WRONG ANSWER! How To Strip A Woman Of Her Power
Вставка
- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- Access Exclusive Content: / alexandergrace
List of All Exclusive Videos: / all-my-patreon-37241320
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Check Your Testosterone Levels Here: trylgc.com/alex...
Use this code to receive 20% off your order: ALEXANDER20
DISCLOSURE: I receive commissions on referrals to LetsGetChecked. Your purchases there financially support this channel.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
If you would like any advice or to ask me some questions and get a personalized video response, you can do so here: heyhero.com/in...
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Read my Review of 'Land of the Losers' - / land-of-losers-22113200
DISCLOSURE: I receive commissions on purchases of this book
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
PayPal donations: www.paypal.me/...
Bitcoin Address: 3Qa2VM9Anx1m3LRFLnnhiqXA4dH44HmFAN
Litecoin Address: MUmwMe9KLBupeU5VANXbG5fKQ1QsAqbrPdEthereum Address:0x676135BDa212Ee6d4eFe3AFB74fd3CFF7F185AdF
Ethereum Address:
0x676135BDa212Ee6d4eFe3AFB74fd3CFF7F185AdF
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"The only power a woman has or think she has is the power you let her have" - Patrice O'Neal
This is, in gran part, true for everyone towards everyone. At least at the mental level.
@@ShonHarito2 A king is not king because he possesses some innate kingly quality. He is king because people believe he possesses some innate kingly quality.
"Women's power is in your fear of whatever they're gonna do" - Patrice O'Neal
it's actually available with most things, not only woman... Unless they have a gun...
@@dana5757 Facts.
I realized this a long time ago, and it might explain why women choose the arrogant/bad boy attitude because they act unaffected by her looks.
Wouldn't be that another instance of "Why is he not like other men?"
@@TheMrFive ... Nailed it. 👍
Bad boys don't constantly tell a woman of how much he loves her.
@@nicholaslucas5183 that’s why you see memes of girls who complain with their boyfriends who don’t react to their story on social media / but other men do telling them they look beautiful. They are hungry for the validation of the guy they like who doesn’t give her any.
@Dan Swildens likes to rated? I dont get it.
“I bet you think I’m hot”
“Yeah, so?”
Too hot to touch🤣
"I bet you think I'm hot."
"Yeah, not bad, not bad."
“I bet you think I’m hot”
Of course and I was thinking of hitting on you until I saw what was wrote about you in the gents toilet. lol Can you imagine a womens face after a come back like that.
"Ahhh very perceptive of you"
" Why do you think I'm here then? Im not interested in being your friend, if you think so, tell me so I can leave then. "
"Do you want to kiss me?"
"I don't know where your mouth's been."
(Posted by Rick Pickell) I'll give you a hint. Her kiss tastes like other men.
@@wescottllc9522😂
"You're weird." Priceless.
I didn't quite get this, can someone elaborate to me why that is the appropriate response?
Ha, I don't know why I see this is kind of offensive if a guy replied me so.
I might also walk away when he's turning around and walk away a bit, then ignore him when he comes back.
Some kind of humour helps more to break the ice.
@@allenb415 It is weird and arrogant for someone to be fishing for validation of their looks like that. So calling her out on it is the appropriate response. Imagine if you went up to a women and said, "My big muscles make you want to sleep with me, don't they? You think I'm hot stuff, huh?" That would be a weird and arrogant thing to say to a woman. She would be right to respond, "Not with that weird attitude."
I don't feel like that reply would be that good. I get the point of the video but i feel this reply slightly tilts to the "denying her beauty or your desires" thing. Isn't there a better one?
My response
"Anndd........"
Her: Do you want to sleep with me?
Me: I'd prefer to be awake.
Yes
woke* xD
@@DamianSzajnowski **Bud Light has joined the chat**
@@The-Cat*Bud Light apologizes for joining chat*
@@Nezha_Main 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A humble offering for the algorithm
Instructions unclear, I told my mother she was hot now I’m pregnant
Ok I admit it I don't understand what this means.
@@nicholaslucas5183 me neither, what does it mean ?
@@psylee8687 it's some kind of a childish joke, just have a laugh and move on
*sweet home alabama plays softly in the background*
@@Nick-nv1mk *in slow motion* 😂😂😂😂
"A high quality man has standards for what he puts into his body."
Yes. And he also has standards for what he puts into her body. ^^
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
*he also has high standards for what he puts his body into.
Jonathan Ruland Only parts of his body, in this case 😉.
@@ElTheJono *he also high standards for what his body puts him into
What're you saying "Yes" for. Making weird sentences
I think a good response to "do you think I'm hot" or "you think I'm hot don't you" is some variation of "yeah I think you're hot, but I'm seeing if you're attractive."
even better is this one: "yeah you're not bad" or "yeah you look alright". women cant STAND indifference. they would rather you hate them then not care for them
"A high-quality man doesn't just gorge himself"
Me, eating a whole pizza on my own watching this video: Huh?
well then thats probably not who you are
@@interycreeper1152 Nah, I'm not a high quality man. I am content though.
@@Enjera_Hlm same dw
@@Enjera_Hlmjust because you said that leads me to believe you are high quality man, whats wrong with fast food from time to time?
Having pizza is high quality to me.
Why do women sleep with men without securing a commitment, then get upset the guy doesn't commit?
Makes no sense to me.
There are really caucasian Africans? Becuase I can't imagine one. (Asking politely)
That's because they are acting out of hypergamy, but lost in their feminine aspect of being committed.
@@unoreverseyourmom6119 white south africans ,zimbabweans, nambians etc?
For Women sex means committing. For a guy its caring and being there for each other.
Women are naturally nurturing and caring.
Men are naturally crude and crave sex.
These factors collide alot.
@@gentlebabarian Some women hate/Fear commitment, and I know of one at this very moment.... I also noticed a lot women are more masculine than the women 10 years ago, but that goes back into basic biology.
(Peace & Light)
I thought the answer would be “hide her make up”
Imagine if Corona somehow halted makeup production.
As in "I dunno, I never saw you without makeup" ?
I got a match on Tinder a few months ago and I used a pick up line on her, her reply was " You realise there's an unmatch option as well right??"
To that I replied "I tried that but it didn't work so I thought of asking for a date" she got so furious with that reply she was hell bent on belittling me with her subtle replies. I already rejected her the moment I read her first reply and my only motive after that was to only make her more upset and angry and to put her in her place xD
“Qualify”. Have 3 non-physical characteristics you look for in a woman. Directly evaluate a woman on these characteristics. If she has any of these characteristics, directly compliment her. If she lacks any of them, then carry on the conversation to a natural end and then talk to the next girl.
What three come to mind
@@goofyhouse4122 I think it's different for all of us... I believe that's for you to determine.. What do you value the most in a woman❓
@@Arcange93iam Yeah, I think so too. I have three specific qualities I look for, and I say those exact three words when a girl makes me feel that she has those qualities. They are extremely specific to the type of girls I like.
@Dan Swildens No, 6.
Agreed. I look for the Unicorn Trifecta = Agreeable, Accountable and Attractive. But, you only get to have two.
"i bet you wanna kiss me right now"
"....haha...Whats your credit score again"
This is spot on.
I'll flash back to January 2019 and a girl that started talking to me. I made it known from the beginning that all I wanted was friendship. That's it.
Phone calls and texts started. I was fine and there were no booty calls or anything.
About 2 months into it and she wanted to start getting serious. This is where Alexander's point is. I didn't want to and needed her less than she needed me. I had the power and stopped her cold.
Don't be needy. Be the man. I'm not saying dump your GF or fiance either just be the one in control.
Your bike man, it's absolutely beautiful.
Wish one day I'll buy my self s cool bike ad well
wow congratulations you put yourself in the friendzone, not sure why you're acting so proud of yourself
True that. For everything, not just women. Operate from strength. Know what you want, and know your walk away point.
@@mattzx003 I think you missed the point he was trying to make
@@afrodude4782
I saw through the point he was trying to make and explained what really happened and why it isn't impressive
If girl tell you: Do you want to kiss me? Answer: No, you want to kiss me. Always come fron place of strenght mates.
This is too much passive aggresive. I got better option for you, just answear her:
"Do you want to kiss me?"
"I dont know, we have to check"
You kiss her, you re not needy and you re fckin cool.
@@cookmeadrinkshow4814 If that goes wrong you're Fcked
@@buddybaldur768 u dont want a girl with whose things go wrong when you do things like that, tho, right ?
I feel like Annakin discovering the Dark Side
Soooo good 👍
Thank you
Edit: my future wife thanks you too
Alexander, this is so on point and absolutely true.
I wonder how many women actually watch your videos. it‘s nice to feel understood:)
Too difficult tell what you want to someone, huh!?
I really enjoy his videos as a woman too, this guy is very observant and makes very good observations. I'd actually really love to see videos aimed at women too, men are difficult to figure out.
I am a woman who just found this channel, and while I've only watched a few videos, he seems refreshingly aware and insightful. I'm happily married and have been for 15 years, but I have lots of cousins in their teens and twenties who discuss these topics.
If you say she's "hot". She may think of you as an option. But If you don't pay them any attention. First they get offended. Then they shame you. And finally- they question their validity.
The problem is when you first want to became a friend, you need time. And you dont have it, because within several months (if not earlier), she will be in relationship with someone faster. It happend with my GF (I was the one, who was fastest. And now we are happy together for 12 years).
As a middle eastern young woman, I find the topics on this channel pretty interesting because of the huge cultural differences sometimes I feel like you're giving the message to women, not men because our societies are still established on traditional gender roles and men being the more powerful ones in relationships and everything which is not considered negative here because it's associated with masculinity and part of being a man. and because the only form of relationship allowed here is marriage, men have much higher privilege in getting women no matter how old they are they just look for young pretty well-educated feminine women with good manners so even though it's sometimes unfair for women I still prefer it more than completely losing gender roles as a whole.
Actually a whole lot better than women who are insecure of their appearance using their bodies to attract men and insecure men who have been bombarded with messages of toxic masculinity who either try to constantly apologize to real women for their desires while using porn to satisfy their urges or actually becomes toxic and just go around sleeping with as many women as possible. The traditional societies have a system of matching partners that is not present in non traditional societies which creates a lot less resentful losers but does result in some sexual repression and limiting other freedoms.
I agree with that
Yomna Hossam what do u mean by your last statement ??
@@daniellamprouge5219 It means that I prefer our middle eastern social system more than the extreme western one
What country is that? It seems like many here would prefer having roles about relationships instead of guessing.
Sometimes personality or her actions make her ugly pretty fast and make one loose all interest... Maybe thats just me.
Not alone
It is not only you. I get attracted to someone super quick then i lose all my interests super quick.
You are not alone. Even if she would look like Riley Reid, when her true colors appear, I disappear.
No, its just not you.
@@jarrettreboton4661 she's not even beautiful, she's just kinda freaky in my opinion
Her: "You think I'm hot, don't you?"
Me: "You have Covid??"
What about: "One minute ago: yes, but now i'm not so sure about it".
Before internet, every man pursued 10 women at the same time, and every woman was pursued by 10 guys.
After internet, every man is pursuing 100 Women, and Every woman is pursued by 100 guys.
Think about It: you'll be luckier playing lottery than pursuing Women
no your statement is incorrect. it depends on social media activity. an average girl only persuis 5 guys for sex, but 200 for attention. there is no average guy for sex in their mind, he doesn't exist.
His point is about the saturation of competition.
@@jimmycampbell78 yes, alexander talked about it in his insstagram video a.few days ago. The balance is lost
Trying to find a decent girl online is nearly impossible, you can get far better in person, decent women have so many options IRL and each of them have a way higher chance than some random guy online she knows nothing about lol
All they do is charge they phone, eat hot chip and lie.
Everytime I've asked a girl what she has to offer besides her looks, they ignored me lol. I guess that means they have nothing else to offer.
I don't relate Alexander. I don't want to sleep with a girl just because I am physically attracted to her, and I definitely don't want to if she is open to it. That's not the girl I am looking for, it's not what I'm looking for. So when I say I don't want to sleep with a girl I am not putting on an act, you simply are not good enough for me or the timing is out of context for sex. Hot girls might be surprised that just because I am physically into them doesn't mean that they have any power over me, because you have to go a long way to prove to me that you are worthy of my choosing. It's easy to say no when you let your principles lead, and your desires will conform if it is infact part of your identity.
"Do you find me attractive?" Well, that depends on what you look like with your makeup off!
This does 2 things.
Instantly strips her of any power physically whatsoever and...
Plays on one of her biggest insecurities.
Hahah, and then she walks away, have you ever actually said this
@@WizardosBoz Course haha, who cares if she walks away.... just go onto the next.
You don't need to say it in a mean way, say it with a smile on your face.
Fake up.
until she’s still pretty without makeup
@@annaginnings2268 Then maybe just maybe is deserving of attention.
I treat every woman the same. I am polite and cordial, and I'm standoffish. Don't get too close to me, don't get too friendly with me, I am not interested in dating you. I am not interested in mating you, I am simply having a conversation. Or I'm doing what I'm doing, opening a door, standing there, or just simply minding my own business. Anything I do with a woman revolves mostly around polite interaction.
"Do you want to kiss me?"
"You could use a good kiss" - Han Solo
Some guys (bad boy types generally) have a "I want you but I don't need you" attitude. They like what they see but they don't need what they see, so they're not gonna act like she comes first or defer and or over accommodate to her, especially if she hasn't done anything but exist to deserve whatever it is.
It's difficult due to rejection but that's why it's in men's best interests to just be upfront and honest about his intentions. The more time you spend pretending that you don't want to sleep with her, the more time and emotional invested you become especially if you treat her to various things like dinner, flattering conversations and all that, which is what a lot of women look for to get an ego boost. Your fantasy of her is gonna give rise to certain expectations and when they are not met and you've been orbiting her for a while....Well it sucks.
A better, more flirty response instead of saying “You’re weird” is catching the middle ground and saying “We’ll see how things develop.” It hints at a challenge, which both sexes find appealing without being insulting or rude. If a guy told me I was “weird”, we’d never speak again! But as a female, I also would never use the line “I bet you find me attractive”, which I find entirely stupid and not at all alluring to a man.
I think you're right, for some women. Other women will feel the need to undo or at least understand that rejection, which does give the man the power. I can't imagine ever being in that situation myself (as a man), and if I was I would most likely just say 'What?'. It would be so unexpected for a woman to be forward with me.
It's basically a mental game with yourself. If you manage to say "absolutely" and walk away or keep going, you won that game. Like Alex said, control over your desires 💯
"you'll know when I want to kiss you" that's the answer.
If a girl is delaying a date by saying things like "i need to get to know you better" "im not comfortable meeting you yet"
She is trying to increase her leverage. You end that game by dipping out the first time she shows disinterest. Then if she contacts you back you turn that same game on her. Boom, now you have the leverage.
Remember Trixie Tang and the scene at the bus where Timmy is ignoring her and also the "Tell me I'm pretty"? Well.
Man of culture
Alexander, just a quick note: I don't think that women KNOW that you want to seep with her.
I am a decently attractive man in his mid 20s. I get looks, girls like me etc. I've had multiple chances of sleeping with an attractive girl where there ARE some parameters despite physical attraction that make me not want to sleep with her, even if I'm physically attracted to her. For example:
- she has a boyfriend. An automatic no from my part. It's not me being "nice", it's me being MENTALLY unattracted to her, even if I'm turned on. I don't like the possible consequences.
- she has a bad personality. She can be hot, yes, but when she's a shitty person towards others, I won't do it
- I just don't feel like it. Even if I'm physically horny, I sometimes mentally just don't want to deal with it.
Yes, girls gave been angry, confused etc. None of them thought that I wouldn't sleep with them, because yes, they were/are attractive. I don't care if it's "beta" or "nice guy" if I don't want to sleep with every possible hot girl that comes across. In fact, I'd say that a large proportion of attractive girls just don't vibe with me.
Edit: jup. Exactly what you're talking about later :D
You explain things very well. It's always the third way! You want conditionally, you have standards. She wants value and so do you.
Women do have an advantage in this modern world, because a woman's weakness, economic vulnerablitiy has been mitigated by society. At the same time, a man's weakness in relation to women, his greater need for sex, isn't mitigated in any way, and culturally has even been hampered by things like feminism, the law, etc. Thus women, at least attractive ones, have the balance of power which they didn't used to have. Only high quality men can address this to some extent. Think of all the women who stayed married to men primarily for economic reasons in the past. This rarely happens now. We have divorce courts, benefits etc. which tend to favour women, especially if they have kids.
This man is a genius in regards to relationships, I'm not that sharp so I avoid women altogether, juice isn't worth the squeeze
Other than when you find some juice that is and that you'd really like.
Alexander is not telling you that women is all these negatives attributes. More so to help you not go in blindly when dealing with women and given you the proper tools to lead your relationships.
The used and beat up roast beef sandwich isn't worth the bite
If she asks "You want to kiss me don't you?" I think responding with a smile and saying "Not right now" is a good one.
It tells you have self control, you maintain the frame and that it will all depend on you not her.
Thoughts?
This is something I can do... Most of the answers in the comment thread feel unethical to me. Thanks
I'd say "maybe, maybe not"
a vague answer to a stupid/trick question
"Where there is superior force, I serve under constraint; where there is power, I serve willingly." - Esther Vilar
I remember I tried playing an intellectual game with a girl who was only 18 at the time (I was 21).
I asked her random intelectual words and asked her what came to her mind when I spoke them. Words like: “plate tectonics”, “imperialism”, “aristocracy”, “gilded age” and so on. I was testing to see how smart she was.
She was like “what the hell?! I have no idea where this is going!”
Then she said “so, as for the name ‘Mayara’, what does it come to mind?” (Mayara was her name).
My mind kind of went blank. I wasn’t very into her. I was just meeting her to see if she was worth it. Then she asked: “do you think I am sexy?”
She was out of shape (I was a gym freak). Her legs were full of fat and cellulitis and face was pretty average and non-attractive to me. Since I was a terrible liar I said: “you got something going for you, if you work hard and get in shape you could have a killer body.”
She got pissed. She called me insensitive and all. I was just being honest. She should have received it as “constructive criticism” 😎
“Archangel Gabriel, enter this man’s story into the Chronology of Weird Dates, and enter his name into the Book of Weirdos.”
Well that was a good comment lok
@@generalralph6291
@a h
Well… 😅, she wasn’t my type physically so I wanted to test if she was intellectually smart. It didn’t work!
If you're a gym rat you have every right to expect the girls you date to also have a toned, athletic body. Of course, reality seems to think it's funny to have all the toned, athletic girls dating fat, out of shape guys while all the jacked guys get to pick from the out of shape, pudgy girls.
@@kaleomariz1000 She dodged a bullet, that's for sure.
"you think im hot, dont you?" "no" *walks away*
>drop it like it's hot
>throw it back
>refuse to elaborate
>leave
_>refuse to elaborate_
man ,you are a genius , from where do you gather so much knowledge ?. And I also want to say you have balls of steel .Most people just don't have the guts to say what you are saying
"whoever wants sex the least in a relationship controls it"
Not necessarily. The one who can control urges the best controls it.
@@ArnoldsDesign that's what he said. Duh.
True!
I 💯 agree with this and I'm the women lol my husband is so in control 🤣🤣 and I'm not kidding lol
'Never have sex with a woman unless she wants it more than you do.'
Of course, the less you want it, the easier that becomes.
Although this is just one part of a much larger puzzle, it's an important part.
Bearing that in mind, this is a great video.
"You think I'm hot, don't you?"
Put your hand on her forehead
... "Yeah, might be fever....maybe the flu?"
WTF, good joke man.
@@jarrettreboton4661 or maybe Corona
🔥🔥🔥
I'd say...maybe love sick? We just met..coming on a bit strong yes? XP
Yeh exactly, ridiculous how a grade 9 come on has become a buzzword the world over, not a temperature 🤒
This seems simple enough to turn on them,
'Do you want to kiss me?'
Pause and move really slow, so that they have time to get a sense of what animal they're taunting.
'Why do you care to know that?'
'What do YOU think?'
Remember to smile. Tease her.
Or,
'Do you want me to?'
Or,
'Only if you want me to.'
Make her work for it.
@@malachi405 'Do you want to kiss me?'
After you sign a few consent forms for me...
I don't want you to claim I was sexually assaulting you or anything like that.
please sign here, and here and here after I bring a witness here to see all this.
I dont want you to claim I was forcing you or anything like that
Oh and let me do a sound check on the camera over here, the footage has to be loud and clear. I dont want you to claim you were hesitating and signed in the spurr of the moment...
Which gives me another great idea.
"Will I get in trouble?"
@@malachi405 Almost certainly.
Careful out there.
I get controlling your desire. That does work and it works well, however, the idea that a high quality man needs a woman that is intelligent etc. despite her looks is wrong. That's the reason why you find women wanting to go 50/50 and try match your intellect. It can get super exhausting and the girl usually burns out because she chose you because of your superiority including your intellect. I have had first hand experience where a woman tries to impress me with an article she read about something only to find that I sat through the entire senate hearing and then she feels bad or inadequate.
I find that having options automatically disempowers the woman in this regard, you automatically go in with confidence and no desperation.
when girl asks me if I wanna kiss her or something like that, most of the time I sey slow down girl Im not that
easy, you need to buy me a drink first. Never chase, make them chase you. (sorry for bad eng)
👌👌
Excellent!
Sometimes no words, with stare of intimidation with disgust, then walk away from her; is more powerful.
Be a man. Simple. Period. All things fall into place when WE EMBODY OUR IDENTITY
Talk to a very attractive woman. When things go smoothly walk off in the middle of the conversation. She probably never has been turned down in her life. To her this is weirder than an UFO landing in front of her.
Hillarity will ensue.
I like to break patterns and cause chaos.
How about you?
Ppl are rude to us attractive women all the lol. Just read comments on models ig pages.
My question is, what is your goal for being rude? She will not chase you bc she has lots of options & if you’re randomly talking to her it’s obviously you’re attracted.
That’s like going to an open house viewing then walking off on the relator mid conversation. You’d look..silly.
Use critical thinking skills why confident secure men are more attractive to women. It shows he can provide, produce & problem solve. Your problem solving is to be rude.
Now imagine both of you in the animal kingdom, one male produces food ect to mate with the female vs the other male shows up with nothing & then ignores her....😬 .. Its natural selection.
@@loveself6396and that’s power, you go against your biological instincts
The disadvantage of being men in modern society is that men are seeking and craving for sex as our number 1 priority in the dating market. Our biology, us men are hardwired to spread the seed to ensure the survival of our gen pool while woman are seeking safety, security and protection to ensure the survival of their own and their offspring, this is how woman's instinct of natural hypergamy kicks inn as first priority over sex. It does not mean woman are not prioritizing sex, they do but the reason sex comes second is because their sexual instinct doesn't kick inn before later, this is due to their slow burn in sexual attraction that needs touch and kiss while men are fast burner and gets off by just visual of a beautiful and sexy woman. Any of this make sense to you?
Men need to start coming out with ways to override this instinct. Is not necessary anymore. I know biology is strong but it has to be put on the back burner.
Women know if they want sex from the second they see a guy too. They will have sex that very day too if the guy knows what he's doing. This "they're slow burners" type of stuff is still very blue pill. The only thing real about that is that for women the sexual interaction starts when they meet the guy, so they have to be on it from that moment until the end of sex, while for men it begins when the sexual encounter itself starts. But no, women don't wait even a day if the guy very sexually attractive to them and knows what he's doing.
I actually hear this response all the time when I'm flirting with a girl or make a sexual innuendo. It's hard to have a come back depending on the convo but you can easily bounce back by immediately switching the subject.
Hmmm, so what I get from this is be casual about it, don't overreact and it will work. Okay, got it
Nah, man. It's not just that. Women are really complicated and theirs mood is very much like a continuous curve rather than a discrete value like we men have. If I'm happy, I'm happy, if am sad, I'm sad. But if a girl is sad, she might be really sad OR she might be seeking attention OR she hate something you're doing OR she want something OR shes just in a mood for acting sad OR... This goes on..
"you want to kiss me don't you?"
"pffft"
Phfffft 😋
I was rejected X times, but I was also with quite enough women in my life to be able to say that it is absolutely essential not to attach TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE to them (in your thinking, decision-making and action), not to be addicted to female validation (ie. you are enough, even more than enough, ...trust me 😉) and p***y,
...and be practically faithful to yourself, your values, goals, priorities and peace of mind.
#QuestionYourThoughts
#InnerSmile
#ResistTaming
#Enlightenment
"You think I'm hot, don't you?"
"Well, you looked cute from afar. Now that I've had a closer look, I'm trying to make up my mind"
haha
I'm stealing this for my friday date, I'll update
Nah nah.
Go full Jim Carrey....
IVE HAD BETTER.
My first instinct when asked “do you want to kiss me” was to say “if only you should be so lucky”
Great video. Definitely one of the more important ones to watch
From India. Started watching your videos and God, do I relate every video on a deep level ... You are doing every one a favour here. Good job my man
On the first date, she asked "Do you want to kiss me?" A long three count, and I answered "I haven't made up my mind yet" We were married for twenty years.
One day that'll be my story ( probably not but damn thats cute)
And then come the times where "would like to kiss me" is not a test but a genuine question, and you call her weird and give her the cold shoulder. Now that is a huge mistake if that was what you actually was hoping for.
I have a neighbor who wants to be noticed. She wears short dresses in front of me and will wave to me when I go outside
I used to pay her attention but I then decided not to keep validating her so now I mostly ignore her
She has stepped up her efforts to be noticed. She will put one item in the outside garbage bin while wearing revealing clothing and then go inside and come out with one more item of trash and will do this a few more times just to be noticed
She has offered to wash my car and do other things around my home, which I decline
There's a white knight up the road who cannot try and interact with her enough so it just be maddening for her to be ignored by me so much but the reality is, while she is very good looking I'm really not interested. Her action border on annoying sometimes as I feel I can't just go outside and do some work in the yard without someone trying to get my attention
For women, attention is their plasma. They NEED attention. It is not negotiable.
Stay away from her, she only cares about validation. Your money and freedom 💯🏆
It would be an easy catch but would turn out difficult to distance from once you have enough of her.
"You think I'm hot, don't you?"
"At the moment, sure. Ask me again in twenty years."
Alexander Grace, Develop attraction these two channel is a must follow for any man
I disagree with Alexander on how to handle the kiss test.
Flip it on her.
"Seems like you are the one focused more on kissing." "Be truthful and tell me what you are thinking." If she doesn't say anything then, walkaway.
There is a certain satisfaction from getting a glimpse of a beautiful woman's face when she notices that you have completely looked past or ignored her.
Is it just me? 🤔
“You’re weird” ..... what!? Lol
If a woman asks me if I want to kiss her, I usually just reply with an obscure phrase in a foreign language, and when I receive the inevitable reply of "Wh-what?", I lean back, looking sagely, point at her, and say: "Exactly." (A raised eyebrow adds a soupcon of class, also). And then walk away, and talk to someone else. Excellent pattern interrupt. It's the verbal equivalent of going up to someone holding a basketball, and while they are caught in a moment of dumbfoundedness, you swat the ball out of their hands, taking the ball, and the control of it. Works every time.
That's weird.
I'm doing this
Just laugh and say you’re weird then walk off, works way better without you looking like a ret*rd in the end
You can either love women or understand women. But, once you understand women, you realize there’s really nothing there to love.
This was probably one of the more helpful videos I've watched so far, and keep up the good work
5:30 It is weird that you want to give yourself to someone you don't know and hasn't done anything to earn your respect.
Yeah, same here. Just because I find a woman attractive doesn't mean I want to sleep with her or even date her. I just talk to her.
what is your profile 😂
Please do more videos on this topic: Striping women of her power/Men realizing their power
I love this channel!
He s the best in UA-cam
I have been voluntarily celibate for years.I can get women but the strength I learned in this has been life transformation.I can't be inticed or strung along or simped.Theres no sexual power held over me
Did you really mean voluntarily chaste? Vow of celibacy is one rejecting marriage.
This very true, a girl many guys spoke of her beauty like folk lore told me that she found me satisfying because I look beyond just her beauty and straight to the content of her character, and that she stopped doing some things and started doing some others because of my sentiment over them, for or against. I don't think of myself as all that, I just know and adore all the people who raised me and why they did it like so and the morals behind short and long term, and my purpose to represent these people and what they stand for.
We moved apart shortly after, and haven't seen her since, heard from her a few times.
Learn GAME fellas, it helps a ton. And puts you miles ahead of others...!
The rules of dating now are just so complex and Byzantine that just to keep a woman is a subtle art that takes a skill set that's totally beyond me. Do A, don't do B, do C under XYZ circumstances ect. ect. I had better just forget women.
Looking for a woman on an Internet dating service is the same as searching for a plate of food inside a public outhouse
A better thing to say is "yeah but that's about it"
Woman: you think I'm hot?
Me: and you think that gives you power over me?
"She might get 100s of matches every week" actually not a huge exaggeration when you start on an app as a girl. I'm passable and look pretty cute when I dress up. Initially I would be bombarded with messages and likes. 70+ people within the first day and it was pretty overwhelming. It can be extremely difficult to respond to everyone.
This actually does work especially the acknowledges part a few years ago when I was working at a local grocery store a really smoking blonde chick wearing fitness clothes walked in every guy including me was checking her out I acknowledged she was hot by saying simply " I'm sorry " she actually heard me and came up to me and had a few conversations with me .
@Overlord 3108 no that's the full story
@Overlord 3108 oh right yeah I guess there is more . Ive only been working there for a few weeks I guess this woman walks in to that store all the time and every guy checks her out she finds it annoying. I tried to not look but she was smokin .
I looked up while I was working one time and she saw. I quickly looked away and instead of trying to hide it I just told her I'm sorry. she came up to me and started talking to me actually .
Funny story here, my son was in a band. They were at a local club and way before their set we were outside the club talking. This very hot girl came walking by in a short full skirt. She paid us no attention, didn’t even look our way. My son just blurted out, “Wow.. I love your boots, they’re awesome.” She stopped and smiled and started lifting her foot up and moved it around saying stuff like “you really like these? I just got them, and I love them.” He just said a couple things he liked about them and then told her to have a good time tonight. He turned around and went back to talking to me. The shock and disbelief on her face was priceless. Huh?? What?? This guy isn’t going to try and pick up on me??? She walked away and glanced back a couple times to see if he was looking. I told him that that was a smooth way of checking out her legs. He just said that he just really liked her shoes and that was it. She tried all night to get his attention. I enjoyed the show she put on.
When you stop caring about sleeping with a woman or being with them they have nothing on you, I look at how they treat people instead of how they look, it actually becomes easier to be less attracted to her
Bruh In laughing my a off thinking Alexander Grace making these thumbnails
Forever grateful Alex, will support you on patreon once I have a stable job :)
+ You're a beautiful soul
True, preach it. some men will pretend that they don't see us pretty yet they hang around. we can see it
Every beautiful woman has weaknesses; it's every man's duty to remind her of them.
Im old enough to remember when people did not test other people.
I swear something strange has happened over the decades in relationships. I do not test people and id walk away from anyone that tried to test me. When did things become so messed up in relationships Alexander ? Id love to see you talk about how things have changed over the decades but your have to read about it as your not old enough to remember the 60s etc. Iv seen people become more closed off with their feelings over the years and not many people say what they mean when in my day things were all on the table and people knew where they stood. I took one women out for a few dates and on one date she said she was deciding who to have a relationship with me or some other guy that was also taking her out for the last few weeks. She even told me I have the look and the chat but he has the body and she will let us both know which of us she will chose by the weekend. I was wth is this a joke to hear back no. I said ill make it easy for you to make the choice. She said how and I said bye and walked out. She phone me later asking why I got up and said bye and walked out. I was thinking are you kidding me women. She then said she wants me shes just decided she wants me over the other guy. I said no way and that was the end of that. It blow me away her telling me shes deciding which of us two men she will end up with. Yes I see people date and then chose someone but to tell a man that your in the middle of picking who to be with while hes paying for your meal lol. Like most men I used to chase women but now im forget that as I know im not Mr perfect but I can bring things to a relationship so now I see my self as the catch. I think a lot of women now over rate them selfs I really do. More so women in the 20s. Now it seems like im a women I have sexual organs so im Gods gift. Not in my book. Iv turned very hot women down 20 years younger than my self as hot looks do not mean a thing to me now even though I still have a high sex drive. Team work and connection is way more important than sex in my view. Old mans view over lol
People are more narcissistic and insecure now
here is your answer ua-cam.com/video/mFTSt-A2Cls/v-deo.html
@May August thanks to leftists and fake woke ppl, so generally same kind of ppl
There's wisdom, here.
Nothing is inherently wrong with dating multiple people only if your honest with the people who you're dating. My problem is everybody is openly sexual now a days and it's like a requirement. Don't anybody just want to get to know each other? She was honest but little too honest. She should of said " I want to continue this arrangement but I still want see other people if you don't to go on dates with me anymore than that's understandable."
You want to kiss me don’t you ?
Me : “smile with a smirk” your going to have to earn it
Probably the best line you can use in a club/party type scene
If a girl ever told me this in an arrogant manner id say
I did but not anymore
The only good response here among many!
I'm reminded of the opening scene of the film "Swingers".
Basically, Alexander is pointing out that it's bad for a guy to be thinking with the wrong head & shows us that we don't have to.
I've got too many friends who aren't married but paying child support...I've resolved to NOT be like that.
To the "Do you want to kiss me?" question you can ask also if she is a good kisser. Worked all the time.
Balance attracts balance. Imbalance attracts imbalance.
"After this question, I honestly find you repulsive. Have fun somewhere else."