Get confident: 10-MINUTE MENTAL TOUGHNESS by Dr. Jason Selk

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @jairusan
    @jairusan 4 роки тому +27

    I am an athlete and in my own experience, I was told long ago about taking a long breath and keep it in until I count to 10 seconds then let it exhale slowly, then repeat until I feel less nervous, for me changed my life when going to perform in volleyball, but these 6-2-7 technique and the other two described here are definitely interesting. Thank you again so much for putting this together, just know that you are one if not the most valuable UA-camr online. God Bless you, dude!

  • @VicTheMonster
    @VicTheMonster 3 роки тому +3

    This Channel > Best Productivity Knowledge Source on Earth

  • @kennyblack1349
    @kennyblack1349 3 роки тому +44

    10 minutes to mental toughness done in 7 minutes 35 seconds, that's outstanding 🥇👏👏👏👏

  • @Simpletivity
    @Simpletivity 8 років тому +17

    Great summary! As a public speaker, I recognize just how important it is to have a pre-presentation routine you can rely on. Looking forward to trying a 15 second breath before the next time I take the stage.

  • @1965Kirk
    @1965Kirk 5 років тому +13

    This is great. I think one thing to add to this fantastic routine would be take confident posture while doing this and waiting for your time. Taking up space like arm on back of chair, wide legs or other open confident posture helps get a more confident mindset.

  • @jeffkaulbars1855
    @jeffkaulbars1855 6 років тому +4

    I enjoy the all the visual aids you use. Thanks for these simple effective videos.

  • @cinderelladhanorker3826
    @cinderelladhanorker3826 5 років тому +6

    I love reading every videos you produce.
    Mind-blowing summary in easy understanding language.

  • @ianpatrick23
    @ianpatrick23 4 роки тому +1

    Super useful practices. Thanks!

  • @tarunsn99
    @tarunsn99 6 років тому +58

    Absolutely Superb work ! I have no words for you. Great value for society👍

  • @nelsonvalderrama8371
    @nelsonvalderrama8371 3 роки тому +1

    thanks for your summary, great help!

  • @audelsalazar1962
    @audelsalazar1962 5 років тому +29

    Summary of 10 Minute Mental Toughness:
    The 15 Second Breath - Inhale for 6 seconds, hold for 2 seconds, and exhale for 7 seconds to lower and steady your heart rate to remain mentally sharp.
    The Mental Movie - Visualize a richly detailed performance step by step in which you can see, hear, and feel everything as you would in an actual performance as performance repetitions increases confidence.
    The Performance Statement - Give your mind a process goal or mantra to think about instead of worry or self-doubt. You can even picture your high performance coach (real or imagined) whispering this specific statement into your ear to replace any negative thinking.

    • @rajeshwarsharma1716
      @rajeshwarsharma1716 4 роки тому

      Thanks. As soon as I saw your comment I stopped the video at 30 sec. Saved my time.

  • @kwalityfintech6667
    @kwalityfintech6667 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks
    It helps in process of achieving the goals

  • @DaveReeks
    @DaveReeks 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent video! I have used this mental workout framework before I get up and speak and it has made a huge difference in my performances! I now get up in front of a few hundred people on a regular basis and feel super confident every time. Thank you!

  • @coachasif
    @coachasif 4 роки тому +2

    Don't know how I got here. My first video here and I'm hooked! Subscribed!

  • @richardvillanueva1782
    @richardvillanueva1782 2 роки тому

    So great !!

  • @ala8649
    @ala8649 4 роки тому +1

    I love this channel so much knowledge

  • @winfridahbanda5739
    @winfridahbanda5739 3 роки тому

    I truly appreciate these summaries. They've been very helpful. Blessings

  • @yosmelchiang3060
    @yosmelchiang3060 6 років тому +5

    Oh man, how have I not been on this channel before, so good! Thanks!

  • @xaviusamericus9561
    @xaviusamericus9561 5 років тому +2

    Your presentation style is fantabulous. I get a bit tired of on-camera, jump cut videos. I really like the animations with voice over.

  • @VladimirRemenar
    @VladimirRemenar 6 місяців тому

    600k subscribers. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

  • @AP0730
    @AP0730 8 років тому +8

    Pls upload more regularly! Ur stuffs are really helpful and informative

  • @glorious_help
    @glorious_help 3 роки тому

    THANKS YOU HELPED ME A LOT

  • @worldview2888
    @worldview2888 3 роки тому

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  • @basementdwellers5688
    @basementdwellers5688 7 років тому +14

    Glad I subscribed. Your videos save me a lot of time. Thanks!

  • @mitalisoni2985
    @mitalisoni2985 4 роки тому

    Breath ....vision of achieved aim...good point

  • @rlee1185
    @rlee1185 6 років тому +1

    Love your channel

  • @sanjay783
    @sanjay783 6 років тому +1

    Wow... so clear and concise. Great job..

  • @tarunacharya9221
    @tarunacharya9221 4 роки тому

    Great video sir ....... u are also great plzzzvmake this kind of videos more

  • @ducloc632
    @ducloc632 4 роки тому +5

    I am a Toastmaster as well, I do some similar rituals as well to calm myself down before giving my speech. The most intimidating speech was my Ice Breaker.

  • @houssemgara1570
    @houssemgara1570 4 роки тому +1

    Good review. thank you

  • @mubasheeramg6870
    @mubasheeramg6870 7 років тому +2

    Your videos are very informative and clear with thoughts. Thank you so much!

  • @juldg
    @juldg 7 років тому +4

    This is amazing! Thank you!

  • @JesusAndLiliana
    @JesusAndLiliana 7 років тому +4

    you'r doing a very goood job with these summaries. keep up the great work and consistency x

  • @mailsonjosedasilva834
    @mailsonjosedasilva834 7 років тому +10

    Your videos are objective and very informative. It's a productive way to get the core message from books. Thanks a lot.

    • @ProductivityGame
      @ProductivityGame  7 років тому +3

      Thank you for the comment. Look forward to providing you with more valuable content.

  • @tonmy21
    @tonmy21 6 років тому +1

    Happy To come across Your Channel.
    Simple n Crisp.
    Fits in the Brain Perfectly.
    Keep up the Good Work.

  • @anupthomas2553
    @anupthomas2553 5 років тому +1

    Love your videos.. Great stuff

  • @TorontoRealEstateAgent
    @TorontoRealEstateAgent 6 років тому +3

    Great summary on the book! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @jasonsandifer3250
    @jasonsandifer3250 4 роки тому +3

    Article: Coping with your New Self Quarantine, Social Distancing, and Stay at Home State Directive-Order
    Due to the Fact that the Corona Virus Pandemic Outbreak, many families are staying in for very long periods of time. These families, and individuals are finding themselves having to readjust their Lifestyles, normal routines, schedules, itineraries, and are juggling many other responsibilities.
    While many States in America, and in countries abroad have implemented Stay at Home Directive-Orders, and Socal Distancing measures, while others are medically, or voluntarily self quarantining themselves as precautionary measures to reduce the spread of the Corona Virus.(Covid 19 virus)
    Many people are now out of work, unemployed, and employment opportunities that were available 2 weeks ago are no longer exists or available due to many businesses being closed and only essential businesses are open during Stay at Home Directive-Order.
    While others are working from home, and schools are closed, thus many people, and families are facing many new challenges as these families are staying in at home every day.
    For most families both parents and children are all staying in for a unexpected unscheduled, unplanned vacation at Home.
    Moreover, what makes this an especially difficult time, and very unfortunate, unusual set of circumstances is that many of the former forms of recreation simply are not available, due to the fact that the option of various places to patron are no longer available currently.
    Additionally, while many nonessential businesses are closed, and social Distancing, Stay at Home Directive-Order, Self Quarantining measures are taking place many individuals and families may feel stressed, and overwhelmed.
    I would like to Encourage these individuals and families that may be experiencing these issues to remain Focused.
    Be Careful NOT TO ALLOW these difficult, and Challenging circunstances to derail, deter, or undermine your relationships with your family, friends, loved ones.
    Please Be patient, kind
    respectful, considerate.
    It is especially important to retain your motivation despite all the ongoing difficulties taking place.
    Please remain Focused, please know that this is a unexpected yet temporary set of circumstances, and we can All make it through this....
    Here are some simple and practical suggestions that may help.
    Try watching family favorite movies together.
    Try working together as a team.
    Try cleaning, and organizing, and completing other household chores together.
    Try playing various games together, like checkers, cards, chess, and other board games, you may want to consider creating art, or drawing together..
    Appreciate everyone's individual talents, and abilities.
    Be flexible with one another, due to prior, and previous work schedules, routines, you will have to readjust, amend, and rearrange many of your activities.
    This takes time getting use too new schedule,. Not working, or working at home.
    Children may not be used to both parents being home every single day, all day.
    Beware of any potential brewing sqaubbles, or arguments
    Stay calm, and try to remain calm... take a few deep breaths and try to refocus on the importance of working on these issues together.
    In addition, try not to go stir crazy while staying indoors, take time to sit outside on your fromt porch or backyard, sit on the deck, if you have one, allow for everyone to have some personal time.
    Please kids be patient with Dad
    Please kids be patient with Mom
    Dad be patient with your spouse
    Mom be patient with your spouse
    Parents be patient with your children.
    Friends be patient with your Friends.
    Families be patient with your Family
    Roommates be patient with your roommates
    Everyone be patient with everyone
    We must NOT give Up, the is NOT a Option.
    Please be patient, and practice patience with each other, your family, friends loved ones, roommates, and everyone.
    I know that it's not easy and may be a bit overwhelming, Remember that this is not forever, and while you are Coping with your New Self Quarantine, Social Distancing, and Stay at Home State Directive-Order
    Remember there are some people who have no one else to help and absolutely no where to go, nothing at all.
    You are all in my Prayers
    We will get through this together...
    Don't Give Up.. Not a Option...
    We Will NOT ALLOW
    COVIN 19 virus to stay or win.
    I am personally experiencing some very unfair and difficult circumstances currently, therefore I fully understand, and I Encourage Everyone to stay focused, positive, and PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP!!!
    Written by Advocate of Humanity, Author, Jason Sandifer,
    Michigan,
    3/27/2020, 3/28/2020

  • @akshaykagade5829
    @akshaykagade5829 6 років тому +1

    Keep good work thanks lot

  • @nicoleadach4045
    @nicoleadach4045 4 роки тому +1

    Can you give us the info for the Harvard study done in 2005? I reference it all the time, but have never read the study. Thank you!!

  • @ruatafambawl
    @ruatafambawl 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @MarkyticsAnalyticsMasteryClub
    @MarkyticsAnalyticsMasteryClub 5 років тому

    Superb.. Thanks

  • @abdirisaaqalto4741
    @abdirisaaqalto4741 6 років тому

    thanks for the video

  • @Tommyboypsp
    @Tommyboypsp 8 років тому +3

    Great video as always :)

  • @revive1900
    @revive1900 5 років тому

    Great 👍 job. I subscribed and shared on Facebook and WhatsApp. Thanks 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Natuer_lover77
    @Natuer_lover77 6 років тому

    Thanks ☺

  • @OthmanAlikhan
    @OthmanAlikhan 7 років тому +1

    Thanks for the video =)

  • @josephatie2163
    @josephatie2163 5 років тому

    I have subscribed it now.

  • @sharanshetty5853
    @sharanshetty5853 3 роки тому

    Can you do pause.breath.choose.CEO of your well being?

  • @B_Son
    @B_Son 8 років тому +3

    Miised ya

  • @ceolauk3638
    @ceolauk3638 6 років тому

    Your videos are all awsome..but can u please increase the sound/volume

  • @DigitalNoomad
    @DigitalNoomad 5 років тому

    Does this apply to confidence when meeting women?

  • @spaceforthesoul6286
    @spaceforthesoul6286 6 років тому

    Great.

  • @tushar1971ify
    @tushar1971ify 6 років тому +1

    there's one issue here , WOOP theory states visualize but along with obstacles and solutions

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 6 років тому

    Great

  • @enough2471
    @enough2471 5 років тому +1

    5:40 or “Productivity Game”

    • @1betterrun
      @1betterrun 4 роки тому

      hahahah, nice one! How has @productivityGame not seen that?

  • @GlorifiedTruth
    @GlorifiedTruth 4 роки тому +3

    Man, I read that entire book thinking it said 15-second bath.

  • @indexplus
    @indexplus 2 роки тому

    Its is called a dry run. No need for fancy words

  • @bastianrivero
    @bastianrivero 6 років тому +8

    just drink 2 glasses of wine, you get the same results! xD

  • @ajomon62
    @ajomon62 7 років тому +1

    Having a bgm could have made the video even better

  • @nachinathan3846
    @nachinathan3846 4 роки тому +4

    I hate when they say stuff at the end like: he then hit a triple and won the world series for the team. Like be realistic you know? Just sounds like a cheap sales gimmick.. not like he actually believes in his own work

  • @RashidKapadia
    @RashidKapadia 8 років тому +59

    Another superb summary. You sir, are doing good work. You are sharing and spreading valuable knowledge. Thank you!
    A question: Do you see a parallel between this 10 minute pre-performance (or any pre-task actually) routine and the "release" phase in the FLOW cycle. (you've reviewed the book Rise of Superman) "Release" is between the "struggle" and "FLOW" phases, and is the doorway to a "relaxed and alert" state of body and mind (nitric oxide, + Alpha brain waves).
    I think they are very similar. Would be interested in your thoughts.
    I speak in public and have found that the pre-speech routine is one of the lesser appreciated / understood elements of public speaking. I've been collecting pre-speech routines from multiple sources for many years. From my experience, it is a game changer. Will be happy to share my notes on request. (rashid.kapadia@gmail.com)
    Keep doing what you're doing. Thanks again & GOOD LUCK

    • @hardesteasymoney754
      @hardesteasymoney754 6 років тому +1

      This guy really knows his stuff👍🏻👍🏻

    • @majedyahia3658
      @majedyahia3658 5 років тому +1

      Fahed Qureshi
      same question ?

    • @RashidKapadia
      @RashidKapadia 5 років тому +9

      ​@Fahed Qureshi. First, my apologies for this late response. I just became aware of your question through another message referencing this comment.
      "What is a pre-speech routine?" Let's change the question a bit to "What is a pre-task routine?" A speech is just one type of a task. So below is a more "universal" answer.
      It is any routine / ritual / procedure / process that you use to change your state (of mind and/or body) from "less optimal" to "more optimal". I think of an optimal state as being one where you are between boredom and anxiety (i.e. FLOW) and you have no distractions, no self-consciousness and no self-centeredness. i.e. you are fully FOCUSED on the task at hand.
      It could be breathing exercises / meditation / mindfulness / repeating an affirmation / visualization / physical exercise / dancing / a grounding exercise / listening to music / singing a song / reciting poetry / reciting prayers / ... and lots, lots more. Even "Trash-Talking" just before an important competitive sporting game/event, is a pre-game routine employed by many athletes.
      A pre-speech routine is NOT the same as " preliminary practice sessions before presentation". These are practice sessions i.e. rehearsals. In FLOW language, this is part of the "struggle" phase (FLOW CYCLE = struggle, release, FLOW, recovery). For more: necessarybridges.com/flow/
      I've been collecting many pre-speech routines for quite a while now. I'm constantly exploring and experimenting. I've shared my routines both in my book, and on my website. necessarybridges.com/pre-speech-preparation/
      If you become deeply interested in this topic, I highly recommend the book "PSYCHED UP: How the Science of Mental Preparation Can Help You Succeed" by Daniel McGinn.
      Hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!
      And ... sorry for this shameless self-promotion: You may also find my book to be of value if you are keen on improving your public speaking. "Necessary Bridges: Public Speaking & Storytelling for Project Managers & Engineers". Book reviews here. amzn.to/2wapeAF

    • @patrickjane4027
      @patrickjane4027 4 роки тому +3

      ​@@RashidKapadia I've read your book, it was amazing.
      By the way there is nothing wrong with self-promotion

    • @RashidKapadia
      @RashidKapadia 4 роки тому +2

      @@patrickjane4027 Thank you!

  • @be_yourbest_you3632
    @be_yourbest_you3632 7 років тому

    Awesome! Except I'm a Milwaukee Brewers fan and hate the St. Louis Cardinals! Hate Hate Hate!!!!!! Did I say HATE?

  • @mcrebteamaseaCR
    @mcrebteamaseaCR 7 років тому +3

    :)

  • @welovelibraries4556
    @welovelibraries4556 6 років тому

    I appreciate this channel but this book is unnecessary. I’m an ER doc & “perform at a high level in front of dozens of people” all the time in vert dramatic situations (full codes). It’s part of the career I chose. Just like 99.9% either feed off of being in front of huge crowds or more likely don’t give a rat’s rearend about the crowds. If someone is worried about the “crowd” or others - they will never be a high performer. “Thoroughbreds don’t know they are even in a race, they just love to RUN!”

  • @krell2130
    @krell2130 4 роки тому +1

    using sports scores to illustate toughness...puhlease....

  • @ViralTalk
    @ViralTalk 7 років тому

    Hey brother
    Why dont u add a email to your accout!!
    I have sent u a message please check in private message of youtube

  • @Ariel1Dominguez
    @Ariel1Dominguez 5 років тому

    0 to 0 and then 0 to 0 and then 0 to 0 and then 0 to 0 and then 2 to 0....damn baseball is boring

  • @thomasmoore1823
    @thomasmoore1823 4 роки тому

    Tony Robbins, lost me.

  • @SomeInfoSecDude
    @SomeInfoSecDude 6 років тому +2

    Totally useless. You wasted your time.

  • @pk7393
    @pk7393 4 роки тому

    Great

  • @mcrebteamaseaCR
    @mcrebteamaseaCR 7 років тому +1

    :)