The Attractive Power Men Can Have Over Women (and the biggest mistake that ruins it)
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You don’t have to bend over backwards. You just have to recognize when the attraction and respect is not reciprocated and WALK AWAY.
Agreed 👍
@@foodchaser716yeah like Dr K from Healthgamer was literally just talking about this a couple days ago. DONT SIMP.
Coach Corey Wayne also instructs us to do that. Glad to see many others are doing the same thing.
If she is not committed it is fine to say "I'm gonna leave you because I don't find you dedicated to this relationship". You have the power to walk away without being weak, simp, or emotional. That is prime advise. It is OK to feel sad though (I want to add).
Woman are automatically atracted to warrior energy
Lol, I fought to disagree with some of your points, but you are right, especially how modern women navigate the world now, and you brought up a great point with some of of the past female singers. A man's most important relationship is with himself, especially since every other relationship he has reflects that a woman's respect is her love
You have to be secure and confident boys.
Self-respect comes from knowing what your own needs are, and caring about them. Knowing how your own resources are being allocated, and caring about what you're getting back.
I couldn't of said things better myself!
Needs? You don’t “NEED” anything. Perhaps what you’re referring to are what’s called wants and desires.
@@nictibbettsso you don't need quality food, clean air etc?
@@Emma-ox4ki Do I need those things to survive? No. Do I want those things? No. because that would imply i don’t already have that.
@@nictibbetts that's some cool mental gymnastics bro, dayumm
Great statement bro life is too short why wasting on women who disrespected and unfaithful is better to leave than stay in that kind of toxic relationship 😊
You've been dropping some hardcore truths these past few videos. Simple, ever-true yet oft-forgotten FACTS. Its refreshing to see. You've been bringing things back to the basics, and fundamentals are everything.
This is probably the best info about dating, relationships, and women ive found so far on youtube or anywhere to be honest. Dude is basically the mind of gandalf with the body of ben affleck.
Probably the best, down to earth, honest advice I’ve heard in awhile.. self respect is the foundation.. thanks
You're right, your woman has to love you because who you're, not because you use tricks or manipulation
Summed it up perfectly
LFA still posting hot content 👌
Long time no see!
@@LFAyeah bro, hope you’re doing well. I need to start posting again.
Your correct that which a man sows so shall he reap
Pick up Artists and Dating Coach's are nothing more then grifters, great video LFA keep them coming.
I’ve picked your channel up recently and wish I was so wise at your age. I’m not interested in them but like hearing your take on them. I liked one many decades ago but she rejected me. I accepted it and ignored her. She seemed to be interested a decade later but when I saw her realized her rejection was truly the best for me. It all worked out. It seemed times were better then and women didn’t have an obnoxious sense of entitlement for just being a woman. They were more approachable pre cell phones and social media.
Good morning from India, first video of today LFA.
You help me to be real in my relationship, LFA. Thank you
Sure, we can conceptualize it. But I've never heard someone say coichie carousel lol. As long as a guy still looks young (or multiple years younger than his age), looks fit and healthy, that's pretty much the recipe for still attracting women as you age
Thank you for the video LFA. I really enjoyed this one. ❤👍🏿🔥🙏🏿💪🏿
No truer words 👍👍
Enjoy your weekend !
Your advice aligns with my beliefs and you’re probably the only one who isn’t about manipulation of the women to get what you want. I feel like crap about myself if I’m manipulating or whatever and so why would I even want to be in a relationship that I can’t be myself or have to manipulate to maintain it
True facts 🎉 This Dude Dropping Jewels 🎉
You helped me a lot!!! My marriage is in flowers🎉 Her social media was self oriented, with some pictures of me and son, but activity, all time selfies. Now, instagram is done with her.
You explain this stuff simple made easy
12:00 is such a BANGER statement this is why you are the best
also you are right its super important to have an honest conversation 'you dont seem dedicated' I for sure should have done that..
Best video for females and males. Thank you. 🎉
needed this
A lot of truth to this video.
I also learned something new that was bugging me about the gaps between the bricks.
If they’re near the bottom of a wall, they’re “weep holes”.
In standard brick on wood construction, a gap is left between the wood and the brick to allow air to circulate. The weep holes allow water that gets behind the bricks to drain off rather than to get trapped and cause mold in the wood.
Speak the truth, be your true self and see who recognises that value. And they're the ones naturally right for you.
Man i re discovered ur channel and u still dropin sum truth bombs thanks a lot! Oh and the same brick wall amazing!!
100% accurate brother!
this guy is the almost the most perfect youtuber in this regards. respects man.
This perspective is why you’re the goat, man. I felt a sense of relief listening to this.
Amen on women having impending doom!
Finding traditional women is very difficult these days. Women like our great grandmothers for example. Solid women who supported their husbands and raised great children and loved being a mother and a woman. Today women are basically men.
This really is the best fucking channel on relationships on youtube. I dont get it how he hasnt got 100x more subs. But sorry LFA i lowkey love it you dont have more. This way we can keep it real here
Damn. That's what I think everyone knows but can't quite put into words. You're good man. Keep it up
Great Video
I've thought about confronting a woman vs just pulling away without a confrontation... To me it seems better to just leave things open ended instead of creating an ultimatum for the woman.
If you give her the ultimatum, you give her another chance to change and prove herself to you. If you ghost her, you will never know if she was truly willing to change to save the relationship. Just some thoughts.
@@DK-ki2fh: If she was already showing whore behavior, I wouldn’t trust her to change …
Nothing wrong with communicating what you want and letting her decide. If there is one constant, women don’t forget the good men who offered them a longterm relationship. It’ll be in her mind after she realizes what a good man had to offer
Damn man i remember watching ur vids years ago new sub! Saludos desde Colombia!!
You are right as rain!
Spoken very well, and absolutely goddamn right...
Some good advice bud, Im sitting here having my coffee listening to you speak, only thing missing is the 2 way conversation 😂
Vvomen don't respect respect. let that sink in
another good video
You're definitely right
The 🐐
After being married, raised a family and now divorced I see no benefit from being in a relationship with a woman. The only thing I would gain is the sex when i could get it and the price for that is just not worth the cost.
That is why women aged like milk men aged like wine
41 this past July looking like I am 30 have the test like I am 21
Thank you brother, this resonates
"When they hit that wall, just like what's behind me"
Lol...
Informative bro! Always spot on
Well said bro i just leave my girl for being disrespect i respect myself 🙏
great stuff as always lfa i learned alot
Fantastic and important advice bro!
This is priceless information for a 20 years old
Thank you man
Excellent videos!
I wish I had this channel in my early 20s
thats facts also.. when with a woman u gotta examine her mental
the worst is that these useless gen x and boomer fathers don't tell their daughters the impending doom is waiting on them. they raise them like they're boys and send them out there in the wild, wasting their best years partying it up
When i was in friend zone for a few months but i didn't realize i told her: "your prime years will disappear after 23 you have a few years of beuty like all woman, and i will not wait. She was terrified and lost her power over me, few days after i told her to stop ever call or to want see me, i'm done! Two years after she tried her best to contact me and to see me, working close to my job, but i rejected all the time, this girl was full of tears and fear every time i looked at her working place.
It was a blue piled, simp days back than, but somehow i got that in me
Bro come to Jesus
@@rockyp32 who is that ?
@@biobadka4386 All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Due to our sin. Hell is the punishment
.“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”
Revelation 21:8 KJV
but Jesus who is God. Came down to earth as a man lived a perfect life never sinned people got jealous of him got him convicted on false charges then he died buried and resurrected
Remember how I said our sin is why we can’t go to heaven? The only thing that can wash away your sins in the blood of Jesus
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.” Roman’s 5:8-9 KJV
So to get saved is super easy
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.”
Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV
Salvation is a free gift by faith alone. You can’t earn it by going to church, getting water baptized, or by any good thing you do.
“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.”
2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV
Then you just have to feel guilty and sorry for being a sinner and repent for being a sinner. Do you feel guilty for being a sinner? If you do then there’s just one final step.
“that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”
Romans 10:9 KJV
Pretty much all you have to do is tell God out loud with your mouth that you believe the gospel. That’s it super simple. You MUST mean it from your heart to work.
You can pray something like this
“dear God i repent as a sinner. i believe jesus is God, who died, buried, and ressurected, so his blood can wash away my sins. so i only trust in the blood alone to save me not my good works. Save me from hell in jesus name i pray amen”
If you meant it your saved!
Agree :) And it's women's fault for not respecting themselves too. Back in the old days, we didn't fool around with men that we didn't think would be there for us if we got pregnant.
good tips man your videos
A1 truth bomb.
Shout out to the passport Bros
" Blue Bayou " by Roy Orbison or Linda Ronstadt whichever you prefer
Respect is a funny word .say it over again in yr head..lol
Thanks for giving us the real dirty scoop and the right way to handle it.
Gold right here
Oh s*** let me calm down ! Let me stay focused ! Always stay focused my brothers always stay focused ! " Redhouse " by Jimi Hendrix
I don't have no choice but to leave my ex after she's having ride a carousel with so many guys .this disgusted me at first it's hard for me to leave her but i find that she's only add headache to me thus i finally leave her now I got mentally free from this damage good girl.by the way good advice bro 😊
selfrespect (me) & dedication (she). The 2 key-words. For me these 2 are to BIGG to understand right away...
Especially selfrespect. Can somebody tell me more about that? In my past I had troubles with that too..
Shout out to Master Yoda " that's alright I still got my guitar look out now .... "
Thank you
Always the best content on UA-cam. Period.
Choose who choose you
Great advice
Shout out to raging tomato " hot legs " by rod Stewart
I just be myself and do what I want. If she not rocking with me then we not rocking at all.
LFA spot on, I love it, Im sure you touched on Casey Zander recent videos which total rubbish, i like your honest true perspective
Do you have any advice for if you want a traditional girl, but come from a dysfunctional background yourself? I’ve met quite a few high quality girls that have long term relationship potential the past few months, but I keep pulling back or stop talking to her because I feel I can’t meet her expectations in terms of my family background. Their background sounds so normal compared to mine and it makes me embarrassed and feel as if I have to compensate somehow. I have quite a few things going for myself, but I sense that more traditional girls look at the quality of your whole family and social circle, not just you. Because of this I feel more comfortable dating girls with dysfunctional backgrounds as well, but I know that for a long term situation they are not an option. Any advice? Or if you could do a video on this topic that would be great. Many thanks
Get close like a normal relationship and then tell her your situation flat out. Any and all lasting relationships are built and maintained on the rock-solid foundation of honesty, trust, and complete, transparent communication, not on situation perfection.
At the end of the day, if you want something deep, she's gonna learn about your fam one way or another and when she does, it will be her choice to decide if she's OK with it and/or how she deals with the situation.
Open communication into problem-solving as a couple is a loop that will keep repeating in a healthy LTR, and each time you get through a cycle it makes you and her that much closer and the bond together much stronger.
Women like men who are able to be good men dispite their circumstances. She will want to help you. You’re not a cookie cutter dude. Other men look good on paper but lack authenticity. Women like being needed and their best attribute is being a supportive partner. It’s an irreplaceable trait. Just be straight up with her and she will see you as strong. Think of that Titanic movie and their relationship
Get saved by jesusb
When guys start placing respect on themselves, things will follow through.
In terms of respecting yourself online dating if she's not reciprocating energy. I don't like assuming but I also don't want to validate her ego by asking if she's interested. Any thoughts?
I like your videos man but I've never heard a dating coach say to argue with a woman. Infact I confirmed through them and other sources to not argue with them. Obviously you shouldn't be manipulating people, but I do believe in maintaining a level of mystery about yourself
What you said is true and works especially well before there are kids or marriage.
But what do you do when you have a kid with her and/or are married to her and she starts acting distant or looking at other guys? What happens when her friends or crazy aunt gets in her ear at that point and driving you guys apart? You leave and now you have child support and she gets divorce money. She is rewarded for being bad.
Girls' emotions are fickle and they could be good and loyal for 10 years then everything changes one day.
I'm not disagreeing with you, I dont think anyone has an answer to this issue in the modern feminized society.
The truth is most women today are not marriage material
Make her feel wanted. Men want to be needed. Women need to be wanted.
Hawser with senorita that's what real love looks like
Damn, if you think about it Clint Eastwood was not even at his peak at 40 . Still many manly roles and he got even bigger in his 50's physically.
The video got brutal at 6:03 lol
Yes bro a women cannot love a man without respect first
No tricks, no tactics, no games. Be a man. Live strong. Live your life.
Random Q LFA, with the youtube changes blocking people from using adblock and people leaving the platform in groves, where else do you upload your content?
My youngest son refuses to let me cut his hair , he insist ,on going to the barbershop , there was just something there he likes " country grammar " by Nelly
"Practical Female Psychology: For the Practical Man" is the book for you, LFA. Read it and you'll understand where all dating gurus advice are coming from. That way you'll get it straight as well. Sure, self-respect plays big part. It's not even close to enough, though.
My results seem to be perfect as is. Adding a bunch of silly guru books or manosphere pseudoscience is probably just going to slow me down.
I’ve never met a player or “ladies man” that uses any of the popular current manosphere strategies. If women are already turned on by you, you shouldn’t over compensate with try hard strategies. That’s just my opinion.
@@LFA: Couldn’t some of these strategies be useful to get her to be “turned on to you”?
When you have amazing front end game, but piss poor back end game, pickup artistry is all thats left 😂
What does lfa stand for?
Lean figure army
Lord Farqua's A**hole
LFA make another retention video when you feel like it! They are motivating as fuck. Day 20 right now :)
A woman who disrespects a man in the very beginning and then sees the errors of her way when you tell her, I don’t think you are dedicated to this relationship is still not worth marrying. Too risky.
What’s up dude
I’d be curious to hear your thoughts on Casey Zander’s method of coaching. Some similarities but mostly polar opposites from what I’m hearing from you two lol.
Example?
@@LFA I won’t quote him, but the first couple minutes of his latest video is a good example. Hell, maybe you two guys are saying the exact same thing, and coming at it from two different directions but, doesn’t sound like it to me.
I would need an example in order to answer your question.
Casey Zander is sometimes toxic. He has white boards of conspiracy theory scribbles like a crackhead on speed.
@@LegendJeffLFA is probably the better of the two in my opinion.
Casey to me, is a neurotic goofball, and his personality reminds me of Harold Lauder from Stephen Kings The Stand.
It’s sad to see women hit the wall, IF they waste their potential. Makes me think of what happen when Eve ate the forbidden fruits.
biggest mistake that*