Is My Ex In A Rebound Or Is It Serious?

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  • Is My Ex In A Rebound Or Is It Serious
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    Is your ex's new relationship, a rebound or the real deal? This can be confusing for a lot of people. So stay tuned through to the end so that you can get an understanding about what's going on here.
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  • @damientheomentrites6463
    @damientheomentrites6463 Рік тому +19

    There is no way to know if there is a genuine connection real or fake . People can go into a relationship as a rebound to get over someone and fall in love this question has so many variables . Anything can happen

  • @jannlewandowski5540
    @jannlewandowski5540 8 місяців тому +19

    I have seen rebounds last and turn to a full-blown relationship, then one of them cheated with their ex! Like they say, KARMA!

  • @maureentummers6372
    @maureentummers6372 Рік тому +3

    So enlightening!

  • @AnimeNewsRadio101
    @AnimeNewsRadio101 4 місяці тому +2

    Avoidant wheel, I seen this trick. There’s a good chance I am getting back to her.

  • @nicoleevaherbst7306
    @nicoleevaherbst7306 6 місяців тому +8

    What if your ex is the type of person who has trouble being alone? Like they are the type who hop on dating apps immediately after a breakup and will try to forge connections/relationships in an imprudent fashion?

    • @chele322
      @chele322 5 місяців тому +3

      Sounds like my ex lol

  • @AnAussieinNorway
    @AnAussieinNorway 11 місяців тому +6

    My ex was abusive and probably had Borderline personality disorder with all of the horrible behaviours that come with it. Moved on in a week and 6 months into a ‘serious’ relationship. She is a very troubled person but seems to be genuinely trying to make it work from definitively a rebound into something more long term. I wish she tried harder to make it work with me but I don’t deserve the way she treated me. It probably won’t work out but if it does I’d be surprised cause she must have found someone equally an a$$$hole or a push over.

    • @lalboimanlun1230
      @lalboimanlun1230 3 місяці тому

      Any update sir/ma'am?

    • @AnAussieinNorway
      @AnAussieinNorway 3 дні тому

      @@lalboimanlun1230she’s still with the first one she dated after. Much older and cop, it’s as serious as it can be without living together or never having kids. I only know this because I ran into her friend. Ex is blocked for life.

  • @Sevoflurane2014
    @Sevoflurane2014 4 місяці тому +1

    Ex jumped into rebound with family friend after 4 yr relationship. This guy has nothing but red flags. Never moved out of parents home and is 31. Among many other red flags. Complete loser. She has been with him now for 3 months. Unreal

  •  Рік тому

    Yes, she is in rebound relationship.

  • @VriiXx
    @VriiXx Рік тому

    My ex seems to be in a rebound, she presented him to her family, she posted stories with him, she still answer to me and ask questions laugh etc but she told me that it's a serious relationship. Is it possible that she said it's serious but it's really a rebound ? Because she is very strange with me most of the time and idk what to do to get her back even if it's serious with him

  • @Hawaiiansurfgrl
    @Hawaiiansurfgrl Рік тому +1

    Was in a 10 year relationship, exbf broke up with me. Went on to 2 rebounds, then asked for a 2nd chance. 8 month later broke up again. Within a week jumped into another relationship and moved in with her. We also have a child together. So psychological displacement?

  • @Deanna1295
    @Deanna1295 2 місяці тому

    My ex started dating a girl from high school who had a big crush on him. She became more in his life (they hadn't talked from 2010-2021) and didn't include me in things they were doing, as she always seemed to plan activities that didn't fit into my schedule. He was blinded that she liked him, and she wanted to support a friend going through a hard time. I warned him that this girl is ignoring that you have a girlfriend and she's trying to win you over. I don't really know what happened but after last summer his communication to me became limited with me, and she popped up in his texts all the time. It didn't make sense because for 2ish years before that I knew he saw her as a sister.He treated me so incredibly well and was so loyal to me for the 3 years we were together up until this situation. Did she manipulate him? I understand we weren't meant to be forever, but I really loved him as a person and a friend. I thought he would be in my life forever.

  • @avrataylor3019
    @avrataylor3019 Рік тому

    I broke up with my ex cause he wanted to marry me for pregnant and not because he loved me, but I want to have a relationship with him now. It’s been 5 months and he’s already dating how can I know if it’s a rebound or not since we have to stay in contact for the kid anyway. he had been friends with girl and was talking to her “as just friends” throughout our relationship.

  • @semih114
    @semih114 Рік тому +4

    My girl of 3.5 years dumped me 25 days ago. She was very upset about that and cried really much. The reason was 'im not feeling it anymore'. Her sis says she said 'we're not that close anymore' in april. And after a few days, i found out that she's with a new guy that complete opposite of me. She knows that guy for 4 5 months, and he knows about our relationship. (maybe an orbiter). I think the main reason that she's with him is, his attention to her. I was lacking that attention that caused her feelings go away, at least she said that. He really is complete opposite of me. I can say that if we were in our routine times, and she saw that guy in a group of friends, she would not like him. Not in person, but his habits would not be okey for her, like talking too much. They're going out every night, she's posting stories with him/places they go constantly, met up with their families. This can be count as rebound, because they were knowing each other? Or because for months she's thinking about break up, she already griefed and cant be a rebound? And she looks very obsessed with that guy. And also, we had a break up mid of july because of the same reason, but we talked and continued after, and most of the things were normal. Whats the chance thats a rebound? Thanks for your help Clay, appreciate that.

    • @sps9542
      @sps9542 Рік тому

      Same here dude, but mine was 5 years.
      Any updates on what happened?

    • @tomaspospisil112
      @tomaspospisil112 9 місяців тому

      ​@@sps9542same here, but for me it was after 7 years long relationship. Any updates on your side?

    • @alvaroramos9391
      @alvaroramos9391 2 місяці тому

      Still a rebound. Even if it was with a "friend" that she had on the back burner for some time. If she immediately went into another relationship without grieving or processing the last one.. Your ex just didn't want to be alone when she broke up with you. It's usually less about the replacer and more about the one being replaced. She had issues with you, wanted out but didn't want to be alone.

  • @MsMelephant19
    @MsMelephant19 10 місяців тому

    My ex left to London with someone after less than a month of being together and is moving in. She has three kids with three different guys and has custody of none of them. Always told me he never wanted to be with someone with kids and someone with multiple baby daddies are disgusting. I guess she’s a model and bar tender. She’s super attractive and he says she’s perfect and happiest he’s ever been. Would you consider that rebound? He broke up with me due to my insecurity issues so part of me feels it is a genuine relationship. We broke up but were still hooking up then she decides to be with her and drops me but texts me everyday. I just cannot tell.

  • @Jakuboooooooooo
    @Jakuboooooooooo Рік тому

    Her new guy literally has the same name as me. Spelled the same too. Wtf

  • @eulatreloar2439
    @eulatreloar2439 Рік тому +5

    My ex fiance got married to the women he left me for

    • @rscholey85
      @rscholey85 27 днів тому

      That’s heartbreaking but I sometimes think I wonder if that’s the way mine will go I’m male she monkey branched 🤦‍♂️ we was engaged too I still have the ring can’t see my self selling it tbh it means something to me, 5 month we been split up they booked a hol for October we have kids we still speak but I was so certain we would get back together now iv changed and she knows their true she still doesn’t seem to care 12 years it’s odd to me, I couldn’t do it without actually talking I thought everything was fine she never told me

  • @thepaleking1357
    @thepaleking1357 Рік тому +8

    I'm convinced she's in a rebound with her new guy. Moved him in, "loves" him, within THREE WEEKS! She is infatuated with him. She stills laughs and jokes with me as much as ever, it's never changed how she behaves with me. It was nine months after our 15 year relationship ended they got together, so could it still be a rebound?

    • @dianagonazalez9487
      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому

      *#*Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together*#*

    • @dianagonazalez9487
      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому

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      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому

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    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr Рік тому

      He is f'd up in the head...lol

    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr Рік тому +4

      They both are..lol..no one behaves like that has any sense

  • @johnreyes8799
    @johnreyes8799 Рік тому

    Hi coach my ex girlfriend for 3 1/2 years broke with me 6 months ago and I'm still in contact with her but she blocked me in social media last month and I found out that she unblocked me and she saw my stories in facebook after 2 days she blocked me again and I found out that she is in new relationship. I need your help and advice coach clay THANK YOUUUU 🙏

    • @tukurisah9280
      @tukurisah9280 Рік тому

      He will definitely help you too Contact hjm for help 👇

  • @zacheryschexnider6101
    @zacheryschexnider6101 Рік тому +5

    My ex and I were together for a year and a half. We live together and we shared hell everything together. We broke up like a month and a half ago and she got into a new relationship not to long after that. He's the complete polar opposite and seems like they're moving fast. He's nothing like me, idk shits weird and has made me think what the hell?

    • @mel-el5862
      @mel-el5862 Рік тому

      Same happened to me but the only difference is she did this while in the military before I got in. I'll be in soon to do my own thing and I guess it was fate for me to be single hehehe

    • @chele322
      @chele322 5 місяців тому

      Update?

  • @nurafiq2178
    @nurafiq2178 Рік тому

    My ex and i broke up about one and half month, the reason is she doesn't 'feel the spark' no more. Recently she were in new relationship which i know that person were already there while I'm with my ex. The last time i meet her she said she would like to try to be in the relationship with that guy and see how far it will go. I saw her insta story when they were having a date and she seems so happy with her new relationship. I just wondering is it a real deal relationship or just a rebound relationship. I genuinely confused and i also genuinely in pain to see that happening. Could you help me out or someone could you help me.

    • @remyd1984
      @remyd1984 Рік тому

      How did it play out mate?

  • @NF-pk5mo
    @NF-pk5mo Рік тому +4

    What if they're doing the fast forward, but it's with somebody they were friends with while you were the one close with them. Do the same principles still apply?

    • @kiddytube3915
      @kiddytube3915 11 місяців тому

      Yes

    • @user-kl9th4dm2y
      @user-kl9th4dm2y 2 місяці тому

      Yes. It just may last longer because there's more history with the person but the toxic traits of it being a rebound will eventually eclipse the bond they have, and problems will start to arise. Slowly but surely, it will begin to fall apart like a house of cards. It's the nature of an accelerated relationship that dooms the fools that partake. You cannot fast-track human love in any authentic and lasting way. You can create passion, lust, even a distorted form of intimacy but this is like a firework-It's bright, colorful and dazzling while burning but always dies out in the end.

  • @SloppySecondz
    @SloppySecondz Рік тому

    Great video, so my ex just out of the blue stopped talking to me like 2 weeks ago. Long story short. Her and I were together for four years plus and I left her because her baby daddy was a psycho and I didn't want to catch a felony case! So the next morning I walked out and said I'm sorry but I can't do this anymore, handed her house key and left. I regret everyday for leaving her. We started talking like 2 or 3 months later than now all of a sudden, nothing. We were always very close and she said she's busy because of her work, child and taking care of her mom. She always at least gave me priority, now nothing. Any words of advice?

    • @dianagonazalez9487
      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому

      **you can connect with him on wh'atsapp***

    • @dianagonazalez9487
      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому +1

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      We fighting for our own is what matters
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    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr Рік тому

      Why do they allow scammers on here...

    • @snowballandpals
      @snowballandpals Рік тому

      She probably pulled back cause you left her once and she's really considering if she wants to be back together and risk that again.

  • @user-nv5xc5bq4h
    @user-nv5xc5bq4h Рік тому +1

    So my gf has been talking to another guy since December and finally left me last month for him. They are now living together. We have been together for almost 6yrs. Would that be considered a rebound or serious relationship.

    • @remyd1984
      @remyd1984 Рік тому

      It’s a monkey branch relationship mate

  • @sexyshay17ify
    @sexyshay17ify Рік тому +2

    MY EX HAS BEEN TALKING TO ONE OF HIS OLD EXES FOR MONTHS NOW , WE JUST STOP TALKING TO EACH OTHER YESTERDAY,,HE SAID THAT I WASNT A FIT FOR HIM!

    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr Рік тому +2

      You should have got a clue when all he talked about was his ex. He probably went back with her. He sounds toxic. I wouldn't be surprised if he came back to you.

    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr Рік тому +1

      He isn't fit for you...hate to surprise him. Lol

    • @sexyshay17ify
      @sexyshay17ify Рік тому +1

      @@Js-wd6dr No He’s Not!

    • @dianagonazalez9487
      @dianagonazalez9487 Рік тому

      *#*Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together*#*

    • @sexyshay17ify
      @sexyshay17ify Рік тому +2

      @@Js-wd6dr I Figured It Out Myself, All He Ever Did Was Lie About It, But Monday Night Everything Came Out, And He Still Lied About it, So Now He Has Blocked Me From Calling His Phone, He’s So Childish!!!

  • @alexbrown5315
    @alexbrown5315 Рік тому +1

    After 5 years and we lost a kid she’s in a new relationship 7 months after is that considered a rebound or has she moved on ?

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому

      It also depends, Alex. If your ex had not fully move on from the past relationship and is not 100% emotionally available, then it could be a rebound. But if she had healed and have moved forward, then it may not be a rebound at all.

  • @Incubuslove007
    @Incubuslove007 2 місяці тому

    My ex is now in a relationship (not even after 6 months after the break up, it must been going on for at least 3 months) with an EX from his best friends (they broke up at the same time). Which is... very, very upsetting, because he always said he would never do that! In addition.. he liked her not very much, didn't talk about her at all and if, then it wasn't very positiv (things like, she's annoying, she's psychotic, she's even more annoying if she's drunk).
    What does that mean? She's not even physical his type... i'm very confused. But he says he's over me and at the same time he says, he will never love someone as much as me :D