This is an important conversation. Not only should we date someone for a long time before becoming exclusive or intermingling lives, but we should avoid sexual relationships because sex releases oxytocin, and other chemicals that make it seem like a connection exist when it may not be able to exist in reality due to the level of emotional maturity, or the level of values similarity, which can only be known over time and through many vulnerable discussions.
It all gets rather complex. In my experience, when the child is placed in multiple roles (parent, abused child, ...) there is splitting that goes on, resulting in personas that come forward as adults under different emotional conditions (normal, stressed, weak, ...)
“The more internalizing person might feel rude when they change the direction of the conversation.” Could this mean, in some cases it is okay to interrupt -- an off topic, “helps me feel” annoyed - monologue, to get back to the subject of the meeting?😅
“The more internalizing person might feel rude when they change the direction of the conversation.” Could this mean, in some cases it is okay to interrupt -- an off topic, “helps me feel” annoyed - monologue, to get back to the subject of the meeting?😅
This is an important conversation. Not only should we date someone for a long time before becoming exclusive or intermingling lives, but we should avoid sexual relationships because sex releases oxytocin, and other chemicals that make it seem like a connection exist when it may not be able to exist in reality due to the level of emotional maturity, or the level of values similarity, which can only be known over time and through many vulnerable discussions.
Yes,yes, yes. I didn't understand this. So many false relationships, either g er shallow, unhealthy or premature intimacy.
Dr. Gibson is such a blessing ❤
She changed my life.
It all gets rather complex. In my experience, when the child is placed in multiple roles (parent, abused child, ...) there is splitting that goes on, resulting in personas that come forward as adults under different emotional conditions (normal, stressed, weak, ...)
“The more internalizing person might feel rude when they change the direction of the conversation.”
Could this mean, in some cases it is okay to interrupt -- an off topic, “helps me feel” annoyed - monologue, to get back to the subject of the meeting?😅
“The more internalizing person might feel rude when they change the direction of the conversation.”
Could this mean, in some cases it is okay to interrupt -- an off topic, “helps me feel” annoyed - monologue, to get back to the subject of the meeting?😅