I lost my mom a month ago and I had shock seeing seeing her dead body in the assisted living facility and a grief quickly set in and it was gone in a few minutes. Only towards the end of the funeral service, did I cry like a rainstorm. Although we were close and I used to visit with her daily, now I don't dwell on the fact that she is dead. And no "good riddance" far from it. Good memories of her will come to me as needed and when needed. She was 97 and I'm 68.
I lost two daughters 19 months apart. It was tragic to me. I tried my best to raise them as a single custodial father. I feel I’m coping as well as I’m able. My first thought upon hearing of my youngest daughter’s death was suicide. I fell to my knees in agonizing grief and cried like a baby. Then when I looked up I was staring at pictures of my granddaughters. Suicide left my thoughts instantly. I wanted to be around for my granddaughters, with whom I was close, and active in their lives. I now have a wonderful active relationship with my great granddaughters. I wouldn’t trade that for anything. Being Pawpa saved my life.
I believe I am coping with loss of my husband … three years ago! I have finally come to an acceptance of it … after all … he just moved to Heaven … and I will join him when it’s my time and then we will have Eternity Together! I talk to him at times … it’s comforting to me! Just this morning fixing coffee I said … I am okay Baby! I miss you so much … but I understand it was your time. I told his daughter when we came to my home from Funeral Home … I was glad I was 73 … as I wouldn’t have to live much longer without him! I am currently 77 (73 when he died then two month later 74!) I also said … how am I going to live the rest of my life without him? I am because of Jesus … One day at a time sweet Jesus! Enjoyed the Vlog and made me realize … I am coping and yes I can laugh again! 🧡🍂🧡🍁🧡
Why had I never thought of the idea at 9:37 before? 😅😅😅😅 Thank you for such a meaningful video. I wish you and everyone who reads this comment good health and happiness. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
A psychologist told my late mother, may G_D rest her soul, it takes about two years to grieve the loss of a spouse. She took this class through an organization called "Widow to Widow," in Tampa Bay, Florida.
Grief is something that changes with time; it's not something you just get over. Take it from someone who's been through loss. When you allow yourself to feel the pain, to cry, to remember, and even to smile again, that's how you honor both your loss and your own journey of healing. Be gentle with yourself along the way.
I lost my mom a month ago and I had shock seeing seeing her dead body in the assisted living facility and a grief quickly set in and it was gone in a few minutes. Only towards the end of the funeral service, did I cry like a rainstorm. Although we were close and I used to visit with her daily, now I don't dwell on the fact that she is dead. And no "good riddance" far from it. Good memories of her will come to me as needed and when needed. She was 97 and I'm 68.
May the universe bless you with abundance, health, and happiness. To those who seek enlightenment, may the wisdom of the Buddha guide you always.
I lost two daughters 19 months apart. It was tragic to me. I tried my best to raise them as a single custodial father. I feel I’m coping as well as I’m able. My first thought upon hearing of my youngest daughter’s death was suicide. I fell to my knees in agonizing grief and cried like a baby. Then when I looked up I was staring at pictures of my granddaughters. Suicide left my thoughts instantly. I wanted to be around for my granddaughters, with whom I was close, and active in their lives. I now have a wonderful active relationship with my great granddaughters. I wouldn’t trade that for anything. Being Pawpa saved my life.
I believe I am coping with loss of my husband … three years ago! I have finally come to an acceptance of it … after all … he just moved to Heaven … and I will join him when it’s my time and then we will have Eternity Together!
I talk to him at times … it’s comforting to me! Just this morning fixing coffee I said … I am okay Baby! I miss you so much … but I understand it was your time.
I told his daughter when we came to my home from Funeral Home … I was glad I was 73 … as I wouldn’t have to live much longer without him! I am currently 77 (73 when he died then two month later 74!)
I also said … how am I going to live the rest of my life without him? I am because of Jesus … One day at a time sweet Jesus!
Enjoyed the Vlog and made me realize … I am coping and yes I can laugh again! 🧡🍂🧡🍁🧡
Why had I never thought of the idea at 9:37 before? 😅😅😅😅 Thank you for such a meaningful video. I wish you and everyone who reads this comment good health and happiness. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
A very sweet thoughtful video inspiring thankyou ❤️😊👍🏻
Glad you enjoyed it!😊
A psychologist told my late mother, may G_D rest her soul, it takes about two years to grieve the loss of a spouse. She took this class through an organization called "Widow to Widow," in Tampa Bay, Florida.
Grief is something that changes with time; it's not something you just get over. Take it from someone who's been through loss. When you allow yourself to feel the pain, to cry, to remember, and even to smile again, that's how you honor both your loss and your own journey of healing. Be gentle with yourself along the way.