My ex jumped into a new relationship 13days after we broke up, she's been with him just over a month and they work in a bar together, she started there 5 months ago so I'm guessing it was a cross between rebound and monkeybranching. can't help but feel that will get tired soon
Had something similar happen. She emotionally detached and gained feelings for her co worker. She's been flaunting him all over social media. It's been 2 mos. Breaks my heart. She is very indifferent to me now after a period of no contact. She even said he feels bad. Smh. I've gone back into no contact and waiting for the this relationship to run its course.
My ex has moved on but wants to speak with me at least 3 times a week! When I don’t answer she is concerned that I am upset, but I am not. I feel as though she is happy and moved in so why do we need to speak? She was on a trip with her new person for a week and as soon as she got back called me. I found out via social media and decided to block her on everything. She called mutual friends trying to contact me. What game is she playing at? Is this just manipulating behavior?
I was not willing to wait and see if my ex came back. I decided to call it quits and went for divorce. I did not want someone that went out to test the waters and came back just because things did not work out .I could never ever trust them again.
My ex girlfriend says I'm not the one for her yet she still wants to be in my life when she has a new boyfriend and still gets upset with me when I keep things from her that's going on in my life. What does this mean? Please help if you can
it sounds like your ex is still confused as to where she has to place you in her life. Though there's no definite meaning for that you can always have a conversation with her so you would understand where she is coming from emotionally.
Clay any help or advise would be very much helped my ex moved on over a month ago now we have been split 1 mother and 1 day as of today idc what she does with the new guy she met at her job she works 2nd shift he works 3rd shift she made it fb offical less than 2weeks after our split she initiated the breakup not me she was got and cold over her 4 days off from work for turkey day and now she has went back and shut me out 100%- here in the last week. We live together and have 2 young kids... and she mentioned that she is sleeping with him last night again she can do what she wants were not together yea it sucks shes dating and now sleeping or wanting to with said new guy,, idk what to do anymore my hope is all but leaving me I'm emotionally drained and she don't care she has yet to show anything but anger aside from our 4 days we had where she made plans where I'm in her future w her which I don't get I'm getting mixed ups and downs we connected she even flirted with me so idk if it was just a game or a show and her ups and downs have me so lost
Dont diss Craig Kenneth please, it does not reflect good on you. I agree with him. Just do not talk to them about their new relationship. Wish them well, and if you are in slme sort of contact with your ex, rather just say: You are my ex, and I am not the right person to help you, as I am biased. It is lack of respect towards yourself and towards the other person. My ex asked for relationship advice from his exes, and believe it destroyed us. And he was not happy afterwards, he did not go back to any of his exes. Most of them were in a relationship themselves. He went into a rebound and married her. And now her life is broken too, as it did not last and she got invested way too fast. Leave it, move past it. If they want to come back for a second chance, they will eventually do that. Do not manipulate, for gods sake…. It is unhealthy to everybody involved.
Ex reached out, says she loves me still and cant stop thinking about me. Took all responsability for the downfall of the relationship... we talked for a couple of days, flirted, even spoke about intimate things we had in the past, then she told me she wants me but cant right now because she is in a new relationship. That relationship is obviously doomed, she feels disconected with the new person. (In her words) Then told me we shouldnt talk at the moment. Does she need time to end things with the other person? What can i do? NC and let things work themselves out?
Sounds good, but I think u should to force her to breaks up imidiately. Maybe you should give her a little hint that you are intrested in this. I'm not specialist, but I would do something like that
@@redneckchan She said she would like to see me again. I did respond that i was opens to try things over, but slowly, maybe start with dating and see where things go. She knows i still care. Hearing her cry over the phone made me mirror some emotions. Then she told me about the rebound and that she cant at the moment but that she will fight for me when she is free. I know theres people in her family pushing the buttons for her to stay with this other guy. I cant force her to dump him. It will only make things worst. Shes obviously unhappy. And now she has a chance to make things right with me. Plus we stopped talking as it feels to her that shes not beeing fair with the rebound. I think i need to back of and proceed with my life. If she loves me, she'll dump him and reach.
@@redneckchan plus i dont want to come around manipulative trying to force her to leave him. I Know if she really loves me she will eventually come back. In the meantime she knows i will move on one day, i've been meeting people, getting out with friends, working on myself, hitting the gym. She knows the clock is ticking.
@@RLynx >I know theres people in her family pushing the buttons for her to stay with this other guy. I understand this situation (not about relationship, but about other things) when family try to control your life. You should be able to show her and her family that you are better than him, and show her that you can protect her from shame from their side.
@@redneckchan I can show her and i know she feels i'm better than this other guy. She said it clearly. Abou her family she told me she knows they only want the perks of her being single or being with some rich guy for their advantage. She said she should have had never listened to their advice... ever. So she should know
So we broke up 2 months ago. I got into the rebound relationship first then proceeded to the right way of healing. I reached out to my ex to be friends just like what you adviced. She was fine with it and we casually talk everyday. The problem is she is already going out with someone for almost a month I guess and she keeps on being hopeful that they will be official soon. I'm confused if this a rebound relationship. What do you think Clay?
Hey Clay i am very confused about my ex She still Wanna go on vacation with me and The kids Also she said go to my family and asking go to a festival ill be there too She makes plans for the future but She is in a new relation (rebound) Whe are how 2 monts seperated I dont what to do i am still confused She committed That our relation is Not only my fault and
Two weeks after my girl broke up with me she jumped into a rebound they have been together about a month. The guys a friend of her other friend's boyfriend so it's a whole group thing. I'm not being narcissistic when I say this but the guy is way less attractive. I don't get the downgrade because my ex is a very pretty woman. But I give it 3 months tops. I'll keep y'all posted on updates.
They got together a few months after we broke up. He got her to dye her hair like mine and wear my styles… bit Its been almost two years they are dating and posting pictures of themselves together. Do I accept that this is the real thing and no longer a rebound?!
I know I’m late and hopefully someone can help me out here me and my ex was together for 8 years we had a future to get married and have kids she recently broke up with me like two weeks ago for a guy she has known for a little time(rebound guy)I know I missed up and this isn’t the first time her and this guy was involved with one another in fact I wes the reason why the relationship didn’t go anywhere with the guy she picked me instead he wes so hurt that she did that to him or whatever she did she calms she didn’t do anything to him but I’m like it’s clearly he had feelings for her… anyway I want to know if and when my ex comes back knowing she been with an different guy how long should I wait to have sex with her
My exhusband and I separated because I found out that he was chatting and having a deep connection with a girl who is 12 years Younger than him. They Said they are just friends but they video call and talk a lot 24/7. He cares more to her than me and my son. I was cerh devastated. And I Asked him to stop talking to her, but he Said he cant and that he wish i can be happy for them and that maybe they will get married in a year. The girl lives in Asia and me and my ex husband is here in europe. Why would he say he wanted to marry her? When he knew that its hurtful for me, i ask him to throw our wedding ring but he cant and he Said its a big part of his life. I am confused. I am so ready to let go, but I still love him and we have our son. Need some advice.
Hi, clay Iam living in this topic my wife 47 and Iam 49 we have been married for 25 years we have 3 teenagers boys 21,17,16 my wife suffered from depression and anxiety for years last year she lost her father after she jumped with a rebound who she meet in pcycatric hospital she left me and my boys we are still in good contract I have tried pretty everything to make her see the damage and the reality she is confuse to make her decision but my life and boys life is on hold she never mentioned a divorce Iam getting frustrated please help or advice I would really appreciate I do believe in marriage .
4 awesome year s. 8mnths no contact. 10mntns w / rebound. She is ❤ Dismissive avoided. I am in a good spot now. I feel pretty okay. I wanna see her. I miss her. I wanna ask Her for a brunch. I don't want to call her. Since I've been blocked. I want to write or something in mail it. Please help me. How do I word that I wanna be funny. But. I don't want to say too much. I rather talk when we meet up. If we meet up and I am not in a rush for anything I just miss her. You be nice to forgive. Forget all bunch of stuff that. Just really doesn't have makes sense to carry. I rathe remember a lot of our great super.Great, once in a lifetime experienced this. Please help thank you
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My ex jumped into a new relationship 13days after we broke up, she's been with him just over a month and they work in a bar together, she started there 5 months ago so I'm guessing it was a cross between rebound and monkeybranching. can't help but feel that will get tired soon
Update me if you can bro
Had something similar happen. She emotionally detached and gained feelings for her co worker. She's been flaunting him all over social media. It's been 2 mos. Breaks my heart. She is very indifferent to me now after a period of no contact. She even said he feels bad. Smh. I've gone back into no contact and waiting for the this relationship to run its course.
any update now?
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My ex has moved on but wants to speak with me at least 3 times a week! When I don’t answer she is concerned that I am upset, but I am not. I feel as though she is happy and moved in so why do we need to speak? She was on a trip with her new person for a week and as soon as she got back called me. I found out via social media and decided to block her on everything. She called mutual friends trying to contact me. What game is she playing at? Is this just manipulating behavior?
It’s been 4 months and it’s overwhelming 😢
What if he is dating another girl but keeps reaching out to me as well?
I was not willing to wait and see if my ex came back. I decided to call it quits and went for divorce. I did not want someone that went out to test the waters and came back just because things did not work out .I could never ever trust them again.
My ex girlfriend says I'm not the one for her yet she still wants to be in my life when she has a new boyfriend and still gets upset with me when I keep things from her that's going on in my life. What does this mean? Please help if you can
it sounds like your ex is still confused as to where she has to place you in her life. Though there's no definite meaning for that you can always have a conversation with her so you would understand where she is coming from emotionally.
Clay any help or advise would be very much helped my ex moved on over a month ago now we have been split 1 mother and 1 day as of today idc what she does with the new guy she met at her job she works 2nd shift he works 3rd shift she made it fb offical less than 2weeks after our split she initiated the breakup not me she was got and cold over her 4 days off from work for turkey day and now she has went back and shut me out 100%- here in the last week. We live together and have 2 young kids... and she mentioned that she is sleeping with him last night again she can do what she wants were not together yea it sucks shes dating and now sleeping or wanting to with said new guy,, idk what to do anymore my hope is all but leaving me I'm emotionally drained and she don't care she has yet to show anything but anger aside from our 4 days we had where she made plans where I'm in her future w her which I don't get I'm getting mixed ups and downs we connected she even flirted with me so idk if it was just a game or a show and her ups and downs have me so lost
Dont diss Craig Kenneth please, it does not reflect good on you. I agree with him. Just do not talk to them about their new relationship. Wish them well, and if you are in slme sort of contact with your ex, rather just say: You are my ex, and I am not the right person to help you, as I am biased. It is lack of respect towards yourself and towards the other person. My ex asked for relationship advice from his exes, and believe it destroyed us. And he was not happy afterwards, he did not go back to any of his exes. Most of them were in a relationship themselves. He went into a rebound and married her. And now her life is broken too, as it did not last and she got invested way too fast. Leave it, move past it. If they want to come back for a second chance, they will eventually do that. Do not manipulate, for gods sake…. It is unhealthy to everybody involved.
Ex reached out, says she loves me still and cant stop thinking about me. Took all responsability for the downfall of the relationship... we talked for a couple of days, flirted, even spoke about intimate things we had in the past, then she told me she wants me but cant right now because she is in a new relationship. That relationship is obviously doomed, she feels disconected with the new person. (In her words)
Then told me we shouldnt talk at the moment.
Does she need time to end things with the other person? What can i do? NC and let things work themselves out?
Sounds good, but I think u should to force her to breaks up imidiately. Maybe you should give her a little hint that you are intrested in this. I'm not specialist, but I would do something like that
@@redneckchan She said she would like to see me again. I did respond that i was opens to try things over, but slowly, maybe start with dating and see where things go. She knows i still care. Hearing her cry over the phone made me mirror some emotions. Then she told me about the rebound and that she cant at the moment but that she will fight for me when she is free. I know theres people in her family pushing the buttons for her to stay with this other guy. I cant force her to dump him. It will only make things worst. Shes obviously unhappy. And now she has a chance to make things right with me. Plus we stopped talking as it feels to her that shes not beeing fair with the rebound. I think i need to back of and proceed with my life. If she loves me, she'll dump him and reach.
@@redneckchan plus i dont want to come around manipulative trying to force her to leave him. I Know if she really loves me she will eventually come back. In the meantime she knows i will move on one day, i've been meeting people, getting out with friends, working on myself, hitting the gym. She knows the clock is ticking.
@@RLynx >I know theres people in her family pushing the buttons for her to stay with this other guy.
I understand this situation (not about relationship, but about other things) when family try to control your life.
You should be able to show her and her family that you are better than him, and show her that you can protect her from shame from their side.
@@redneckchan I can show her and i know she feels i'm better than this other guy. She said it clearly.
Abou her family she told me she knows they only want the perks of her being single or being with some rich guy for their advantage. She said she should have had never listened to their advice... ever. So she should know
So we broke up 2 months ago. I got into the rebound relationship first then proceeded to the right way of healing. I reached out to my ex to be friends just like what you adviced. She was fine with it and we casually talk everyday. The problem is she is already going out with someone for almost a month I guess and she keeps on being hopeful that they will be official soon. I'm confused if this a rebound relationship. What do you think Clay?
You got into one , you got friendzoned what is your problem for her to want someone else now? move on buddy
Hey Clay i am very confused about my ex
She still Wanna go on vacation with me and The kids
Also she said go to my family and asking go to a festival ill be there too
She makes plans for the future but She is in a new relation (rebound)
Whe are how 2 monts seperated
I dont what to do i am still confused
She committed That our relation is Not
only my fault and
Two weeks after my girl broke up with me she jumped into a rebound they have been together about a month. The guys a friend of her other friend's boyfriend so it's a whole group thing. I'm not being narcissistic when I say this but the guy is way less attractive. I don't get the downgrade because my ex is a very pretty woman. But I give it 3 months tops. I'll keep y'all posted on updates.
Any update about this ?
They got together a few months after we broke up. He got her to dye her hair like mine and wear my styles… bit Its been almost two years they are dating and posting pictures of themselves together. Do I accept that this is the real thing and no longer a rebound?!
Yes its been two years
Rebound... A fake imitation...
My ex rebound resembles his mother and has the same job in church as his dead mother..wierd..
I know I’m late and hopefully someone can help me out here me and my ex was together for 8 years we had a future to get married and have kids she recently broke up with me like two weeks ago for a guy she has known for a little time(rebound guy)I know I missed up and this isn’t the first time her and this guy was involved with one another in fact I wes the reason why the relationship didn’t go anywhere with the guy she picked me instead he wes so hurt that she did that to him or whatever she did she calms she didn’t do anything to him but I’m like it’s clearly he had feelings for her… anyway I want to know if and when my ex comes back knowing she been with an different guy how long should I wait to have sex with her
Man no one should want their ex Iigold they abandoned
My exhusband and I separated because I found out that he was chatting and having a deep connection with a girl who is 12 years Younger than him. They Said they are just friends but they video call and talk a lot 24/7. He cares more to her than me and my son. I was cerh devastated. And I Asked him to stop talking to her, but he Said he cant and that he wish i can be happy for them and that maybe they will get married in a year. The girl lives in Asia and me and my ex husband is here in europe. Why would he say he wanted to marry her? When he knew that its hurtful for me, i ask him to throw our wedding ring but he cant and he Said its a big part of his life. I am confused. I am so ready to let go, but I still love him and we have our son. Need some advice.
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Hi, clay Iam living in this topic my wife 47 and Iam 49 we have been married for 25 years we have 3 teenagers boys 21,17,16 my wife suffered from depression and anxiety for years last year she lost her father after she jumped with a rebound who she meet in pcycatric hospital she left me and my boys we are still in good contract I have tried pretty everything to make her see the damage and the reality she is confuse to make her decision but my life and boys life is on hold she never mentioned a divorce Iam getting frustrated please help or advice I would really appreciate I do believe in marriage .
I was my ex’s rebound and we lasted 2.5 years lol
4 awesome year s. 8mnths no contact. 10mntns w / rebound. She is ❤ Dismissive avoided. I am in a good spot now. I feel pretty okay. I wanna see her. I miss her. I wanna ask Her for a brunch. I don't want to call her. Since I've been blocked. I want to write or something in mail it. Please help me. How do I word that I wanna be funny. But.
I don't want to say too much. I rather talk when we meet up.
If we meet up and I am not in a rush for anything I just miss her. You be nice to forgive. Forget all bunch of stuff that. Just really doesn't have makes sense to carry. I rathe remember a lot of our great super.Great, once in a lifetime experienced this.
Please help thank you
How are you man? Did you successed?
Is a year too long even tho she when two weeks and got in another relationship
Update?
His rebound might be his ex gf. I don't know.
And is it a good idea to show her how funnier I am over her rebound