I agree, I can't believe the s..t they give her for being an imperfect human being. I guess that goes with the binary US perspective. In France, the President's wife was his teacher when he was a teenager.
Really?? It’s interesting you feel that way. I’m not arguing w you, that’s the worlds perception of it in general. But, WHY? Men ALWAYS trade up for younger models. Women are cheated on constantly and the other woman... is really the other “child”. It’s almost expected... acceptable even when a man does it. “How is he supposed to control himself when a young, sweet, moldable, innocent, beauty flirts w him?” “He’d been CRAZY to turn her down”. Yet, a woman does it & its Poor hubby, he must be so embarrassed? Of course he is. So are women. It hurts. People hurt each other. Honestly, I’ve only seen bits and pieces of A Teacher. TBH...I never really thought of it from the young man’s (17 yr old child) perspective. It’s true. It’s easier to see the female as the victim, because she usually is. It’s eye opening to see the young male as a victim. I would think he would get over it... get bragging rights... and go on w life. How horrible am I? Of course he would be vulnerable to pain and guilt as well. I believed that only from what men & society have said. I guess they’re capable of emotional pain, too. BOTH hubby and student are brilliant in their roles. Still. Why should we pity the hubby any more than we pity wives that deal w the younger woman? I know already. Simply because it’s rare for women to pull that stunt w students. Or even more rare for the male student to get hurt or file charges. When women do it... there’s almost ALWAYS a movie on Lifetime. We know their names. When men have affairs w students... he’s a perv by law & high five 🙌🏽 behind closed doors. He does time or pleas out. Then we never hear about him again. The women... there will be a follow up movie in a decade to see the emotional damage she did. Men and women will always be treated differently for their actions.
All I’m getting from this comment is men do it so what’s the problem ?!? There are men that do this and get way longer sentences than women that sleep with students. This is documented fact. Also when it comes to marriages in many cases the cheating isn’t with students where it’s an abuse of power. This teacher isn’t just cheating she’s sleeping with a student. If he was out of high school and she wasn’t his teacher it be a different situation. She be cheating which is wrong but police wouldn’t be involved.
My cousin warned me about these kinds of people. He called them “wrecking balls.” Basically someone who waltzes in and completely upends the lives of everyone around them and then takes off with little regard to the aftermath and consequences. What’s really messed up is that some of these people actually do it on purpose. Like, deliberately cause chaos and misery just for the fun and thrill of it. Heck, there are even wrecking balls who make it a paid service. Like, they’re legit hired and paid to infiltrate and upend people’s lives.
I don’t think it’s a matter of not making her happy. She wanted her cake and eat it too. She was a crazy selfish abuser. If she was unhappy she could have just left. There are no excuses for cheating.
Even if the husband didn't make her happy, I feel for him seriously. Claire is the sick one. 2:38 I would be disgusted with her too. :( She's a predator.
Not a predator. She's not exclusively attracted to minors. The guy in my view was old enough. For a girl it would probably be different depending the circumstances. I think the pain of being caught is way worse than the "pain" of Eric
@@Harry-bn5mp She’s still a predator she knew it was wrong and she went out of her way to break the law and manipulate him into sexual advances knowing that she was in a position of authority and power she’s a predator and you’re an enabler
@@Harry-bn5mp Here we go, double standards... So girls in those situations are victims but boys are not? Dude, she was his TEACHER, a figure of authority, it's automatically power imbalance. Abuse is not just forcing someone. She was holding all the cards, calling all the shots, she just wanted ''excitement'' of the illicit affair while he made up the image of ''love'' because he was just a kid, he didn't know any better - but she did, she should have. Yeah, she didn't force him per se but she essentially exploited his youthful naivety and impossible fantasies for hew own emotional/sexual fullfilment. Almost every kid had fantasies about teachers because they are KIDS, youngsters, adults should not encourage/exploit those fantasies. Just because guys have penises and not vaginas doesn't mean they can't be vulnerable or exploited/abused. Sigh.
I think she's sincere and I can tell she's not a monster. She just has a lot of issues and doesn't know how to communicate or express remorse appropriately.
Nice guys usually finish last. They’re usually not wanted until a woman’s life is a wreck from dealing with a bad boy or she can’t get the guy she wants.
He’s a beta you can tell that she was able to do whatever she wanted from the jump without having to answer to her significant other. He’s signing divorce papers it doesn’t even have the balls to speak his mind you can tell she’s literally waiting for him to at least say something. Did he love her yes did he respect her no so in return she didn’t respect him or herself
@@jeromerizzo423 The simple fact that she didn't understand that if she wasn't happy, all she had to do was communicate how she felt instead of going behind his back and cheating says so much about her!!
I think there's a part of him that's still in love with her, but he knows he has to cut her out of his life. "I don't know how I ever loved you" and "Can you leave?" was his way of letting her go.
It's sounds almost similar to Claire and Eric's last scene together as well! I feel like you could tell there was still apart of Eric that had love and affection towards Claire, but at that point he recognized how messed up their relationship was and how it destroyed him. Eric confronting her was the closure he needed in order to finally put her behind him for good! Now that he knows what kind of person she truly is.
Whole lot worse if it had been but the guy was a young man not a minor. I doubt i would have got involved with a married woman at 17/18 for the exact reason i would not want some irate husband on my tale.
@@jeromerizzo423 I assume you are referring to the guy she was involved with in the affair as a minor /child/kid. I would refer to a 17 year old as a young man and not a minor /child/kid. His attitude to her would have been different if it had been a minor she had been involved with and he would not even wish to see her and would have got his lawyer to give her the papers to sign
@@johnbarlow4572 he is a minor. He still lives with his parents, he isn't paying any bills, and hasn't faced real world challenges like an adult would living on their own. His mom still pays for his education, not him. Would you approve of a teacher screwing your 17 year old?
@@jeromerizzo423 So he's a mummy's boy at 17 . Would i approve of my son having a relationship with a teacher? . As i would have done the same thing myself at 17 ,had i still been in school, it would be a tad hypocritical of me to tell him not to. I would point out the trouble she would be in if they were caught and he would have to accept some of the responsibility for that and hope he would see sense and not get involved until he had left school.. A student in my daughters last year in school was rumoured to be in a relationship with a young teacher and they married a couple of years after she left so these things can work out if handled the right way.
He didn't even look bad as a husband, sure he blew up some of their savings for his own purpose, but it was to further a goal of his (which eventually paid off)
I feel like normally I have understood how loneliness and lack of communication can lead to someone cheating (not an excuse and have never taken back a cheater nunder any circumstances) . But she didn’t even tell him or communicate what she needed to feel happy. She just selfishly hurt 2 people one being a child without actually trying to work on herself or marriage. The husband was completely blindsided and for that I couldn’t stand her character.
It’s almost hilarious and pathetic at the same time how some people don’t tell their partners they’re unhappy in their relationship, and don’t tell them upfront cause they don’t wanna hurt their feelings. And yet will be unfaithful behind their backs, thinking that both sides can be happy without anyone getting hurt. But things get extremely chaotic when they find out about what you did. Making things worse. If you’re not happy in a relationship, end it! Plain and simple
I was so disappointed how even by the end of the series, she is still the same person! If she truly did care about how her actions hurt both her husband and the kid, she would've put in the effort to find a healthy way in dealing with her issues she has. So she doesn't repeat the cycle again!
He kissed her first and was happy enough when it was all going well but was not man enough to handle the heat he must have known was coming there way if caught .
@@johnbarlow4572That is because he wasn't a man but was indeed a child. Unlike her, who was a grown adult who was responsible for the entire thing. The kiss was not the initial inappropriate thing. She crossed multiple boundaries beforehand
@@christinaudodi571 Exactly!! It’s just like what Eric said in the final scene of the series! Claire was the one creating those moments, and was giving off vibes and hints that she was interested in Eric and wasn’t strict enough in maintaining the boundaries between a student and a teacher. At the end of the day, Claire was the adult and Eric is the kid meaning she was more responsible initiating their relationship.
I didn't know in this scene that they were divorcing, cuz I wasn't paying attention all too much, but I can't tell u how much I didn't want Matt to save the relationship bc I knew he deserved better and could've restarted his life w/ the perfect wife and kids bc the relationship was very dull although he was trying to make the best for it.
I'm sorry but I do not understand everyone's physical attraction to her in this show, like Eric calling her beautiful and his friends calling her "ridiculously hot". I feel like it was a huge reach. The last scene of the series was where she looked the best and supposedly she was 10 years older yet she looked wayyy older in the beginning of the show??
I guess if you're comparing her to a bunch of models or something, but she's pretty darned good looking. She would be noticed in real life. Especially if she were teaching a bunch of high schoolers.
She got off easy because she’s a privileged white woman she ended up having a whole new family with a husband that has a well-to-do job and she doesn’t even need to change her name the most she has to deal with is public shame and most people wouldn’t even care if we’re being honest. Thousands of men would jump at the chance to still put a ring on her finger and we all know it. I would’ve appreciated it if the finale had her still being idolize to some degree because that’s the reality of it for attractive white teachers who behave in this way
After watching this, I feel bad for myself I was 13 I had a crush on a substitute teacher she was in her 20’s I use to imagine us dating. I didn’t date her bc it’s against the law Now I’m 23 she’s probably married. N I have a gf now I feel bad for my teenage life.
Dude, don't. Your teacher was a good and sincere teacher, not a freaking predator like the one shown here. I also had a crush on my music teacher, he was great:) It's a part of childhood innocence but the older person should not reciprocate., that's not okay!
@Searchingfortruth880 0 seconds ago I can't believe the s..t they give her for being an imperfect human being. I guess that goes with the binary US perspective. In France, the President's wife was his teacher when he was a teenager.
“I don’t know how I ever loved you” has got to be one of the most brutal burns I’ve ever heard.
I would probably say the same thing if I found out my partner was in a sexual relationship with a child.
I agree, I can't believe the s..t they give her for being an imperfect human being. I guess that goes with the binary US perspective. In France, the President's wife was his teacher when he was a teenager.
@@sadem1045to be fair tho😭he was a 💩husband
I can't even imagine the humiliation of the entire world knowing that your wife cheated on you with a 17 year old kid
seriously that must hurt alot😢
Really?? It’s interesting you feel that way. I’m not arguing w you, that’s the worlds perception of it in general. But, WHY?
Men ALWAYS trade up for younger models. Women are cheated on constantly and the other woman... is really the other “child”.
It’s almost expected... acceptable even when a man does it. “How is he supposed to control himself when a young, sweet, moldable, innocent, beauty flirts w him?” “He’d been CRAZY to turn her down”. Yet, a woman does it & its Poor hubby, he must be so embarrassed? Of course he is. So are women. It hurts. People hurt each other.
Honestly, I’ve only seen bits and pieces of A Teacher. TBH...I never really thought of it from the young man’s (17 yr old child) perspective.
It’s true. It’s easier to see the female as the victim, because she usually is. It’s eye opening to see the young male as a victim. I would think he would get over it... get bragging rights... and go on w life. How horrible am I? Of course he would be vulnerable to pain and guilt as well. I believed that only from what men & society have said. I guess they’re capable of emotional pain, too.
BOTH hubby and student are brilliant in their roles.
Still. Why should we pity the hubby any more than we pity wives that deal w the younger woman? I know already. Simply because it’s rare for women to pull that stunt w students. Or even more rare for the male student to get hurt or file charges. When women do it... there’s almost ALWAYS a movie on Lifetime. We know their names. When men have affairs w students... he’s a perv by law & high five 🙌🏽 behind closed doors. He does time or pleas out. Then we never hear about him again. The women... there will be a follow up movie in a decade to see the emotional damage she did.
Men and women will always be treated differently for their actions.
It’s basically the same as your husband cheating on you with a 17 year old girl. Something fairly common
All I’m getting from this comment is men do it so what’s the problem ?!? There are men that do this and get way longer sentences than women that sleep with students. This is documented fact. Also when it comes to marriages in many cases the cheating isn’t with students where it’s an abuse of power. This teacher isn’t just cheating she’s sleeping with a student. If he was out of high school and she wasn’t his teacher it be a different situation. She be cheating which is wrong but police wouldn’t be involved.
Eric was better fucker than the husband 🤣🤣
Whats even worse about people like her is that they’re not sorry for what they did they’re only sorry that they got caught
🙌🙌🙌
She should have been more choosy and not got involved with a guy who was going to turn into a mummy's boy when the going got tough
A cheater's favorite word is "mistake"
My cousin warned me about these kinds of people. He called them “wrecking balls.” Basically someone who waltzes in and completely upends the lives of everyone around them and then takes off with little regard to the aftermath and consequences. What’s really messed up is that some of these people actually do it on purpose. Like, deliberately cause chaos and misery just for the fun and thrill of it. Heck, there are even wrecking balls who make it a paid service. Like, they’re legit hired and paid to infiltrate and upend people’s lives.
Lmao what a thrill it must be to put that down on a license application or smth. What would they write, "professional life ruiner"??
cheating and having an affair is never ok. even though he didnt make her happy thats not an excuse to cheat
@stryfetc1 Yep
What she did was wrong especially with teenage boy
I don’t think it’s a matter of not making her happy. She wanted her cake and eat it too. She was a crazy selfish abuser. If she was unhappy she could have just left. There are no excuses for cheating.
How could she not be happy with him? He was so good to her.
@@Odiekins probably because she couldn't have children with him, or didn't want children at all.
Even if the husband didn't make her happy, I feel for him seriously. Claire is the sick one.
2:38 I would be disgusted with her too. :( She's a predator.
Not a predator. She's not exclusively attracted to minors. The guy in my view was old enough. For a girl it would probably be different depending the circumstances. I think the pain of being caught is way worse than the "pain" of Eric
@@Harry-bn5mp uh dude he was 17. He’s definitely too young for someone whose like late 20’s. I think Chris Hansen would like a word with you
She is not a predator.
@@Harry-bn5mp She’s still a predator she knew it was wrong and she went out of her way to break the law and manipulate him into sexual advances knowing that she was in a position of authority and power she’s a predator and you’re an enabler
@@Harry-bn5mp Here we go, double standards... So girls in those situations are victims but boys are not? Dude, she was his TEACHER, a figure of authority, it's automatically power imbalance. Abuse is not just forcing someone. She was holding all the cards, calling all the shots, she just wanted ''excitement'' of the illicit affair while he made up the image of ''love'' because he was just a kid, he didn't know any better - but she did, she should have. Yeah, she didn't force him per se but she essentially exploited his youthful naivety and impossible fantasies for hew own emotional/sexual fullfilment. Almost every kid had fantasies about teachers because they are KIDS, youngsters, adults should not encourage/exploit those fantasies. Just because guys have penises and not vaginas doesn't mean they can't be vulnerable or exploited/abused. Sigh.
It’s always so hard to tell how sincere she is or not
I think she's sincere and I can tell she's not a monster. She just has a lot of issues and doesn't know how to communicate or express remorse appropriately.
That's kind of apart of her character too
Brilliant acting
She’s sincere she’s just extremely selfish when opportunity knocks. She’s the main character of her story and everyone else’s feelings comes second
She's obviously not, she lied to him about f**king a teenager for months.
Her husband was nice. What a shame.
Nice guys usually finish last. They’re usually not wanted until a woman’s life is a wreck from dealing with a bad boy or she can’t get the guy she wants.
@@kicknowledgesmith8608 thats not true..
@@kicknowledgesmith8608 We’ve got an incel on our hands, folks
He’s a beta you can tell that she was able to do whatever she wanted from the jump without having to answer to her significant other. He’s signing divorce papers it doesn’t even have the balls to speak his mind you can tell she’s literally waiting for him to at least say something. Did he love her yes did he respect her no so in return she didn’t respect him or herself
@@GlazeonthewickeRwhat're you then? A simp?
When word got out, I bet he was glad to be away from her.
I think she wanted the divorce. He was mad that she no longer loved him, cheated on him, and couldn't save their marriage.
@@jeromerizzo423 The simple fact that she didn't understand that if she wasn't happy, all she had to do was communicate how she felt instead of going behind his back and cheating says so much about her!!
@@jamaljames9331 her childhood says alot about her too.
I think there's a part of him that's still in love with her, but he knows he has to cut her out of his life. "I don't know how I ever loved you" and "Can you leave?" was his way of letting her go.
It's sounds almost similar to Claire and Eric's last scene together as well!
I feel like you could tell there was still apart of Eric that had love and affection towards Claire, but at that point he recognized how messed up their relationship was and how it destroyed him. Eric confronting her was the closure he needed in order to finally put her behind him for good!
Now that he knows what kind of person she truly is.
Eric also had no idea how he ever cared for her either
the acting here was great
Poor guy. He clearly loved her so much. I probably would feel the same way as he, if I didn't see this coming, especially if it involved a minor.
Whole lot worse if it had been but the guy was a young man not a minor. I doubt i would have got involved with a married woman at 17/18 for the exact reason i would not want some irate husband on my tale.
@@johnbarlow4572 this comment confuses me. I don't know what you mean.
@@jeromerizzo423 I assume you are referring to the guy she was involved with in the affair as a minor /child/kid. I would refer to a 17 year old as a young man and not a minor /child/kid.
His attitude to her would have been different if it had been a minor she had been involved with and he would not even wish to see her and would have got his lawyer to give her the papers to sign
@@johnbarlow4572 he is a minor. He still lives with his parents, he isn't paying any bills, and hasn't faced real world challenges like an adult would living on their own. His mom still pays for his education, not him. Would you approve of a teacher screwing your 17 year old?
@@jeromerizzo423 So he's a mummy's boy at 17 . Would i approve of my son having a relationship with a teacher? . As i would have done the same thing myself at 17 ,had i still been in school, it would be a tad hypocritical of me to tell him not to. I would point out the trouble she would be in if they were caught and he would have to accept some of the responsibility for that and hope he would see sense and not get involved until he had left school..
A student in my daughters last year in school was rumoured to be in a relationship with a young teacher and they married a couple of years after she left so these things can work out if handled the right way.
She has completely destroyed her Teaching job and marriage
lol she was arrested at the point in the show, biggest understatement ever
@@MissSparks92 and labeled as a sexual predator and can't get a job
He didn't even look bad as a husband, sure he blew up some of their savings for his own purpose, but it was to further a goal of his (which eventually paid off)
I feel like normally I have understood how loneliness and lack of communication can lead to someone cheating (not an excuse and have never taken back a cheater nunder any circumstances) . But she didn’t even tell him or communicate what she needed to feel happy. She just selfishly hurt 2 people one being a child without actually trying to work on herself or marriage. The husband was completely blindsided and for that I couldn’t stand her character.
It’s almost hilarious and pathetic at the same time how some people don’t tell their partners they’re unhappy in their relationship, and don’t tell them upfront cause they don’t wanna hurt their feelings.
And yet will be unfaithful behind their backs, thinking that both sides can be happy without anyone getting hurt. But things get extremely chaotic when they find out about what you did. Making things worse.
If you’re not happy in a relationship, end it! Plain and simple
@@jamaljames9331 I agree 100% communication is literally the downfall or strength in all relationships
She don’t deserve sympathy
I was so disappointed how even by the end of the series, she is still the same person!
If she truly did care about how her actions hurt both her husband and the kid, she would've put in the effort to find a healthy way in dealing with her issues she has. So she doesn't repeat the cycle again!
Thank you I've seen the whole serie via thumbnail. No need to subscribe now lol.
I personally don’t see the attraction to the student at all - her husband was a great husband.
Am I the only person who feels bad for the husband?
No. Ashley Zuckerman really sells Matt's emotional pain in this scene.
I think it actually hit me the hardest out of any other part of the series.
Nope.
We all feel bad for the husband
literally everyone does lol
the affair isn’t the important part, it’s the fact that she groomed a 17 year old and then slept with him. she’s sick
He kissed her first and was happy enough when it was all going well but was not man enough to handle the heat he must have known was coming there way if caught .
@@johnbarlow4572exactly finally someone who understands
@@johnbarlow4572That is because he wasn't a man but was indeed a child. Unlike her, who was a grown adult who was responsible for the entire thing. The kiss was not the initial inappropriate thing. She crossed multiple boundaries beforehand
@@christinaudodi571 Exactly!! It’s just like what Eric said in the final scene of the series! Claire was the one creating those moments, and was giving off vibes and hints that she was interested in Eric and wasn’t strict enough in maintaining the boundaries between a student and a teacher.
At the end of the day, Claire was the adult and Eric is the kid meaning she was more responsible initiating their relationship.
I didn't know in this scene that they were divorcing, cuz I wasn't paying attention all too much, but I can't tell u how much I didn't want Matt to save the relationship bc I knew he deserved better and could've restarted his life w/ the perfect wife and kids bc the relationship was very dull although he was trying to make the best for it.
This scene makes her very repulsive. I have a bad taste in my mouth thinking about the actual "Claire".
SHERIFF GOODE!
The only thing I would've said to her once she signed was " Ok you can go now" then stood up and walked away.
I'm sorry but I do not understand everyone's physical attraction to her in this show, like Eric calling her beautiful and his friends calling her "ridiculously hot". I feel like it was a huge reach. The last scene of the series was where she looked the best and supposedly she was 10 years older yet she looked wayyy older in the beginning of the show??
I guess if you're comparing her to a bunch of models or something, but she's pretty darned good looking. She would be noticed in real life. Especially if she were teaching a bunch of high schoolers.
She’s hot af, like all leading actors in shows and movies
@@veejonesify fair enough
Have you seen high school teachers lol? She's a 9 at the minimum
That’s fair. Guess I’m out of touch on this one lol.
Dang
However I want to ask if this is how you feel?
She's just trying to be kind in a Very difficult moment for both
Ouch...
She got off easy because she’s a privileged white woman she ended up having a whole new family with a husband that has a well-to-do job and she doesn’t even need to change her name the most she has to deal with is public shame and most people wouldn’t even care if we’re being honest. Thousands of men would jump at the chance to still put a ring on her finger and we all know it. I would’ve appreciated it if the finale had her still being idolize to some degree because that’s the reality of it for attractive white teachers who behave in this way
Oh get a grip lol
That's kinda true... a predator should be locked up for years atleast
Please don't miss the Jesse on EVERYTHNNG critical review of this show it's amazing it's simply perfect
Matt was literally the only character I ever liked, he deserves a better life. Both Eric and Claire are bad people.
A mistake? No, burning your grilled cheese sandwich is a mistake. What she did is a sin against nature
After watching this, I feel bad for myself
I was 13 I had a crush on a substitute teacher she was in her 20’s I use to imagine us dating. I didn’t date her bc it’s against the law Now I’m 23 she’s probably married. N I have a gf now I feel bad for my teenage life.
Dude, don't. Your teacher was a good and sincere teacher, not a freaking predator like the one shown here. I also had a crush on my music teacher, he was great:) It's a part of childhood innocence but the older person should not reciprocate., that's not okay!
@@nini-qc1qd thank you
No reason to feel bad. We’ve all been there where we liked our teachers in a way but as long the teacher wasn’t predatory it’s all ok
None of you commenting here watched the movie. Full of bad acting and ridiculous pauses not to mention the obvious agenda.
Was she even locked up for a year?
@Searchingfortruth880
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I can't believe the s..t they give her for being an imperfect human being. I guess that goes with the binary US perspective. In France, the President's wife was his teacher when he was a teenager.
This is why people need Jesus Christ today.
Girl bye