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@Alexander - You'll probably know of Van Badham in Oz, I have seen this kind of thing from her as she busies herself propagating this kind of solipsistic entitlement and simpery. It just sews a field of hideousness that should never ever be harvested. It's beyond just being wrong, it's well into pernicious territory.
personalized video? reallly werid lol, but maybe you should publicly post one that has lot of lessons in it after sucessfully trying to get him to consent to it
It reminds me of when Emily King said "men were taught their entire lives how to treat a woman but not what to expect from a woman, women were taught what to expect from a man but not how to treat a man.
Appreciation is way too much to ask. They won't even acknowledge the existence of male compromise and sacrifice. Women go so far as to never, ever directly ask a man to provide something they want. "If you really loved me, or were williing to pay attention and spend time with me, you'd know what I want. I shouldn't have to ask" WTF?!! Men have disagreements all the time. They state their respective positions in a direct and efficient meeting and work out a compromise. The compromise will typically involve some amount of sacrifice by all sides involved. Your woman will never take that approach, because she can't tolerate the compromise and sacrifice parts of it. She will try mightily, instead, to manipulate her man into offering her what she wants without any discussion, compromises, or sacrifice. Also, a lot of differences are not amenable to compromise, and you have to do some horse trading, such as "OK, will do this your way this time, but next time, we'll do something my way." If she can get what she wants without debate, you can't use horse trading to work out solutions. Women just won't ever tell you want they truly want or need. Guys go nuts trying to please them because of this.
its ironic how she talks about not "coddling male fragility" when she is posting about how emotional fragile she is and needs to insult everyone online as a way of coping and expecting people to coddle her.
Everything about these people is ironic and full of contradictions, I hope WW3 happens and humanity nukes itself to ruin, at least I get the joy even if just a couple seconds knowing women like the one in this video and any modern feminist + believers that you can change your gender, will get obliterated.
I was assigned a female divorce judge and ended up losing 70% of my money, assets, and home equity in my UK divorce, despite us only having 1 kid and her earning more than me. This video helps to explain a lot of what happened. Men are see as sacrificial or expendable.
They sacrifice enough of us and the women will be the ones sent to the front lines. Women on the front lines will either be toxic or appreciative and both of those will make their mark on following generations.
I don't agree with that actually before i was like:" okay she's emotional so just let it be and be the man and chill' But i have notice that that's the problem men have to say no and show her she's rude and bad and make it clear you don't allow this behavior!
@@loganblackwood2922 I’m a woman but I didn’t ask for this. There are still good women no matter how nasty some of them are, shouldn’t disgrace the ones that aren’t that way at all. It’s just the same pendulum swinging to both extremes, the balance is in the middle where both are honored. Hating one or the other is not productive. Have to find the harmony between both, honoring both in their healthy state, not only looking at the unhealthy examples and then saying they’re all like that.
“Stop making it about you” - she says, because she wants it all to be about her. There’s no conversation available here, this woman is a tyrant and wants to be the only voice in the room, and when any guy dares to share his perspective, she gets full of rage. This is nothing but extreme narcissism.
@Anth Öny not tyrant. think more like Immature (Childish) Selfish, Self Centered (She is the center of the universe) Danger Will Robinson! Train Stop Sized Red Flag! the Need to "Clap" to Emphasize her verbal Speaking Points. Definitely not a long term Relationship/Marriage Material Woman.
Pretty much yeah haha. It's weapons grade narcissism, I think if you looked at it in the dictionary it would just have a picture of her and her name on it lmao.
The whole gratitude thing makes sense. I have to give my wife a lot of credit here. She does express gratitude a lot. Whenever I do the yard, any kind of project, smoke/grill something for dinner, help with anything else, she'll always make a point of thanking me for it. But I think a lot of this comes from her upbringing.
Social Media is rubbish. And all the people that slided into her DMs agreeing with her are the reason why we derail more and more into this insane reality.
It's far more than social media. Happy wife, happy life is the same concept being that it's an impossible issue to address so you can fight women's preference to escape reality or you can let them escape reality and get whatever incidental benefits that come from her being in a good mood. The really F'd up part is this crappy solution is what is referred to by feminists as the patriarchy and is hated bc it infantilizes women yet until women stop being childlike this is the only solution for men as long as society keeps protecting them from their mistakes.
The problem is aggravated online by the presence of male simps who will always agree with and praise women like her. Then one man doesn't kiss up to her, and it wrecks her.
That's literally every argument I have with my gf. I get all the questions and statements like "what did you mean when you said this?, This is why I don't like arguing with you. You said this and that brought up an energy in me, if you can't handle that, then that's on you." Etc. Etc Then I explain how I'm feeling about her yelling at me, or seemingly blaming me for something that was unintentional. At which point I get "You always do this, you make it about"you" and and your emotions". I'm so thankful we don't live together and usually only see each other on the weekends.
@@jeradblazek677 Break up wit her, you will be happier alone. I had ex gf like that and we had tons of issues, but only i did everything to fix our problems meanwhile she found new things to be upset about and complain, even in the end she blamed me after years of supporting her both financially and emotionally. So yea, your mental health is important, take care of it, don't stay with crazy chick.
'It's not my job to coddle your male fragility' okay what if we called all women trash? If women went through what the average man goes through then the suicide rates would go through the roof. Just ask Norah Vincent.
@gsmollin2 Just goes to show how difficult us guys have it. She had the option of going back as a woman and she STILL couldn't get over the trauma she experienced.
They are all trash, they're all ran-thru sloores and we used to call them that when it was true. Now we don't even call a 100+ body count woman a sloor.
@@cjjuszczak I can't tell you how many times I heard "You're not emotionally available!" from a woman I dated for 12 years. I could never figure out what she meant. Women don't like it if they yell and you remain silent. They don't like it when you yell back. They *_really_* don't like it if, during a pause in the tirade, you ask "Are you finished?" [This is my favorite, actually. It causes an instant relaunch toward orbit. Since I didn't ever really know why or how we got to this point, anyway, I came to view it as my "contribution to an evening's entertainment."] Remain silent; think your own thoughts. Keep your self-respect. When you've had enough, leave; go for a drive or a walk or something.
You are spot one. It physically hurts women to say thanks. When they do say it, it is never sincere. But, LOL, tell them how you are feeling. Bull. They don't want to hear it. Then you are accused of making everything about you. They simply do not care, end of story.
My last GF was an anxious wreck at times and she would dump all her problems on me in a realy ranting, animated way. Even though it wasn't directed at me, having that negative emotion erupt everytime we saw each other really effected me to the point i didn't want to talk to her some days. The problem was, i knew that sharing that with her, would only make her way more anxious and neurotic. I wanted to be there for her and loved that i made her feel calm and safe but she made me less happy. In the end i broke it off and it was a compkete surprise to her. Kind of a shitty thing to do but i knew that once i shared that i was unhappy being the outlet for all her emotional negativity that the fuse would be lit on our relationship.
When a man acts like a woman, it's seen as a weakness/insult. When a woman acts like a man, it's seen as a strength. This tells you everything you need to know as to which sex needs to lead and which needs to follow.
So if men are naturally supposed by the head of the household and women are supposed to obey, howcome men and women generally need to be persuaded by their pastor to follow those roles? If they were innate, I seems people would all want to gravitate towards them
My late wife was a rare gem. She showed gratitude & appreciation all the time through her actions. For example, as a stay-at-home wife anytime she wanted to spend a bit of money on herself (ie some clothing, going out to lunch with a friend etc) she would always ring me at work & ask if it was ok. That wasn't something I expected of her, nor was it something I ever asked her to do, & despite how many times I said to her she didn't need my permission, she would still always ask. To her it was a gesture of respect & appreciation. & let me tell you, having a wife who didn't have to do something but still chooses to do it for no other reason than to show her respect & appreciation made me feel more valued, more respected, more appreciated & more loved than you could imagine.
In all honesty whenever I tell my wife these things she fights tooth and nail to deny, distract and destroy the conversation. She knows exactly what I'm saying and exactly what she's doing. The only thing that helped was to disengage on certain fronts. I don't do things anymore unless I want to do them. I hold my ground if that upsets her and she learns she can't force me to do things her way
I heard someone (Rollo?) say women are Solipsistic. Had to look it up. Once I did a lot of stuff starting making sense. They live in their own world where they are the star of the movie and everyone else is a supporting role. No other emotions or hardships matter except their own. Everything they do wrong is someone else's fault.
The duty to hold the relationship together doesn't just "Fall on us" I actively get shammed or ridiculed by my partner if it doesn't happen. Probably why I am going to be single soon. When one side carries all the responsibilities it just doesn't seem to be worth it any more.
Women generally have a hard time being anything but solipsistic narcissists, they only know how to love a child. Don’t wife up the modern woman, NOT worth it and women don’t deserve it these days.
I see a lot of women on social media constantly posting things downing men or about their toxicity and when someone doesn't agree they get enraged then block them
This happened to me on linkedin with some nitwit who was a marketing person for Nike (so she claims) i tried to call BS on women getting paid less than men, and she lost her head!
“Better to live on the corner of a roof than a house shared with a contentious woman.” The absolute best thing to do if a woman (or child) behaves like that dangerously imbalanced woman is to ignore. She has the crazy eyes of a person who is throwing a temper tantrum to an imaginary audience. If she acted this way in real life around actual friends or acquaintances, she would absolutely be shunned for her bad behavior. She is looking to strangers on the internet to validate her feelings, probably because she doesn’t have good friends grounding her in real life. She’s still pretty enough that she’s getting preferential treatment by strangers, but the wall is going to slap this woman hard if she doesn’t learn how to make and keep friends. The internet is not your friends.
Better to boot a contentious woman's behind to the corner of the roof or even to the curb than tolerate endless BS. Retaining complete ownership and control of said roof helps with this. Yes, there are ways to do this despite our legal system's misandry.
Sadly, at least some women act this way at least some of the time irl. Having said that, there are also plenty of women who probably never do, and probably some men who do to, although I can't imagine a man getting away with it without consequences.
Important topic here guys! Take heed at the first signs of her feeling entitled, as this is NOT going to improve! If she has a hard time showing any genuine interest in your problems or achievements, do NOT fall into the trap of trying harder to please her. Do NOT start to believe that basic respect is the same as the absence of obvious contempt.
@@BrutalMonkey Be patient with the guy. His name is Gerhard! I am sure he suffers quite a bit already! LOL Hey Gerhard, not even 1 like on your post! Speaking of dumb, i think you hit the jackpot!
"I posted 'Men Are Garbage' on my friends Instagram because I had a sexist experience happen to me that night.." "Men need to stop derailing the conversation when women say 'Men Are Garbage', and stop making it about their feelings.." The fact that these statements can be made openly in this manner is a testament to which group of people in this country are truly discriminated against the most. Forget race..forget ethnicity and nationalty..it's MEN. It's Men in general, regardless of our race, ethnicity, nationalty, it's Men who are openly and publicly being discriminated against in the most disrespectful ways, and it's just accepted as normal. No one bats an eye at the above statements she made. Could you imagine the outrage if the statement she made was: "Black people need to stop derailing the conversation when we say 'Black People Are Garbage'..." Imagine the outrage and backlash that it would create if she made a video to complain, and started it off with that statement. And then continued with: "I posted 'Black People Are Garbage' on my friend's Instagram because I had a really bad experience with a black person that night.." The nerve it would take to make a video like that would be astronomical! The outrage in response to it would be absolutely savage. She'd probably have to go into hiding. It simply would not be tolerated. But since her video is about Men, no one bats an eye. I can't help that I'm a man anymore than I can help that I'm black. And the same goes for white men, Latino men, Asian men, etc. We can't help that we are Men anymore than we can help what race we are. So why in the hell do we tolerate statements like hers being made?? Why aren't those statements getting the same kind of energy that openly disrespectful statements about our race would get? This is an extremely disturbing and disgusting thing that we as Men are so tolerant of the disrespect, discrimination, and open and boldface blatant misandrist sexism that is leveled against us that we don't even bat an eye at anymore. We just take it, and it's just a normal thing now that we can be treated with such disrespect by the very people who actually depend on us for their protection and all of the comforts of society that they have. No one reaps the benefits of civilized society more than women, and civilized society would not function and thrive without Men. But Men Are Garbage.
It won't be easy to find, but find a copy of the minutes of an early N.O.W. meeting ... the opening minutes are very informative. They are a mirror image of a communist soviet (meeting). They openly state their purpose is revolution by means of destruction of the American family. And, to do That, they acknowledge the necessity of the destruction of the American male and the promotion of homosexuality and wokism.
Just reverse the genders and see how utterly insane all claims are she‘s making. Imagine a man saying: „When I‘m saying all women are trash, you must validate my experience and not make it about your feelings, you fragile woman! Also, try not to make points that prove me wrong about what I said about all women!! Just be my doormat and shut up!!!“
She is so blind to her own sexism. Sexism is defined as generalizing things to an entire gender, and she is literally doing that when she says "all men are trash". Yet is quick to rail about how sexist a man is for disagreeing with her. The level of lunacy is astounding.
Reverse the genders doesn't work because with people like that it's rule for thee and not for me. They would get mad at the man and jump down his throat and then turn around and do the same thing. Seen it happen before....will see it continue to happen.
Do not fall drunken to the "sweet elixer" of a woman's gratitude. She may briefly appreciate what you bring her. Find that dopamine hit from every other thing you do. Womens' manipulations include sweet words, gentle touch, a pleading face. They get what they want, no matter what. Don't get caught paying for it.
guys who have been used as emotional tampons know this all too well as she'll be so grateful and huggy telling you what a great guy you are but the moment she gets over her trauma, you're invisible to her.
Such women who take to social media sites and start mouthing off and being disrespectful tend to be the most narcissistic and toxic women. Avoid them at all cost because they are showing us their true colours and they don’t deserve a relationship with us genuine men. I’ve noticed the genuine women are starting to criticise these narcissistic women too and sticking up for us genuine men, which is a good thing.
@@donrood7282 Social media is an absolute gift to us genuine men because the toxic feminists are literally showing us their true colours. They didn’t want equality, they just wanted superiority and all the genuine men and women can see it for themselves. Avoid feminists at all costs gentlemen because they are the most narcissistic humans on earth. They don’t deserve a genuine man or a relationship whatsoever. Massive difference between genuine feminine women and toxic feminists.
That is one of the biggest deficits in relationships for men, the simple gratitude for the things we do for women. Often times that is all we want. We dont want a big deal, just a simple and real thank you for what you do for me. That will keep us going through some hard times in life with work and family stresses. When we know that the woman we love appreciates us and loves us we can go through hell and make it through the other side
Literally just had a girl that I was dating for 3 months block me on all social media because I told her a video she posted was toxic. Which was some broad going off on men in some smart ass, insulting rant. This happened all last night 😂 Abundance mindset. Saved me a whole heap of trouble.
She is hiding in her Safe Space with her cookies & her crayons! How strong & brave she is! LOL Yup dude, women are a dime a dozen and hardly worth that dime (many of them)! On to the next one for you!
I have listened to enough of these laydees to understand that 95% of them are simply not capable of Love. They can really only love a child that comes out of them (not another woman's child.) They see men as disposable, replacable ATMs. She values you about out as much as her iPhone.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..
Replace every use of "can't" with "not yet ready to" and you'll take a big step towards sorting all that out. You can do all those things, you just aren't ready to yet. Framing it correctly is important.
A wise man once told me. You have to believe they have died because that person has gone and it will never be the same again. So don't think about her anymore bro, the person you loved has died.
Man o man. How are we ever gonna fix this? The aggression, the entitlement, the laziness, the complete lack of reciprocity, how are we ever gonna have a genuine connection?
I still have no idea, why some individuals beleive that their feelings and "experiences" are the absolute representation of reality. And usually these people get offended the most when you call them out for it.
All because they are narcissistic women and didn’t want us to figure out how attraction truly works, so they are now getting aggressive and start name calling etc.
Sitting in her car Screaming at her camera, definitely a sign of an emotionally and mentally Unstable woman. That behavior is Not normal. From Johnny delly
Everytime i brought up intimacy, it was always on me, that i didn't do the right stuff to get her in the mood, and i was shut down. But everytime she needed something, anything, if i said no or will see, i was again shut down. So she wanted all the benefits without doing anything or bare minimum. She actually said more than one occasion something like : isn't my presence enough ? I should've gave the same question back to her when she asked me to do or buy something. It's all about equality, right ? only if they gain from it.
Im a homosexual man and I absolutely love your content. You're the only other person apart from myself who's ever voiced what I've also noticed about gender relations between men and women - specifically that women don't ever consider that each individual man has a unique inner world and interior subjectivity, and that like all people they desire to be known and connected with and valued for their interior lives. For the longest time I thought that I as a gay man was the only 'type' of person likely to actually notice this, given how abused and subjugated men are within heterosexual gender relations, I thought that my fellow gays were the only people ever likely to really come to appreciate the inner lives of men! Needless to say Im so glad that Ive found a genuinely conscious person talk about these subjects, its a pleasure listening to you talk. I also love that you said that men also self-abnegate! This particularly dynamic needs way more attention!
I wonder what is like to be in a relationship between two men. Does it feel more like equals or is it common to assign certain roles to each side? I guess it could be hard for you to compare if you only date men
@@computerguymiguelam just guessing that same gender relationships also thrive on masculine and feminine energy. Maybe one is masculine and the other is feminine or they both change their energies regarding how they feel in the moment. I’ve got a cousin who is gay and he and his boyfriend both have respect for each other’s needs and that is just great to see unlike these narcissistic and toxic women forever giving men mixed signals, as well as their unrealistic double standards. Us genuine men just want a similar relationship where we can focus on our own ambition, purpose and vision without a woman telling us one thing one minute and another thing the next minute saying you don’t give me enough attention and wrongly accusing us of cheating. Us genuine men have had enough of such narcissistic women and I for one am willing to walk away from any narcissistic woman for the sake of my own health and wellbeing.
My wife told me very boldly one day, after we were married. Although I am not a whinger in any way, she told me that she never expected to hear another thing about my day. She would tell me about hers and I would listen. Fortunately, my 60~80 work weeks limited any possibility of either. I am just so sorry my children did not have more time with me, they told me latter how much it hurt them. I'm also glad she did not overhear them, women are very vengeful creatures.
Yeah... because womxn don't control everything and oppress, or some dumb shxt so there can't be misandry unlike misogyny. You should also know misogyny means something different to wxmen(mainly feminists and college aged adults). By definition it's the same as misandry in that you hate the other gender. To them it's a buzzword they can use for anything you say that they don't like. To put negative intent on your words. Basically if it's not positive reinforcement it's misogyny....
I don't think she thinks you want less sex or prefer her over your friends. She is following a pattern she learned with her father, manipulation to get what she wants. It's about her needs taking precedence over yours. They smile, or pout, or gaslight as necessary. It's ingrained in their culture. Women either treat men as something to be worshiped and followed (i.e. Chad), or as an employee without emotions who derives all satisfaction from service (i.e. Mr. Beta Bucks).
Outstanding analysis and explanation! I'm 63 and only now am able to understand the underpinnings of my relationships with any woman, from my mother to girlfriends to ex-wives, thanks to your insight. I wish I would have learned this in my 20's... it might have circumvented a lot of grief in my life. Please keep up your excellent work!
I heard that. I ‘m 72, with the same regrets. I have spent my life being a wallet for wife and family. At least I was able to raise my family. Many men were cast aside by such vipers.
Extreme narcissism. Woman screaming stop making it about you. The irony is completely lost on her. If a man doesn't affirm and conform to her world view, then he is sexist. Moment of silence for whomever dates her.
This is why I have long stopped being polite. Politeness just puts you at a disadvantage with insane people. That doesn't mean being rude. That simply means others have no *right* to respect from me, they must show they are worth it. Strangers do NOT deserve respect just for existing.
@@manubishe "Politeness is not acting naive" OK, who said it was? "The man's polite, but what he does to bond is beyond 'insane'." That's nice, but it's also a *MOVIE* and this is a complete non-sequitur with regards to my original comment...
@@Mike80528 yeah, politeness doesn't put one at a disadvantage with insane people, unless politeness it includes that which you included in it, implicitly, and can't fathom that another thing falls under that name, in your world view. Politeness is acting cordial, not respectful Moreover, if you signal care, or respect in your polite manners, it would be seen as a form of transgression by the mature public.
@@manubishe You do not understand and I am not going to even bother trying. You are a case in point. I could be polite, but why when you are trying to argue a point I didn't even make? Your ignorance isn't my problem. I am not here to educate the ignorant. Being polite would mean pointing out where you misunderstand my comment and what exactly me comment refers to and providing examples. Screw that. Figure it our on your own. The next time some asshole gets in your face accusing you of something falsely lets see you stay nice and polite and see how well that works out for you...
It took me 30 years of marriage to a high quality woman who insists on educating her men (me and our sons) about women's foibles - and here you understand all this at half my age!!! I thank God for you and your willingness (and obvious DESIRE) to be TRULY HELPFUL, which makes you a "bona fide" mental health resource in my book. :-) Please let me know if I can be helpful to your mission in any way (behind the scenes) (gather/curate/generate data, etc.)
The average woman wants a man who is taller than her, stronger than her, smarter than her, richer than her, funnier than her, have a more stable temperament than her despite being shorter than him, weaker than him, dumber than him, poorer than him, more boring than him, and more psychotic than him. And she's worth it because she' thinks she's _the prize_
@@varmastiko2908 1) Biological impulses they choose to not control. Vvhamens for hire are solving this. 2) Children 3) Societal pressures - there's something 'wrong' with you if you're single. This one is fading FAST.
@@theelder4797If you are correct then it seems men want women because men act in feminine ways. So learning masculinity is the solution. This might sound weird at first but actually I think this is how it really is. Once a man learns to be truly masculine his need for women decreases hugely.
This is heartbreaking, and that girl’s tantrum is embarrassing and pathetic. She insults men and then tells a man it’s not about him… Really sucks how bad these women are making us all look. I’ve adored men my whole life and live as an advocate for divine masculine. I actually had no idea about any of this until my brother started sharing this type of content, including this video. To love a man is to know deeply what he wants and needs, the journey of the relationship is learning how to deliver. One thing that men do is make it look easy so we don’t realize how hard it really is. Love you guys
Traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change, across the world, and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows. Talk is cheap.
I have said for years: this occurs because men do not exist as people to women: men exist only as concepts and as servants who should NEVER get out of line.
My ex once agreed to make a motorcycle tour with me, i felt really lucky, checked the oil, and happily took her for a ride, when we passed the first town she told me that she wanted to go to a museum. *i facepalmed*. But i swear, she was not aware how she manipulated me into bringing her to a museum lol. In the end we argued so much that i got fed up and dropped her at the train station and continued the tour alone.
Before being separated I tried to debate and even everything out in a fair way that both could agree on. I admit I learned to do a lot of useful stuff that I decided to take on to share burdens. I never really felt appreciated but I always thought (still do...) that whining isn't acceptable. Now I still have to deal with her because of my son but I just don't care. I say what I want, what I like and don't like, when It can happen and it can't and amazingly (or not) dealing with her is a lot straightforward and pleasant than before. She is even more reasonable than ever. It's almost mind boggling, when I wanted to please I got nothing, now I don't care and things are better.
it is always that way with women, they do not respond to being nice, maybe for one evening but then they treat you like a carpet to walk on. But if you are secure in your own self and set boundaries and demand respect, they are more likely to engage with you positively and even in a loving way.
@@impudentdomain Exactly right! This was my experience as well! You try to treat them the way they SAY they deserve to be treated and they treat YOU (us) like crap! Thats because women have the maturity of naughty children. They want & need discipline!
The same applies in job interviews and at car dealerships. Not caring makes you more relaxed, more watchful of your own interests and more in control of the situation.
It's time we understood that the whole concept of 'good man' was rotten from the get go. What the concept really stands for is a quiet, submissive slave with no personal worth. It is not a human being. As for whining you are half right. It is true that whining is not acceptable. But the correct cause of action is not silent suffering. The correct course of action is to remove and destroy the problem that would have been the cause of the whining. A slave would never even consider that but a masculine man would have no other options. Silent suffering is akin to always turning the other ass cheek in order to get phucked over and over again.
What is WRONG with wanting MEN to behave like MEN precisely so WOMEN can behave like WOMEN and be the ones with feelings!? Female here, as much as I agree with a lot of your viewpoints because I have TRAINED myself to THINK and behave like a man because of my job, sometimes I wonder, why FIGHT instead of just ACCEPTING that this is female nature and that is how mother nature intended it to be!? Why fight the feminine urge to have feelings validated, to be heard, to be cherished? Men throughout history have had to PROVE they can be rational and can provide. If I wanted a partner that discussed feelings, I would MARRY A WOMAN.
We know no one cares or is going to rescue us as men we have to do it ourselves and never show that level of vulnerability with women they find it disgusting
You touched on it for a second. If a man thinks a GF, or even a wife, will love him as much as his own mother - he's lying to himself from the beginning.
If you can lose it that bad because one person disagreed with you maybe it's time for some introspection. Unless you genuinely believe that sort of reaction is somehow normal or healthy.
the failure of feminism is the complete lack of introspection. They blame men for everything while so many women rush off to objectify themselves on social media and OF instead of going into STEM and the like. Meanwhile serial killers get love letters and nudes from crazy women but men are the problem!
I think you should do a video on the tendency of women to hold men responsible and often directly accountable for their physical inadequacies(when compared to men in general). Often using contexts stemming entirely from biological differences as direct evidence of the patriarchy. For instance when asked something like "in what ways are men above women in this western society?" Common answers can include that women may feel scared when outside in the dark, especially alone, or that theres a wage gap based entirely on gender, or even that women are more likely to be sexually assaulted by men than men will be by women. All of those effects are caused by entirely biological circumstance and speak little toward the actual systematic oppression of women more so than common men. I dont think there's any evidence to suggest women systematically are oppressed more so than men. Saying women being scared to walk out alone at night is a form of their systematic oppression, is like a man saying him being scared to get married to a woman is a form of their systematic oppression. Or even abortions, since most women hardly seem to know what the term selective service even refers to.
A side note, many women find it unattractive when a guy complains or shows vast emotional spectrum. Some will even leave you and lose all respect they had for you if you cry in front of them. So yea you should let them know of your struggles just not too much.
Yeah and the genuine feminine women aren’t attracted to men who act more feminine than themselves. Genuine women are still very much attracted to masculine men regardless what these toxic feminists have done over the years. I am all for equality and understanding of equal pay etc but feminists have done a step to far when it comes to dating. Feminism has lost its cause and has become a joke and even feminine women are against these toxic feminists who go around hating men when they don’t get their way because men are waking up.
Diana Fleischman's book How to Train Your Boyfriend is a great resource on this topic. The premise is that women subconscious apply behaviourism to get what they want from the men in their lives. Women instinctively treat men as instruments. I only have a slight disagreement, man was not really expected to silently support his wife. In most Western faiths the husband was recognised as the head of the household and his wife and children owed him obedience and adoration. So if he wanted something he could have it. Gender roles have changed under the threat of no-fault divorce and alimony. Now men are expected to support their women as beta-providers and ersatz-homemakers while women go through phases of promiscuity, motherhood/nesting and careerism.
If I wanted to read How To Train Your Girlfriend, I'd be a bad person. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces and lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty. Meanwhile, religion and therapy are dead feminine spaces.....there are many these days.
Partially in her defense ( LOL i know, but its funny), but she was triggered initially by her date. So while she was ranting & raving about him, som dude had the gall, the nerve, the CHUTZPAH to call her out on trashing all men because she is mad about one dude! She aint angry, she is mad (cray-cray)!
The reason she was so upset that about what that one guy said is that the people in the comment section were more interested in what he was saying than what she said in the original video.
I've learned most women do not appreciate what you do for them. I asked for a little gratitude once and she turned it around on me and said it was my fault for being too good to her. After her I checked out of the relationship game.
I remember coming home from an Army deployment to Iraq and having my wife ask me how it was. I told her in graphic terms mainly because I needed to get it off my chest. Big mistake. She didn't like that the difficulties she faced while I was gone were not even remotely comparable to what I had been through. Then she started implying that my experiences had damaged me and made me prone to violence. If I was honest, all she succeeded in doing was to expose my previously latent misogyny.
If a woman doesn’t naturally feel obligated to fulfill her husband’s rights, then she is in no position to complain about her problems, which are all mostly self-inflicted. Men have woken up and are no longer falling for this garbage.
We buried things deep deep down when we as men could no longer speak our minds with regards to women in the workplace, which began in the late 80s. With the onset of Oprah, then Hillary, men started getting punished in the workplace for making “offensive” comments that weren’t offensive. If a man made a constructive comment or criticism of a woman’s work performance, he was called out, humiliated and punished for being offensive. I saw and experienced the before, and then the onset, and then watched as men turned inwards distant and complacent. There was a major attack, and it became cross the board in the mid-90s which you were lectured about over whenever you started a job.
Thank you, Alexander. I'm just about done with the old me. The blue-pilled me. The version of me who concerns himself solely with the needs of others. I am learning now to take care of myself. And I've been doing a lot better since.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, for showing every living man on earth why that woman is not a good dating prospect. (ffs, even calling her a bad prospect is a compliment)
That was a wild a video, that broad was totally convinced she had the moral justification to act and say those things. Like you said that was just so ingrained in her. Scary indeed...
Mr. Grace is much more knowledgeable, but I do not believe these are unconscious behaviors. The woman is very conscious in looking for what she considers assaults on her dignity.
This video expresses my experience with women, in general, and my marriage better than anything I have seen or read. I certainly recognize the kind man he is describing here. I did all of those things and I see it in every man I know who is still married.
You couldnt be more wrong if you hired a team of women to help you! Women shame 7 humiliate THEMSELVES by the way they conduct themselves! We just point it out because in our society, we are not allowed to expose the truth if it makes women FEEL bad about themselves! Lady, if you are so worried about feeling bad, stop acting like an idiot! Thats how you REALLY stop it! not making everyone else be quiet! Are you here to help the poor little women? Are you the White Knight in shining armour to save them from the bad men? LOL
Traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change while marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and chronic social isolation drives people insane. Never trust someone wearing a mask.
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Damn that's a good question
Government, elite control of media.
@Alexander - You'll probably know of Van Badham in Oz, I have seen this kind of thing from her as she busies herself propagating this kind of solipsistic entitlement and simpery. It just sews a field of hideousness that should never ever be harvested. It's beyond just being wrong, it's well into pernicious territory.
personalized video? reallly werid lol, but maybe you should publicly post one that has lot of lessons in it after sucessfully trying to get him to consent to it
Because the government and women have teamed up in an unholy alliance to turn men into slaves for their selfish needs.
It reminds me of when Emily King said "men were taught their entire lives how to treat a woman but not what to expect from a woman, women were taught what to expect from a man but not how to treat a man.
That's perfect.
This is GOOD!
"Women never appreciate mens' sacrifices" absolutely spot on!!!!
Appreciation is way too much to ask. They won't even acknowledge the existence of male compromise and sacrifice. Women go so far as to never, ever directly ask a man to provide something they want. "If you really loved me, or were williing to pay attention and spend time with me, you'd know what I want. I shouldn't have to ask" WTF?!!
Men have disagreements all the time. They state their respective positions in a direct and efficient meeting and work out a compromise. The compromise will typically involve some amount of sacrifice by all sides involved.
Your woman will never take that approach, because she can't tolerate the compromise and sacrifice parts of it. She will try mightily, instead, to manipulate her man into offering her what she wants without any discussion, compromises, or sacrifice. Also, a lot of differences are not amenable to compromise, and you have to do some horse trading, such as "OK, will do this your way this time, but next time, we'll do something my way." If she can get what she wants without debate, you can't use horse trading to work out solutions.
Women just won't ever tell you want they truly want or need. Guys go nuts trying to please them because of this.
well said bro, well said.@@Yesquire0
its ironic how she talks about not "coddling male fragility" when she is posting about how emotional fragile she is and needs to insult everyone online as a way of coping and expecting people to coddle her.
The ironic part is that in other context she would probably say that men and women are equal...
Out of 100 men online posting to her. One ☝️ disagrees and it completely destroys her internal fantasy. But it’s male fragility that’s the problem. 😂
Everything about these people is ironic and full of contradictions, I hope WW3 happens and humanity nukes itself to ruin, at least I get the joy even if just a couple seconds knowing women like the one in this video and any modern feminist + believers that you can change your gender, will get obliterated.
Hamster Wheel Logic 101…
@@hungrymusicwolf 😂
I was assigned a female divorce judge and ended up losing 70% of my money, assets, and home equity in my UK divorce, despite us only having 1 kid and her earning more than me. This video helps to explain a lot of what happened. Men are see as sacrificial or expendable.
They sacrifice enough of us and the women will be the ones sent to the front lines. Women on the front lines will either be toxic or appreciative and both of those will make their mark on following generations.
Treat this woman EXACTLY as she deserves. Laugh at her and then ignore her.
And laugh some more when she hits the wall!
I don't agree with that actually before i was like:" okay she's emotional so just let it be and be the man and chill'
But i have notice that that's the problem men have to say no and show her she's rude and bad and make it clear you don't allow this behavior!
Never treat *anyone* as if they're monolithicaly one way or another. Treat everyone individually.
@@fm2dmax Nah, women asked for this.
@@loganblackwood2922 I’m a woman but I didn’t ask for this. There are still good women no matter how nasty some of them are, shouldn’t disgrace the ones that aren’t that way at all. It’s just the same pendulum swinging to both extremes, the balance is in the middle where both are honored. Hating one or the other is not productive. Have to find the harmony between both, honoring both in their healthy state, not only looking at the unhealthy examples and then saying they’re all like that.
"I get pissed off when I'm dealing with incompetence!" Which is why she's angry 100% of the time, because no matter where you go, there you are.
"Which is half the population."
Who hurt you?
Hahahaaaaa
“Stop making it about you” - she says, because she wants it all to be about her. There’s no conversation available here, this woman is a tyrant and wants to be the only voice in the room, and when any guy dares to share his perspective, she gets full of rage. This is nothing but extreme narcissism.
@Anth Öny not tyrant. think more like Immature (Childish) Selfish, Self Centered (She is the center of the universe) Danger Will Robinson! Train Stop Sized Red Flag! the Need to "Clap" to Emphasize her verbal Speaking Points. Definitely not a long term Relationship/Marriage Material Woman.
@@jaguarwarrior866 I agree with your points.
Pretty much yeah haha. It's weapons grade narcissism, I think if you looked at it in the dictionary it would just have a picture of her and her name on it lmao.
Parasite animals
one word: P R O J E C T I O N
The whole gratitude thing makes sense. I have to give my wife a lot of credit here. She does express gratitude a lot. Whenever I do the yard, any kind of project, smoke/grill something for dinner, help with anything else, she'll always make a point of thanking me for it. But I think a lot of this comes from her upbringing.
Social Media is rubbish. And all the people that slided into her DMs agreeing with her are the reason why we derail more and more into this insane reality.
Simps are always the problem... . Once you start thinking more about it, the more you start despising those men.
Don't hate the player, hate the game. If she plays the game, she plays without you.
I only have UA-cam, and Gmail. I'm 30.
It's far more than social media. Happy wife, happy life is the same concept being that it's an impossible issue to address so you can fight women's preference to escape reality or you can let them escape reality and get whatever incidental benefits that come from her being in a good mood. The really F'd up part is this crappy solution is what is referred to by feminists as the patriarchy and is hated bc it infantilizes women yet until women stop being childlike this is the only solution for men as long as society keeps protecting them from their mistakes.
Literally my first thoughts on the matter
Well explained, Alexander. Women are truly their own worst enemies, and they don't even realize it.
The problem is aggravated online by the presence of male simps who will always agree with and praise women like her. Then one man doesn't kiss up to her, and it wrecks her.
They know exactly what they're doing.
Shouting at men to "don't make everything about you" while making everything about you...
You cannot make this sh*t up.
That's literally every argument I have with my gf.
I get all the questions and statements like "what did you mean when you said this?, This is why I don't like arguing with you. You said this and that brought up an energy in me, if you can't handle that, then that's on you." Etc. Etc
Then I explain how I'm feeling about her yelling at me, or seemingly blaming me for something that was unintentional. At which point I get "You always do this, you make it about"you" and and your emotions".
I'm so thankful we don't live together and usually only see each other on the weekends.
Telling me to be emotionally available while telling them the need to stop making it about their feelings.
@@jeradblazek677 yea bro I think you know not to take that girl seriously anymore
@@jeradblazek677 Get out!!! Run!!! Escape!!!
@@jeradblazek677 Break up wit her, you will be happier alone. I had ex gf like that and we had tons of issues, but only i did everything to fix our problems meanwhile she found new things to be upset about and complain, even in the end she blamed me after years of supporting her both financially and emotionally. So yea, your mental health is important, take care of it, don't stay with crazy chick.
I am a woman and am glad you put this video out there.
'It's not my job to coddle your male fragility' okay what if we called all women trash?
If women went through what the average man goes through then the suicide rates would go through the roof. Just ask Norah Vincent.
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You can’t ask Norah Vincent because she committed sui**de.
@gsmollin2 Just goes to show how difficult us guys have it. She had the option of going back as a woman and she STILL couldn't get over the trauma she experienced.
They are all trash, they're all ran-thru sloores and we used to call them that when it was true. Now we don't even call a 100+ body count woman a sloor.
We can't ask Norah Vincent. She's dead.
Wow, that woman is literally insane. Nothing more to be said.
Women: "Men don't share their emotions!"
Women when men share our emotions: this video
Lol
Exactly 😂
To be fair expecting logical consistency from a woman is far too much to ask lol
"He'S NoT EmOtIoNaLlY AvAiLaBlE !!"
@@cjjuszczak
I can't tell you how many times I heard "You're not emotionally available!" from a woman I dated for 12 years. I could never figure out what she meant. Women don't like it if they yell and you remain silent. They don't like it when you yell back. They *_really_* don't like it if, during a pause in the tirade, you ask "Are you finished?" [This is my favorite, actually. It causes an instant relaunch toward orbit. Since I didn't ever really know why or how we got to this point, anyway, I came to view it as my "contribution to an evening's entertainment."]
Remain silent; think your own thoughts. Keep your self-respect. When you've had enough, leave; go for a drive or a walk or something.
You are spot one. It physically hurts women to say thanks. When they do say it, it is never sincere. But, LOL, tell them how you are feeling. Bull. They don't want to hear it. Then you are accused of making everything about you. They simply do not care, end of story.
"No one is coming to rescue you" - Always remember that gentlemen, ALWAYS remember that.
You could always join the Marines.
@@davemcduringo4377 Democrats run the marines now! It is becoming a Woke circus JUST like everything else democrats have been allowed to control.
Remember they don’t either when you on your grind 😂
No need for rescue from anyone though. But it takes a while to see that.
Save yourself lads!
My last GF was an anxious wreck at times and she would dump all her problems on me in a realy ranting, animated way. Even though it wasn't directed at me, having that negative emotion erupt everytime we saw each other really effected me to the point i didn't want to talk to her some days.
The problem was, i knew that sharing that with her, would only make her way more anxious and neurotic.
I wanted to be there for her and loved that i made her feel calm and safe but she made me less happy.
In the end i broke it off and it was a compkete surprise to her.
Kind of a shitty thing to do but i knew that once i shared that i was unhappy being the outlet for all her emotional negativity that the fuse would be lit on our relationship.
When a man acts like a woman, it's seen as a weakness/insult. When a woman acts like a man, it's seen as a strength. This tells you everything you need to know as to which sex needs to lead and which needs to follow.
A man acting like a woman is a complete turnoff. Act like a man. And no, it’s not a strength for a woman to act like a man!! And men are NOT garbage.
Feminists are not feminine, we want women to act like women and men to act like men. But yes my man is the leader and I follow him.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 💯🔥
@@shivashakti3824 🔥
So if men are naturally supposed by the head of the household and women are supposed to obey, howcome men and women generally need to be persuaded by their pastor to follow those roles? If they were innate, I seems people would all want to gravitate towards them
Her behavior perfectly mirrors the media
My late wife was a rare gem. She showed gratitude & appreciation all the time through her actions. For example, as a stay-at-home wife anytime she wanted to spend a bit of money on herself (ie some clothing, going out to lunch with a friend etc) she would always ring me at work & ask if it was ok. That wasn't something I expected of her, nor was it something I ever asked her to do, & despite how many times I said to her she didn't need my permission, she would still always ask. To her it was a gesture of respect & appreciation. & let me tell you, having a wife who didn't have to do something but still chooses to do it for no other reason than to show her respect & appreciation made me feel more valued, more respected, more appreciated & more loved than you could imagine.
You wife sounds like a properly educated woman.
@@frankharris3380 a gem that seems rare to find
What was her relationship with her father like?
@@TheAleksandros how's that important
That's a good woman , something rare today.
In all honesty whenever I tell my wife these things she fights tooth and nail to deny, distract and destroy the conversation. She knows exactly what I'm saying and exactly what she's doing.
The only thing that helped was to disengage on certain fronts. I don't do things anymore unless I want to do them. I hold my ground if that upsets her and she learns she can't force me to do things her way
Sounds like a one sided nightmare
Men have given up on expecting gratitude, which is why many settle for just being left alone by going their own way.
I heard someone (Rollo?) say women are Solipsistic. Had to look it up. Once I did a lot of stuff starting making sense. They live in their own world where they are the star of the movie and everyone else is a supporting role. No other emotions or hardships matter except their own. Everything they do wrong is someone else's fault.
"why cant men just accept that they are garbage like i say they are?"
unbelievable
Because no one bothered to "advocate expectation management".
#InsolentAudits
The duty to hold the relationship together doesn't just "Fall on us" I actively get shammed or ridiculed by my partner if it doesn't happen. Probably why I am going to be single soon. When one side carries all the responsibilities it just doesn't seem to be worth it any more.
"Most women do not want to deal with male pain if it interferes with the satisfaction of female desire."
- bell hooks
Women generally have a hard time being anything but solipsistic narcissists, they only know how to love a child. Don’t wife up the modern woman, NOT worth it and women don’t deserve it these days.
Wow
A-Grade Philosopher...🏆👍🏅
@@gerhardvanderpoll7378 she's actually a feminist...
@@pedro.pe916 I dont agree with a lot of her points but at least she's consistent in holding women accountable.
I see a lot of women on social media constantly posting things downing men or about their toxicity and when someone doesn't agree they get enraged then block them
This happened to me on linkedin with some nitwit who was a marketing person for Nike (so she claims) i tried to call BS on women getting paid less than men, and she lost her head!
“Better to live on the corner of a roof than a house shared with a contentious woman.”
The absolute best thing to do if a woman (or child) behaves like that dangerously imbalanced woman is to ignore. She has the crazy eyes of a person who is throwing a temper tantrum to an imaginary audience.
If she acted this way in real life around actual friends or acquaintances, she would absolutely be shunned for her bad behavior.
She is looking to strangers on the internet to validate her feelings, probably because she doesn’t have good friends grounding her in real life.
She’s still pretty enough that she’s getting preferential treatment by strangers, but the wall is going to slap this woman hard if she doesn’t learn how to make and keep friends.
The internet is not your friends.
or as Bill Burr says "better to sleep alone on futon in a small apartment than in a king size bed in a big house next to a woman who despises you."
One of my favourite scriptures.
Better to boot a contentious woman's behind to the corner of the roof or even to the curb than tolerate endless BS. Retaining complete ownership and control of said roof helps with this. Yes, there are ways to do this despite our legal system's misandry.
Sadly, at least some women act this way at least some of the time irl.
Having said that, there are also plenty of women who probably never do, and probably some men who do to, although I can't imagine a man getting away with it without consequences.
There are women who act this way at work. So many allowances are made for bad behavior based on their status as a woman.
Important topic here guys! Take heed at the first signs of her feeling entitled, as this is NOT going to improve! If she has a hard time showing any genuine interest in your problems or achievements, do NOT fall into the trap of trying harder to please her. Do NOT start to believe that basic respect is the same as the absence of obvious contempt.
I dated a girl, like this... She thought I was blindly supposed to support, her dumb ideas.. Just cuz we dated?!?
🤣
Turn around and walk away.
Was it not a bit of a dumb idea to date a woman with dumb ideas...?? A perfect match...???🤔🤔🤔
@@gerhardvanderpoll7378 well it takes awhile to find that that's a person's motive...
So what was my dumb idea?
Figuring you had sense?
@@BrutalMonkey Be patient with the guy. His name is Gerhard! I am sure he suffers quite a bit already! LOL Hey Gerhard, not even 1 like on your post! Speaking of dumb, i think you hit the jackpot!
"I posted 'Men Are Garbage' on my friends Instagram because I had a sexist experience happen to me that night.."
"Men need to stop derailing the conversation when women say 'Men Are Garbage', and stop making it about their feelings.."
The fact that these statements can be made
openly in this manner is a testament to which group of people in this country are truly discriminated against the most. Forget race..forget ethnicity and nationalty..it's MEN. It's Men in general, regardless of our race, ethnicity, nationalty, it's Men who are openly and publicly being discriminated against in the most disrespectful ways, and it's just accepted as normal.
No one bats an eye at the above statements she made. Could you imagine the outrage if the statement she made was:
"Black people need to stop derailing the conversation when we say 'Black People Are Garbage'..."
Imagine the outrage and backlash that it would create if she made a video to complain, and started it off with that statement. And then continued with:
"I posted 'Black People Are Garbage' on my friend's Instagram because I had a really bad experience with a black person that night.."
The nerve it would take to make a video like that would be astronomical! The outrage in response to it would be absolutely savage. She'd probably have to go into hiding. It simply would not be tolerated.
But since her video is about Men, no one bats an eye. I can't help that I'm a man anymore than I can help that I'm black. And the same goes for white men, Latino men, Asian men, etc. We can't help that we are Men anymore than we can help what race we are. So why in the hell do we tolerate statements like hers being made?? Why aren't those statements getting the same kind of energy that openly disrespectful statements about our race would get?
This is an extremely disturbing and disgusting thing that we as Men are so tolerant of the disrespect, discrimination, and open and boldface blatant misandrist sexism that is leveled against us that we don't even bat an eye at anymore. We just take it, and it's just a normal thing now that we can be treated with such disrespect by the very people who actually depend on us for their protection and all of the comforts of society that they have. No one reaps the benefits of civilized society more than women, and civilized society would not function and thrive without Men.
But Men Are Garbage.
Just ignore nasty women like her
It won't be easy to find, but find a copy of the minutes of an early N.O.W. meeting ... the opening minutes are very informative. They are a mirror image of a communist soviet (meeting). They openly state their purpose is revolution by means of destruction of the American family. And, to do That, they acknowledge the necessity of the destruction of the American male and the promotion of homosexuality and wokism.
You said the Truth, Brother. As a white Man , from Poland i really support you in this statement. God Bless You, take care Brother.👍
Worst in actuality is being a white man. Cause then no one really cares about you. Not even people against racism 😂
Yeah, this is a really good comparison. The world is pretty sad nowadays
Just reverse the genders and see how utterly insane all claims are she‘s making. Imagine a man saying: „When I‘m saying all women are trash, you must validate my experience and not make it about your feelings, you fragile woman! Also, try not to make points that prove me wrong about what I said about all women!! Just be my doormat and shut up!!!“
She is so blind to her own sexism. Sexism is defined as generalizing things to an entire gender, and she is literally doing that when she says "all men are trash". Yet is quick to rail about how sexist a man is for disagreeing with her. The level of lunacy is astounding.
Reverse the genders doesn't work because with people like that it's rule for thee and not for me. They would get mad at the man and jump down his throat and then turn around and do the same thing. Seen it happen before....will see it continue to happen.
@@adamd9166 Meh, i bet she has an even higher level of lunacy than this! I bet she is a 'Fatal Attraction' type chick! She has them CRAZY EYES!
Women are like toddlers mentally.
What a piece of work. That body language is spot on to what my 15 year old granddaughter looks like.
Do not fall drunken to the "sweet elixer" of a woman's gratitude. She may briefly appreciate what you bring her. Find that dopamine hit from every other thing you do. Womens' manipulations include sweet words, gentle touch, a pleading face. They get what they want, no matter what. Don't get caught paying for it.
Women are like cats, they will rub on you until they get what they want, and then goodbye...
@@jean-louislalonde6070 spunk dumpster alley cats
There's no building equity with women... there is no such thing as a love bank.
guys who have been used as emotional tampons know this all too well as she'll be so grateful and huggy telling you what a great guy you are but the moment she gets over her trauma, you're invisible to her.
2024 and she's still single and angrily clapping, yelling and being ignored.
Such women who take to social media sites and start mouthing off and being disrespectful tend to be the most narcissistic and toxic women. Avoid them at all cost because they are showing us their true colours and they don’t deserve a relationship with us genuine men. I’ve noticed the genuine women are starting to criticise these narcissistic women too and sticking up for us genuine men, which is a good thing.
She was vulgar and offensive, her opinion is irrelevant regardless of wether she's right or wrong.
Genuine men and women unite! ✊🏽👊🏽
I saw a latina on ig yesterday telling women to quit feeding off simps, made me smile
It’s about damn time! They DIDN’T speak out for the longest time. SILENCE = CONSENT. Anyone remember that little gem?
@@donrood7282 Social media is an absolute gift to us genuine men because the toxic feminists are literally showing us their true colours. They didn’t want equality, they just wanted superiority and all the genuine men and women can see it for themselves. Avoid feminists at all costs gentlemen because they are the most narcissistic humans on earth. They don’t deserve a genuine man or a relationship whatsoever. Massive difference between genuine feminine women and toxic feminists.
That is one of the biggest deficits in relationships for men, the simple gratitude for the things we do for women. Often times that is all we want. We dont want a big deal, just a simple and real thank you for what you do for me. That will keep us going through some hard times in life with work and family stresses. When we know that the woman we love appreciates us and loves us we can go through hell and make it through the other side
Literally just had a girl that I was dating for 3 months block me on all social media because I told her a video she posted was toxic. Which was some broad going off on men in some smart ass, insulting rant. This happened all last night 😂
Abundance mindset. Saved me a whole heap of trouble.
Talk about fragility
Yup. Don't fight, don't argue, just remove her from your life.
She is hiding in her Safe Space with her cookies & her crayons! How strong & brave she is! LOL Yup dude, women are a dime a dozen and hardly worth that dime (many of them)! On to the next one for you!
Sounds like you dodged a bullet bro
We are all Neo on rooftops dodging bullets. Nice move.
There is so much truth here.
I had to find out these truths the hard way.
Wish I had a channel like this when I was younger.
I have listened to enough of these laydees to understand that 95% of them are simply not capable of Love.
They can really only love a child that comes out of them (not another woman's child.)
They see men as disposable, replacable ATMs. She values you about out as much as her iPhone.
Nah . The will sacrifice you for theirs Phone and Social media
@@saiyanape6015 hahaha
There are hints to the inability of women to love someone else in the Bible.
Ran-thrus can't bare bond. Their primary love is their ego and their second love is their delusion.
@@loganblackwood2922 pair bond you mean?
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up on the net. impressive.
Replace every use of "can't" with "not yet ready to" and you'll take a big step towards sorting all that out. You can do all those things, you just aren't ready to yet. Framing it correctly is important.
A wise man once told me. You have to believe they have died because that person has gone and it will never be the same again. So don't think about her anymore bro, the person you loved has died.
Dude, read and listen carefully: stop breaking your own heart by exaggerating your place in someone else's life.
pure, unadulterated narcissism
Man o man. How are we ever gonna fix this? The aggression, the entitlement, the laziness, the complete lack of reciprocity, how are we ever gonna have a genuine connection?
I still have no idea, why some individuals beleive that their feelings and "experiences" are the absolute representation of reality. And usually these people get offended the most when you call them out for it.
it's like the inverse of object permanence: if the homunculus sees it, it must be objectively real.
That, and they try to invalidate conflicting feelings and experiences.
All because they are narcissistic women and didn’t want us to figure out how attraction truly works, so they are now getting aggressive and start name calling etc.
many people are raised to be entitled and society assists this thru cultural programming thru media, social media, etc.
There are not My reality, there is only one reality and their delusions.
Sitting in her car Screaming at her camera, definitely a sign of an emotionally and mentally Unstable woman.
That behavior is Not normal.
From Johnny delly
What a sweet lovely woman in her soft feminine energy, it is just magical to witness.... lol!
Yeah she seems wonderful
Yep...absolutely fantastic....like a porcupine with fangs wielding an axe....enough to give every guy "a soft-on and a shrink -up and hide..."
@@jevonjames3241 Any man would be 'lucky' to have her! Thank GAWD im not that lucky!!!
@@inconnu4961 I agree completely what an amazing woman inside and out
A loving symbiosis of Gaia and the Yoni, and the whole world reeking of goddang fish.
Everytime i brought up intimacy, it was always on me, that i didn't do the right stuff to get her in the mood, and i was shut down. But everytime she needed something, anything, if i said no or will see, i was again shut down. So she wanted all the benefits without doing anything or bare minimum. She actually said more than one occasion something like : isn't my presence enough ? I should've gave the same question back to her when she asked me to do or buy something. It's all about equality, right ? only if they gain from it.
Im a homosexual man and I absolutely love your content. You're the only other person apart from myself who's ever voiced what I've also noticed about gender relations between men and women - specifically that women don't ever consider that each individual man has a unique inner world and interior subjectivity, and that like all people they desire to be known and connected with and valued for their interior lives. For the longest time I thought that I as a gay man was the only 'type' of person likely to actually notice this, given how abused and subjugated men are within heterosexual gender relations, I thought that my fellow gays were the only people ever likely to really come to appreciate the inner lives of men! Needless to say Im so glad that Ive found a genuinely conscious person talk about these subjects, its a pleasure listening to you talk. I also love that you said that men also self-abnegate! This particularly dynamic needs way more attention!
I wonder what is like to be in a relationship between two men. Does it feel more like equals or is it common to assign certain roles to each side? I guess it could be hard for you to compare if you only date men
thank you for your words and thoughts. You very clearly articulated the conditions of existence for many/most hetero relationships. You speak truth.
@@computerguymiguelam just guessing that same gender relationships also thrive on masculine and feminine energy. Maybe one is masculine and the other is feminine or they both change their energies regarding how they feel in the moment. I’ve got a cousin who is gay and he and his boyfriend both have respect for each other’s needs and that is just great to see unlike these narcissistic and toxic women forever giving men mixed signals, as well as their unrealistic double standards. Us genuine men just want a similar relationship where we can focus on our own ambition, purpose and vision without a woman telling us one thing one minute and another thing the next minute saying you don’t give me enough attention and wrongly accusing us of cheating. Us genuine men have had enough of such narcissistic women and I for one am willing to walk away from any narcissistic woman for the sake of my own health and wellbeing.
You speak the truth my friend, thank you for your kind words and wisdom.
Thank you for your insight
My wife told me very boldly one day, after we were married. Although I am not a whinger in any way, she told me that she never expected to hear another thing about my day. She would tell me about hers and I would listen. Fortunately, my 60~80 work weeks limited any possibility of either. I am just so sorry my children did not have more time with me, they told me latter how much it hurt them. I'm also glad she did not overhear them, women are very vengeful creatures.
A few weeks ago I had a female in a YT comment actually tell me that there's "no such thing as misandry"
Yeah... because womxn don't control everything and oppress, or some dumb shxt so there can't be misandry unlike misogyny.
You should also know misogyny means something different to wxmen(mainly feminists and college aged adults). By definition it's the same as misandry in that you hate the other gender. To them it's a buzzword they can use for anything you say that they don't like. To put negative intent on your words. Basically if it's not positive reinforcement it's misogyny....
I hope you laughed at her? There can NOT be misoginee (spelt it for the YT police) if there is not misandry too! LOL
@inconnu4961 ...always do, in such situations, with such clowns
It's a variant of the leftist thesis "there is no reverse racism", they say some races are racist and others are pure. Irony? What irony?!?!
this is the REALEST message i've heard in a long time. i'm LIVING this out right now in a rather unfortunate way.
I don't think she thinks you want less sex or prefer her over your friends. She is following a pattern she learned with her father, manipulation to get what she wants. It's about her needs taking precedence over yours. They smile, or pout, or gaslight as necessary. It's ingrained in their culture. Women either treat men as something to be worshiped and followed (i.e. Chad), or as an employee without emotions who derives all satisfaction from service (i.e. Mr. Beta Bucks).
It's rather obvious that she doesn't think at all, merely reacts to stimuli like a trained dog.
This was so refreshing.
So many of the things he spoke about are off-limits in this narrow-minded, sexist society.
A great listen.
Outstanding analysis and explanation! I'm 63 and only now am able to understand the underpinnings of my relationships with any woman, from my mother to girlfriends to ex-wives, thanks to your insight. I wish I would have learned this in my 20's... it might have circumvented a lot of grief in my life. Please keep up your excellent work!
I heard that. I ‘m 72, with the same regrets. I have spent my life being a wallet for wife and family. At least I was able to raise my family. Many men were cast aside by such vipers.
I'm 63 and just got divorced. Society doesn't recognize how men are victimized by narcissistic wives.
Extreme narcissism. Woman screaming stop making it about you. The irony is completely lost on her. If a man doesn't affirm and conform to her world view, then he is sexist. Moment of silence for whomever dates her.
"I'm mad I got called out for my sexism" I translated her babble for everyone
Where did you study Womanese? Asking for a friend.
I'm at a point in life when this hits me pretty hard. Actually I suffered the exact thing from yesterday to today. Thank you for your work.
This is why I have long stopped being polite. Politeness just puts you at a disadvantage with insane people. That doesn't mean being rude. That simply means others have no *right* to respect from me, they must show they are worth it. Strangers do NOT deserve respect just for existing.
Good 👋👋
Politeness is not acting naive.
You seen the Bond t0rtUr3 scene?
The man's polite, but what he does to bond is beyond 'insane'.
@@manubishe "Politeness is not acting naive"
OK, who said it was?
"The man's polite, but what he does to bond is beyond 'insane'."
That's nice, but it's also a *MOVIE* and this is a complete non-sequitur with regards to my original comment...
@@Mike80528 yeah, politeness doesn't put one at a disadvantage with insane people, unless politeness it includes that which you included in it, implicitly, and can't fathom that another thing falls under that name, in your world view.
Politeness is acting cordial, not respectful
Moreover, if you signal care, or respect in your polite manners, it would be seen as a form of transgression by the mature public.
@@manubishe You do not understand and I am not going to even bother trying. You are a case in point. I could be polite, but why when you are trying to argue a point I didn't even make? Your ignorance isn't my problem. I am not here to educate the ignorant. Being polite would mean pointing out where you misunderstand my comment and what exactly me comment refers to and providing examples. Screw that. Figure it our on your own. The next time some asshole gets in your face accusing you of something falsely lets see you stay nice and polite and see how well that works out for you...
It took me 30 years of marriage to a high quality woman who insists on educating her men (me and our sons) about women's foibles - and here you understand all this at half my age!!!
I thank God for you and your willingness (and obvious DESIRE) to be TRULY HELPFUL, which makes you a "bona fide" mental health resource in my book. :-)
Please let me know if I can be helpful to your mission in any way (behind the scenes) (gather/curate/generate data, etc.)
The average woman wants a man who is taller than her, stronger than her, smarter than her, richer than her, funnier than her, have a more stable temperament than her despite being shorter than him, weaker than him, dumber than him, poorer than him, more boring than him, and more psychotic than him. And she's worth it because she' thinks she's _the prize_
Exactly. My serious question is why would any man want any woman? What is the rational reason?
@@varmastiko2908
1) Biological impulses they choose to not control. Vvhamens for hire are solving this.
2) Children
3) Societal pressures - there's something 'wrong' with you if you're single. This one is fading FAST.
@@theelder4797If you are correct then it seems men want women because men act in feminine ways. So learning masculinity is the solution. This might sound weird at first but actually I think this is how it really is. Once a man learns to be truly masculine his need for women decreases hugely.
@@theelder4797And I will add that it's arguable if any of the listed reasons are rational reasons as per my question. Thanks for the comment.
In the old caveman day she would have been clubbed and kick out of the cave tiger food that's what's missing
I find it kinda unfair how a man has to work hard to be attractive to a woman and yet a man also has to love a woman unconditionally.
The thing is: we actually don't.
@@kaptainwarp please tell me how, I'm intrigued
This is heartbreaking, and that girl’s tantrum is embarrassing and pathetic. She insults men and then tells a man it’s not about him… Really sucks how bad these women are making us all look. I’ve adored men my whole life and live as an advocate for divine masculine. I actually had no idea about any of this until my brother started sharing this type of content, including this video.
To love a man is to know deeply what he wants and needs, the journey of the relationship is learning how to deliver. One thing that men do is make it look easy so we don’t realize how hard it really is.
Love you guys
Thank you. It's important to realise that there are good women out there too.
@@attiladanko6379 thank you 🙏🏽
Traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change, across the world, and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows. Talk is cheap.
Aww, how sweet … I’m not being sarcastic
I have said for years: this occurs because men do not exist as people to women: men exist only as concepts and as servants who should NEVER get out of line.
My ex once agreed to make a motorcycle tour with me, i felt really lucky, checked the oil, and happily took her for a ride, when we passed the first town she told me that she wanted to go to a museum. *i facepalmed*. But i swear, she was not aware how she manipulated me into bringing her to a museum lol.
In the end we argued so much that i got fed up and dropped her at the train station and continued the tour alone.
Before being separated I tried to debate and even everything out in a fair way that both could agree on. I admit I learned to do a lot of useful stuff that I decided to take on to share burdens. I never really felt appreciated but I always thought (still do...) that whining isn't acceptable. Now I still have to deal with her because of my son but I just don't care. I say what I want, what I like and don't like, when It can happen and it can't and amazingly (or not) dealing with her is a lot straightforward and pleasant than before. She is even more reasonable than ever. It's almost mind boggling, when I wanted to please I got nothing, now I don't care and things are better.
it is always that way with women, they do not respond to being nice, maybe for one evening but then they treat you like a carpet to walk on. But if you are secure in your own self and set boundaries and demand respect, they are more likely to engage with you positively and even in a loving way.
@@impudentdomain Exactly right! This was my experience as well! You try to treat them the way they SAY they deserve to be treated and they treat YOU (us) like crap! Thats because women have the maturity of naughty children. They want & need discipline!
The same applies in job interviews and at car dealerships. Not caring makes you more relaxed, more watchful of your own interests and more in control of the situation.
It's time we understood that the whole concept of 'good man' was rotten from the get go. What the concept really stands for is a quiet, submissive slave with no personal worth. It is not a human being. As for whining you are half right. It is true that whining is not acceptable. But the correct cause of action is not silent suffering. The correct course of action is to remove and destroy the problem that would have been the cause of the whining. A slave would never even consider that but a masculine man would have no other options. Silent suffering is akin to always turning the other ass cheek in order to get phucked over and over again.
What is WRONG with wanting MEN to behave like MEN precisely so WOMEN can behave like WOMEN and be the ones with feelings!? Female here, as much as I agree with a lot of your viewpoints because I have TRAINED myself to THINK and behave like a man because of my job, sometimes I wonder, why FIGHT instead of just ACCEPTING that this is female nature and that is how mother nature intended it to be!? Why fight the feminine urge to have feelings validated, to be heard, to be cherished? Men throughout history have had to PROVE they can be rational and can provide. If I wanted a partner that discussed feelings, I would MARRY A WOMAN.
You SOUND VERY reasonable WITH HOW you KEEP USING CAPITALS to DENOTE SHOUTING as IF YOU ARE BERATING SOMEONE.
We know no one cares or is going to rescue us as men we have to do it ourselves and never show that level of vulnerability with women they find it disgusting
You touched on it for a second. If a man thinks a GF, or even a wife, will love him as much as his own mother - he's lying to himself from the beginning.
Fyi: his mother doesn't really love him, but what he represents and does
If you can lose it that bad because one person disagreed with you maybe it's time for some introspection. Unless you genuinely believe that sort of reaction is somehow normal or healthy.
And this is 2 days after the single social media post. Nuts
Narcissists can not be introspective.
lol, introspection from a feminist 304? thats real funny
the failure of feminism is the complete lack of introspection. They blame men for everything while so many women rush off to objectify themselves on social media and OF instead of going into STEM and the like. Meanwhile serial killers get love letters and nudes from crazy women but men are the problem!
Maybe its time for some strong medication! LOL Thats a whole lotta crazy going on in her head! That woman is mental!
I think you should do a video on the tendency of women to hold men responsible and often directly accountable for their physical inadequacies(when compared to men in general). Often using contexts stemming entirely from biological differences as direct evidence of the patriarchy. For instance when asked something like "in what ways are men above women in this western society?" Common answers can include that women may feel scared when outside in the dark, especially alone, or that theres a wage gap based entirely on gender, or even that women are more likely to be sexually assaulted by men than men will be by women. All of those effects are caused by entirely biological circumstance and speak little toward the actual systematic oppression of women more so than common men. I dont think there's any evidence to suggest women systematically are oppressed more so than men. Saying women being scared to walk out alone at night is a form of their systematic oppression, is like a man saying him being scared to get married to a woman is a form of their systematic oppression. Or even abortions, since most women hardly seem to know what the term selective service even refers to.
Affirmative Action for women is a tax burden
A side note, many women find it unattractive when a guy complains or shows vast emotional spectrum. Some will even leave you and lose all respect they had for you if you cry in front of them. So yea you should let them know of your struggles just not too much.
Yeah and the genuine feminine women aren’t attracted to men who act more feminine than themselves. Genuine women are still very much attracted to masculine men regardless what these toxic feminists have done over the years. I am all for equality and understanding of equal pay etc but feminists have done a step to far when it comes to dating. Feminism has lost its cause and has become a joke and even feminine women are against these toxic feminists who go around hating men when they don’t get their way because men are waking up.
Diana Fleischman's book How to Train Your Boyfriend is a great resource on this topic. The premise is that women subconscious apply behaviourism to get what they want from the men in their lives. Women instinctively treat men as instruments.
I only have a slight disagreement, man was not really expected to silently support his wife. In most Western faiths the husband was recognised as the head of the household and his wife and children owed him obedience and adoration. So if he wanted something he could have it.
Gender roles have changed under the threat of no-fault divorce and alimony. Now men are expected to support their women as beta-providers and ersatz-homemakers while women go through phases of promiscuity, motherhood/nesting and careerism.
If I wanted to read How To Train Your Girlfriend, I'd be a bad person. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces and lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty. Meanwhile, religion and therapy are dead feminine spaces.....there are many these days.
Wow. *One man* got her this fired up? Pathetic.
Partially in her defense ( LOL i know, but its funny), but she was triggered initially by her date. So while she was ranting & raving about him, som dude had the gall, the nerve, the CHUTZPAH to call her out on trashing all men because she is mad about one dude! She aint angry, she is mad (cray-cray)!
The reason she was so upset that about what that one guy said is that the people in the comment section were more interested in what he was saying than what she said in the original video.
I've learned most women do not appreciate what you do for them. I asked for a little gratitude once and she turned it around on me and said it was my fault for being too good to her. After her I checked out of the relationship game.
This should be mandatory viewing for all.
Thank you for this. It’s refreshing to hear you speak logic to all of this.
I remember coming home from an Army deployment to Iraq and having my wife ask me how it was. I told her in graphic terms mainly because I needed to get it off my chest. Big mistake. She didn't like that the difficulties she faced while I was gone were not even remotely comparable to what I had been through. Then she started implying that my experiences had damaged me and made me prone to violence. If I was honest, all she succeeded in doing was to expose my previously latent misogyny.
I had to shut her down. Her voice while screaming is unbearable... I am weak..
Indifference can often be the worst form of hate
If a woman doesn’t naturally feel obligated to fulfill her husband’s rights, then she is in no position to complain about her problems, which are all mostly self-inflicted.
Men have woken up and are no longer falling for this garbage.
Yup. You made a vow. Uphold your end, or suffer the consequences of betrayal.
Love how some women claim to be good christian women in a sexless marraige. See letters from Paul.
maybe some are waking up, but definitely, not all are awake yet! (me being the example of a recent wakeup call)
@@RobbieKiama spread the word
@@RobbieKiama Better late than never.
We buried things deep deep down when we as men could no longer speak our minds with regards to women in the workplace, which began in the late 80s. With the onset of Oprah, then Hillary, men started getting punished in the workplace for making “offensive” comments that weren’t offensive. If a man made a constructive comment or criticism of a woman’s work performance, he was called out, humiliated and punished for being offensive. I saw and experienced the before, and then the onset, and then watched as men turned inwards distant and complacent. There was a major attack, and it became cross the board in the mid-90s which you were lectured about over whenever you started a job.
Thank you, Alexander. I'm just about done with the old me. The blue-pilled me. The version of me who concerns himself solely with the needs of others. I am learning now to take care of myself.
And I've been doing a lot better since.
It's admirable to help others, but you gotta protect yourself. Some will abuse that kindness.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, for showing every living man on earth why that woman is not a good dating prospect. (ffs, even calling her a bad prospect is a compliment)
And that was a reaction triggered by only ONE MAN 😂… imagine an entire army
Imagine if she were a guy for a day and dealt with half the stuff we have to deal with. Maybe a meeting by HR for flirting
She’s so thirsty for validation on social media she rages when a dude doesn’t agree with her narrative. Insane and sad.
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Do nothing for them. Simple.
I sometimes object to some of the analysis in this channel, but the beauty and complete explanation of this problem is awe inspiring.
Alexander keeps experimenting with video editing and I'm here for it.
Awesome video.
That was a wild a video, that broad was totally convinced she had the moral justification to act and say those things. Like you said that was just so ingrained in her. Scary indeed...
The more I understand them the more determined I become to give them nothing. Nothing good can come from dealing with these selfish creatures.
By the way, BRAVO for dropping all the truth bombs. You nail it.
Mr. Grace is much more knowledgeable, but I do not believe these are unconscious behaviors. The woman is very conscious in looking for what she considers assaults on her dignity.
You don't understand instincts and gynocentricism
This video expresses my experience with women, in general, and my marriage better than anything I have seen or read. I certainly recognize the kind man he is describing here. I did all of those things and I see it in every man I know who is still married.
thank you for having a backbone as a man to say this out loud... we need to do this on our real life with female encounters.
In a digital landscape where so many channels are set up to just shame and humiliate women this was way more balanced. Good advice.
You couldnt be more wrong if you hired a team of women to help you! Women shame 7 humiliate THEMSELVES by the way they conduct themselves! We just point it out because in our society, we are not allowed to expose the truth if it makes women FEEL bad about themselves! Lady, if you are so worried about feeling bad, stop acting like an idiot! Thats how you REALLY stop it! not making everyone else be quiet! Are you here to help the poor little women? Are you the White Knight in shining armour to save them from the bad men? LOL
Sounds a lot like Borderline (BPD) - Codependent abusive relationships
Wow. Unbelievable. Imagine if a man said the same? He could even lose his job. Disgusted.
The projection level is crazy. The lack of self awareness is on par with a psychopath explaining to a dead body why the dead guy made her do it.
I'm fairly certain the feminist movement has been 75% projection (or more) the entire time.
Traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change while marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and chronic social isolation drives people insane. Never trust someone wearing a mask.