My Goodness! Three days ago, I was praying to God asking Him to help me move on and heal from my childhood traumas as it has affected the way I relate with people and boom your video today is about childhood traumas. God is so personal! 😭😭😭. Thank you Winnie. Now, let me watch the video to learn.
@@winniesschoolofeleganceThank you for this life changing lesson, God bless you. Please we the newbies are waiting for the makeup tutorial video from you. Thanks for your passion
I'm 19 years old and i have so many traumatic experience with being sexual abused from age 6, i remembered don't know how, but i know every single details and many things from secondary school so it was from one trauma to another
Same here. 😂😂😂 I was SA'd when I was 6 years old as well. I'm 18 y/o now. I feel like it doesn't bother me anymore, but once in a while, the memories will come kicking in and I'll break down crying. I'm happy I found this channel. She's been amazing 😍
I'm currently healing and decided not to date again until I get there because it affects me in my relationship. I tend to people please and attract men who are like a daddy because I grew up without mine. Not having my dad in my life affected me so much. Its been about a month of healing. Prayer, self love,self care,gratitude,meditation and mindfulness, Positivity is helping me alot
Winnie! I was just telling a friend yesterday that I've finally decided to go to therapy and was already considering one platform recommended by a UA-camr and I come online today to see this barely 24hrs after?! I like that you don't just put out content for content creation sake...its very obvious you're led by the Holy Spirit. Well done Winnie and thank you!❤❤❤
Oh my! I am so glad you found this video valuable. I sincerely hope you find the courage and strength to deal with this on your own. The book I shared is a great place to gain insight…I felt like I was talking to a real therapist when I was reading the book. Then take your relationship with God to the next level. Allow him help you… Just commit to the process, determine in your heart that you will see this through until you emerge on the other side.✨✨ I love you and I am rooting for you!❤️
See me crying and watching this 😢😢 My childhood was so bitter that I'm yet to gather the courage to discuss it with anyone. 32 now and still battling with the effects of childhood trauma 😢😢 God help me heal before I hurt myself 😭😭😭🙏
My mum was extremely wicked during our childhood days, but then i realised she didn't heal from her childhood trauma. She was raised by her aunty, who abused her so badly. She was caring, tho, but she was so aggressive . Unfortunately, the treatment affected us all, but no one mentioned it. Thank God we found Christ, and He saved us.
I can see how many people saying "this video came at the right time, you've literally saved my life, etc." Well, permit me to add to it. This is the clarity I prayed for few days ago. I literally want to hug you rn. I can't wait to feel as free as you are rn. I just can't wait.
Mine was comparison. My mom would always compare me to my younger sister, My mom then would call me names like Good for Nothing, a failure, This is really shattered, my self confidence
Oh my!! I am really sorry about this!❤️ Please know that those names your mom called you is definitely not who you are… your mom was only projecting her pain on you. Please forgive her quickly and understand that she too was probably a grown woman suffering from unhealed traumas and bcos she didn’t heal, she hurt you deeply in the process. Don’t let the cycle continue… let it end with you. HEAL DEAR…please! Heal for yourself, so you can truly enjoy this life… and heal for the sake of your children so they won’t have to heal from having you as a mom. I am rooting for you always!❤️❤️❤️
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
Try positive affirmations. Write affirmations that speak to the negative thoughts and self-talk. Repeat them out loud CONSISTENTLY. At first, you might not believe them, but say them until you start to believe them about yourself
Thank you, Winnie. The part where you did the exercise of summoning your younger self, I literally started crying. Because I also subconsciously went back to my younger days. There is this scenario that happened between my dad and I that stands out of all his wicked deeds to his children. I can never forget that incident. I have tried to forgive and move on, but I don't think I can forgive him. He is dead now, yet I still can't forgive. I was about 14 or 15 years old then I was at the waterside waiting to travel but all the available boats have gone. I was waiting to see if I can catch any private boats going my way. There were other people also waiting. Then my dad walked in with his entourage, asked everyone else to join his boat, and left me out. He left me stranded with no boat Onsight. He carried everyone else in his boat and told me to my face that I won't join his boat, then he drove off. I couldn't travel again; I went back home as I didn't see any other boat. I can't forget, but by God's grace I will forgive and heal with time.
Ohh sweetness I'm really sorry you had to go through that pain, I'm so sorry on his behalf. I'm already tearing up writing this, please and please for your own sake it's time to forgive and release your self my darling.
Thank you so much Winnie for this wonderful video ..I am just 16 years old battling with trauma and I have been looking for ways to heal myself...I just want to say God bless you ❤️❤❤❤
I am so glad you found this video helpful dear… God will see you through as you proceed on the journey to healing from any traumas that has hampered with your growth and progress in life. Please don’t quit on yourself! Commit to the process of healing and don’t quit until you’ve emerged in the other side! I love you!❤
This is that one video I never thought I needed, believe me when I say this is an answer to a prayer. I just understand that past traumas are the reasons why I still struggle with so many things no matter how hard I tried and it really breaks my heart because lots of traumas I've tried to bury rather than confronting came back alive and I could link them to some of my present struggles. I will sure get the book you recommended and I will come back with my testimony, watching this video alone is a breakthrough and it will definitely touch other lives through me. God bless you @winnieschoolofelegance for this.
I thought i was the only one who was held down by unhealed childhood trauma... Thank you so much Winnie for speaking about it, and giving others the chance to voice out
You've literally just saved a life Winnie... you have no idea. God bless you for sharing!❤❤❤ One of my abusers literally looked me in the face and told me I have low self-esteem and inferiority complex. 😢💔
Please pay them no mind! You are a unique being with extraordinary qualities and there’s really no one else like you!✨✨ I am glad you found this video valuable… I only ask that you commit to the process of healing from any traumatic experiences that has scarred your mind and don’t back down until you’ve emerged in the other side. I am rooting for you always.❤️
I am every thing you mentioned... i am a 32year adult who is married and have a very bad low esteem and having problems in my marriage of over 10year.. with two beautiful boys and am not feeling worthy of being there mom.. i still suffer from childhood trauma .. my husband has no idea of what i go through everyday.. when i said i need a therapist he just laugh and thats all.
Thanks for your vulnerability! Although not easy to talk about, discussing childhood traumas openly helps educate and raises public awareness. I started dealing with mine after I became a mom and it has transformed the way I parent. In fact, parenting without being at peace with the child inside will inflict a lot of pain on our own children. Please, if you’re a parent, deal with your past and heal from it so that you can parent with love and empathy. Imagine a world where children feel loved and secure, wouldn’t that free up so much space for them to focus on creating a better future? You are such a strong and beautiful woman, Winnie! Much love and blessings ❤
I am so glad you found this video valuable… please work on healing quickly so you can truly enjoy this life and all your birthrights in it. I am rooting for you Dear!❤
I cried watching this video because I have a lot of trauma that I'm dealing with and it has affected me badly I'm happy I came across this video and I hope I heal totally someday This video being posted on my birthday is a coincidence but it means a lot to me Thank you so much Winnie God bless you 🥺 Watching your videos have changed some part of my life and I hope it does completely 🥺🥺
I also was thinking on how i could heal, so that my past experiences wont affect my present and future relationships. Thank you much Miss Winnie, God has and is still using you to teach many things about becoming my true self.❤❤❤❤ God bless you, Ma.
Ms winnie everything you said i could relate. I say this with tears falling from my face. When you mentioned the book about inner child healing im working on that book now. God has out you here for these reasons and my soul cries out when i knot myself with different people. Esp men I treat them like they are better than me when i truely know the truth. It goes on and on. I pray your video help reach more men and women alike.
My heart reaches out to you Dear…I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to heal from all traumas. I love you always and I am rooting for you!❤️
😊 Love the motivation. People often think that being a high value alpha woman comes easily, or that you are born with those qualities...it's actually years of hard work, growth and consistency ❤
Knowing and having knowledge is power 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I’m Haitian I can’t ever tell my mom what she did to me it’s fine I just wrote it and journal my notes so I can be a better version of her ❤
This just confirmed to me that i still have a long way to go in healing my inner child. Thank you for being this vulnerable and for the book recommendation. God bless you, Winnie❤️
Oh dear Winnie Thanks for being vulnerable with us. ❤️ I have remembered some of my traumas as you went thru yours, and i have a few things i need to do for myself as an adult cos of you. Loads of love from 🇰🇪 Kenya
Thank you so much Winnie for this episode. My own was a poor parental grooming, socially, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I distance myself from people, lack confidence, low self-esteem and shyness. ... I prayed to God, and so I believed this is the time to confront my inner child first by getting hold of the recommended book. Please I need your help in this journey to follow me up provided I feel weary. Also, I need your note on this episode please. Congratulations on your🎊 I added, You have become a blessing to our generation. Thank you for taking the bold(faith) step then.
Thank you so much Winnie,I went through hell especially growing up as an orphan, having lost my parents at an early age when I needed them the most,I healed from some traumas but some am yet to,thank you for your insight on healing,for me you have covered all and most importantly what I needed to heal from,God bless you Winnie,since I started following you I have learned much,this specific topic was meant for me😢😢
It’s my absolute pleasure! I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to face your fears and deal with the traumas once and for all. I am always rooting for you!❤️
It’s not weird.. i went through the same traumas and that was why I found your page in the first place.. this page has been a blessing to me.. I’m still in the process actually. Thank you for this video big sis Winnie ❤
It was really good watching this . People always talk about how to heal your childhood trauma and how to interact with your inner child but they never talk about how you are very young and still in the university and still have to live in the house of your parent that caused you that childhood trauma because you are still a university student who does not have any money to get an apartment and you have to depend on them financially and the parent that caused you trauma does not even know how their actions have caused you trauma. And they keep being the way they are
It was just as if you were discussing my life😢..this got me so teary. I still struggle with it. I pray I can heal like you. This came the right time. I have been praying about it for years. But seeing the notification. I quickly clicked on it. Thanks for sharing ma'am. May God kerp granting you goodness.
You can and will heal. Just commit to the process and take it one step at a time okay. Get your hands on the book I mentioned in the video…that book, the help of the Holy Spirit and the courage I garnered to face the traumas head on were all I needed to heal completely. I am rooting for you!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance Please is there a way to get the book as soft copy? All the sites I use to download ebooks none of them has it. Or do you know a bookstore I can order from? Thank you.
Oh my God 😢 so it has been childhood trauma all these while 🥹I actually thought it’s spiritual not knowing I have been dealing with childhood trauma . Thank you Winnie ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story. It inspires me knowing that you struggled with similar things as me and you’re this bold and elegant woman now. God bless you!
Thank you so much winnie for making this video, for the first time I feel someone understands the pain I bottled up inside of me. Childhood trauma is something no child should experience.
This video brings so much healing and strengthening to me! I’m certainly getting this book as soon as possible! Thank you so much, Winnie, for this video
It’s my delight to know that you found this video very valuable. God bless you as you embark on this journey to healing your childhood traumas. All my love Dear!❤️
One prayer I prayed to God this year was to heal completely. And your video came at the right time. I had similar experience of mother being the father and mother. And it’s really affecting me
Winnie, i bless today for coming across your videos, everything you experience and more is what i went through as a child and still going through as an adult. I had childhood traumas and 2 years ago i had trauma in marriage. I am going to start my healing journey with all the steps you just listed. Thank you beautiful woman.
Sis. Winnie❤️🥺🥺 thank you sooo much for this. Currently I'm in the university and I can relate to whatever thing you said. I thought I had overcome my childhood trauma but watching this I have not at all. I'm getting the book as soon as possible and I'm coming to start this new journey. God bless you ma Winnie❤️
Everything you described in your past was me. I’m not sure I’m over my childhood traumas because I get some triggers. Once a while I get flashes of things that happened in the past and wonder how people in my past see me now. Plus I always feel that I’m not good enough even when I am good at it.
I'm just seeing this video just when I needed it, I literally cried while watching it cos I had some of the childhood traumas you mentioned, even some adult traumas as well. Yesterday, someone said I am hard, I've build strong iron walls around me & when someone tries to get in, I push them away. The person said I'm hurting those who tried to love me & be in my life cos of my past through my actions but I never knew. This is the second person saying this to me & I knew something needs to be done though I thought I was a sweet, feminine lady but I never knew I still have an unfinished business with my inner child. I will practice those exercise you mentioned, read the book & get more knowledge to break free. Thank you so much beautiful Winnie ❤😊
Is the effect of my childhood trauma am experiencing at the moment, that made me to come across you Winnie Even as a mother 4, a graduate yet i still have this inferiority complex within, not be able to pursue my dream confidently, enduring and bearing all the pain of life alone, but thanks be to GOD, i came in contact with you, is really time to level up and be all that GOD, want me to be
1) Acknowledge you have traumas to deal with. Read the book Inner Child Healing by … it will help you. 2) Identify what the traumas are, access them and pin point how they affect your life as an adult. 3) Confront your inner child that is the younger version of yourself. 4) You have to forgive everyone you feel ever wronged you in the past. 5) Take action into your hands and start working on yourself. Stop the blame game be intentional about leveling up 6) Master the art of emotional intelligence, master the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Master the art of showing empathy and being an alive human in all ramifications. 7) Develope a personal relationship with God.
❤ Amazingly Beautiful! Sending you a virtual hug🤗 Thank God and you, Winnie, for being here! I am looking forward to this free, amazing life from a beautiful place! Not today, Devil! I'm enjoying this video and will purchase Inner Child Healing. Winnie, you're in angel in disguise, spreading your wings and flying into the hearts of many. Peace-n-Love
Winnie❤️, you're such a blessing from God and may the Lord continue to bless you abundantly in everything that you do on this channel. I've learned a lot, thank you so much. Could you also make a video about being an elegant Christian lady, I mean how to deepen one's relationship with God? I'd really appreciate it. 🙏🙌
Wow,thanks Winnie for sharing this experience 😊 I have my own traumas has well while growing up but I have be able to overcome it by reading books, listening to inspirational videos. Omo just hoping that I will overcome my timidity,first to comment today 😅
Thank you so much for sharing your life experience, Winnie. It's worth listening to and quite encouraging. I had similar experiences, and I will say for me, the "GOD FACTOR" made a lot of difference. I am a Christian and was introduced to Christ very early in life. The presence of Christ in my life filled every void space of not having my father around me while I was growing up. It is not because he didn't want to be with my siblings and me, but because circumstances were beyond his control. He was very sick, and my mum had to keep carrying him from one hospital to another, prayer house to another. Of course, my mum played her role as a good wife to her husband, and so my siblings and I were taken care of by my uncle. It was not a palatable experience, but like I said, knowing Christ made a lot of difference. I was introduced to the youth wings of my church, where I met a lot of daddies, mummies, brothers and sisters (Mk 10:30). So, what my parents were not there to teach me as I attended meetings and programs in the church, it was instrumental in transforming my character. I didn't have the opportunity to read the book you recommended, but one thing that helped me was I always read my Bible, which renewed my mind (Rm 12:2-3). I must commend my Sunday school teachers because they really worked on me. From them, I learned how to turn my ugly experiences into positive vibes. For example, I grew up in hunger. Sometimes I will go to school hungry and return in the afternoon, and there is still no food until dinner. That experience built my strength to love and appreciate fasting now. I have come to realize that most times, we are products of our upbringing, and that is why we need to work on the negative part of it consciously. I want to advise that in case you are reading this comment and desire something in your family and don't have it, there are other people you can learn it from. If, for any reason, you came from a dysfunctional family, there are so many functional families you can learn a lot from. More importantly, kindly allow God to fill up the void or vacuum your parents or family created while you were growing up, and you will always want to live each day to fulfil your destiny. God bless us all. Amen
Mama Winnie I'm saying a loaded and a big thank you to you🙏❣️. I don't even know how to express my admiration of and gratitude to you. You are amazing ma. God bless you real big and enlarge you
Thank you winnie!!! You're suigenique and exceptional! I'm gradually learning and becoming the woman I have always dreamt to be. Thank you for being a source of inspiration to me.
God bless you ma, I know am better of my current lifestyle not knowing i need to heal and let go of my childhood truama, thank you ma for the light you shared and the importance of healing from our childhood trauma.
Hello Winnie😊. I'm so blessed I came across this video because, have been seriously affected by my childhood traumas and I'm so desperate to find a way and heal completely. Pls how can I get the soft copy of INNER CHILD HEALING. Anticipating your response. Thank you
I really needed this video. 😢😢😢😢😢i cant get over my childhood trauma. It has affected my life negatively. No relationships, no friends, i feel im not good enough in lifeand like im always behind
I lack confidence even till now😢 i can't answer questions in classroom even when i know the answers. I keep losing people in my life because am aggressive 😢😢 I'm not even flexible with Life. Disappointment keep coming left, right and center Thank you so much ma, bless you!!.
Thank you so much Miss Winnie . I Don't know how I can put how grateful I am in words . But this video actually a blessing to me 😢😢😢. I came to realize that i have so much value in me to bring it up but my past keep hunting and thereby limiting me . I am super grateful to God for using you touch destinies
Love you Winnie! Thank you so much for your transparency. I'm extremely inspired and excited to heal my inner child as well. I sincerely appreciate this video ❤
Hmm... I have taken my research to the next level today. I can now conclude, after examining hundreds of successful persons, that Openness and the Willingness to make open every personal secret one might have and gratitude, is the quickest if not the only way to attract God's grace and be successful. This is ONLY ONE COMMON TRAIT that all of them have. They don't care if they are vunerable or what people might say. Whatever we SAY OUT does not have power over us anymore, 70% solved. Thanks for sharing my favourite!
Dear Winnie ❤ I was so emotional ❤ watching this video. I felt your words❤ I'm proud of you for sharing your personal experience, and by that helping others people ❤ Your inner child should be very proud of you ❣️ Much Love from Israel 🇮🇱
My Goodness! Three days ago, I was praying to God asking Him to help me move on and heal from my childhood traumas as it has affected the way I relate with people and boom your video today is about childhood traumas. God is so personal! 😭😭😭. Thank you Winnie. Now, let me watch the video to learn.
You are absolutely welcome! I feel fulfilled and so glad that I made this video after reading your comment. Thank you!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance You are welcome. Thank you for all that you do❤️
@@winniesschoolofeleganceThank you for this life changing lesson, God bless you.
Please we the newbies are waiting for the makeup tutorial video from you. Thanks for your passion
@winniesschoolofelegance Please can you share your note with me pls
Thank you soooo much for this video.
May God bless you.
I'm 19 years old and i have so many traumatic experience with being sexual abused from age 6, i remembered don't know how, but i know every single details and many things from secondary school so it was from one trauma to another
Same here. 😂😂😂
I was SA'd when I was 6 years old as well. I'm 18 y/o now.
I feel like it doesn't bother me anymore, but once in a while, the memories will come kicking in and I'll break down crying. I'm happy I found this channel. She's been amazing 😍
I'm currently healing and decided not to date again until I get there because it affects me in my relationship. I tend to people please and attract men who are like a daddy because I grew up without mine. Not having my dad in my life affected me so much. Its been about a month of healing. Prayer, self love,self care,gratitude,meditation and mindfulness, Positivity is helping me alot
@@diz533 Welldone!!! ❤️🎉 Hope you’re still going strong and staying true to your commitment?
Winnie! I was just telling a friend yesterday that I've finally decided to go to therapy and was already considering one platform recommended by a UA-camr and I come online today to see this barely 24hrs after?!
I like that you don't just put out content for content creation sake...its very obvious you're led by the Holy Spirit.
Well done Winnie and thank you!❤❤❤
Oh my! I am so glad you found this video valuable.
I sincerely hope you find the courage and strength to deal with this on your own.
The book I shared is a great place to gain insight…I felt like I was talking to a real therapist when I was reading the book.
Then take your relationship with God to the next level. Allow him help you…
Just commit to the process, determine in your heart that you will see this through until you emerge on the other side.✨✨
I love you and I am rooting for you!❤️
See me crying and watching this 😢😢
My childhood was so bitter that I'm yet to gather the courage to discuss it with anyone. 32 now and still battling with the effects of childhood trauma 😢😢
God help me heal before I hurt myself 😭😭😭🙏
My mum was extremely wicked during our childhood days, but then i realised she didn't heal from her childhood trauma. She was raised by her aunty, who abused her so badly. She was caring, tho, but she was so aggressive . Unfortunately, the treatment affected us all, but no one mentioned it. Thank God we found Christ, and He saved us.
I can see how many people saying "this video came at the right time, you've literally saved my life, etc."
Well, permit me to add to it.
This is the clarity I prayed for few days ago. I literally want to hug you rn.
I can't wait to feel as free as you are rn. I just can't wait.
Mine was comparison. My mom would always compare me to my younger sister, My mom then would call me names like Good for Nothing, a failure, This is really shattered, my self confidence
Oh my!! I am really sorry about this!❤️
Please know that those names your mom called you is definitely not who you are… your mom was only projecting her pain on you.
Please forgive her quickly and understand that she too was probably a grown woman suffering from unhealed traumas and bcos she didn’t heal, she hurt you deeply in the process.
Don’t let the cycle continue… let it end with you. HEAL DEAR…please! Heal for yourself, so you can truly enjoy this life… and heal for the sake of your children so they won’t have to heal from having you as a mom.
I am rooting for you always!❤️❤️❤️
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
Try positive affirmations. Write affirmations that speak to the negative thoughts and self-talk. Repeat them out loud CONSISTENTLY. At first, you might not believe them, but say them until you start to believe them about yourself
Winnie pls can you do a video on how to deal with rejection, it's really killing me
Thank you, Winnie. The part where you did the exercise of summoning your younger self, I literally started crying. Because I also subconsciously went back to my younger days. There is this scenario that happened between my dad and I that stands out of all his wicked deeds to his children. I can never forget that incident. I have tried to forgive and move on, but I don't think I can forgive him. He is dead now, yet I still can't forgive. I was about 14 or 15 years old then I was at the waterside waiting to travel but all the available boats have gone. I was waiting to see if I can catch any private boats going my way. There were other people also waiting. Then my dad walked in with his entourage, asked everyone else to join his boat, and left me out. He left me stranded with no boat Onsight. He carried everyone else in his boat and told me to my face that I won't join his boat, then he drove off. I couldn't travel again; I went back home as I didn't see any other boat. I can't forget, but by God's grace I will forgive and heal with time.
Ohh sweetness I'm really sorry you had to go through that pain, I'm so sorry on his behalf. I'm already tearing up writing this, please and please for your own sake it's time to forgive and release your self my darling.
Thank you so much Winnie for this wonderful video ..I am just 16 years old battling with trauma and I have been looking for ways to heal myself...I just want to say God bless you ❤️❤❤❤
Healing is possible, and help is available. Sending you hugs
I am so glad you found this video helpful dear…
God will see you through as you proceed on the journey to healing from any traumas that has hampered with your growth and progress in life.
Please don’t quit on yourself! Commit to the process of healing and don’t quit until you’ve emerged in the other side!
I love you!❤
This is that one video I never thought I needed, believe me when I say this is an answer to a prayer.
I just understand that past traumas are the reasons why I still struggle with so many things no matter how hard I tried and it really breaks my heart because lots of traumas I've tried to bury rather than confronting came back alive and I could link them to some of my present struggles.
I will sure get the book you recommended and I will come back with my testimony, watching this video alone is a breakthrough and it will definitely touch other lives through me.
God bless you @winnieschoolofelegance for this.
Rejection, rejection, rejection. I was rejected. Hoooooo but God has healed me. It was alot. But God has fought for me battles i thought would kill me
Your mom was an Amazon! ❤Raising 7 children was no small feat
I have looking for something like this! I thought I could figure it alone but God gave Winnie😭😭 . Thank you so much
I am so glad you found this video very helpful.
I pray God helps you on this journey and you emerge in the other side a healed woman.
All my love!❤️
I thought i was the only one who was held down by unhealed childhood trauma...
Thank you so much Winnie for speaking about it, and giving others the chance to voice out
You've literally just saved a life Winnie... you have no idea. God bless you for sharing!❤❤❤
One of my abusers literally looked me in the face and told me I have low self-esteem and inferiority complex. 😢💔
Please pay them no mind! You are a unique being with extraordinary qualities and there’s really no one else like you!✨✨
I am glad you found this video valuable…
I only ask that you commit to the process of healing from any traumatic experiences that has scarred your mind and don’t back down until you’ve emerged in the other side.
I am rooting for you always.❤️
I am every thing you mentioned... i am a 32year adult who is married and have a very bad low esteem and having problems in my marriage of over 10year.. with two beautiful boys and am not feeling worthy of being there mom.. i still suffer from childhood trauma .. my husband has no idea of what i go through everyday.. when i said i need a therapist he just laugh and thats all.
Goodmorning Winnie please am in senegal trying to download this book but Is not working.. I mean the exact one you read. How can I get it . Thanks
Thanks for your vulnerability! Although not easy to talk about, discussing childhood traumas openly helps educate and raises public awareness.
I started dealing with mine after I became a mom and it has transformed the way I parent. In fact, parenting without being at peace with the child inside will inflict a lot of pain on our own children. Please, if you’re a parent, deal with your past and heal from it so that you can parent with love and empathy. Imagine a world where children feel loved and secure, wouldn’t that free up so much space for them to focus on creating a better future?
You are such a strong and beautiful woman, Winnie! Much love and blessings ❤
Sure!
Relationship with God,which is very Paramount🙏.
The most important!❤️
Winnie al your childhood trauma you have mentioned happened to me as well. Thank God for you and your advice
I am so glad you found this video valuable… please work on healing quickly so you can truly enjoy this life and all your birthrights in it. I am rooting for you Dear!❤
I cried watching this video because I have a lot of trauma that I'm dealing with and it has affected me badly
I'm happy I came across this video and I hope I heal totally someday
This video being posted on my birthday is a coincidence but it means a lot to me
Thank you so much Winnie
God bless you 🥺
Watching your videos have changed some part of my life and I hope it does completely 🥺🥺
I also was thinking on how i could heal, so that my past experiences wont affect my present and future relationships. Thank you much Miss Winnie, God has and is still using you to teach many things about becoming my true self.❤❤❤❤ God bless you, Ma.
My absolute pleasure Dear.
Continue to excel on your level up journey.
I am always rooting for you.❤️
Ms winnie everything you said i could relate. I say this with tears falling from my face. When you mentioned the book about inner child healing im working on that book now. God has out you here for these reasons and my soul cries out when i knot myself with different people. Esp men I treat them like they are better than me when i truely know the truth. It goes on and on.
I pray your video help reach more men and women alike.
My heart reaches out to you Dear…I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to heal from all traumas.
I love you always and I am rooting for you!❤️
Wow, wow, i am already crying Winnie, sometimes its get so tough, may God help me to heal
Healing is a journey, I pray your heart heals 🙏🏾
I pray God grants you the courage and strength to face your childhood traumas and heal from all of them.
All my love Dear!❤
😊 Love the motivation. People often think that being a high value alpha woman comes easily, or that you are born with those qualities...it's actually years of hard work, growth and consistency ❤
Knowing and having knowledge is power 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I’m Haitian I can’t ever tell my mom what she did to me it’s fine I just wrote it and journal my notes so I can be a better version of her ❤
This just confirmed to me that i still have a long way to go in healing my inner child.
Thank you for being this vulnerable and for the book recommendation.
God bless you, Winnie❤️
Oh dear Winnie
Thanks for being vulnerable with us. ❤️ I have remembered some of my traumas as you went thru yours, and i have a few things i need to do for myself as an adult cos of you.
Loads of love from 🇰🇪 Kenya
I am so glad you found this video valuable!
I am rooting for you always!❤
Thank you so much Winnie for this episode.
My own was a poor parental grooming, socially, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
I distance myself from people, lack confidence, low self-esteem and shyness. ...
I prayed to God, and so I believed this is the time to confront my inner child first by getting hold of the recommended book.
Please I need your help in this journey to follow me up provided I feel weary.
Also, I need your note on this episode please.
Congratulations on your🎊 I added, You have become a blessing to our generation.
Thank you for taking the bold(faith) step then.
Thank you so much Winnie,I went through hell especially growing up as an orphan, having lost my parents at an early age when I needed them the most,I healed from some traumas but some am yet to,thank you for your insight on healing,for me you have covered all and most importantly what I needed to heal from,God bless you Winnie,since I started following you I have learned much,this specific topic was meant for me😢😢
I am so proud of you and I hope that a lot of people (myself inclusive) are inspired to do same. Thank you for sharing, mama ❤
It’s my absolute pleasure!
I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to face your fears and deal with the traumas once and for all.
I am always rooting for you!❤️
Winne your words helped me a lot to change my manners may God count it for you ,sending love here from Uganda🇺🇬
Nkutumidde Ka maama,thank to Winnie.
I am so so glad you find my content very valuable.
God bless you Dear!❤️
It’s not weird.. i went through the same traumas and that was why I found your page in the first place.. this page has been a blessing to me.. I’m still in the process actually. Thank you for this video big sis Winnie ❤
It was really good watching this . People always talk about how to heal your childhood trauma and how to interact with your inner child but they never talk about how you are very young and still in the university and still have to live in the house of your parent that caused you that childhood trauma because you are still a university student who does not have any money to get an apartment and you have to depend on them financially and the parent that caused you trauma does not even know how their actions have caused you trauma. And they keep being the way they are
Just what I decided on for myself this year. Thank you so much Winne, God bless you
My absolute pleasure!❤
I almost cried watching this 🥺 thank you so much ❤❤
It was just as if you were discussing my life😢..this got me so teary. I still struggle with it. I pray I can heal like you. This came the right time. I have been praying about it for years. But seeing the notification. I quickly clicked on it. Thanks for sharing ma'am. May God kerp granting you goodness.
You can and will heal.
Just commit to the process and take it one step at a time okay.
Get your hands on the book I mentioned in the video…that book, the help of the Holy Spirit and the courage I garnered to face the traumas head on were all I needed to heal completely.
I am rooting for you!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance
Please is there a way to get the book as soft copy?
All the sites I use to download ebooks none of them has it. Or do you know a bookstore I can order from?
Thank you.
PS: I've already contacted several bookstores and none had it, Boldoz said it's sold out.
@winniesschoolofelegance I will definitely do that. Thanks so much ma'am ❤❤❤
Am glad dear to join you in this healing process,we can testify as we shine every day 😍
Winnie your such an inspiration,may the lord be your strength so you continue doing this great work.I love You personally ❤
Gosh! This is so relatable, powerful, life-changing! Thank you so much, Winnie!
It’s my absolute pleasure!🙏🏽
@@winniesschoolofelegance 🧡🧡
Indeed I needed this because am passing through the same situation 😢
Thank you so much for sharing your personal story and becoming so vulnerable with us all❤❤❤
It’s my pleasure Dear. Thank you!❤
Oh my God 😢 so it has been childhood trauma all these while 🥹I actually thought it’s spiritual not knowing I have been dealing with childhood trauma . Thank you Winnie ❤
Acknowledging that there is something wrong is 70% of the problem solved.
💯💯💯
Things like being bullied and laughed at even loosing confidence are some of the things I also went through thanks Winnie
Thank you so much for sharing your story. It inspires me knowing that you struggled with similar things as me and you’re this bold and elegant woman now. God bless you!
Thank you so much winnie for making this video, for the first time I feel someone understands the pain I bottled up inside of me. Childhood trauma is something no child should experience.
This video brings so much healing and strengthening to me! I’m certainly getting this book as soon as possible! Thank you so much, Winnie, for this video
It’s my delight to know that you found this video very valuable.
God bless you as you embark on this journey to healing your childhood traumas.
All my love Dear!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance Amen!!! You are so adorable Miss! Thank you, for being you!
❤ so grateful, my mindset is changing
Honey one love from Uganda pearl of Africa and from you I started on my journey of leveling up ❤❤❤
Winnie,you are such a great mentor and a high value woman,you have impacted my life positively.I love you ma'am ❤
One prayer I prayed to God this year was to heal completely. And your video came at the right time. I had similar experience of mother being the father and mother. And it’s really affecting me
This video is very relatable....these are things we go through 🙏🙏🙏Thank you so much Winnie😢
Best video I’ve watched in a long time, watching your videos makes me emotional because it came just at the right time 😢
Winnie, i bless today for coming across your videos, everything you experience and more is what i went through as a child and still going through as an adult. I had childhood traumas and 2 years ago i had trauma in marriage. I am going to start my healing journey with all the steps you just listed. Thank you beautiful woman.
Please can I get PDF of the book u recommend?
God bless you and keep it up, you are changing my life to the next level 👍
Sis. Winnie❤️🥺🥺 thank you sooo much for this. Currently I'm in the university and I can relate to whatever thing you said. I thought I had overcome my childhood trauma but watching this I have not at all. I'm getting the book as soon as possible and I'm coming to start this new journey.
God bless you ma Winnie❤️
Everything you described in your past was me. I’m not sure I’m over my childhood traumas because I get some triggers. Once a while I get flashes of things that happened in the past and wonder how people in my past see me now. Plus I always feel that I’m not good enough even when I am good at it.
I'm just seeing this video just when I needed it, I literally cried while watching it cos I had some of the childhood traumas you mentioned, even some adult traumas as well. Yesterday, someone said I am hard, I've build strong iron walls around me & when someone tries to get in, I push them away. The person said I'm hurting those who tried to love me & be in my life cos of my past through my actions but I never knew. This is the second person saying this to me & I knew something needs to be done though I thought I was a sweet, feminine lady but I never knew I still have an unfinished business with my inner child. I will practice those exercise you mentioned, read the book & get more knowledge to break free. Thank you so much beautiful Winnie ❤😊
Is the effect of my childhood trauma am experiencing at the moment, that made me to come across you Winnie
Even as a mother 4, a graduate yet i still have this inferiority complex within, not be able to pursue my dream confidently, enduring and bearing all the pain of life alone, but thanks be to GOD, i came in contact with you, is really time to level up and be all that GOD, want me to be
1) Acknowledge you have traumas to deal with. Read the book Inner Child Healing by … it will help you.
2) Identify what the traumas are, access them and pin point how they affect your life as an adult.
3) Confront your inner child that is the younger version of yourself.
4) You have to forgive everyone you feel ever wronged you in the past.
5) Take action into your hands and start working on yourself. Stop the blame game be intentional about leveling up
6) Master the art of emotional intelligence, master the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Master the art of showing empathy and being an alive human in all ramifications.
7) Develope a personal relationship with God.
Thank you for being so vulnerable 😌 I'm so happy for what God is doing through you. Trust me, He's just getting started with you!
Weldone Winnie ❤
❤ Amazingly Beautiful! Sending you a virtual hug🤗 Thank God and you, Winnie, for being here! I am looking forward to this free, amazing life from a beautiful place! Not today, Devil! I'm enjoying this video and will purchase Inner Child Healing. Winnie, you're in angel in disguise, spreading your wings and flying into the hearts of many. Peace-n-Love
Oh my GOD that's what i went through as a child until now in my adult days 😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you so much, Winnie.❤❤❤
Winnie❤️, you're such a blessing from God and may the Lord continue to bless you abundantly in everything that you do on this channel. I've learned a lot, thank you so much. Could you also make a video about being an elegant Christian lady, I mean how to deepen one's relationship with God? I'd really appreciate it. 🙏🙌
I was emotional in the beginning of this episode,it felt like miss Winnie was talking to me directly
Thank you soo much ma'am
Wow,thanks Winnie for sharing this experience 😊 I have my own traumas has well while growing up but I have be able to overcome it by reading books, listening to inspirational videos.
Omo just hoping that I will overcome my timidity,first to comment today 😅
Thank you so much for sharing your life experience, Winnie. It's worth listening to and quite encouraging. I had similar experiences, and I will say for me, the "GOD FACTOR" made a lot of difference. I am a Christian and was introduced to Christ very early in life. The presence of Christ in my life filled every void space of not having my father around me while I was growing up. It is not because he didn't want to be with my siblings and me, but because circumstances were beyond his control. He was very sick, and my mum had to keep carrying him from one hospital to another, prayer house to another. Of course, my mum played her role as a good wife to her husband, and so my siblings and I were taken care of by my uncle. It was not a palatable experience, but like I said, knowing Christ made a lot of difference. I was introduced to the youth wings of my church, where I met a lot of daddies, mummies, brothers and sisters (Mk 10:30). So, what my parents were not there to teach me as I attended meetings and programs in the church, it was instrumental in transforming my character. I didn't have the opportunity to read the book you recommended, but one thing that helped me was I always read my Bible, which renewed my mind (Rm 12:2-3). I must commend my Sunday school teachers because they really worked on me. From them, I learned how to turn my ugly experiences into positive vibes. For example, I grew up in hunger. Sometimes I will go to school hungry and return in the afternoon, and there is still no food until dinner. That experience built my strength to love and appreciate fasting now.
I have come to realize that most times, we are products of our upbringing, and that is why we need to work on the negative part of it consciously. I want to advise that in case you are reading this comment and desire something in your family and don't have it, there are other people you can learn it from. If, for any reason, you came from a dysfunctional family, there are so many functional families you can learn a lot from. More importantly, kindly allow God to fill up the void or vacuum your parents or family created while you were growing up, and you will always want to live each day to fulfil your destiny. God bless us all. Amen
Thanks alot winnie for the words of encouragement ❤
It’s my absolute pleasure!!❤❤
Mama Winnie I'm saying a loaded and a big thank you to you🙏❣️.
I don't even know how to express my admiration of and gratitude to you. You are amazing ma. God bless you real big and enlarge you
Thank you so much i really needed this 🙏 need to heal my inner child 😭😭
Thank you so much ma'am winnie. this is the situation i find myself rn 😢 i really need to heal 😔
Winnie you are relly so helpful, i have already start my healing journey through your guidance be blessed...
Thank you winnie!!! You're suigenique and exceptional! I'm gradually learning and becoming the woman I have always dreamt to be. Thank you for being a source of inspiration to me.
God bless you ma,
I know am better of my current lifestyle not knowing i need to heal and let go of my childhood truama, thank you ma for the light you shared and the importance of healing from our childhood trauma.
Thanks for sharing, Winnie. Indeed, you are Spirit-led🙏🏽
Hello Winnie😊. I'm so blessed I came across this video because, have been seriously affected by my childhood traumas and I'm so desperate to find a way and heal completely. Pls how can I get the soft copy of INNER CHILD HEALING. Anticipating your response. Thank you
I am so touched by your story, you are indeed a strong woman 💪 i will strive to deal with my childhood trauma 😢enough is enough.
I really needed this video.
😢😢😢😢😢i cant get over my childhood trauma. It has affected my life negatively. No relationships, no friends, i feel im not good enough in lifeand like im always behind
Winnie am also praying for healing coz i have grown up a total orphan and i was mistreated by many and now those traumas are hunting
Thank you Ms Winnie, I felt so emotional and tears fall of my eyes as I was watching this video, God help me to heal 🙏
I lack confidence even till now😢 i can't answer questions in classroom even when i know the answers. I keep losing people in my life because am aggressive 😢😢 I'm not even flexible with Life. Disappointment keep coming left, right and center
Thank you so much ma, bless you!!.
How can I like this video more than once? Oh my dear Winnie, you are highly blessed. Amen
Thank you so much for this podcast, it's refreshing to the soul . God bless you.
This episode is literally what have been looking for.
Thank you so much Miss Winnie . I Don't know how I can put how grateful I am in words .
But this video actually a blessing to me 😢😢😢. I came to realize that i have so much value in me to bring it up but my past keep hunting and thereby limiting me . I am super grateful to God for using you touch destinies
Thank you Winnie. You don't know how many people this video will help
Thank you Winnie for this video.
I feel blessed and relieved watching it.
Thanks for being so bold and sharing such personal experiences.
That's good. Thanks for sharing this.
Seriously am also a victim of childhood trauma but thank God for this video I've learned much from it even though am still battling with the trauma
I desperately need that book. Thank you Winnie
Love you Winnie! Thank you so much for your transparency. I'm extremely inspired and excited to heal my inner child as well. I sincerely appreciate this video ❤
Thank you so much Winnie.You are darling.
Thank you so much sis this video is so relatable for me I really need this for my life right now
Listening to you Winnie makes you to even more relatable. There's always life in the words that you speak
Thanks A lot Winnie. Let me get this book
My absolute pleasure!❤
Hmm... I have taken my research to the next level today. I can now conclude, after examining hundreds of successful persons, that Openness and the Willingness to make open every personal secret one might have and gratitude, is the quickest if not the only way to attract God's grace and be successful. This is ONLY ONE COMMON TRAIT that all of them have. They don't care if they are vunerable or what people might say. Whatever we SAY OUT does not have power over us anymore, 70% solved. Thanks for sharing my favourite!
Hi Winnie. I'm trying to get the book inner child healing by Damian Blair but I can't get it. Please where can i get it.
Dear Winnie ❤
I was so emotional ❤ watching this video. I felt your words❤ I'm proud of you for sharing your personal experience, and by that helping others people ❤ Your inner child should be very proud of you ❣️
Much Love from Israel 🇮🇱