WHY YOU SHOULD BE SELFISH | STOIC PHILOSOPHY

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @dominicleong4385
    @dominicleong4385 Місяць тому +37

    Thank you so much. My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.

    • @annddyyy-6920
      @annddyyy-6920 Місяць тому

      I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.

    • @leticiaenraz8514
      @leticiaenraz8514 Місяць тому

      I think she trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Germany and after her lectures from Ella I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good.

    • @ivarlast2966
      @ivarlast2966 Місяць тому

      I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.

    • @jasperflontes4289
      @jasperflontes4289 Місяць тому

      I just looked up her name online. she is licensed with credible certificates and has an amazing track record. Thank you for the message.

    • @fred5528
      @fred5528 Місяць тому

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  • @AncientWisdom79
    @AncientWisdom79 Місяць тому +4

    Great message! Prioritizing ourselves and setting boundaries is the key to a balanced, happier life.

  • @JusBeStoic
    @JusBeStoic Місяць тому +3

    “To care about people looking down on you because you don’t want to be looked down upon is a failure of reason.” - The Weekly Stoic

  • @StoicQuotes365
    @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому +1

    This video really flipped the script on how we view selfishness! It’s refreshing to see self-care framed as a necessary step toward personal growth. Who else feels like it’s time to start prioritizing yourself unapologetically?

  • @mrbile06
    @mrbile06 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you, your content is very helpful for the community. 🌟

    • @JamesTheStoic233
      @JamesTheStoic233  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you stay blessed 💯👌

    • @t_service_music
      @t_service_music Місяць тому +1

      @@JamesTheStoic233 Sir your channel is monetized or not please tell me

  • @Philosophyofage
    @Philosophyofage Місяць тому

    I liked the point you made at 12:33 the most. 🥰In the past, I gave everything to my children-food, clothes, even my savings. But when I was suddenly laid off and needed a small amount to get by and start a new business, my beloved son quickly turned his back on me and refused to help. While I was struggling, he still had the money to buy himself a new and expensive car. 😏I never wanted to depend on my children's money, and I always tried to make sure that wouldn't happen. I realize now that I need to take care of myself and have a savings cushion for my own future.😢😢😢

    • @AncientWisdom79
      @AncientWisdom79 Місяць тому

      It’s heartbreaking to hear that your son didn’t support you when you needed help, especially after all you’ve done for him. It’s a powerful reminder of the importance of self-care and securing our own future. Stay strong, and I hope your new journey brings you peace and success. ❤

  • @JayTheStoic
    @JayTheStoic Місяць тому +1

    "It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor." - Seneca

  • @StoicWisdom-3368
    @StoicWisdom-3368 Місяць тому +1

    Being selfish isn’t about neglecting others; it’s about making yourself a priority so you can show up as your best self. Protect your energy first, or you’ll burn out.

  • @NyemuochLeu
    @NyemuochLeu Місяць тому

    Thanks

  • @cathy7382
    @cathy7382 Місяць тому

    As a Christian we should not only be
    concerned about what interests us
    but think about others interests
    Jesus taught us to treat others as
    we want to be treated

  • @ShirleyMcalpine
    @ShirleyMcalpine Місяць тому

    You've done your job a good job and I most certainly have benefited😂

  • @ihsihs2294
    @ihsihs2294 Місяць тому

    Thank you it was need of the hour.

  • @TuanTran-hy5hk
    @TuanTran-hy5hk Місяць тому

    I love your video, thank you so much for that! 💪

  • @cliffsamson9213
    @cliffsamson9213 Місяць тому

    You may love and take care of others, but put yourself at the first place, otherwise you will be drained.You must set boundaries to protect your selve and gain respect.

  • @rebeccacruse9163
    @rebeccacruse9163 Місяць тому +4

    My boss said to me one day at work she's 64 I am soon to be 51 we work very closely together we work at a nursing home in the Activities department she's the director i am the aide along with one other lady!!! who is 49 We have to unload thing she buys at the store!! they are heavy and we both have bad backs. This older lady said "I am alot older then you 2 you should be helping me not just letting me do all the work!! You know when i was younger her guilt speech may have worked on me but i stood my ground and still didn't unload like she wanted me to. Funny this lady is never wrong and she tries to guilt you into apologizing to her funny how some people work isn't it?

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому

      This message hits hard! Prioritizing yourself isn’t about neglecting others-it’s about giving yourself the energy to truly show up for those who matter. Who’s ready to reclaim their time and stop feeling burnt out?

  • @ChristopherW-z4w
    @ChristopherW-z4w Місяць тому +1

    I'm not taking no More bs.

  • @saffanna725
    @saffanna725 Місяць тому +1

    I think this can work with my brother who has dementia. I am his only carer (his sister). But I need to protect myself. I'm helping him every day for the past three years to stay in his pwn home and I'm burning out. My other two brothers do nothing. I'm going to have to admit I'm not able to cope much more and he'll have to go into residential care.

    • @HermannTheGreat
      @HermannTheGreat 11 днів тому +1

      I hope things went well for you, take care of yourself and pray to the Lord for Wisdom and help. Your other 2 brothers should be involved also. God Bless

    • @saffanna725
      @saffanna725 11 днів тому

      @@HermannTheGreat Thank you.

  • @DvnFrnd4878
    @DvnFrnd4878 Місяць тому +3

    Love your content. 👍 Don't love the constant ad interruptions. 😑

    • @JamesTheStoic233
      @JamesTheStoic233  Місяць тому +2

      Happy you enjoyed the content , ❤️ I try to reduce the ads 👌🔥💯

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому +1

      Wow, being selfish is truly about setting boundaries and valuing your own time and energy. It made me rethink how often we sacrifice ourselves for others. Have you ever felt guilty for saying 'no,' but later realized it was the best choice?

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Місяць тому

    Since we no more together why he unstoppable not me .wake .

  • @KingStoic101
    @KingStoic101 Місяць тому +1

    Stoicism encourages us to prioritize our well-being and values, which can seem 'selfish' but ultimately leads to a more balanced and meaningful life. Self care is essential to being our best for other.

  • @all.about.narcissism
    @all.about.narcissism Місяць тому

    If you put yourself first every time how would you build a close relationship with God or your children? Sometimes it's wise to put others first and sometimes it is wise to put yourself first.

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Місяць тому

    Be a better and kind mam always the best in human.then when wrong sure need face also proper kind of humans
    Always only listen to normal and kind and proper me words can't listen to the one who keep talk rubbish correct or not
    I 8 yesrs plus keep doing my own things mu problems
    If he is still talking rubbish just don't care ..we only care what is the truiest and correct
    If a man don't know how to respect others means he don't know how to respect him so nothing concerning woman is all about his personality..I no man don't respect only him so he the worst so he sh go and face him why keep face me I don't understand why keep waste time on wrong things.i am using time doing right things but he is wasting time doing wrong all the times thus he waste life not me. I use my life do so much right and good things so he stop mouth not me

  • @HESHAM_M_MIX
    @HESHAM_M_MIX Місяць тому

    I sent you a message on your Gmail account and you did not reply. I told you that I look forward to future knowledge cooperation.

    • @HESHAM_M_MIX
      @HESHAM_M_MIX Місяць тому

      By the way, happy birthday to your channel.🎉