To the amazing person reading this, don’t let your struggles define you. Your dream is still alive, and you have everything within you to rise above the pain. Keep going, your future is waiting for you! Wishing you strength and success always!
•Toxic people thrive on tension. Stop playing their game. Just refuse to engage. •Refuse to give them what they crave ..... Drama! Their nonsense is endless; so defending yourself foil their toxicity •Know when silence is necessary •Their opinion doesn't define you •Stay focused on your purpose so you don't have the time for their nonsense. •Treat toxic people like background noise Do not gossip about toxic people
Your peace was always in your hands.’ That line hit hard. Learning to limit access and refusing to engage in drama is such an empowering shift in mindset. Thanks for the eye-opener!
The part about forgiveness being a gift you give yourself, not the person who hurt you, really hit home for me. Letting go of resentment isn’t about letting them off the hook-it’s about freeing yourself to move forward. The analogy of a scar as a lesson rather than a burden is so powerful. Thank you for this empowering reminder!
This video is such a powerful reminder that protecting your peace isn’t selfish-it’s survival. Forgiving without forgetting and setting firm boundaries are lessons we all need to master. Truly inspiring!
Forgiving someone does not mean forgetting the pain they caused or welcoming them back into your life. True forgiveness is about liberating yourself from the chains of resentment and moving forward without bitterness. Thanks!
Narcissist and toxic people who belittle you and dragged you down in powering you of all your agony, pains, struggle, disrespect you! I feel undervalued, unworthy and a failure. My daughter is doing the manipulation despite the facts about me being disabled, suffering from massive depressive disorder, Chronic anxiety disorder, chronic massive vertigo and chronic dislocated discs degenerative. IT REALLY HURTS MY EMOTIONS AND TORTURING ME MENTALLY DRAINED, UNLOVED. Some people who are faking being with me are doing the same thing belittling and dragged me down.. thank you so much for making me RISE ABOVE!!❤
Probably the best advice under difficult circumstances dealing with difficult people. There isn’t much you can do beyond the advice here. Best to limit contact if you can.
This video is really helpful in understanding how to deal with negative people in life. Forgiving, setting boundaries, and knowing when to walk away are great ways to protect yourself
I’ve had to do this with my family. My sister and brother are mentally ill I think they got this from both parents. It has been hard on me but you must protect yourself!
The analogy of life being a VIP club where you decide the guest list? Absolute gold! Such a clever and practical way to reframe how we manage toxic relationships.
This video is a lifesaver! Stoic philosophy offers such a wise and calm approach to handling toxic people without losing your own peace. 🧠✨ Thanks for these 8 clever tips-truly empowering! 💪👏
This video reminded me of a time when I had to set boundaries with a toxic coworker. Applying patience and focusing on what I could control made all the difference. Great advice here-thank you!
Forgiveness liberates you from resentment but doesn’t mean excusing behavior or allowing further harm. Instead, it’s about learning from past betrayals and protecting your peace while not forgetting the lessons that keep you safe.
Forgiveness liberates you said; so why are my narcs winning …? To me forgiveness doubles the burden of the victim, whilst the narc walks away to start all over again…Forgiveness empowers narcs, and robs victims of everything …That’s because narcs thrive on forgiveness and accelerate the narcissism… I’m human not a deity… Let God forgive them… I can’t do that… I just shut down and re-strategize … Forgiveness does not work with every narc… Narcissists colonized Africa and South Africa lost their land because Mandela forgave the narcs and chose reconciliation …That’s why Black South Africans suffer to this day…
Thanks for these videos. Sometimes social awkwardness exacerbated can make a person blab too much, have no boundaries which results in low esteem. To have these videos full of wisdom and practical explanations are like a road map. When you hear what you go through is the same as others, u take it less personally and then you can study what to do, how to handle yourself, and exact answers. There really are a few answers that will get you out of any awkward situation. Not over apologising is very important.. Shyness can cause a lot of problems, but having a step by step path to follow, and red flags/scenarios spelled out is giving me bulletproof confidence. I used to sit at the office lunch table swinging between longing to be as vivacious & witty as one colleague, and resentful she'd talk over me. Then I'd try tell a story and my awkwardness would mean it fell flat, or I'd overshare- not good. Now I am cool as a cucumber, sometimes say nothing, except to inquire how a quiet colleague is. I notice if I tell one tiny story now, with a slight humour, it is much better received. I think social graces can be learned, and may need to be relearned returning to the office after a career break.
Sometimes it’s amazing how things happen in life could bring true color of other people My beautiful intelligent dog just walked to heaven 2 days ago , I didn’t even want to tell anyone but when I did , their words / reactions just showed how some are careless without mindfulness .. made even sadder His love is always with me reminding me that true LOVE ❤ still exists
Stay calm, set firm boundaries, and don't let toxic people destroy your peace. Is choosing to focus on your own growth while staying away from their negativity the best strategy?
I learnt alot let's hope I can apply it to my life so I can move forward. I've been trapped in allowing myself to fall prey to please others and thereby forgoing my own goals.
This! It actually helps to talk about it with someone that is going through the same, so as to let it out (not bottle it up) and develop strategies on how to deal with said toxic person, specially if it’s at work, and specially if the toxic individual is in management and can seriously undermine you. To be able to sit with another co-worker that is also a target if their toxicity, first to voice it out and confirm it (so there is no gaslighting by the toxic element) and then to develop strategies and exchange ideas on how to handle the person can make all the difference, both to one’s mental health and overall survival in the work place. So, as you said, discussing it with someone else that is also having to suffer the same toxic individual, is not gossiping, it’s actually paramount to survival at times.
Great video. Rich toxic family. Manipulative all for the evil of money. I no longer feel guilt. I walked away. I am so happy and at peace. I do pray for them everyday. It helps my heart and the guilt of walking away from them. Great video!
I had a narcissistic mother that passed away 2 years ago. 30 years ago after finishing tertiary education, I moved away from the town and province I grew up in to put some distance between us. She kept phoning me unannounced all hours of the day and night, and if I didn’t answer she would give a passive aggressive tone when we spoke again. It drove me insane. Then 10 years ago, I stopped all visits, and put her on terms. She could phone me once a month on the AST Sunday of every month, and I promised to answer. any other time I could not promise that I would answer. She tried a few times and then stopped as she realized I had set boundaries. After that, I found total peace and could get on with my life.
@ yes well, I don't think that was the case but we all have to take responsibility for ourselves, and can't make our children responsibility for our life choices!
How did you class your mother as narcissistic?who else would call you all hours day & night checking to see how you are doing other than your own mother? You will only realize her value once she is no more ! When you have no one calling ti check in your with true care.keep living your selfish life lol 😂classing poor mother as narcissistic as soon as you find a video What a foolish b you are😂😂
Funny thing is toxic significant other of 21 years just came in and lay down at the bottom of our bed and started paying attention to this video. It was perfect timing. Lol He got disgusted lol and left the room.
This was so very helpful, I listened twice then sent to my son so we can deal with/ his dad, my ex, so very useful & practical, these narcs are demonic, thank you for helping us caring people recover from their abuse, you are angels. ❤
Thank you for the eye opener. Currently dealing with a toxic mother-daughter situation. Thank you for the latter part of the video. I was ready to post on toxic people on my whatapp as a way to fight back, knowing she would read the post. But I chose to rise above her tactics. Instead I will apply the wisdom you have shared with the world. There are many people dealing with toxicity within families. Better to lose a blood relationship than to lose your peace, your mind, your power and yourself. Always knew toxic people act out of their pain. What boggled my mind is why they make you the source of all their struggles and failures.
8 Ways to Protect Yourself from Manipulative People: 1.Recognize Their Tactics: They may use guilt, gaslighting, or flattery to manipulate you. 2. Trust Your Instincts: Your feelings are valid; take your doubts seriously. 3. Set Clear Boundaries: Say, "I don't want to discuss this," and keep your distance. 4. Avoid Over-Explaining: Respond with short, clear answers without justifying yourself. 5. Keep Emotional Distance: Stay calm and neutral, and don’t seek their approval. 6. Empower Yourself: Surround yourself with positive people and trust your values. 7. Keep Conversations Focused: Don’t let them divert the topic; end the conversation if needed. 8. Walk Away if Necessary: Protect your mental health by cutting ties if required.
I really needed this ! I just wish i could of listened to it awhile back but tonight was probably the best time. .. these past few years has tought me more than anything, i use to be so tempered, & judgemental ! Everyone has feelings & everyone goes through theyre own problems with life . Ive learned that everyone handles things differently, i can be a whinney ass , being hurt is the WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD & I DO PRAY I NEVER FEEL THAT AGAIN.. . I THOUGHT IT WAS NEVER GOING TO GET EASIER , AFTER I LISTENED & TOOK THE ADVISE FROM THIS MESSAGE IT NOT ONLY MADE ME FEEL BETTER IT ALSO SHOWED ME THAT MY FUTURE IS GOING TO BE EASIER FROM HERE ON OUT BC FORGIVG helped the healing & my heart started actually getting healthier stronger & wiser . ❤❤❤❤
Thank you. This video was very constructive. I suggest always keeping your door locked. Especially at Christmas or other events. Some ignorant neighbour may try to enter your home carrying food as a gift. Weird things happen, and sometimes cultures have different expectations.
The most useful chapter !!! Let us learn how to deal with these kind of toxic people and primary schools should offer this chapter as well. For those are very easy to be hurt.
OMG , you have touched every single thing, of the toxic person that was in my life, and I did just that, I simply walked away, and of course my life has been so much better, ❤❤❤
I have a toxic boss. In this day and age, I must stick around so that I can eat and stay dry. Instead of letting this fellow live rent free in my head, I try to use him as a tool to learn from. I give him the benefit of the doubt in him not knowing that he is devoid of self-awareness. So I cut him slack. I keep my mouth shut and persevere. I am still learning how to deal, but I am making progress
I love the series of Stoic wisdom. I only wish each recording were about 15 minutes.. As a working woman, single parent, aftervcommute from work and house work and chores, 30 min for video is luxury. But these videos are too good to pass.
Thank you for this beautiful reminder! 💖 To anyone reading, remember: every step you take, no matter how small, brings you closer to the life you deserve. What’s one dream you’re working on right now? Let’s inspire each other! 🌟✨
This is helpful when you have some control over the situation. I have toxic neighbours. The police cannot do anything because they have not stepped onto my property. I cannot move away, I cannot afford to otherwise I would. It's impossible to forgive or forget when the menace is there every day.
I have been dealing with a to xic family members. I cut off communication and never responded to their disrespect and insults. They stopped harassing me and set an off limit boundary to me as well. 😅
I really appreciate your sharing your personal experiences and how you handled them. An inspiration to me!! Thank you for sharing your lifes experiences!! Many of them I can relate to.
I had a narcissistic mother. I couldn't get rid of her while living under her roof . She passed in 2016. My sisters still believe everything she said. My family is all about drama.
This message of forgiveness is EXACTLY what we all need to do. Realize too that we are one, we are all one. Avoiding people is not the answer because you are expressing resentment. Forgive. Jesus said, pray for your enemies and bless those who persecute you, bless them. I made a list in my daily journal, I wrote, Father I love ____, I forgive him/her, please bless him/her. Now did I mean it that first day, no but I wanted it because I understood Jesus message and believed him. In time, I saw a miracle, each person I had been praying for completely changed. In time I realized their treatment of me was a gift to me because I learned the importance of forgiveness and following Jesus word, and I realized, they took on the role of my adversary in order to teach me to forgive, to have unconditional love and true joy. I have read the Bible straight through 5 times and partly hundreds. And have read ACIM 3 times and worked through the lessons once. ACIM is on audio on UA-cam . It is hard to understand but truth rings through. After doing the lessons, it is clear.
Christianity is a falsehood, but Scripture across all cultures is truth. Your intuition is guiding you well. Love is the way to perfection. That's Jesus' own words.
Hi Thank you for this vlog. So well explained 🙏 I had been in toxic people all my life family & then in laws manipulatiors. Until I found a mentor , meditator i awakened from my sleep but the moment these ppl got to know as I had been a dependent female was brought up like that. They started dragging me down like crabs but not from the front Very passively and bcoz I was not mature & a people pleaser I always gave up my priorities for them To the extent I never had a priority but just them A day came when I started having outbursts and they started calling me toxic and yes it did seemed so but I know what’s the truth I didn’t know how to create a boundary and when they lived toxicity as passive & as a norm when my soil was fertile o took it unconsciously as I thought they were my tribe. Today I suffer from triggers & anger and they sit giving me a certificate I was toxic from day one My outbursts are that everything creative I took on instrument learning, dance, gardening they quietly adapted that but made sure I suffer in it. Very subtle ways the only mistake was I didn’t know how to set boundaries bcoz when I bolded said No I was judged Badly. They cornered me & i was isolated. I hv been crippled emotionally & also as to operate in the world as I could do anything consistently due to first being suppressed and serving others through manipulation & now through outbursts Mediation & therapy has helped I will survive.
To the amazing person reading this, don’t let your struggles define you. Your dream is still alive, and you have everything within you to rise above the pain. Keep going, your future is waiting for you! Wishing you strength and success always!
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•Toxic people thrive on tension. Stop playing their game. Just refuse to engage.
•Refuse to give them what they crave ..... Drama!
Their nonsense is endless; so defending yourself foil their toxicity
•Know when silence is necessary
•Their opinion doesn't define you
•Stay focused on your purpose so you don't have the time for their nonsense.
•Treat toxic people like background noise
Do not gossip about toxic people
Well said.
Yes! I’m learning this too. Trick is not engage . This not as easy in work situation but easy with friends
Thank you 💙
@@nirui467Ah and this is my point exactly: how do you totally avoid them when they are at work? You don’t, you can’t!
Choose peace over chaos, clarity over confusion and power over manipulation - love it 🥰
Wonderful
To God be the glory! 🙏🏽😇
At 72...what I realized is...I have me myself and I...having the time of my life❤
Your peace was always in your hands.’ That line hit hard. Learning to limit access and refusing to engage in drama is such an empowering shift in mindset. Thanks for the eye-opener!
I’m 74 and working to get where you are!
Amen to that 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤proud of you and unfortunately this life is proof we only have me myself and I
Wow 72
The part about forgiveness being a gift you give yourself, not the person who hurt you, really hit home for me. Letting go of resentment isn’t about letting them off the hook-it’s about freeing yourself to move forward. The analogy of a scar as a lesson rather than a burden is so powerful. Thank you for this empowering reminder!
Cutting communication ,knowing when to walk away, and putting your point without creating unnecessary conflict
I cut communication but was rewarded with smear campaign and majority of my department believed her. I am basically isolated😢she needed a position
This video is such a powerful reminder that protecting your peace isn’t selfish-it’s survival. Forgiving without forgetting and setting firm boundaries are lessons we all need to master. Truly inspiring!
Protecting peace is thriving
Forgiving someone does not mean forgetting the pain they caused or welcoming them back into your life. True forgiveness is about liberating yourself from the chains of resentment and moving forward without bitterness. Thanks!
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Spot on 🎉🎉🎉
Moving forward without bitterness.
I’m working on the guilt but still moving forward.
I don’t feel bitter
I find it helpful to have pets as they are as innocent as young children and keep my heart from getting dragged away from its center.
Narcissist and toxic people who belittle you and dragged you down in powering you of all your agony, pains, struggle, disrespect you! I feel undervalued, unworthy and a failure. My daughter is doing the manipulation despite the facts about me being disabled, suffering from massive depressive disorder, Chronic anxiety disorder, chronic massive vertigo and chronic dislocated discs degenerative. IT REALLY HURTS MY EMOTIONS AND TORTURING ME MENTALLY DRAINED, UNLOVED. Some people who are faking being with me are doing the same thing belittling and dragged me down.. thank you so much for making me RISE ABOVE!!❤
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Heal urself would be winning. Yahki awakening does natural herbs. Pity is the worse when dealing with narcs
Not engaging isn’t being nice it’s being strategic and prioritizing principles that empower a whole life
Probably the best advice under difficult circumstances dealing with difficult people. There isn’t much you can do beyond the advice here. Best to limit contact if you can.
This video is really helpful in understanding how to deal with negative people in life. Forgiving, setting boundaries, and knowing when to walk away are great ways to protect yourself
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My late dad used to say, never blame outside of yourself. This is tough advice but really the best advice. Responsibility begins with oneself.
Toxic (aka narcissistic) people… thrive off of the cracks in your boundaries feeding off of your reactions (emotions)!… very profound!
I’ve had to do this with my family. My sister and brother are mentally ill I think they got this from both parents. It has been hard on me but you must protect yourself!
The analogy of life being a VIP club where you decide the guest list? Absolute gold! Such a clever and practical way to reframe how we manage toxic relationships.
They thrive in the cracks in your boundaries, like bacteria feeding in food left out of the fridge.
This video is a lifesaver! Stoic philosophy offers such a wise and calm approach to handling toxic people without losing your own peace. 🧠✨ Thanks for these 8 clever tips-truly empowering! 💪👏
You welcome ❤️💪🔥
This video reminded me of a time when I had to set boundaries with a toxic coworker. Applying patience and focusing on what I could control made all the difference. Great advice here-thank you!
Thanks for sharing!!
Forgive but don't forget (liberate yourself from the chains of resentment) Love that.
Creative chaos’-I’m stealing that for my messy desk comeback. Who else thinks humor is the ultimate toxic person kryptonite?
Forgiveness liberates you from resentment but doesn’t mean excusing behavior or allowing further harm. Instead, it’s about learning from past betrayals and protecting your peace while not forgetting the lessons that keep you safe.
Exactly 👌
Forgiveness liberates you said; so why are my narcs winning …? To me forgiveness doubles the burden of the victim, whilst the narc walks away to start all over again…Forgiveness empowers narcs, and robs victims of everything …That’s because narcs thrive on forgiveness and accelerate the narcissism…
I’m human not a deity… Let God forgive them… I can’t do that…
I just shut down and re-strategize …
Forgiveness does not work with every narc…
Narcissists colonized Africa and South Africa lost their land because Mandela forgave the narcs and chose reconciliation …That’s why Black South Africans suffer to this day…
Thanks for these videos. Sometimes social awkwardness exacerbated can make a person blab too much, have no boundaries which results in low esteem.
To have these videos full of wisdom and practical explanations are like a road map.
When you hear what you go through is the same as others, u take it less personally and then you can study what to do, how to handle yourself, and exact answers. There really are a few answers that will get you out of any awkward situation. Not over apologising is very important..
Shyness can cause a lot of problems, but having a step by step path to follow, and red flags/scenarios spelled out is giving me bulletproof confidence.
I used to sit at the office lunch table swinging between longing to be as vivacious & witty as one colleague, and resentful she'd talk over me. Then I'd try tell a story and my awkwardness would mean it fell flat, or I'd overshare- not good.
Now I am cool as a cucumber, sometimes say nothing, except to inquire how a quiet colleague is. I notice if I tell one tiny story now, with a slight humour, it is much better received.
I think social graces can be learned, and may need to be relearned returning to the office after a career break.
Good Luck on your journey. 😊🙋
Very educational for my life. Because I am from a polygamy home were they all toxic half brothers and sisters. Thanks to this inspiring words.
Sometimes it’s amazing how things happen in life could bring true color of other people
My beautiful intelligent dog just walked to heaven 2 days ago , I didn’t even want to tell anyone but when I did , their words / reactions just showed how some are careless without mindfulness .. made even sadder
His love is always with me reminding me that true LOVE ❤ still exists
Good Job Sir Thank you for sharing knowledge application of Stoicism Philosophy its Crucial nowadays,knowledge is Power! 💪😊
This is an eye opener and that provides how i can take small but sure steps to address toxic people and situations. Thank you.
Stay calm, set firm boundaries, and don't let toxic people destroy your peace. Is choosing to focus on your own growth while staying away from their negativity the best strategy?
Thanx.very efucative and inspiring video,,.keep on giving more of this
Telling the truth about someone it's not gossip it's just the truth❤
Truth can be gossip. Gossip has a self-serving attitude.
Truth aims to inform educate, gossip seeks to entertain or harm.
I learnt alot let's hope I can apply it to my life so I can move forward. I've been trapped in allowing myself to fall prey to please others and thereby forgoing my own goals.
@subeidaomar1413
It's great that you recognize that, that you're aware of it, now you can take steps to change that reality.
This! It actually helps to talk about it with someone that is going through the same, so as to let it out (not bottle it up) and develop strategies on how to deal with said toxic person, specially if it’s at work, and specially if the toxic individual is in management and can seriously undermine you. To be able to sit with another co-worker that is also a target if their toxicity, first to voice it out and confirm it (so there is no gaslighting by the toxic element) and then to develop strategies and exchange ideas on how to handle the person can make all the difference, both to one’s mental health and overall survival in the work place. So, as you said, discussing it with someone else that is also having to suffer the same toxic individual, is not gossiping, it’s actually paramount to survival at times.
Great video. Rich toxic family. Manipulative all for the evil of money. I no longer feel guilt. I walked away. I am so happy and at peace. I do pray for them everyday. It helps my heart and the guilt of walking away from them. Great video!
How did you walk away don't you feel broke cauze you left the money😢
I had a narcissistic mother that passed away 2 years ago. 30 years ago after finishing tertiary education, I moved away from the town and province I grew up in to put some distance between us. She kept phoning me unannounced all hours of the day and night, and if I didn’t answer she would give a passive aggressive tone when we spoke again. It drove me insane. Then 10 years ago, I stopped all visits, and put her on terms. She could phone me once a month on the
AST Sunday of every month, and I promised to answer. any other time I could not promise that I would answer. She tried a few times and then stopped as she realized I had set boundaries. After that, I found total peace and could get on with my life.
Maybe she just loved you?
Maybe she was lonely
@ yes well, I don't think that was the case but we all have to take responsibility for ourselves, and can't make our children responsibility for our life choices!
I’m setting twice a month conversation rn her toxicity blaming and gaslighting me is hurting my life tremendously I’m over iy
How did you class your mother as narcissistic?who else would call you all hours day & night checking to see how you are doing other than your own mother? You will only realize her value once she is no more ! When you have no one calling ti check in your with true care.keep living your selfish life
lol 😂classing poor mother as narcissistic as soon as you find a video
What a foolish b you are😂😂
Forgiving is the best thank you sir
I allowed toxic family members in my inner cycle. Learning to outsmart them
Always learn 👌
Funny thing is toxic significant other of 21 years just came in and lay down at the bottom of our bed and started paying attention to this video. It was perfect timing. Lol He got disgusted lol and left the room.
Thank you for giving me some ideas for dealing with toxic individuals.
This was so very helpful, I listened twice then sent to my son so we can deal with/ his dad, my ex, so very useful & practical, these narcs are demonic, thank you for helping us caring people recover from their abuse, you are angels. ❤
Thank you for the eye opener. Currently dealing with a toxic mother-daughter
situation. Thank you for the latter part of the video. I was ready to post on toxic people on my whatapp as a way to fight back, knowing she would read the post. But I chose to rise above her tactics. Instead I will apply the wisdom you have shared with the world. There are many people dealing with toxicity within families. Better to lose a blood relationship than to lose your peace, your mind, your power and yourself. Always knew toxic people act out of their pain. What boggled my mind is why they make you the source of all their struggles and failures.
Lovely thank you sir for your inspiring thoughts God bless you 👋🥰🙏
8 Ways to Protect Yourself from Manipulative People:
1.Recognize Their Tactics: They may use guilt, gaslighting, or flattery to manipulate you.
2. Trust Your Instincts: Your feelings are valid; take your doubts seriously.
3. Set Clear Boundaries: Say, "I don't want to discuss this," and keep your distance.
4. Avoid Over-Explaining: Respond with short, clear answers without justifying yourself.
5. Keep Emotional Distance: Stay calm and neutral, and don’t seek their approval.
6. Empower Yourself: Surround yourself with positive people and trust your values.
7. Keep Conversations Focused: Don’t let them divert the topic; end the conversation if needed.
8. Walk Away if Necessary: Protect your mental health by cutting ties if required.
I really needed this ! I just wish i could of listened to it awhile back but tonight was probably the best time. .. these past few years has tought me more than anything, i use to be so tempered, & judgemental ! Everyone has feelings & everyone goes through theyre own problems with life . Ive learned that everyone handles things differently, i can be a whinney ass , being hurt is the WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD & I DO PRAY I NEVER FEEL THAT AGAIN.. . I THOUGHT IT WAS NEVER GOING TO GET EASIER , AFTER I LISTENED & TOOK THE ADVISE FROM THIS MESSAGE IT NOT ONLY MADE ME FEEL BETTER IT ALSO SHOWED ME THAT MY FUTURE IS GOING TO BE EASIER FROM HERE ON OUT BC FORGIVG helped the healing & my heart started actually getting healthier stronger & wiser . ❤❤❤❤
Very good video,thank you. Sending love and blessings for all the beautiful souls 🙏🏽✨💫
you welcome
Thank you for this great advice I will emplement this into my life ❤
This video has helped me alot
Thank you. This video was very constructive.
I suggest always keeping your door locked. Especially at Christmas or other events. Some ignorant neighbour may try to enter your home carrying food as a gift. Weird things happen, and sometimes cultures have different expectations.
Ignore people you don't want to interact with. It takes two to tango!
This is so helpful.thank you for uploading.😢
Now, that was awesome! Thank you!! 💝🙏🏻
Wow wow it's all good learning the good things from the bad it's all true I need more and you are true montivater thanks for the good advice
The most useful chapter !!!
Let us learn how to deal with these kind of toxic people and primary schools should offer this chapter as well. For those are very easy to be hurt.
OMG , you have touched every single thing, of the toxic person that was in my life, and I did just that, I simply walked away, and of course my life has been so much better, ❤❤❤
I have a toxic boss. In this day and age, I must stick around so that I can eat and stay dry.
Instead of letting this fellow live rent free in my head, I try to use him as a tool to learn from.
I give him the benefit of the doubt in him not knowing that he is devoid of self-awareness. So I cut him slack. I keep my mouth shut and persevere. I am still learning how to deal, but I am making progress
Thank you, very much very informative!
I love the series of Stoic wisdom. I only wish each recording were about 15 minutes.. As a working woman, single parent, aftervcommute from work and house work and chores, 30 min for video is luxury. But these videos are too good to pass.
Thank you for this wisdom
Thank you for posting,so helpful! 👌🫶
This is absolutely spot on!
Thank you 🙏👌
This was actually really helpful
You’ve nailed the art of storytelling and philosophy. This video is a gem in the world of content! 💎💭
Thank you for this beautiful reminder! 💖 To anyone reading, remember: every step you take, no matter how small, brings you closer to the life you deserve. What’s one dream you’re working on right now? Let’s inspire each other! 🌟✨
Lovely video and I needed that for my situation! Thanks a lot for the ways to handle it! ❤
Amazing! The story you shared at [8:30] is not only engaging but also helped me understand the value of Stoicism better
This is helpful when you have some control over the situation. I have toxic neighbours. The police cannot do anything because they have not stepped onto my property.
I cannot move away, I cannot afford to otherwise I would.
It's impossible to forgive or forget when the menace is there every day.
I am claiming my life back thank you for your support
Absolutely right thank's for sharing
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You are the best, God bless your video,
True,amen
It is helpful and inspiring.
Very good advice. Love the Stoics!! Great!😊😊
I have been dealing with a to xic family members. I cut off communication and never responded to their disrespect and insults. They stopped harassing me and set an off limit boundary to me as well. 😅
Wonderful. Thank You
Amazing video. Incredible.
Forgiveness is selfdefence.
I really appreciate your sharing your personal experiences and how you handled them. An inspiration to me!! Thank you for sharing your lifes experiences!! Many of them I can relate to.
You are me. My gosh, thank you. You are so much just like me. I am grateful.
I love myself more than anyone, this is I think the best thing to feel ❤
Been needing to make sure I was right & finally know what i must do ! Life can be so much easier if we all wanted to... Thanks for posting this ❤
I had a narcissistic mother. I couldn't get rid of her while living under her roof . She passed in 2016. My sisters still believe everything she said. My family is all about drama.
Same here. Move on, and thrive. They need to grow.
When someone wants you to talk about someone..badly.. or try n trip you into a judgment call about someone! It’s a trap! Don’t give energy!
Thank you.
You welcome thanks for watching my videos ❤️❤️💯 stay blessed Bruce 💪💯
Awesome advice thank you!
Thank You Much for this... Comes at just the right time.
At 70just now putting icing on cake with this msg.
Words of wisdom
Thank you so much for this! just what I want to see
Excellent advice.
Yes staying away from ppl with toxic traits and being near positive people are my strategy 😂
This message of forgiveness is EXACTLY what we all need to do. Realize too that we are one, we are all one. Avoiding people is not the answer because you are expressing resentment. Forgive. Jesus said, pray for your enemies and bless those who persecute you, bless them. I made a list in my daily journal, I wrote, Father I love ____, I forgive him/her, please bless him/her. Now did I mean it that first day, no but I wanted it because I understood Jesus message and believed him. In time, I saw a miracle, each person I had been praying for completely changed. In time I realized their treatment of me was a gift to me because I learned the importance of forgiveness and following Jesus word, and I realized, they took on the role of my adversary in order to teach me to forgive, to have unconditional love and true joy. I have read the Bible straight through 5 times and partly hundreds. And have read ACIM 3 times and worked through the lessons once. ACIM is on audio on UA-cam . It is hard to understand but truth rings through. After doing the lessons, it is clear.
Christianity is a falsehood, but Scripture across all cultures is truth.
Your intuition is guiding you well. Love is the way to perfection. That's Jesus' own words.
I can't believe this video picked the name Alex glory to God amazing!!!!🎉🎉🎉🙌
Hi Thank you for this vlog.
So well explained 🙏
I had been in toxic people all my life family & then in laws manipulatiors.
Until I found a mentor , meditator i awakened from my sleep but the moment these ppl got to know as I had been a dependent female was brought up like that.
They started dragging me down like crabs but not from the front
Very passively and bcoz I was not mature & a people pleaser I always gave up my priorities for them
To the extent I never had a priority but just them
A day came when I started having outbursts and they started calling me toxic and yes it did seemed so but I know what’s the truth I didn’t know how to create a boundary and when they lived toxicity as passive & as a norm when my soil was fertile o took it unconsciously as I thought they were my tribe.
Today I suffer from triggers & anger and they sit giving me a certificate I was toxic from day one
My outbursts are that everything creative I took on instrument learning, dance, gardening they quietly adapted that but made sure I suffer in it. Very subtle ways the only mistake was I didn’t know how to set boundaries bcoz when I bolded said No I was judged
Badly. They cornered me & i was isolated. I hv been crippled emotionally & also as to operate in the world as I could do anything consistently due to first being suppressed and serving others through manipulation & now through outbursts
Mediation & therapy has helped
I will survive.
Thank you very much.
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Great video. Thank you!
Exctly what i needed to hear. 🙏🌈🌷
True forgiveness is knowing that " It Never Even Happened" 💕🙏🏽💕 ACIM Lesson 134
Thank you!
Thank you so much for sharing this, I really needed to hear this 😢
Excellent !
Thank you❤