Why I REGRET Losing My Virginity // Girl Talk
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- Losing your viriginity is rarely ever sunshine and rainbows so, here's a Girl Talk on why I regret losing mine.
LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY: My Experience + Tips // Girl Talk
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no matter how *"in love"* i am with a guy, the minute he starts taking bout some "We have to do it or im leaving you"... any affection i had previously had for him would just disappear. Ain't nobody gon convince me that i have no choice........ ✌ 👋
Yes but guys rarely put it like that. They usually manipulate you by using guilt and subtly suggesting an ultimatum
@ronicaerika Diddo. #preachonit
I’m 24 and still a proud virgin. I’ve never even had a bf🤷🏾♀️. I wouldn’t say I’m waiting for marriage but I’m waiting for someone who I’m truly and genuinely in love with, both mentally and spiritually. BTW your hair looks bomb like always😍
KrazyKoolKeasiia so true I'm proud of myself thankful I was never pressured to do anything while was in school
Same here! I'm 24, still a virgin and never had a boyfriend. But for me, I am waiting until I'm married. I just feel like my body and virginity is such an intimate & special part of me and I honestly can't see myself giving up to just anyone. Once you find the right one, the wait will be so much more rewarding, not just for you, but your partner also. Hang in there!
I'm so proud of y'all.....That's awesome!!! It's best to wait on someone that will value you....I'm 41 now but oh I wish I would have waited 😖
KrazyKoolKeasiia go girl👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m only 18, a Virgin , and never had a Bf. I’m trying to wait until I’m married.I’m very inspired by you !!!!
Yes I am 20 and a virgin and have never had a boyfriend as well and I share the same value lol
I lost mine when i was 17 and he was 18 and luckily I’m still with him and also I’m engaged to him💍
Jazmyn Moss congratulations 🍾🎉
Jazmyn Moss Congratulations💗 i also lost mine at 17 and my boyfriend was 18, I hope we'll end up engaged like you!
im good im done I hope you guys do and wish you guys the best
I lost mine at 17, but I didn't give it to someone worthy of it. But, now that I'm married, I wish I waited for him.
Jazmyn Moss that's so cute 😍😍💕💕
For all the younger teens in the comments, (I’m not old but I’m not that young either), EMBRACE VIRGINITY. Ignore everything social media says about it. Sex is definitely over hyped. Enjoy being young while it lasts.. you have your whole life to experience and sex should be the last on your list. Stay away from boys who pressure you SWEET TALK you into it. If you aren’t ready you aren’t. Shy away from those kinds.
Richelle Perkins to each its own. Its hard as heck but im waitin since i screwed up in every other area lol. Dont want no babies lol
💯💯💯
Its definitely not overrated, but it is in the way people use it in society...I'm married, and I love having sex.
Do u think 17 is old enough
Brooke Melton it is hard but keep on being abstinent you ain’t missing NOTHING!
I lost mine last Sunday & I regret it. He wasn’t my bf & I was sure I was okay with that. But I am sadly mistaken. I wish I never did it & waited. I can’t stop crying, like afterwards he started acting different & is hitting me with so many excuses about why. My feelings recently got involved & it’s been the hardest experience for me thus far. It took him months to “get it” & I finally gave in😢 I was sure I’d wait until I was in a loving relationship but I didn’t & man I regret it so much
I’m 19 btw
@@angelcarter4018 oh! Too bad I lost mine too to some ungrateful jerk but either way I still know am worthy it was a mistake I deeply regret coz he just used me.. Am 19 too.. N those who are still virgins please stay virgins till marriage
Sorry about that sweetheart
same here. i hope youre doing better now
Heyy same happened to me... did you move on? How are you?
I love this video! I’m 23 and I love having my virginity. I know that I’m not missing anything, and I’m lowkey scared of the potential pain, and I don’t want to get pregnant. There’s protection of course, but I know I will feel paranoid and stressed every time lol. Sex isn’t a priority in my life at this time, but I’m prepared and knowledgeable of the next steps when that time comes.
Serina G. That's a good way to look at it you'll know when it's the right time to lose your virginity.
I ended up waiting until I was 19, that’s when I found my bf, best friend and husband... and I wasn’t looking! Life will turn the least you expect it.
Serina G. Mbn
You not the only one I’m 21 girl I feel you
I’m 20 and happily a virgin. I’m waiting on the right guy who I know for a fact deserves my all and is willing to be beyond patient. One of my main reasons as well is I know I could put myself into a potential heartbreak if I give him my all and it’s still not enough. Embracing my virginity and keeping my standards 🤞🏾
Great video.
Giving him all is chasing a guy. You should focus on self love. Write down a list of things that you want from guys then do each one of them yourself. You will feel rewarded.
Im almost 20. Still a Virgin. Also never had a boyfriend before bc guys cant handle not having sex and its a deal breaker for them, at least all the ones Ive met. It’s definitely possible to do it for anybody that’s struggling
FreshmansDub16 sameeeee
FreshmansDub16 I'm 22 and have only dated one guy. And he wanted to reconsider the relationship when I didn't want to have sex with him. I was like nothing to consider or reconsider, bye!!! And that was like a year ago I and I still haven't had sex with any man and have stopped trying to be in a a relationship with a man. And just have been in a relationship with myself and make myself happy. And honestly I can't be more happy he said that because I really learned to love myself more.
Alilish Suki same girl. Being by yourself is key 👌🏽 and you ain’t gotta worry about no man lol
Same 😉
FreshmansDub16 This is unfortunately sad but true, sex has become a deal breaker for most relationships:( This makes me feel really deceived by all the attention and love your boyfriend is willing to give you till that point
Alright y’all... I lost mine at 14. My (ex) boyfriend and I were together for 4 years. He didn’t cheat but he definitely was undeserving of me and didn’t understand the meaning of waiting. I didn’t have self love and therefore I showed him more than I should have to myself. And then I went on to have sex after we broke up with a few other guys. That was low confidence as well. Then I started to love myself, I started asking myself what do I like/want to do?.... etc. I got to know me and I got to know God a little more as well. I want to be married and stay in a healthy, prosperous marriage with the one God chooses for me. Right now I’m celibate and the plan is to stay celibate until marriage. I tell my story to say, LOVE YOURSELF. These men out here can be so blinded by lust that they can’t see anything else. BUT that doesn’t mean there aren’t good men out here who really want to love you. I don’t regret anything because God has a plan for me and what’s the sense of regretting something that happened in the past? What matters is how you change yourself for the better in the now. And to those who are still virgins, lift your head up high and be proud! And to those who are not, you are still a beautiful, respectable Queen. Treat yourself as such🌻👑
That Girl Kels 🥰💜
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Omg I had the same experience, I feel undesirable tbh because I was so young
Girl the best comment on here ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Tristen’s Unsolved Hopefully you don’t regret it now. Be more careful and stay alert!
People at school did not believe when I said I've never had a boyfriend , a first kiss, sex. Like they laughed as if that's not normal
I'm 18
People do that to me to! Like i had some call me whore, and I clap back like I haven't even had sex so explain to me how that is a whore. then they laugh and say that its stupid i am waiting but they are the stupid ones who gave it up so easily so is really the whore loll
Same and I’m almost 18. People call others fast if they are having sex and then someone
Called me childish because I don’t do it . Which is why I don’t listen to others because people will never be satisfied . Which is why it’s important to be content within yourself 🤷🏾♀️
Ang
Exactly
Same I’m gonna be 18 I just keep my business with nobody else but me
I'm still a virgin (19) and I feel that some put me on this pedestal for being a virgin, like just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean I'm a good person. I feel that I'm last in line for everything and it can kinda suck sometimes. Just a different point of view. ☺️
YES sis I'm 19 too the struggle is real!
Jazz Ariana yes I held that until my late 19s. I had a innocent vibe & sorta still do so people treat me softly & I've never had a boyfriend and I just recently lost my v & I don't regret it....
Jazz Ariana Hey girl! I am 19 as well and understand how you feel. Just keep being you and stay true to yourself✨
I know exactly what you mean girl. I hate it when people do that.
I know the feeling
"To keep him mine, even though he really wasn't mine because I was always sharing him" damn....that was deep👀🔥
Preach girl. I hear you about trying to find reason why. Now that I'm older and wiser I can redeem myself. My first b/f cheated on me too. Thank God now I can remain celibate until marriage because I realize the value of ME. I didn't understand that when I was younger.😊❤❤ I can love me now and chill lol.
I’m 19 and still a proud Virgin! I’m in college and all my friends have had sex before and from what I hear they regretted loosing their virginity for a long time and I’m glad it wasn’t/isn’t me. I’ve never had a bf always just “talked” and half the time a guy says “you body look too good for you to be a Virgin” 🤦🏽♀️ Peer pressure is always there just gotta learn to move around it 🤷🏽♀️😊
I am 16 I recently lost mine and I agree I wish I never did it, I was also so proud to be a Virgin and I let peer pressure get to me, and I also had a recent trauma which made things harder for me to care or feel. I wish I could go back but I understand now that I can’t dwell on the past and I need to come to terms with myself. To all virgins I’m so proud of y’all don’t let anyone make you feel different about it.💞
How do you feel now, did you move on?
I think lots of young girls need to hear this, because many times you hear adults tell you to keep it until marriage, yet they fail to warn you the pain and hurt you could possibly go through if you decide not too. You are such a great example of using your experiences and platform for educating the masses 💕
Yeeeeees!👏👏
“I will clap back 👏🏼” I loved that 😂 thank you so much for this video ❤️
I’m 15 and I’m NOT rushing anything there are wayyy more priorities and things I’m focused on rn I’m to motivated to worry about when my Ima lose my v or when my future boyfriend gonna come around the way ppl in my generation act and think is ridiculous😕. I got goals hunty💪🏽❤️ doctor in the making👩🏾⚕️ love you as always beauty gang😝
C. Ariel i know that’s right ! I’m 14 years old with big dreams, I’m too concerned on my success to be worried and stressing over a boy.
O'Briona yasss honey like we have big dreams ahead of us I wish you all the best sis make your dreams come to life😘❤️
C. Arie same
VTM here! HIGHLY recommend!!! I met my now husband in middle school, started dating a month after I turned 15. It was very important to him that we wait, and thats when I knew he was the one! We got engaged at 18, and I lost my virginity on our wedding night at the age of 20. Im SO GLAD that I found someone who valued me and had the same beliefs that was very important. Anyone reading this just know there is a reason people say you should wait for the right one. I was very fortunate, and I only wish you the best
Personally, I think everyone should just wait to find out what their significant other's intentions really are. They'll show their true colors eventually and if they show unconditional support and love, that won't change just because you had sex with them. They'll just keep sticking with you and worrying about you and nobody else. And that can happen at any age. Although it's uncommon for people to be mature enough to be loyal or real about what they really want to do when they're young
I’m 22 and still a virgin. Honestly it is strenuous but at the same time it keeps you from a lot of things...and focused. It’s a lot harder when you don’t have s reason to remain. Ladies keep on to it as long as you can. Niggas ain’t going no where.... Truly.
Save yourself #Wait4Mr.Right 🖤
Thank yuh so much for this video I'm 20 yrs old n getting ready to graduate from community college n still a virgin all my friends have lost theirs n they r trying to ensure that I keep mine for a long time n my boyfriend respects me so much for wanting to wait
Please respond... at which point did you tell your boyfriend that you wanted to wait?
Sammittra Harrell amen !!
let him offer marriage and focus on getting a job.
Sammittra Harrell that's so sweet
Great video. I was 14 ( way too young!). The guy: non deserving. Can’t take it back. Now I am 46 and sometimes I wonder if I am punishing my husband for my past. New to your channel. Have you discussed your Nigerian roots. I find you so interesting! I also found it interesting that you were able to forgive him but working on forgiving yourself. We are so hard on ourselves sometimes...
I am a Junior in high school and I plan to wait till marriage to have sex because I feel convicted to do so. But gurl you better preach. I remember people literally talking bout losing their virginity in 7th grade.(We were literally 12 back then) I kinda wish realistic sex education was more available for younger girls and guys but I’m so glad you’re telling so many girls that there are so many more options than losing your virginity at a young age. Keep it up 👏🏾👏🏾
I wish I had that option of being all innocent and stuff ...I still want to wait until marriage to lose my virginity , but I'm already sort of "damaged " thanks to two people who didn't care wether I wanted to do anything or not 🤷🏽♀️ I think that's definitely protected me though , because intimacy and boyfriends freak me out now , but hopefully one day I'll overcome that and give my virginity to the right person .
Joy Mechell Are you talking about rape? 😔😔
Miricale White molested around age 6 and 7 and assaulted at 15 😪
Joy Mechell oh my gosh ☹️ One of my family members was molested at 14 and she told people nobody believed her 🤦🏽♀️
Miricale White I didn't tell a soul until after a year of therapy . My family still doesn't know , but it was a cousin that did it , and a boy who claimed to be my oldest brothers friend . I didn't think it did much damage until I realize I became bitter and my anxiety got uncontrollable. I still have bad panic attacks , nightmares, and am pretty much always on guard 🤷🏽♀️ sorry about your relative ❤️🙏🏽
so sorry to hear that
"GURRRRLLL there is SO MUCH out there for YOU, but I will save that for another video" and I'll be waiting for that video🙌❤😂
I was 19 when I lost it I don’t regret It i just wished I waited a lil longer and moved a lil slower just as she said if it wasn’t the person I lost it too regardless it woulda been someone else it still effects me in some ways but I wouldn’t go back and change it or do nothing different because it’s a learning Experience I’m 24 and never been in a relationship reading the comments I thought I was the odd one out but I see I’m not alone lol but be careful who u let in your temple and let have you.!
I'm 18 and a virgin. But prom is coming up and I'm a lil tempted. Pray for me pls I want to wait till marriage. Cuz Ik I will regret it if I lose it Fr
Angel Harmony you are just going to prom for a good time to have fun. Don't let anyone pressure you. Don't go anywhere with any guys. Don't be scared to say no. You can always change your mind
Kim D. True, trust me I will have fun on that night😊 I am going with this guy cuz he already asked me, but I am not going to prom weekend with him. I will stay w/ my close friends at a hotel(just girls tho). Thanks for the advice!
Angel Harmony I totally agree
Kim D. Thank u for the advice I'm still a virgin💪!! Prom was still lit w/out having sex. Definitely a day I will remember forever❤️💯😍😭😎!
Angel Harmony yes! Keep it for HIM
i still have my virginity 1) bc of my relationship with jesus but also 2) the importance of saving myself for someone that i love and will love for the rest of my life. I have never been the type to judge anyone else’s views of sex or their sex lives, but to me sex has always to me been something sacred and meaningful that i wouldn’t want to experience with anyone who wasn’t totally in love with me and i with him. I haven’t even had a boyfriend or a first kiss (im not saving the kiss but there ain’t no one to kiss 😂). In time man, it’ll happen.
Just went through a break up today and this just made me feel so much better.... I love girl talks ❤
And yes its best to forgive.. U will move on from it a whole lot better.. But look at the bright side bc honey God blessed u with someone even better.
I didnt lose my 'virginity' at 15, but i did alot of age innapproprate things with my boyfriend at that age that i wish i wouldve waited til i was 18. I was always mature and my mind and body wanted to go faster than i could handle, but i was rational and never took it the whole way. We just have a lot of self control and taking it too far wasnt something we wanted to do. I still regret losing my innocence, i just wanted to have it longer but thats the way it happened. Im still a virgin, and i dont compromise on that.
I told my boyfriend at the beginning that if thats what he wants, i dont think im the girl for him. He cant tell me if he doesnt want this relationship, and i wont take it personally. Because i know not everyone shares the way i want to live my life. I talk to him about it every now and then to check if he is still ok with it, and he is fine with it. Doesnt seem to care.
Im not sure why hes like that, but whatever. If he was bugging me, i would break up with him anyway so im just thankful.
I'm 19 (20 in 2 months) and I'm still a virgin. I'm not ashamed of it at all. I'm scared to do it because you know boys they go out of their ways to get with you just to do the nasty and then the next day they ghost.
Girl I turned 20 a few months ago and I'm still a virgin lol. No rush, do it when you feel ready and comfortable.
swagpack happy early birthdayyyy
Hair is literally 4c goals. Keep slayin
It's all a part of growth love! I went through a similar situation and I'm in a completely different mental stage right now because of growth! Self love does wonders
I saw this And I wanted to watch it so bad but I have an African mom so I had to wait til she left 💀
godgirl234 lol I can relate
godgirl234 😂 my mum is African and she's the one who sent me the link to this video
My both parents are Africans(Nigerians) so imagine how my life would be lol they don't care abt the America whatever
Same lol
@@justinabenson7229 Earphones?
Lol luv this video im 15 now and always wanted a boyfriend but never had and this video had mad me realized that im not ready ig
You’re the big sister i’ve never had . I’m 15, turning 16 in October of this year and I’ve been debating on if i wanted too loose it to my boyfriend or not soon . I needed this so much . Thank you for this video ! 💓💕
a friend of mines ex cheated on her because she wanted to wait and he proceeded to say "men have needs". Hmm it seems some men want virgins yet cannot wait as long as they can. This is why I reject anyone who is interested in me at this age because if we were to be in a relationship, there would be a significant strain. Also, I don't want to be cheated on by someone I love just because they lack basic self control.
Your hair is so beautifull! it was distracting me the whole video
I'm 24 and I'm a virgin waiting until marriage. I've never had a boyfriend, no kiss, no hand holding no nothing lol..but it was all my choice (I had options haha) But I decided a long time ago that there's only one man for me, and only one man I'm giving that intricate part of myself to. But thank you for being so open and vulnerable with us! Your story is going to help a lot of young girls who may have my thinking about loosing their virginity. Stay strong y'all! Love and blessings! 💕
same lol
23 and still a virgin, haven't had a boyfriend yet either. My first kiss was taken a few months ago when this guy decided to kiss me without my consent. I was so mad...kinda still salty about it. I wasn't waiting for marriage to lose my virginity or anything, but I just want to make sure it's with the right person, and that they value and love me not just because they want sex. Also, I don't want to get pregnant, and with my luck and family fertility history (women in my family seem to be quite fertile)... I'd probably get pregnant the first time 😂😂😂.
Sis same! Here I was thinking that Iĺl give my first kiss to my future boyfriend at least... and this dude just took it like WHY BRO!!!
Same except he ate me out without my consent and caught me off guard and plus he put his hotdog on my pizza without my consent also but I thank god he did not pop my cherry I’m still a virgin till this day ...
@@Queenteethtapper wow, joking about sexual abuse😀👏🏽👏🏽
@@thetongueofangels1882 how am i joking? you sound dumb
Same case I didn't consent to my first kiss he caught me off guard
Tell it girl!! Tell it!!💗🎉
Being a 16 year old girl, I'm so glad that we have people like you Issi in my generation to guide and talk to us about sex and the significance it has in our young lives. Thank you for this amazing and honest video. 💯💕💯💕
I’ve always been the type of person were I think it’s my body so I should be able to do with it I want. When I’m mentally ready to lose my virginity, that’s when I feel like it’s ok to. I never want to give into peer pressure and i know you can not make a person stay with you just by introducing sex into the relationship. But it also makes me never want to because I feel like every girl I’ve met or videos I’ve seen like this, they regret loosing it. So I’m prepared to regret it either way yk. I’m not insecure, I love myself, and i know what i want, but the way people describe their first experience makes me think that that’ll just vanish and it will probably take forever to get over. And I don’t “think I’m grown” just because I know I’m probably going to loose it in my teen years. It’s just realistic to me. Whatever floats your boat 🤷🏽♀️!
Haha the bruhs in the beginning. My mum made me pay my phone bills at the age of 14 and 150€ to help her pay the house rent at 16. She made grow into being responsible for myself financially and mentally verry early. Now that I just turned 18 3 weeks ago I realize how the things she made me do back then are no problem to me now that I have to do them myself. Paying my driving license all alone which costs 2200€ here in Germany.
Never been kissed before or had a boyfriend. Trying to save myself for marriage and someone who loves me with their whole heart. A person who I could sit next to naked and talk about why I hate chewing gum haha
By the way I love your channel and your hair🙈❤
I totally agree with her because I had a similar experience and I wish I would've waited until I got older because I am so much more mature now. My selection and preference for men are different. I feel like I was still trying to find myself so I just settled for what I had at the moment. A lot of lessons learned.
Babes is there ever a time your edges aren’t fleeky? 😩😍
AMEN!!! I Hope these younger girls took your advice because it is the realest thing on UA-cam!! I felt this in my soul!
She was talking facts throughout the video 💯.. I'm waiting till marriage. Plus u so pretty girl and the hair whaaa always popping 😍😍
I wish people would stop viewing it as something a girl "loses" and something a boy gets to "take". Stop giving so much power to a social construct that was formed against women!
Girl Thank you for this .You really know how to reach and relate to your fans,I hope that all you’ve lost will be regain and that happiness will always be near to you.
I LOVE YOU GIRL! 😘❤️
I like the fact that you were brave to stand out there and let us know your story. I have a preoccupation please. I'm 18 and still a proud virgin. When I told some friends that I was still locked they told me I should be ashamed of myself because I even have a boyfriend who is 20 years old. I keep telling them we not ready for that. They put pressure on everyday that I gotta do it. And they're telling me that they're 100% sure that my boyfriend is doing it with other girls but I don't think he can do it because he told me he is fine with it, he can wait until I'm ready. I don't know who to trust or what to do. Should I ask him or just stay cool or what...?
Nalé C. K.D. don't let your friends ruin your relationship like that by making you lose trust in your bf - you were fine before you told them so no need to ask him and cause tension. Their advice is not the advice of true friends unfortunately.
Best wishes 💕
I respect this video. I'm about to be 19 and am still a virgin and it's so hard with peer pressure
"GUUUUURRRRL THERE IS SO MUCH OUT THERE FOR YOU" *smacks lips* - #THETRUTH. How she said that😂. Soooooo true. Isi you da realest boo ❤💕
"Cause I will CLAP BACK" 😂 yes I regret mine as well. Just turned 18 and was readyyy to see what really kept people in shitty relationships, what made babies 😂😂.My situation was dead ass curiosity. Curiosity killed the cat. Its very overhyped @ppl who still have theirs. And like she said you should find someone you're comfortable with who, you should value yourself always but fr though it's not that serious to do it if you think it is. Enjoy living your life ✨💜 there's no need to rush
I waited til after high school...to all you beautiful women on here your well worth the wait! 😘😘😘😘
Hey Isi, Thank you for being so open and genuine and for sharing your experience to educate us in this area. It's very helpful ,I appreciate you alot.
yes sisss! I missed this series sooo much😭 love you Isi❤️ #BeauteGang
I think abour 90% of us can agree on almost everything she's saying. & the fact that she's sharing this with us ! BEAUTYGANG IS THE BEST GANG 💖💖
Really loved this! So glad you were able to share something so personal and i know this will be of help to many other young girls in a similar situation! Stay blessed hun and keep that light that you've got❤
I’m young but I know these little boys most likely won’t the “one” for me, and it’s kinda hard to explain that to some of my friends because they’re also in that childlike mindset like you mentioned. I also make it known that I don’t want to lost my virginity right now, to every guy I talk to. Sadly you have to put it in the air because kids are very sexually active nowadays and doing anything sexual is kind of “cool” to do. But I’m just not into that for many reasons. Thanks for this video Isi!
Thank you so much for this, I went through a very similar situation and I never had anyone or anything to relate to. I had promised my self things, but I put my self in situations were I should have known better and I knew that I would later regret everything. I appreciate you being so true and honest. You a very beautiful soulful person.💕
For all you young ladies that are virgins I'm proud of you, keep up the good work and be example to the young ladies coming behind you.. And as a Christian you are supposed to be a Virgin until God gives you a husband.. Because as a Christian you do what The Bible says do keep up the good work ladies.. And for you young ladies who wish to be celebate After losing your virginity you can do it. again it's God's plan for you to wait.. Never worry about negative people you can be strong because you are fearfully and wonderfully made by God
Thanks for sharing this with us boo! Alot of girls need to hear this.
I waited until I left high school and got to college. I’m still with the guy I lost mine too, and we’re very much in love. I don’t feel like waiting before marriage is necessary if you really love the person. I’m a Christian, but I truly have no regrets, because I know that my boyfriend is my soulmate.
I remained a virgin until 18, and lost it to my boyfriend who I cared about. I’m older now, and wish that I had waited until marriage though because like you said as you age, realizing the intensity of feelings of sex. I’m dating someone I like now. But bottom line sex changes your outlook on relationships.
I relate to the not staying true to yourself part. Really hit home. I was pretty "old" (by society's standards) when I lost mine but I don't have any regret because all it did was confirm I am and always will be the same person.
This video spoke to me on SO many levels! i really apreciate this
I feel what you’re saying 💯
Without the cheating part.
This was an honest and truthful talk, very insightful and shows your beautiful personality
I'm loving all these comments of people saying their 20+ and waiting till marriage. I've never struggled but I was starting to think I was the only one which sucks.
Ashli Cleveland no sis you are not the only one. I've noticed that we only struggle if we put ourselves in the wrong environment or company. Just make sure that MOSTIMES you are surrounded with like minded people,then you will be fine.
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Thank you for the transparency. Very helpful. 👍 to healing.
Thanks for sharing this with us I think a lot of young girls go through this during that age and they don't really appreciate how bomb they are. Hope they will understand now after seeing this.
you're the sister I never had, thankful for your presence. ❤❤❤
I’m always super distracted by your hair, like I love it
New subscriber!! I love how honest you are and I can relate to everything that happened to you 🤦🏾♀️
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Girl, I feel this on a spiritual level
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Hunny this video is life. I was screaming in the beginning like please tell them again!! As someone in their 20’s it cracks me up when I here well I’m grown. How sway because ya momma still fold your clothes lol
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i really appreciate this😭😭😭, can you make a video about how to keep a “relationship” or the “talking stage” going ?
I love you so much...i appreciate these talks❤
i lost my virginity later than all of my friends (19 to be exact) but i dont regret losing it honestly. Im actually glad i got it over with because nowadays its hard for guys to really accept you for being a virgin. not saying that thats a problem but its hard enough to date period nowadays in this generation. i will say though that if you’re a virgin dont rush to lose it you’re not missing anything. make sure when you are ready to lose it that its with someone you really love and want to be with for a long time and hope they feel the same about you.
I love your story like I learned so much and it has helped ‼️‼️
love these serious storytimes 🎲💐👑
Thank you for being so transparent I love you momma💛
I'm 19 and I'm a virgin. I hate when guys treat it like a challenge. Ladies guys will do anything to make you have sex with them. My ex tried to lower my self esteem. He was really sweet at first, but all the while pressuring me for sex. When he found out how serious I was he started changing for the worse. He started calling me fat, made plans and cancel on me last minute and even tried to convince me that marriages never work and I'm not gonna find someone who is gonna wait. It hurt my self esteem. ALOT. But i love myself enough to know that im worth the wait. But I am happy that I'm a virgin. Seeing my friends lose their virginity too guys who cheat on them breaks my heart to see how it breaks them. One of my friends lost hers to a guy and gave her an std. I'll pass because any guy who wants to take your virginity and doesnt want to be with you forever is cold and doesnt deserve any of anyone's time.
I really appreciate you. Thanks for sharing your real, personal opinion. God bless you 😌♥️💕
you for real my second mother lol love youuuuu
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I'm a 19 year old virgin. I have had boyfriends in the past, but nothing at all serious. I'd say the closest thing I had to a serious relationship was with my last boyfriend my 7th grade year lol. He was my first kiss and I liked him a lot. He was nice, chill, and we saw each other pretty often because we were in the same club. I couldn't stop smiling when I was around him, that's how happy I was to be with him. But, I was also incredibly awkward to the point where I could barely look him in the eye or hold a conversation 😅 On top of that, his ex girlfriend was not over him, so she constantly asked if we'd broken up and would cry every time I politely told her no, we are still together. We dated for two months too and I shared two classes with her, so imagine getting asked almost weekly about the status of your relationship from your boyfriend's ex. It was always uncomfortable, but I didn't let her get to me.
There were, however, a couple reasons why we did end up calling it quits though. One reason was because a rumor was going around that he was talking to some other girl. Now, I'm not the type to just immediately believe something I heard without giving the person an opportunity to explain, and I don't get jealous easily, so I confronted him about it. He explained the situation to me, although I don't remember what he said, but I decided to trust him and it was fine. Stuff kept popping up though, and I would confront him calmly every time. It got to a point where I no longer wanted to date him, but it wasn't because of the rumors, which brings me to the second reason our relationship ended. He was moving a bit too fast for me.
It wasn't like he peer pressured me or anything, but he wanted to do things that I, being a completely awkward person who'd never been touched in an intimate way ever by another guy (aside from hand holding), had never done before. For one, he would randomly rub my butt, which made me jump every time because it was unexpected and I didn't know how to react. For another, he wanted us to tongue kiss. We'd only kissed four times in total our entire relationship, and they would always be closed mouth kisses with no lip movement whatsoever 😂😂 so when he said that, I was like what??? I didn't feel comfortable is what I told him, and he said okay. I feel kind of bad for him thinking back, cause he was patient and never made me feel pressured, even though he continued to rub my butt at random times 😑 but I'm also glad I stood my ground. I know it wasn't anything major he asked for, but it just really turned me off for some reason 😅
We had our break up a week before summer vacation, which was perfect timing. Even though I wasn't particularly heart broken, that summer I did find myself feeling angry. I don't remember why, but I was pissed at him the entire second month of summer, then I got over it before school started again. I still had feelings for him a little bit, but I ended up crushing on my guy friend who was in the same club as us. I started off having a crush on him first, before I even paid my ex any attention, so it was nice to go back to the usual that year. I never let my guy friend know how I felt though (he even started dating someone), but I stayed friends with my ex and it was chill.
The last time I saw my ex was my junior and senior year of high school because he transferred over from another high school. We held up our friendship then too, but there was always this underlying feeling of attraction that I think we both felt, especially senior year. When prom rolled around, he told me in private that he would have asked me, but he already promised one of his friends he would go with her. I was disappointed but also kind of happy that I was his first choice lol. We danced together once at prom and took a couple pictures, then that was it.
Maybe I'm in denial, but to this day, I don't believe he was a cheater. I do think we didn't work because he was more experienced than I was prepared to be with him, however. That's fine by me and I don't regret not taking that next step to date again in high school. I knew he was going to a school out of state on scholarship and I didn't even know what college I wanted to go to. It would have never worked and I would prefer to end on content friendly terms 😊 one thing I do kind of wish I did was kiss him seriously one good time, but oh well 😂😂😂 thanks to anyone who actually read my long comment lol
Jesus loves you all! Wait until marriage! It's the best decision. I waited and I am so glad that I did!! You want to be with the man who loves you, is gentle, kind, and funny! Yet, God loves us and for those who didn't wait it's ok, God forgives all of our sins and loves us! Just try to stay celibate from this point on until he sends the right one for you! Jesus is coming soon...it's much better to not be doing anything questionable when He returns! May you all be blessed and filled with love and joy!
17 years old, same story with an ex who didn’t understand I didn’t want because I wasn’t ready.... now I have a boyfriend that I think really worth it , true christian with a special relationship with God like me, it’s so important for me and I regret so much to didn’t preserve mine for him until marriage because I think God send me him... It’s so horrible to keep this regret in my mind. I’m so ashamed that my best friend, I tell her everything but she doesn’t know about that...
Andy Ziemer I let him make what he wanted to do with my body without being agreed after he insist a lot... As I didn’t do anything to Reject him when after insisting with words he put his hands on me despite my many « no » I don’t know if I can call it a rape... I mean I didn’t defend myself then so I don’t know
We were 15 years old.
ISI sometimes its best to go through these type situations because after you look back and say "I'm a better me", and "don't try me nigga" 😹 you feel more confident ❗️🙌🏽 but this video was well explained. B/c I've also went through the same at 15 (18 now) but now just getting to figure the right guy for myself in 2 more years😹.
Thx and I love you❤️