You Must Avoid These No Contact Mistakes!
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
- You must avoid these No Contact mistakes! How to avoid mistakes in no contact. If you want to do no contact successfully and avoid mistakes then this video is very important. Coach Craig Margaret, and Victoria are all psychotherapists! When you are wanting to re-attract an ex-partner, it can be very confusing when you begin hearing about No Contact. In this video, we explain how to practice No Contact in the most efficient way possible and to set you up for the most success for repairing your relationship.
00:00 How to do no contact successfully intro
00:40 The confusion of a breakup
01:06 Why we want to connect so desperately
01:34 No contact doesn't mean not to talk with the person
01:44 Don't ignore your ex
02:07 The internal struggle of no contact
02:40 Be prepared to leave them alone
03:52 Experiencing overwhelming emotions
05:36 Obsessing in no contact
06:36 Alcohol leads to breaking no contact
07:47 Your ex may trick you to break no contact
08:35 Prepare for their baiting you
09:37 Your Ex wants to stay friends
11:00 Is there a length of time for no contact?
12:09 The right mindset for success
13:08 Doing "the work"
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Share this video with any friends or family you know that are going through a breakup! That way they don’t make any mistakes that they regret!
Margaret ❤❤❤❤❤
Lovely to see you again Coach Margaret :-)
Love the 3of you together 🎉🎉
I will never forget Margaret❤
Craig you always come right on time. I’m struggling still w/ a break up. It’s been 3months no contact and for some reason the anxiety is hitting again.
well well well... guess who popped up and viewed my IG stories overnight after 4 months of no contact from the moment he said "our time together is over and its time to say goodbye"... like clockwork with what and how you said it would!
My ex fiancée and I separated 1 year ago now after a bad breakup, and 7 months no contact. Yesterday I heard from a friend that he moved on. He is in a new relationship - walking hand in hand. (His last message he stated - we were never meant to be, will never be, he doesn't want to see me ever again, and I must not stalk him. He hates me, and our time together (4 years) was traumatic). He blocked me on all social media. I accepted it's over for good.
Love you 3, miss Margaret, thank you ❤
You talk about long term relationships but my case seems unusual. Started two and half years ago We are on our 4th separation, each time we date and meet for several months, etc. Typically meet alternate weekends and had great fun. Strong connection. Lots of intimacy. Introduced to her children but not parents (don’t even know about me) We get very close and then poof! I get “This isn’t working for me. You don’t understand me. Not meeting my emotional needs” and it’s over again. We have never lived together. Both in our 50s. I believe that I am anxiously attached. She denies being avoidant but we all know the reality of it. This time (and the previous time by accident - before I found these videos) I’m following NC but I wonders, given the history of the relationship(no Cohabiting etc), is NC still a realistic approach? That said, I know any other approach will fail.
My Specific Person is Madly in love with me ! She is Missing me so Badly ! She is Thinking about me !
4th round of NC. 7 weeks NC so far and he still has me blocked... I messed up no contact 2 times because of reaching out first and trying to be friends. I blocked him back finally this week. Another mistake is falling for his fake "urgent" or "emergency" text to get me to see him during NC without resolving issues first.
Can you guys do a video on the ex who left bc they’re not good enough for you? The sacrificial lamb. My ex is like this and I feel like that is a large barrier to him coming back. I’ve been NC for over a month, nothing. But my anxiety feels like he’ll move on thinking he did a good thing.
My ex can't stay away. I go no contact, like 3 days or 5 days and they reach out
To me
I'd never ignore them because I want them back it seems from this pattern they are still attached in some way
I desperately tried to save it and ended up blocked everywhere and drove her back to dating apps 1.5 months post break up
My ex asked me for drinks and ended up canceling due to medical issues she said we should reschedule I told her to let me know when she wants to reschedule but I feel like I should have asked when. now I’m thinking I should reach out and suggest a night to reschedule
The day after the breakup, she kept texting me because she was worried about me. I asked her to not text me anymore so I can heal. 3 weeks no contact now. Do you think this could be a hurdle for her to reach out? She is a good person and never wanted to hurt me, so I think she might resist reaching out because of this.
Im in same boat. Mine has called me 3x during NC but the last time she called i got angry and told her she caused me anxiety and messed my head up for calling and “checking on me” and asked why would u even do that when u got a new guy. So i dunno. I probably screwed it up
I'm overwhelmed with aggravation because my mother is a manipulative, intrusive anxious piece of work.
oh man do I hear you
I kissed another guy in front of my ex to make him jealous and it worked he had a bother face 😉😉😉
Were you the dumper or the dumpee ?
You know youre progressing when after watching these NC videos things will start sounding a bit silly.
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When you're able to recognize or feel how ridiculous it is to spend time like this on one person. Not to say its not important but some perspective.
And if whoever comes back...so what. If the issues remain unchanged...so what? We're caught up in simply coming back because of our own childhood attachment.