GIRL TALK: 10 THINGS MY EXES TAUGHT ME // Relationship + Dating Advice
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- Dating is never easy and relationships are either a lesson or a blessing... let's just say my exes were HUGE LESSONS!
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My ex taught me actions matter more than words.
Nina Film amen girl! My ex's favourite statement was "its the thought that counts" so he'd be like I wanted to do something for your birthday but I didn't get round to it but "it's the thought that counts". This is the mild issue but I should have known better...
Same sus!
THIS!!!!!!!
What my ex thought me : Being attached to someone who does not feel the same way as you do is a HUGE KILLER !
Azariah Lowe mannn that shit will destory you mentally😭😭💔
Azariah Lowe mannn that shit will destory you mentally😭😭💔
Serlena Dyson ikr
😩😩 this is the worst type of pain
Something i learned is that if a person wants you they will show it!! You will not have to question your place in their life, especially grown men. A lot of men make it clear what they want from the jump in direct/indirect ways.(texting back; scheduling dates etc.) or (leaving you on read, and treating you like you're just a friend/fwb).
Another thing i learned is that DO NOT OVER-ROMANTICIZE. I have a very big problem with over-romanticizing a relationship to the point where I'll ignore red flags because of "the potential" of what we could be. Separate what a person is showing you right now from what you want them to be or what you're feeling for them.
And i honestly love your girl talks!!
mwahh lory omg can you preach , I finally realize this too . It’s 100% true but only boys act like that real men don’t play around with hearts , if a man wants you he will show it
Same with over romanticize and because it’s impossible for me to give it back to my boyfriend he thinks I don’t love him enough or I do but less than himself And I could swear by that he has developped an inferiority complex 🤦🏾♀️
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 *yas gurl*
The lesson I learned from my ex is that no matter what I wear or how I look someone will always find me attractive for more than just my looks. My ex use to always tear me down and say that no one will ever want me or that if guys look in my direction they only want sex. After that I took time to be by myself and ever since then I've notice that I'm a beautiful young woman with big goals for the future and no one can hold me back from accomplishing what I set my mind to and men will find it attractive when they see that in a woman. This video also made me see other lessons as well that I seen in my own relationship
Taylor B sand here girl .
I learned that I need God in the center of my relationship. Definitely has to be equally yoked because how can two walk together unless they agree💯.....loved the video❤❤
Curly Cure amennnnnn
Faxxxxxxxxx
Most DEFINATLY
Yup
One thing I learned from a past ex is to stop ignoring obvious red flags. As girls we love to let stuff slide and "oh thats not that bad" at the situation but the truth is if it's already blockages and red flags in the beginning of the relationship then its not going to work out. We like to stay in hope of a change and most of the time the change won't happen and we stay in toxicity for the "memories" and "happiness" we experience/experienced with them. When a person shows you who they are run! There is no changing who they already are. We have to learn how to let go especially if it isn't healthy no matter how hard it may be. There is always something more healthy and better waiting for you. Love shouldn't feel like a chore, obstacle, or hurt. It's 2018 ladies let's learn to move on at the first sign of smoke and honor ourselves for the beautiful women we are!! (btw I love your channel girl
Brittany Basley you sooo right😞😞!!
First of all, go off with the natural hair sis! Lol but it is lame that we fall for someone’s potential but as you said it’s a lesson learned that you just take with you & move onto the next. Keep the girl talk videos comin this is how we grow together ❤️
Omg hey chamar💕
A big factor that I learned from my ex was don't let that person define you're happiness. But rather learn to be happy and content with yourself first. Because if you're not okay and happy how can you bring that joy to someone else. I depended on him for A lot and when he broke up with me it really brought me down because I made that be my only sunshine of my life and when he left I thought well now I'm alone and thus is what causes my depression to happen. I'm doing better now you know focusing on me , working out and just being content with my life and really just understanding who I am. Because you should define yourself not no one else
Mayowa Fagbure You're welcome.
The last one is sooo true !!! Like you literally watch a guy give another girl the world they promised you , and its like because you invested so much into them , you deserve it but it never got to you. We naturally are nurturing and give so much just to watch it go to waste 🤦🏽♀️ it’s crazy that last one pretty much every girl can relate to
Yes👏🏾 Facts! Happened to me and I will never be so foolish again! Hurt too much to heal the pain he caused.
“if ur man isnt obsessed with u get a new one”
Connie 1365 Yes this is so true
Negative! Obsessed turns into domestic for me! 2 separate relationships
And if he is too obsessed get a restraining order and a gun
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My exs have taught me they only want you when they see you with someone else.
Yea don't fall in love with potential . Sigh dont we all do this 😑
Alexandria Manning yes so important! Nneoma on one of Cinyrella OG's videos said exactly the same thing
You better say that!!!! "I'm a catch!" I wanna hear more women talking like that and following up with their actions
OOMGGG ISI PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!! DO A VIDEO ON SIGNS TO LEAVE A DUDE 😭😭😭😭please it’s sooo needed for us now and days & especially us girls stuck in situationships
Kaitlyn Williams girl yesssss
My ex taught me that no matter how much you love somebody or how much time you invest in the relation if he is not ready for something serious you can’t force him! I learned it is also important to listen to your instinct and know when you have to let him go if he cheats on you! Don’t stay hoping to succeed in changing him! Never trust your boyfriend’s friends because they know everything that goes wrong behind your back! I learn i don’t need to report each of my problems to friends if i can’t take it anymore, i should just live if i don’t feel myself secure in the relationship! I learned i should never allow somebody to treat me as Trash and take my respect and silence for weakness! I learned to know what i wand and said to myself i deserve the best!
I'm just watching ur hair move lol😍😍
Lol♥️
Your hair got me hypnotized.
This is a great video to watch, especially as a teenager. I realized in previous relationships, I tend to depend on the other person to boost my confidence. It took being dragged for 8 months in a dying relationship for me to realize that. Since then, I started focusing on myself; hitting the gym and improving my mental health. It's important for young girls to know their worth, and that's a lesson a lot of us learn the hard way. I don't regret what I went through because it forced me to be love myself enough to want to change for the better
P.S. Thank you for being such an inspiration for us all♥️ You're a strong woman.
Ashalee Hinds this comment was so beautiful
Nakia Baker thanks hun!♥️
My ex taught me to never trust that girl “best friend” bs
Underjazzsskin Preach!
Yes!!
Sara Singh yes my ex didn’t want me to meet most of his female “best friends” so I knew something was strange about that
Sara Singh thank you and that was years ago.
Same dude saaaaammmeee
THAT FLIP IT THING OMFG I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN SO SO SO MANY TIMES
I AM SHOOK WOW I CANT BELIEVE ITS A THING
took the words right out of my mouth
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I'm ashamed to say that I went through all of this with a male friend of mine(minus the hair thing), but the fact is that I was in love with him. So I kept holding on in hopes for our future when our present was/is crappy.
That "one day" get women every time. So glad you are learning early in your life. As Women We should always listen and act on our feminine intuition. Proud of you!!!!
I learned that no matter you love a person and that person feels the same way, it can't overlook the fact that he's not ready for a relationship....Don't go into relationships to buffer your own insecurities because you end up hurting yourself and your significant other.
my ex taught me the difference between a relationship and "situationship". Even though I had spent 2 to 3 years with my ex. We never did anything that was worthy of my commitment yet I was so set that we were in a relationship. He dragged me along while having multiple girls and basically got his cake and ate it too for years !! Don't be wifey material to a single guy . In his mind he was single and had no plans of relationship any time soon. I learned to never commit to a single man !!
Thx for these vids, my exes always try to make me feel crazy . My exes made me feel mad insecure but watching this video reminded me that I am a catch also lol. It’s funny cause I didn’t want them at first they were begging for me but I figured what’s inside matters , but they screwed me over still . The6 didn’t even deserve me .
You always post videos exactly when needed. Ok so my ex and I broke up new years eve, while we were dating I asked him about a girl that I went to school with that I heard he had been talking to. When I asked him about it he told me that he wasn't talking to her. So now finding out that he actually was I'm looking back and realizing that he had been lying and manipulating me the whole relationship and I'm so upset because I really cared about him, and I gave the relationship my all
I hardly ever comment on people’s videos but I feel like I have to let you know how beautiful and intelligent you are. I loveee these girl talks because they always come right when I need them and make me remember who tf I am. Thank you!!!
My exes taught me to look for “MEN” not immature boys like them and that I deserve better , also taught me to love myself and become independent. Btw love you and your channel so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My ex told me my natural hair broke him out!! I felt this WHOLE video!! I learned all the same things..🙌🏽😩
Sarah Latham oh nooo 😢☹️
Tf
Boys! was the key word in this whole video. When you're in a relationship with a ''man'' it is a completely different relationship.
next girl talk topic: how to grow as a person for years (idk how to put it but i'm 15 rn and i don't want to have a boyfriend until i'm like a woman so i want to enjoy my time at it's fullest and appreciate myself. with school,taking care of myself, let go of people..etc idk a mini life guide i guess lmfao (ps i LOVED this video! a big thumbs up and clicked that notification bell!
When Isi said her exes taught her dudes can be hypocrites... daaawwwgggg I have never related sooooo much!!! My ex taught me the exact same thing!!!!
Mine too girl!
I can definitely relate to trusting your gut feelings and listening to friends more especially when in a relationship, because they might notice things that I am too blind to see because I love the person or think I do. Also, my last relationship taught me to never settle for less than I deserve and to notice the signs of an emotionally unstable and manipulative guy.
Hair is poppin
Thankssssss♥️
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t have to force conversation, if you can’t fully be yourself then leave...
aliyah drissi Omg girl yesss!
I absolutely love your girl talks and your honesty. I'd like to suggest a girl talk topic. How to let go of any resentment from exes, or anything along the lines of moving on from an ex tips. Love you!
I’m super late catching up to the video! But I can relate to just about every situation that you mentioned! I know I can with one of my past relationships... where the guy was like “oh I can get someone prettier than you or better than you” that used to tear my self esteem and confidence to shreds! But one day I finally woke up and was like I’m not putting up with a guy bashing me anymore!!!! If he’s gonna tear me down then he’s not riding with me!!!!!! Stay up ladies!! Never let a man talk down to you!!!
Just saw this video right when I broke up with my bf today. I learned that I need to worry about my own happiness. To stop worrying about what the other person is feeling. I've also learned to stop ignoring the signs of problems in the relationship
Isi ‘s hair💗😍
Thanks love♥️
Finally! someone who agrees with me. I always tell people the reason why you're acting differently towards me is that someone said something to you that made you switch up on me. Of course, they always deny it 🙄 but, I know 💯
Yes girl ! ...being equally yoked is so important 👏👏
I cannot wait to watch this tonight before I go to sleep!!💗 I’m going to like and comment now because I know it’s about to be awesome!!😘
Hope u love it!
Halfrican Beaute I know I will! You’re content is ALWAYS on point!!😩😍
Halfrican Beaute you're so on point. I can totally relate
I related so much to this video, you definitely hit home run on all the topics. Especially about potential not being enough for a relationship to work with your significant other. I felt like you were talking to me directly when you said "we grow boys up to be better men for another woman". I will definitely keep all of this in mind when my ex tries to reconnect, because I know my worth and I know what I deserve. I LOVE YOU ISI
My exe taught me to know my worth because dudes only do what you allow them to do and I allowed people,especially him, to break my spirit never again
GIRL!! I LOVE YOU - “MY EXES TAUGHT ME THAT IM A CATCH AND I KNOW IT” - SO SOUND ❤️ I LOVE IT
I will click on the ads , like your videos and more cause your channel deserve to stay up love beauty gang I never skip your girl talks .
Always a queen😍, this video was the best, I've learn so much from this thank you
So happy to hear!
girl I've learned everything you've mentioned and raising them for another female is very unfortunate when u think he's the one. One topic can be how to move forward after you've fallen in love with the wrong person...you loved him but not vice versa
You narrowed my relationships down to the Core...smh💙it's what women need to hear and face...THANK YOU...MUCH LOVE 😙
This is a video to show to our young girls before they make make the same mistakes we made! Everything you said is 100% true! And definitely make that video about signs or red flags because we don’t hear enough about it! Young girls take notes!!
i just got out of a relationship ( i’m okay lol ) i’m only 16 but this is so true i really needed this!!💜💜
I can relate 💯I learned a lot even tho I’m about to be a senior in high school in a couple of months... but right now I’m focusing on myself more and I know next time how to deal with situations like this. I use to act like a mom in the relationship, made sure my ex was on top with everything, supported him at every football game (I mean literally everything) , but at the end of the day I got done so wrong. Only because I have a soft heart and loving and caring too much about someone can really make you just stop worrying about your own self. I love you so much girl !!❤️❤️❤️ Thank You for this video
Girl!!! You👏🏾spoke👏🏾 the 👏🏾truth!!! Everything!!! I’m so glad to hear that we all are rowing in the same boat and are able to validate our experiences! Bawm video!!♠️ AND let’s talk about your hair sis😍!!! 🙌🏾
Lmao “ and it’s just so remarkable” sis I feel you!!!! I have no idea why boys feel like we should deal with or be okay with stuff they doing but if we did it it’s world war 3 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly!!!!!
Daaaaamn “we’re raising them to treat other women better” wooooww 😲
This video was so good and filled with great advise and you spoke nothing but FACTS girl!😂❤️
My ex taught me that time shouldn't be why you stay. This video hit. Because I wanted it to work because my mom kNew him and she died so I thought he was suppose to be the one. But it just didn't work at all. I'm glad you made this video!! Loved it.!!!!
I can relate to all. It's so good to a young woman who learn and gain confidence. There are women who don't and keep making the same mistakes. Keep posting videos like these it help.
It was nice meeting you on Saturday at Forever 21.
Girls need to stand up for there self (people in general) 😘✊🏾💍💪🏾💋#queens
Speaking straight facts.👏🏻👏🏻 u articulated the way I've felt in past relationship so beautifully. Sometimes I can't put those feelings it into words. Thank you so much for this girl talk. Keep doing ur thing❤ beaut gang taking over💪glttt
I swear all of the things you learnt from your exes are what i learnt from the only one ex i got..thank you for sharing it!!😊😊
Your hair is BEAUTIFUL ✨👑
You hit home with this! God bless you for this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was looking at your hair the whole time😍 I LOVE IT SO MUCH 😍
Perfect timing and great points!
I totally agree with following your gut. I learned that communication (listening coupled with conveying your thoughts and feelings), intellectual stimulation and the ability to have fun are keys to a good relationship.
That intellectual stimulation is my aphrodisiac front the start in a relationship because I'm intellectual and crave great conversation on any topic.
Could you do a girl topic about a relationship lasting throughout college?
Btw I absolutely love the way you and Josh are together. You guys really fit each other 😊❤️
Was conditioning my hair while watching this and finished right when you did lol, this video really helped I mos def had a Bob the builder situation going on at first I felt bad but watching this gives me closure thank you!!!
By the way I FREAKING love your hair. AS ALWAYS!! #keepslaying
I'm only 5 min into this video..and I must say you are on point .I'm 19 years old coming out of a 3 year relationship and it feels like this video was made for me lol
Everything was well said and SO TRUE! 👏🏾 Great video Isi
This whooooole video. Every. Single. Lesson. Was on POINT! Man, it actually makes me happy to hear you talk about it.
It's so cool how we all live similar lives and have no clue the other person exist. I went thru ALL of these, ofc in different ways, but the same baseline thing.
This just made me re-evaluate my whole relationship now
Yes girl!!! Sometimes you gotta go through these things for your own personal growth and self-love. Look at you now though!! We see your beaute!!!
#NotificationSquad Boss intro
Everything you talked about was the truth, especially the last thing about making boys into better men for someone else.. I literally just broke up with my ex and thats exactly what I talked to him about and he completely understood. We've been friends for a good while so our friendship didn't get too damaged and we're on good terms. Told him to invite to his wedding so I can see just how much he changed for the right girl cause boys will do everything in their power to keep someone they really want and that's the truth.
Great topic Isi!
I love Girl Talks! You’re like the older sis we all want!
Girl I can completely relate to what you are saying my first love cheated on me and then end up getting a girl pregnant and marrying her so I completely understand where you're coming from he did everything for her that he should have did with me but life goes on I'm doing a lot better now so I stay strong🔥💯💯💯💯
Girl! You are so smart! I admire your confidence,maturity,wisdom and boldness! Love your girl talk videos!! keep them coming!
Girl you got me so hyped up and heated with this video cz it's sooo relatable!
Thank you for this video because I seriously needed this !!
This is exactly what I needed to hear because I am going through a breakup right now. I have related so much to this video and I thank you for brining up those topics. I truly appreciate you and what you post.
Thank you so much for this video! You said everything I have been thinking. Also keep your standards, don't settle.
And this is why I’m single and I’m staying it because this generations proves to me over and over that people will dog you. Love yourself and god shall place someone in time
Oh my goodness 🙆🏾 I really appreciate this video and just the beautiful person you are!!! This video just put everything I've been experiencing into perspective 😢 Thank you so much. Much love all the way here in South Africa!!!! 😊
First ❤💋✨ u looking pretty as always sis😍
Awwhhh thnaks so much love!!
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WELCOME TO BEAUTEGANG BOO!!!
Again amo sayyyy ur so relatable😊❤
Thank uuuuu♥️
Sis, the hair and the signs 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This whole video is a WORD.
Thankyou so much for inspiring women to believe in what makes you happy !! You've inspired me to go natural , and you've inspired me to avoid bad situations :) .. I don't usually comment on videos, but I had to let you know your an inspiration ❤️😍❣️!
Can you do a video on how you know if you actually love someone, because alot of people I know are just in relationships for company and not actually for the feelings x
OOOOO HAIR!! 😍
Thankkksssss♥️♥️
Ah I love Chamar! Her video was amazing 😭
Panashe Gadaga thanks boo!
How dare you read off my life with such accuracy !!!!! 😭👏🏾🤦🏾 #BG4L #StraightCatchOutchea
Ii Related To All... I'm Only 17 But Just Came Out Of Ah 2year Relationship And This Video Have Shown Me Why Ii Shouldn't Go Back.. Thank You So Much
I really enjoy these talks, like the older sister I never had 😁. Watched the whole thing ✨✨✨
I love this set up!! Also love the set up when you’re in your room sitting in front of the full length mirror, gives it a laid back vibe lol Anyways back to the video
Loved this video, you keept it so 100. One thing my ex taught me is there is a HUGE difference between a man who ADORES you and a man who likes you/idea of you. I have no doubts that my boyfriend now loves me, he suffocates me with respect, admiration and support. He will give me the clothes off his back if I needed it not upset about it at all. A dude who just likes you/the idea will find going out of his way to make you happy sort of a burden. “ Damn it’s her bday I gotta spend some money on her “ that’s not the kind of energy I deserved lol
Thank you again for another great video. Love you.😘💖
I love your confidence, it makes me feel like I can be confident too❤️