Caught My Wife of 5 Years Cheating on Me on Camera for Months. Served Her Divorce Papers as...
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- Опубліковано 30 гру 2023
- Caught My Wife of 5 Years Cheating on Me on Camera for Months. Served Her Divorce Papers as an Anniversary "Gift".
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Amber kept OPs wife’s affairs from him but then he revealed one of the guys was Ambers husband ahah that has gotta have stung like a b*tch😂😂👌
That part did make me laugh. Amber got hers lol.
That just felt like Karma was loading the big guns. Amber's Husband probably thought "She'll be okay with this. She obviously supports this kind of shit."
That was the chefs kiss….. 😚 …kept rewinding for that part😂😂😂😂
lol obviously amber is okay with cheating so she cant be upset about him cheating on her
@@shelliblossom8953 Oh but she will be.
They always find a way to be upset when it affects them PERSONALLY.
Cheaters get even more mad when they get cheated on.
"I didnt love him"
I dont get why cheaters say this. It doesnt matter wether there was love or not. The thing is that if you cheat, you betray the one you're supposed to love, so clearly you dont love them either.
Don't mean to bring political ideas here, but consider how many blue pill podcasts claim "you deserve love" and stuff like that.
Like you said, loyalty and trust are what shows someone that they mean more to you than infatuation, and that's what the victims of infidelity have been deprived of.
I’ve always been confused by this too. All “I didn’t love them” screams to me is “this is not a one-time thing and it 100% could happen again”.
@@Maninawig You brought politics here so I’m gonna bring in the philosophy train to counteract it. I understand your premise but my main question is, what gives you the right to decide that loyalty shows love? Furthermore, loyalty in what regard? There are plenty of ‘disloyal’ things that could be done that wouldn’t necessitate the end of a relationship, however sexual disloyalty is regarded very differently. Generally ‘open relationship’ people are very unhappy in these relationships, but that’s expected as open relationships have had a huge influx of new people trying it out because they want to chase a trend. I’d argue though, that the continued existence of swingers proves that there are certain people who view romantic love in a fundamentally different way. If you want something beyond infatuation, why do you care if they become infatuated with someone else? That shouldn’t affect what they have with you. The only answer is you have the right to care because it’s your life and you are able to choose relationship partners based off of subjective preference, and if this means someone who won’t fuck others, then so it will be. There’s nothing fundamentally wrong to me with most forms of relationships (one sided open shit is really weird and unhealthy imo), but to act as if ‘loving someone’ is a well-defined concept that we can list characteristics of. What it means to ‘love someone’ has always been societally influenced. When we were first evolving and chasing our food, people would just sleep around and try to pop out as many kids as possible because that was what fit the needs of society, more people (meaning a bigger team for hunting/gathering). Now that we are in a modern society we arrange into nuclear families, as this has been proven to best fit the needs of the society we live in. As society evolves, who’s to say our relationships won’t evolve with it?
TLDR: ‘Loving someone’ isn’t a well-defined concept as it is purely subjective and we cannot assume everyone will give and receive love the same.
@@plaguepug2091 I think we have a miscommunication here. The reason I brought up the blue pill concept of women (in particular) "deserving love," "happiness," etc, is to answer OP's question why cheaters claim "I didn't love them."
Whenever I hear a blue pill podcast mention "deserving love," it is so.very rarely made to coax someone out of a toxic marriage (and never towards a man in a 10 year loveless one), but most often used to segregate the emotions from the actions with sayings like "you didn't love him so it doesn't count."
As for the philosophy, I think the best description of love was from Steven R. Covey and Garry Chapman who expressed the state of being in love as the product of loving someone. The former explains that love is a verb, a series of actions that brings about the euphoria we call love (the noun). The latter adds that those actions must be aimed towards the partner's needs (something he coined as a love language) and identified 5 major ones. That said, it should also be noted that the recipient's duty is to manage their needs to a reasonable state. _For instance, if a woman has a need for quality time and a need for tokens of affection, they could find a much more fulfilling life by managing the expectations of those gifts price wise, so that the man can afford not taking so much overtime, or find patience when he does._
In that sense, loyalty is the act of relying on your partner to fulfill those needs, cravings, and respecting boundaries. It is a guarantee that they will fall short from time to time, but loyalty would instill the urge to fix it within the partnership (discuss and grow together) rather than seeking a top-up outside the partnership.
Interestingly enough, polygamy falls short in the same way, given that cheating and distrust can be sewn when those boundaries are crossed and needs are met by outside sources.
TL:DR loyalty is not love, but rather the trust that your partner will fulfill your emotional needs. Love, on the other hand, is the act of fulfilling those needs consistently.
@@plaguepug2091 To love someone means to will what is right and good for them, even if it may seem hurtful.
Killing op's baby was really too much. This woman was truly evil and without compassion.
I'm not justifying her actions but it was not a baby...
It's not his baby if it's growing in her body.
@@Nvggsnah it’s a baby
@@spacexghost888it’s both of their baby. You’re right
@@toddrodd3170its not a baby yet, but i do feel bad for op
I've heard this whole saga before. It's probably for the best that op didn't have a baby with her. Because now he can get away from her cleanly.
They had a baby. She decided to "terminate" the baby.
@@mgntstr you cant force a woman to give birth to your baby....you dont have rights over womens bodies she dose not have to be the hose of you child. find one who wants to.
plus it was not a baby lmao. fetus are as a live as a plant is. its not a life yet.
@@mgntstrno, she got an abortion and it probably wasn't his
@@HD-zv2mn It would be more accurate to say that she went and had her unborn child culled.
@@mgntstr if you want to be technical they had a *fetus* or an embryo. That she terminated.
He needs to get charges against both his wife and AP with alienation of affection laws to get compensation for the infidelity and emotional trauma he was put through. Hopefully his state has those laws.
His son was with his ex; he didn't have children with this wife. The situation with this wife wouldn't affect the custody of his son.
What's AP?
@@maysee2515???? Alienation of affection is for the spouse….
"OP exposes cheating husband to his wife so she can do whatever she wants in the future" gets slapped and asked why hes doing it.
Some people deserve been cheated.
Well, some people prefer living a lie than facing reality. Once the cat's out of the bag, they won't be able to live that dream anymore. It's understandable.
Honestly, that's more of a normal reaction. Grief comes in 5 stages, including Anger (the slap) and Denial/Bargaining (the question). Such emotions lash out on the messenger when the news would otherwise cause a mental break.
In other words, they weren't malicious or intentional acts, but subconscious responses of self preservation.
@@Maninawigyes but I would’ve slapped that b back. I am also grieving wtf. Also, it’s okay to get angry, there was no need to slap him. Just because he’s a man he shouldn’t have to take it.
@@Homiloko2That's mental weakness and we don't support that around here.
@@CrystallizedBlood1 Yeah I'm not defending it, just saying it's understandable why it could happen. Especially in a moment of shock when some random person drops a life-changing bomb. Most people are not mature enough to take it in stride.
Always press charges ESPECIALLY if it’s a woman. No accountability for assault ensures they’ll do it again in the future.
His ex gf is a real G for inviting him over and letting him stay the night, what ruined that?
He still had massive trust issues from the first divorce so it probably stemmed from that.
Yeah he also said “again” about getting hurt like this so…
I think she's also the mother of his kid
Massive trust issues from his first marriage
Now I want to give him a right hook for not pressing charges 😑
EDIT: Make that two for dropping the alimony
OP: I don't want to hear any more "I'm sorry, Man"
Me: That's rough, Buddy
Mental issues do not justify evil deeds. She is in fact evil. Sociopath or not, she does not deserve any pity for a possible “mental issue”. I hate when people say it
She does not have mental health disorder, she has a personality disorder. Maybe like narcissism or sociopathic disorder. The lack of remorse, lack of empathy for her husband, and feeling entitlement
Thank you. I absolutely hate that mentality that people have. I have BPD and other mental issues but never would expect any shitty actions I do to be reasoned away with “she has mental issues.” Ugh
Man that abortion hurt my feelings, I didn’t expect that at all. I can’t even imagine what he delt
Minutes after the cute Latina comment, “oh, he meant the chihuahua 😂”
Honestly, the baby probably wasn’t his. It sucks she’d have him go through trying to have a baby just to cheat for several years without using protection. She should’ve just had a secret baby with FT if her clock was really running out, especially if she had no plans to stop hooking up with him.
And some people say ''past does not matter when you are in a relationship''
Bad news folks, it does
and the funniest thing is, the people who say this are usually the people with the darkest past, i have learned to take it as a massive red flags, when i ask about previous relathionships and they avoid it like the plague, it means either 1 she cheated, 2 she stabbed the guy either case not a person i would want
Cheaters are awful. Just stay single if you can't be faithful. Damn itsclike they all git the same playbook of excuses
OP's wife is truly evil. She was just using OP when she couldn't get the man she wanted. Slept with a whole bunch of men including her friend's husband although Amber is a POS. Gotten a abortion so she wouldn't deal with the responsibilities and consequences of her actions. What I don't understand is how he didn't see the red flags on her before he married her? She's bound to have any. If OP had a pair to begin with, none of this mess would have happened. Why the hell did AP's wife slapped him, who the hell slaps a man who's telling you that your husband is cheating on you with his wife? Furthermore why did the coworkers got the nerve to tell him that it's none of his business when that bastard AP ruined both of their marriages. What am I wondering is who the hell let her know where does OP work? I'm just glad that he's finally done with her and even more so he got a good bunch of friends and support who even throw him a party to celebrate him. Damn I would love a group of friends like them.
OP has a face that looks like aounching bag that's why these woman punched him..
Poor guy doing life on hard mode…
That was a very depressing story.... i hope man's doing better now 🙏 i hope god sent someone incredible and genuine down his way 😢
I just find it funny that Op in the first story was being smothered by a Teddy bear. I'm not sure if it was the maliciously or the child was just like hey I want to play just being like friendly and wanting to play with the op.
I wonder if the wife who’s been helping hide the affair knows she’s also cheating with her husband!!
"Friend wouldn't let me" excuse me? Whos side are you on?
go to the doctors- (talking about the ring bit)
Bro really rolls 5 on luck on a d20
17:28 - I don't remember which channel I heard this story on before, but this is probably the biggest point implying the story is fake. Why would two lawyers agree to up and leave unsupervised a divorcing couple that had just had an incident of violence between them? There are many things that can go wrong in that situation.
There is a good depiction of sociopaths and cheaters in "sousou frieren" - demons. Every time their affair is exposed they act pretty same with audacity, lies, emotional manipulations, gaslight, even physically hurting people and every time they cheating without divorcing is just because they want to parasiting further. They don't have honour or some sorta code, morals, self-awareness. Truely more like an animals than intelligent human beings.
Do you believe this story to be real?
Anyone else want to hear the story about the first wife cheating with his brother and the family he cut ties with?
yes pleas
This is an old story, but a good one to come back to.
How could he not know she was cheating on him the whole time?!?!
this has literally been uploaded before. Is tell running out of tales to tell?
I didn't heard the end. So I think the last update is fairly recent
@@texasranger7687 Ah, thank you for letting me know.
It really is absolutely insane that abortion is common place in any society
I can't belive she killed the ops kid....
not how that works, but i do feel bad for op
Exactly how that works@@Centiwing
Someone just ousted themselves a Nazi… awkward
@@ma_who8383 how so? It isnt a baby yet, it will be after a few months of development. Basic biology
@@qc6057 What?!
I’m never going to marry cause of the story of OPs first divorce even though his wife was the cheater she still got everything and whats fucked up hence marriage is fucked up unless u have a prenup: moral of the story: always sign a prenup before marriage and it doesn’t matter even if you only have 2 dollars to you name GET A PRENUP
73k for sleeping with 4 men and 💀 ops baby...i dont even know what to think about the world
This is one of the most messed up females I have ever seen. I have no words for this woman. Where would a shrink even start? The abortion though was truly recklessly evil.
Wait.. she had the audacity to beat him up... And he didn't press charges??????😑😑😑😑
Is no one gonna talk about how he went mexican after the divorce
damn ... that was evil ...
Can't he sue her or the ap for alienation of love or something?
I don't think in this case. Because it was OP holding out, not the wife.
That’s a thing in Japan
Depends on the State, but even then I doubt it. She was a cheating whore, but consistently pursued intimacy with OP.
AI/script is bad. First story are 2 fused together
that was wired
The whole, I didn't press charges thing, is crap, just because you say you don't want to press charges doesn't mean they won't. They'll press charges no matter what you say because that's the law
This all gets so much worse, once you realize that she aborted, not because the paternity wasn't certain, but because it was.
4 different men is crazy honestly💀💀
Lol. Here early too. Great saga.
Bro contact a doctor for the ring 💀
Being obsessed with sex is one thing (good for you), but to scar people along the way is sociopathic.
Stories like these, and the multiple experiences I had, I'll never trust women in general.
This story is very obviously real in every aspect
This story seemed parts of different stories stiched together
Honestly, the abortion well effect you for most likely the rest of your life. Mean the one my ex got, I still think about it. I won't say daily, but it's Damn near daily
What a bad parkour footage, geez
Why he took so long to get divorce if he had proofs from the start?
Isnt this a reupload??
Not really an upload but fusing two stories together.
Right? Had heard of this story before in this channel :/
Thats dissapointing from this channel.@@77wolfblade
had to stop at 7 minutes the story was making me sick.
im just curious on what's the sub reddit rn
The sentence on 9:38 makes no sense? Why would OP beat his own brother? Am I missing something?
The brother and his friend were running a train on the 1st wife when he walked in on them. So he beat the piss out of both of them.
brother probably knew
HULK SMASH MODE LEZGOOO
Try wire cutters for that ring it’ll pop right off
Is this a reupload?
😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅...all she did to him got $73.000,+...that hilarious...well he deserved it for getting married..he choose that no one or no law forced him too. 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅
the comment aout apple products being bad for cheaters isn't accurate. lots of people sync all their devices, yes, and their messages and such. but you can easily change the settings to that the messages don't sync to all devices signed in with your icloud account. yeah the ex wife is dumb for not changing the syncingsettings whilst cheating, but that doesn't mean every iphone user is as stupid as his ex-wife. its quite reductive to hate a whole demographic just cuz you cant understand their decision about devices.
If every woman you have ever been with cheats and abuses you it us pribably you and your bad life choices. Weakling.
Dude you probably aren’t wrong but that’s just a dick move
Wait, so OP’s ex wife cheated on him with his brother and friend, crippled him financially for 3 years and emasculated him, yet he comes to visit her??? Damn, talk about doormat
I think that’s a different ex
21:00 worst way to say that
"I declined pressing charges" grow a spine
Bro this is a repost
TLDL...
WHAT DOES D DAY MEAN?
doomsday
Just to let everyone know this entire story is the fusion of atleast ten different story's chopped up and fused together, some of wich are on these stories you can find on this channel, so yeah the storys fake
thank
God damn 😅
FAKE AF!!!!
Pretty sure that was assault so she could have fines
Apple sucks :( how could he say that jkjkjkjkjk I stupidly love apple tho
Slap miss ft back
Just to let everyone know this entire story is the fusion of atleast ten different story's chopped up and fused together, some of wich are on these stories you can find on this channel, so yeah the storys fake
Woman is vile, but whether or not the pregnancy was the result of him, he doesn't get to decide whether she has it or not.
Abosuke
Men ☕
3rd comment I'm soooo happy
4th
and why censor infidelity bc i had no idea what the word was until i rewound the video and paused it to see the word typed out. wtf why are we censoring infidelity now? it's just unnecessary. the ai sounded like it said "hentai" not infidelity
The word wasn't infidelity, it was intimacy