirt with me and tell them how old I am, that usually sends them packing, which is fine with me.
    Single and no children.
    Life is good!
    Thanks mom.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      You're welcome and thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

    • @im1who84u
      @im1who84u 2 роки тому

      @@YourWingmam Always nice to hear from you. I love those little sound effects you've added to your videos for when you blink your beautiful eyes and make other facial expressions.
      I just wanted to clarify something here.
      When I said "thanks mom", I was actually directing that to my biological mother. Sorry for any confusion.
      When I look at you.... Mother is not what I am thinking.... just saying.

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 2 роки тому +6

    AVOID ALL SINGLE MOTHERS

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Not all single mothers are to be avoided there are some single mothers you might want to consider dating and my video ONLY Consider Dating These Types of SINGLE MOMS! (She's a Good Single Mother to Date IF...) will give you the clarity you need check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/j3pufu8QXnc/v-deo.html 👈

    • @starsaber9631
      @starsaber9631 Місяць тому

      The only exception is a widow. Any other is by choice. Wether because she chose a wrong guy to breed a baby with it or because she didn't want to be with the father. Either way it's a choice made by the female who then gets left to raise a child and then needs some next stranger to get to know them and help out 🤷

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 2 роки тому +14

    My 1st wife had a kid that I adopted, marriage was hell. Lasted less than 5 years. Did I learn nope. 2nd wife had a kid which I did not adopt lasted 2 years. It wasn't hell but it wasn't paradise either. 3rd wife no kids been doing great for 20 years. I watch your channel to be able to identify problems before they become one. The first 2 marriages was me trusting other people's terrible advice. You give great advice thank you.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      First, thank you so much for your trust! Second, your story is a testament to the risks of dating (or marrying) single moms. I'm sure looking back you can now see the red flags but man, those relationships are far more painful to exit. Finally, glad you found a keeper!! :)

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому +3

      You got married THREE TIMES? I'm not judging, I just think you're nutz! LOL

  • @jamesdooley2221
    @jamesdooley2221 Рік тому +4

    I dated a single mom. Yup, never ever again - ever. I got the privilege of paying, yet I had no authority over her kids. The kids also routinely disrespected me because 'You're not my father'. Run, don't walk. As Darius M says 'Men, just walk away'.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Not all single mothers are to be avoided. There are some single mothers you might want to consider dating. Check out my video on the types of single moms you might want to consider dating here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/j3pufu8QXnc/v-deo.html 👈

  • @buttscarlton3457
    @buttscarlton3457 Рік тому +2

    That line about you not having any kids that you know of was funny! These videos have me asking hard questions, but they are extremely helpful!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @Lydia-Roe
    @Lydia-Roe Рік тому +8

    As a single mom of 3 boys - yes @Your Wingman is spot on. I can tell you the number of times when my kids were younger that there were promises - or I sabotaged a well meaning dude and didn't mean to. I learned. I've dated good men. I have a ton going on right now in my life, so I've said good bye to dating for a while, as I've realized I cannot make time for dating as I'd like to (working, in school, in the military, have kids). It's difficult, but I don't want to lead a man on that I will have more time for him, which has been the resounding echo from most guys over the last 5 years of my dating experience. We can be rational, moderate our feelings, and have a higher emotional quotient with you guys. Men are great, fantastic, and amazing. More power to the channel here.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @Sp3ecial_K
    @Sp3ecial_K 2 роки тому +6

    Dating is a train wreck now at my age. It seems lije every woman i meet has kids. Which goes against my rule of dating women with kids. Just can't do it. You gotta find someone who will compliment your life instead of complicate it.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best

  • @dabela2279
    @dabela2279 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you. Education with entertainment on the side. Could not be any better...and those photos and videos to clip on the side...Always SPOT ON. Thank you

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

  • @olinjr.3827
    @olinjr.3827 2 роки тому +4

    Enjoy your content- intuitively I know this however my head wrestles with my gut feeling. Thanks for reiterating!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @killingsley
    @killingsley 2 роки тому +21

    Hey single mothers! As men our main domestic obligations in a relationship are to protect & provide. We don't want to risk our life, freedom & resources protecting & providing for a woman who is emotionally & genetically attached to another mans child. We don't want to share your time, energy, & attention with another mans child when theres a chance we may die trying to protect you or go broke trying to provide for you. We only want to give that kind of loyalty to a woman who is childless & may potentially become our wife & the mother of our children; A woman who is devoted to us only & not a woman who is devoted to another mans children. We only want to sacrifice ourselves for our own lineage, not someone else's. Make sense?

  • @Freethinkersofia
    @Freethinkersofia Рік тому +5

    When I was younger I really wanted to see the best in people but now I get older I realize that there are a reason single moms are single moms! Unless she was married and the father died tragically and suddenly there is really no excuse to be a single mother of small children.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @johnadams2630
    @johnadams2630 2 роки тому +2

    She just had another friend helping her out. And they just happened to see each other there, and he was just so nice he insisted on paying for her and all the kids.

  • @william44660
    @william44660 2 роки тому +3

    You're terrific, Anna. I don't listen to you as much as I should, if for no other reason than you're fun to listen to. "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine." .

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for listening, I appreciate your feedback!

    • @william44660
      @william44660 2 роки тому +2

      You're welcome.

  • @johncunningham5435
    @johncunningham5435 2 роки тому +7

    WTF I really feel for you; dating a single mom can be most challenging. Unfortunately in this situation you must work twice as hard to make this relationship work, and it is not easy. But! at the same time you must look after yourself, otherwise the train will run over you. If this relationship is going to work you must lay down ground rules, "you work long hours and more than likely overtime to provide for the family", and most important you have limits, this must be conveyed to her with a firm hand, if you can get this across, she will have a lot more respect.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      100%! And if she doesn't get it, she's not worth it. Love the train analogy... if you're not the conductor, your relationship is going to derail at high speed!

  • @stevesimons2641
    @stevesimons2641 2 роки тому +8

    Why am I meeting a person's kid(s) when the relationship isn't completely a sure thing? Definite red flag, total pass

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @josephregalado2397
    @josephregalado2397 2 роки тому +1

    KIDS THAT YOU KNOW OF - that is an absolute riot! Wit on point

  • @user-zp9td3gh6k
    @user-zp9td3gh6k 9 місяців тому +2

    The type doesn't matter, just avoid any and all

  • @gokickrocks3830
    @gokickrocks3830 2 роки тому +6

    Dated a single mom for a year, gave it my all bonded with the kids then she monkey branched to an ex. I took my L's and I'm never dating a woman with kids ever again. Its a thankless job

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @cynthiaguarino2016
    @cynthiaguarino2016 2 роки тому +21

    Or you can be the kind of single mom that I am. I've been divorced for 12 years and have not dated or even considered bringing a man into my son's life. My sole focus has been on raising my son and now that he is getting ready to leave for college I will continue my life as a very happy single person without the entanglement of any romantic relationships.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому +3

      Good for you Cynthia. That really is what your son needs. You have my respect but please do not fall into the trap of making your son hate himself for being male by badmouthing men 24/7 like my mother did around me. He needs to know that being male doesn't mean being evil.

    • @cynthiaguarino2016
      @cynthiaguarino2016 2 роки тому

      @@AvroBellow thank you for the kind words. My son has a very good relationship with his father and we co-parent quit effectively by never disparaging one another. My son is considered special needs but high functioning in that he attends an all boys school that excels in academics. My feelings were not that I was angry with men, but that my priority was to my family. The other piece is that I was in my mid-40's when I had my son, after the divorce I still had a responsibility and now that he is leaving for college I realize that I'm too used to being by myself and I enjoy it. I want to explore this chapter of my life on my own.

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому +1

      @@cynthiaguarino2016 Cynthia, thanks for telling me this. It really warms my heart to know that there are people like you out there who do the right thing. It's a real shame that most don't appear to be nearly as wise as you are. Your son is clearly in good hands and I couldn't be hapier for him. Unselfish people like you really make this world a better place.

    • @slightlyimperfect4011
      @slightlyimperfect4011 2 роки тому +1

      Amen Girl me too, not all single moms are the same, just like all men aren’t the same. Their are amazing single Moms out there, just as there is amazing men. Can’t lump everyone together, love is a choice you make every single day!

  • @hybridblack
    @hybridblack 2 роки тому +2

    My son's mom is all 5 of these. Yeah it's a nightmare. Run ASAP!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

    • @hybridblack
      @hybridblack 2 роки тому

      @@YourWingmam I'm still getting myself back. It's taking longer than it should since I have to constantly deal her because of our son. She's a constant irritation because she has nothing better to do while she sits at home everyday living off of my child support, our son's disability and food stamps. I wish she would just go away.

  • @stevengraham5454
    @stevengraham5454 2 роки тому +1

    Great video. I love the flintstones bit and the sound effects too.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @zippyblessed839
    @zippyblessed839 2 роки тому +4

    I'm a single woman..but even I'm learning on how to control your emotions
    And not react in an angry way over text

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Bless you!!!! I hope you continue to watch my videos. They're for men but women can learn so much from them, too. We don't know what we don't know! Thank you for your comment!

  • @anewlifestirring
    @anewlifestirring 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you dear wingman for elevating us.
    I have lived through all that and much more, passed beyond all the red flags because of a 10 year old boy who desperately needed me and with whose mother I stuck for 17 years until he finished his medical school and married and brought me a charming and loving daughter-in-law who sought my help to manage with her mother-in-law, my ex-wife.
    So I don’t regret all that: it all depends what you expect from a human relationship and above all, a marriage which reflects how you consider your purpose in life; bringing stability to a damaged single mother and child can be a challenging but rewarding life experience as long as you are willing to manœuvre in between the forest of red flags.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @matthewhancock7424
    @matthewhancock7424 2 роки тому +1

    Attagirl with the "i dont have kids, that i know of" very nice! Lol

  • @kevincoon8573
    @kevincoon8573 2 роки тому +4

    Great video, Anna. Your insight is greatly appreciated!!

  • @samuelyankovitch1572
    @samuelyankovitch1572 2 роки тому +3

    Anna, you are unbelievably so dame right!!!. Accordingly, you also deserve so much thanks.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @Phaedrus-th7bi
    @Phaedrus-th7bi 2 роки тому +4

    Yes, I am serious. You know I work Trauma at a major east coast hospital................. And , yes, when I was walking the girlfriend to see her boyfriend, I asked her, "Hey, do you guys have any kids?". Her response was, "Well, I have one." When the pt came in, he admitted to falling asleep at the wheel because he has been working a lot of overtime (warehouse work).

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Wow! They need to watch this video.

  • @RedPill_Live
    @RedPill_Live Рік тому +2

    I’m making a series of this topic, very good input from a women’s perspective. The best thing you can do is avoid them at all costs.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @josht4659
    @josht4659 Рік тому +1

    Ok your info is great. But you crack me up. I love your videos and how deliver the info. You make me laugh

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @charlesmarotta8410
    @charlesmarotta8410 2 роки тому +5

    WOW NOT FOR ME. I.LL STICK TO A MATURE SINGLE WOMAN. WAS WAITING FOR A TOPIC LIKE THIS.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Definitely risky! The higher his relationship market value the more options a man has :)

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 2 роки тому +3

    This is so true 👍 Anna, have a great week 🦋

  • @chuckh2929
    @chuckh2929 6 місяців тому +1

    Anna, I wish to God I had heard of you before I married the single mom that I did back in 2011. Not sure you long you've been doing this, but still. I am now divorced as of two months ago. Granted, I had things that I failed at, and I am very regretful of that, but there were so many things just in this video ALONE, that applied to my situation over the past twelve years, it's crazy! You have a wealth of information, and you always make it so enjoyable with your incredible humor!

  • @joedunnuck4813
    @joedunnuck4813 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for providing this information for those in this situation. If only there was UA-cam 12 years ago😉. Great advice gentlemen, listen and learn or loose half your stuff.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for watching, I hope some of my advice will be of benefit to you! :)

  • @ICU2B4UDO
    @ICU2B4UDO 2 роки тому +6

    "It's better to sit in a corner of the roof alone than in the house with a contentious woman." - Proverbs/King Solomon...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

    • @ICU2B4UDO
      @ICU2B4UDO 2 роки тому

      @@YourWingmam ...Now, if I can only find a GODLY Woman that I WANT to spend time in the house with!! Because celibacy sucks...😆 🤣 😂

  • @sillycaveman7832
    @sillycaveman7832 2 роки тому +3

    I love your knowledge and tips!

  • @davidlucasmachado2831
    @davidlucasmachado2831 2 роки тому +2

    Enjoyed this one 👍🙂

  • @hectorlugo655
    @hectorlugo655 Рік тому +1

    I’m Im always taking a classes from
    You. You must have a great man in your life because your so grounded. Much love ❤️

  • @zentmental
    @zentmental 2 роки тому +4

    Don't go after single moms. Got it. Thank you very much.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Not all single mothers are to be avoided there are some single mothers you might want to consider dating and my video ONLY Consider Dating These Types of SINGLE MOMS! (She's a Good Single Mother to Date IF...) will give you the clarity you need check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/j3pufu8QXnc/v-deo.html 👈

  • @heavyassaultmode1503
    @heavyassaultmode1503 2 роки тому +10

    If they're a single mother by choice they need to be avoided. By definition, they are not relationship material. If they're widowed or they divorced for cause, that's a different story.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Excellent differentiation! :)

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      They're still to be avoided because they will never be able to put you first. The dynamic is that you meet a woman, you fall in love and put each other first as a result of that love. Then you have children and you both put the children first, understanding that they are most important. It's easy to take when the mother of your children puts your children before you. It's not so easy when the mother of another man's children puts them before you. That's not a knock on her because it's something that she MUST do. She is a mother which means that being a love interest will never be top priority for her as long as her children draw breath. It is the way of things, the way of the force.
      That doesn't mean it's not a raw deal for any man who comes along.

    • @heavyassaultmode1503
      @heavyassaultmode1503 2 роки тому

      @@AvroBellow Your stipulation that no single mother can be a good life partner for me is patently and blatantly false, especially if she bears me children. "The Force," really? Star Wars = single mothers are bad??? SMH, grasshoppa.

    • @AvroBellow
      @AvroBellow 2 роки тому

      @@heavyassaultmode1503 Your name shows how low-brow you are. "HeavyAssaultMode"? You're a kid to me because no man who has been an adult for more than ten years would have such a childish name. You'd have taken the name of something cool by now. My stipulation is that no single mother can be a good life partner but not necessarily because of HER. It's about her situation.
      If you want to be a sucker, go right ahead. If you don't like that almost no men want one for the reasons I've stated, that's your problem! Your post just shows that you're an arrogant narcissist with no brains in his skull. Did you honestly think that I would somehow say "Oh yes, clearly you're right and I never thought of that!"? Jeez, you're plain DUMB!
      Of course, someone who is an arrogant narcissist doesn't take into account that you having a child with that single mom isn't fair to her existing children because you will instinctively treat yours better. If you even try to say otherwise I call you LIAR because that's human nature and we all know it, even if you don't.
      BTW: "Grasshoppa"? God, you're lame! Now I understand your attraction to single mothers. You take what you can get I guess. LOL

    • @CONTRACTOR_SG3
      @CONTRACTOR_SG3 2 роки тому

      @@heavyassaultmode1503 He's right they still won't be able to put you first. It don't matter if he's chose to be a single mother or not it's just fact.

  • @mamajedijaws4938
    @mamajedijaws4938 Рік тому +2

    I saw my dream guy date another single mom. He is gorgeous, dark hair blue eyes, was raised on a farm, sweet disposition, smart, has started multiple businesses, loves kids and rich. She is a deaf nurse with three kids and he learned sign language to talk to her and her kids. He bought the kids vacuums for Christmas to help the mom clean every week. I don't care what this lady says. They are happy together and are still going strong and I pray that they stay together and celebrate a 50 wedding anniversary in the future. I try not to wish I were her.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @K-park81
      @K-park81 Рік тому

      I smell a bunch of lies

  • @andreaberryman5354
    @andreaberryman5354 2 роки тому +2

    Single mom. Dad is dead. Son leaves for school tomorrow. Alone. Now I know why. Everyone is paired up, so 90% chance I'm alone for good. Thanks!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • @christopherhazell420
    @christopherhazell420 2 роки тому +3

    Dated a single mom whose child is grown & in the military. Child's father had been out of the picture for years.Thought this might work out...
    Experienced the other flags you spoke on.She stated many times loving me & wanting to be with me. However took no initiative to visit me (only once before I left on a trip) then put up with the demeaning, mind games & s%$t test until I drew a line & departed. Later on she moved to where her son was stationed...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Sounds like you've had a bad experience. That sucks! It's ok to take a break from women. Have you seen my video on the Benefits of Staying Single? Just in case: ua-cam.com/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/v-deo.html
      If you do decide to consider dating again, start with my red flags videos: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ.html

  • @zs9265
    @zs9265 Рік тому +12

    I dated a single mom for 1 year back in 2018. We started off as friends with benefits and it grew into something bigger. We got into a relationship. It was going good until she started bringing her 5 year old son Around. She expected me to pay for him anywhere we went. She would bring him with her when her and I made plans for ourselves. When I didn't pay for him, she would get upset. I told her.. your son is not my responsibility. He's yours. You need to pay for him. She didn't like that. I said.. you expect other guys to pay for your son? That's disgusting. I don't know any guy, in their right mind, that would pay for a woman's child that's not his. I mean, simps would. Beta males would. She would come over to my place with her son after telling me she got a sitter. Then upon arriving, telling me the sitter canceled. I was miserable. 100 percent lesson learned.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @AWESOME55580
    @AWESOME55580 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your videos, it really help me a lot. Before I date single mother.
    You are awesome!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I'm happy that the videos have been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing 🙏

  • @vernemil
    @vernemil Рік тому +1

    You're more insightful in your analyses than anyone i've ever known. Never been with a single mom but i do have a spouse. Things didn't start this way but over the years, i've collected enough red flags to make a quilt. Surely men crave your companionship because they (we) think you're the only female on the planet who understands red flags and so doesn't deliver them.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @kamarrroxs4176
    @kamarrroxs4176 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video.
    I'm(33)currently dating a single mother(38) going into 7 months now and it has its ups and downs. I do everything I can for her and her 2yo daughter. We recently had an argument cause the baby daddy messaged her randomly while we were on a date. I kept calm about it and asked her later about what it was about and she said he just wanted to talk. So I got stressed out and worried about it and shes like you have emotional baggage.
    But this father of the child was a very bad person from what she said and she was a bootycall for him. But didnt block him on everything after there falling out which for me is super odd as she was telling me she wants nothing to do with him including child support cause of how much bad news he was. So now I'm stuck on the idk what to do road or actions I should honestly persue.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation and I pray you're able to do what is truly best 🙏

    • @chadraymond8838
      @chadraymond8838 Рік тому +1

      I was in something similar I’m now 30 and she 38… Her son is 15 soon to be 16. I very rarely comment or reply on UA-cam but if there was someone out there that had an experience like mine, I’d wish they’d have told me this…. You have time. Of course we aren’t getting any younger BUT you have time… As men we aren’t encouraged enough to but love yourself… love yourself enough to NOT ignore your intuition. I completely lost myself in the dynamic I was in and it’s undoubtedly scared me; her scares became mine… The exchange of energy was unequal and that’s the most imports thing you should take into account… you are not only trading your energy with her but also her 2year old and also the father of her child. An additional person that SHE is choosing and allowing to hold space. I’m sure the lady you are with is lovely but give yourself a moment to be completely objective (which would probably mean taking a no contact break for a month) about your relationship. I’m 6 months out of our relationship and although I still miss her and her son I’m falling back in love with myself after 2years of chaos. Would this current version of me go back with everything I’ve now learnt… No… We are unequally yolked and if you’re brutally honest with yourself… Are you equal, can she fill your cup in the same way you can fill hers? I’d argue no, purely based on the fact that she has a child… A woman who isn’t willing to clear up her life or make adjustments for poor decisions she made isn’t worthy of you King…
      Stay blessed
      P.s. congratulations however if you’ve both managed to overcome this and are now in a healthy and equal space

  • @RockymountainRobert
    @RockymountainRobert 2 роки тому +4

    Actually there's only two kinds, ones that realize they shouldn't have had a one night stand, and the ones that realize they haven't found what there looking for.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @AAM2011
    @AAM2011 2 роки тому +2

    Love it!!! Great to see a woman point of view about single men with no kids

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

    • @AAM2011
      @AAM2011 2 роки тому

      @@ismaildalhat469 stop spamming!!

  • @YoSpiff
    @YoSpiff 2 роки тому +2

    I always take a "maybe" to mean the same as "no". My own personal phrase is "I'll see what I can do". Which really means "No, but I don't want to have an argument about it". I was a single dad, so I may actually sit on the other side of that fence to some level.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      You will find my video on a single dad wanting to date again to be interesting. Check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/KwLhkrms3ig/v-deo.html