My dad attended this course in 1960s and he practised it religiously. Honestly, he was always calm in whatever situation. This book reminds me of him. Love you always.
Or they subdivide and multiply. If everyone knows the solution it becomes less and less effective. Others are the cause of most worries and they delight in the power it affords them. I'm afraid they don't vanish but instead grow ever more devoted to creating worry for power plays.
Some of my favourite quotes by Dale are: • It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. • Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get • Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. Lastly, my favourite & one of things i personally stand by - • Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
3 Worry Remedies 1. Analyze your worry (90% elimination): Write it out: What am I worried about? What can I do about it? At least three courses of actions. Choose most positive result. 2. Imagine and mentally accept the worst case (eliminate 10%) Because worrying destroys our ability to concerted, accepting the worst yanks us out of the Grey clouds. Create list of urgent and important tasks Do what you can, accept that you didn’t complete the rest and it doesn’t matter. Activate iron doors: 1. Every morning is a new life, yesterday is dead
eliminate 90% of your worry by writing down your worry in precise detail and then writing at least three courses of action you can take then make a decision and take action eliminate any remaining worry by accepting the worst and asking yourself how can I improve upon the worst then to prevent any new worries from creeping back into your life practice living in day tight compartments by imagining each day is a new life and telling yourself if I do my best to take care of today tomorrow will take care of itself
A very good book to read, I read it over 40 years ago and still remember it. Dale Carnegie's other book, How to win friends and influence people should be mandatory reading in High School.
I took the Dale Carnegie Course as I was starting my career (from the Ralph Nichols Corp in MI). It changed my life for the better. It was more valuable than the four years I spent in a prestigious college.
I am a Russian studying at a Russian university, so we have English tests at the end of the first term. The narrative from this video was in that exam... A Godsend.
If you are worrying address it by journaling. Write what you're worried about, and then write 3 or more things that you can do about it, finally, take action. Accept whatever worry is left. Vividly imagine that the worse case scenario has already occurred. Take your next steps with this in mind, seeing each new step as an opportunity that wouldn't have been there otherwise.
Just recommended this book to a client! I recommend it often actually, despite it having very outdated language and references. It is still one of the best books to help with anxiety and worry. :)
Hi mate I just want to say thank you for what you are doing I am dyslexic and English is my second language you are amazing and helping me more than you think cheers brother
Fantasti..Life is just a means to an end.It is all from dust to dust.Our dwelling our eternal home..Paradise.The key to paradise is to seek His pleasure by abiding by Divine Commandments.May God help us in attaining that ultimate objective.Amen
Let me share my thoughts as Dale Carnegie Trainer who tought these principles at one point of time. I think the last one you said actually comes much earlier in the book worked for me I. E live in day tight compartment relevant at any point of time and even today with lots of lay offs in India due to covid 19 and slowdown. ..each day should be a new life ...forget past. Developed countries have better eco system to manage this pandemic and also employment issue with help of social security system, which is severely lacking in underdeveloped nations like India , Pakistan, Nepal etc. Regarding making a list of action plans... the reason is biological dopamine is released in our human system and lifts our spirit. However sometimes it is addictive. .we need to manage dopamine internally. Sometimes doing nothing helps ..that's what some recent studies suggest. The book is old as we know and needs to be updated ...just a personal view.
Thank you very much this is been very helpful I love this I believe it and I truly believe that God when you put him first and you put all your problems in his hands he will help you through anything he sure is helping me this is true it’s a good thing to do thank you🥰
I really needed this video. The whole covid situation and racial tensions have been driving me crazy. I find myself constantly worrying about mistakes I've made in the past and worrying about what will happen in the future. I've spent my whole life working too much and not spending enough quality time with my family, especially my kids. And now that they are teenagers I feel like it's too late and we don't have the relationship I wanted. I'm scared of being alone like my own father...
at least you have a family and kids, you did well there. I'm approaching 37, male and single, surviving the lockdown by sheltering in the attic of my brother's house. Wondering about when I'll have the agency to strike it out on my own eventually
Larry - I have done it the opposite way - I have been all over the world with my daughters ,and as a family - never missed a parents evening - and I still have problems with them . I don't worry a second about covid 19 I do worry for the poor people who have had a legitimate cause , namely BLM , hijacked by the global elites - and they don't see ,that they are being played , and used . Stop worrying , you cannot stop what is coming - because it is coming , whether that by the design of man , or gods will - it cannot be stopped Make peace with yourself and your God- and put your feet up .
@@corpgov you're absolutely right. I should count my blessings and I try my best to keep it all in perspective. You're still young so don't give up on having a wife and kids if that is your goal. Take it one day at a time and work on a plan to move toward your goal. There are a lot of women out there that would love to have a family too. You can do it!
The middle class illusion finally travels itself as a fraud. Someone once said we spend our lives earning money to buy what we miss out on along the way in the hope we'll find it again. It's a lie. Yet economic growth perpetuates that in us by encouraging financial success, and its display both materially and projecting experiences, bought too, as the only metrics. It's not "quality time" as that refers to filling it with more experiences to relate success to others. It's simply time spent together with no aim or purpose. The middle classes define quality time as constructive time. That's a great error.
This is one of the best books ever. It is my number one book. I explained it better in the biography that I wrote: THE LIFE OF DALE CARNEGIE AND HIS PHILOSOPHY OF SUCCESS.
I constantly worry about money . Will I have enough money to retire on . What if the economy turns bad and I lose my job . The only way I'll stop worrying about money is if I have Financial Freedom .
I know a lot of people of today the only thing they worry about is where to get the food to eat for a day just to survive because they lost their jobs due to current health crisis. I lost a huge amount of money in business and currently broke and i am old...Shane, you are in a better position than most people do right now, breath and just be thankful, if you know how to adapt or willing to learn new set of skills or grow your own food, you are gonna be just fine and you will survive.
Financial Freedom is a myth defined by get rich schemes whose promoters never get it because enrichment of the self and displays of it overcome them. Define your minimum, now, then live it. Then you'll be able to save towards your future. If you love what you do, why retire? Can you do it part time, sooner rather than later, and glide into retirement? Are you living your life or the lives of others to fit in thus making work a means to its ends? Lots of questions.
Actually a good channel that is very very useful . Your 1 pdf summaries are great resource since i refer back to them for important message which otherwise i forget once its been a while after reading a book and i dont want to reread a book . However, i do slow down the speed of ur video to listen to u carefully as i feel u r too fast for me n i dont want to miss importnat details. Nice channel . Your hard work shows . thanks
This helps so much I worry way more than I should. I know using these will help me a lot. Thanks! Edit: I just used this and it helped so much and now I’m not worried about what I was supper worried about.
My dad attended this course in 1960s and he practised it religiously. Honestly, he was always calm in whatever situation. This book reminds me of him. Love you always.
Even Warren buffet says the best investment in his life was attending his course
Same!
Need to know info!!!
50% of your worries vanish when you make a decision... that’s actually a very helpful fact
👏
Very true!
Terimakasih Mas. Nasehat yang berharga.
Decisions can also give U new reasons to worry...
Or they subdivide and multiply. If everyone knows the solution it becomes less and less effective. Others are the cause of most worries and they delight in the power it affords them. I'm afraid they don't vanish but instead grow ever more devoted to creating worry for power plays.
"Don’t be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you."
Dale Carnegie
What book is this from?
Did Carnegie really say that? Sounds more like a Robert Greene quote
"Don’t put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies" - Robert Greens
I ve never read this phrase before although I read all Dale Carnegie books.
A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work.
Great video!
My work IS worry. I'm a high school teacher.
@@zzanatos2001 then please quit your work because it will be a cycle. If you worry today then your students will worry tomorrow!
Yes indeed Love your excellent analysis... 😊🙏
I can't accept the worst, it means death.
Some of my favourite quotes by Dale are:
• It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
• Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get
• Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.
Lastly, my favourite & one of things i personally stand by -
• Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
3 Worry Remedies
1. Analyze your worry (90% elimination):
Write it out:
What am I worried about?
What can I do about it?
At least three courses of actions. Choose most positive result.
2. Imagine and mentally accept the worst case (eliminate 10%)
Because worrying destroys our ability to concerted, accepting the worst yanks us out of the Grey clouds.
Create list of urgent and important tasks
Do what you can, accept that you didn’t complete the rest and it doesn’t matter.
Activate iron doors:
1. Every morning is a new life, yesterday is dead
super advices!
Thanks 😊
Fat deal
You are changing my life in so many ways with this series you cannot imagine how grateful I am! Thank you!
A fine summary of a book I've read maybe 3 times. I'm in my 50s, and this timeless wisdom has stood the test of time.
eliminate 90% of your worry by writing
down your worry in precise detail and
then writing at least three courses of
action you can take then make a decision
and take action
eliminate any remaining
worry by accepting the worst and asking
yourself how can I improve upon the
worst then to prevent any new worries
from creeping back into your life
practice living in day tight
compartments by imagining each day is a
new life and telling yourself if I do my
best to take care of today tomorrow will
take care of itself
Saving money is a habit that can help u to worry less in life
Absolutely. Your absolutely right. In a perfect world these principles work. But in the normal evil evandry we are at the mercy of someones ego.
99% of what I worried about never happened. The bad things that happened I never saw coming.
So true.
🤣🤣👍
Well said
So true
That makes me worry.
Can't deny it
#1 Analyze your worries
#2 Accepting the worst
#3 Each day is a new life
A very good book to read, I read it over 40 years ago and still remember it.
Dale Carnegie's other book, How to win friends and influence people should be mandatory reading in High School.
I read this book 25 years ago and the message is as important today as it was when it was written.
Has it helped your life?
let me tell you something, "You are doing a great job. bro! ". Best content!
I love the quote "if I take Care of today, tomorrow will take Care of itself" 😍🙂
I read this book once a year to bring clarity to my life and can vouch for its powerful method, it will change your life .
I took the Dale Carnegie Course as I was starting my career (from the Ralph Nichols Corp in MI). It changed my life for the better. It was more valuable than the four years I spent in a prestigious college.
A moment of silence for those who couldn't discover this gem of a channel
Wow
Thanks. Enlightened. Hmmmph
I am a Russian studying at a Russian university, so we have English tests at the end of the first term. The narrative from this video was in that exam... A Godsend.
"No problem has ever been solved by worrying about it" -- Well said.
My dad used to say," Don't panic come up with a plan".
Thanks for the information.
Worry is a tremendous waste of time and energy.
A succinct summary to re-cap on the book or for those busy people that don't have time to read the whole book. Thanks.
If you are worrying address it by journaling. Write what you're worried about, and then write 3 or more things that you can do about it, finally, take action.
Accept whatever worry is left. Vividly imagine that the worse case scenario has already occurred. Take your next steps with this in mind, seeing each new step as an opportunity that wouldn't have been there otherwise.
Just recommended this book to a client! I recommend it often actually, despite it having very outdated language and references. It is still one of the best books to help with anxiety and worry. :)
This summary of the book helps in appreciating and understanding the book in a much better way.
How these wonderful lessons from Dale Carnegie came into my UA-cam I’ll never know...But the timing was perfect! Thank You!
Dale Carnegie is a great man
The best self help book even written. I read it few years back and you have summarized it perfectly.
Hi mate I just want to say thank you for what you are doing I am dyslexic and English is my second language you are amazing and helping me more than you think cheers brother
Back again thank for posting
You had collected so much of wisdom by reading all those books for these videos
Thank you. I will watch this video for 28 days in a row. Day 1.
There is nothing for me to worry about. And with this information I gained an even stronger mindset. Thank you.
Great video! I am putting this book on my list of books to read! Cheers!
Excellent job as always! Great book choice. Much appreciation for this channel!
This book is worth the read.
Fantasti..Life is just a means to an end.It is all from dust to dust.Our dwelling our eternal home..Paradise.The key to paradise is to seek His pleasure by abiding by Divine Commandments.May God help us in attaining that ultimate objective.Amen
This is a classic book that I have read many times over my life. It has always been a resource during hard times.
同样是手绘视频，没有手势，感觉更加简洁，看了舒心。喜欢你的视频。
Every video of you is worth my tims.
I have read it many times.He is /was a pioneer in the field.
Decision takes your worries away
Really appreciative of these CORE MESSAGES of these outstanding books.
Thank you
Let me share my thoughts as Dale Carnegie Trainer who tought these principles at one point of time.
I think the last one you said actually comes much earlier in the book worked for me I. E live in day tight compartment relevant at any point of time and even today with lots of lay offs in India due to covid 19 and slowdown. ..each day should be a new life ...forget past.
Developed countries have better eco system to manage this pandemic and also employment issue with help of social security system, which is severely lacking in underdeveloped nations like India , Pakistan, Nepal etc.
Regarding making a list of action plans... the reason is biological dopamine is released in our human system and lifts our spirit. However sometimes it is addictive. .we need to manage dopamine internally.
Sometimes doing nothing helps ..that's what some recent studies suggest. The book is old as we know and needs to be updated ...just a personal view.
I needed this today. Thank you!
I watched this video at least ten times over the last week and I know it’s helping me
Slowly but strongly
Excellent content! Thank you so much.
This vidoe helped me in one of the darkest times of my life!!!
Great video!!!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. You are doing a great job.
Thanks Nathan, great summary!! - and a great START into the new week! Keep up the good work!!
I supper love this channel, who could even give a dislike?
Awesome. Thanks for the summary
Thanks for sharing this video! I took a copy of this book with me on vacation last year. I really enjoyed the stories from his interviews.
Thanks for the video, Productivity Game!
Hope u have a good day!
Great stuff, thank you!
Thank you for your wonderful sharing. I have not read that book, but your summary has already helped me to cure worry issue. Great summary.
Beautifully summarized.
Great review. I love your channel. Keep up the great work. Thank you as well for the amaying PDF
What am I worried about?
What can I do about it?
These are the two question is most important question to find out what your truly worried about.
Thank God for this channel!
I love this UA-cam page,Thank you so very much 😊
Love this video.I already read this book. You do a good job!
Great video This I need I've realized I worry far too much for my own good 👍🏻😊
Thanks man, this video changed my life
Excellent book review..
1. What am I worried about ?
2. What can I do about it ?
Karan hes saying what the book is about fool
Karan its okay just keep practicing on personal development
What am I worried about?
Everything. We are at the mercy of fate every second of our lives.
What can I do about it?
Go with the flow.
Thank you very much this is been very helpful I love this I believe it and I truly believe that God when you put him first and you put all your problems in his hands he will help you through anything he sure is helping me this is true it’s a good thing to do thank you🥰
Dale Carnegie certainly had some great life advice
Thank you for making a useful video.
Thanks for this video. I don’t have this book, and you summarizing for all of us is amazing!
Don't worry be happy! It's a perception when you give up you lose
Million dollar content, Thank you providing it for free.
I really needed this video. The whole covid situation and racial tensions have been driving me crazy. I find myself constantly worrying about mistakes I've made in the past and worrying about what will happen in the future. I've spent my whole life working too much and not spending enough quality time with my family, especially my kids. And now that they are teenagers I feel like it's too late and we don't have the relationship I wanted. I'm scared of being alone like my own father...
at least you have a family and kids, you did well there. I'm approaching 37, male and single, surviving the lockdown by sheltering in the attic of my brother's house. Wondering about when I'll have the agency to strike it out on my own eventually
Larry - I have done it the opposite way - I have been all over the world with my daughters ,and as a family - never missed a parents evening - and I still have problems with them .
I don't worry a second about covid 19
I do worry for the poor people who have had a legitimate cause , namely BLM , hijacked by the global elites - and they don't see ,that they are being played , and used .
Stop worrying , you cannot stop what is coming - because it is coming , whether that by the design of man , or gods will - it cannot be stopped
Make peace with yourself and your God- and put your feet up .
@@corpgov you're absolutely right. I should count my blessings and I try my best to keep it all in perspective. You're still young so don't give up on having a wife and kids if that is your goal. Take it one day at a time and work on a plan to move toward your goal. There are a lot of women out there that would love to have a family too. You can do it!
The middle class illusion finally travels itself as a fraud. Someone once said we spend our lives earning money to buy what we miss out on along the way in the hope we'll find it again. It's a lie. Yet economic growth perpetuates that in us by encouraging financial success, and its display both materially and projecting experiences, bought too, as the only metrics. It's not "quality time" as that refers to filling it with more experiences to relate success to others. It's simply time spent together with no aim or purpose. The middle classes define quality time as constructive time. That's a great error.
@@corpgov how are you now man
Phenomenal summary RESPECT 🔥🔥🔥
Excellent, thank you!
This is one of the best books ever. It is my number one book. I explained it better in the biography that I wrote: THE LIFE OF DALE CARNEGIE AND HIS PHILOSOPHY OF SUCCESS.
I constantly worry about money . Will I have enough money to retire on . What if the economy turns bad and I lose my job . The only way I'll stop worrying about money is if I have Financial Freedom .
I know a lot of people of today the only thing they worry about is where to get the food to eat for a day just to survive because they lost their jobs due to current health crisis. I lost a huge amount of money in business and currently broke and i am old...Shane, you are in a better position than most people do right now, breath and just be thankful, if you know how to adapt or willing to learn new set of skills or grow your own food, you are gonna be just fine and you will survive.
Financial Freedom is a myth defined by get rich schemes whose promoters never get it because enrichment of the self and displays of it overcome them. Define your minimum, now, then live it. Then you'll be able to save towards your future. If you love what you do, why retire? Can you do it part time, sooner rather than later, and glide into retirement? Are you living your life or the lives of others to fit in thus making work a means to its ends? Lots of questions.
The only way to financial freedom is to spend less than you earn and to save instead of borrowing.
Live below your means. Dave Ramsey
has good advice and a system on line.
Best book ever, thank you!
Seems good for people who worry, not so good for people with anxiety.
Actually a good channel that is very very useful . Your 1 pdf summaries are great resource since i refer back to them for important message which otherwise i forget once its been a while after reading a book and i dont want to reread a book . However, i do slow down the speed of ur video to listen to u carefully as i feel u r too fast for me n i dont want to miss importnat details. Nice channel . Your hard work shows . thanks
Love the technique. I would implement it when am troubled.
This helps so much I worry way more than I should. I know using these will help me a lot. Thanks!
Edit: I just used this and it helped so much and now I’m not worried about what I was supper worried about.
Awesome Summary! Very well taught Thanks!!
Thanks its open up my mind to remain calm at most of time
Man I’m finna use this ASAP
Thank you!
Excellent ideas, great synopsis!
How people can put thumbs down for this kind of videos 🤨
Thank thank you very much sir for explaining this amazing book with an amazing way 👍
Love it sir!
Knowing that I will live through the worst case scenario of a problem really helps me lower my stress and anxiety when worried about something.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Very powerful.
Thanks for the summary
More great insights from DC
Love this channel pulling out major insights and sharing them brilliant
Love reading your book summaries. Truly wait for a new book video. Awesome job 👍
thanks a hell lot.... much love for such videos 💯❤️❤️💯
Thank you..
Excellent concise review! Thank you for your efforts and also offering the pdf, great job! Much appreciation 👍