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great vid man, just suscribed
Daniel subscribed to my channel. Daniel is great. Be like Daniel.
@@alexandergrace5350 I subscribed to you before Daniel. Therefore does that make me more Daniel than Daniel himself?🤔
@@imfineimokay3434 yes yes it does for all of us.
@@venetiancopper6032 maybe the real Daniel was inside of us all along
@@imfineimokay3434 I agree with that statement
This makes sense to me as a woman, I am thankful that I had lots of acne and braces as a teenage girl, meaning that I seldom got this attention. It now makes sense to me why the groups of hot girls seemed to have similar personalities that I didn’t like, even when they were friendly and wanted to include me. I think being a late bloomer in terms of looks is a blessing in disguise, especially for women!
Being a late bloomer is an advantage. There are some women that don't seem to develop toxic personalities too thou. Being grateful for everything all the time in a persons personality is, I think, a great characteristic in both men and women to help eliminate the kind of personality Alexander is speaking on.
Your positivity is proof that your personality has been well-developed
Nothing lasts forever in a God forsaken town, the kids are smokin' soon as they can walk across the ground, they all meet up at midnight takin' rides into the well, and dancin' while the devil taps his dirty fingernail.
Indeed. Lots of perks in being a late bloomer. It allowed you to develop other aspects. We see that in teen boys that are small and play sports. They need to develop all their skill sets and if they grow taller and strong, they still have the same mindset and skill developing habits, while boys that were much bigger sooner tend to plateau out quickly. It's more mental than physical.
Beautiful input.
I had a relationship with a beautiful woman in her late 40's... who had the emotional maturity of a 16 year old. This video really hit the mark for me.
I know! its kinda sad really.
It's interesting that you got so many likes for your post since the majority of men on this channel don't believe women can look human after their 40th birthday, let alone beautiful! The moment they hit 30 they look elderly apparently. 😄
Seriousky though I am sorry to hear about your bad experience with the lady in question though. But not all women are like this, that I can assure you. 😇🌹 x
@@Georgia.J At a point in my life I liked dating older attractive women. They had hit the wall, more humble and super easy. I also had to take a hard look at myself and realize that I hadn’t achieved anything and was looking for the easy way, a women past the wall. Times are different now, but yes in those experiences I found that even those easy older women often acted like teenagers emotionally and it was kinda why many of them were still single and available to begin with.
@@Georgia.J No of course women can be very beautiful in the age of 50, but the difference between 40 and 50 is really huge in the eye of a man. Because I can see the person and know their real age I think I can have an opinion about it. No of course, men don't get better too, the body fat is growing.... .
But there will be always a border for this women, you can easily see for the actresses. No one wanna be with Angelina Jolie now, only after 10 years past her vast success. If I see in her face I can see her unbound teenage anger in her face.
But actresses like Cate Blanchett or Toni Collette has still attraction for me.
Of course this have major psychological effect on the women, and it 's not good. But it' s not good too, if young boys are steadily said "you are worthless"
@@Georgia.J what are you even talking about. I've had experiences such as his as well. It doesn't mean, that all women are the same. You didn't get the message.
This kinda reminds me of a UK TV show called "the island" with Bear Grylls. Season 1, only men. They did great and feminists complained about no women. So Season 2, they did 2 islands, 1 men, 1 women. The men were about to launch a space station by the end of week 1. They thrived.
The women were about to starve by the end of w1. They complained, they whined. They sent out an expeditionary group to look around who promptly got lost for 4 days and almost died and did not meet their mission objectives. One woman faked being ill so she could go back to base, sleep in a hotel, get fed and go back.
So because the women were such a failure they brought the men over to help them and they promptly got mad at the hypergamy. Lol. The episodes are every other men then women. Its on UA-cam. The comments are gold.
Those are some facts my man . Got me 💀 when you said about the space station
Started season 2.
The girls struggle is horrendous to watch.
@@1943vermork horrendos, yet entertaining. I won't tell you how it ends, but the men were not happy.
Which season and/or episode was the part with hypergamy?
@@jamesrussell2936 watch season 2. Every other episode is man woman. You really have to see the set up to drive home how bad it is at the end.
"Men's attraction to women is not very sophisticated"... how true, how true!
Thats goes both ways. But women pick, men gets chosen. Except the really good looking boys as said
@@snyggmikael I think you're correct.
@@snyggmikael Historically it was the opposite.
@@TechnoMinarchist Living in the past isn't gonna let you escape from the fact that things have changed now. Basically the table has flipped. So stop bringing up medieval age bullshit to argue because history is, well,history. It's gone. Talk about the present now
@THAT GUY society is going down the drain
My theory is people stop maturing when they find acceptance from their tribe. It just so happens that males and females are judged differently and what men are judged on generally occurs much later in life. Hence why ur high school quarterback tends to become an underachiever if he doesn't go pro because he was socially accepted and popular very early in life. Basically u mature and grow only out of necessity.
@akrinah Which explains why most people are so nihilistic in recent times because life has generally become too easy and lackluster. There's no obvious threats or immediate danger.
@@MrGordozzzz I can relate because that's how I did the vast majority of my development. Introspection is critical for development.
@@MrGordozzzz The first step to solve any problem is to first acknowledge there is a problem. It's also wonderful when elderly people of experience share those experience with younger people to help them avoid making the same mistakes and save them time of exploring dead ends. Your contribution is appreciated 🙏🏾
@@MrGordozzzz Regardless of what the young people think, you should still speak up and who wants to listen will and who don't won't. However those who accept ur teachings will become better and some aspects of u will technically live on through them.
Excellent theory. This is why people who receive free money from welfare or the VA or inheritance aren’t likely to grow. It’s like a permanent umbilical cord. Dwarfing their growth.
When that type of women hit the 30's and not married it comes the phrase "Where have all the good men go"
But that's not our business, not anymore 😏
@@Teglamen well said
@@carlosemiralonso7997 She might have all the money in the world but she is never gonna look 23 again, and a high quality guy is never gonna pick her over a 20 something woman, both because of her looks and because he will notice her mindset
@@carlosemiralonso7997 but simps are not the "good men" they are missing
Shame tactics
"Their looks fade and become bitter of the world"
In other words, they become Karens
Damn. Breakthrough moment. Does hitting wall start a process whereby the subject metamorphoses into a Karen? Interesting...
@@krinoman Only if she was previously attractive. If she wasn't then hitting the wall doesn't make them a Karen.
pls no ethnoracial bullying
This isn't true. Well not from my perspective at least. I'm 30 and still get fair amount of attention from men but obviously not as much as 18( when looking back ,I was very lucky but worried about so much. WHY!!😃)
But the last thing is I am is bitter. And I know the reason is because I'm in a committed relationship with a man ten years my senior. I only care if he finds me attractive and what his opinion is. So I won't suddenly become a "Karen" when I start to age properly because I will feel loved and supported by the man I love.
BUT if, my man and I fell out of love or he left me at say age 45 I wouldn't feel just bitter but heartbroken 😢😢, feel I had wasted my whole life on a man who ultimately left me. Then I can see women getting bitter and possibly becoming Karen's although the stereotyping of the terrifying Karen is ever evolving!
To summarise I think single women who have been unceremoniously dumped by the man they loved or who have been single most of their life may turn bitter when middle aged for this reason, not for losing their looks. That doesn't help obviously but heartbreak would definately make women have a harsher view of men in general if their man started to date a lady ten years younger than them rather than just getting less male attention.
Men place too much importance on the 'Wall'.
Women care about one man's love and loyalty more than fleeting lustful glances. I'm sure if a lady loses the man she adores in middle age this causes the bitterness u speak of, not the wall.
I hope this doesn't happen to me but like every lady, I have to take the chance. 😇
Karens are actually women who call them Karen
You just perfectly described my ex-girlfriend and why I left her. I even told her exactly this: You never developed your personality because there never was a need to. She agreed years later.
They always find the truth when it too late.
Exactly the stuff I told my ex
my daughter has been amazingly pretty since she was a toddler. I never once told her she is pretty. But I complimented all her efforts to learn and grow. We homeschooled so she would have a good balance in life. She is super successful in the medical field with her own practice at 30. I use to teach school in the public schools and it was amazing how entitled the pretty girls were. They did poorly in my classes because I didn't cut them any breaks.
You are a good parent.
And a good teacher.
This reminda me of a reddit post or comment I read once. She was an adult talking about how everyone is always telling her niece that she's pretty or her hair looks nice etc. She said in contrast she would always compliment her niece on what she was doing like if she was drawing something or doing something creative, and that this led to positive interactions and her being encouraged in her efforts. She said she ended up being her favourite aunt and her niece would always be excited to telling her about her achievements and things she was working on.
@@ogbmt I think deep down we all would rather have encouragement and praise for our character vs. our outward appearance. Thanks for posting that. It was nice to read
@@puppyupper4565meaning we would actually prefer that we are understood or seen as a person or who we really are instead of our superficial outward appearance
@@eiffno.01 Amen
Most women don’t mature past 16.. they just get older!
thats what they say about men, i translate a saying i know from germany: you should not infer others from yourself
Fortunately for us, most, not all :D
@@justsomeguywitharedeyes3472 Yeah exactly
Yup, some of them just grow old biologically.
@FoxIslanderSteve reaally? I've honestly never thought about that
As a female, it is thoroughly illuminating to get the opportunity to see my gender from an intelligent perspective on the other side. Thank you for this important anthropological and evolutionary work. ♡
True , It's better to hear another's person unbiased perspective. No need to listen to those misogynistic or woman praising dudes as neither of them will give an insightful point of view because they have distorted perception of the world.
Especially if they went to parties and drank a lot in their teenage years
Yup
Those girls start to look like triple H by 30
@@theoneandonly6811 hahahaahaha triple h wtf
and walk like him too
@@theoneandonly6811 muscular, fit, and can gather an audience?
You know what I never understood.
These teenage girls dressing in revealing tight clothes and wearing makeup call the guys who do look at them weirdo's /Creeps /pedos, when they know exactly what sort of attention they will be getting from people around them.
Looking at what you wanted us to look at
And imagining what you wanted us to imagine
dont wear reveaving clothere if you are tht shy of revealing anything
They don't want attention from ugly men....no good looking man has ever been called a creep.
Like another commentor said, these reactions are for those they deem unattractive. If the man is attractive and/or is of high status, they'll let it slide.
It's not the act itself, just who does it.
@@maxpaynegk 'it not the act itself just who does it' l like this one
i really like how you mentioned the important part with the parents. i “developed” my beauty when i were about 15/16, and i noticed that I began to fall for it. i got almost all my self esteem from male attention. but my dad reminded me everyday that that’s not worth anything and other things are way more important, so i kept developing my personality. i don’t want to sound arrogant but I’d say i’m quite attractive but my personality and brain is way more important to me, and especially the way i make people around me feel, like my boyfriend. I’m 19 now and i’d always choose personality over looks for myself, it’s the only way to really be fulfilled and happy.
Good dad.
Dad on point, give the man a high five for me
Yea sorry but keep telling yourself that. You still pick the tall handsome guy over the shorter beta male with a big heart.
@@snyggmikael i don’t wanna be offensive but comments like these just sound so bitter. i can proudly say that my bf has the one of the biggest hearts i ever got to know and some men out there just need to start believing that not all women are shallow. this just doesn’t make sense. and i think guys like you should either just accept the situation and stop complaining and keep looking for a good woman or learn to play the game better instead of hating the players. sorry but that’s just the truth
The way this young lady is developing is a prime example of why kids NEED to have both parents present and active in their lives! Her intellectual and personal growth probably would not have happened in a single parent enviroment. Little girls need a father figure just as much a little boys do!
Also, when an attractive woman finally decides to settle down with a man, which is out of his league, it’s usually indicative of the female settling for complacency where she won’t have to proactively maintain her appearance as she previously did, while she was still active in the dating market.
Of course there are outliers that don’t fall within the majority, but most don’t strive to sustain themselves the same way unless their partner is proactively striving to improve themselves during the longevity of the relationship as well.
Pretty gf then ugly wife
Nailed it. 100%
It’s a TRAP.
if you're not improve you're recessing.
Women these days never marry until their value on the meat-market is taking a nosedive...
I noticed that when i came back to school after 2 years away. All my male friends had heavily change, exactly as i did, but my female «friends » didn’t change at all (we were all around 20), and even now, at 24, we male are still growing up and maturing but women don’t
Internally they wont change but after a few years of no serious relationships they will become better in creating a perfect 2nd personality which is used to appear like a wifey material when they find their target/victim.
A damsel in distress does not need to know anything
She just needs to attract the attention of a man who does
But often men's continual need to save a woman
Creates a nation of helpless women
Who do not need to learn anything for themselves
Once they hit their 40s there a burden on society
Beauty standards at their finest.
Its a mans world
Nice poem there
My mom is 67 she can Cook the best. She learned me Cook, do laundry and other stuff. But when the sink is leaking there was no man that learned her how to fix that. My dad didnt allowed that. Its strange that in my opinion man are more grown up at later stage in life
@@lunaticmickfulYour father didnt allow your mother to fix things. That has nothing to do with her maturity.
I wish I had seen these videos 20 years ago...
A beautiful teenage girl quickly "discovers" that her beauty is all she needs to feel good about herself, so she never bother to develop anything else. Of course there are exceptions--plenty of beautiful girls accomplish things other than walking around looking good--but the principle holds.
Simps while watching this video: "la la la la la Can't hear you!!"
Also simps watching: "simpin ain't easy man"
I’ve actually found being an “ugly duckling” during my teen years has been a blessing in disguise.
Those that have been attractive their whole lives don’t have to deal with experiences that generally help build character.
You’re beautiful
Yes that’s so true. Then you learn to respect yourself take care of yourself. I’m a 57 year old who loves life And have self respect
@@ismailhamza4721 thank you - you’re too kind 🥰
@@openyoureyes1481 of course - I agree ☺️
So true. That goes for both sexes.
“Girls mature faster than boys!”
Everything has its price.
At my early teen years, I was told girls mature faster than boys.....
It was the opposite lol..... coz I couldn't stand girls of my age... had to talk to the ones in their late teens to feel relaxed and in tune with them.
They dont mature faster in there minds only in there buddies. Most girls are at there physical peak at 18 to 23 therefore there minds dont tend to mature past this point. When they hit the wall there minds/personality start to mature further out of necessity because there tits dont tuch there chin anymore when they run. This is why older women can often be wise and funny etc. Men can have wisdom humor intelligence etc at a younger age because THEY HAD TO DEVELOP THOSE THINGS
Heh, in that case, the price might be that they stop maturing faster than boys, too.
People say this because girls tend to talk about what they supposedly want in later life at a younger age than boys. Of course this has nothing to do with maturity.
I remember being about 19 or 20 years old I had a very close "friend with benefits" in her 30's. Extremely beautiful woman! Literally beyond a 10! Off the scale!
I asked her once how old she was when she realized she was sitting on a gold mine. She answered me without hesitation, "12 years old".
I'm 40 now and I still believe she was telling the absolute truth!
That's creepy af, how did you react when she said that?
@@MarcoFAlfaro I think its just a realization women reach immediately going into puberty, its not necessarily creepy once you factor in biology. Women develop faster because they don't have to pack on more muscle mass or experience as broad of a hormonal change as men, which is why you see many guys mistake some 14 year olds for being 18, some 21 year olds for being 16, etc. For many girls, just looking at their face and body without any makeup, until they hit age 26-27ish, are very hard to place. Also factor in the new thoughts, feelings, and desires we all start to have at 12-13 and that women are more social than men, and it just makes sense.
@@junkaccount2535This already happens to very young girls. I was 7 when I was playing at the schoolyard when 2 men tried to lure me in their car with the story that they had candies and puppies. At age 11 in the swimmingpool my friend and me had a german man following us saying he wanted to play with us. In the end we had to call the police.
The implications of this theory are mind-blowing.
This is reality not theory
Thank you for confirming, what I concluded a few weeks ago... at the age of 50!
In my experience these beautiful women act like spoiled toddlers, when their wishes concerning having (manipulating) a man are denied. They think that they can get every man and play with him, treat him like a soulless second hand object and still be wanted so badly by these hungry men. I'm a very sensitive man and have always refused to play their little (spoiled) children's games. The result: they became very angry with me!
Right now im 15, and i really enjoy your channel. Its been really hard having to learn that as someone who is both a man, and no longer a child, i do not have inherent value. Your videos have been helping with that. And its also made me realize that i dont necessarily desire a relationship, now or in the future. I dont gain happiness from women in today's society. I really love the channel man, just subbed.
Hopefully you change your mind about a relationship in the future. Put yourself in social circles where you have access to high quality women
"A man has to prove himself. A woman only has to breathe, and some of them, not even that for some men..."
Paul Elam.
that's so creepy wtf why would you quote that
@@ig5651 Just because it is creepy, should we hide the truth?
@@cantoprak7428 LOL
being alone 19 years has made me developed emotionally a lot since i have never been popular or anything like that so when people know me for the first the see i always chill and careless i learned to being careless.
Same here
You are a young version of Jordan Peterson. I wish more people had that mindset. Pure intelligence (rational and emotional). Cheers.
Don't ever compare this true-minded young man to Jordan "intellectual pressure valve" Fakerson.
@@nunnoffyubehznass2150 That's what i'm talking about. You may agree or not with any of them, but their ideas are deeply thought-out. I myself went my own way, but i understand women have their own sources of suffering. That shouldn't be underestimated.
@@Cowardsfate Alexander's ideas are well and deeply thought-out. Peterfuck's ideas are cultural marxism coated with a thin layer of pseudorationality.
@@nunnoffyubehznass2150 lmao relax
They’re both very knowledgeable in their fields and both respectable. Good point.
“ Every beautiful woman is a tragedy. “ - Carl Jung
Is that really a quote from Jung? Damn, the more videos I see about female psychology the more I want to avoid them. Seems like the vast majority are hopeless
This is a paraphrase, and a mediocre one at that. The actual quote is "A particularly beautiful woman is a source of terror. As a rule, a beautiful woman is a terrible disappointment."
@@garrettbean9624 Do you know which of his works that quote is based on? I'm currently reading frederic nietzsche meditations. Actually I forget about the Google overlords and I'm pretty sure I just wanted to flex nietzsche.
@@isaiahexile It's why the Chaotic is always described as Feminine in ancient myth.
This male approval thing is a two edged sword. I remember hearing from a female friend about the day at the mall that all eyes went first to her 14 year old daughter instead of herself - a shock to both of them. And I have seen situations where an adult female dressed in an outfit that a high school girl could use effectively but looked awkward on the older women and thought to myself "she misses the attention and is trying to get it back", kind of sad in a way. Getting a lot of male attention at a young age has another negative effect for really good looking females - they can easily pass up good potential mates because they feel they deserve better. If they are not careful they can end up alone and suddenly without the male attention. They may then "settle" for "less than they deserve" which is not good for the relationship or they end up alone because they hold on to their unrealistic expectations.
U can't say anything about women online in apps , without men and women calling u sexist or something
Realtalk!
depends on what and how you say it. don't assume you have perfect communication skills
If you are respectfull then it is less likely to happen. I suggest you look at how and what you say to people. Maybe you dont notice that youre not respectfull. If you treat people the way you want to be treated its less likely that people will call you s.exi.st. In the end everybody just wants basic respect.
In my experience, most women have an emotional age of about 11.
@@skatetrooper5285 big cities are cesspools of degeneracy. It is not a coincidence that they vote overwhelmingly left-wing. Women in big cities have too many options, work in offices with air conditioning away from real life, think their vegan gluten-free food grows spontaneously in the grocery store and are certain that big daddy government will always come to their rescue and force men to pay for their crap.
Robert gave us 29 songs. It was enough.
Don't you mean IQ?
I completely agree.
Dude; that was a brilliant concept, made a lot of sense.
I think the adult women also treat the pretty girls differently too
This is one of your best and most insightful videos. Your points are very humbling.
The beautiful women I dated had thousands of followers and hundreds of likes on fb & IG but in real life they had no real friendships or close relationships with there family. I couldn’t understand it. Until realizing that there followers were all strangers. There personalities were so underdeveloped, selfish, immature and Narcissistic that all they had were there beauty. Shallow people and simps validated them on the internet but in real life there awful personalities pushed everyone away including me. I would see how rude and nasty they were to waitresses, other women, people at registers because they held no value to her.
Once she realizes what she can get from her beauty she doesn’t develop herself or her personality, it’s like shes sitting back on auto drive waiting for men and people to give everything to her like it’s expected until reality sits in when she hits the wall.
^^^ This
Their
100/100. И это так же относится и к мужчинам.
Thank you, Alexander Grace!
This finally explains why some of the most well-rounded and attractive women that I’ve met have been late-bloomer types.
This is a brilliant discussion. You had all the points very well.
I will say that the same phenomenon happens with boys who are great athletes. When boys get praised excessively for only their athletic ability, for example, in Little League baseball, or junior high school football or basketball, they begin to lose all interest in learning anything academic or developing good character because they think they will succeed only on the basis of their athletic ability.
Just wanna say that this is the first time I’ve looked at Mr. Grace’s Patreon page, and I’m glad I did. The jokes he puts on his tiers of patrons are hilarious!
wow you are the first one I encountered to explain beautiful woman's behaviour and their lack of maturity and why and how they ended like this. Great content
This is the most meaningful relationship/social related channel I found on youtube. Very explanatory. I wonder what is actually the source of all that Alexander's knowledge.
Good advice. Experience teaches harshly, but it teaches best. Pick as a keeper, a woman with a happy disposition, and who contributes to the relationship.
women have the control of relationships when they're younger, but the tables turn as men get older, they become the ones with power. it's simple when men are younger woman will always seek older men for stability, but men will always seek a younger woman if he's capable of getting one. this will lead woman often being single or having to fight more for a decent relationship.
i just wish other males didn't care about women as much as they do and live their life more.
Not really, there’s no “power” in attracting gold diggers, those old men will only end up getting hurt over and over again. I’m 20 but I’d never seek an older man over a younger one. I think it’s sad to waste your youth on old people, imo the most beautiful thing in life is to grow old with the right person and start a family early so that you can be young parents. A woman and a man who are confident in themselves won’t play these silly power games, those games are for the bitter souls that are still stuck in the past
The most important and very best is this video amongst Alexander's works. Congrat and thanks for it.
This is one of those videos that made me feel grateful im a man, if people just lined up to validate me in my youth i would have never been driven to attain the hieghts ive obtained and am still chasing now.
Stay away from the "pretty" ones. They are the ones who put false charges on you, emotionally abuse you and are bad moms. Just like the song said, "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife." I made that mistake and now my life is in the loo!
TRUTH! been in relationship with 3 smokin hot girls... their reasoning and logic are very weird
eventually beauty alone doesnt work in a relationship
nowadays i go for hot girls just for mingling, no string attached relationship
Could you describe their reasoning?
Could you teach me how you get with these hot women?
@@positive_vibes_2427 usually they have deep issues that shines through. when youre experienced you know what youre dealing with. you just use that as your advantage press the right buttons there you go. be prepared for weeks/months of mind-fuckery. if youre the player type you just have your fun and never get too involved and get out safely. if not prayers are out king
Yup. My ex was both insane and completely irrational unless she was listening to me or her uncle.
"That attention never extends to adult women"
Ever heard of Jeremy meeks?
That dude got one good hand and played it well. He knocked up some billionaire's daughter.
@@watamutha I thought he was with a sugar momma(widower)
So um.....I thought this was gonna tell me when girls stop getting taller
Yup, those days of bathing in the clear waters of innocence, only to be bombarded with a bunch of BS.
@@Angel-dp9sl women stop growing about the age of 14, hene why women are much shorter.
@@Angel-dp9sl If it has removed the veil of innocence from you, that implies the points he raised were truthful enough to distort what you consider reality. Doesn't sound like "bs" to me then, maybe you're just in denial.
this video made feel good, only thing gives me validation is providing to the society in a good way. It gives me a sense of protection that I won't go down a wrong path.
I've been thinking/seeing this for years now.
The most attractive woman I ever saw irl and tried dating was mentally around 16 I'd say. Of course she cheated on her bf and has a baby out of a broken relationship, also decided to not stay at Uni and educate herself. Now I can't believe I actually was desperate to be with her, but she was so amazingly beautiful I was thinking with my trouser snake and not my brain.
Never take a single mother seriously for a relationship. They are just for fun. And do NOT "accidentally" get one pregnant.
I have to admit
young me: i like a girl with 7/10 looks and above.
adult me : **** it! she can 2/10 look, I want 6+ personality!!!
@@TheJackOfAllTrades777 it's all about substance over Style although a good blend of both doesn't hurt it's all about finding a good medium that works for you as an individual
Why not have both
I wont settle for anything less than both
@@Smc-gm2nx that's crazy rare. even if you find one, she's 100% taken.
a key to a happy life is to lower expectations and enjoy what you have.
@@TheJackOfAllTrades777 true, but 99.99% aren’t worth being with
Thank you so much for posting this Alexander.
One of my best friends ( and if I’m being honest, one of my worst crushes) is an absolutely stunning woman. She’s bright in many ways, and fun, and physically gorgeous STILL (even though she’s in her early 40’s). Yet she is an awful wife and girlfriend. I’ve watched her choose the worst men, into the triple digits over the last 20+ years. She’s burning her candle at both ends. She has nothing to offer men except sex. It’s sort of eye opening.
Australian Jordan Peterson
I think he is even better because he is already at a similar level at his young age.
Don't get me wrong, he's good, but JP is at another level.
Alexander understands women, but JP understands the meaning of life.
Instead of 'eh?' he says 'Crikey!'
Well.... Not really. Don't want to put down Alex, but nobody is like Jordan Petrson.
So he's australian?
I see this at work a lot. Older women in their 40s who clearly would have been very attractive to men in their youth. Devoid of any personality, soul or intrinsic value. No clue on how to talk to people or form real connections. It's very sad. And what's worse is that these days because of social engineering like feminism a woman doesn't even have to be attractive anymore to get the "pretty girl treatment."
Yes, I used to rely on the "looks fade" argument, but it also has to be said that good genetics are passed down to future generations and in some sense, looks last forever.
For a few years I actually dated but was unable to marry one of those extraordinary women who are extremely beautiful and at the same time extremely sophisticated, well read, moral, of unimpeachable character. She was slightly vain, but only slightly. You can't imagine how great it was just to be in her presence. She was the great one that got away. She eventually married a failed novelist, a really nice guy of humble attainments, who I knew slightly. I haven't seen them in nearly twenty years. Women like these are very, very rare.
i know of one, shes about 23/24, very rare
Why did you let her go?
@@Toxic2T lol you read that as he "let" her? Lol
@@marcusinfinity9386 My bad lol, I didn't assume he was a beta.
@@Toxic2T Some things changed in our relationship that I should have picked up on, but didn't because I had little experience with dating. She was famous enough with the Manhattan crowd that she published her auto-biography. I was covered in 7 pages and a photo. Said a lot of nice things about me.
I don't treat women to differently then I do men. No need to tell her she's beautiful unless she says you're handsome. Just respect everyone who deserves it.
exactly!!...they already know they're pretty no need to tell her again, just treat and talk to women no different than a man ..it will hopefully humble them
"Most women START to mature at 45"- Cronicles of Judah
This excuses the attractive woman for having the mindset of a 13-year-old. While it is clear that humans tend to take advantage of whatever comes easiest to them, it is society that needs ensure it is not abused. As I have maintained, *the failure is in how we temper men’s advantage of, say, superior strength (and so we should), but actually make it “OK” for women to rely on solely on theirs (namely, youthful beauty) --- to the point that they have NO RESPECT for men.* The media has become so “empowered” by f3m2n1sm that there is active promotion to abuse that power (e.g. look up the hip-hop tune “WAP”).
This systemic condoning of women abusing their power needs to stop. It is no different than promoting conspicuous wealth and arrogance. Should we merely recognize that it is not the fault of the spoiled rich children to act as snobs… or should we actively discourage this type of haughtiness? Recognizing the weakness of humans is not enough. We need to fix society.
I think what Alex said is true in this video
But I want to argue against "common knowledge" that less attractive girls have "good personalities", obviously good people, men or women have to put in the work.
Unfortunately, more frequently - bitterness and blame - comes from the less attractive women towards the more attractive, than a desire to develop characteristics which are attractive to quality men.
Women want a good man until they find out that they have to be a good woman for him.
Special treatment from a young age and power over men through attraction will corrupt any character.
Yep. All those cute little girls who already know how to wrap their fathers around their little finger will be the next generation of vain airheads
Looks get worse with age but skill is the opposite.
Thanks for confirming something I’ve been thinking of for a couple weeks, you really are a great creator
What's really sad is you can tell women this over and over again, but they wont believe you until their looks fade and they experience it first hand.
It makes a lot of sense. I don't believe anyone ever stops being a kid (we just learn how to behave better), but I believe anyone can see women certainly get stuck in a lower level of maturity. But for me the main fault is because the way our society encourages us to treat and raise women. We stopped raising women a long time ago, now they are just overfitted teenagers.
Your explanation of a woman's nature is very informative to young men of contemporary culture we live in. This is a huge help for them. Wish I had this information in my teen years. 👍
I learn so much about female nature and psychology from your videos.
Your material is VALUABLE
Keep in mind there are women who seem to have very good character until they somehow manage to improve their appearance. I met a girl who was interested in me until she started wearing tight dresses, then she wasn't so interested in talking to me after that. My guess, she thought she deserved better looking guys, better guys than me. Her personality started to change when her appearance started to change.
So no Alex, a person's personality is not _dependable_ or _set in stone_ and can change just like the rest of their body and character.
The best women I have ever met were the ones that had suffered some form of abuse or found themselves in some terrible social situation and were able to recover from it and learn from those very painful experiences. In my experience, the women who have it easy are the worst women...
They pretty much all have it easy in Western countries. Safety nets and laws to catapult them above men.
"Women who have it easy are the worst women."
True, but it also applies to men. Think about the term "trust fund babies". Those born into money and always had it easy are terrible people.
Even in terms of a generation. The baby-boomers grew up in the most prosperous time and they are the most horrendous people.
@@sleazybtd that's absurd. all generations are basically the same. most people are sociopaths.
@@prioris55555 You need to open your eyes. Also stop looking at everything in absolute black and white. There are good people and bad people in every generation, but if you look carefully, the boomer generation have significantly more sociopaths and toxic people than any other generation.
@@sleazybtd likely due to larger population age group but the ratios won't change.
i was born in mid 50s. The level of mindless sheep in the population stays very steady. it's minimally at 80% or above. this stays constant on a global level.
most of the population are dominated by people with strong sociopath tendencies. the political structures are virtually 100% sociopaths. the US govt carried out 911 attack and mass murder. all 535 members of congress went along with the cover up.
when they announced that they would create a guantanamo bay torture, there was no outrage in the population or among the 500K politicians in US other than a little fake opposition.
you should look at the milgram experiments.
the covid containment and shutdown monumental fraud - all 535 members of congress went along with it
there is grey but you can see when things become more darker, it's all the same
most people have no problems living the lie. when people wake up, they are saddened to realize their own families are living in the matrix
For the women wachting, if someone tells you you're pretty/hot, don't let that get to your head! I struggled with arrogance/being mean because of it. I was way too young to know how to handle that much attention. It took me a long damn time to forgive myself for all the hurt I had caused people. You're not special. They're gonna tell this to the next woman your age when you are older. The higher you are up in the ladder the harder you'll fall.
Everyone gets tested differently in life. I had to forgive myself for the things I did not know back then and hated myself for a long period of time.
In college, I met a girl who checked all the boxes in terms of personality and character, but she was lacking in the looks department and I couldn't be physically attracted to her even though we had a matching personality.. Later she introduced me to her roommate, and boy she was a goddess glowing with glamour and beauty, but she had a very shitty personality that made it unpleasant for me to keep hanging with her. Even though I was drawn to her external appearance at first, it didn't reflect on her behavior.
I remember some months ago trying to explain to a friend the fact that a girl I liked looked too good and also had some other characteristics that made me very sceptical but something was missing from my explanation. Fortunately I trusted my instinct which has saved me many times. It is this video that expressed the thoughts I couldn't at that time.
18 years old single women = what you see is what you get
30 years old single women = 12 years time to create a perfect looking 2nd personality as a bait to catch high-value men and likely has done some plastic surgery as well. She keeps it secret until she marries.
God seriously this is so damn true!!
@@EastLondonRulez nice name
Women that lived a modest lifestyle in their teens/20’s still look very good in their early 30’s tho
Probably your best video as far as I am concerned. Well done. Fascinating and well argued.
I once read that “girls grow up and boys grow upwards” but I guess it’s quite the opposite
Your videos are so good, this is one of my favorites. They're really helping, thank you so much!
Its always said in a negative way " looks will fade" That isn't the point. Its true but no one cares if looks fade, until they fade. The point to make is about beauty. Beauty may fade in seconds; within a single moment, due to information, actions, words, understanding & perception! You find out a thing about a person & your perception of their beauty changes. To be extreme, say the sexiest model you ever met is in love with you, but you find out she's in a cannibal cult and eats humans. The way she looks doesn't physically change, but your perception of her looks perhaps would. This is important because the scale tips in both directions! No one says it using the right words-- Pretty looks can be ruined by ugly behavior. BUT, if you think some is kinda, alright looking, then you find out they are smart, sweet, kind, polite, wonderful, caring etc... It adds so much to their beauty! Its science. Your body will find a reason to think they are sexy, if they treat you properly. You will be like, "Oh she's/he's got sexy fingernails & elbows!" Lol. It can make a man/woman who's a 5, into a 10/11.. Shitty behavior, stupidity and poor treatment of others can, in turn, make a 10 into a 4 really quick. Its not what everyone else sees. Its what we see & experience individually: MY fav colour. MY fav roller-coaster. The most beautiful person I'VE ever seen. Beauty is not just looks. It can be the sound of a voice, the choice of a fragrance, the reaction to a reaction, etc.. We should close our eyes & give someone the chance to become more beautiful to us.. Listen, watch, wait & feel.. and finding someone you also think is cute, is wonderfully overwhelming. If you've never loved someone all the way through, you'd miss out. Being loved IS great, but not as great as getting to meet someone you truely get to LOVE all the way through, every part of their existence that you get to experience! That perhaps is what makes all hardship tolerable
I just came cross your videos and I'm binging on them. May God bless you for your honest and courageous work.
Old guy here. Love your content, but put away your moral indignation. My upper bound on dating is mid 20's. It has to be. I spent my youth achieving, and now that I have everything to offer a potential mate, I have to sift through the chaff to find a decent wife and have kids. That means she has to be attractive, with minimal emotional damage, able to pair bond, and full of fresh eggs with the lowest possible mutational load. That means youth matters. Don't hate. I didn't make the rules. Nature did.
How old are you?? Some younger girls like older guys. But majority like guys that are the same age as them or at most 5 years older. However, there’s always exceptions so idk.
This is so sad but explains so much.
"Looks fade, and they fade pretty quickly"
And when they do, you find someone younger and more attractive. How is it okay that we accept women for always wanting to trade up and only looking for height, abs, chin and money in a partner, however, when a man actually puts work to get youthful and beautiful partner, it's suddenly bad?
Ever heard of the words: hypocrisy and double standard? There you have it, everyone has those ingrained on their DNA code.
big age gaps are rarely healthy, especially if one person is not a developed adult...
Because hopefully you’re building a family.
I don’t get it, a lot of you are hurt by the fact that most girls are superficial gold diggers that are only after men for shallow reasons. And yet here you’re saying men should go for younger versions of these women and replace these Karen’s once they get old? Aren’t you just playing yourself? Feel free to correct me if I misinterpreted your comment
@@Winskl9010 Hypocrites aside, you mix two different groups of men together. Men with stick up their backside do, in fact, exist (and probably are still the majority), but their main delusion is that think they can still fix the situation.
Meanwhile I personally, and a lot of other men, talk from adaptation standpoint: "This is the game as it is, either play it as designed or don't play it at all".
Like it or not, hedonism is the end goal of today's dating game. The more men see it for what it is and change their strategy accordingly, the better off they'll be in life.
this advice is gold
If memory serves, Schopenhauer alluded to this too. Those dang nihilists were on to something
Schopenhauer is based and red pilled
@@IsaiahHarper11 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏼
Not a coincidence. I learned this years ago in my early 20s. A lot of very attractive women NEVER actually grow up. For a very simple reason: The World Never Requires It Of Them.
Because the possibility of sex is so compelling to many men, she will get validation an attention no matter what’s she’s like or how badly she behaves.
Try to set boundaries with her and expect her to behave like an adult. She can either use her beauty to manipulate others to pressure you into backing down ( weaponized victimhood) or just leave and find someone else who will fo what she wants or give her what she wants.
So you wind up with a Paulina Porizkova who is almost 60 years old, but still moves through the world like a high school mean girl. Such is the power of Pretty Privilege…until it’s gone.
Then what you have is a Karen. A middle-aged woman trying to hold onto her looks in vain. A woman who is immature, entitled, confused and nasty because she can’t understand why the world isn’t going out of its way to be nice to her anymore. 🤷🏾♂️
Huh, this actually makes a lot of sense. Great video as always Mr. Grace! I can relate this sort of thing to the general consensus that women allegedly don’t care for male “beauty” so much (so they say), yet big muscles are seen as attractive right? Because men are valued for their developments and not so much mostly unchangeable things like beauty. Correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s one of my takeaways from this video. That and that looks aren’t everything and can lead to childish actions and complacency in those actions.
Thank you so much! You've described Marilyn Monroe to a "T."
I own 3 cats and women have a lot in common with them!
I see the emotional maturity of almost all women at around age 10, sometimes able to not let emotions run wild, completely overtake them, but more often than not, utterly dominated by emotions.
This exlain the popularity the motivation to me. For young girls on instagram and tic toc for thier cringy behavior.
Wow, never thought about it in that way. Really like your videos and the way to explain things. Thanks for creating such a channel
This video reminds me of the myth of Narcissus. A man-child who is so beautiful that he falls in love with his own reflection projected back at him from everyone he meets. And Echo who is denied hers.
Great video! A analogy I made for this phenomenon is to imagine, as a young man at 20 you were just handed a free $1 million dollars for the year but were told that with each following year you would be given $100,000 less than the year before. And after it ran out about 10 years later, you would have to work very hard but couldnt expect to have much more than $50,000 a year. However there was a trick you could pull where the easiest way to get more free money before that deadline would be to desperately look for someone else that was willing to work really hard to take care of you and give you their money. --- This is what it must feel like to be a woman going thru the full emotional spectrum of their 20's.
Men have to earn their value; women are born with it.
Facts
Validation is a powerful drug. Addicts stop developing emotionally at the age when they started using drugs.
I found this video absolutely helpful and I cant believe this is a thing that impacts men I'm glad I wasnt the only one who deals with this Thank You Mr.Grace
I was widowed at age 58. After two years I thought I would try dating again. I thought I would find women in my age range to have a mature mindset similar to my own. Wrong! What I found were a majority of women ranging in age from 50 to 70 that seemed to act like teenage girls; not a single mature attitude among these single women. I'm not saying that all women are like that; I know many women around my age who don't act like immature brats, but those women are happily married. I cannot help but believe that my chances of finding a high value woman of my age range are fairly slim and would hinge upon my stumbling across a recent widow who had not yet been snatched up by another smart man.