These Signs Show You Are a TOXIC PERSON Plus Practical Tips to stop Being a Toxic Person!

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  • @josephdiamond5970
    @josephdiamond5970 6 місяців тому +10

    Signs you are a toxic person.
    1. If you never own up to your mistakes.
    2. If you constantly hurt people's feelings without caring about how they feel.
    3. If you cross people's boundaries without feeling sorry about it.
    4. If you don't know how to apologise when you have done something wrong.
    5. If you display emotions of jealousy and hatred towards others for no reason.
    6. If you are manipulative and abusive.
    7. If you lack empathy.
    8. If you approach situations only from a place of strife.
    9. If you engage in physical and verbal fights.
    10. If you are emotionally and mentally abusive towards others.
    11. If you're emotionally unintelligent.

  • @chiderapromise4605
    @chiderapromise4605 4 місяці тому +4

    I remember last year, I find it difficult to apologize and take responsibility for my actions. I would always look to put the blame on someone else.
    This year I appraised myself and I'm glad I'm changing.
    I try to apologize when I'm wrong, consciously its becoming part of me.

  • @debbiemuamba6822
    @debbiemuamba6822 7 місяців тому +36

    Finally.. A video about red flags in yourself rather than just other people

  • @gloriagloria7401
    @gloriagloria7401 7 місяців тому +5

    I was once toxic but thank God am no more a toxic person thanks to emotional intelligence from watching your videos.

  • @chanya_ella254
    @chanya_ella254 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank You, Winnie, Good to know we are all toxic people who need to heal first before pointing it out to others.

  • @ifeanyichukwuokafor6350
    @ifeanyichukwuokafor6350 7 місяців тому +29

    Hot stuff.. I'm actually a very toxic person and I want to change.

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 місяців тому +10

      You are 70% towards achieving your goal of change. I love this for you dear . I am rooting for you!❤

    • @InternationaLChefSue
      @InternationaLChefSue 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂🙌

    • @candicet.9565
      @candicet.9565 7 місяців тому

      Same here I’m highly sensitive

    • @ogechukwuumeh5353
      @ogechukwuumeh5353 7 місяців тому

      ​@@winniesschoolofeleganceI have paid for the classes,please am waiting for your response thank you

    • @Lifestyle_LuxeTV
      @Lifestyle_LuxeTV 7 місяців тому

      I pray I don’t meet you. I have taken note of your name 😂

  • @AkpaTheresa-fq9td
    @AkpaTheresa-fq9td 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Winnie. I think I have one or two toxic traits. I will surely start working on them.

  • @naalove5366
    @naalove5366 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much, I Have been complaining a lot 🙏🙏 may God help me

  • @florencelaximkirungi8350
    @florencelaximkirungi8350 7 місяців тому +15

    😢😢i have realized that I have indeed been a toxic person in one way or the other..calls for a change..thanks Winnie for always sharing. I appreciate..much love from Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @estyonyi8153
    @estyonyi8153 7 місяців тому +12

    When I saw the caption i had to run down here. I need to watch this video to learn, unlearn and relearn.
    Thank you ma'am Winnie

  • @mypeacechinelo
    @mypeacechinelo 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, you are consistent in dishing out value, indeed good manners is everything 😊

  • @abibatubockarie
    @abibatubockarie 7 місяців тому +6

    Really interested in this topic.
    I needed to check myself.
    I can't claim perfection.

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 місяців тому +2

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we all need to do constant checks on ourselves. It’s very important for our overall growth.

  • @Bridget657
    @Bridget657 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Winnie for this tips, don't know that am toxic in somewhere. I am hoping to change it

  • @AngelaAmanorserwaa
    @AngelaAmanorserwaa 7 місяців тому +11

    I have terrible inferiority complex coupled with timidity and nervousness ..I always habour fear in me when I see people and the root cause of mine is physical insecurity . precisely my body..im really slender and I hate my body ..when I watched ur video on childhood trauma I've learnt a thing or two.infact I cant get go a day without listening to you.u are so witty.full of wisdom.i wish u are my sister

    • @InternationaLChefSue
      @InternationaLChefSue 7 місяців тому

      ❤❤

    • @DoctorSoyemi
      @DoctorSoyemi 7 місяців тому

      You can and you will surely overcome those experiences as you take appropriate steps personally and with support. There is always a way out by God's Grace ❤

    • @AngelaAmanorserwaa
      @AngelaAmanorserwaa 7 місяців тому

      Hopefully😊

    • @Claremond-w3b
      @Claremond-w3b 6 місяців тому

      Same here

  • @ninamendy
    @ninamendy 7 місяців тому +1

    My role model❤!
    I always pick up 1/2 things to adjust when I watch your videos. God bless you Ma🙏 keep inspiring❤

  • @camirak2675
    @camirak2675 7 місяців тому +1

    Ms. Winnie we love you! This video is very valuable; not only for self-reflection and encouraging us to be a better version of ourselves but also to reflect and recognize those who are very toxic in our lives.

  • @JoyNkiru-eh4tl
    @JoyNkiru-eh4tl 7 місяців тому +7

    Impactful as always...thanks Winnie

  • @AngelaAmanorserwaa
    @AngelaAmanorserwaa 7 місяців тому +8

    U have a high sense of decorum❤

  • @toniaagabi2230
    @toniaagabi2230 7 місяців тому +6

    Thanks baby girl. Your topic makes alot of sense. ❤

  • @onyeagusimarycynthia3138
    @onyeagusimarycynthia3138 5 місяців тому +1

    Hey Winnie
    In a case where you're in a toxic relationship and you tried changing the person making the relationship toxic. The person changed at some point but later got worse. Now, you can't deal with the person's behaviour anymore and you want to leave the person. How exactly do you cut off from this person?

  • @DoctorSoyemi
    @DoctorSoyemi 7 місяців тому +3

    It's usually beyond the Thumbnails ❤ the Content you deliver and values you provide to the world. Well done ma and keep up the Good work.

  • @MatselisoMohale
    @MatselisoMohale 5 місяців тому +2

    Im a very toxic person not by choice because of my childhood trauma.i suffered alot as a child even now in my 30's😢😢😢

  • @damizonivad5205
    @damizonivad5205 7 місяців тому +1

    So interesting thank you we are learning day by day ❤

  • @theayodejipopshow
    @theayodejipopshow 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Winnie. This is very helpful. The self-awareness part is very apt. Not easy to do but it is achievable. I will definitely be trying some of these points.

  • @adaugongwu
    @adaugongwu 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you very much, Winnie

  • @goodygoody52
    @goodygoody52 7 місяців тому +4

    I so much love ur personality.
    Thanks for being my online elder sis❤❤

  • @ejioforchidinma144
    @ejioforchidinma144 7 місяців тому

    As for me, people say I'm stubborn but I never agree that I'm stubborn because I feel like I'm just being strict with my boundaries and they don't like it

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608
    @angelamartekimarkwei8608 7 місяців тому

    1. Never own up to your mistakes.

  • @damolaoladapo4406
    @damolaoladapo4406 7 місяців тому +1

    Winnie has really help alot in her videos...i really appreciate her because am learning alot...God bless Winnie

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 7 місяців тому +1

    And I don't know I normally meet toxic people in my life(I notice it in them)so for my peace of mind I just distance myself.....

  • @chisomchukwu4437
    @chisomchukwu4437 7 місяців тому

    Thank you, Winnie!
    Always beautiful hearing the wisdom that exudes from you.
    I really appreciate!

  • @TracyMonday
    @TracyMonday 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Winnie ❤️❤️. You always have a way of speaking to me. You inspire me ma'am.

  • @talatubaba1628
    @talatubaba1628 7 місяців тому +5

    Many thanks! 👏🏾♥️

  • @OmenwuChidimma
    @OmenwuChidimma 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Winnie for your teachings sincerely I am learning a lot and also applying the ones I needed to apply. God bless you really good. Much 💕💕💕.

  • @ceciliafirez9994
    @ceciliafirez9994 7 місяців тому

    thank you for this video Winnie love. it's time to tame my toxicity

  • @cynthiaosaro1919
    @cynthiaosaro1919 7 місяців тому +6

    I got here first, yaaaaaahhhhh💃💃💃💃
    Thanks, Miss Winnie. I love the topic ❤️ already

  • @oluchiiwuanyanwu1815
    @oluchiiwuanyanwu1815 6 місяців тому

    Am grateful Winnie for this transformational educative instructions ❤🤗

  • @AnnetRoda
    @AnnetRoda 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank God am not 🎉🎉thanks winnie you look amazing ❤️

  • @UKATSAN
    @UKATSAN 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank God I'm not toxic... 🎉😊... I listened carefully and I am Not. Thank you Jesus.

  • @shumiraikahondo4685
    @shumiraikahondo4685 7 місяців тому

    I like the self-awereness part❤

  • @blessingosas5372
    @blessingosas5372 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much, Winnie.❤

  • @ChimwemweMungullar
    @ChimwemweMungullar 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Winnie ❤

  • @KulwaBuchenja
    @KulwaBuchenja 5 місяців тому

    Thanks 👍 Winnie I be blessed with your valuable things teaching us congratulations too

  • @olajumokemifortunate7226
    @olajumokemifortunate7226 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Winnie❤❤, it's really been great watching you.
    Much Love😘💕💕

  • @valgbechi4288
    @valgbechi4288 7 місяців тому +1

    Interesting topic.. thank you for the video ❤

  • @emilyaluoch1730
    @emilyaluoch1730 7 місяців тому +1

    This is very helpful thank you Winnie

  • @cherish587
    @cherish587 7 місяців тому

    Thanks so much my darling Chef Winnie, I appreciate this.

  • @GospelJonahGJ
    @GospelJonahGJ 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video God bless you.

  • @EmilyGertrude-e2k
    @EmilyGertrude-e2k 7 місяців тому +5

    Hello family.am the first today bless you all

  • @amarachifrancisca6075
    @amarachifrancisca6075 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Winnie... I really do appreciate. God bless you and i love you, i wish to see you one day

  • @nwoyefavour1079
    @nwoyefavour1079 7 місяців тому +3

    Love this topic

  • @OgochukwuOdum
    @OgochukwuOdum 7 місяців тому

    I use to be very toxic thank God for my life now. Now when o see toxic people, I run far, I ran from
    a friend cause she’s so toxic .

  • @hervoicesecretcloset
    @hervoicesecretcloset 7 місяців тому

    I think this point am not a toxic person 😊🎉❤

  • @priscillianzerem5827
    @priscillianzerem5827 7 місяців тому

    I love this....its time for some self examination.. Thanks so much Winnie

  • @Esther_Chioma12
    @Esther_Chioma12 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Winnie..we keep learning everyday 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @delightkitchen8255
    @delightkitchen8255 7 місяців тому

    I really appreciate you. You are helping my life❤

  • @Vickywhisper.
    @Vickywhisper. 7 місяців тому

    I'm so happy I am a subscriber in this beautiful family, am always watching the fresh videos ❤ I love you big sis

  • @azuretate685
    @azuretate685 7 місяців тому +12

    A toxic person is someone that complains a lot

  • @VictoriaBlessingDuwai
    @VictoriaBlessingDuwai 7 місяців тому +2

    Needed this ❤thanks a lot

  • @erikaxiomaraherrarte4611
    @erikaxiomaraherrarte4611 7 місяців тому

    Thanks a lot for your so important and valuable advices

  • @adepojuatinuke
    @adepojuatinuke 7 місяців тому

    God bless you ma for the message❤

  • @HELPBYTHELORD
    @HELPBYTHELORD 3 місяці тому

    Hey winning i just subscribe to your channel now, but i have some challenges am dealing with and i really want to come out of it, my upbringing has affect me a lot due to the kind of parent i have so my first challenges is
    1. All of my communication with anyone come from the place of attack, fight, angry.
    2. Am an introvert and unfriendly (once the person do what i don't like, i will stop relating with them and build a boundary around myself) this makes me not to have friends.
    3. Am not social
    4. I get angry at everything
    NB: the major part is my relationship with people, have been told that i have characters issues.
    Please help me out on this.

  • @kishemhando7226
    @kishemhando7226 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this lesson,

  • @estherghartey976
    @estherghartey976 7 місяців тому +1

    Please can you do a video on over-sensitive people

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 7 місяців тому +3

    Praise God!
    Sincerely am not a toxic person,am very mindful of what am doing, and what I should not.
    Thank you🙏👍.

    • @candicet.9565
      @candicet.9565 7 місяців тому

      I admire you for not being a toxic person

    • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
      @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 7 місяців тому +2

      @@candicet.9565 thank you so much!
      Must I normally meet toxic people in my life, so for my peace of mind I distance myself.

  • @maryAmoduu
    @maryAmoduu 7 місяців тому

    Thank you always pretty queen 👑 i love this topic 💖
    Your accessories are just perfect like you 😊

  • @dorathyakpan4699
    @dorathyakpan4699 7 місяців тому

    Thanks Winnie love you plenty ❤

  • @NoFaceJourneys
    @NoFaceJourneys 7 місяців тому

    I sent this video to my toxic girlfriend thinking she'll change,but her toxicity just doubled,says she doesn't give a damn what social media thinks 🤔🤔

  • @wanjikumurima1373
    @wanjikumurima1373 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey Winnie....as you started this video I really wanted to know if childhood traumas have something to do toxity...as u continue it was one tick after the other.my childhood was full of violence esp on women n I vowed never to allow anyone try nonsense with me especially men.Miss ....I've lost relationships due to my violent nature let me just say am underway in my levelling up journey.thanks❤

  • @patienceoladoke3266
    @patienceoladoke3266 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you winnie 😘

  • @favourajuobi27
    @favourajuobi27 7 місяців тому

    Good day ma'am. Thank you for the teachings.

  • @MarvellousChime
    @MarvellousChime 7 місяців тому

    This was so insightful ❤❤

  • @stellaotis4755
    @stellaotis4755 6 місяців тому

    Hi Winnie please I paid for the Art of speaking eloquently and elegantly course but please it’s been awhile now ,and I didn’t finish with the course., please am not getting access to it anymore

  • @agoiobunso
    @agoiobunso 7 місяців тому

    This video have helped me alot thank you so much sis I really appreciate❤❤❤

  • @RaimatAmoke
    @RaimatAmoke 7 місяців тому

    Thanks very much sister ❤

  • @Asmath_lol
    @Asmath_lol 7 місяців тому +9

    You have a pretty face ❤with beautiful expressions ❤

  • @marthangwali1977
    @marthangwali1977 7 місяців тому +1

    Watching 🎉❤from malawi 🇲🇼

  • @vickyanna3557
    @vickyanna3557 7 місяців тому

    Wow! Interesting video!!Period!😊❤

  • @JandeNguumburOfficial
    @JandeNguumburOfficial 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much babe ❤

  • @Tobi-hc1lq
    @Tobi-hc1lq 7 місяців тому

    I love this!

  • @bouanathalie6125
    @bouanathalie6125 7 місяців тому +3

    Hi Winnie, I want to sign up for the act of speaking eloquently but I’m unable to make payment. Is there a way I make the payment via PayPal?

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 місяців тому +3

      Yes please…kindly send an email to winniesschoolofelegance and I’ll share the details with you.

    • @AnsiArazaharah
      @AnsiArazaharah 7 місяців тому

      Am not a toxic person and am not perfect

  • @بسومحريبي
    @بسومحريبي 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you dear, buh me l wana learn confidence in public speaking how can l reach you?

  • @MercyBedzra
    @MercyBedzra 7 місяців тому +2

    What if you're toxic behavior happens when you are depressed

  • @favourite8859
    @favourite8859 7 місяців тому +2

    What If the person doesn't ant to talk to u on phone.. I guess text ißthe only way then

  • @onuigboperpetual5049
    @onuigboperpetual5049 7 місяців тому

    Am toxic,but am I feel remorseful immediately

  • @asantewaa7918
    @asantewaa7918 7 місяців тому

    I’ve a lot of mood swings and I want to know if I’m a toxic person ma

  • @mabukiemabukie5420
    @mabukiemabukie5420 7 місяців тому +1

    Yhooo have to change😢

  • @amakadoris4439
    @amakadoris4439 7 місяців тому

    Thanks winnie

  • @InternationaLChefSue
    @InternationaLChefSue 7 місяців тому

    Great topic❣️❣️

  • @kathrinetaylor9853
    @kathrinetaylor9853 7 місяців тому

    Yes hello "WINNIE, ❤, WHY THE 🌎 CONSIST OF THING I DONT know why, I ts so horrible to be eniuos of another person, i try and work on myself everyday, thanks "Winnie❤.

  • @margretolalekan1418
    @margretolalekan1418 7 місяців тому

    Talking about giving people benefit of doubt.. What about someone who repeatedly annoys you

  • @AdãoBorges-l9u
    @AdãoBorges-l9u 7 місяців тому

    Hmmm 😢, I'm confused sef. Please Sis winnie if people treat you badly and you cut them off, does it mean you're toxic? I would like to know please

  • @queenukofia4919
    @queenukofia4919 7 місяців тому

    My nurse at my place of work is a toxic person take or you leave it

  • @TabbyWanjiru-tmw
    @TabbyWanjiru-tmw 7 місяців тому

    Powerful❤❤❤

  • @UjayAhamefula
    @UjayAhamefula 7 місяців тому

    Wonderful content...ive really learnt a lot....Winnie im really struggling to get the book inner child healing and i cant afford it on Amazon....but i really really really want it...what do i do😭

  • @gloriagloria7401
    @gloriagloria7401 7 місяців тому

    A toxic person never minds their business

  • @olonaderaehannahfolakemi194
    @olonaderaehannahfolakemi194 7 місяців тому +1

    Kindly send another means of payment for elegant Winnie school
    Tried card severally

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  7 місяців тому

      Hello.. please kindly send an email to winnieschoolofelegance@gmail.com and I’ll send you the details. Thank you.

  • @gistspot659
    @gistspot659 2 місяці тому

    Interesting

  • @idowuadewunmiogunyemi7824
    @idowuadewunmiogunyemi7824 7 місяців тому

    I wish I can tag someone on this video 🙁🙁

  • @Aestheticvibes939
    @Aestheticvibes939 7 місяців тому

    Good content