My Ex’s Rebound Is Better Than Me

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  • Опубліковано 6 січ 2025

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  • @Jabild
    @Jabild 3 роки тому +67

    Not a chance. Never compare yourself to the rebound band-aid your ex chose. Become the better you, improve on yourself everyday.

  • @melha1391
    @melha1391 3 роки тому +15

    She’s not better than me, she just had more in common with him. They are both gamers. That’s always been super important to him.

    • @Joey-in-smalltown-Germany
      @Joey-in-smalltown-Germany 3 роки тому +2

      Sounds identical to my situation. Is your ex with my ex? Joking of course but very ironic

    • @melha1391
      @melha1391 3 роки тому +1

      @@Joey-in-smalltown-Germany maybe lol

  • @delamain611
    @delamain611 2 роки тому +5

    So for me it's different. I was insecure during our relationship and I would say things like "I hope you find someone better" and when we split she did find someone better and now she goes on trips across the U.S with his family. She recently tried getting my attention because she's having relationship problems that stem from her feelings about me. So we talked about it and it really was just her wanting closure so she can be in a better headspace for her new boyfriend. I never got over put breakup and it felt really disrespectful. It is an evil world we live in.

    • @piyushpahwa519
      @piyushpahwa519 Рік тому

      Thinking that your partner might find someone better itself means foundations of the relationship aren’t great even if they have less flaws. Plus you can always break past your deal breaker flaws with your mind.

  • @MultiQsan
    @MultiQsan Рік тому +1

    Ex gf is now with a guy who shows off his family wealth, she's still reaching out regularly then ghosting when I reply her questions indifferently, even when I respond with a question.

  • @St-Abbed
    @St-Abbed 3 роки тому +14

    I worked on myself during NC and went back to songwriting.
    I have just released my first single and it's about my experience with the X.
    It's on this channel.
    BTW, I've been a subscriber for quite a while now. Thanks a lot for all ur awesome tips and great videos.

    • @St-Abbed
      @St-Abbed 3 роки тому +1

      u can send that to my X😂

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @St-Abbed
      @St-Abbed 3 роки тому

      @@maryjohn1130 send it to my x! she's the one looking to get in touch😂

  • @RA-iy9hb
    @RA-iy9hb Рік тому +1

    You deserve to have millions of subscribers. You don’t lie to people .

  • @lulunicole1818
    @lulunicole1818 3 роки тому +10

    She’s way prettier & younger than me. I’m 26, she’s 23. She’s like stunning x10. I can’t even hate . Her body is nice as hell. Exactly his type. I feel he upgraded & it just sucks . & they just started seeing each other so it’s nice & fresh . It’s killing me

    • @bronzemv4440
      @bronzemv4440 2 роки тому +1

      Damn, that is horrible. My deal is the same in a sense of he was sleazy and easy.

    • @WarrenMcAtear
      @WarrenMcAtear Рік тому +1

      @@bronzemv4440 what happened since? How you doing ?

    • @ilovekittens1388
      @ilovekittens1388 Рік тому

      It will be okay if he jumped right into that relationship he'll realize theyr not compatible

    • @Butterflywarrior214
      @Butterflywarrior214 7 місяців тому

      How are u now?

    • @haneen.rmy7
      @haneen.rmy7 5 місяців тому

      10 days into the same situation.. can you give me an update on how his relationship with her ended?

  • @gitanjali91
    @gitanjali91 3 роки тому +10

    So true Clay!! We only get to see their new perfect relationship through this lens of social media. You explained it very well. Thank you for the video!! He once told me that the rebound was taller than me, so he was choosing her. Don't know what I can do about that?!

    • @danieljoshua177
      @danieljoshua177 3 роки тому

      Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too

    • @danieljoshua177
      @danieljoshua177 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 5 2 1 7 0 5

  • @AS-on1fz
    @AS-on1fz Рік тому +1

    What if he isn't posting her on his social media? (he started sleeping with her 1.5 months after we broke up, we were 3 years together) but she is posting him. He met her on his trip to México so they didn't knew eachother before that and instantly started sleeping together.

  • @karenritchie3492
    @karenritchie3492 2 роки тому +1

    My ex picked someone that resembles his dead mother and she is also a church music director like his late dead mother...plus got engaged to her with 6 weeks after our breakup...

  • @rhonnieminnie
    @rhonnieminnie 2 роки тому +7

    if my ex can find "better" than me, more power to him! im awesome, so she must be freaking amazing! hell, i might want to date her myself :) i was actually much better than my ex's ex. i always strived for a healthy relationship and communication at all times. they had a very toxic long term relationship. i dont think he knew how to handle when someone showed him genuine care and compassion. if he finds some one "better" than me, that means she must have the best heart in the world, and travels more than me!

  • @KhilikithiBhuu-Phansi
    @KhilikithiBhuu-Phansi 9 місяців тому

    The thumbs up is yours and for the video like u both.

  • @mssandpeas
    @mssandpeas 3 роки тому +5

    I've broken up with my ex. He is having a new relationship and they seems perfect together. I would rethink my decision but it's too late. Your video is helpful, I need to focus on myself and be a better person for my future.

    • @chrisjon8563
      @chrisjon8563 Рік тому +1

      Is there an update of their relationship?

  • @urijahfaith2961
    @urijahfaith2961 3 роки тому +4

    My ex girlfriends rebound was awful to her kids & her & an alcoholic 24-7 drinker. Now she contacted me 2 weeks ago. Kinda curious if she's using me as emotional tampon or something else. I'm walking careful on this. Idk how I'll feel if she wanted to try again. Part of me is saying no & the other half of me is confused. As of right now, I'm treating her like one of my friends, no different.

    • @kikoparvek8735
      @kikoparvek8735 3 роки тому +2

      Listen please staying friends is no longer problem for you now cause she’s already had someone else just set boundaries and let go of the emotions believe me after some time you’ll find yourself much better without her … just think about it now she’s suffering with him and she regret leaving you for sure that’s why she’s contacting you trying to get back to the nice guy ;) don’t let her please if she did it once she will do it 1000 times again .. GOOD LUCK

  • @martiin_steezy
    @martiin_steezy 3 роки тому +6

    He has a car a job and an apartment
    While I'm still a student living at my mom's

    • @juanperez-ni2iw
      @juanperez-ni2iw 3 роки тому +5

      It doesn't matter what you have. They will always find a way to ruin a good thing.

    • @martiin_steezy
      @martiin_steezy 3 роки тому +1

      @@juanperez-ni2iw Somebody said the way you got her is the way you'll lose her

    • @juanperez-ni2iw
      @juanperez-ni2iw 3 роки тому

      @@martiin_steezy more than likely. Sucks...

    • @martiin_steezy
      @martiin_steezy 3 роки тому +1

      perez we've fought for the last time and I think its permanent now

    • @juanperez-ni2iw
      @juanperez-ni2iw 3 роки тому +1

      @@martiin_steezy my g.f. of 5 years left me without telling me anything.we were just starting year 6.Just disappeared. No fight...just gone.

  • @encoreagain5729
    @encoreagain5729 3 роки тому +1

    I work with my ex since we broke up,she always stare at me always and also few days ago she lift some workmates and also she wanted to take me with her car but I refused

  • @korychantheng2139
    @korychantheng2139 3 роки тому +3

    I don't care about what my ex will be in the best relationship with someone after broken with me cos he is not a good one for me, disconnect every app with him it's mean I don't know him anymore .

    • @danieljoshua177
      @danieljoshua177 3 роки тому

      Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too

    • @danieljoshua177
      @danieljoshua177 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 5 2 1 7 0 5

  • @lujangaming2354
    @lujangaming2354 3 роки тому

    if so why was she with me last weekend don't ever think that guys always know you were the best just screwed it up at some point. if she admits that the sex is always good that must mean she's still attracted which means there's always hope if we change into the better us .

  • @ancientgaming7323
    @ancientgaming7323 3 роки тому

    Can you do a nother video on birthdays my ex she broke it with me and i never text or talk and when it was my birthday she called me 4 tines and when i didnt answer she texted happy birthday but there is a nother friend of hers and they sent it at the same time i responded to her but not my ex ?

  • @jessepushor9967
    @jessepushor9967 3 роки тому

    been no contact 10 months her rebound failed a month or 2 ago should I reach out or just keep moving on

    • @dariolaza1461
      @dariolaza1461 3 роки тому +7

      Do NOT reach out. Dont be satisfied with sloppy seconds. She made certain choices herself and has to deal with the consequenses herself. Just move on. Work on yourself. You will find someone better. New doors will open if you close this one

    • @bennyboy122
      @bennyboy122 3 роки тому +1

      Same. No contact less time, but she hates me and doesn't want to talk. I want her back. Never treated her or would treat her like the rebound did. Her loss?

    • @SPCBRAWLERZ
      @SPCBRAWLERZ 3 роки тому

      @@bennyboy122 yep, HER loss. If she hates you (unless you did something that you deserve the hatred) she has emotional problems to fix on her behalf.

    • @lucystokes57
      @lucystokes57 3 роки тому

      How long was she with this rebound? Mine has been w his for 5 months and they seem in love. If i were you i would reach out if it feels right, don’t live with regrets

  • @danielacosta2155
    @danielacosta2155 3 роки тому

    oye CONFIDENCE id Want-It no other Way🙏 She Deserves It bruh(.WW.) cuz im Muy Bueno Now ......................?🐻🌞💎🌴🐓🐴

  • @Masahico
    @Masahico 3 роки тому

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