Some people mistake taking things slow as breadcrumbing.. If two people have a relationship and they are moving two separate paces one rushing while the other doesn't rush and takes their time people who rush perceive taking things slow as breadcrumbs. If someone goes no-contact with me it's not gonna be easy to re-connect.
I would do favors for my ex up until 3 weeks ago. We’ve been broken up for 2 months. I stopped watching her stories and reaching out. She asked if I wanted to hangout this weekend. Kept it casual and said let’s get drinks. Wish me luck
make sure you hang out, have fun, hook up. do not talk about relationship stuff unless she brings it up. and if she does, play it cool and say "eh i'd be open to it, but i'd like to take it slow" that way she has to earn u back
She dumped me and asked me to not contact her, I changed my number, moved and closed my primary email address, pretty sure she will not reach out to me, also I don’t have any social media, so I have no idea what she is up to and I’m fairly sure she doesn’t know about me, makes no contact easy but so much more harder as well. 10 weeks NC strong and using the workbooks! Thank you
My lady of 6 years has been gone for 6 months now, she recently reached out to me twice in the same day in form of a phone voicemail, so I returned her call after a few hours, and she answered. We had a very fun conversation, and before ending the call we agreed to talk the next day. That didn't happen, she ignored my call, even though it was scheduled. Now she has ghosted me again. I feel as though my emotions are being toyed with, and I am tired of this. Is this the point where I finally just give up? I feel as though it is.
From my experience women like to feel wanted and know they have a safe place to go back to if things don’t work out elsewhere do yourself a favour and stay away from her she doesn’t want you back or you would know about it, I’m 25 month into no contact it’s her loss and doesn’t deserve your love. Stay strong I know it’s hurts really bad but you will feel better it’s in your best interest in the long run trust me hope your okay
It seems that you have just used her for 6 years and didn't commit to her in the shape of marriage. 6 years are a long time, brother, its better that you ask her using empathy that what she wants from you now? Is it committment, a situationship, friends with benefits or what? Ask her , validate her if you committed mistakes that hurt her in the past, admit all of those. Express openly and honesty what you want , ask yourself too? Do you want just sex again ? If yes then tell her please don't fool her she has given you 6 years of her life, respect that be a man. If she wants what you don't AKA committment then leave her, please.
She should be initiating all the calling, texting, etc. Her texting you once first doesn’t mean she initiated once now you can just text her whenever. Every new conversation should be initiated by her. It’s tough, but better than doing the wrong thing. Unless you did something wrong, she decided unilaterally to end things, so she has to earn you back. If she calls again, talk, then tell her you’d like to see her and ask when she’s free to get together. If she says no, say ok, it was great talking to you but I have to get going. Then wait for her to call again. If she does, do the same thing. If the answer is no again, you never ask her out again. It’s 100% in her court. If she says yes, make her come to you. Have her come over, hang out and have fun. No relationship talk, just fun. Don’t take her out and spend any money on her, she hasn’t earned it yet. Again, keep it fun as if you are first dating and let her bring up any relationship stuff
My ex left me and got together with another dude a week after. Someone she had bonded with during our time. I know there are things I could have done better but I don't feel like this was called for. Even in my broken state I really cared about us getting along since we were friends prior to us becoming a couple and we share the same friends. She completely ignored me and focused on living her best life with the new guy. If no contact is neglectful? At this point I really don't care. For all I care she can jump Infront of a train
I feel Ya. Same thing happened to me. He met this chick during with me then straight to dating after I said I need a break N working on it. Then he just happily ever so I wish him in front of a massive truck
I wanted to say I got my SP to reach out to me, apologize and tried to win me back after 5 years. I want to be your next success story, where can I send you my suceesss story ?
How do I do "no contact" if she wants to messages me several times a day? I am a little confused. She doesn't deserve my immediate reply, but she knows that I work on my computer 12 hours a day. She knows that her messages get through to me
It’s been a month now. And my girlfriend is very dismissive and she acts like nothing has happened without any feelings or so she makes it seem. We see each other in the gym and she acts like I’m invisible even though I’m literally standing 10 feet away. I’d like some advice on what I should do
Some people mistake taking things slow as breadcrumbing..
If two people have a relationship and they are moving two separate paces one rushing while the other doesn't rush and takes their time people who rush perceive taking things slow as breadcrumbs.
If someone goes no-contact with me it's not gonna be easy to re-connect.
Walk away for the break up ....if they're meant for you it will work ..if not there's someone better for you...
I would do favors for my ex up until 3 weeks ago. We’ve been broken up for 2 months. I stopped watching her stories and reaching out. She asked if I wanted to hangout this weekend. Kept it casual and said let’s get drinks. Wish me luck
make sure you hang out, have fun, hook up. do not talk about relationship stuff unless she brings it up. and if she does, play it cool and say "eh i'd be open to it, but i'd like to take it slow" that way she has to earn u back
also don't be needy/anxious etc. don't be serious either. be playful and have fun. good luck brother
also do not pour your heart out XD she will run brother
@@Luke-iq3vz yeah we already hooked up once already. And since then I’ve been playing it cool . Thanks for the advice though.
She dumped me and asked me to not contact her, I changed my number, moved and closed my primary email address, pretty sure she will not reach out to me, also I don’t have any social media, so I have no idea what she is up to and I’m fairly sure she doesn’t know about me, makes no contact easy but so much more harder as well. 10 weeks NC strong and using the workbooks! Thank you
My lady of 6 years has been gone for 6 months now, she recently reached out to me twice in the same day in form of a phone voicemail, so I returned her call after a few hours, and she answered. We had a very fun conversation, and before ending the call we agreed to talk the next day. That didn't happen, she ignored my call, even though it was scheduled. Now she has ghosted me again. I feel as though my emotions are being toyed with, and I am tired of this. Is this the point where I finally just give up? I feel as though it is.
She doesn’t deserve your time or effort. Move on.
You should have waited until she called
From my experience women like to feel wanted and know they have a safe place to go back to if things don’t work out elsewhere do yourself a favour and stay away from her she doesn’t want you back or you would know about it, I’m 25 month into no contact it’s her loss and doesn’t deserve your love. Stay strong I know it’s hurts really bad but you will feel better it’s in your best interest in the long run trust me hope your okay
It seems that you have just used her for 6 years and didn't commit to her in the shape of marriage. 6 years are a long time, brother, its better that you ask her using empathy that what she wants from you now? Is it committment, a situationship, friends with benefits or what? Ask her , validate her if you committed mistakes that hurt her in the past, admit all of those. Express openly and honesty what you want , ask yourself too? Do you want just sex again ? If yes then tell her please don't fool her she has given you 6 years of her life, respect that be a man. If she wants what you don't AKA committment then leave her, please.
She should be initiating all the calling, texting, etc. Her texting you once first doesn’t mean she initiated once now you can just text her whenever. Every new conversation should be initiated by her. It’s tough, but better than doing the wrong thing.
Unless you did something wrong, she decided unilaterally to end things, so she has to earn you back.
If she calls again, talk, then tell her you’d like to see her and ask when she’s free to get together. If she says no, say ok, it was great talking to you but I have to get going. Then wait for her to call again. If she does, do the same thing. If the answer is no again, you never ask her out again. It’s 100% in her court.
If she says yes, make her come to you. Have her come over, hang out and have fun. No relationship talk, just fun. Don’t take her out and spend any money on her, she hasn’t earned it yet.
Again, keep it fun as if you are first dating and let her bring up any relationship stuff
My ex left me and got together with another dude a week after. Someone she had bonded with during our time.
I know there are things I could have done better but I don't feel like this was called for.
Even in my broken state I really cared about us getting along since we were friends prior to us becoming a couple and we share the same friends. She completely ignored me and focused on living her best life with the new guy.
If no contact is neglectful? At this point I really don't care. For all I care she can jump Infront of a train
I feel Ya. Same thing happened to me. He met this chick during with me then straight to dating after I said I need a break N working on it. Then he just happily ever so I wish him in front of a massive truck
Bro stay on no contact u won't regret
😆😆 I feel you bro..
The friend zone remains undefeated
How should I do no contact with my ex when we have a kid together and she tells me that I could come to see my son
While i was doing no contact he sold his house and moved across the country now what
I wanted to say I got my SP to reach out to me, apologize and tried to win me back after 5 years. I want to be your next success story, where can I send you my suceesss story ?
How do I do "no contact" if she wants to messages me several times a day? I am a little confused. She doesn't deserve my immediate reply, but she knows that I work on my computer 12 hours a day. She knows that her messages get through to me
It’s been a month now. And my girlfriend is very dismissive and she acts like nothing has happened without any feelings or so she makes it seem. We see each other in the gym and she acts like I’m invisible even though I’m literally standing 10 feet away. I’d like some advice on what I should do
Go to another gym or go at a different time.
Bro stay away from her she think u are at that Gym for her only