I think about narc-ex daily four years after divorce. 😢. Not missing him but thinking about what he did to me, how was I such a fool, why didn’t I leave sooner….
@@naledismith3726 because you loved that person and you weren’t in it to leave but the opposite. You knew what made sense and you did what needed to be done to give yourself another chance. It would have been real bad if you stayed
It gets better. The longer we maintain NO CONTACT. The easier our healing gets. It's not an easy road but it sure is possible to fully heal and get over the toxicity. We all deserve better. Stay strong and Jah bless❤.
It could be because of a trauma bond and having an anxious attachment style. I encourage you to learn the lesson and find spiritual awakening so you have the best life moving forward.
@@humilitybeforehonorsmk2311 the amount of time I spend thinking about him is reducing over the years and the intensity of the emotions associated with the thoughts keeps going down
You are not the only person with those thoughts. Free yourself now. When you knew better, you did better. He chose to wear a mask that he wanted you to see. It's one of the reasons you didn't see the signs. It's also one of the reasons those close to you don't see what you are going through with him. The masks never last forever. When you see the truth, it's freeing....
As this point I just watch this for comedy and Lees reactions😩😂😂 yall get free and leave these people alone . They are chronically afflicted. Move on so you can have a chance at joy in this life . Stay safe and blessed everyone ✨
This is so true,it actually real creepy. That part is apart of their disorder. They keep body count mentally. Listen, this is why some or all will wait 10,20,or even 30 years to come back to hoover!!! REAL TALK!!!!
I blocked him everywhere even though he left me. Some of the best advice you gave was "don't shop for pain" and go no contact! Thank you for the help in my healing. ❤
The comment directly above yours sounds like the other side of your story.😂😂😂 He starts off saying she blocked him everywhere. It made this a hilarious read.❤
After being screamed at, being called a Bitch, being told they “don’t give a fu(k about me”, and being blocked.…. I highly doubt he’s thinking about me (all because I walked away). If so, it’s that he’s thinking how much he hates me. I almost married this man. lol.
They're very small internally, for him to say that to you meant you probably meant quite a lot to him. They're like a toddler that throws their favourite toys around. It gets worse the closer you are to them, you definitely meant something
All time best channel on the subject of narcissism bar none!! Why go anywhere else? He’s a diagnosed narcissist. He opens up and tells y’all what really happens in the mind of a narcissist. Narcissists all run out of the same game plan, they all run the same plays. Listen to the Defensive Coordinator. 😂
I raised 75k and Claudia Ann Brandon is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Claudia A Brandon is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note!:: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!
She ghosted me, blocked on all platforms. Doubt she is thinking of me at all, ain’t no way to punish me further than that. I’ve made zero attempts to reach out. NO CONTACT sentiment is mutual.
Thank goodness my ex doesn't use SM, but he goes to the same bar & grill (that we started to go through together) so I do I see him randomly. I know he hates how anything he does, does not even phase me. He even walked in one night, stroked my ponytail from behind so I would see him, went outside and him & his friend came back in with "dates". I proceeded on with my night as if he wasn't even there, with a smile on my face & I know it ate away at his ego. Then the next time I saw him I think he expected me to say something about it and all I did was wave back and smiled. He will never steal my joy!
I was with my husband 14 years and we have a 9 year old and a 5-year-old and we separated in September and he moved in with his co-worker and her kids before Halloween he has totally ghosts like he doesn't have kids or a wife as if we didn't even exist😢❤️🩹👿‼️
@melissamarie4629 it's like as if we didn't even exist literally no phone calls no spending time with them was there every day of their life to ask they don't even exist I didn't know this type of evil exists 💔❤️🩹👿
Great video! Mine said that to me that he been told me that I deserve better than him! I filed for divorce last month and waiting for everything to be finalized.
It’s extremely hard because they will love bomb you.. literally come in figuring out a way to get out. Married or not.. once they are ready to disgard you.. you’re literally the one left heartbroken
This is so sad. I know have a much better understanding of a narcissist. My ex-lover is a narcissist. She discarded me by hitting me. She has not contacted me, and I’m glad that God discarded her from my life. I pray that I never see her again. She put my life in jeopardy. As of now, I’m learning to love myself, and to heal.
Thank you for this video!!! The way you explained this brought so much clarity to my situation!!!! My ex Narc’s final words to me at my 2nd and last discard because I made it final was “ I will always love you, I’ll never forget you “… this video was a real oh wow moment !I didn’t realize you are a Cancer ♋️!!!! So am I ! July 19🩷♋️🦀 Please share the link to where you found your shirt!
@ exactly!!! I’ve issued the final discard and I’m in no contact even though we work together. He abandoned me the day after my miscarriage and surgery and went back to his back burner supply ex… I’m done
Lucky all of you. When I realized he was a N. I made the desition of brake up with him and so I did, however I can't stop missing him and thinking about him 😢. This is hard for some of us 😮💨
I am super disciplined about not looking at my Xs social media. The narc will never ever have a way to mess up my life again. That smear campaign gonna stay in the hood with the narcissist.
Mine took my vehicle from me and he drives it to his new supplies house and his ex wife’s house. I can see it in the vehicle app. I was shocked, but I believe he did it to try to get a response out of me. They can have him, this gal is DONE!
@@demetrybarnette3798 I was fortunate to get my vehicle back because he never changed the name and I sold it he's trying to order things with my credit and everything to destroy me after being gone for months
He posted him on a island with his new supply on whats app and never post on there!!!! He knows I'm on there. This vid is spot on lol away on his bday w new supply trying to get me to get sad lol🎉🎉🎉
Its rather we always think about them.When they just " cut off" relationship after many years marriage and dissappear not giving you clousure and explanation.
Ikr maybe he is too…but it hurts because we are. I wish I wasn’t. It’s hard when u had no closure. No real answers. Getting answers only means opening that door again. My best friend encourages leaving him, yes, but also says don’t drive yourself crazy, just meet up with him for answers. But I know him, I won’t get the answers I want. He will still deny what he did, how he acted, answers to where he was at certain times. I’ll only get lies so what is the point. No closure with these people -not the kind u are capable of. Sadly the only “closure” is to walk away, hopefully with your sanity in tact!! You’ll be a bit broken ❤️🩹 💔 tho because it was a LOT….
@tinajeppesen5948 yes you're right. The saddest part about narcissistic relationship Is exactly what you've said. Leaving without saying nice words. I hate saying goodbye to people but I know I have to. I have to face the hurt in order to made justice for the good that I've experienced. When I tried to stop the situationship with him, he always came back After a while, like nothing happened. And all the time I wasn't able to be a bitch, to slam the door on his face, but I hug him and be physical in the end. So the cycle restarted again. I know that this mess it'll be over when he decided to don't come back. Without a word 😢
"my" ex narcissist just called and left a voicemail this morning as he was leaving his new supplys house, after spending the night with her. Told me he misses me and can't stop thinking about me 😆 He wants to explain to me because it's not what I think it is. Blah blah blah blah She told me he's over there every night. Im actually curious as to what he would even say at this point.❤
👏👏👏 My toxic ex would remind me ALL the time... "you broke my heart bc u wouldn't take me back...." take him back after he kept cheating on me... and of course, it was "my fault" he cheated 🤦♀️ claims he had ro get off social media bc he "couldn't take seeing me happy without him" 😅
My narc ex searched always for the perfect therapists who just fell so much for his boy charm and charisma. I was just the stupid one -that is something I really have to struggle with . Searching help and not finding it. I am now more and more putting puzzle pieces together.
I totally agree with this. He started following me on Tik Tok and yesterday he had 2 new posts, one calling his guitar his baby and one was him playing guitar. For my benefit? Anyway I removed him.
I find it a little hard to believe but that’s because I’m still recovering 8 months after his discard. He left me for a younger girl that I knew and tried to befriend. That lasted a couple of months maybe and now he’s in a relationship with a very intelligent and kind lady (we met recently as the ex and I have a child). He seems to be happy with how fast they are moving. I’m struggling a little what with Christmas and everything as he celebrated with his new partner, my eldest son (his stepson) and our youngest child. Rubbing my nose in how much he “looks” to be living his best life. His new partner is lovely, she’s also a psychologist so I know he’ll be manipulating her to make himself look great. Will be interesting to see how far they go. Still hurts though.
@5usiewongs489 omg we have a similar story. You'll be ok just try to find ways to make your life happy. We were still having relations and were talking. After I cut all ties after being told I was fat, stupid ugly, a loser, and he hated me. He went and married someone he met on hinge after only being with her for 6 months. She seems lovely and happy to have him. I doubt he treats her like he did me, at least not yet. The last thing he told me was he wanted me to commit suicide. He will never introduce me to his wife because I have receipts. He even told me he would stop being a father to our daughter if I exposed our messages. After he said that, I knew exactly who he was. Don't spend your time thinking about how good he is to someone else. Remember who he was to you 💯
Amongst Other Things, One Main Reason I Left My Ex-Narc Is Because He Had Secret Kids And He Didn’t Take Care Of Them. I Dam Sure Can’t Be With A Man That Dont Take Care Of His Children. Absolutely Not
My ex is a master at posting on social media to upset me and his baby mamas etc. He even changes his Facebook status to engaged or married then back to single. 😅
I’m pretty sure he’s not thinking good of me. We were married 31 yrs. I kicked him out a lil over a year ago, put him in jail, filed for divorce AND I get court ordered alimony monthly. I also have a criminal protection order against him for 3 yrs.
Taking a loan out for the purposes of paying for a lawyer yeah just to get rid of them. Damn straight I paid for it. Run run, run as fast as you can and never look back
My narcissist just bought me a very expensive gift...a new ring. He wants it to feel like a reward for making it to 10 years, but it feels more like an anchor. I told him that having something like that makes me uncomfortable. He said "I don't care. It's what I want and I wanna show you off"...
Mines dont know that you can see who sees your fb stories. He looks at every single one. So I just sit back and enjoy the show. I used to put 1 or 2 a day. Now I put like 20. Lol
Yo Lee! Although it's our responsibility to switch what you're saying to "she" instead of "he", it would be refreshing to hear you address covert FEMALE narcissist, unless it's not the same and you don't know about them. Love your content though! You're the first person I heard talk about NPD! Because of your channel, I started my research on NPD! Be blessed sir!
Blocked and never ever never ever want to hear or see the devil again. I miss nothin about a demon! Show me once, I’ll never go back! 4 yrs clean and Happy! #BeAdviced
Hi Tren, I was away for a while working on some health stuff. I changed my Gmail profile name. I don't want to tell u my old profile publicly😮 Anyway, I'm right with everything u said in this video!! I have missed your videos! It's great to be back in your energy Lil bro. Happy belated birthday 🎉 Also showing up for myself every day with the self & self care, cleansing & detoxification & learning to love life with a clear & sober mind......pleasant surprise. I enjoy life even more. Anyway, thank you for what you do! Much love!! Oh, Oregano is good for getting rid of & prevention of parasites, so are pumpkin seeds which are delicious & black Celtic(spelling ?)salt, which is great for electrolytes & staying hydrated. Love & Light! Take excellent care of yourself
Mine has asked for money twice, asked for help moving stuff, but refuses to get their stuff out of my house, and hasn't paid one shared bill during the divorce.
I met and married the narcissist, i obviously didn’t know who he was. Id made a really good friend at work soon after and we thought it would be nice to get out together with our husbands, booked a meal. On all of us meeting and sitting down my friend kept looking at my husband and suggesting she knew him from somewhere- a little later suddenly she suggested had he been dancing in some club, “he had”. It sparked a lightbulb in her and she mentioned this womans name, yes he knew her. Then she leaned across the table and said if I remember right you rather like wedding cake, he laughed- I as far as i was concerned was wife 2. It must of been 6 months later police turned up looking for him, he was arrested for suspected bigamy!!! I was still legally married to him though, this was in the past, i happened to be wife 7, thats the 7th legal, god knows how many where in between Never again
I’d bet a dime to a dozen that fool would be shocked that I am not watching! Let him live his life in fear of my ‘reaction’. He’s Blocked on every level!
My ex narc had me block for the last two years of our relationship. All of a sudden, I’m unblocked and he has a highlight of his rebound… I didn’t click on it, I’m blocking him now because “why do you care if I see your new life weirdo”
My ex narc, was asking me for money, always was the victim to everything in life, but the moment i was done with him, he was done having anything to do with our children, literally told me to drop child support, and he will sign his rights away, smh, we are better off nc
Mine doesn't post anything. I've been no contact since October. He still texts every week. He just found out he's been blocked since October. And he's sent a few messages thru FB messenger 🙄 Of course I am not responding.
He keeps me isolated on the weekends while his supposedly working I can't stand that once I get in a vehicle I'm going to do me like his doing him he told me that sounds like a open relationship I told him I'm going to do me like going to do my eyebrows or do my nails stuff like that
2 previous divorces then a 10 yr relationship then me. The last one reached out to me to warn me. I wish I would have listened 2 years later getting a divorce. Same shit different wife
What if you’re separated from husband and he is yet to admit to the affair but hardly speaks to you . Would confronting him face to face prob be worthless right
Ive noticed recently my ex dint post anything probably scared that some of his suppliers will find out about what he did or doing to them smh just sad tslking about hes a private person yeah right
He does him for other attentions his with other women I'm not with other men at all but if that's the case I will start going to church I will be surrounded with people that loves me as my brothers a sisters at church
Bruh... he is literally trying to have me arrested. I'm being investigating by a detective because he is convinced I'm always watching him. I'm literally not. I'm minding my own business.
I think about narc-ex daily four years after divorce. 😢. Not missing him but thinking about what he did to me, how was I such a fool, why didn’t I leave sooner….
@@naledismith3726 because you loved that person and you weren’t in it to leave but the opposite. You knew what made sense and you did what needed to be done to give yourself another chance. It would have been real bad if you stayed
It gets better. The longer we maintain NO CONTACT. The easier our healing gets. It's not an easy road but it sure is possible to fully heal and get over the toxicity. We all deserve better. Stay strong and Jah bless❤.
It could be because of a trauma bond and having an anxious attachment style. I encourage you to learn the lesson and find spiritual awakening so you have the best life moving forward.
@@humilitybeforehonorsmk2311 the amount of time I spend thinking about him is reducing over the years and the intensity of the emotions associated with the thoughts keeps going down
You are not the only person with those thoughts. Free yourself now. When you knew better, you did better. He chose to wear a mask that he wanted you to see. It's one of the reasons you didn't see the signs. It's also one of the reasons those close to you don't see what you are going through with him. The masks never last forever. When you see the truth, it's freeing....
As this point I just watch this for comedy and Lees reactions😩😂😂 yall get free and leave these people alone . They are chronically afflicted. Move on so you can have a chance at joy in this life . Stay safe and blessed everyone ✨
lol Thank you 🙏
Yep. They have personality disorders so unless they are self aware and really want help, it's gonna take an act of God.
Me too 😂
When you tell a narcissist NO be prepared to feel the wrath of demonic rage! ❤
‼️‼️ absolutely
💯🎯‼️Cannot stress this enough‼️
Yes exactly. They antagonize in the hopes that you'll reach out to them directly so they can trap you in further abuse.
Yep. My dad did this. Went after my car, my childhood belongings, and even brought up cutting me out of the will. It didn't work.
@@thepaintedpoppies1010 I'm glad you ignored him and didn't let him dim your sparkle.
This is so true,it actually real creepy. That part is apart of their disorder. They keep body count mentally. Listen, this is why some or all will wait 10,20,or even 30 years to come back to hoover!!! REAL TALK!!!!
Have to protect your peace
@MentalHealness yessssss true, also your mind and ❤️!
So so true
“Body count” 😂😂 so accurate!!
I blocked him everywhere even though he left me. Some of the best advice you gave was "don't shop for pain" and go no contact! Thank you for the help in my healing. ❤
The comment directly above yours sounds like the other side of your story.😂😂😂 He starts off saying she blocked him everywhere. It made this a hilarious read.❤
After being screamed at, being called a Bitch, being told they “don’t give a fu(k about me”, and being blocked.…. I highly doubt he’s thinking about me (all because I walked away). If so, it’s that he’s thinking how much he hates me. I almost married this man. lol.
So glad you didn’t !!!! ❤
@ me too!
They're very small internally, for him to say that to you meant you probably meant quite a lot to him. They're like a toddler that throws their favourite toys around. It gets worse the closer you are to them, you definitely meant something
Thank God you didn't
Thank God u didn't!
All time best channel on the subject of narcissism bar none!! Why go anywhere else? He’s a diagnosed narcissist. He opens up and tells y’all what really happens in the mind of a narcissist. Narcissists all run out of the same game plan, they all run the same plays. Listen to the Defensive Coordinator. 😂
lol 😆 I Appreciate it
I'm glad you made this video it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $34k monthly and a good daughter full of love ❤️❤️
I'm feeling really motivated.
Could you share some details about the bi-weekly topic you brought up?
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She ghosted me, blocked on all platforms. Doubt she is thinking of me at all, ain’t no way to punish me further than that. I’ve made zero attempts to reach out. NO CONTACT sentiment is mutual.
I agree. He discarded me. Why would he be thinking about me? When they dump you, they are saying it's OVER and that means they chose to move on.
Thank you so much for helping all of us understand NPD.
You’re welcome
Thank goodness my ex doesn't use SM, but he goes to the same bar & grill (that we started to go through together) so I do I see him randomly. I know he hates how anything he does, does not even phase me. He even walked in one night, stroked my ponytail from behind so I would see him, went outside and him & his friend came back in with "dates". I proceeded on with my night as if he wasn't even there, with a smile on my face & I know it ate away at his ego. Then the next time I saw him I think he expected me to say something about it and all I did was wave back and smiled. He will never steal my joy!
I was with my husband 14 years and we have a 9 year old and a 5-year-old and we separated in September and he moved in with his co-worker and her kids before Halloween he has totally ghosts like he doesn't have kids or a wife as if we didn't even exist😢❤️🩹👿‼️
@@ladyredd6857 exactly what I’m going through. We have a 10 year old and has completely ghosted him. It’s so sad.
@melissamarie4629 it's like as if we didn't even exist literally no phone calls no spending time with them was there every day of their life to ask they don't even exist I didn't know this type of evil exists 💔❤️🩹👿
Unfortunately he'll be back and not in a good way
That’s wrong, I’m sorry that happened to you and your children
@CreationsByRachelfacts
Great video! Mine said that to me that he been told me that I deserve better than him! I filed for divorce last month and waiting for everything to be finalized.
It’s extremely hard because they will love bomb you.. literally come in figuring out a way to get out. Married or not.. once they are ready to disgard you.. you’re literally the one left heartbroken
@@DaPostUp and the kids he ghosted his kids like they not here I have to get them counseling 💔👿
Just keep no contact no matter what. It makes him crazy.
Stay safe
Or her
This is so sad. I know have a much better understanding of a narcissist. My ex-lover is a narcissist. She discarded me by hitting me. She has not contacted me, and I’m glad that God discarded her from my life. I pray that I never see her again. She put my life in jeopardy. As of now, I’m learning to love myself, and to heal.
Yes, my narcissistic family members are always talking about me, making up terrible lies about me and spreading these lies everywhere. 😏😠🤢
7:49 - 8:10 That’s a bold and diabolical 🥷🏿🥷🏿🥷🏿 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I blocked the last narc I dealt so if he's thinking about me, it's none of my business
hahahaah right but it could be a friend or mom making it harder to just don't care anymore...
Thank you for this video!!! The way you explained this brought so much clarity to my situation!!!! My ex Narc’s final words to me at my 2nd and last discard because I made it final was “ I will always love you, I’ll never forget you “… this video was a real oh wow moment !I didn’t realize you are a Cancer ♋️!!!! So am I ! July 19🩷♋️🦀 Please share the link to where you found your shirt!
Yep. Mine has said the same thing. If they love you then they should have done it in the first place. Just manipulation.
@ exactly!!! I’ve issued the final discard and I’m in no contact even though we work together. He abandoned me the day after my miscarriage and surgery and went back to his back burner supply ex… I’m done
My feelings stopped Automatically Stop when I realized I was doing with a narcissist🚩🙏🏽🙏🏽
Like you my feelings stopped immediately.
same here
Lucky all of you. When I realized he was a N. I made the desition of brake up with him and so I did, however I can't stop missing him and thinking about him 😢. This is hard for some of us 😮💨
I am super disciplined about not looking at my Xs social media. The narc will never ever have a way to mess up my life again. That smear campaign gonna stay in the hood with the narcissist.
Mine took my vehicle from me and he drives it to his new supplies house and his ex wife’s house. I can see it in the vehicle app. I was shocked, but I believe he did it to try to get a response out of me. They can have him, this gal is DONE!
@@demetrybarnette3798 I was fortunate to get my vehicle back because he never changed the name and I sold it he's trying to order things with my credit and everything to destroy me after being gone for months
7:46 HE REQUESTED MONEY sounds 💯 on point lol
Oh man
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@@Monstersrreel I blocked my cashapp, PayPal and chime for this very reason!!! They will use it to cheat, bypass, no contact all in one swoop!!!
😂
Look kid, you’re wise. Those of us that deal in brutal reality daily, sometimes longing for the delusion, for a bit, is enticing. That’s the hard
Stalkers😂😂
😂
💯 😂
Mine was too lazy to stalk me himself so he sent his mate to keep his eye on me for him instead (flying monkey) lolol
He posted him on a island with his new supply on whats app and never post on there!!!! He knows I'm on there. This vid is spot on lol away on his bday w new supply trying to get me to get sad lol🎉🎉🎉
They dont know that we know what they're trying to do and not falling for the trap. Its funny. They're looking stupid
@sharonmickel3949 your 100 % right. Ty! 💜
Its rather we always think about them.When they just " cut off" relationship after many years marriage and dissappear not giving you clousure and explanation.
Yep! They will treat you so bad and threaten you with divorce but you’ll end up filing
Yep
Exactly
Happy New Year Lee. Thank you for everything you do to educate us and help. ❤
When does this behavior stop ? My ex is 60 years old. It's so bizarre.
They get worse!!
The cashapp tactic real af mine did that everytime i blocked. Stalking and cyber stalking
They don't have the capacity so stop expecting you from them...when someone shows you themselves believe it, true colors never lie
Happy New Year Lee!!! 🎉❤
Happy new year!!
No it is me that I think about him almost 24/24 😢
Stay safe
Me too. I wish I could stop. One thing for sure... ITS OVER!
Ikr maybe he is too…but it hurts because we are. I wish I wasn’t. It’s hard when u had no closure. No real answers. Getting answers only means opening that door again. My best friend encourages leaving him, yes, but also says don’t drive yourself crazy, just meet up with him for answers. But I know him, I won’t get the answers I want. He will still deny what he did, how he acted, answers to where he was at certain times. I’ll only get lies so what is the point. No closure with these people -not the kind u are capable of. Sadly the only “closure” is to walk away, hopefully with your sanity in tact!! You’ll be a bit broken ❤️🩹 💔 tho because it was a LOT….
@tinajeppesen5948 yes you're right. The saddest part about narcissistic relationship Is exactly what you've said. Leaving without saying nice words.
I hate saying goodbye to people but I know I have to. I have to face the hurt in order to made justice for the good that I've experienced.
When I tried to stop the situationship with him, he always came back After a while, like nothing happened. And all the time I wasn't able to be a bitch, to slam the door on his face, but I hug him and be physical in the end. So the cycle restarted again. I know that this mess it'll be over when he decided to don't come back. Without a word 😢
Thanks!
You bet!
"my" ex narcissist just called and left a voicemail this morning as he was leaving his new supplys house, after spending the night with her. Told me he misses me and can't stop thinking about me 😆
He wants to explain to me because it's not what I think it is. Blah blah blah blah
She told me he's over there every night.
Im actually curious as to what he would even say at this point.❤
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My toxic ex would remind me ALL the time... "you broke my heart bc u wouldn't take me back...." take him back after he kept cheating on me... and of course, it was "my fault" he cheated 🤦♀️ claims he had ro get off social media bc he "couldn't take seeing me happy without him" 😅
I feel like they don't because my narc is obsessed with all his exes
That means he’s thinking about them
My narc ex searched always for the perfect therapists who just fell so much for his boy charm and charisma. I was just the stupid one -that is something I really have to struggle with . Searching help and not finding it. I am now more and more putting puzzle pieces together.
This talk is "FIRE"!
Pretty much everything I would never do he would
what a wild experience this can be
The next time they text me randomly, I will just send them this channel.
Not the regular light skinned run of the mill😂😅....I literally laughed out loud...coworkers looked at me crazy....😅
I have a Gemini narcissist. What fun
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@@terrispencer2026 mine was a Gemini to don't feel bad. That explains the split personality LOL. By the way Lee nothing towards you.
He's no narc he's just Gemini. I am, and i'm fun and dead serious as well. I feel good this way.
Oh my!!
Had one of both too....🤪
Education time, with a comical twist. I’m 51 and never knew that I was married to a narcissist.
I totally agree with this. He started following me on Tik Tok and yesterday he had 2 new posts, one calling his guitar his baby and one was him playing guitar. For my benefit? Anyway I removed him.
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Thnx 4 This!!!Wish I cud subscribe over & over again 💯
I appreciate that!
Omg. Thank you sooooo much!
We were engaged. Found out i would have been wife 8. But he was engaged 11 times total. So glad dodged that bullet.
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I find it a little hard to believe but that’s because I’m still recovering 8 months after his discard. He left me for a younger girl that I knew and tried to befriend. That lasted a couple of months maybe and now he’s in a relationship with a very intelligent and kind lady (we met recently as the ex and I have a child). He seems to be happy with how fast they are moving. I’m struggling a little what with Christmas and everything as he celebrated with his new partner, my eldest son (his stepson) and our youngest child. Rubbing my nose in how much he “looks” to be living his best life. His new partner is lovely, she’s also a psychologist so I know he’ll be manipulating her to make himself look great. Will be interesting to see how far they go. Still hurts though.
@5usiewongs489 omg we have a similar story. You'll be ok just try to find ways to make your life happy. We were still having relations and were talking. After I cut all ties after being told I was fat, stupid ugly, a loser, and he hated me. He went and married someone he met on hinge after only being with her for 6 months. She seems lovely and happy to have him. I doubt he treats her like he did me, at least not yet. The last thing he told me was he wanted me to commit suicide. He will never introduce me to his wife because I have receipts. He even told me he would stop being a father to our daughter if I exposed our messages. After he said that, I knew exactly who he was. Don't spend your time thinking about how good he is to someone else. Remember who he was to you 💯
Amongst Other Things, One Main Reason I Left My Ex-Narc Is Because He Had Secret Kids And He Didn’t Take Care Of Them. I Dam Sure Can’t Be With A Man That Dont Take Care Of His Children. Absolutely Not
😂😂you spend a lot of time with your kids. The cartoon references are on point every time!
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My ex is a master at posting on social media to upset me and his baby mamas etc. He even changes his Facebook status to engaged or married then back to single. 😅
NARC NARC who's there❤❤
Survivor Survivor who ha NO CONTACT 😂😂😂😂
I’m pretty sure he’s not thinking good of me. We were married 31 yrs. I kicked him out a lil over a year ago, put him in jail, filed for divorce AND I get court ordered alimony monthly. I also have a criminal protection order against him for 3 yrs.
Good for you girl taking back your peace
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Ha! This video just came on after someone told me exactly is posting me after a year after we broke up.
Stay empowered
Taking a loan out for the purposes of paying for a lawyer yeah just to get rid of them. Damn straight I paid for it. Run run, run as fast as you can and never look back
My narcissist just bought me a very expensive gift...a new ring. He wants it to feel like a reward for making it to 10 years, but it feels more like an anchor. I told him that having something like that makes me uncomfortable. He said "I don't care. It's what I want and I wanna show you off"...
He did the same brought me a ring its all game! He going ask for it back watch how he move we been together for 15 years he got down on one nee
They are so Evil. Thanks for sharing.
you’re welcome
Not jumped off a building and landed on it 😂😂😂
Hahahahhahaha and kept bouncing
Mines dont know that you can see who sees your fb stories. He looks at every single one. So I just sit back and enjoy the show. I used to put 1 or 2 a day. Now I put like 20. Lol
You cannot see who looks at your Facebook pages
@juliecarson7364 you can see who looks at your "stories". Yes
@sharonmickel3949 Please accept my apology. I was thinking you said pages.
@juliecarson7364 oh ok. You're good. Thx! 🙂
"..those eyes though, his pretty eyes got me to drop my panties..."😂😂😂
He kills me haha
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.... crazy work.
Spinaroni💀💀💀Lee you is hilarious 😂
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Yo Lee! Although it's our responsibility to switch what you're saying to "she" instead of "he", it would be refreshing to hear you address covert FEMALE narcissist, unless it's not the same and you don't know about them. Love your content though! You're the first person I heard talk about NPD! Because of your channel, I started my research on NPD! Be blessed sir!
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Lee, would you consider doing a video on whether or not a narcissist knows they are a narcissist or not?
Blocked and never ever never ever want to hear or see the devil again. I miss nothin about a demon! Show me once, I’ll never go back! 4 yrs clean and Happy! #BeAdviced
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Someone is wasting their time living their life for me to watch. I looked at his mug for over a decade. I’m good, lol.
lol lol
Hi Tren, I was away for a while working on some health stuff. I changed my Gmail profile name. I don't want to tell u my old profile publicly😮 Anyway, I'm right with everything u said in this video!! I have missed your videos! It's great to be back in your energy Lil bro. Happy belated birthday 🎉 Also showing up for myself every day with the self & self care, cleansing & detoxification & learning to love life with a clear & sober mind......pleasant surprise. I enjoy life even more. Anyway, thank you for what you do! Much love!! Oh, Oregano is good for getting rid of & prevention of parasites, so are pumpkin seeds which are delicious & black Celtic(spelling ?)salt, which is great for electrolytes & staying hydrated. Love & Light! Take excellent care of yourself
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My narc is engaged. He never seemed to commit with me so I’m pretty sure he’s not thinking of me!
You’d be surprised
Mine has asked for money twice, asked for help moving stuff, but refuses to get their stuff out of my house, and hasn't paid one shared bill during the divorce.
I met and married the narcissist, i obviously didn’t know who he was. Id made a really good friend at work soon after and we thought it would be nice to get out together with our husbands, booked a meal. On all of us meeting and sitting down my friend kept looking at my husband and suggesting she knew him from somewhere- a little later suddenly she suggested had he been dancing in some club, “he had”. It sparked a lightbulb in her and she mentioned this womans name, yes he knew her. Then she leaned across the table and said if I remember right you rather like wedding cake, he laughed- I as far as i was concerned was wife 2. It must of been 6 months later police turned up looking for him, he was arrested for suspected bigamy!!! I was still legally married to him though, this was in the past, i happened to be wife 7, thats the 7th legal, god knows how many where in between Never again
I’d bet a dime to a dozen that fool would be shocked that I am not watching! Let him live his life in fear of my ‘reaction’. He’s Blocked on every level!
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Truth
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My ex narc had me block for the last two years of our relationship. All of a sudden, I’m unblocked and he has a highlight of his rebound… I didn’t click on it, I’m blocking him now because “why do you care if I see your new life weirdo”
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My ex narc, was asking me for money, always was the victim to everything in life, but the moment i was done with him, he was done having anything to do with our children, literally told me to drop child support, and he will sign his rights away, smh, we are better off nc
Mine doesn't post anything. I've been no contact since October. He still texts every week. He just found out he's been blocked since October. And he's sent a few messages thru FB messenger 🙄 Of course I am not responding.
Hehehehe... I remember him sending me 1$ via cash app when I went no contact... 😆😆😆 I posted the ''Gangster Party Line 2 (extended cut) ''video.
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Good thought or bad its probably true. That I will pop up in his mind. But still far away from me and my kids ❤😊
Protect your peace
For decades whew chile move around the whole world is out there.
Hold on. I'm just starting to listen and I'm sort of flabbergasted thinking about us or thinking about who they imagine we are?
You basically train them how to be a better manipulator for the next new supply😂😂.
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If he's thinking about me he needs to think again 😂😂😂. No no no.
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“Did a Spinarooni.”🤣
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He keeps me isolated on the weekends while his supposedly working I can't stand that once I get in a vehicle I'm going to do me like his doing him he told me that sounds like a open relationship I told him I'm going to do me like going to do my eyebrows or do my nails stuff like that
oh man
2 previous divorces then a 10 yr relationship then me. The last one reached out to me to warn me. I wish I would have listened 2 years later getting a divorce. Same shit different wife
What if you’re separated from husband and he is yet to admit to the affair but hardly speaks to you . Would confronting him face to face prob be worthless right
You deserve better.
Ive noticed recently my ex dint post anything probably scared that some of his suppliers will find out about what he did or doing to them smh just sad tslking about hes a private person yeah right
He does him for other attentions his with other women I'm not with other men at all but if that's the case I will start going to church I will be surrounded with people that loves me as my brothers a sisters at church
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Mine isn't on social media
Will he forget me if we never slept together but we were friends for years.
Even if they were the one who discarded you?
Bruh... he is literally trying to have me arrested. I'm being investigating by a detective because he is convinced I'm always watching him. I'm literally not. I'm minding my own business.
Wow
Not a spin-arooni😂😂
Sitting! 💀💀💀
Thank you
She blocked me and left me and went no contact I hardly doubt she misses me we were together for 2 years 😞
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