What Your Ex Feels When You Let Them Go
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- Опубліковано 20 жов 2022
- What exactly does your ex feel when you let them go? This is going to be a little peak inside of your ex's life and your ex's world when you let go of them when you move on.
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I think a lot of people would love to know what their ex is thinking. There are two possible scenarios that I'm going to talk to you about - first, when your ex feels tethered or connected, you still, even after a breakup; second, when your ex doesn't feel any connection anymore.
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My ex broke up with me in July we where Together 8 years and it’s been the hardest pain I’ve ever endured other then losing a family member I fight in my head if I would go back or not but I know too much damage is done pray for me and anyone suffering 🙏🏻❤️
Hi Damien, I'm so sorry to hear that you and your partner are going through a breakup.
I hope you're doing okay and holding on well-I understand that breakup can be really tough.
@@ClayAndrews thank you it’s been hard I’ll be okay thou thanks again for replying
Damien: my heart goes out to you. Rejection after riding the approval roller coaster really can prove to be MASSIVELY agonizing. I know words can be cheap and
Cliche, but I’m going to type it anyway. Time heals all wounds. This too shall pass. Plenty of fish in the sea. Did you know that if only 1% of the worlds population was attracted to you, that would be 78,380,000 people? Chin up my guy. Prayers going up.
My ex dumped me,she's a da and I'm a ap attachment. I've been listening to you and another site. This one has just made me a happy person,thank you
You are the best ,no mind games will help you in the long run
CAN we be friends?
It’s beautiful there where you are walking
Hey Clay, been binging your content as well as another break up advice coach for a while now and I just want to say a huge thank you for all the content and advice. You really helped me understand the situation I was in, improve myself as an individual and now get back into an emotional connection with my ex which looks to be steering towards rekindling the relationship. Thank you so much for everything :)
Hi Jack,
I am so happy to hear that things are going well between you and your ex. I understand that this is a big step for you both and I am glad that I have been a part of your journey as well. :-)
@@ClayAndrews thank you, she did just ask for some space unfortunately but hopefully I think it's to just process her feelings of the whole situation fingers crossed. Regardless of the outcome you've helped drastically so thank you again :)
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@@jdr26499what ended up happening?
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That Space of which you talking about
It's basically what No Contact does 🙂
My ex broke up with me in early August and got with a new girlfriend within a matter of days. He was honest with me about it. I have suffered and still am. This past week has felt slightly easier. I don't want to say I'm fully healed because I'm not. And I've still had my bad moments. But I can bring myself out of them much easier. I can distract and focus on other things better. He is still with her. They're clearly going strong. And I know it is time for me to forget about him and move on, as much as that hurts.
I feel your pain..I'm going thru the exact thing..it sucks..I feel like I'm dieing a slow death
@@karenritchie3492 isn't it just awful. I hope you're doing okay through it all. I woke up feeling quite bad today unfortunately.
I'm sorry for bothering of us that we r suffering. I have good days and bad. I know I will find someone new. It's just starting over again that tough. 12 years wasted..
How are you doing now? Same situation here.
Move on
Great insight! Tks a lot
Glad you enjoyed it!
The advice feels all over the place...on one end you say don't do no contact on the other end you say to let go and give them space.. that's exactly what no contact is !
it's too late for me. she is getting married to someone else next week. so much for trying to attract her back for the last years
I'm going thru the same thing...to think I was replaced right away..
You're better bc you tried harder. They think they're better, so they didn't. Or didn't know how, or were overwhelmed, so let go faster.
I'm just completely wrecked. I thought things were starting to turn around. Conversation was fun and flirty and then she just drops the bomb out of nowhere
Sorry man. I promise you you’re going to get something better in life. Let it go
I went through similar. Found the one, the love of my life, my one and only. So I thought. Then she broke up with me due to poor communication and misunderstanding. Out of the blue. Didn't even know the "real" reason until many months later. She thought I cheated on her, which I didn't, and had no intention of ever doing, but now I know its a good idea to talk with your partner about this, how they define cheating. I always had hope that things would turn around, and we would work things out, and I tried very hard to. Like, how could someone throw all that away? But I feel like i never got a "real" chance with her again, only enough to tease me into thinking so. As she never wanted to see me in person. I tried everything, so i had to let go. I was pining for 3 years! I was in limerence, I know that now, and a lot more about myself, but I absolutely still love her and always will. Im just not as emotionally attached, fixated, not feeding into that love, she can live her life as she wants. I'm still not attracted to anyone else as i wad with her, bc I haven't connected with anyone im truly attracted to, but at least im appreciating single life again, know a lot more about relationships, red flags and such, and can hang out and date women again. I even hung out with her once since I let go, and I had a great time just goofing off with her at the bar, but she has had a committed partner now, so I def cant expect anything anyways.
Interesting what you mentioned about other adveises, which I have not heard yet about these games, are man tend to do this? I can not decide if I have this case right now or not. But the best is not to react at all to them, and then lets see, as you said, where it leads to. For me came this video just in time, thank you!
Its already cleared, he was playing a game, and he just texted me yesterday, that he likes my new photo on Facebook etc. And he is seeing, that I am getting over him so easily, probably I wasnt even loving him ever... he is so evil, if I woul tell the whole story...
Responding instead of reacting will always be the best way to go. :-)
It's been a year. I kinda moved on. Met her in a party she wouldn't even say hi but she knew I'm there. Small place so when I passed by I behaved normal and said hi as every normal person would do and she replied hi back.
Why would she behave like this?
Is it because shes afraid that showing interaction will give me a sign of some dort or...
Is she emotionally uncomfortable with me being there because she feels smth still?
Thanks
8 years she left me been feeling destroyed
What if your ex is moving out state how do I handle that
My ex’s last rebound relationship ended after 1 year, and then she was crying messaging me telling me how she was so hurt and she hurt him. And yes I watched all your previous videos. She was in a rebound relationship because never took time to actually heal. But now after talking to me and then it again ended bad she got into a brand new one super quickly.
See the pattern? Why waste time in her... she's a monkey brancher and is only interested in burying her own feelings (baggage) and using you as an emotional tampon because you're 'safe'. It's a waste of time...
She is using you
Lmao!
Because she is too weak to fight through the pain. She just masks it
Hello Clay, What should I do, we study together and she wants to keep the attitude of her classmates, I made mistakes and tried to say three times that everything can be fixed. But she made this decision a long time ago and says that she will not change it, that we will not be together. What should I do, I don't know..
Hi there, I know that this must be difficult for you. Will you be able to separate your academic life from your romantic life? I understand this can be tough, but I think it is important to try.
I think that the main "mistake" that I made was that I was letting him know that yet another one of his 'mates' has been trying to hit on me (I think it's the third).
When he asked if I had screen shots to prove it, I did send him those to prove it.
Did you know that if only 1% of the world’s population found themselves attracted to you, that would be 78,380,000 people? So many fish!
Thanks for sharing such information. :-)
Can this still happen even though are engaged to someone else?
Yes it can if its who God has for you. Some marriages are just literally paper. Alot of marriages fail.
Good video, my EX broke up with me (5 years relationship) and she jumped into another relationship 6 days after ! Her new relationship is going so so FAST !! she is already sending nudes, and doing things that took us months or years to do. Her new BF is rejecting her a little bit which pushes her to reach out to him and initiate the conversations each time ! I feel that she is setting her self to an explosive shock and dissapointment / trauma. I'm sure 100% that i don't want to get her back, but i feel a little bit obligated to advice her (her parents were very good and kind to me) but in the same time i'm afraid that she will think that i'm jealous or don't want her to be happy. What do you think ? Thank you
Don’t do it. She is going to flip it on you like your controlling and invading her private life. LET HER FALL ON HER FACE. Bc she left you and thought the grass was greener on the other side
@@ALONER_PELLE Your words are wise thank you. I don"t know why but this feelings of "obligation to advice her" and "fear that she will be abused" are invading my mind and pushes me to tell her; despite the fact that she broke up with me and chose another person (which doesn't affects me in any shape or form).
Happend the same with my ex, he asked me questions what to do with the new girl because she isnt responding even sometimes in 2 days... after 2 months he broke up with her and almost had a nervos break down, I came back together with him... 1,5 month later, which is now, he left me again, just he can do dating.
Don’t do it! Let her learn her life lessons on her own. You helping her is just making it easier for her to find someone after this guy leaves while you’re doing the work. Plus she won’t respect u, and that’s actually more important than love. She has to feel your absence completely
Let her learn the hard way. We all become wiser after mistakes and poor decisions.
I think my ex is depressed
I hope your ex will seek professional help if necessary. In that way, your ex's way of being will be properly taken care of.
@@ClayAndrews yea it’s out of my hands but hopefully he does
Situations are not the same,some of you were in extremely toxic relationships, and no matter how much your ex misses you,they will hold on to their peace and not return to you....if there was emotional or even physical abuse as well
Nope,every body is soo different..