I see what you did there 💅. Chloe is great. I like how Benjamin said she looks like a painting. She has those strong and beautiful Renaissance woman features. Not a trendy beauty but a classic, timeless one.
Get 'em Chloe! ❤Minors should not be given agency to make life altering decisions! There is a reason why we have the age of consent by 18 yo! Stop experimenting on our children!
And doctors definitely shouldn't be allowed to say that patients being misled is their own fault! (Or at minimum not their fault). Don't let them hide behind "the medical consensus".
@@Jell0zz ... Agreed. Now, I am NOT one who dismisses personal responsibility / accountability easily at all. I hold people accountable, but we MUST recognize that these are children and young teens. Society understands, or rather "USED" to understand, that cognitive development and life experience are SEVERELY lacking. To add to this, we have societal pressures, much more pronounced against young girls, who are VERY easily influenced by trends. This is why we see a MUCH larger number of teen girls falling prey to this. We are seeing many very young boys as well, but that is PURE projection by abusive parents who, in most cases, need to stand before a judge for child abuse!
How sad. Born at the wrong time. In my teens I sported a pixie cut and wore cargo shorts, ripped jeans, flannel shirts and converse shoes. That was in the 90's. Friends Nick named me Tom because I was considered a tomboy.My friend and I often discussed wishing we could cut our boobs off. My friend used to bind hers. I thought I would never want children but went on to have 4 and love being a mum. These poor girls just needed time.
@@r.walker7986 this girl was a tomboy. Obviously. Your comment is silly. You are your body. I've never in my entire life met a woman who likes her body. That's a man's fantasy of what a woman is. Very obvious by the way dress wearing men behave and dress.
@@r.walker7986 No, you don't. It's a social contagion that has been invented by nefariously motivated human beings. You can't hide a sickness behind phrases such excuses as ''beyond our comprehension''.
@@r.walker7986,,, There are many Trans people who are now coming out and telling their stories about what happened to them and many of the girls were either tomboys or gay..
@@momofgi No it s not, and a person taking being a tomboy too far is still not the same thing as being trans. Its "their bad" and has nothing ton do with trans people as a whole. if you go and marry a woman and have 6 kids with her only to find out you just liked her eyelashes, you are team too-much, just you, it has no bearing on the lesbian community as a whole...
Now this a strong, brave woman! She’s also so beautiful! Made me sad when she said she’s insecure due what medical transition did because she looks gorgeous to me, not discrediting the harm done but I wouldn’t even know she transitioned and detransitioned if she hadn’t said so.
@Lola Laise ... Agreed 💯Damned good head on her shoulders, great attitude and very easy on the eyes. Just makes it that much sadder that in those early days of puberty we were SO damned insecure and with a few more years, we learn that 90% of it was all made up BS in our heads 😿
I hope no-one get's this the wrong way, cause I'm a man 40+, but I think she is incredibly beautyful. And the awful experiences she went through, as terrible as it was, but it made her a strong woman. I watched a few interviews with her and she comes across as a very nice and intelligent girl. Any man can be happy and proud, if he finds a wife like her.
@@MarsFranke ... I completely agree! I do get that some, if not many, will read your comment and twist it into you saying that it is good this happened, because ..."just look at her now". As we have heard before... life is a journey, not a destination, but my fave is..."we are born looking like our parents, but die looking like our choices". It is true that Chloe _chose_ to go down the road of transition, but there is a VERY good reason, why we don't allow a minor full agency over their life. it is not possible to know who Chloe would have become, had she not made that first step of consideration of transition, but one thing is for certain. . She would have _still_ been that brave, beautiful young woman, because she would still have been what it is that made her what we see today ❤
Chloe’s story breaks my heart. I wanted to transition into being female years ago. Went on hormones, wore dresses, leggings, makeup ect. And I feel I was manipulated by doctors. I felt I was lying to people and made women uncomfortable.. I hated doing that. I found the root cause of my issues was loneliness and I wanted to be loved and has a sense of belonging. I’m thankful I detransitioned. Sadly I am now sterile.
Chloe may have insecurities in how she sees her body, but all I see is a beautiful young woman! And so brave, she will help so many young girls going through this❤️
I saw several interviews with Chloe - this was the most relaxed I saw her, the most "chatty" - kudos to you Benjamin! You really related to everything she said! This young woman has gone through hell many times. She got back to tell the story and I hope her voice reaches many young girls.
Chloe, you are a shining light in very scary period in human history. Thank you so much for speaking out against little kids and teens being attacked with knives 🔪 by Frankenstein Mengele , Kesey and Dr Money monsters. You Chloe Cole ARE beautiful inside and out. Please help us to keep these creeps hands off +continue to 🛑 our kids being experimented on and militated. With all my ❤ + respect from a very old tomboy ✊🏼👵🏻🇬🇧🥰
Chloe this complication in your graft is probably the consequence of a lymphatic vessel being knicked and the lymph keeps draining. Look up post-op lymphatic leakage. These vessels do not clot like the blood vessels so they keep draining. I am a doctor but not a surgeon. I think this can be fixed, but a good surgeon needs to find the lymph vessel that was damaged and stitch it.
1:40:25 "Well, I think you look like a painting ..." Beautifully said, especially the ending ("Your essence is beautiful"). Because, I think, that's coming from somewhere - and ‘that place‘ is what gives us orientation and power; and which can't be stroyed.
Those people were never celebrating you. They were celebrating something that made them feel better about their own internal conflicts. That's why they make a huge deal about "dead naming " or why they charge their birth certificates. Any reminder of reality causes mental distress. That's why no matter how many surgeries are had or how affirming society is suicide rates remain exceptionally high. You will always know what the truth is inside
I am a 52 years old ex-transwoman from Malaysia who is living his wonderful life. I respect people’s choices and I appreciate if people would respect mine in return. People like me do exist. I have often been told shut up but I don’t think I can.
Life is big for everyone. I really think feminist messaging over the last 50 years has had negative outcomes. When young girls are told by women, that being a woman is so hard, being a wife or mother is oppression or slavery, and everything about being a woman is terrible, its no surprise some young people want to opt out. The irony is women perform better than men in most areas of life, and they are the most protected group in western society,
Thank you, Chloe, for your willingness to tell your story. You truly have a beautiful essence. Thank you, Benjamin, for facilitating this careful calmversation with Chloe. It did give me some questions, until I googled and learned that in California, 12yr olds can give consent for medical care and counselling. Where I live, 18 yrs is the age of consent.
It's so cute to watch when she is being so formal and then when she comes alive to answer questions she wants to answer… Really good interview, thank you❤ And most of all thank you Chloe ⭐️ a beautiful solid way for us all to figure this all out.
The Tomboy Genocide is SOOO goddam real... (unlike "the trans genocide' meme; You're not being "genocided", if people want to PREVENT you from chemically sterilizing children...)
@Bacon Sarny-Geddon ... Ironic isn't it. The trans activist cult is forever talking about how transition is "life saving healthcare" (ZERO evidence, studies or God forbid... dead bodies to substantiate it), but I fear we will see the EXACT opposite! The self-delete rate is somewhere in the 40% range and that has been historically, when there was a much greater degree of mental health addressing. May not have been very effective, but it was acknowledged that it WAS a thing to be reconciled. There is literally ZERO concern, because by the time the trans activists get through convincing young girls, mostly, that they MUST be trans, by the time parents find out, they have gone full on board with it all. Parents are scared to death and "gender affirming doctors" sell them on the idea they will self-delete if not transitioned. Parents ABSOLUTELY have some blame here, so I will not give them a pass. However, when the child FREAKS over the denials by parents, and the "doctors' are pressing trans, it is VERY difficult to manage at that point.
@@geoffreybrockmeier9218 .. This is because the trans activist cult was indoctrinated by Marxists and not taught HOW to think, but rather WHAT to think. The critical thinking skills are that of a 4 yo child. They have ZERO means of articulation of their argument, so they squat down in the middle of the room and scream. The difference is that the 4 yo can be put into the car, driven home and sat in his room and allowed to scream himself to sleep. The WOKE cult activist is an "adult", so has the agency and physical capacity to generate violent attack upon others, so we cannot just sit them down for a time out. . I don't know what we are going to do with them, because they have NOTHING to fall back upon, in terms of Western World values.
I think there are trans people. But there is also a tomboy genocide. Both things can be true at the same time. The problem is girls are being forced to conform to traditional female clothes and roles, otherwise if you don't we are going to cut your breasts off and feed you testosterone. Also no more women's sports because now bio men dominate bio women's sports. So it's starting to look a lot like what they do in Iran and other Sharia Law countries when people are gay and women must conform to certain roles. And it's the medical establishment acting in the role of the hardline taliban type of authority.
She has more sound judgement and better critical thinking than most adults who were in charge of her well being. She learned the hard way unfortunately
After watching a few of your videos, I'm actually starting to appreciate your far more restrained interviewing/moderating style. You really know how to hold yourself back in a way few online personalities do.
When I was a teenager I first learnt of women who had to have their breasts removed due to cancer. It was at the time the most horrific and terrible thing I had heard about. And now young woman are doing this willingly with nothing wrong with them! Cloe you are doing the most amazing thing with your bravery in bringing people to the trust of what’s it’s really like. We are all so proud of what you are doing. ❤️🙏🏻
I admire the chutzpah of these younger detransitioners being willing to go on the record to talk about their experiences, especially in Chloe's case with her JBP appearance which will undoubtedly be seen by a huge audience. Nothing she says here is wrong but it is quite vulnerable. However I do worry about the long-term risks of 'overexposure' too, for a 19yo. I have almost no room to talk as a detransitioner + regretter now at age ~30 but I would hate to have my younger self googleable in this way. I'd worry about employability etc because I'd hope she has goals for her future aside from detrans activism. I just see these kids and see myself in them, and I want to protect them. At the same time, their stories matter and I hope they'll prevent others from facing the same fate.
I am sorry to hear that you are regretful. I don’t know how to imagine how you feel but thank gd for people like you and Cole . I wish you all the best for your future . You’re alive and that’s important
Thank you so much Chloe for your strength, perseverance and courage to speak out to help protect other children and for sharing your experiences. And to pursue the lawsuits - I believe this is an important piece of the puzzle both for your needs as well to stop the transitioning of children and reform all transitioning so that adults are fully informed and provided other treatments/therapy prior to transition🙏❤️ Godspeed!
It's funny how people conflate eloquence with being incapable of having any mental health problem ever. My doctor refused to believe my reports of severe depression (because I present well and turn up to appointments, apparently means I can't be depressed) and I became so acutely depressed I had a really dismal psychotic episode and was hospitalised - this was the lowest point of my life and only after that did my doctor believe my reports of being depressed. I changed Doctors!!
I also will second that notion that good grades should not be the predicate requirement for sports activities.... It really seems like they are intertwined. I know way too many people that have made their lives into prison and part of the story starts with " I was really into sports when I was in school but my grades got bad so I got out of sports and didn't have any I was good at so I got into drugs "
Not everyone is good at sports, not everyone is good at academics...everyone is good at gettin hooked on drugs. The education system where I live seems near designed to push people into self destruction if they're poor in academics, which is wrong because they could find a niche in things like sports or practical work, but academia doesn't push or allow for that, so they get told from young they're stupid, worthless and destined to fail essentially...who isn't gonna fall into drugs or alcohol or other self destructive habits when from young stuffy academics told em they have nothing to offer because they weren't good at subjects that aren't really relevant in day to day life for the vast majority of people.
thank you Chloe. after all these interviews, lawsuits, Truth Telling .. i pray for that family & children you want. you deserve healing, health, happiness 💝
@N ... That is great! We, in the West are WAY too quick to medicate for what are normal issues that some good communication would address just fine. If we take it to the extreme, what if Einstein was medicated? What if Newton or Plato? Mozart? .... To think of the thousands of BRILLIANT minds, having all been shut down, due to social anxiety or "not fitting in"!
Chloe, you are an absolute beauty. And you are such a lovely person. I am so very sorry for all that you’ve had to go through. I wish you all the very best. Benjamin, fabulous interview. You always do a great job. This was a difficult one for your compassionate heart.
I'm always blown away at the throttling of UA-cam. We all know this calmversation should have hundreds of thousands of views and @benjamin boyce you are so talented and compassionate with all of your guests. Hope you will make a full switch to Rumble soon.
Some are growing on Rumble just by encouraging their YT audience to go over there. There is an algorithm that promotes based on your views. I'm there the majority of time, and I'll start watching this channel there.
"This person has both personal and emotional issues... Better medicate them to death, figuratively and possibly literally if it ever goes that far!" They treat people as though they're machines having a malfunction.
Love the cat outside intros. Thank you for taking time and sharing such important information with the public. I appreciate your story and hope it helps many more.
Chloe, the interviewer was spot on when he said you are glowing light. Don't take what the haters say to heart, you are true to yourself, trust no one and be your own best friend. In that way no onevwill be able to hurt or harm you. Continue shining your glowing light and your beautiful soul. Your journey going forward in life is driven by the purpose of saving many, many kids who are confused as to what gender they really are as we all experienced during childhood and as teenagers.
11 is way too young to have phones and any access to social media! Parents stop veing afraid of your children. Kudos to Chloe for speaking up and you will make a difference! ❤
I have to thank you for such a sensitive, gentle and caring difficult conversation, but so worth while in many levels. Beyond the hard parts of the interview, I loved the way you related to such a special lady and beautiful spirit, Chloe. Thank you again, and I do hope her legal actions do have the most healing fruition.
So great and interesting to listen to her speak on these issues, so smart, such a cutie and what a powerhouse for our children. Much love from all of us Chloe
Thanks so much Chloe for doing this video and thanks Ben. I pray this reaches all the right people and that transitioning children is outlawed for under either 18, or 25 is even better. I am praying my daughter will stop she’s 22 and her voice is starting to change, I’m so terrified for my daughter.
She’s one of the few courageous enough to take action to ensure those responsible are held accountable! Would love to see a second interview so we can hear what she had to say about psychedelics influencing her detransition.
Agree. I'm sure it was a major factor, like a game changer....It is well known anecdotally and otherwise that it is very very difficult to lie while under the influence of Psychedelics.
What a beautiful young woman. Thank God you were lead to stop the process at the point you did. Please continue with the truth that you speak. You are destined to save many young people. I pray for guidance and strength on this path that you on.
I hope therapists and all other involved med. prof‘s are learning something from people like Chloe. Wish you all the best Chloe, w healing and progress w legal actions! Thanks for speaking out, society needs your voice…To break t ideology in some people‘s minds so they start to see w their own ( individual )senses again instead of feeding the collective transtrain…
Well, ms Chloe, my hat of to you. How very eloquent and intelligent you speak about your experiences. You are a true woman, growing into what that means and I wish you all the best on that journey. Besides that, you're as beautiful as a woman can be. To the interviewer: your sensitivity and respectful attitude is a breath of fresh air in a world of heated opinions. Never steering towards, just diving deeper and completely focussed on the experience of a fellow human being. Chapeau. And thank you both for taking the time to share this exchange with us.
👏👏👏👏 Benjamin's skill as an interviewer is amazing...so respectful and im pretty sure he could get most people to open up...This ruining of children's lives needs to stop 🥰🇦🇺🇺🇲
What a beautiful interview. When I saw the thumbnail, I thought, "Benjamin would be the one the elicit such a smile." So moving, and seeing the difference in Chole since I first saw JBP interview her is astounding. Keep going, sweetheart. If I grew up in this time, I would have been right there with you as I was a tomboy and hated the changes puberty brought. The New Dark Age I heard on Darkhorse is so appropriate. The information age was supposed to be so freeing, but there are so many victims. I've been reducing my screen time gradually because it's gotten ridiculous. Bless the children 🙏
It definitely has gotten ridiculous. I used to watch medical shows in the days of ER. A while back, I watched a few clips of modern medical shows on youtube and was shocked by how they were nothing but blatant propaganda making anyone who is not pro-all vaccines, pro-psych drugs in all cases, pro gender-affirmation in all and every case etc. look like the worst caricature of an unreasonable villain who dies or is otherwise punished at the end. And then you get the comment section full of people screaming "People like that need to have their kids removed from them. Throw these people in jail" and so on. Sadly, it's not just social media/screen time. You might be lucky to live in an area where it's not that widespread, but often it bleeds over into everything and it just feels like people no longer think for themselves and just parrot what the media (social and traditional) and others say. It's like they've been brainwashed and have zero critical thinking skills. Sometimes I actually NEED to come online and seek out people/videos outside of the mainstream just to remind myself that not everyone has fallen for it all hook, line and sinker. I just don't want to live in this society anymore. One pro of the information age is that it's not so easy for them to suppress all information that goes against what they want to force down our throats. Oh they sure try, but they can't. I pray that many many tomboys who are struggling see this and are saved.
I've been a tomboy my whole life, and I always will be. It took far too long for me to feel comfortable just being myself. Everybody put all this pressure on me to be more girly, and I hated it. I just want to wear clothes that I like (primarily t-shirts and jeans). For 36 years I kept my hair long, because I knew if I did what I really wanted to do (shave it all off) people would have something to say about it, and they did. I had hated my hair from the moment it first started getting long at around 3 years old. I remember begging for a hair cut only to be disappointed when afterwards my hair was still long. I know people think I'm crazy for shaving my head, and they probably think that if they complain enough I'll grow it back out again, but I will not. Do I tell them what to do with their hair? No. So why should they have a say with what I do with mine? I'm done trying to please people who don't give a crap about me. If they can't accept me as I am then screw them.
Kudos! Go out there and be yourself, and show them that you can be a woman and NOT want to be a man without fitting some stupid gender stereotype. It might save some girls who think that they have to be Barbie or trans with nothing in between.
What ever happened to "live and let live"? I was a tomboy and we thought about what it would be like to be a boy, but always loved my long hair and knew I was a girl. Pressured by some to wear more dresses and makeup etc, but the pressure to be more feminine subsides as you age. Born at the right time to just be me.
Fellow tomboy here, the difference is that nobody told us that we should be boys, that we were born in the wrong body and they can help us fix it. These professionals are preying on vulnerable children before they can even form their identities, causing lifelong physical damage.
So proud of you Chloe. Your a beautiful and brave young lady. Thank you for helping to change the world for good by sharing your story. Your making a difference.
I think you are saving lives. You should be proud of yourself. If you help, one person not have to go through what you did. Thst will be a huge contribution to the world.
Oh my gosh, what a horrible thing that Chloe had to go through. I’m so proud of her for being being so brave to come out and wanting to save this trauma from being put on other girls or other boys as well. God bless you Chloe you are a true hero.
1:40:26 what a gorgeous smile! So pretty and the beauty of her soul just radiates with so much wisdom!! I hope you become a mother and are loved by a great man who appreciates you and loves you so much. You deserve that and I way more!
@Jenny's gettin' inky with it ... YES! I have heard her story a number of times and is heart breaking on each... yet, she maintains a positive attitude. She is opening eyes and changing minds ❤ PS> It is my hope, we don't get a bunch of trolls in chat today 😿I want to hear what all have to say, but far too often, there is nothing constructive about any criticisms... only ad hominem attacks on her character.
@NinjaKitty the cult can't listen cause then they might have to give up their cult. It amazes me how many ppl prioritize a sense of belonging over their own well being and can't even see that is what they are doing. Hope its not too bad so you can watch. PS I've added more pics to my community page. The box I painted turned out particularly well, if I do say so myself 😆
Chloe I wish that you can begin to love yourself and learn to be happy with yourself . You are so beautiful inside and even more beautiful outside. You look like a beautiful girl and I am so so proud of you . I love what you are doing and please remember we are all looking forward to seeing more of you
Beautiful interview. Benjamin would you ever consider writing about this subject after all your interviews-or a book perhaps? You’ve seen so much, I would hope your voice should count.
You look fabulous, Chloe. Sorry you have had to go through such difficult experiences and will have to live with the aftermath, but you have a fantastic spirit and you have come out a stronger person.
@Jive Turkey ... Damned F'ing straight! They have ACTIVELY chosen to die on the hill of children at drag shows and "gender affirming" at sub-10 yo. This WILL tear the party apart!
What a lovely young woman. Sorry, Chloe, that you had to go through so much at such a young age. Stay strong, my dear. You're doing something good for others innocents. Bless you.
Benjamin, watching you with Chloe, I realized why I found a particular moment of your recent conversation with Catherine so unsettling: It may seem a small thing, but when you were distracted by your cat(s?), it came across as somewhat out of character for you. Not that you give the slightest impression that you would be in any way uncaring to your pets, but that the level of attention you give to your calmversants verges on a superpower. To see this superpower so casually thwarted (even if only temporarily) was ineffably puzzling - it felt like a bigger deal than the simple facts of the matter would admit. This then, is a somewhat circuitous way of complementing you and encouraging you to keep up the good work!
Chloe, I hope you have someone in your life that cares about you fiercely, who is reasonably skeptical of authority, loves you enough to always be honest with you, is patient enough to give you space where it's necessary, yet intuitive enough to sense when you need/want support and encouragement. I feel a tug in my heart I wish I could have been your ride or die friend so you didn't go through all this alone. If you ever find yourself in California's central valley, I'd love to kick it :) I'm 28yr old chick, not a weirdo lol. And gurl, your cheekbones are to die for, and Ben's not just trying to flatter you when he says you look like a painting, you are elegantly feminine and stunningly beautiful. ❤
This can also be seen as a lesson in not trusting doctors too much. I do not have any degree of dysmorphia but I can relate to Chloe's experience because doctors frequently tell me there is nothing wrong with me based on blood tests, or they'll prescribe medicine that puts a bandaid on a deeper problem. They were trying to fix Chloe and put a bandaid on her when the deeper problem was that she was just yet to mature mentally and needed guidance in navigating how she felt about her body image. she needed to be told not all women look thr same and that being a tomboy sometimes just means youre a tomboy it doesnt mean you are trans. Also im starting to feel shes being brainwashed into beig conservative. This chloe person needs to be more aggressive when it comes to thinking for herself.the problem isnt having the wrong political affiliation the problem is not thinking for yourself
The "what if" that came to my mind is whether an earlier psychedelic experience conducted as part of therapy could've avoided so much harm to this person. 1:18:10
It's crazy to me this lovely young woman has been put through this. Being a "tomboy" is how some women are, and some men are feminine. It's part of the human spectrum. I very much hope Chloe wins her civil case and opens the floodgates of civil suits from people who have been so mistreated. Further, the barbaric treatment must be harshly criminalized.
I was on ritalin and then adderall as a child too and I started my periods late, I was 15. My periods were irregular as well, and I literally thought I must be infertile or have a hormone imbalance. My cycle is like clockwork now, I'm 28 and have had 2 very healthy pregnancies. My reproductive system is perfect, there was never anything wrong with me. When Chloe mentioned having an irregular cycle, I wonder if the ADHD meds may have caused it? My breasts grew in crooked too, I'm not sure why to this day but I've begun to suspect that the stimulant medication may have stunted my growth somewhat. My female family members were all early bloomers with full breasts and I have one full D cup and a B at this point, but in hs I had one C cup and the other was completely flat. I'd stuff socks into the empty cup to give my figure more symmetry. All this to say, this whole push on pubescent people to consider transitioning truly horrifies me because I remember being 15 and feeling like my body was completely wrong, I'd already been told my brain was wrong and I had to be on these stimulants, I was a self harmer with severe depression that was never treated, and my irregular cycles and uneven breasts made me feel like I was a failure as a woman before I'd even become one. I feel like if I'd been born even less than a decade later than I was, I would have been susceptible to this dogma and I could have denied myself growing into the woman that I am. Chloes experience with her breasts truly rips my heart to shreds, because I remember wishing I could afford to just cut the bigger one off. I even DID go and consult with a plastic surgeon at 16, but cosmetic surgery for asymmetry wasn't covered by insurance. What if this gender dysphoria/trans activism was peddaled to me then? I feel like I could have fallen into the same trap that Chloe did. If I'm a failure as a woman, I might as well be a guy. I'm also bisexual and as a teen swung almost exclusively for the home team. Up until I gave birth to my son, I never believed I could measure up to the ideal of a woman, but now I understand that those feelings were all normal parts of growing up. Puberty makes everybody feel uncomfortable in their skin, it's called growing pains for a reason. And while my chest doesn't look like other girls, they both function perfectly. I'll never forget the feeling of breastfeeding my son, when he latched so effortlessly to the same breast that I felt so much resentment towards. The smaller one actually produced more milk than the larger one. My body was never wrong. Not one time. I hope Chloe knows what a hero she is evolving into. Her voice is so vital and I hope that more detransitioners will be able to pick themselves up and find their platforms as well. We have to protect our most vulnerable peers from falling victim to this gender grift. Our bodies are a gift, our children are our sacred purpose. We only get this one window of life to live in the bodies we have. This hyperfixation on children's bodies is perverted, the whole thing is honestly pedophilic and has to fucking stop. We have to stop telling babies their bodies are wrong, or that their bodies CAN BE wrong, or that there's some version of themselves that exists independently of their bodies, and that somehow that version of themselves has a gender that can be different than their bodies it makes no sense and it's just confusing them. I cry so much about this. I want to help these kids but I don't know how. I want these predators to stop but I don't know how to stop them. Chloe is so brave to step up and become a champion for kids like her. And her smile is so beautiful. Blessed be.
Gosh, this beautiful woman thinking she was 'less than'. Really the embodiment of why you have to give cubs the chance to grow into their adulthood without pushing them into some grass-is-greener alternative.
I think it's rather telling that she was only accepted in the "trans community" so long as she blindly parroted their narrative. But the minute she began to question whether she had made a mistake (her God-given right), she was instantly demonized and shunned without mercy. And the part of society that would supposedly despise her, are the same people who welcomed her with open arms. Chloe Cole is the embodiment of true bravery. God bless you Chloe, I pray that one day soon you will find true peace and happiness.
One hell of an interview this. Such detail,BAB really,sensitivley,asking really informed,relevant questions. Such honesty,bravery. Maybe I missed it but where were the parents,adults in all of this. Somebody..please try to honestly justify WHY Chloe had to experience ANY of this. No justification whatsoever for any this.
1:14:01 I went for 2 specialist opinions for my OSD (which is an extremely known and well-established medical condition) and I get used-car salesmen vibes from the specialists when recommending (more like selling) a course of treatment... so, yeah, I can believe that...
To get an accurate diagnosis of autism females must skip the local and school hacks and go straight to a university or research based facility or institution for a thorough neuropsych eval. Girls are often missed and misdiagnosed for precisely the reasons you were. The fact is that ADHD and psych meds do not work in autism. They may work on comorbidities but not autistic traits.
I love to see you smile, Chloe. I think you have a bright future and lots of reasons to smile. It takes a great person to take something really terrible and do something wonderful. Your generation and the ones to come will benefit from your work. History will not be kind to the doctors who are doing this, but it will be very kind to you.
Excellent job, Benjamin. No one could have handled this calmversation any more delicately than you did. I think Chloe appreciate that, as well. Also, I have to say that I'd put a large portion of the blame for Chloe's gender dysphoria on her parents.
Part of a series: bit.ly/DeTransStories
Thank you for all of your work!
Thank you, Benjamin.
Kudos to Chloe for putting herself on the frontlines. The amount of courage and tenacity she exhibits is brave, not to mention stunning.
I see what you did there 💅. Chloe is great. I like how Benjamin said she looks like a painting. She has those strong and beautiful Renaissance woman features. Not a trendy beauty but a classic, timeless one.
@@AshleyWilliams-xq7lj lol yes, I’m co-opting the dialect .
I also liked the painting comment and her response was very feminine 😊
I agree. Chloe is a beautiful young lady. Very articulate and well spoken as well.
Get 'em Chloe! ❤Minors should not be given agency to make life altering decisions! There is a reason why we have the age of consent by 18 yo! Stop experimenting on our children!
Oh. This is a preview, not the premiere.
@@helenablavatsky9136 .. Ya. Mr. Benjamin likes to tease us now and again 😾I may be locked in his basement... but The Kitty has plans in motion 😼
There are neurodevelopmental arguments, solid ones, for pushing the age of consent to 25.
And doctors definitely shouldn't be allowed to say that patients being misled is their own fault! (Or at minimum not their fault). Don't let them hide behind "the medical consensus".
@@Jell0zz ... Agreed. Now, I am NOT one who dismisses personal responsibility / accountability easily at all. I hold people accountable, but we MUST recognize that these are children and young teens. Society understands, or rather "USED" to understand, that cognitive development and life experience are SEVERELY lacking. To add to this, we have societal pressures, much more pronounced against young girls, who are VERY easily influenced by trends. This is why we see a MUCH larger number of teen girls falling prey to this. We are seeing many very young boys as well, but that is PURE projection by abusive parents who, in most cases, need to stand before a judge for child abuse!
Chloe is such a treasure. Hope young girls listen to her wise words of caution. Go get ‘em girl
Not only girls....
She's so smart and self-aware. I wish I had that kind of maturity at her age.
She IS a treasure. So glad she’s doing what she’s doing, and so very sad for her that she has to.
How sad. Born at the wrong time. In my teens I sported a pixie cut and wore cargo shorts, ripped jeans, flannel shirts and converse shoes. That was in the 90's. Friends Nick named me Tom because I was considered a tomboy.My friend and I often discussed wishing we could cut our boobs off. My friend used to bind hers. I thought I would never want children but went on to have 4 and love being a mum. These poor girls just needed time.
Trans people are not "tomboys" or effeminate men... Sometimes you just have to accept certain experiences are beyond your comprehension...
@@r.walker7986 this girl was a tomboy. Obviously. Your comment is silly. You are your body. I've never in my entire life met a woman who likes her body. That's a man's fantasy of what a woman is. Very obvious by the way dress wearing men behave and dress.
@@r.walker7986 No, you don't. It's a social contagion that has been invented by nefariously motivated human beings. You can't hide a sickness behind phrases such excuses as ''beyond our comprehension''.
@@r.walker7986,,, There are many Trans people who are now coming out and telling their stories about what happened to them and many of the girls were either tomboys or gay..
@@momofgi No it s not, and a person taking being a tomboy too far is still not the same thing as being trans. Its "their bad" and has nothing ton do with trans people as a whole. if you go and marry a woman and have 6 kids with her only to find out you just liked her eyelashes, you are team too-much, just you, it has no bearing on the lesbian community as a whole...
Now this a strong, brave woman! She’s also so beautiful! Made me sad when she said she’s insecure due what medical transition did because she looks gorgeous to me, not discrediting the harm done but I wouldn’t even know she transitioned and detransitioned if she hadn’t said so.
@Lola Laise ... Agreed 💯Damned good head on her shoulders, great attitude and very easy on the eyes. Just makes it that much sadder that in those early days of puberty we were SO damned insecure and with a few more years, we learn that 90% of it was all made up BS in our heads 😿
Theres something about her that is hard to describe....she is beautiful...
Shes definately a darling 💜
I hope no-one get's this the wrong way, cause I'm a man 40+, but I think she is incredibly beautyful.
And the awful experiences she went through, as terrible as it was, but it made her a strong woman.
I watched a few interviews with her and she comes across as a very nice and intelligent girl.
Any man can be happy and proud, if he finds a wife like her.
@@MarsFranke ... I completely agree! I do get that some, if not many, will read your comment and twist it into you saying that it is good this happened, because ..."just look at her now". As we have heard before... life is a journey, not a destination, but my fave is..."we are born looking like our parents, but die looking like our choices". It is true that Chloe _chose_ to go down the road of transition, but there is a VERY good reason, why we don't allow a minor full agency over their life. it is not possible to know who Chloe would have become, had she not made that first step of consideration of transition, but one thing is for certain.
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She would have _still_ been that brave, beautiful young woman, because she would still have been what it is that made her what we see today ❤
Chloe’s story breaks my heart. I wanted to transition into being female years ago. Went on hormones, wore dresses, leggings, makeup ect. And I feel I was manipulated by doctors. I felt I was lying to people and made women uncomfortable.. I hated doing that. I found the root cause of my issues was loneliness and I wanted to be loved and has a sense of belonging. I’m thankful I detransitioned. Sadly I am now sterile.
A total abdication of responsibility by all these therapists who just accept the delusion without question.
@Chelsea Poet.... Well said and in a nutshell. This is PRECISELY what we see!
And other medical 'professionals'. What happened to 'do no harm'?
@@chelseapoet3664 ... They sold their souls to the WOKE cult and have done so LITERALLY!
That’s their job. Seriously.
Chloe may have insecurities in how she sees her body, but all I see is a beautiful young woman! And so brave, she will help so many young girls going through this❤️
So pure beautiful..❤❤100 percent true
I saw several interviews with Chloe - this was the most relaxed I saw her, the most "chatty" - kudos to you Benjamin! You really related to everything she said! This young woman has gone through hell many times. She got back to tell the story and I hope her voice reaches many young girls.
Proper interview ❤❤❤she is pure ..journalist reckons❤
When Ben said Chole looks like a painting 🥺 her reaction was so beautiful 🥺💜 you are so beautiful through it all Chole!
Amen!
That sweet, beaming, shy smile she gets when Ben compliments her beauty.
It’s so damn endearing.
Chloe, you are a shining light in very scary period in human history. Thank you so much for speaking out against little kids and teens being attacked with knives 🔪 by Frankenstein Mengele , Kesey and Dr Money monsters. You Chloe Cole ARE beautiful inside and out. Please help us to keep these creeps hands off +continue to 🛑 our kids being experimented on and militated. With all my ❤ + respect from a very old tomboy ✊🏼👵🏻🇬🇧🥰
Chloe this complication in your graft is probably the consequence of a lymphatic vessel being knicked and the lymph keeps draining. Look up post-op lymphatic leakage. These vessels do not clot like the blood vessels so they keep draining. I am a doctor but not a surgeon. I think this can be fixed, but a good surgeon needs to find the lymph vessel that was damaged and stitch it.
Yes this happened to a friend who had double mastectomy due to cancer … was repaired ❤
1:40:25 "Well, I think you look like a painting ..." Beautifully said, especially the ending ("Your essence is beautiful"). Because, I think, that's coming from somewhere - and ‘that place‘ is what gives us orientation and power; and which can't be stroyed.
Chloe is a pretty young woman, who is obviously bright and creative,. And brave - very brave.
I wish her every success in her future.
Those people were never celebrating you. They were celebrating something that made them feel better about their own internal conflicts. That's why they make a huge deal about "dead naming " or why they charge their birth certificates. Any reminder of reality causes mental distress. That's why no matter how many surgeries are had or how affirming society is suicide rates remain exceptionally high. You will always know what the truth is inside
I hope she wins the lawsuit and it sets a precedent. We can't have this crap happening ever again.
I am a 52 years old ex-transwoman from Malaysia who is living his wonderful life. I respect people’s choices and I appreciate if people would respect mine in return. People like me do exist. I have often been told shut up but I don’t think I can.
Chloe! Love you, girl! ❤❤❤ Womanhood is big, and it takes a lifetime to grow into, and you are doing great.
Life is big for everyone. I really think feminist messaging over the last 50 years has had negative outcomes. When young girls are told by women, that being a woman is so hard, being a wife or mother is oppression or slavery, and everything about being a woman is terrible, its no surprise some young people want to opt out.
The irony is women perform better than men in most areas of life, and they are the most protected group in western society,
Thank you, Chloe, for your willingness to tell your story. You truly have a beautiful essence. Thank you, Benjamin, for facilitating this careful calmversation with Chloe. It did give me some questions, until I googled and learned that in California, 12yr olds can give consent for medical care and counselling. Where I live, 18 yrs is the age of consent.
It's so cute to watch when she is being so formal and then when she comes alive to answer questions she wants to answer… Really good interview, thank you❤ And most of all thank you Chloe ⭐️ a beautiful solid way for us all to figure this all out.
I love Benjamin and Chloe too, so looking forward to this. Two sweethearts.
The Tomboy Genocide is SOOO goddam real... (unlike "the trans genocide' meme; You're not being "genocided", if people want to PREVENT you from chemically sterilizing children...)
@Bacon Sarny-Geddon ... Ironic isn't it. The trans activist cult is forever talking about how transition is "life saving healthcare" (ZERO evidence, studies or God forbid... dead bodies to substantiate it), but I fear we will see the EXACT opposite! The self-delete rate is somewhere in the 40% range and that has been historically, when there was a much greater degree of mental health addressing. May not have been very effective, but it was acknowledged that it WAS a thing to be reconciled. There is literally ZERO concern, because by the time the trans activists get through convincing young girls, mostly, that they MUST be trans, by the time parents find out, they have gone full on board with it all. Parents are scared to death and "gender affirming doctors" sell them on the idea they will self-delete if not transitioned. Parents ABSOLUTELY have some blame here, so I will not give them a pass. However, when the child FREAKS over the denials by parents, and the "doctors' are pressing trans, it is VERY difficult to manage at that point.
"We don't believe "trans" is actually a thing..."
"YOU WANT TO COMMIT GENOCIDE!"
"um... what?"
@@geoffreybrockmeier9218 .. This is because the trans activist cult was indoctrinated by Marxists and not taught HOW to think, but rather WHAT to think. The critical thinking skills are that of a 4 yo child. They have ZERO means of articulation of their argument, so they squat down in the middle of the room and scream. The difference is that the 4 yo can be put into the car, driven home and sat in his room and allowed to scream himself to sleep. The WOKE cult activist is an "adult", so has the agency and physical capacity to generate violent attack upon others, so we cannot just sit them down for a time out.
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I don't know what we are going to do with them, because they have NOTHING to fall back upon, in terms of Western World values.
I think there are trans people. But there is also a tomboy genocide. Both things can be true at the same time. The problem is girls are being forced to conform to traditional female clothes and roles, otherwise if you don't we are going to cut your breasts off and feed you testosterone. Also no more women's sports because now bio men dominate bio women's sports. So it's starting to look a lot like what they do in Iran and other Sharia Law countries when people are gay and women must conform to certain roles. And it's the medical establishment acting in the role of the hardline taliban type of authority.
She has more sound judgement and better critical thinking than most adults who were in charge of her well being. She learned the hard way unfortunately
Chloe is becoming more and more beautiful as her confidence grows. Such a heart warming smile too 😊I love the little pauses when she speaks ❤
After watching a few of your videos, I'm actually starting to appreciate your far more restrained interviewing/moderating style. You really know how to hold yourself back in a way few online personalities do.
When I was a teenager I first learnt of women who had to have their breasts removed due to cancer. It was at the time the most horrific and terrible thing I had heard about. And now young woman are doing this willingly with nothing wrong with them!
Cloe you are doing the most amazing thing with your bravery in bringing people to the trust of what’s it’s really like. We are all so proud of what you are doing. ❤️🙏🏻
I admire the chutzpah of these younger detransitioners being willing to go on the record to talk about their experiences, especially in Chloe's case with her JBP appearance which will undoubtedly be seen by a huge audience. Nothing she says here is wrong but it is quite vulnerable. However I do worry about the long-term risks of 'overexposure' too, for a 19yo. I have almost no room to talk as a detransitioner + regretter now at age ~30 but I would hate to have my younger self googleable in this way. I'd worry about employability etc because I'd hope she has goals for her future aside from detrans activism. I just see these kids and see myself in them, and I want to protect them. At the same time, their stories matter and I hope they'll prevent others from facing the same fate.
True. It’s also being bullied by so many people at that age. Those LGBT activists are brutal.
I am sorry to hear that you are regretful. I don’t know how to imagine how you feel but thank gd for people like you and Cole . I wish you all the best for your future . You’re alive and that’s important
Thank you so much Chloe for your strength, perseverance and courage to speak out to help protect other children and for sharing your experiences. And to pursue the lawsuits - I believe this is an important piece of the puzzle both for your needs as well to stop the transitioning of children and reform all transitioning so that adults are fully informed and provided other treatments/therapy prior to transition🙏❤️ Godspeed!
It's funny how people conflate eloquence with being incapable of having any mental health problem ever. My doctor refused to believe my reports of severe depression (because I present well and turn up to appointments, apparently means I can't be depressed) and I became so acutely depressed I had a really dismal psychotic episode and was hospitalised - this was the lowest point of my life and only after that did my doctor believe my reports of being depressed. I changed Doctors!!
Chloe will go far. She's a gem 💎 ❤
I also will second that notion that good grades should not be the predicate requirement for sports activities.... It really seems like they are intertwined. I know way too many people that have made their lives into prison and part of the story starts with " I was really into sports when I was in school but my grades got bad so I got out of sports and didn't have any I was good at so I got into drugs "
Not everyone is good at sports, not everyone is good at academics...everyone is good at gettin hooked on drugs.
The education system where I live seems near designed to push people into self destruction if they're poor in academics, which is wrong because they could find a niche in things like sports or practical work, but academia doesn't push or allow for that, so they get told from young they're stupid, worthless and destined to fail essentially...who isn't gonna fall into drugs or alcohol or other self destructive habits when from young stuffy academics told em they have nothing to offer because they weren't good at subjects that aren't really relevant in day to day life for the vast majority of people.
As someone who works in mental healthcare... Kaiser is legendary for their terrible care, and I know of several active lawsuits. 😢
Chloe whenever you talk about this it is so powerful. Thank you for being strong and speaking up. You are amazing.
thank you Chloe. after all these interviews, lawsuits, Truth Telling .. i pray for that family & children you want. you deserve healing, health, happiness 💝
My husband was put on wellbutrin for adhd and it made him really angry too. Totally out of character for him. He went right off it.
@N ... That is great! We, in the West are WAY too quick to medicate for what are normal issues that some good communication would address just fine. If we take it to the extreme, what if Einstein was medicated? What if Newton or Plato? Mozart? .... To think of the thousands of BRILLIANT minds, having all been shut down, due to social anxiety or "not fitting in"!
Chloe, you are an absolute beauty. And you are such a lovely person. I am so very sorry for all that you’ve had to go through. I wish you all the very best.
Benjamin, fabulous interview. You always do a great job. This was a difficult one for your compassionate heart.
I'm always blown away at the throttling of UA-cam. We all know this calmversation should have hundreds of thousands of views and @benjamin boyce you are so talented and compassionate with all of your guests. Hope you will make a full switch to Rumble soon.
I’m on Rumble and get five views an episode. Rumble doesn’t give a shit about creators that don’t pull in traffic.
Some are growing on Rumble just by encouraging their YT audience to go over there. There is an algorithm that promotes based on your views. I'm there the majority of time, and I'll start watching this channel there.
"This person has both personal and emotional issues... Better medicate them to death, figuratively and possibly literally if it ever goes that far!"
They treat people as though they're machines having a malfunction.
I got to meet Chloe briefly when she was in Utah!!!!! I feel special.
Love the cat outside intros. Thank you for taking time and sharing such important information with the public. I appreciate your story and hope it helps many more.
Chloe, the interviewer was spot on when he said you are glowing light. Don't take what the haters say to heart, you are true to yourself, trust no one and be your own best friend. In that way no onevwill be able to hurt or harm you. Continue shining your glowing light and your beautiful soul. Your journey going forward in life is driven by the purpose of saving many, many kids who are confused as to what gender they really are as we all experienced during childhood and as teenagers.
11 is way too young to have phones and any access to social media! Parents stop veing afraid of your children. Kudos to Chloe for speaking up and you will make a difference! ❤
I have to thank you for such a sensitive, gentle and caring difficult conversation, but so worth while in many levels. Beyond the hard parts of the interview, I loved the way you related to such a special lady and beautiful spirit, Chloe. Thank you again, and I do hope her legal actions do have the most healing fruition.
What a great interview! Thank you so much. And best of luck from a fellow psychiatric survivor.
So great and interesting to listen to her speak on these issues, so smart, such a cutie and what a powerhouse for our children. Much love from all of us Chloe
Thanks so much Chloe for doing this video and thanks Ben. I pray this reaches all the right people and that transitioning children is outlawed for under either 18, or 25 is even better. I am praying my daughter will stop she’s 22 and her voice is starting to change, I’m so terrified for my daughter.
She’s one of the few courageous enough to take action to ensure those responsible are held accountable! Would love to see a second interview so we can hear what she had to say about psychedelics influencing her detransition.
Agree. I'm sure it was a major factor, like a game changer....It is well known anecdotally and otherwise that it is very very difficult to lie while under the influence of Psychedelics.
The "save our tomboys" meme is real.
What a beautiful young woman. Thank God you were lead to stop the process at the point you did. Please continue with the truth that you speak. You are destined to save many young people. I pray for guidance and strength on this path that you on.
brilliant conversation, eye opening; thank you Chloe and Ben
I hope therapists and all other involved med. prof‘s are learning something from people like Chloe.
Wish you all the best Chloe, w healing and progress w legal actions! Thanks for speaking out, society needs your voice…To break t ideology in some people‘s minds so they start to see w their own ( individual )senses again instead of feeding the collective transtrain…
Well, ms Chloe, my hat of to you. How very eloquent and intelligent you speak about your experiences. You are a true woman, growing into what that means and I wish you all the best on that journey. Besides that, you're as beautiful as a woman can be. To the interviewer: your sensitivity and respectful attitude is a breath of fresh air in a world of heated opinions. Never steering towards, just diving deeper and completely focussed on the experience of a fellow human being. Chapeau. And thank you both for taking the time to share this exchange with us.
👏👏👏👏 Benjamin's skill as an interviewer is amazing...so respectful and im pretty sure he could get most people to open up...This ruining of children's lives needs to stop 🥰🇦🇺🇺🇲
Excellent title of the video for those of us who have seen the movie “girl, interrupted,” with Wynnoa Ryder.
Psychiatry really needs a revolution in practice to being more scientific and the tranny thing is more Freudian steps backwards into quackery.
What a beautiful interview. When I saw the thumbnail, I thought, "Benjamin would be the one the elicit such a smile." So moving, and seeing the difference in Chole since I first saw JBP interview her is astounding. Keep going, sweetheart. If I grew up in this time, I would have been right there with you as I was a tomboy and hated the changes puberty brought. The New Dark Age I heard on Darkhorse is so appropriate. The information age was supposed to be so freeing, but there are so many victims. I've been reducing my screen time gradually because it's gotten ridiculous. Bless the children 🙏
It definitely has gotten ridiculous. I used to watch medical shows in the days of ER. A while back, I watched a few clips of modern medical shows on youtube and was shocked by how they were nothing but blatant propaganda making anyone who is not pro-all vaccines, pro-psych drugs in all cases, pro gender-affirmation in all and every case etc. look like the worst caricature of an unreasonable villain who dies or is otherwise punished at the end. And then you get the comment section full of people screaming "People like that need to have their kids removed from them. Throw these people in jail" and so on.
Sadly, it's not just social media/screen time. You might be lucky to live in an area where it's not that widespread, but often it bleeds over into everything and it just feels like people no longer think for themselves and just parrot what the media (social and traditional) and others say. It's like they've been brainwashed and have zero critical thinking skills. Sometimes I actually NEED to come online and seek out people/videos outside of the mainstream just to remind myself that not everyone has fallen for it all hook, line and sinker. I just don't want to live in this society anymore.
One pro of the information age is that it's not so easy for them to suppress all information that goes against what they want to force down our throats. Oh they sure try, but they can't. I pray that many many tomboys who are struggling see this and are saved.
What a great interview...thankyou ❤️🇦🇺🇺🇲
I've been a tomboy my whole life, and I always will be. It took far too long for me to feel comfortable just being myself. Everybody put all this pressure on me to be more girly, and I hated it. I just want to wear clothes that I like (primarily t-shirts and jeans). For 36 years I kept my hair long, because I knew if I did what I really wanted to do (shave it all off) people would have something to say about it, and they did. I had hated my hair from the moment it first started getting long at around 3 years old. I remember begging for a hair cut only to be disappointed when afterwards my hair was still long. I know people think I'm crazy for shaving my head, and they probably think that if they complain enough I'll grow it back out again, but I will not. Do I tell them what to do with their hair? No. So why should they have a say with what I do with mine? I'm done trying to please people who don't give a crap about me. If they can't accept me as I am then screw them.
Kudos! Go out there and be yourself, and show them that you can be a woman and NOT want to be a man without fitting some stupid gender stereotype. It might save some girls who think that they have to be Barbie or trans with nothing in between.
What ever happened to "live and let live"?
I was a tomboy and we thought about what it would be like to be a boy, but always loved my long hair and knew I was a girl.
Pressured by some to wear more dresses and makeup etc, but the pressure to be more feminine subsides as you age.
Born at the right time to just be me.
Fellow tomboy here, the difference is that nobody told us that we should be boys, that we were born in the wrong body and they can help us fix it. These professionals are preying on vulnerable children before they can even form their identities, causing lifelong physical damage.
Again a very insightful interview.
Good for you, Chole. Thank you for sharing your experience.
So proud of you Chloe. Your a beautiful and brave young lady. Thank you for helping to change the world for good by sharing your story. Your making a difference.
I think you are saving lives.
You should be proud of yourself.
If you help, one person not have to go through what you did. Thst will be a huge contribution to the world.
Oh my gosh, what a horrible thing that Chloe had to go through. I’m so proud of her for being being so brave to come out and wanting to save this trauma from being put on other girls or other boys as well. God bless you Chloe you are a true hero.
❤ Great interview Chloe and Benjamin!
56:30 I love seeing Chloe laugh at Ben's dry questions. Prob the first time I've seen her really laugh in an interview.
1:40:26 what a gorgeous smile! So pretty and the beauty of her soul just radiates with so much wisdom!! I hope you become a mother and are loved by a great man who appreciates you and loves you so much. You deserve that and I way more!
Looking forward to this
@Jenny's gettin' inky with it ... YES! I have heard her story a number of times and is heart breaking on each... yet, she maintains a positive attitude. She is opening eyes and changing minds ❤
PS> It is my hope, we don't get a bunch of trolls in chat today 😿I want to hear what all have to say, but far too often, there is nothing constructive about any criticisms... only ad hominem attacks on her character.
@NinjaKitty the cult can't listen cause then they might have to give up their cult. It amazes me how many ppl prioritize a sense of belonging over their own well being and can't even see that is what they are doing. Hope its not too bad so you can watch.
PS I've added more pics to my community page. The box I painted turned out particularly well, if I do say so myself 😆
@@battygirlrachel ... [The Kitty makes a trip down Arts Lane, Craftstown, USA]
Chloe I wish that you can begin to love yourself and learn to be happy with yourself . You are so beautiful inside and even more beautiful outside.
You look like a beautiful girl and I am so so proud of you . I love what you are doing and please remember we are all looking forward to seeing more of you
Chloe, you are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story. Your road has been difficult, wishing you happiness in the future
as an 39year old i have to say: much respect Chloe!
I've been really looking forward to this one! 🍿 🛋
Beautiful interview. Benjamin would you ever consider writing about this subject after all your interviews-or a book perhaps? You’ve seen so much, I would hope your voice should count.
Ur very brave and ❤️ beautiful........ proud of u and ur awakening
U will have a great life and u will have children and find contentment
You look fabulous, Chloe. Sorry you have had to go through such difficult experiences and will have to live with the aftermath, but you have a fantastic spirit and you have come out a stronger person.
I'm holding every Democrat guilty for this evil.
@Jive Turkey ... Damned F'ing straight! They have ACTIVELY chosen to die on the hill of children at drag shows and "gender affirming" at sub-10 yo. This WILL tear the party apart!
Love you Chloe. Thank you for continuing to fight! ❤
What a lovely young woman. Sorry, Chloe, that you had to go through so much at such a young age. Stay strong, my dear. You're doing something good for others innocents. Bless you.
Benjamin, watching you with Chloe, I realized why I found a particular moment of your recent conversation with Catherine so unsettling: It may seem a small thing, but when you were distracted by your cat(s?), it came across as somewhat out of character for you. Not that you give the slightest impression that you would be in any way uncaring to your pets, but that the level of attention you give to your calmversants verges on a superpower. To see this superpower so casually thwarted (even if only temporarily) was ineffably puzzling - it felt like a bigger deal than the simple facts of the matter would admit. This then, is a somewhat circuitous way of complementing you and encouraging you to keep up the good work!
Chloe, I hope you have someone in your life that cares about you fiercely, who is reasonably skeptical of authority, loves you enough to always be honest with you, is patient enough to give you space where it's necessary, yet intuitive enough to sense when you need/want support and encouragement. I feel a tug in my heart I wish I could have been your ride or die friend so you didn't go through all this alone.
If you ever find yourself in California's central valley, I'd love to kick it :) I'm 28yr old chick, not a weirdo lol.
And gurl, your cheekbones are to die for, and Ben's not just trying to flatter you when he says you look like a painting, you are elegantly feminine and stunningly beautiful. ❤
Such a beautiful young lady !!! I’ll pray for you continued living truth with joy !!!
This can also be seen as a lesson in not trusting doctors too much. I do not have any degree of dysmorphia but I can relate to Chloe's experience because doctors frequently tell me there is nothing wrong with me based on blood tests, or they'll prescribe medicine that puts a bandaid on a deeper problem. They were trying to fix Chloe and put a bandaid on her when the deeper problem was that she was just yet to mature mentally and needed guidance in navigating how she felt about her body image. she needed to be told not all women look thr same and that being a tomboy sometimes just means youre a tomboy it doesnt mean you are trans.
Also im starting to feel shes being brainwashed into beig conservative. This chloe person needs to be more aggressive when it comes to thinking for herself.the problem isnt having the wrong political affiliation the problem is not thinking for yourself
The "what if" that came to my mind is whether an earlier psychedelic experience conducted as part of therapy could've avoided so much harm to this person. 1:18:10
It's crazy to me this lovely young woman has been put through this. Being a "tomboy" is how some women are, and some men are feminine. It's part of the human spectrum. I very much hope Chloe wins her civil case and opens the floodgates of civil suits from people who have been so mistreated. Further, the barbaric treatment must be harshly criminalized.
I was on ritalin and then adderall as a child too and I started my periods late, I was 15. My periods were irregular as well, and I literally thought I must be infertile or have a hormone imbalance. My cycle is like clockwork now, I'm 28 and have had 2 very healthy pregnancies. My reproductive system is perfect, there was never anything wrong with me. When Chloe mentioned having an irregular cycle, I wonder if the ADHD meds may have caused it? My breasts grew in crooked too, I'm not sure why to this day but I've begun to suspect that the stimulant medication may have stunted my growth somewhat. My female family members were all early bloomers with full breasts and I have one full D cup and a B at this point, but in hs I had one C cup and the other was completely flat. I'd stuff socks into the empty cup to give my figure more symmetry. All this to say, this whole push on pubescent people to consider transitioning truly horrifies me because I remember being 15 and feeling like my body was completely wrong, I'd already been told my brain was wrong and I had to be on these stimulants, I was a self harmer with severe depression that was never treated, and my irregular cycles and uneven breasts made me feel like I was a failure as a woman before I'd even become one. I feel like if I'd been born even less than a decade later than I was, I would have been susceptible to this dogma and I could have denied myself growing into the woman that I am. Chloes experience with her breasts truly rips my heart to shreds, because I remember wishing I could afford to just cut the bigger one off. I even DID go and consult with a plastic surgeon at 16, but cosmetic surgery for asymmetry wasn't covered by insurance. What if this gender dysphoria/trans activism was peddaled to me then? I feel like I could have fallen into the same trap that Chloe did. If I'm a failure as a woman, I might as well be a guy. I'm also bisexual and as a teen swung almost exclusively for the home team. Up until I gave birth to my son, I never believed I could measure up to the ideal of a woman, but now I understand that those feelings were all normal parts of growing up. Puberty makes everybody feel uncomfortable in their skin, it's called growing pains for a reason. And while my chest doesn't look like other girls, they both function perfectly. I'll never forget the feeling of breastfeeding my son, when he latched so effortlessly to the same breast that I felt so much resentment towards. The smaller one actually produced more milk than the larger one. My body was never wrong. Not one time.
I hope Chloe knows what a hero she is evolving into. Her voice is so vital and I hope that more detransitioners will be able to pick themselves up and find their platforms as well. We have to protect our most vulnerable peers from falling victim to this gender grift. Our bodies are a gift, our children are our sacred purpose. We only get this one window of life to live in the bodies we have. This hyperfixation on children's bodies is perverted, the whole thing is honestly pedophilic and has to fucking stop. We have to stop telling babies their bodies are wrong, or that their bodies CAN BE wrong, or that there's some version of themselves that exists independently of their bodies, and that somehow that version of themselves has a gender that can be different than their bodies it makes no sense and it's just confusing them. I cry so much about this. I want to help these kids but I don't know how. I want these predators to stop but I don't know how to stop them. Chloe is so brave to step up and become a champion for kids like her. And her smile is so beautiful. Blessed be.
Gosh, this beautiful woman thinking she was 'less than'. Really the embodiment of why you have to give cubs the chance to grow into their adulthood without pushing them into some grass-is-greener alternative.
Such a strong beautiful soul. I'm sorry that you have endured all that you have
CHLOE JUICE??? REALLY, BENJAMIN?? 💀💀💀💀
@Poofy ... The Kitty was trying to block that out... THANKS! 😾
I think it's rather telling that she was only accepted in the "trans community" so long as she blindly parroted their narrative. But the minute she began to question whether she had made a mistake (her God-given right), she was instantly demonized and shunned without mercy. And the part of society that would supposedly despise her, are the same people who welcomed her with open arms. Chloe Cole is the embodiment of true bravery. God bless you Chloe, I pray that one day soon you will find true peace and happiness.
Chloe is so lovely. 💖💪
Thank you Benjamin.
One hell of an interview this. Such detail,BAB really,sensitivley,asking really informed,relevant questions. Such honesty,bravery. Maybe I missed it but where were the parents,adults in all of this. Somebody..please try to honestly justify WHY Chloe had to experience ANY of this. No justification whatsoever for any this.
1:14:01 I went for 2 specialist opinions for my OSD (which is an extremely known and well-established medical condition) and I get used-car salesmen vibes from the specialists when recommending (more like selling) a course of treatment... so, yeah, I can believe that...
To get an accurate diagnosis of autism females must skip the local and school hacks and go straight to a university or research based facility or institution for a thorough neuropsych eval. Girls are often missed and misdiagnosed for precisely the reasons you were. The fact is that ADHD and psych meds do not work in autism. They may work on comorbidities but not autistic traits.
I love to see you smile, Chloe. I think you have a bright future and lots of reasons to smile.
It takes a great person to take something really terrible and do something wonderful. Your generation and the ones to come will benefit from your work.
History will not be kind to the doctors who are doing this, but it will be very kind to you.
She is quite stunning really.
@@americannightmom183 Yes. Beautiful inside and out.
Benjamin everyone wants to be Slash not Axle.
Chloe is gold. Also, Benjamin, all those cats are yours?
Perhaps!
Chloe Cole is a very intelligent young woman. I'm impressed by how mature she is and willing to take on this challenge.
It’s not life saving it’s a heroic speech ing truth ! You are amazing
Excellent job, Benjamin. No one could have handled this calmversation any more delicately than you did. I think Chloe appreciate that, as well. Also, I have to say that I'd put a large portion of the blame for Chloe's gender dysphoria on her parents.
This interview was not the time to speak about her parents. Perhaps in a year or two
I wish I could be friends with you in real life Chloe! You’re such an amazing person. Strong af.
Chloe for president!!!!!!! Or else. Make a change in politics!!!
Totally would be making an impact