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  • @thestoicreminder
    @thestoicreminder  3 місяці тому +36

    *WHY DO YOU BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE WHEN YOU MOVE AWAY? DO THIS 9 THINGS | STOIC MINDSET*

    • @Stoiclessons.old191
      @Stoiclessons.old191 2 місяці тому +6

      The content is very good and meaningful!

    • @HeathyDiet254
      @HeathyDiet254 2 місяці тому +4

      😊😊😊😊

    • @livestoiclivedifferent
      @livestoiclivedifferent Місяць тому

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    • @LifeLessonStory99
      @LifeLessonStory99 Місяць тому +2

      This video really opened my eyes! The idea that distance can make someone more attractive is so true. The tips provided are practical and empowering. Thanks for sharing such valuable advice!" 💡✨

    • @JiovanniValadares
      @JiovanniValadares Місяць тому +2

      When you stop chasing, you naturally become more attractive. It’s the Stoic way-focus on yourself.

  • @Gemmarose9012
    @Gemmarose9012 Місяць тому +54

    Distance doesn’t create desire in my experienced but the good news is I no longer care about those I left behind. I’ve moved on.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому +6

      I totally get what you mean. Moving away isn't always about creating desire, but more about finding yourself and letting go of past attachments. This shift in mindset can definitely make you feel more confident and attractive. 😊

    • @victorystoic_channel
      @victorystoic_channel 29 днів тому +4

      I totally get that! Sometimes distance just brings clarity, and it’s empowering to realize that you've moved on and no longer carry the weight of those who didn’t appreciate you.

    • @Gemmarose9012
      @Gemmarose9012 29 днів тому +3

      @@victorystoic_channelIt’s every time. If they don’t value you, they won’t care that you’re gone. It’s nonsense to believe you’re going to send a message by disappearing. They don’t care.

    • @Gemmarose9012
      @Gemmarose9012 29 днів тому +1

      @@thestoicreminderIt shouldn’t ever be about creating desire in someone else.

    • @lovestoic101
      @lovestoic101 7 годин тому

      That's an incredibly empowering mindset! Sometimes, moving on is the best thing we can do for ourselves. It’s amazing how we grow stronger when we stop focusing on those who no longer serve our journey. Keep going, you're doing great!

  • @LyudmilaAgus
    @LyudmilaAgus Місяць тому +32

    This video is a great reminder that stepping back isn’t about manipulation-it’s about valuing yourself and your peace.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  28 днів тому +2

      So true! Valuing yourself and your peace sends a strong message to the world about how you deserve to be treated. Grateful this resonated with you!

    • @samiulrafsun9836
      @samiulrafsun9836 10 днів тому +1

      Felt that exactly seconds into the video. Great observation

  • @victorystoic_channel
    @victorystoic_channel 8 днів тому +7

    42:02 This is so true! Mental toughness and detachment take time and consistency, but the peace you gain is worth it. Progress, not perfection, makes all the difference.

  • @KimNgan-uz4si
    @KimNgan-uz4si Місяць тому +26

    This is pure gold! 💯 The best way to attract others is by prioritizing yourself. When you move away and focus on your journey, people start to notice your worth. It’s all about mastering your emotions and trusting your value. 🧘‍♂💫

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      Love this! When you take time to master your emotions and trust your own path, others will naturally be drawn to your energy. It’s amazing how powerful focusing on your own journey can be! 💪

    • @victorystoic_channel
      @victorystoic_channel 29 днів тому

      Absolutely! Prioritizing yourself is the key to attracting the right people. When you focus on your own growth and stay true to your journey, everything else falls into place.

  • @stoicharmonyus
    @stoicharmonyus Місяць тому +7

    It's empowering to know that working on ourselves and focusing on our own journey can increase our attractiveness. Confidence is truly magnetic!

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      You nailed it! Confidence isn’t just about appearance; it’s about how we carry ourselves and the way we approach life. Focusing on self-improvement makes us magnetic in the best way! 💡

  • @enlightenedrabbit-y3u
    @enlightenedrabbit-y3u 2 місяці тому +48

    I remember a time when I was struggling with a big decision about my career. I had two paths in front of me: stay in a comfortable job or take a leap of faith into starting my own business. After weeks of contemplation, I decided to follow my passion. The first few months were tough, filled with challenges and late nights. But slowly, I started seeing progress and found joy in what I was doing. It taught me that sometimes, taking risks can lead to the most rewarding experiences in life.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +5

      That's such an inspiring story! It really resonates with the concept of moving away from what's comfortable to grow and become stronger. Just like you, sometimes stepping out of our comfort zone opens doors to new possibilities. The challenges you faced must have shaped you into a more resilient person, and that’s exactly what this stoic mindset is all about, embracing the tough moments to become better. Thanks for sharing your journey!

    • @kristaencabo5895
      @kristaencabo5895 2 місяці тому

      8:14 kl. v. 😅i8:2688u😊i8😊😊ujj😢😮😮🎉 j😮

    • @victorystoic_channel
      @victorystoic_channel 29 днів тому

      That’s really inspiring! It takes so much courage to take that leap of faith, especially when the path isn’t clear. Your story is a great reminder that following our passions, even through the tough times, can lead to incredible growth and fulfillment.

    • @victorystoic_channel
      @victorystoic_channel 14 днів тому

      Your story is so inspiring! Taking that leap shows true courage, and it’s amazing to see it pay off.

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 8 днів тому

      The way this video ties ancient Stoic wisdom to modern relationships is brilliant. Detaching from external validation to master self-control is a lesson we all could benefit from. A powerful message - thank you for this!

  • @StoicRelationships-Official
    @StoicRelationships-Official 8 днів тому +3

    People value what is scarce’-this resonated deeply. Learning to balance presence and intentional space truly feels like a game-changer in relationships and self-mastery. Thank you for sharing these timeless insights through the lens of stoicism!

  • @lovestoic101
    @lovestoic101 Місяць тому +8

    This video is a game-changer! Moving away from unnecessary drama and focusing on our growth really does make us more magnetic. I can already see the positive impact of Stoic practices in my life. Thanks for the wisdom, Mike!

  • @Soundmorphin
    @Soundmorphin 20 днів тому +3

    Taking distance helps to enter a new level of communication: Through the spirit - Telepathically. And this also helps to not get attached or identified with the flesh (appearance)

  • @QuotesToday2025
    @QuotesToday2025 16 днів тому +8

    my comment will probably get lost but whoever reads this.. you got this! whatever you are going through will get better hang in there ❤

  • @stoiclove143
    @stoiclove143 Місяць тому +1

    I love how this emphasizes self-respect and emotional independence. It’s so empowering to see this mindset in action.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  28 днів тому

      I'm so happy you found this empowering! 🙌 Focusing on self-respect and independence helps us create the life we deserve while staying true to ourselves. Keep shining and owning your journey!

  • @StoicPerson0312
    @StoicPerson0312 Місяць тому +3

    In my experience, distance doesn’t necessarily create desire-it often reveals the truth of the connection. The good news is that I’ve let go of those I left behind, and now I’ve truly moved on. There’s freedom in release.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому +1

      You’re absolutely right-distance can be a truth-revealer, not just a desire-builder. Letting go and embracing that freedom is such a powerful step forward. Thanks for sharing your experience!

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 2 місяці тому +33

    Distance creates desire. It is my biggest life challenge
    I have to try, to grow

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +2

      Distance really does create desire, and it's such a powerful tool for growth. The fact that you're working through this challenge shows your determination to improve yourself. That makes you even more attractive. Keep going! 🔥

    • @StoicRelationships-Official
      @StoicRelationships-Official 8 днів тому

      This video beautifully highlights how cultivating independence and self-worth can transform not only how others perceive us but how we perceive ourselves. Distance isn’t about detachment-it’s about valuing your inner peace. Such a powerful reminder!

    • @lovestoic101
      @lovestoic101 7 годин тому

      It's great that you're acknowledging it as a challenge, and that means you're already on the path to growth! Embracing distance can be tough, but it can also bring clarity and strength. Keep pushing forward and trust that you're growing in ways you can't yet see. Stay strong!

  • @TheStoicGoddess-i3l
    @TheStoicGoddess-i3l 2 місяці тому +12

    Attraction often flourishes in absence; distance heightens desire and curiosity. To enhance this allure, focus on self-improvement, embrace independence, cultivate mystery, nurture passions, maintain boundaries, prioritize well-being, radiate confidence, engage in personal growth, and practice gratitude. These elements transform absence into an irresistible magnetism that draws others closer.

  • @Beela2020
    @Beela2020 2 місяці тому +17

    I give a lot i tried a lot he was only cold and nothing in return i said. I dont have no more any feelings towards him and left, I know he will not comeback but I am at peace ❤ and win myself 🎉 chose yourself

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +6

      Thank you for sharing your journey! It's amazing how choosing self-love and peace can transform your life. When you move away from what doesn't serve you, you open the door to attracting positivity! Stay strong and keep focusing on your growth!

  • @Stoiclessons.old191
    @Stoiclessons.old191 2 місяці тому +18

    I am a true advocate for Stoic philosophy! 🔥 Keep it up

  • @princedjaba4626
    @princedjaba4626 11 днів тому +2

    Thanks for this life saving video

  • @happyshabangu
    @happyshabangu 2 місяці тому +6

    Thank you so much for your intelligence principles, I grew up solitude but I was finding peace and happiness by being alone people taught I was mean and bored but Depp down inside I was very much at peace, until I thought Im crazy but since listening to stoicism I finally knew What's going on in my life and I embrace it .🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому

      That's amazing to hear! I'm so glad the Stoic principles are helping you find peace and clarity. Solitude can sometimes be misunderstood by others, but it's powerful when we use it for self-reflection and growth. Keep embracing your journey, you're not crazy at all. You're on a path to inner peace and self-mastery 🙏

  • @Choseforthepurpose
    @Choseforthepurpose 2 місяці тому +13

    I enjoy the lengthy videos it helps me get the words into my thick skull what a lot of us need lol

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +3

      Totally! Sometimes a longer video gives us the space to let the ideas really sink in. Keep up that focus, you're doing great! 👍

  • @ivonne22365
    @ivonne22365 2 місяці тому +11

    Silence is the best to do.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes! Silence can make you more attractive because it shows self-discipline and confidence. You’re not afraid to let the silence speak for itself. 🙌

    • @StoicMindStudio
      @StoicMindStudio Місяць тому

      Sometimes silence is not necessarily good.

  • @RoyCastuera
    @RoyCastuera 19 днів тому +1

    Hard earned topic, Very informative! Keep it Up!

  • @jacksavage279
    @jacksavage279 27 днів тому +3

    Thank you this channel has helped in transforming my life tremendously,

    • @StoicSpirit68
      @StoicSpirit68 26 днів тому +1

      That's truly inspiring to hear! 🙏✨ Growth begins with the willingness to learn and evolve-you're doing the work, and this is just the beginning. Keep striving for greatness, and thank you for being part of this journey! 🌟💪

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  21 день тому

      You are so welcome!

  • @Marcus_Aurelius_way
    @Marcus_Aurelius_way 21 день тому +2

    great stoicism😍

  • @Mrs.T-y3f
    @Mrs.T-y3f 2 місяці тому +1

    I really needed to hear this right now, although I already knew it all before learning about stoicism. It was just a beautifully said reminder I needed to hear. I've always said if you are struggling hard in life. The more you try, the worse it gets. It's the same as if you are stuck in quick standthe harder you struggle. The worse it gets. The same applies to when you are trying to find that perfect Relationship, Job, And much much more. I know it's worked for me every time when I had decided to let go and find the inner peace within myself and confidence.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      You’re absolutely right; sometimes life’s challenges are like quicksand, where struggling only pulls us down further. The power of letting go and finding inner peace isn’t just a stoic principle. it’s a practice that changes our lives in deep ways. So glad to hear this video helped reinforce what you already know!

    • @Mrs.T-y3f
      @Mrs.T-y3f 2 місяці тому +1

      @thestoicreminder ik you're a bot, but thank you

    • @lovestoic101
      @lovestoic101 7 годин тому

      I'm glad this message resonated with you! Sometimes, the most powerful insights come not from learning something new, but from hearing it again at the right time. Letting go and finding peace within yourself is such an empowering realization. Trust that by focusing on your own growth and confidence, everything else will align in time. Keep believing in yourself!

  • @vanquocbui-e2d
    @vanquocbui-e2d 3 місяці тому +9

    Fantastic video! Your creativity and effort really shine through.

  • @LeoStellium113
    @LeoStellium113 2 місяці тому +4

    This video is highly underrated

  • @onestoicus
    @onestoicus Місяць тому +1

    By embracing Stoic principles, you learn to detach from the outcome, which ironically makes you more desirable. You become the best version of yourself, and that naturally attracts others

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  28 днів тому +1

      Love this insight! The irony of detachment is that it makes you stand out even more. When you’re at peace with yourself, others can sense that calm energy and are drawn to it naturally.

  • @Stoic_Hearts
    @Stoic_Hearts Місяць тому

    Good lesson

  • @LifeLessonStory99
    @LifeLessonStory99 Місяць тому

    This video really opened my eyes! The idea that distance can make someone more attractive is so true. The tips provided are practical and empowering. Thanks for sharing such valuable advice!" 💡✨

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      I’m so glad this video resonated with you! Distance truly has a way of adding perspective and intrigue. Keep applying those tips and watch the positive changes unfold. Thanks for your kind words! 🙏

  • @shirleyaranas7483
    @shirleyaranas7483 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the ideas.I learned a lot.

  • @GeraldineJones-yg1sc
    @GeraldineJones-yg1sc 3 місяці тому +5

    Thanks for this video

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching and leaving such a positive comment! 🙌

  • @beverlygarcia6475
    @beverlygarcia6475 Місяць тому

    I enjoy listening to you, it has really helped me.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      I'm so glad to hear that my content has been helpful to you! 🙌 Keep applying these stoic principles, and you'll continue to see positive changes in your mindset and life. 💪

  • @Kingkong23-t1q
    @Kingkong23-t1q 22 дні тому

    Very true 🤙

  • @glowblossoms
    @glowblossoms 3 місяці тому +4

    Empowering, thank you 🎉❤

  • @joankogelschatz7110
    @joankogelschatz7110 2 місяці тому +1

    Great reality check.. thank you❤

  • @shilpichowdhury-x4h
    @shilpichowdhury-x4h 2 місяці тому +2

    Incredible ❤

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому

      Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!❤

  • @Victoria-cm2fm
    @Victoria-cm2fm 2 місяці тому +17

    Make shure you have you own life before you become someone elses wife

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely! Having your own life and building a solid foundation of self-worth is key before merging it with someone else’s. It’s all about becoming whole on your own so you can bring your best self into any relationship.

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you!!!

  • @annatorres2725
    @annatorres2725 2 місяці тому

    So good,❤Thank you!!

  • @onestoicusa
    @onestoicusa Місяць тому

    Living with a Stoic mindset allows you to detach from emotional turbulence and build a sense of inner strength. That quiet confidence is incredibly magnetic

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  28 днів тому

      Exactly! Building inner strength through Stoicism makes you stand out in such a natural way. It’s amazing how that calm, confident vibe can change how others perceive you.

  • @DisciplineUncovered
    @DisciplineUncovered Місяць тому

    thank you

  • @stoicismmotivation_official
    @stoicismmotivation_official Місяць тому

    Distance doesn’t mean disconnect. It’s about creating a space where both people can grow independently and come back stronger.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      Exactly! Distance can sometimes serve as a powerful reset, allowing people to focus on self-improvement. When you meet again, the connection feels even richer. 💡

  • @ayethatsj5329
    @ayethatsj5329 2 місяці тому +7

    Having these traits bothers weak minded people, with no peace.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely! When you embrace these traits and work on yourself, it can really unsettle people who lack inner peace. They’re often not ready to face their own insecurities. Keep growing and stay grounded!

  • @ultrastandphoenix1883
    @ultrastandphoenix1883 2 місяці тому +2

    All facts

  • @avidaensina28
    @avidaensina28 20 днів тому +2

    Muito🎉

  • @Panavision-i3p
    @Panavision-i3p 2 місяці тому +1

    super👍

  • @sylvian98765432100
    @sylvian98765432100 13 днів тому +2

    It's called mind games and manipulation if and only if you over do it . I can warn you it'll backfire.

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 2 місяці тому +2

    I want hear from SIGMEN how confident they show their actions & abilities know how to do but don’t confident to show , it’s show untrue full themself & known what types who they are , also should we work or do business with these types of leaders & those people . Because every day same listen Sigma too bored.

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for this thoughtful comment! We’re listening closely to feedback like yours and will keep working to keep things fresh and genuine. Thanks again! 💪

  • @ste982
    @ste982 2 місяці тому +5

    I really want to listen but video duration is so much ..that I giveup.
    If possible try to make shorter videos 10-15 min

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for the feedback! I'll work on condensing the content while still keeping the important points. I appreciate your patience, and I'll strive to balance between detail and length in future videos.

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m not move to any where until they pay their debt

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      Totally get that! 🤔 Sometimes moving away isn't always the solution if there are unresolved issues like debts. Focus on what gives you peace and control in your current situation. Stay strong! 🙌

  • @Reinhartdownfile01
    @Reinhartdownfile01 3 місяці тому +2

    💙

  • @donnapaden
    @donnapaden Місяць тому

    If I move away,it means stay away. I left for a reason too get away from U 😊

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      It's true that sometimes distance helps us gain perspective and grow. It can be a form of self-care, allowing us to focus on our own needs. Stay strong and keep moving forward! 💪

  • @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he
    @7spiritprayerwarrior-sf9he 2 місяці тому +3

    I won't be listening. The other videos don't have commercials, to interrupt listening and learning. Bye bye

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      I understand, ads can definitely take away from the learning experience. I’ll keep this feedback in mind as I work on improving future videos. Thanks for checking out the channel, and all the best! 👍

  • @TheJsjr
    @TheJsjr 27 днів тому +4

    Must depend on the woman because this shit got me blocked

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  21 день тому

      I hear you! Sometimes people react differently to distance. It’s not always about you, it could be about their own insecurities or boundaries. Stay focused on self-improvement and let things unfold naturally. 💪

  • @VenerSupan
    @VenerSupan Місяць тому

    👍😍❤️❤️❤️💯

  • @Itsbetssssyyyy
    @Itsbetssssyyyy 2 місяці тому +3

    I like your vids but they’re so long. Even though informative, it’s hard to watch for almost one hr

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts! I hear you. I’ll work on making some more concise versions or summaries for people who prefer shorter content ⏳ Stay tuned!

  • @StoicDiary_Official
    @StoicDiary_Official Місяць тому +2

    ✨This video immerses us in the world of Stoic philosophy, helping us understand how resilience, rational thinking, and acceptance of inevitable circumstances can improve our lives.❤️🫂

    • @thestoicreminder
      @thestoicreminder  Місяць тому

      Couldn’t agree more! Stoicism really gives us tools to approach life with a calm, clear mind, and embracing what we can’t control is so freeing. Thank you for being a part of this journey toward self-mastery and resilience. 💪