I love that she thought an ab**tion would fix this. Girl, that's 100% an admission of guilt, especially when your initial reaction was excited and when you know your partner wants kids ASAP.
Exactly, when she did that she made things even worse for herself, instead of getting the paternity. If she didn't want all that she shouldn't have never slept with the stepbrother.
What she did was psychotic. By killing the baby, not only is that admitting that she did cheat , but psychological manipulation to make OP feel guilty.
If it was OP's child: She just aborted their legitimate baby for borderline sociopathic reasons If it was step-bro's child: She looks even more guilty There was no good outcome here, what the FUCK was she thinking
Its more than an admission of guilt, it's a sloppy cover up. "Lets sweep this under the rug." Didn't quite work... I dont know how I feel about ab**tion... Some women get pregnant through 'no fault of their own' (see that sentence any way you like it) and really dont want any kid. Despite my STRICT christian leaning religion I would say that in such situations... A woman should not be bound to raise a child she never voluntarily got. But women like this one are so cold and callous... That's just cruel... Just to cover up a lie in this way...
His kid, she killed them. Not his kid, she killed them with the evidence of infidelity. Either ending means he's going to hate her for it, either for infidelity or his dead baby
Should have just used some other excuse for being away and then said later that she suffered a miscarriage. Getting an abortion after a husband asks for a paternity test just screams infidelity.
Honestly it's just admitting guilt at that point. It's not really a surprise that the guilty react so harshly when accused. The innocent will feel insulted, but be more reasonable. Depending on personality.
Hey OP, just remember that cheaters attract cheaters. Either she will cheat on him, or he will cheat on her. Hell, they will probably cheat on each other at the same time. But they are out of your lives forever now, and you no longer even need to think about them. If you need to, go seek individual counseling and talk through what you went through. We’re all rooting for you
This is why paternity and tests should be mandatory, to make sure the kid is actually the supposed father and can help find any medical concerns early on.
@bryn1063 true, but while this is possible, imagine how wild it would be to have an affair baby and the 'legitimate' baby test positive for the same father, but then they find out there's no mix-up and they have different mothers... 💀🙏
@@bryn1063 there’s actually a rare phenomenon called chimerism. Basically a twin can contain 2 sets of DNA if they absorbed the other one in uterus. A lady called Lydia Fairchild had this trait and gave birth to children that genetically weren’t hers.
@@rebeccaconlon9743 Prenups are not ironclad. Contrary to popular belief they are not even truly enforcable legal contracts, and a judge can ignore them if they choose to do so.
@@mnomadvfx makes them stil legal. judges in the usa often don't give a sh... about the law. some lose their jobs over a while, some even go to priosn. nut just because a judge decides something doesn't mean it's legal at all. challenge the ruling with a different judge in such cases.
@@mnomadvfx also, in many states, tissue samples are stored after an abortion. usually in case of criminal investigation. i wonder if they can be accessed for paternity tests too
@mnomadvfx they are ironclad if done properly. Prenuptial agreements cannot be punitive. The person signing must receive some sort of compensation if the marriage ends without fault. Even 2% of premarital assets
It’s honestly so disgusting how those crazy women can throw a amazing relationship with a happy and loyal man for some guy she just met and who knows why even started the affair (Anyone can correect me as I missed the beginning of the story)
“I terminated the pregnancy. Now you have no reason to question my loyalty.” Um no, that’s not how that works. I’m pro-choice and all, but not when you just committed adultery and destroyed the evidence.
@@BtlgWizardd if someone said he wanted to end you would that just be him too? do you understand how bad of an argument that is abortion is murder and its not excusable its evil to take a life like that
Yeah, your dumb ass bullheadedly asked a question that you knew damn well was gonna start a fight no matter what the answer was. Never. Ask. The Mother. Get it done at the hospital covertly if she's still pregnant when you suspect, or, you're the other parent, just take the kid to the doctor and do it behind her back, assuming you can't sneak one of those at home tests.
And she 'Aborts' the evidence too... basically she knew the kid wasn't his so she killed them. And if the kid was his, she killed his kid... eitherway, that doesn't end well for her to reconcile
@Catherine.Dorian. or at least a 1 party offer when bloods are done. So for example, bloods are drawn for health check up and either parent can opt in for a paternity, mother or father, however the father must automatically consent if the mother requests it.
Wow she will have somebody else's baby but not her husband's😂 I'm amazed that man didn't put hands on her people end up in prison for a long time because of this
Real coin toss if OP’s step-brother is going to be crawling back crying when OP’s ex cheats on him, or actually be a man and take responsibilities for his actions.
@@blindbrad4719 I could be wrong, but i think HIPPA only applies to healthcare providers, so if for example I send my medical records to my friend and my friend posts them of Facebook, he didn't do anything illegal. But if my doctor did that they would be in a whole lot of trouble.
11:00 This alimony BS always makes my blood boil, like when it's meant for kids I completely understand, but when it's meant for a spouse so that she can "keep her current standard of living" it's just infuriating.
If you're afraid of a paternity thats a red flag. If you've done nothing wrong then theres nothing to lose or be afraid of, atleast the man will be sure hes raising his child.
It pisses me off so much. Why is it about her getting alimony or not?? If she has a so nice paying job then it should be completely out of the question. Why is it not about WHO gets alimony.
These stories are mostly AI generated and AI doesn't know how alimony is supposed to work. Since the majority of existing stories tell about men getting stiffed with alimony. It doesn't understand that if she's making equal or more than the man, alimony wouldn't be a thing or she might have to pay.
It was a power move, she felt like he did her wrong so she wanted him to pay for it even if she was objectively in the wrong. She'll never accept that what she did was wrong, though; women and accountability and all.
He should have gotten a camera. Instead of trying to kick the guy out. He had more than enough opportunity. But shows the easiest way out without any proof.
She lost everything (Except her job) and Darren has nothing (lossing his OP's father support). They deserve each other. And for sure, they will cheat and live a miserable co-depending life.
I mean, there's no way of telling unless she and OP hadn't slept together for more than 2 months (or whatever amount of time along the pregnant woman is) or if the husband is unable to have children. (Not saying it's ok, it's horrid, especially if they have any reason to suspect it's not, but majority of the time you can't actually tell until the paternity or seeing the baby (though that one's not a guarantee)
It's simple: women cheat with the men whose babies they want to have. That's why women cheat in the first place. From an evolutionary perspective, that is what it means for a woman to be attracted to a man: she wants to have his babies. Most married women are not attracted to their husbands; they are with their husbands for what their husbands can provide them with, not out of love or attraction. Some of those women will cheat with the men to whom they are attracted. There's a whole evolutionary-psychological explanation behind that simple fact, but that is the simple version.
Because she's more physically and emotionally attracted to the AP, but sees the husband as a stable financial provider. They want to have their cake and eat it too.
I don't understand why people keep on thinking they should keep the issues between them, cuz when they got married they vows in front of all these people to be loyal and other stuff so it's natural to informed these same people about the broken promises
At the end of it all, OP, I wouldn’t be too discouraged and angry with your ex-wife and stepbrother getting together because they deserve each other. What they effectively have done is lose all support and respect from their families, and they have no one else to rely on but to each other. Another case of poetic irony: affair partners getting into relationships with each other don’t typically last.
The fact that she thought an abortion would solve this is so wild to me. How did she think that would make sense and would elevate doubts he might have? WTF kind of reasoning is that? He already knew the baby existed and if it was his wanted it. That is the most bizarre logic.
"To get rid of the doubt in your mind, I got rid of the only evidence that could prove I was innocent do now you don't nerd to doubt me". What sort of backwards brain rot logic is that 😂😂😂
Oh, it's actually a variant on a common behavior among many mammal species, including among many of our fellow great apes. The more common pattern is that when a female ape finds a new mate or is seeking a new mate, she may kill her offspring from her previous mate in order to render herself more attractive to her new mate or to prospective mates (the reverse, where a male will kill his mate's offspring by her previous mate, is also very common). What she was doing here was essentially a variant: killing her offspring by her new mate in order to appease her old mate.
I personally think her getting angry over being asked about a paternity test is normal, as he was accusing her being a cheating asshole, and it probably would have led to a divorce regardless- but the abortion was so clearly her knowing she'd never be able to hide it from him lol. A guilty conscious makes you go crazy fr.
She knew her husband wanted kids but she wasn't ready at the time. Then she gets knocked up by cheating with the stepbrother and when she finds out and tells OP she thinks he'll be overjoyed. When he wants a paternity test done he does have the right and when she did what she did thinking it would erase his doubts all it did was confirm them just as much as the paternity test would have done. If she is going to cheat then have an abortion she needs to face reality and her consequences. Who knows what lies she would have told her parents when they divorced.
@@ThePoliticrat Tho it’s still interesting and informing how you schould get around these kind of issues (God bless not to) even if you have to sometimes hold back from throwing up
I’m more disturbed that up until now she didn’t want a baby with her husband but suddenly she’s cheating with the brother and is okay not using protection and wants to keep it. Just wow!
They would've had to 'done the deed' without protection while op's brother was living with them in order for it to be his. No man would ever do that while family is around.
Please Men, No matter the joy of the occasion and trust in your significant other, get a paternity test. That peace of mind will help you for the rest of your life.
Sounds like she's setting up the step brother for revenge. I think we're going to see another update one of these days. Or maybe an entire story by Daryl.
2:42 Dude nobody would see that coming, get that thought out of your head right now. Lots of people do favors for family and it turns out fine. Don't be afraid to leave a sick adult in a family members care.
Okay, First off, the fact that she reacted that negatively was a red flag and is pretty much a omission of guilt. And then secondly, if my partner in the future, I'm single at the moment and I was Pregnant. asked for a paternity test Those are the two situations that go into my head. 1 they're suspicious of me for it or two, they are actively cheating on me. And once I rule out the second one, I wouldn't have a problem given the paternity test because I know I wouldn't cheat on someone. Like, yeah, sure, it would hurt in the moment, but I could see where it's coming from
Op had better watch out with his ex she might try to have an affair with him now that she's with his step brother. She is seriously unhinged, cheating, abortion to keep the marriage, and uncooperative in the divorce just to buy time, and now a relationship with his step brother.
You are not petty! If op doesn’t expose what she did, she would spin the whole story so she can play the victim herself. Kudos for you. She is now trapped on her own doing and the stepbrother is now in the same boat as the soon to be ex wife.
im so sick of people criticizing men and women for having doubts, its like nobody has gotten in their own head before, never had an intrusive thought they couldnt shake. Just trust me is just not a solution
If a paternity test is demanded, and a woman starts going off about how it'll be "humiliating" and puts up a fight about it, there's your proof right there that it's not yours. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years, and we plan to have a future together. Stories like this are exactly why we've talked about paternity tests if I ever get pregnant. I told him that if he ever has doubts, all he has to do is say he wants one and I'll agree. I have no intention to ever cheat on him, no matter who I meet along the way. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I will never give that up for a cheap lay. And I've made that very clear to him. So the most a paternity test will give me is bragging rights and I can poke fun at him for ever doubting me. 😂
1st mistake - You trust your stepbrother way too much. 2nd mistake - Asking for a paternity test too early which gave time to weasel out. You should have waited for her to give birth then asked for the paternity then it would have been epic.
He should have waited until the baby was born then get a test done. Before signing the birth certificate. This way she would be a single mother with a dead beat dad. She would have to try to get child support from the bum.
So OP went LA and when his wife had some stomach issues, and started the affair, but later when OP confronted Darren over the phone, he apologized saying that they started their affair when OP went to Paris, WTF. How can that be. There are a lot of inconsistencies in this story, which clearly shows this is a creative writing content.
If the baby was OPs, why would the paternity test matter? My husband and I have children together and if at any point he wanted a paternity test, I’d happily do it because I KNOW our children are ours. It would hurt my feelings a little bit if he doubted me but, hearing so many stories of people finding out years later that the child(ren), they raised weren’t theirs, I’d understand why he would want to do a test
Cheaters should never get sympathy. She rushed to get that abortion because she wanted to get rid of the evidence against her. An entire human life was lost because of that woman. She deserves zero sympathy.
So let me get this straight girl. You cheated on your man, got pregnant with AP's baby and thought that murdering the baby (which if it was OP's would be murdering a dream come true for him) would fix your marriage? Okkkaayyy. Utter insanity.
Agree, the story is fake. Not only was the Vegas changed to Paris, but it changed from EX to step mom at the end. I guess the writer confused which story they were writing.
@@wvanyar1801the trip location was swapped but that ending part wasnt an issue. He said his dad told his step mom he doesnt want anything to do with Darren
My wife cheated on me with my stepbrother and got pregnant. When I asked for a paternity test, she refused. I told her parents, who then cut her off from her inheritance. We had been together for nearly 6 years, married for 2, and our relationship had been smooth until this betrayal.
It's not your fault it's your wife's fault because she was cheating on you with your stepbrother and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done for cheating and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything.
I mean she basically wasted his time and ruined his trust so its not like telling the truth to her parents was a low blow.. It was justice and not petty revenge
You FeltTheres Something Fishy and You Are Worried about Taking Things Too Far??If you Kept It Between Your Selves The Story Will Go 180,,You Moved First That's Great...
On the other hand (obviously not the case in this story we just heard) To be fair.... Any woman whose husband demands a paternity test when she wasn't cheating would pretty understandably be irate and (depending on the circumstances, of course) justified in leaving. I couldn't imagine what it would be like for me if my husband demanded a paternity test and therefore accusing me of cheating when I have never cheated. He would get his test .... No worries there.... but very possibly end up single depending on the circumstances.
I love that she thought an ab**tion would fix this. Girl, that's 100% an admission of guilt, especially when your initial reaction was excited and when you know your partner wants kids ASAP.
Exactly, when she did that she made things even worse for herself, instead of getting the paternity. If she didn't want all that she shouldn't have never slept with the stepbrother.
It had only couldn't work when she didn't had, say she was pregnant
What she did was psychotic. By killing the baby, not only is that admitting that she did cheat , but psychological manipulation to make OP feel guilty.
If it was OP's child: She just aborted their legitimate baby for borderline sociopathic reasons
If it was step-bro's child: She looks even more guilty
There was no good outcome here, what the FUCK was she thinking
Its more than an admission of guilt, it's a sloppy cover up. "Lets sweep this under the rug." Didn't quite work... I dont know how I feel about ab**tion... Some women get pregnant through 'no fault of their own' (see that sentence any way you like it) and really dont want any kid. Despite my STRICT christian leaning religion I would say that in such situations... A woman should not be bound to raise a child she never voluntarily got. But women like this one are so cold and callous... That's just cruel... Just to cover up a lie in this way...
She trying to get rid of the evidence but still failed💀🤣
His kid, she killed them.
Not his kid, she killed them with the evidence of infidelity.
Either ending means he's going to hate her for it, either for infidelity or his dead baby
Should have just used some other excuse for being away and then said later that she suffered a miscarriage.
Getting an abortion after a husband asks for a paternity test just screams infidelity.
@@mnomadvfx Not only that, but so does getting pregnant right around the time you're seen spending a lot of time with someone in odd circumstances.
Honestly it's just admitting guilt at that point.
It's not really a surprise that the guilty react so harshly when accused. The innocent will feel insulted, but be more reasonable. Depending on personality.
Becasue her logic lacked any sembelence of logic 😂
Hey OP, just remember that cheaters attract cheaters. Either she will cheat on him, or he will cheat on her. Hell, they will probably cheat on each other at the same time. But they are out of your lives forever now, and you no longer even need to think about them. If you need to, go seek individual counseling and talk through what you went through. We’re all rooting for you
This is why paternity and tests should be mandatory, to make sure the kid is actually the supposed father and can help find any medical concerns early on.
Also incase babies get switched the mother should also have the paternity tests. Just to be 100% sure.
@bryn1063 true, but while this is possible, imagine how wild it would be to have an affair baby and the 'legitimate' baby test positive for the same father, but then they find out there's no mix-up and they have different mothers... 💀🙏
@leeshyd531 that sounds like something striaght out of an opera or Jerry springer 🤣
@@bryn1063 there’s actually a rare phenomenon called chimerism. Basically a twin can contain 2 sets of DNA if they absorbed the other one in uterus. A lady called Lydia Fairchild had this trait and gave birth to children that genetically weren’t hers.
it should just be the process of having a baby. Find someone, sex, pregnancy, wait 9 months, give birth, get tests, sign birth certificate.
Never sign a contract that rewards the other part to break it. Never.
Always prenuptial, always. As relationships are never 100% even split and someone always has something to lose
@@rebeccaconlon9743
Prenups are not ironclad.
Contrary to popular belief they are not even truly enforcable legal contracts, and a judge can ignore them if they choose to do so.
@@mnomadvfx makes them stil legal. judges in the usa often don't give a sh... about the law. some lose their jobs over a while, some even go to priosn. nut just because a judge decides something doesn't mean it's legal at all. challenge the ruling with a different judge in such cases.
@@mnomadvfx also, in many states, tissue samples are stored after an abortion. usually in case of criminal investigation. i wonder if they can be accessed for paternity tests too
@mnomadvfx they are ironclad if done properly. Prenuptial agreements cannot be punitive. The person signing must receive some sort of compensation if the marriage ends without fault. Even 2% of premarital assets
I guess she and the step brother should get married. Now is the time you both get a divorce.
It’s honestly so disgusting how those crazy women can throw a amazing relationship with a happy and loyal man for some guy she just met and who knows why even started the affair (Anyone can correect me as I missed the beginning of the story)
Woman love bad boys.
“I terminated the pregnancy. Now you have no reason to question my loyalty.”
Um no, that’s not how that works. I’m pro-choice and all, but not when you just committed adultery and destroyed the evidence.
No one should have the choice of k-lling a child. the choice you had was to keep the legs shut. abortion is M*RDER.
Nothing wrong with exercising a right, but taking a life you'd already agreed on raising is grim.
@@BtlgWizarddit's not a right
@@zephyrosuav9760 but I mean, if that's what she wants to do, that's her 🤷
@@BtlgWizardd if someone said he wanted to end you would that just be him too? do you understand how bad of an argument that is abortion is murder and its not excusable its evil to take a life like that
Rule of thumb. If a wife gets defensive about a paternity test, there’s something wrong going on
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Yeah, your dumb ass bullheadedly asked a question that you knew damn well was gonna start a fight no matter what the answer was.
Never. Ask. The Mother. Get it done at the hospital covertly if she's still pregnant when you suspect, or, you're the other parent, just take the kid to the doctor and do it behind her back, assuming you can't sneak one of those at home tests.
I’d also say it does matter how it’s brought up cause it does come off as accusatory. This is why it should just be an automatic at the hospital
And she 'Aborts' the evidence too... basically she knew the kid wasn't his so she killed them. And if the kid was his, she killed his kid... eitherway, that doesn't end well for her to reconcile
@Catherine.Dorian. or at least a 1 party offer when bloods are done. So for example, bloods are drawn for health check up and either parent can opt in for a paternity, mother or father, however the father must automatically consent if the mother requests it.
Oh they are so not going to last. They feels no remorse and one of them if not both will cheat.
Remember that step bro was under orders from OP's dad to be helpful or be out on the streets.
Remorse was not the issue, accommodation was.
Darren is just an idiot who's like, ooo pretty girl like me. She's with Darren to try and hurt op
@@mnomadvfx and he still ended up out on the streets in the end. SMH those two deserve eachother I wish them a unhappy life.
@@mnomadvfx He's probably living off of her now. 😂 I hope they get married they deserve each other.
Wow she will have somebody else's baby but not her husband's😂 I'm amazed that man didn't put hands on her people end up in prison for a long time because of this
She cheated on Op with his brother, got mad when Op said something about it, than got an abortion, so she was cheating. 😂
You’re slow .. why wouldn’t she cheat if he’s considered an Op. are you people slow?
Real coin toss if OP’s step-brother is going to be crawling back crying when OP’s ex cheats on him, or actually be a man and take responsibilities for his actions.
They’re not together. Step brother said he blocked her
@@abicrystalwing1543 did you even listen to the final update?
@@theanominous I listened to the whole video
@@abicrystalwing1543 19:09
@@abicrystalwing1543 did you listen to the part at 19:09?
Paris Las Vegas does exist for those saying it’s fake because of the location change, not that it still can’t be a fake story.
There's a shit ton wrong with this story in general. She could take him to the cleaners for passing on confidential medical records for instance.
I thought the was a Paris in Nevada
@@blindbrad4719 I could be wrong, but i think HIPPA only applies to healthcare providers, so if for example I send my medical records to my friend and my friend posts them of Facebook, he didn't do anything illegal. But if my doctor did that they would be in a whole lot of trouble.
@@Liz-c1j3f there's an Eiffel Tower. But then there's also a pyramid and a few other world monuments in Vegas.
lol at the first read, I just assumed that Paris would be the casino/hotel.
Murdered a child to avoid accountability. Truly a girl boss moment
Ye, Bdw bro dot write like this, you will get baned by youtube, don't ask me why...
@@rekslegiune6004 women just get lower when you think they hit the bottom.
Not a child, an embryo.
@@vapingfury4460 ok vaping fury 🤣
Not a child lol
11:00 This alimony BS always makes my blood boil, like when it's meant for kids I completely understand, but when it's meant for a spouse so that she can "keep her current standard of living" it's just infuriating.
Welcome to simp feministic world.
If you're afraid of a paternity thats a red flag.
If you've done nothing wrong then theres nothing to lose or be afraid of, atleast the man will be sure hes raising his child.
It pisses me off so much. Why is it about her getting alimony or not?? If she has a so nice paying job then it should be completely out of the question. Why is it not about WHO gets alimony.
These stories are mostly AI generated and AI doesn't know how alimony is supposed to work. Since the majority of existing stories tell about men getting stiffed with alimony. It doesn't understand that if she's making equal or more than the man, alimony wouldn't be a thing or she might have to pay.
It was a power move, she felt like he did her wrong so she wanted him to pay for it even if she was objectively in the wrong. She'll never accept that what she did was wrong, though; women and accountability and all.
Criminals
Because she is a woman and he is a man, that's why.
He should have gotten a camera. Instead of trying to kick the guy out. He had more than enough opportunity. But shows the easiest way out without any proof.
Darren would’ve caught the nastiest tekken combo I would’ve ever thrown.
That wasn’t an abortion. That was her trying to cover her tracks.
She lost everything (Except her job) and Darren has nothing (lossing his OP's father support).
They deserve each other. And for sure, they will cheat and live a miserable co-depending life.
She best hope that the job doesn't cut her loose. If it does, we'll see how fast that "flame" fizzles out.
What is it with women wanting to keep their affair partners baby? It’s like they want their husband to raise another mans child.
I mean, there's no way of telling unless she and OP hadn't slept together for more than 2 months (or whatever amount of time along the pregnant woman is) or if the husband is unable to have children. (Not saying it's ok, it's horrid, especially if they have any reason to suspect it's not, but majority of the time you can't actually tell until the paternity or seeing the baby (though that one's not a guarantee)
What is it with men refusing to wear a condom?
It's simple: women cheat with the men whose babies they want to have. That's why women cheat in the first place. From an evolutionary perspective, that is what it means for a woman to be attracted to a man: she wants to have his babies. Most married women are not attracted to their husbands; they are with their husbands for what their husbands can provide them with, not out of love or attraction. Some of those women will cheat with the men to whom they are attracted. There's a whole evolutionary-psychological explanation behind that simple fact, but that is the simple version.
Just imagine how d up is France, you can't take dna test, it's not legal.
Because she's more physically and emotionally attracted to the AP, but sees the husband as a stable financial provider. They want to have their cake and eat it too.
Its still funny these long elaborate AI stories still end with a "AITA"
Her angry overreaction speaks for itself. The ab--tion was just the final nail in the coffin.
You 100% are in the right. And her parents needed to know what kind of monster they raised.
Why would you be wrong to tell the truth? You got ahead of her lies about why the divorce is happening.
What happens in the dark always comes into the light eventually. She backstabbed her husband si she doesn't deserve to be treated with kid gloves.
Paternity tests should be standard procedure before signing a birth certificate
I don't understand why people keep on thinking they should keep the issues between them, cuz when they got married they vows in front of all these people to be loyal and other stuff so it's natural to informed these same people about the broken promises
At the end of it all, OP, I wouldn’t be too discouraged and angry with your ex-wife and stepbrother getting together because they deserve each other. What they effectively have done is lose all support and respect from their families, and they have no one else to rely on but to each other. Another case of poetic irony: affair partners getting into relationships with each other don’t typically last.
11:36 i mean, OP didnt lie,he WAS planning a surprise for he 😂😂
She literally confirmed it wasn’t his baby.
"I was worried about her". What he should have said is "I was extremely pissed at her".
For as long as I live I’ll never understand people who cheat 🙄
The fact that she thought an abortion would solve this is so wild to me. How did she think that would make sense and would elevate doubts he might have? WTF kind of reasoning is that? He already knew the baby existed and if it was his wanted it. That is the most bizarre logic.
10:30 i wanted to say “SHE WAS TRYING TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE” but that could only meant that the baby was Darren’s
"To get rid of the doubt in your mind, I got rid of the only evidence that could prove I was innocent do now you don't nerd to doubt me". What sort of backwards brain rot logic is that 😂😂😂
Oh, it's actually a variant on a common behavior among many mammal species, including among many of our fellow great apes. The more common pattern is that when a female ape finds a new mate or is seeking a new mate, she may kill her offspring from her previous mate in order to render herself more attractive to her new mate or to prospective mates (the reverse, where a male will kill his mate's offspring by her previous mate, is also very common). What she was doing here was essentially a variant: killing her offspring by her new mate in order to appease her old mate.
western (or westernized) woman logic
With final update, best thing to do is just ignore it. Darren's an idiot and she's clearly with him to just try and hurt op.
Adultery should be a crime, hands down.
I 100% agree with you..
I personally think her getting angry over being asked about a paternity test is normal, as he was accusing her being a cheating asshole, and it probably would have led to a divorce regardless- but the abortion was so clearly her knowing she'd never be able to hide it from him lol. A guilty conscious makes you go crazy fr.
She knew her husband wanted kids but she wasn't ready at the time. Then she gets knocked up by cheating with the stepbrother and when she finds out and tells OP she thinks he'll be overjoyed. When he wants a paternity test done he does have the right and when she did what she did thinking it would erase his doubts all it did was confirm them just as much as the paternity test would have done. If she is going to cheat then have an abortion she needs to face reality and her consequences. Who knows what lies she would have told her parents when they divorced.
He says he couldn’t say no… a grown man, married and living on his own and he couldn’t say no… Had many bad feelings… OK. 😂😂😂
2:34 well the man was at least true to his word: he stayed in… until the end.
So wait, did he go to Vegas or Paris?
It's all fake anyway
@@robertdascoli949 Yeah. I determined that from the title alone
@@ThePoliticrat Tho it’s still interesting and informing how you schould get around these kind of issues (God bless not to) even if you have to sometimes hold back from throwing up
Paris Las Vegas is a hotel in Vegas
First Vegas then France, Ai F up, they need to patch sky net.
Something is fishy about the story. In the beginning, OP went to Vegas, but in ~16:10 he says Paris. What?
Ai is getting weird
when i heard ab**tion i almost choked on the water I was drinking
I’m more disturbed that up until now she didn’t want a baby with her husband but suddenly she’s cheating with the brother and is okay not using protection and wants to keep it. Just wow!
Classic example of why paternity tests should be mandatory at birth.
Definitely Nta the wife or should I say ex wife f*cked around and found out. Time for the cheater to have a healthy dose of reality.
Once a 304, ALWAYS a 304
if i had a stepbro like this he'd be eating through a straw
If the step brother gets with her he is the biggest fool in history
The wifes mind is blowing up when she hears a paternity test
They would've had to 'done the deed' without protection while op's brother was living with them in order for it to be his. No man would ever do that while family is around.
Damn man... that's cold. My heart would sink if I ever found out any I knew got an abortion. You literally lose your humanity
Please Men, No matter the joy of the occasion and trust in your significant other, get a paternity test. That peace of mind will help you for the rest of your life.
14:21 womp to the f***ing womp
I'd absolutely wait until the kid was born not sign the birth certificate and do the test to make sure they have to live with their mistake..
Sounds like she's setting up the step brother for revenge. I think we're going to see another update one of these days. Or maybe an entire story by Daryl.
She was unhinged.
Bad new: really, really sucks. Poor guy.
Good news: makes for a wicked “How I Met Your Mother” story for their kids.
2:42 Dude nobody would see that coming, get that thought out of your head right now. Lots of people do favors for family and it turns out fine. Don't be afraid to leave a sick adult in a family members care.
Okay, First off, the fact that she reacted that negatively was a red flag and is pretty much a omission of guilt.
And then secondly, if my partner in the future, I'm single at the moment and I was Pregnant. asked for a paternity test Those are the two situations that go into my head. 1 they're suspicious of me for it or two, they are actively cheating on me. And once I rule out the second one, I wouldn't have a problem given the paternity test because I know I wouldn't cheat on someone.
Like, yeah, sure, it would hurt in the moment, but I could see where it's coming from
Op had better watch out with his ex she might try to have an affair with him now that she's with his step brother. She is seriously unhinged, cheating, abortion to keep the marriage, and uncooperative in the divorce just to buy time, and now a relationship with his step brother.
You are not petty! If op doesn’t expose what she did, she would spin the whole story so she can play the victim herself. Kudos for you. She is now trapped on her own doing and the stepbrother is now in the same boat as the soon to be ex wife.
Oops... forgot to loop the background music again.
Wow. Family reunion will be awkward
It’s always hilarious to me how the biggest losers manage to find each other and sleep with each other lol.
Brother with no job finds psycho wife
im so sick of people criticizing men and women for having doubts, its like nobody has gotten in their own head before, never had an intrusive thought they couldnt shake. Just trust me is just not a solution
If a paternity test is demanded, and a woman starts going off about how it'll be "humiliating" and puts up a fight about it, there's your proof right there that it's not yours.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years, and we plan to have a future together. Stories like this are exactly why we've talked about paternity tests if I ever get pregnant. I told him that if he ever has doubts, all he has to do is say he wants one and I'll agree. I have no intention to ever cheat on him, no matter who I meet along the way. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I will never give that up for a cheap lay. And I've made that very clear to him.
So the most a paternity test will give me is bragging rights and I can poke fun at him for ever doubting me. 😂
If the dad is still with the stepmom….
Dad will help stepbro eventually
Suddenly being single is so much fun.
1st mistake - You trust your stepbrother way too much.
2nd mistake - Asking for a paternity test too early which gave time to weasel out. You should have waited for her to give birth then asked for the paternity then it would have been epic.
wow, good thing he got rid of the wife who has no morals. It seems like all she does is lie. She's a habitual liar.
It's insane to me how much of an uphill battle "resolve things equitably" in court is for men.
He should have waited until the baby was born then get a test done. Before signing the birth certificate. This way she would be a single mother with a dead beat dad. She would have to try to get child support from the bum.
Stepbro wasn't sorry. He waited until he got a job and didn't need his money anymore to get back with her.
So OP went LA and when his wife had some stomach issues, and started the affair, but later when OP confronted Darren over the phone, he apologized saying that they started their affair when OP went to Paris, WTF. How can that be. There are a lot of inconsistencies in this story, which clearly shows this is a creative writing content.
If your wife couldn't keep it between the two of you neither should you
If the baby was OPs, why would the paternity test matter? My husband and I have children together and if at any point he wanted a paternity test, I’d happily do it because I KNOW our children are ours. It would hurt my feelings a little bit if he doubted me but, hearing so many stories of people finding out years later that the child(ren), they raised weren’t theirs, I’d understand why he would want to do a test
Cheaters should never get sympathy.
She rushed to get that abortion because she wanted to get rid of the evidence against her. An entire human life was lost because of that woman. She deserves zero sympathy.
So let me get this straight girl. You cheated on your man, got pregnant with AP's baby and thought that murdering the baby (which if it was OP's would be murdering a dream come true for him) would fix your marriage? Okkkaayyy. Utter insanity.
Actions=Reactions. Actions=Consequences.
dodged a bullet honestly
"A step too far"
Nah you did right parents with married kids want to be grandparents no mattdr what
fake. cant even remember where he went. also OP should have waited and did a DoP (denial of paternity) when child was born to force a test.
I think depending on the state it might not work if they're married
Agree, the story is fake. Not only was the Vegas changed to Paris, but it changed from EX to step mom at the end. I guess the writer confused which story they were writing.
@@wvanyar1801the trip location was swapped but that ending part wasnt an issue. He said his dad told his step mom he doesnt want anything to do with Darren
@@wvanyar1801 Paris Las Vegas is a place in Las Vegas
My wife cheated on me with my stepbrother and got pregnant. When I asked for a paternity test, she refused. I told her parents, who then cut her off from her inheritance. We had been together for nearly 6 years, married for 2, and our relationship had been smooth until this betrayal.
most states in the US hubby would be responsible for the kid . Unrealistic he would let the step stay at his apartment
She aborted a child to hide her affair. I wouldn't let that slide no matter if it was mine or her affair partner's.
It's not your fault it's your wife's fault because she was cheating on you with your stepbrother and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done for cheating and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything.
About 9:45 in the video, and already this chick sounds like one of my exes as thats something she actually did for almost the same reason.
Darren and the ex are self-centered and disloyal. They’re perfect for each other.
What texture pack is being used in the video?
Why feel sorry for not keeping it between the two of them if she was the one that didnt do that?
Couldn't find this on Reddit 🤦♂️
Lol usually the cheating happens in vegas lol
No one is ever the AH for telling the truth
I mean she basically wasted his time and ruined his trust so its not like telling the truth to her parents was a low blow.. It was justice and not petty revenge
You FeltTheres Something Fishy and You Are Worried about Taking Things Too Far??If you Kept It Between Your Selves The Story Will Go 180,,You Moved First That's Great...
First vegas now paris.😅😅
Paris Las Vegas is a place in Las Vegas
On the other hand (obviously not the case in this story we just heard) To be fair....
Any woman whose husband demands a paternity test when she wasn't cheating would pretty understandably be irate and (depending on the circumstances, of course) justified in leaving.
I couldn't imagine what it would be like for me if my husband demanded a paternity test and therefore accusing me of cheating when I have never cheated.
He would get his test .... No worries there.... but very possibly end up single depending on the circumstances.
Tell us you're a cheater without telling us you're a cheater.