What the person says about the creative healing course and the workbooks is 100% true! I'm currently in section 3 of the course, and it's been absolutely helpful. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to do some of the content as I'm not comfortable doing it yet, but everything else it's so relieving for my anxiety and it helps me process things. Do the work!
Coach, thanks so much for amazing videos you post, I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and 10 days ago, but last 2 weeks she has been giving me signs 1- Liked my Instagram photo 2- is watching my stories, not always, but watched 5 times from 7 stories I posted, when she didn't watch it, her friend watched it 3- when she was on a trip 10 days ago, she was wearing a ring that I bought for her 4- I was stalking her UA-cam, she was listening to songs like "Call Me, Want You Bad, Without You" and so on All this started in September, on 4th September. The relationship ended not so well, she told me that she doesn't want to see me again. She changed behavior since she started work on bank :/ before she was different girl, the relationship was going perfect :/ and really it destroyed me, bc I really loved this girl :/
@@danielwatson6529 Nothing yet, she still watches my story, still didn't remove the relationship status in fb, except her, also her friend watches my story, but last days I have been more focused on school and I don't think so much for her
My breakup pales in comparison to the couple you read abt, coach. God bless them and may the Lord bring this man home as safely as possible and I pray that they reconnect. We don't always know how bad others have it.
My dad was in the army for around 30 years. He was constantly getting deployed. While im not in the military i do have a job that gives me a sense of foreboding. It throws you in for a loop and its a difficult position to navigate, so im not judging this guy. But we never stopped showing up for our loved ones. I can tell he cares cause i havent heard the word divorce. So, but thats where this differs from other situations. Our SO is gone. Theres no command structure informing us on there whereabouts. No battle buddies telling us how theyre doing. No nothing. They might as well not even existed.
Why don’t people just go NO Contact STOP THE “can we be friends” bs🙄🙄🙄. Stop the week behavior then you’ll wonder why they never come back because you make them comfortable with moving on. Most people are so emotional that they don’t care about the logic behind no contact. Staying in contact is the exact opposite of what you should do if you want them back.
@@johnrevelation37 he is lying! Tell me what special mission he is talkin about that is going to put his life in danger? Im tell you.. he is lying. I dunno how craig dont see it
@@flat4wankelusually military they aren’t allowed to tell anyone where they’re being deployed to until they’re already there for some time. Sometimes not even at all. I’ve seen this situation happen in real life but then again there’s always a possibility of him going back to the ex wife. So who really knows tbh
Will I get her come back? Me and my ex are in good terms and we settled to become friends, but I still have feelings for her, and she isn't really moved on, should I still show interests in her but I'll focus on myself 100%? tbh I'm the reason why she was turned off because of my toxic attitudes like being needy and jealous, but there is reason why my toxic attitudes showed to her. She wants me to find someone else but I can't, she says for now she wants to focus on academics rather than getting into a serious relationship.
I was in the same boat as you. The. She met a "nice guy" at the gym and they've been together for two years now. We were together for 7 years. We still talk almost every day but I don't see us ever getting back together and I never thought I'd say this, but, I'm fine with that now. Time heals all and if you found one, you'll find another.
@@KommonCents_ Update, we're still classmates but barely interact or talk to each other, but little by little my feelings for her fade away and I'm better than before I was, because it's been 6 months lol, and I think she met someone new and I'm fine with that. I believed that time really heals if you focus yourself more.
I wonder if you are emphatic the partner is manipulative. At some point, he/she may stay emphatic because she will not catch his cues of manipulation and therefore he/she can not get manipulated? He/she ignores my criticism, because he/she didn't get my jokes, or provocative comments. Because there is no energy match between them. The manipulative person will realize, he/she doesn't get me, and my manipulative cues so I can not be with them, because the person is so emphatic that ignores the cues, and is living in calmness, kindness. Maybe therefore manipulative people seek people who like to argue. It seems narcissists can be only with people who have also a little bit of narcissistic traits or insecurity, so the manipulator can condition the mindset of the person of codependence. But actually there is also a healthy narcissism with healthy goals.
Just one more reason our vets need all the resources they can get during and post services.......God bless our troops
What the person says about the creative healing course and the workbooks is 100% true! I'm currently in section 3 of the course, and it's been absolutely helpful. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to do some of the content as I'm not comfortable doing it yet, but everything else it's so relieving for my anxiety and it helps me process things. Do the work!
it's so good to see your videos, to give a professional insight and the psychological view on this. Thank you!
Coach Craig, Victoria and Margaret are the best.
As a vet, this sounds fishy 😂 dude is probably married
Coach, thanks so much for amazing videos you post, I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and 10 days ago, but last 2 weeks she has been giving me signs
1- Liked my Instagram photo
2- is watching my stories, not always, but watched 5 times from 7 stories I posted, when she didn't watch it, her friend watched it
3- when she was on a trip 10 days ago, she was wearing a ring that I bought for her
4- I was stalking her UA-cam, she was listening to songs like "Call Me, Want You Bad, Without You" and so on
All this started in September, on 4th September.
The relationship ended not so well, she told me that she doesn't want to see me again. She changed behavior since she started work on bank :/ before she was different girl, the relationship was going perfect :/ and really it destroyed me, bc I really loved this girl :/
how did it go
@@danielwatson6529 Nothing yet, she still watches my story, still didn't remove the relationship status in fb, except her, also her friend watches my story, but last days I have been more focused on school and I don't think so much for her
Stop stalking her
@@MrCjchamp2001 I stopped, closed all social media and focused on myself
I hope she does not stalk your youtube /:
My breakup pales in comparison to the couple you read abt, coach. God bless them and may the Lord bring this man home as safely as possible and I pray that they reconnect. We don't always know how bad others have it.
My dad was in the army for around 30 years. He was constantly getting deployed. While im not in the military i do have a job that gives me a sense of foreboding. It throws you in for a loop and its a difficult position to navigate, so im not judging this guy. But we never stopped showing up for our loved ones.
I can tell he cares cause i havent heard the word divorce. So, but thats where this differs from other situations. Our SO is gone. Theres no command structure informing us on there whereabouts. No battle buddies telling us how theyre doing. No nothing. They might as well not even existed.
Your dad was cheating son.
Are we sure these stories of marching off to battle are true? It's a common catfish move.
Doesn’t give a damn that the ex cares. She’s dead to me as far as I’m concerned.
Once she leaves and disrespects me in the process she’s done, it will be as if I never knew her at a certain point after I’ve done my grieving.
Why don’t people just go NO Contact STOP THE “can we be friends” bs🙄🙄🙄. Stop the week behavior then you’ll wonder why they never come back because you make them comfortable with moving on. Most people are so emotional that they don’t care about the logic behind no contact. Staying in contact is the exact opposite of what you should do if you want them back.
I only talk with her because she’ll call me, I never reach out anymore
This is gonna be a barn burner for sure........
He is bstting. He went back to the ex wife no doubt!
I am skeptical too.
I like and respect this channel a lot. I am skeptical too. Military people are to embody bravery, courage, service to country and honor ✌
@@johnrevelation37 he is lying! Tell me what special mission he is talkin about that is going to put his life in danger? Im tell you.. he is lying. I dunno how craig dont see it
@@flat4wankelusually military they aren’t allowed to tell anyone where they’re being deployed to until they’re already there for some time. Sometimes not even at all. I’ve seen this situation happen in real life but then again there’s always a possibility of him going back to the ex wife. So who really knows tbh
I agree - they never send you on an op or mission and say “hey you’re likely not to return home”
My significant other is acting the same way. He's worried he might have cancer and is having a scope done later this month. 🤷
Will I get her come back? Me and my ex are in good terms and we settled to become friends, but I still have feelings for her, and she isn't really moved on, should I still show interests in her but I'll focus on myself 100%? tbh I'm the reason why she was turned off because of my toxic attitudes like being needy and jealous, but there is reason why my toxic attitudes showed to her. She wants me to find someone else but I can't, she says for now she wants to focus on academics rather than getting into a serious relationship.
I was in the same boat as you. The. She met a "nice guy" at the gym and they've been together for two years now. We were together for 7 years. We still talk almost every day but I don't see us ever getting back together and I never thought I'd say this, but, I'm fine with that now. Time heals all and if you found one, you'll find another.
@@KommonCents_ Update, we're still classmates but barely interact or talk to each other, but little by little my feelings for her fade away and I'm better than before I was, because it's been 6 months lol, and I think she met someone new and I'm fine with that. I believed that time really heals if you focus yourself more.
Never accept just friends , that’s all you’ll ever get . You behaved weak. Go no contact she must suffer without you.
I wonder if you are emphatic the partner is manipulative. At some point, he/she may stay emphatic because she will not catch his cues of manipulation and therefore he/she can not get manipulated? He/she ignores my criticism, because he/she didn't get my jokes, or provocative comments.
Because there is no energy match between them.
The manipulative person will realize, he/she doesn't get me, and my manipulative cues so I can not be with them, because the person is so emphatic that ignores the cues, and is living in calmness, kindness.
Maybe therefore manipulative people seek people who like to argue.
It seems narcissists can be only with people who have also a little bit of narcissistic traits or insecurity, so the manipulator can condition the mindset of the person of codependence.
But actually there is also a healthy narcissism with healthy goals.
Craig is kinda gullible 😅
Hahaha!!