They're testing your limits, I couldn't deal with being constantly tested anymore, I needed to be trusted, so I left. I couldn't deal with the drama of being tested, manipulated, and questioned.
The last time he fake broke up I didn’t let him back in lol. Messed his head up. I was so tired after 6 yrs of the back and forth. It’s been a year this pass August. I have blocked him on everything. I’m now happy thriving and rebuilding.
I did this too except he said he was glad to see I gave up/wasn’t a ride or die/abandoned him/stopped trying even though he broke up with me bc of his abuse. No apology once or recognition he left like 100 times 🙄
He tried that shyt twice, and I called his bluff the second time. He wasn't ready for that blocked life. I clocked it and knew what time he was on. Oh well! Happily divorced.
He fake dumped me because I caught HIM receiving a call from another female at 3AM. He went into a rage and broke up with me.I even questioned myself. I ended up blocking him and going no contact when he tried to come back. It was so hard and I felt guilty but I didn’t give in. He’s so sick in the head.
Everything explained in this video is exactly what I experienced. He even had the audacity to say he was “tired of tolerating” me because I’m “temperamental.” I learned the patterns, let him play his last card, and disappeared almost a year ago …Poof!💨💨💨
Having come across a few narcissists in my days, I must say it is a great feeling being with a healthy partner. Your nervous system is very grateful defo. Will never take my current girl for granted, that's for sure!
@v10letv1xen9 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 keep it up!! I did this on our 'last date', New Years day....a switch flipped as he freaked out as he driving me home. I knew I was not looking back & it actually felt like relief as I walked away.
He did this to me every weekend in the first year. I had never experienced anything like it before in my life. I have no clue as to why I stuck around. ❤
SAME! He always seemed to disappear after starting fights on weekends. F ucking clown. I wasted 10 years at the circus. We stick around in hopes they change, but they never will!
30 years of this. I’m leaving this year. He literally sent me separation papers while hiding out somewhere on my 50th birthday august last year. Came home is still here has since told me the relationship is over and left a million times since then. Literally over nothing , he left because I bought him a Christmas gift, left because I moved a table from the lounge room to my craft room for my printer, left anytime because I’ve said no, the relationship is over every other day of the week in my house. So I’m making it permanent this year, been getting help. Yeah you bet the relationship is f……..ing over
@@melissabanks9517That pattern will never end, it will keep happening. No one can make that work and be happy. Im glad you getting out. Unfortunately he's most likely cheating. They seem to always have someone in their back pocket way before you think it's truly over. You'll be like, were the F did she come from. Just leave and strat your new journey ❤️
Right now mines wanted to have sex because I said no He act like a child with no understanding this man is very entitled he block me me and unblock me then came back sending quotes
He literally fake broke up with me and cheated that night and came back in the afternoon and told me HE LOVES SEEING ME IN PAIN like that, and when he tried to do that again I blocked him everywhere
😂 I remember, once he said that we should break up... just like that, everything was fine, he obviously wanted more attention, more drama. I said: "Ok. I agree, this is not a relationship that will work." He didn't expect that answer 😂 but he kept quiet and didn't say anything because of his pride. In the evening he sent me 1000 messages asking me to go out because he is waiting for me in front of the house, it is raining, but he is standing in the rain waiting for me 😂😂 I didn't go out.🍌
Yes.!! I dated an older guy for a few months in my twenties, and whenever I would ask for a small favor he would reply: “What’s in it for me..??” …. like in a joking way…. I would just give him the side eye, but I felt extremely uncomfortable, like “wtf dude” ….that was one of many red flags… and over the course of the relationship, he demonstrated extreme selfishness 😶 These jokes oftentimes can clue us in to who a person truly is…. And he tried the fake break up too. I was so mad with myself for dealing with him 🤦♀️
Me too till I filed divorce papers 13 years married faithfully to NPD... Now my replacement lost his government job, and is getting as leg amputated with diabetes type 2 , sure don't feel bad though...
Hi Lee, Why do the Narcissist get so upset when you move on and slap cheeks with someone else?!? When they have been several months with how ever many different people…I am just completely amazed by the irony of this!
Because you're not extra special like they are. To get human rights, one has to be a human being and they don't think you are. We're all NPCs to them, apparently. Each narcissist is the star of their personal soap opera. They also like collecting partners like dolls. They get really mad when they get reminders that humans are not NPCs. So yeah, writing yourself out of their demented, little script was the right call.
Yes yes yes! He harassed 3 people i was dating on different occasions and 1 had to use the police to get rid of him ,the others he saved old conversations and showed them and got rid of them ,then he hoovered him self back in,a After he chase the last guy and then tells me he's going back to his ex in January 2025😂, but I got to find out she was already pregnant and had a baby in America (we're living in the Caribbean, he sent her over to give birth) and chrismas 2024 he and his other kids by other woman went over to meet the new baby all while he chase away the guy I was dating!!! He's sick !!!!
I think the person is or was trying to control me and wear me down hoping to condition me into acting like he wants or wanted me to. Sadly, for them, I have concluded that love and being loved is not what they are seeking. I think they want someone who will be more like a pet. I know that sounds crazy but that’s what it looks like.
My ex narc gf asked me would she be wrong to see other people. I said no not at all. Then she said hopefully we can be friends and I said we can. I pretty much agreed because I was tired of the bs. 6 days later she texted me GM. I waited about 2.5 hours then filled said, "I'm doing great and yourself?" She replies, "I'm doing good thanks." I knew she was boiling inside. I didn't bother to continue the conversation and here I am almost 2 years later narc free. I was hoovered a month ago before Christmas from a fake number and a person named "Lisa" AND THEN later on that night her daughter calls me out of the blue. I knew it was a temperature checker and I made sure I had all of the happiness in my life in my voice. I made sure during conversation that I wouldn't mention or ask about her mother. We broke up Valentine's Day weekend 2023 and my birthday is in April. I'm sure I will be hoovered again 😂
He fake broke up with me when I set a boundary. The breakup conversation wasn’t going like he thought it was gonna go, he was asking “are you okay…?” I wasn’t begging, but this was after he definitely thought I was dependent on him… so he said never-mind he didn’t want to break up at that moment, he asked for “24” hours to make a decision. Said “let’s have this conversation, tomorrow” . Smfh I reverse UNOed on him and said no, I’ll have to walk away. So now he has to save face, so now he done went no contact, after his Hoover attempts being ignored
I ABSOLUTELY love that you made a book for children. That teaches them about toxic relationships and to help them realize its not their fault or responsibility to deal with their parent's behavior. I don't think anyone has done that. A lot of books for adults though.
do a talk about how narcissistic people will one up you and get married/have kids to spite you. I've seen a pattern in them when they lose grade A supply, they over correct and get married/start a family quickly with the next viable target.
Man that's some good tough love ❤️ and straightforward teaching right there!!! Playing with someone's heart and emotions like it's a game is one of the most torturous and demented actions to you can do to a human being. I agree with you 💯 percent Lee! Enough is enough 2025 my friends 🧡 and Lee don't get discouraged please. The numbers will go up in due time. Your awesome bro!
My husband has done this since we got married and it was always to break me down and punish me for setting boundaries, questioning him or trying to hold him accountable for violent abuse, emotional abuse (screaming, threatening, cruelty), cheating, porn addiction and financial abuse (stealing from me, and drug abuse. The times I told him I would divorce him was for his continued abuse and refusal to follow through with counseling. He is diagnosed bipolar, schizophrenic anti-social personality which plays out like a raging narcissist with ongoing psychotic episodes. He has left me more times than I want to recount and always turns around saying “you need to change” “you need counseling “ “you’re a narcissist.” Please pray for us. I filed for divorce last month. He’s living in an rv now down by the river strung out on heroine and mean and hostile as ever and of course back to his porn addiction which I think is the reason he does this.
I’m sorry to hear this! I hope you’re ok! Trust me I know just what you’re going through! My ex has changed my whole live completely since I meat him! These people are definitely demonic and evil people! I never would have thought I would meet and deal with someone like this. I wish I could turn back the hands of time when I never met him! Please stay save sis
He's not abusive because he's addicted. He's addicted because he is abusive. Everytime he chooses his addiction, it's abuse. He thinks he gets to do what he wants and consequences are for other people. I learned that the hard way.
Before I knew what Narcissist was every time we get into an argument my ex says maybe we should breakup and I knew it was fake. It’s was a way to control me
I recently experienced a challenging split. It has been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My ex-boyfriend is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked in my attempts to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. I realize it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
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You know, I am so happy I found this video! I am guilty of this awful habit. I never even understood why I did it and didn't realize this ain't normal bc I've learned this behavior from a very early relationship. It was used against me then it became a superpower ... Sadly, anything that triggers me shifts me back into this behavior. Now I have to break this bad habit and become my better version tbh lol
Mine of 13 years actually packed this time and left, I’m married to him by the way. It hurts, but I pray it’s for good. He’s now living with one of his other supplies in another state! She is completely clueless of who he really is.
This just happened to me. My ex disrespected me at his birthday party that I helped pay for. I said something to him, he cursed me out, insulted me, told me to leave his party and I did then he said I ruined his birthday and blocked me.
@ wow! Mine is back ! It’s truly sad! Back to me having another son it feels like! All he does is complain and constantly have me apologize for things I’m unsure of! It’s so draining! Doesn’t take accountability for anything and everything is everyone else’s fault!
Wow! This exactly what I have experienced. Thank you for this video! My therapist pointed out one day that the breakup was #12. It was so baffling. I appreciate this post Lee!
I broke up with him and he blocked me months later after saying blocking was childish and playing games. It was literally a block here, then a block a month later, and he only blocked my phone because he got caught posting the coworker he told me he wasn’t cheating with but he knew I could see it on my other socials. Then he hit me with “you broke up with me” “I never cheated but, believe what you want” Then he took her everywhere we had planned to go. Now he’s telling everyone I’m crazy 😂 idk if he’s a narcissist but, he’s definitely manipulative. Then he pin pointed the exact date and time he “fell out of love with me” then said “I was never going to break up with you even though I don’t love you.” He used to cry when I said I didn’t know if it was going to work but he stop caring once he met his 18 year old coworker. Then his schedule started to change, he was always helping a “friend” having Bible study in the break room after work. Being on the phone late with her because he was going through things. Then he started getting an attitude out of nowhere to get a reaction out of me because he knew I was going to breakup with him. It’s almost like he planned it or pushed me to do it. Now the new girl thinks I’m crazy 😂 and you know they can easily manipulate you when they still lie while sloppy drunk. Did I mention his a preachers kid RED FLAG. He talks to his parents crazy and the sad part about it, I’ve known him since we were kids and he’s exactly the same.
When my ex narc sees me laughing with friends, he LOSES IT. I'm gray rock now. He is miserable. Tried to hoover me the other day. Asked me to talk to him. I said, I have nothing to say to you. You have helped me over 6 months now Lee.
Thank You Lee for using your platform to help others even though you are and were hurt yourself!! ❤God Bless You! I have so much respect for your channel and you’re literally one of my favorite UA-camrs because of your realism. You are turning something that is literally destroying humanity and showing us firsthand how to handle human beings like this. Thank you for making a change and being a better version of yourself for your beautiful family and yourself.! there are very few like you! That’s why we have nothing but mad respect for you Lee and we always Will!!!!! not only to you admit to being a narcissist that has changed into a wonderful human being, but you are showing us victims how to overcome it. Thank you so much from the bottom of every one of our hearts.
That’s exactly what my ex wife did. Even filled out divorce papers and then refused to sign them for 6 months because ultimately she said she didn’t really want the divorce. It was obvious she just wanted to massively manipulate me. Blew up in her face though. I told her she either sign her damn papers or I’m going to fill out separate papers and have her served with them and if she doesn’t respond, the judge will grant it my way. Now she’s living with her parents and been trying to find anyway back into my life for the last 8 months. Once a narc takes the mask off, there’s no un-seeing what you saw. There’s no going back. She slapped that same mask back on after months of being a psychotic, lying, monster.. sorry.. not falling for it this time.
@@MentalHealnessI think you get to the root of it all here. A massive lack of accountability is at the root of it all. Of course, they project that very problem. It twisted my mind into a pretzel when she started talking about my lack of accountability. I remember saying, “we’ve literally been talking about your accountability issues for 14 years and now all of a sudden they don’t exist and it’s me who has an accountability issue?” Me? The guy who was the sole provider while also doing 100% of all of the cooking, cleaning, shopping, laundry, child care, finances… everything. On top of being a business owner with a very good reputation for accountability. After 14 years of me very easily seeing and admitting when I screw up and doing my best to make things right.. this is how insane these people are. Mind you, the entire 14 years, she’s playing on her phone. God knows what she was doing on her phone for 14 years but that’s all she did. Our daughter spent all of her time with me, all of her summer vacations with me while i work. I can’t even tell you the thousands of times our daughter ran up to her excited about something and her mother told her to shut up or that she was being annoying or that she needs her “me time.” All she got was “me time” on that damned phone. She said our 9 year old daughter was “abusive” to her because she likes to talk. She’s an 9 year old girl and she’s excited and happy about everything in life. Everything is new to her! Why would anyone want to crush that excitement and innocence? There that’s my accountability rant lol.
It was always a bad time when I hold him accountable for his actions and behavior and he also fake-breakup with me.. But the time was ever worser when I wanted to hold accountable his mother for her actions - it was a hell on Earth.. Everytime I cried hours when he fake break up with me, he just stared at me and magically always had a solution for our problems, with detailed steps included, that I should ofcourse follow 😄 a year ago when he fake-breakup with me, I was just done... It was like if you turn off the lights when you are leaving the room... I told him OK, let's break up, you and your mother can now open a champagne.. In less than a second he fell down on his knees, started to cry that he never wanted to break up with me and he never meant seriously what he said, bla bla bla... I was just done, since that moment, as I also saw such a quick twist, I never seen him the same way... It felt like all the energy he sucked away from me came suddenly back to me... Strange and also powerful feeling
It also gives them the chance to go and cheat because, "oh, but we werent together that week". Or it makes you paranoid there's someone else, then they shame you for it...and disappear again.
My middle aged narc boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me for the second time in two months. He keeps blocking me on Facebook. He claims its because I questioned him about an obviously scam profile that he had listed as his sister. I know his sister lol. The profile was using a famous asian actress's picture, and commenting on his old pics. I've given him an ultimatum twice about unblocking me, and each time he explodes and says to never speak to him again. This time I was crying and he told me I was a baby and to kill myself. Whatever he's hiding on there is obviously more important than our 5 year relationship. I'm beyond done trying to have a normal relationship with someone who makes one set of rules for himself and different ones for me.
My ex left me in his house after an argument because i saw message in his phone and asked, then he came back when i was sleep. I dont know how many hours he was even gone after awhile it was a norm. Like a baby having a temper tantrum ...they dont feel bad for nothing they do in fact they will do it more once they know you know
7:00 its been over 5 months of no contact and he hasnt come back since confronting him. i dont think this one is a fake discard but there have been fake discards in the past
Lee the things you are speaking are all so real!! Fake breakups, public humiliation, family jumped me! Narcissistic rage abuse!! I had been through it all I pray y’all listen to Lee and many others warnings!! Take it from me my story is horrific 😢 and I just want other women to be careful please! Don’t make the same mistake I did!! And don’t share/ have children with these types of demons! Get out if you can just know they will still make your life hell if you allow them to ! They are deranged psychopaths because what type of person gets pleasure in hurting others! Anyways! How can I defeat this narc? We have children and he’s still trying to force control. Never wants to take accountability for anything he does ever, especially anything he says or does to the kids
Wow that back fired so bad! My soon to be ex husband picked our son up and looked at me horrified saying YOUR NOT scared of anything anymore😂😂😂 i said wtf for? Ive been left for dead best thing that has ever happened 😂
He fake broke up with me for no reason for the final time. So I blocked him, changed my number, and deactivated all of my social media accounts. He has too many fake accounts and I don’t know them all.
I not gonna lie, this one was extremely triggering. Was not expecting that at all. This occurred throughout my entire relationship, kept my head spinning the whole time.
My husband verbally and physically abused me and we broke up, he told me he told his family the truth but he didn’t and I told one of them the truth and he found out and broke up with me telling me he want’s a divorce and blocked me from everything. But it was true, he told his family I was the narcissist, a compulsive liar but I just told the truth. Did that hurt his ego is that why he has ended it?
I dated a guy in Tulsa and we were long distance. He sent me a text saying, “I really like you. It was real. I just need time to see if I can be the man you need me to be. I don’t know how long. I’m sorry if this leaves you hanging.” I went 3 weeks and reached out. He screamed at me that the man he needed would have been fine to be left hanging . He screamed he was done. I feel like I was so manipulated.
Lee I just made this comment yesterday about not seeing this videos ❤.You move faster than light!😂 Thanks for noticing my comment. You’re a real one for this.
Hi Lee 🎀 Off the topic here ... There is not much video's on the internet on the topic that a narcissist gets trauma bonded to their victims too and what the signs are to affirm that they are trauma bonded to their victims to look out for ... Not even AI can give a straight forward answer on this question 😬 It can make a great topic for Your next video as there is no intense context on the topic of narcissistic trauma bonding to their victims on any platform 😬 Also there is not much information on the various types of "narcissistic supply" like the "best supply" (Primary Supply) versus narcissistic supply on a lower scale and how they are being treated by the narcissist 🌸 Thank you for your great video's! It is informative and always easy to understand ✨️
Narcissists are not trauma bonded to you. They see you as a tool to get sex, services and supply. You do not get trauma bonded to your fridge that gives you food if it breaks down you buy a new one without second thought. Narcissists are the same. They do not care about you ar all. You only matter as long as you serve a purpose for them.
I definitely had been fake discarded before. One day out of the blue (on the phone) he just said, “I don’t want to be married anymore.” Of course I already felt that he changed toward me. So basically he already started to devalue me for about a couple months. I was shocked, but I agreed for a divorce. Guess what he said? He said, “You sound fine, & I am a mess here!” What?! You were the one who wanted a divorce. Of course at that time I knew nothing about narcissists. Then I said, “What do you expect me to do? I’m not going to beg & cry for you to stay. If you don’t want to be with me anymore, then I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me.” Guess what, about 10 minutes later he changed his mind. What a piece of sh!t a$$hole! Excuse my language 😁. We’re divorced now after I found out that he’d been cheating on me, stealing from me, using me for money & much more. Good riddance!
All the time he "didn't know" what he wanted but didn't want to lose me. Begged me to not go no contact after the breakup (I don't need to be friends after a breakup). Then when I found out he had a gf for 8months of our two years (so he was talking to her longer so he was searching and talking to her before they started dating so it was longer)... Then he completely discarded me after telling my friends I was a "crazy maniac trying to ruin his life!" thats why he did it. However I mentioned us breaking up so many times and he talked me out of it or said things to keep me lingering or holding on. I did say I'm done many of times as well, but didn't do it to see him beg or care, but because I felt like he just didn't even like me.
Exactly what Halle bailey is going through and ddg is doing to her. It's sad to see it played out in anyone's life, but she is influencing millions, which is just heartbreaking. Im a 3 relationship narcissist thriver. I see it, and so many people dont. Jesus allowed me to keep my mind somehow, and im grateful that i allowed him to heal what was broken. To me, it's about control, too. Bc they hurt you, and then when they act as if they want you again its like a relief, but actually an emotional rollercoaster that they control. Yall be blessed stay prayed up❤🙏🏽✨️
He refuses to say i did give 100% to our relationship. He refuses to say theres anything i do good. He says i have no future w him. Ive accepted it. My body my choice now. No means no.
Mine kept doing it and a few weeks ago I emotionally shut down didn’t open back up to the relationship. That’s just too much for me. I don’t have time for that. It’s mental/emotional abuse 🤦🏾♀️. One way I knew he was a narcissist as well as the other signs.
I have been with a couple narcissist sociopaths in my time. I’m going through a discard and silent treatment right no, I have always been very giving empathetic patience for the most part and loving I’ve been taken advantage of and abused with no care, but he is putting myself through as my family and has left me completely traumatized and I’m now seeing a therapist, I just don’t understand how that could intentionally cause so much. Someone who has been nothing but good
I hate ur going through this but its temporary. You will get TIED. I mean it in the most kindest way when I say Choose You! Narcs work for the devil. Its always them them them. Nothing and no one else matters.
I refused to take back the last guy who pulled a fake breakup. He waited until I got home then did over messenger then tried to say that it never happened!
My narcissistic man told me to weekends his car was broke down ,no calls no texts,so I told be man and say it's over,he didn't respond so I blocked he no contact Forv6 months,I saw in Walmart he was mad and didn't speak so I didn't say nothing ,act like I didn't know him.
Wow. I never heard of such a thing. Sounds like high school shenanigans; I would have no patience for that nonsense and end it for real. You will not be wasting my time.✌🏽
My narcissist tried the fake disgard with me. I dropped him like a hot rock. I wasn't aware of no contact. However, when I'm done I cut you off at the knees. I blocked him in every possible way. That was almost four years ago. He tried to contact, using various means but to no avail. I haven't gotten any calls from unknown numbers in a while now.
They're testing your limits, I couldn't deal with being constantly tested anymore, I needed to be trusted, so I left. I couldn't deal with the drama of being tested, manipulated, and questioned.
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On God this is the realest 💯
@@nia9etherwilks Much love to you, hope you're on your road to healing, thriving and taking back your power!
The last time he fake broke up I didn’t let him back in lol. Messed his head up. I was so tired after 6 yrs of the back and forth. It’s been a year this pass August. I have blocked him on everything. I’m now happy thriving and rebuilding.
Acting like Cameo "Back, back, and forth, forth. Back back, and forth, forth 😢
@kimyattahenson73 exactly literally blocked him last year December.
My situation. 6 years. Two months free now. Did he try to change?
I did this too except he said he was glad to see I gave up/wasn’t a ride or die/abandoned him/stopped trying even though he broke up with me bc of his abuse. No apology once or recognition he left like 100 times 🙄
He tried that shyt twice, and I called his bluff the second time. He wasn't ready for that blocked life. I clocked it and knew what time he was on. Oh well! Happily divorced.
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Then they panic and harass u when u enjoy the quiet
Yeah coming and acting like they have changed
Or act like you must have someone else.
@@zz9195 the peace after the exhaustion
Exactly
@@saqueradry3629 Sounds like projection
He fake dumped me because I caught HIM receiving a call from another female at 3AM. He went into a rage and broke up with me.I even questioned myself. I ended up blocking him and going no contact when he tried to come back. It was so hard and I felt guilty but I didn’t give in. He’s so sick in the head.
They tried the fake break up so I walked away and blocked them on everything. I'm not 5 to be playing pretend.
Everything explained in this video is exactly what I experienced. He even had the audacity to say he was “tired of tolerating” me because I’m “temperamental.” I learned the patterns, let him play his last card, and disappeared almost a year ago …Poof!💨💨💨
Having come across a few narcissists in my days, I must say it is a great feeling being with a healthy partner. Your nervous system is very grateful defo. Will never take my current girl for granted, that's for sure!
Stay in power on your healing journey
My ex did this to me for years until I read the handbook and flipped it and he basically kicked himself out. He wasn't expecting the reverse Uno Card.
@v10letv1xen9 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 keep it up!! I did this on our 'last date', New Years day....a switch flipped as he freaked out as he driving me home. I knew I was not looking back & it actually felt like relief as I walked away.
@anitaevans5361 Yeah, I understand. When he left I felt a weight lifted & I was able to exhale for the 1st time in years. I just slept... peacefully.
That Uno Reverse is the move right there! They're never ready for that!
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He did this to me every weekend in the first year. I had never experienced anything like it before in my life. I have no clue as to why I stuck around. ❤
I was soooo confused and lost.
SAME! He always seemed to disappear after starting fights on weekends. F ucking clown. I wasted 10 years at the circus. We stick around in hopes they change, but they never will!
Oh my goodness
It's like you're chasing a high. The love bombing sets you up to crave them. It's like an addiction.
@krisredlee yes!!! But in a why it's like a bad high.
They want power, respect, and attention
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I experienced this and didn't realize the extent of what was happening. I was played so bad. Never again.
@@RRthee1 me too! Im sorry that happened to you.❤️
@@RRthee1 same.
Same when they know you don't know oh they will do the most
30 years of this. I’m leaving this year. He literally sent me separation papers while hiding out somewhere on my 50th birthday august last year. Came home is still here has since told me the relationship is over and left a million times since then. Literally over nothing , he left because I bought him a Christmas gift, left because I moved a table from the lounge room to my craft room for my printer, left anytime because I’ve said no, the relationship is over every other day of the week in my house. So I’m making it permanent this year, been getting help. Yeah you bet the relationship is f……..ing over
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My condolences, though.
@@melissabanks9517That pattern will never end, it will keep happening. No one can make that work and be happy. Im glad you getting out. Unfortunately he's most likely cheating. They seem to always have someone in their back pocket way before you think it's truly over. You'll be like, were the F did she come from. Just leave and strat your new journey ❤️
You wl be great! Good foryou-thrive!
Going on 20 years myself ... 😢
The fake break up is what led me to move on❤.
Me too… it’s been hell…
@anitanash7777 you are not kidding
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And they start ignoring
Its so funny to see what they do when you don't chase them
He started texing me ,he plays the victim
Right now mines wanted to have sex because I said no He act like a child with no understanding this man is very entitled he block me me and unblock me then came back sending quotes
He literally fake broke up with me and cheated that night and came back in the afternoon and told me HE LOVES SEEING ME IN PAIN like that, and when he tried to do that again I blocked him everywhere
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A break up. The perfect excuse to escape accountability when you come back together, after you.. slept with someone else.
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Because YOU decided to HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE!!!!💯💯💯💯💯Those are always 'engage in war' words to a narc.
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I remember, once he said that we should break up... just like that, everything was fine, he obviously wanted more attention, more drama.
I said: "Ok. I agree, this is not a relationship that will work."
He didn't expect that answer 😂
but he kept quiet and didn't say anything because of his pride.
In the evening he sent me 1000 messages asking me to go out because he is waiting for me in front of the house, it is raining, but he is standing in the rain waiting for me 😂😂
I didn't go out.🍌
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@@MichelleMuku I didn't! That was the 7890th time we broke up 😄😄 You can't get rid of them easily.
The mindset of a narcissist is: Whats in it for JUST me!
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Yes.!! I dated an older guy for a few months in my twenties, and whenever I would ask for a small favor he would reply: “What’s in it for me..??” …. like in a joking way…. I would just give him the side eye, but I felt extremely uncomfortable, like “wtf dude” ….that was one of many red flags… and over the course of the relationship, he demonstrated extreme selfishness 😶 These jokes oftentimes can clue us in to who a person truly is…. And he tried the fake break up too. I was so mad with myself for dealing with him 🤦♀️
My ex be like, "why don't you just block me?" Or "just tell me to leave you alone." And steady be doing everything but leaving me alone. Lmaoooooo 😂
Been getting broken up with for nothing for 13 years 😭😭
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Me too till I filed divorce papers 13 years married faithfully to NPD... Now my replacement lost his government job, and is getting as leg amputated with diabetes type 2 , sure don't feel bad though...
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15 years for me 😢. I’m turning 39 this year. Praying I can leave this monster in 2025
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Hi Lee,
Why do the Narcissist get so upset when you move on and slap cheeks with someone else?!? When they have been several months with how ever many different people…I am just completely amazed by the irony of this!
Because you're not extra special like they are. To get human rights, one has to be a human being and they don't think you are. We're all NPCs to them, apparently. Each narcissist is the star of their personal soap opera.
They also like collecting partners like dolls. They get really mad when they get reminders that humans are not NPCs.
So yeah, writing yourself out of their demented, little script was the right call.
Even though they move on, they still feel ownership over you
Yes yes yes! He harassed 3 people i was dating on different occasions and 1 had to use the police to get rid of him ,the others he saved old conversations and showed them and got rid of them ,then he hoovered him self back in,a
After he chase the last guy and then tells me he's going back to his ex in January 2025😂, but I got to find out she was already pregnant and had a baby in America (we're living in the Caribbean, he sent her over to give birth) and chrismas 2024 he and his other kids by other woman went over to meet the new baby all while he chase away the guy I was dating!!! He's sick !!!!
You’re not supposed to ever move on 😂
They breakup without giving any explanation.. one minute they are okay next minute u don't know whats coming 😂
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This is true
Thrive in 25!!! 💪🏾❤️
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He broke up with me. I moved on. He came back and said I cheated on him. 😒
😂 weirdo .....that reminds me in the movie blue streak Martin Lawrence came back to the girlfriend's house after spending time in jail.😂
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Bro yessss be like wtf is you talking about 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well if mine fake discarded me...he overplayed his hand bc, I left him alone for real for good. 💯😉👍💪
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I think the person is or was trying to control me and wear me down hoping to condition me into acting like he wants or wanted me to. Sadly, for them, I have concluded that love and being loved is not what they are seeking. I think they want someone who will be more like a pet. I know that sounds crazy but that’s what it looks like.
Worse they are toddler's who need a mummy but resent and hate the authority figure Mummy.
@@mammadingo9165whewww yessss!!!
My ex narc gf asked me would she be wrong to see other people. I said no not at all. Then she said hopefully we can be friends and I said we can. I pretty much agreed because I was tired of the bs. 6 days later she texted me GM. I waited about 2.5 hours then filled said, "I'm doing great and yourself?" She replies, "I'm doing good thanks." I knew she was boiling inside. I didn't bother to continue the conversation and here I am almost 2 years later narc free. I was hoovered a month ago before Christmas from a fake number and a person named "Lisa" AND THEN later on that night her daughter calls me out of the blue. I knew it was a temperature checker and I made sure I had all of the happiness in my life in my voice. I made sure during conversation that I wouldn't mention or ask about her mother. We broke up Valentine's Day weekend 2023 and my birthday is in April. I'm sure I will be hoovered again 😂
He fake broke up with me when I set a boundary. The breakup conversation wasn’t going like he thought it was gonna go, he was asking “are you okay…?” I wasn’t begging, but this was after he definitely thought I was dependent on him… so he said never-mind he didn’t want to break up at that moment, he asked for “24” hours to make a decision. Said “let’s have this conversation, tomorrow” . Smfh I reverse UNOed on him and said no, I’ll have to walk away. So now he has to save face, so now he done went no contact, after his Hoover attempts being ignored
I ABSOLUTELY love that you made a book for children. That teaches them about toxic relationships and to help them realize its not their fault or responsibility to deal with their parent's behavior. I don't think anyone has done that. A lot of books for adults though.
do a talk about how narcissistic people will one up you and get married/have kids to spite you. I've seen a pattern in them when they lose grade A supply, they over correct and get married/start a family quickly with the next viable target.
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Man that's some good tough love ❤️ and straightforward teaching right there!!! Playing with someone's heart and emotions like it's a game is one of the most torturous and demented actions to you can do to a human being. I agree with you 💯 percent Lee! Enough is enough 2025 my friends 🧡 and Lee don't get discouraged please. The numbers will go up in due time. Your awesome bro!
My husband has done this since we got married and it was always to break me down and punish me for setting boundaries, questioning him or trying to hold him accountable for violent abuse, emotional abuse (screaming, threatening, cruelty), cheating, porn addiction and financial abuse (stealing from me, and drug abuse.
The times I told him I would divorce him was for his continued abuse and refusal to follow through with counseling. He is diagnosed bipolar, schizophrenic anti-social personality which plays out like a raging narcissist with ongoing psychotic episodes. He has left me more times than I want to recount and always turns around saying “you need to change” “you need counseling “ “you’re a narcissist.” Please pray for us. I filed for divorce last month. He’s living in an rv now down by the river strung out on heroine and mean and hostile as ever and of course back to his porn addiction which I think is the reason he does this.
Please stay safe! It sounds like you should expect the worst, based on his track record. Watch your back with that kind of evil!
I’m sorry to hear this! I hope you’re ok! Trust me I know just what you’re going through! My ex has changed my whole live completely since I meat him! These people are definitely demonic and evil people! I never would have thought I would meet and deal with someone like this. I wish I could turn back the hands of time when I never met him! Please stay save sis
He's not abusive because he's addicted.
He's addicted because he is abusive.
Everytime he chooses his addiction, it's abuse. He thinks he gets to do what he wants and consequences are for other people.
I learned that the hard way.
This message was so powerful and it shed a lot of light as I think back on my situation. Thank you!
Also a narc doesn’t like to appear vulnerable and open.Its like a power struggle with them.
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They not like us. 😂
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This narc break up may have been fake but my cutoff was a BEAST!!
Mine too
That part!
Before I knew what Narcissist was every time we get into an argument my ex says maybe we should breakup and I knew it was fake. It’s was a way to control me
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Its draining to have to call their bluff everytime. I think its best to never take them serious and make it transactional to benefit your life.
I recently experienced a challenging split. It has been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My ex-boyfriend is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked in my attempts to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. I realize it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
Thanks to your useful information, I just looked him up online. amazing
Father Obah Eze is really sincere, based on my online research. Once again, thank you ❤
I love that you are looking out for the adults and children! God Bless You
You know, I am so happy I found this video! I am guilty of this awful habit. I never even understood why I did it and didn't realize this ain't normal bc I've learned this behavior from a very early relationship. It was used against me then it became a superpower ... Sadly, anything that triggers me shifts me back into this behavior. Now I have to break this bad habit and become my better version tbh lol
Mine of 13 years actually packed this time and left, I’m married to him by the way. It hurts, but I pray it’s for good. He’s now living with one of his other supplies in another state! She is completely clueless of who he really is.
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Girl he gonna be back and tugging at the heart strings he used to tug on…while hes gone…prepare for what your gonna do when he does and stand on it 💯💯
File for divorce on grounds of abandonment, state that he's moved and you can't locate him either
If not the height of stupidity,how do someone who contributes nothing to your life; fake a break up with you/ fake discard? Good radiance to rubbish.
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This just happened to me. My ex disrespected me at his birthday party that I helped pay for. I said something to him, he cursed me out, insulted me, told me to leave his party and I did then he said I ruined his birthday and blocked me.
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Thank you for explaining everything, Lee! 🙏
My pleasure!
I’m currently broken up with for finding him cheating and him reversing it onto me !
Me because I called him out for stealing money from me
@ wow! Mine is back ! It’s truly sad! Back to me having another son it feels like! All he does is complain and constantly have me apologize for things I’m unsure of! It’s so draining! Doesn’t take accountability for anything and everything is everyone else’s fault!
@@shaver77 i understand i think this might be the last one for me because he is not helping me at all and I can’t keep getting in debt for him
Wow! This exactly what I have experienced. Thank you for this video! My therapist pointed out one day that the breakup was #12. It was so baffling. I appreciate this post Lee!
I broke up with him and he blocked me months later after saying blocking was childish and playing games. It was literally a block here, then a block a month later, and he only blocked my phone because he got caught posting the coworker he told me he wasn’t cheating with but he knew I could see it on my other socials. Then he hit me with “you broke up with me” “I never cheated but, believe what you want” Then he took her everywhere we had planned to go. Now he’s telling everyone I’m crazy 😂 idk if he’s a narcissist but, he’s definitely manipulative. Then he pin pointed the exact date and time he “fell out of love with me” then said “I was never going to break up with you even though I don’t love you.” He used to cry when I said I didn’t know if it was going to work but he stop caring once he met his 18 year old coworker. Then his schedule started to change, he was always helping a “friend” having Bible study in the break room after work. Being on the phone late with her because he was going through things. Then he started getting an attitude out of nowhere to get a reaction out of me because he knew I was going to breakup with him. It’s almost like he planned it or pushed me to do it. Now the new girl thinks I’m crazy 😂 and you know they can easily manipulate you when they still lie while sloppy drunk. Did I mention his a preachers kid RED FLAG. He talks to his parents crazy and the sad part about it, I’ve known him since we were kids and he’s exactly the same.
When my ex narc sees me laughing with friends, he LOSES IT. I'm gray rock now. He is miserable. Tried to hoover me the other day. Asked me to talk to him. I said, I have nothing to say to you. You have helped me over 6 months now Lee.
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By not even answering says the same thing - but better!
This is what I’m going through right now
My ex fake broke up with me and I move on. He came back and said I was supposed to wait for him.
Lmao 😂nope
He want to be single to cheat without having to be held accountable. Then come back as if nothing happenned.
Thank You Lee for using your platform to help others even though you are and were hurt yourself!! ❤God Bless You! I have so much respect for your channel and you’re literally one of my favorite UA-camrs because of your realism. You are turning something that is literally destroying humanity and showing us firsthand how to handle human beings like this. Thank you for making a change and being a better version of yourself for your beautiful family and yourself.! there are very few like you! That’s why we have nothing but mad respect for you Lee and we always Will!!!!! not only to you admit to being a narcissist that has changed into a wonderful human being, but you are showing us victims how to overcome it. Thank you so much from the bottom of every one of our hearts.
That’s exactly what my ex wife did. Even filled out divorce papers and then refused to sign them for 6 months because ultimately she said she didn’t really want the divorce. It was obvious she just wanted to massively manipulate me. Blew up in her face though. I told her she either sign her damn papers or I’m going to fill out separate papers and have her served with them and if she doesn’t respond, the judge will grant it my way. Now she’s living with her parents and been trying to find anyway back into my life for the last 8 months. Once a narc takes the mask off, there’s no un-seeing what you saw. There’s no going back. She slapped that same mask back on after months of being a psychotic, lying, monster.. sorry.. not falling for it this time.
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@@MentalHealnessI think you get to the root of it all here. A massive lack of accountability is at the root of it all. Of course, they project that very problem. It twisted my mind into a pretzel when she started talking about my lack of accountability. I remember saying, “we’ve literally been talking about your accountability issues for 14 years and now all of a sudden they don’t exist and it’s me who has an accountability issue?” Me? The guy who was the sole provider while also doing 100% of all of the cooking, cleaning, shopping, laundry, child care, finances… everything. On top of being a business owner with a very good reputation for accountability. After 14 years of me very easily seeing and admitting when I screw up and doing my best to make things right.. this is how insane these people are. Mind you, the entire 14 years, she’s playing on her phone. God knows what she was doing on her phone for 14 years but that’s all she did. Our daughter spent all of her time with me, all of her summer vacations with me while i work. I can’t even tell you the thousands of times our daughter ran up to her excited about something and her mother told her to shut up or that she was being annoying or that she needs her “me time.” All she got was “me time” on that damned phone. She said our 9 year old daughter was “abusive” to her because she likes to talk. She’s an 9 year old girl and she’s excited and happy about everything in life. Everything is new to her! Why would anyone want to crush that excitement and innocence? There that’s my accountability rant lol.
It was always a bad time when I hold him accountable for his actions and behavior and he also fake-breakup with me.. But the time was ever worser when I wanted to hold accountable his mother for her actions - it was a hell on Earth.. Everytime I cried hours when he fake break up with me, he just stared at me and magically always had a solution for our problems, with detailed steps included, that I should ofcourse follow 😄 a year ago when he fake-breakup with me, I was just done... It was like if you turn off the lights when you are leaving the room... I told him OK, let's break up, you and your mother can now open a champagne.. In less than a second he fell down on his knees, started to cry that he never wanted to break up with me and he never meant seriously what he said, bla bla bla... I was just done, since that moment, as I also saw such a quick twist, I never seen him the same way... It felt like all the energy he sucked away from me came suddenly back to me... Strange and also powerful feeling
It also gives them the chance to go and cheat because, "oh, but we werent together that week". Or it makes you paranoid there's someone else, then they shame you for it...and disappear again.
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Best walking and never looking back it ain’t love and it will cause havoc in your body with all the stress. Well done Lee 💪🏼
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My middle aged narc boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me for the second time in two months. He keeps blocking me on Facebook. He claims its because I questioned him about an obviously scam profile that he had listed as his sister. I know his sister lol. The profile was using a famous asian actress's picture, and commenting on his old pics. I've given him an ultimatum twice about unblocking me, and each time he explodes and says to never speak to him again. This time I was crying and he told me I was a baby and to kill myself. Whatever he's hiding on there is obviously more important than our 5 year relationship. I'm beyond done trying to have a normal relationship with someone who makes one set of rules for himself and different ones for me.
Oh my goodness
My ex left me in his house after an argument because i saw message in his phone and asked, then he came back when i was sleep. I dont know how many hours he was even gone after awhile it was a norm. Like a baby having a temper tantrum ...they dont feel bad for nothing they do in fact they will do it more once they know you know
Why do I love when you curse it’s the country twang 😂😅😂
That “you know what you did wrong “ face cracks me up😅😅😅. But you spoke absolute facts
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7:00 its been over 5 months of no contact and he hasnt come back since confronting him. i dont think this one is a fake discard but there have been fake discards in the past
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Lee the things you are speaking are all so real!! Fake breakups, public humiliation, family jumped me! Narcissistic rage abuse!! I had been through it all I pray y’all listen to Lee and many others warnings!! Take it from me my story is horrific 😢 and I just want other women to be careful please! Don’t make the same mistake I did!! And don’t share/ have children with these types of demons! Get out if you can just know they will still make your life hell if you allow them to ! They are deranged psychopaths because what type of person gets pleasure in hurting others! Anyways! How can I defeat this narc? We have children and he’s still trying to force control. Never wants to take accountability for anything he does ever, especially anything he says or does to the kids
Wow that back fired so bad! My soon to be ex husband picked our son up and looked at me horrified saying YOUR NOT scared of anything anymore😂😂😂 i said wtf for? Ive been left for dead best thing that has ever happened 😂
You made me cry.... I mean I'm so grateful to you but it was horribly hard to listen the truth❤
Thank you very much Lee
He fake broke up with me for no reason for the final time. So I blocked him, changed my number, and deactivated all of my social media accounts. He has too many fake accounts and I don’t know them all.
I not gonna lie, this one was extremely triggering. Was not expecting that at all. This occurred throughout my entire relationship, kept my head spinning the whole time.
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I thought I was alone ! So glad to know this isn’t just me. This is spot on.
Big facts!!!! You’re on fire today Lee!!! 🔥 ❤️
My husband verbally and physically abused me and we broke up, he told me he told his family the truth but he didn’t and I told one of them the truth and he found out and broke up with me telling me he want’s a divorce and blocked me from everything. But it was true, he told his family I was the narcissist, a compulsive liar but I just told the truth. Did that hurt his ego is that why he has ended it?
I ended it then took him back because he told me he would change but after that situation he ended it with me
I dated a guy in Tulsa and we were long distance. He sent me a text saying, “I really like you. It was real. I just need time to see if I can be the man you need me to be. I don’t know how long. I’m sorry if this leaves you hanging.” I went 3 weeks and reached out. He screamed at me that the man he needed would have been fine to be left hanging . He screamed he was done. I feel like I was so manipulated.
Lee I just made this comment yesterday about not seeing this videos ❤.You move faster than light!😂 Thanks for noticing my comment. You’re a real one for this.
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Hi Lee 🎀 Off the topic here ... There is not much video's on the internet on the topic that a narcissist gets trauma bonded to their victims too and what the signs are to affirm that they are trauma bonded to their victims to look out for ... Not even AI can give a straight forward answer on this question 😬 It can make a great topic for Your next video as there is no intense context on the topic of narcissistic trauma bonding to their victims on any platform 😬 Also there is not much information on the various types of "narcissistic supply" like the "best supply" (Primary Supply) versus narcissistic supply on a lower scale and how they are being treated by the narcissist 🌸 Thank you for your great video's! It is informative and always easy to understand ✨️
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Narcissists are not trauma bonded to you. They see you as a tool to get sex, services and supply. You do not get trauma bonded to your fridge that gives you food if it breaks down you buy a new one without second thought. Narcissists are the same. They do not care about you ar all. You only matter as long as you serve a purpose for them.
I definitely had been fake discarded before. One day out of the blue (on the phone) he just said, “I don’t want to be married anymore.” Of course I already felt that he changed toward me. So basically he already started to devalue me for about a couple months. I was shocked, but I agreed for a divorce. Guess what he said? He said, “You sound fine, & I am a mess here!” What?! You were the one who wanted a divorce. Of course at that time I knew nothing about narcissists. Then I said, “What do you expect me to do? I’m not going to beg & cry for you to stay. If you don’t want to be with me anymore, then I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me.” Guess what, about 10 minutes later he changed his mind. What a piece of sh!t a$$hole! Excuse my language 😁. We’re divorced now after I found out that he’d been cheating on me, stealing from me, using me for money & much more. Good riddance!
There is no place for me in a narcissistic relationship cycle - Thats is and ALL!!!
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Lee you so right..PERIOD
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I think your book is an awesome idea and I will be ordering a copy for my fighter and i❤
Been going back and forth with mine for 8 years now . I leave him he slithers back and the cycle continues. I just want off the ride . .
you might as well get rich off of his fake breakups. make him pay and make it expensive everytime he slithers back.
He used to do this to me allll the time like every two days. Happy I’m done!!!
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What your are saying happened to me he left called me on the phone to talk to me right That was 3yrs ago NO TALK.
All the time he "didn't know" what he wanted but didn't want to lose me. Begged me to not go no contact after the breakup (I don't need to be friends after a breakup). Then when I found out he had a gf for 8months of our two years (so he was talking to her longer so he was searching and talking to her before they started dating so it was longer)... Then he completely discarded me after telling my friends I was a "crazy maniac trying to ruin his life!" thats why he did it.
However I mentioned us breaking up so many times and he talked me out of it or said things to keep me lingering or holding on. I did say I'm done many of times as well, but didn't do it to see him beg or care, but because I felt like he just didn't even like me.
Exactly what Halle bailey is going through and ddg is doing to her. It's sad to see it played out in anyone's life, but she is influencing millions, which is just heartbreaking. Im a 3 relationship narcissist thriver. I see it, and so many people dont. Jesus allowed me to keep my mind somehow, and im grateful that i allowed him to heal what was broken. To me, it's about control, too. Bc they hurt you, and then when they act as if they want you again its like a relief, but actually an emotional rollercoaster that they control. Yall be blessed stay prayed up❤🙏🏽✨️
He refuses to say i did give 100% to our relationship. He refuses to say theres anything i do good. He says i have no future w him. Ive accepted it. My body my choice now. No means no.
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Thank you for everything ❤
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TRUTH!!! ❤ 🕊 ⚜ 🕯ThankYou N MuchLove
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This is soo accurate.... Thank you for your videos....We r healing and putting an end to this crap 2025
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Mine kept doing it and a few weeks ago I emotionally shut down didn’t open back up to the relationship. That’s just too much for me. I don’t have time for that. It’s mental/emotional abuse 🤦🏾♀️. One way I knew he was a narcissist as well as the other signs.
I have been with a couple narcissist sociopaths in my time. I’m going through a discard and silent treatment right no, I have always been very giving empathetic patience for the most part and loving I’ve been taken advantage of and abused with no care, but he is putting myself through as my family and has left me completely traumatized and I’m now seeing a therapist, I just don’t understand how that could intentionally cause so much. Someone who has been nothing but good
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I hate ur going through this but its temporary. You will get TIED. I mean it in the most kindest way when I say Choose You! Narcs work for the devil. Its always them them them. Nothing and no one else matters.
2025, the year of the rant bubble! Here for it!
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Omg 💯 I'm dealing with this right now it's so true
I refused to take back the last guy who pulled a fake breakup. He waited until I got home then did over messenger then tried to say that it never happened!
Mine moved out came back and told me she thought I would take her more seriously. As much as it hurts me I just went no contact
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its the face for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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My narcissistic man told me to weekends his car was broke down ,no calls no texts,so I told be man and say it's over,he didn't respond so I blocked he no contact
Forv6 months,I saw in Walmart he was mad and didn't speak so I didn't say nothing ,act like I didn't know him.
I like your videos man, great job. Thanks for the help.
You’re welcome
Missed this needed this.
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everything he saying is 100% true
I try
Wow. I never heard of such a thing. Sounds like high school shenanigans; I would have no patience for that nonsense and end it for real. You will not be wasting my time.✌🏽
My narcissist tried the fake disgard with me. I dropped him like a hot rock. I wasn't aware of no contact. However, when I'm done I cut you off at the knees. I blocked him in every possible way. That was almost four years ago. He tried to contact, using various means but to no avail. I haven't gotten any calls from unknown numbers in a while now.
Narc have no reasoning,love, respect etc,run don't walk❤
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