How to reduce conflict and build better relationships

Learn to be a people person with international bestselling author Paul McGee!
Learning how to better communicate and interact with others can really help to improve your life -- from ensuring you enjoy parties more to turning you into a roaring success magnet. Bestselling author of How to Succeed with People Paul McGee takes us through a host of different situations and explains how to deal with other people and get the best out of them. In this video series you will learn how to communicate more effectively, deal with negative people, become more resilient, learn to motivate people and deal with conflict.
In this episode Paul explains how to deal with conflict situations -- how to get on better with people you don't see eye-to-eye with.

[@cathybaranda6966]

1. What is going on in their world at the moment?
2. What is important to them at this time?
3. Am I listening to understand or listening to defend?
4. Have I clearly communicated my perspective?

[@babytaco1231]

Yo 😳

[@okaekev]

goated

[@andrewparkes8608]

the beach ball analogy really got me thinking. Great idea.

[@gerrimiller3491]

When we assume that others are thinking the same as we are....this is the big problem in understanding and accepting differences

[@desativado9332]

That's the best video I've ever watched about this topic. Today I listen to understand. Not always but consciously can relate to that. I am getting better!

[@bethbartlett5692]

The "Listening Frame of Mind"
"Am I listening to Understand, or Listeni.g to Defend..."
A really short statement - that packs a HUGE reality...
Well said sir! Well done -

[@maumi_n_stories]

made me sit and think about all the conflict im going through this days #thankyoupaul

[@ssugar7292]

The beach ball analogy was fantastic! I'll try apply those following questions!

[@LucianC137]

Communication is everything

[@steppesandstreets]

Thank you it was short and easy to understand i can imagine what would hapoen to my relationshipif i didn't watch this, again thank you

[@mrsm3231]

Thank you. It works!

[@pharmclare]

Perspective is key. Thank you 😊

[@mirian593]

Powerful vídeo, thank you for sharing.

[@comentadoraification]

Great videos, very helpful, thank you!

[@ghassanebentahar5695]

Concise. I like this: listen to understand does not mean you are listening to agree.

[@AllanGildea]

Superb content and presentation. Thank you.

[@madditravis3290]

Thank you so much truly !!!

[@rome3563]

wow that was great illustration! Thank you

[@thepowerofhelpingwithreube4407]

This inspired me to do a video on this topic but by using Love Languages to achieve the same result.

[@nikhilverma6457]

I am gonna face an interview and this is gonna help me a lot :) . Thanks for the video. Appreciated.

[@mischelledavis1227]

Excellent!!!

[@gordonkihuguru8745]

Excellent 4 pointer.

[@sunnyg503]

Great video!! Very helpful 😍😍

[@jennifer5416]

Great video and example.

[@maggiekgreen]

thank you my dude

[@tonysayegh9136]

Thanks for Shsaring great video.
I deal with a lot of diifcult people in my job and this can all come in handy.

[@thaarlypotter3577]

Tony Sayegh I

[@abdillahiasod8388]

Thank you for sharing this very wonderfull advice it is great for me to watch it un i got point even though i dont understand very well bcoz accent is difficult for me but i like to join or listenn justlike this lovely motivate 😅

[@mubianamuyangwa3573]

thank you.

[@majamarinic]

this is amazing

[@Marselis35]

Golden

[@brandonholtz5309]

This was good

[@AntiShadow]

BMS GANG!!!

[@davefischer2344]

awesome

[@pharmclare]

Just had to share this video

[@lahjinima]

thanks Paul..i got great advice from you..

[@moonprincesslizzy]

👏🏽👏🏻👏🏿👏🏽👏🏾👏💕

[@wayanagbagala8119]

help me i need to make a reflection about this

[@cyrilongleo547]

We both do

[@zaki.lei8]

seym seym.....

[@monde6113]

Same...Help Ussss!!!

[@janweenapadayao1467]

us too..

[@strafersavage5977]

Wtf happened here

[@McFraneth]

How to be ground underfoot. I was a housekeeper in Bordeaux and the cleaner and gardener hounded me out. I went to my employers to ask them to back me up and they didn't. I always was clear with the day's work, and was never high-handed with her. I was respectful and gave her enjoyable tasks (I could have given her wall-to-wall ironing - I didn't). Some people are simply nasty. I went on to better things, but with all the will in the world, ruthless people eat respectful people for breakfast.

[@nellkidman100]

Great talk .Reminds us that we should always put others first.

[@KAs14521]

What about if you are dealing with a narcissist?

[@ssugar7292]

Now that my friend is a very good question....

[@LivingChristian]

If you’re interested in learning what the Bible says regarding resolving conflicts, here’s a video: Communication & Conflict Resolution
ua-cam.com/video/CkzKOEzr7fo/v-deo.html

[@rachaelgoldstein8091]

I have a questions, my exboyfriend told me I make things awkward.

[@Aaron.Gut21]

I knew it was blue white and green lol

[@user-gl6vp1jv3e]

and there is my father who just never listened..

[@jalabala2772]

Lol

[@BL-rb7jm]

Perhaps you may see things not the same as the other person because you're not looking at their side just like the you're not looking at your side. You got all those colours on the ball instead of being narrow-minded and seeing just the three colours that you see turn around and jump in the other person's shoes for a while and see what colours they see. Is there a life full of the same colours maybe they look at life differently but we still live on this big globe which is round. When you look around the world on the other side of the country they can't see your side just like you can't see theirs but we still live on this Earth and we need to tolerate one another's differences

[@shikobaofi8138]

What if they wont tell you what's going in their world??

[@ZORMnl]

smash the beachball in their face

[@jayalfakyn220]

Do you know how many women you're going to trigger by saying "shut up and listen"....

[@OztrumStrikesBack]

Really?