Thank you for helping me understand myself. Thank you for the aha moments. Thank you for the incredibly articulate and relatable content. I hope my journey of healing can lead me to a place where I can help someone as you helped me.
This was a key teaching for me... "The biggest rejection in your life will be you rejecting you." The guilt we create for the feelings that we refuse in ourselves. "Live on your own terms". Love ya Candance. Release the guilt. Own the joy. Choose you. Honor yourself. Alignment.
And because God loved us so much He/She gave us parents with different preferences than ours and thus we could not see our true purpose and strengthen our sense of identity. They didn't mean to hurt us, but they hurt us anyway. Because God loved us so much HE/SHE provided us with a learning environment that did not support our Self-development. But God loves you, don't you dare think otherwise! And sometimes we get parents who don't deserve us for a wake-up call, sometimes we waste 20 years for a wake-up call. I agree with everything in this video. Thank You, Candace
Talking to my Mother about my old 'tribal wound' that involved her, she said, 'Well, perception is reality.' And I know that from her perspective that is true for her, but since I began really awakening and seeing the bigger picture, that statement feels completely wrong. When someone's reality is constrained to what they are looking at inside their own comfort zone, that doesn't make it real, it just makes them feel comforted by it because it fits inside their box. Since I opened my eyes to allow God's guidance to light the path that 'HE' has for me, I now realize that there is so much more that is yet to be revealed. All the things I used to focus on seem completely trivial and pointless to waste energy on now. You say in many ways that healing involves looking within one's self and learning to love yourself, I feel that position is true, but for me, its not trusting in myself or looking within me that is healing as much as trusting in God and looking within myself to the place where he has always been and learning to have faith in that place for guidance. You're not wrong, Candace. Just don't be afraid to give God's grace a name and a proper place in the process of healing. The sooner 'God' is a welcomed part of our awakening, the more people will get out of his way, so he can miraclize us. (well, it sounds like a good word for it anywayz, LOL) Love ya, Sis. Namaste Candace.
WOW!....wow-wow-wow! What a powerful message. As I sat listening to this, I was able to recall all the times in my life that I have not chosen my own desires and predilections and then made myself wrong for even having them. Candace, thank you so much for having the courage to choose yourself and for sharing these videos with us! BTW - I purchased your workbook on Amazon and I'm working my way through it right now. Thank you again and I look forward to more of your insights!
Thankyou so much for this Candace 💕 I have always struggled with this but especially lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear today. Just want to say I appreciate you so much, you have been a HUGE inspiration for me and have helped me so much over the last couple of years. I Love your video's. Much Love Amber xo
Wow. You got it so right! Just when I was thinking of quiting UA-cam I found you !!! please keep uploading your experiences and wisdom! You give me so much hope that there's a possibility for a new, more conscious humanity. Thank you!
Hi Candace, Thank you for all you're doing for us energetically sensitive souls. Your videos have just along at the right time. I've been doing a lot of inner work, awakening and shedding of old beliefs. I've watched and read a lot online from people like yourself whose personal insights from experience are invaluable. There's something really powerful about what you say that cuts straight to the point, it's so appreciated and beyond helpful. Your videos help make things so much more clear. You're doing a great job and your work is so needed. When I'm ready I'll be telling my story to help others find their truth to :) Dave from Perth Western Australia
I can't thank you enough. So clarifying, authentic, wise and empowering! There's so much work to do but at least when I watch this I can understand myself better and not feel like there's something wrong with me _/\_
If we have negative feelings, there is always a valid reason for why we feel that way! Ask ourselves what the real reason for those feelings are. Sometimes we misdirect blame for certain feelings, but the original reason for bad feelings are always valid.
How can I do this when I work in a job I hate but need so that I can live the life I want in 18 months? I need to make this money to obtain my freedom. What can I do to live in better alignment, but still work towards my goal?
I found the issue and the solutions by finding you Candace. Let the healing begin.
So much powerful truth in such a short video, I’m in awe. Thank you!
I’m shaking. I’ve had to watch this 3x. HUGE WAKE UP CALL. HUGE. Thank you for this. My god. I’ve wasted years.
Opportunity...on my own now...but AWESOME..looking forward and excited...thank you
Thank you for helping me understand myself. Thank you for the aha moments. Thank you for the incredibly articulate and relatable content. I hope my journey of healing can lead me to a place where I can help someone as you helped me.
This was a key teaching for me... "The biggest rejection in your life will be you rejecting you." The guilt we create for the feelings that we refuse in ourselves. "Live on your own terms". Love ya Candance. Release the guilt. Own the joy. Choose you. Honor yourself. Alignment.
I receive so much love n warmth from your words. Thankyou
And because God loved us so much He/She gave us parents with different preferences than ours and thus we could not see our true purpose and strengthen our sense of identity. They didn't mean to hurt us, but they hurt us anyway. Because God loved us so much HE/SHE provided us with a learning environment that did not support our Self-development. But God loves you, don't you dare think otherwise! And sometimes we get parents who don't deserve us for a wake-up call, sometimes we waste 20 years for a wake-up call. I agree with everything in this video. Thank You, Candace
Talking to my Mother about my old 'tribal wound' that involved her, she said, 'Well, perception is reality.' And I know that from her perspective that is true for her, but since I began really awakening and seeing the bigger picture, that statement feels completely wrong. When someone's reality is constrained to what they are looking at inside their own comfort zone, that doesn't make it real, it just makes them feel comforted by it because it fits inside their box. Since I opened my eyes to allow God's guidance to light the path that 'HE' has for me, I now realize that there is so much more that is yet to be revealed. All the things I used to focus on seem completely trivial and pointless to waste energy on now. You say in many ways that healing involves looking within one's self and learning to love yourself, I feel that position is true, but for me, its not trusting in myself or looking within me that is healing as much as trusting in God and looking within myself to the place where he has always been and learning to have faith in that place for guidance. You're not wrong, Candace. Just don't be afraid to give God's grace a name and a proper place in the process of healing. The sooner 'God' is a welcomed part of our awakening, the more people will get out of his way, so he can miraclize us. (well, it sounds like a good word for it anywayz, LOL) Love ya, Sis.
Namaste Candace.
Releasing guilt from family is amazing but now I'm alone...but I have "myself". I love ME so much
WOW!....wow-wow-wow! What a powerful message. As I sat listening to this, I was able to recall all the times in my life that I have not chosen my own desires and predilections and then made myself wrong for even having them.
Candace, thank you so much for having the courage to choose yourself and for sharing these videos with us! BTW - I purchased your workbook on Amazon and I'm working my way through it right now.
Thank you again and I look forward to more of your insights!
Thankyou so much for this Candace 💕 I have always struggled with this but especially lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear today. Just want to say I appreciate you so much, you have been a HUGE inspiration for me and have helped me so much over the last couple of years. I Love your video's. Much Love Amber xo
I wish you made this video and it went viral 30+ years ago when we were all kids :) thank you Candace :)
Candance I love you!!! This is so helpful. 💓💓💓
Wow. You got it so right! Just when I was thinking of quiting UA-cam I found you !!! please keep uploading your experiences and wisdom! You give me so much hope that there's a possibility for a new, more conscious humanity. Thank you!
Thank you for this, your words I needed to hear. ❤
Omgg it's exactly what I needed thank you really really much i'm going to start the process right now i'm so excited
Hi Candace, Thank you for all you're doing for us energetically sensitive souls. Your videos have just along at the right time. I've been doing a lot of inner work, awakening and shedding of old beliefs. I've watched and read a lot online from people like yourself whose personal insights from experience are invaluable. There's something really powerful about what you say that cuts straight to the point, it's so appreciated and beyond helpful. Your videos help make things so much more clear. You're doing a great job and your work is so needed. When I'm ready I'll be telling my story to help others find their truth to :)
Dave from Perth Western Australia
incredible as always. namaste
I can't thank you enough. So clarifying, authentic, wise and empowering! There's so much work to do but at least when I watch this I can understand myself better and not feel like there's something wrong with me _/\_
wow you definitely understand me to a whole other level, thank you for your wisdom/ knowledge
So powerfull ! Thank you so much habibi ♥♥♥
Thank you for helping
If we have negative feelings, there is always a valid reason for why we feel that way! Ask ourselves what the real reason for those feelings are. Sometimes we misdirect blame for certain feelings, but the original reason for bad feelings are always valid.
You're a lifesaver! Thank you! 💛
So great your videos. Make so much sense
Great video, love the background too! Thank you ❤️
Your so beautiful thank you for the message
Thank you for your videos :) Greetings from Finland!
Complete stunner 10/10
Brilliant video, thankyou x
Love this! Thank you
Thankx so much for this video!!! M also learning it!!!
No more.Took 47 years to get there.I became sick.It was hard.
Hmm. Another interesting individual. She is surely ascended. I subscribed.
Big love, so helpful
Yess.. 🤗🤗🤗
I really like your videos they. Make sense.
How can I do this when I work in a job I hate but need so that I can live the life I want in 18 months? I need to make this money to obtain my freedom. What can I do to live in better alignment, but still work towards my goal?
awesome content ! 💛 but seriously how you style your hair ? serious question lol
j jackson you mean how I don't style it? Ha ha
Candace van Dell hahah thats what I thought right after I said. Thank you. Have a good day
You are reading my mail 💖💗
I don't deserve not to feel guilty
thanks cool information .
guilt vs a strong will...?
Your intro is so seductive.. well the overall way you speak is as well. You do that on purpose?
Shoo root orachnge OranGcHE!
Wow*
Maybe theres an monk version of shoo
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