My ex jumped into a new relationship 13days after we broke up, she's been with him just over a month and they work in a bar together, she started there 5 months ago so I'm guessing it was a cross between rebound and monkeybranching. can't help but feel that will get tired soon
Had something similar happen. She emotionally detached and gained feelings for her co worker. She's been flaunting him all over social media. It's been 2 mos. Breaks my heart. She is very indifferent to me now after a period of no contact. She even said he feels bad. Smh. I've gone back into no contact and waiting for the this relationship to run its course.
Two weeks after my girl broke up with me she jumped into a rebound they have been together about a month. The guys a friend of her other friend's boyfriend so it's a whole group thing. I'm not being narcissistic when I say this but the guy is way less attractive. I don't get the downgrade because my ex is a very pretty woman. But I give it 3 months tops. I'll keep y'all posted on updates.
My ex has moved on but wants to speak with me at least 3 times a week! When I don’t answer she is concerned that I am upset, but I am not. I feel as though she is happy and moved in so why do we need to speak? She was on a trip with her new person for a week and as soon as she got back called me. I found out via social media and decided to block her on everything. She called mutual friends trying to contact me. What game is she playing at? Is this just manipulating behavior?
My ex girlfriend says I'm not the one for her yet she still wants to be in my life when she has a new boyfriend and still gets upset with me when I keep things from her that's going on in my life. What does this mean? Please help if you can
it sounds like your ex is still confused as to where she has to place you in her life. Though there's no definite meaning for that you can always have a conversation with her so you would understand where she is coming from emotionally.
Dont diss Craig Kenneth please, it does not reflect good on you. I agree with him. Just do not talk to them about their new relationship. Wish them well, and if you are in slme sort of contact with your ex, rather just say: You are my ex, and I am not the right person to help you, as I am biased. It is lack of respect towards yourself and towards the other person. My ex asked for relationship advice from his exes, and believe it destroyed us. And he was not happy afterwards, he did not go back to any of his exes. Most of them were in a relationship themselves. He went into a rebound and married her. And now her life is broken too, as it did not last and she got invested way too fast. Leave it, move past it. If they want to come back for a second chance, they will eventually do that. Do not manipulate, for gods sake…. It is unhealthy to everybody involved.
They got together a few months after we broke up. He got her to dye her hair like mine and wear my styles… bit Its been almost two years they are dating and posting pictures of themselves together. Do I accept that this is the real thing and no longer a rebound?!
So we broke up 2 months ago. I got into the rebound relationship first then proceeded to the right way of healing. I reached out to my ex to be friends just like what you adviced. She was fine with it and we casually talk everyday. The problem is she is already going out with someone for almost a month I guess and she keeps on being hopeful that they will be official soon. I'm confused if this a rebound relationship. What do you think Clay?
My exhusband and I separated because I found out that he was chatting and having a deep connection with a girl who is 12 years Younger than him. They Said they are just friends but they video call and talk a lot 24/7. He cares more to her than me and my son. I was cerh devastated. And I Asked him to stop talking to her, but he Said he cant and that he wish i can be happy for them and that maybe they will get married in a year. The girl lives in Asia and me and my ex husband is here in europe. Why would he say he wanted to marry her? When he knew that its hurtful for me, i ask him to throw our wedding ring but he cant and he Said its a big part of his life. I am confused. I am so ready to let go, but I still love him and we have our son. Need some advice.
I was not willing to wait and see if my ex came back. I decided to call it quits and went for divorce. I did not want someone that went out to test the waters and came back just because things did not work out .I could never ever trust them again.
Hey Clay i am very confused about my ex She still Wanna go on vacation with me and The kids Also she said go to my family and asking go to a festival ill be there too She makes plans for the future but She is in a new relation (rebound) Whe are how 2 monts seperated I dont what to do i am still confused She committed That our relation is Not only my fault and
Clay any help or advise would be very much helped my ex moved on over a month ago now we have been split 1 mother and 1 day as of today idc what she does with the new guy she met at her job she works 2nd shift he works 3rd shift she made it fb offical less than 2weeks after our split she initiated the breakup not me she was got and cold over her 4 days off from work for turkey day and now she has went back and shut me out 100%- here in the last week. We live together and have 2 young kids... and she mentioned that she is sleeping with him last night again she can do what she wants were not together yea it sucks shes dating and now sleeping or wanting to with said new guy,, idk what to do anymore my hope is all but leaving me I'm emotionally drained and she don't care she has yet to show anything but anger aside from our 4 days we had where she made plans where I'm in her future w her which I don't get I'm getting mixed ups and downs we connected she even flirted with me so idk if it was just a game or a show and her ups and downs have me so lost
I know I’m late and hopefully someone can help me out here me and my ex was together for 8 years we had a future to get married and have kids she recently broke up with me like two weeks ago for a guy she has known for a little time(rebound guy)I know I missed up and this isn’t the first time her and this guy was involved with one another in fact I wes the reason why the relationship didn’t go anywhere with the guy she picked me instead he wes so hurt that she did that to him or whatever she did she calms she didn’t do anything to him but I’m like it’s clearly he had feelings for her… anyway I want to know if and when my ex comes back knowing she been with an different guy how long should I wait to have sex with her
Hi, clay Iam living in this topic my wife 47 and Iam 49 we have been married for 25 years we have 3 teenagers boys 21,17,16 my wife suffered from depression and anxiety for years last year she lost her father after she jumped with a rebound who she meet in pcycatric hospital she left me and my boys we are still in good contract I have tried pretty everything to make her see the damage and the reality she is confuse to make her decision but my life and boys life is on hold she never mentioned a divorce Iam getting frustrated please help or advice I would really appreciate I do believe in marriage .
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My ex jumped into a new relationship 13days after we broke up, she's been with him just over a month and they work in a bar together, she started there 5 months ago so I'm guessing it was a cross between rebound and monkeybranching. can't help but feel that will get tired soon
Update me if you can bro
Had something similar happen. She emotionally detached and gained feelings for her co worker. She's been flaunting him all over social media. It's been 2 mos. Breaks my heart. She is very indifferent to me now after a period of no contact. She even said he feels bad. Smh. I've gone back into no contact and waiting for the this relationship to run its course.
any update now?
Two weeks after my girl broke up with me she jumped into a rebound they have been together about a month. The guys a friend of her other friend's boyfriend so it's a whole group thing. I'm not being narcissistic when I say this but the guy is way less attractive. I don't get the downgrade because my ex is a very pretty woman. But I give it 3 months tops. I'll keep y'all posted on updates.
Any update about this ?
Any updates?
It’s been 4 months and it’s overwhelming 😢
My ex has moved on but wants to speak with me at least 3 times a week! When I don’t answer she is concerned that I am upset, but I am not. I feel as though she is happy and moved in so why do we need to speak? She was on a trip with her new person for a week and as soon as she got back called me. I found out via social media and decided to block her on everything. She called mutual friends trying to contact me. What game is she playing at? Is this just manipulating behavior?
My ex girlfriend says I'm not the one for her yet she still wants to be in my life when she has a new boyfriend and still gets upset with me when I keep things from her that's going on in my life. What does this mean? Please help if you can
it sounds like your ex is still confused as to where she has to place you in her life. Though there's no definite meaning for that you can always have a conversation with her so you would understand where she is coming from emotionally.
My ex and his rebound are the polar opposite of compatible. They constantly fight. Him and me are the most compatible people on earth 😊
What if he is dating another girl but keeps reaching out to me as well?
Dont diss Craig Kenneth please, it does not reflect good on you. I agree with him. Just do not talk to them about their new relationship. Wish them well, and if you are in slme sort of contact with your ex, rather just say: You are my ex, and I am not the right person to help you, as I am biased. It is lack of respect towards yourself and towards the other person. My ex asked for relationship advice from his exes, and believe it destroyed us. And he was not happy afterwards, he did not go back to any of his exes. Most of them were in a relationship themselves. He went into a rebound and married her. And now her life is broken too, as it did not last and she got invested way too fast. Leave it, move past it. If they want to come back for a second chance, they will eventually do that. Do not manipulate, for gods sake…. It is unhealthy to everybody involved.
They got together a few months after we broke up. He got her to dye her hair like mine and wear my styles… bit Its been almost two years they are dating and posting pictures of themselves together. Do I accept that this is the real thing and no longer a rebound?!
Yes its been two years
Rebound... A fake imitation...
So we broke up 2 months ago. I got into the rebound relationship first then proceeded to the right way of healing. I reached out to my ex to be friends just like what you adviced. She was fine with it and we casually talk everyday. The problem is she is already going out with someone for almost a month I guess and she keeps on being hopeful that they will be official soon. I'm confused if this a rebound relationship. What do you think Clay?
You got into one , you got friendzoned what is your problem for her to want someone else now? move on buddy
My exhusband and I separated because I found out that he was chatting and having a deep connection with a girl who is 12 years Younger than him. They Said they are just friends but they video call and talk a lot 24/7. He cares more to her than me and my son. I was cerh devastated. And I Asked him to stop talking to her, but he Said he cant and that he wish i can be happy for them and that maybe they will get married in a year. The girl lives in Asia and me and my ex husband is here in europe. Why would he say he wanted to marry her? When he knew that its hurtful for me, i ask him to throw our wedding ring but he cant and he Said its a big part of his life. I am confused. I am so ready to let go, but I still love him and we have our son. Need some advice.
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I was not willing to wait and see if my ex came back. I decided to call it quits and went for divorce. I did not want someone that went out to test the waters and came back just because things did not work out .I could never ever trust them again.
I was my ex’s rebound and we lasted 2.5 years lol
Thanks Clay. I really like your videos.
Glad you like them!
Hey Clay i am very confused about my ex
She still Wanna go on vacation with me and The kids
Also she said go to my family and asking go to a festival ill be there too
She makes plans for the future but She is in a new relation (rebound)
Whe are how 2 monts seperated
I dont what to do i am still confused
She committed That our relation is Not
only my fault and
Clay any help or advise would be very much helped my ex moved on over a month ago now we have been split 1 mother and 1 day as of today idc what she does with the new guy she met at her job she works 2nd shift he works 3rd shift she made it fb offical less than 2weeks after our split she initiated the breakup not me she was got and cold over her 4 days off from work for turkey day and now she has went back and shut me out 100%- here in the last week. We live together and have 2 young kids... and she mentioned that she is sleeping with him last night again she can do what she wants were not together yea it sucks shes dating and now sleeping or wanting to with said new guy,, idk what to do anymore my hope is all but leaving me I'm emotionally drained and she don't care she has yet to show anything but anger aside from our 4 days we had where she made plans where I'm in her future w her which I don't get I'm getting mixed ups and downs we connected she even flirted with me so idk if it was just a game or a show and her ups and downs have me so lost
Man no one should want their ex Iigold they abandoned
Thanks Clay :)
My ex rebound resembles his mother and has the same job in church as his dead mother..wierd..
I know I’m late and hopefully someone can help me out here me and my ex was together for 8 years we had a future to get married and have kids she recently broke up with me like two weeks ago for a guy she has known for a little time(rebound guy)I know I missed up and this isn’t the first time her and this guy was involved with one another in fact I wes the reason why the relationship didn’t go anywhere with the guy she picked me instead he wes so hurt that she did that to him or whatever she did she calms she didn’t do anything to him but I’m like it’s clearly he had feelings for her… anyway I want to know if and when my ex comes back knowing she been with an different guy how long should I wait to have sex with her
As soon as you can honestly. As soon as you have recieved the go ahead from her... Im sorry to hear about your situation, btw
Hi, clay Iam living in this topic my wife 47 and Iam 49 we have been married for 25 years we have 3 teenagers boys 21,17,16 my wife suffered from depression and anxiety for years last year she lost her father after she jumped with a rebound who she meet in pcycatric hospital she left me and my boys we are still in good contract I have tried pretty everything to make her see the damage and the reality she is confuse to make her decision but my life and boys life is on hold she never mentioned a divorce Iam getting frustrated please help or advice I would really appreciate I do believe in marriage .
Is a year too long even tho she when two weeks and got in another relationship
Update?
And is it a good idea to show her how funnier I am over her rebound
His rebound might be his ex gf. I don't know.