Pretty Women Have The Hardest Time Dating

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  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2023
  • Pretty Women Have The Hardest Time Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #blackwomendatingtips #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #blackfemininity #femininityforblackwomen #bbwdating #bbwdatingproblems

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  • @sonofhibbs4425
    @sonofhibbs4425 2 місяці тому +31

    Yup!
    Doesn’t help either when the men question why she’s been single for so long.

    • @suzannaflores1164
      @suzannaflores1164 Місяць тому +4

      This is their insecurity projection. Or your inner thoughts reflecting back to you by the other person. I've heard this exact comment from a man, who turned out to be an abusive alcoholic so there's that. Don't take it personal take it as a compliment you didn't settle for the crumbs.

    • @KaylaL830
      @KaylaL830 Місяць тому +2

      Or ppl assume you’re in a relationship. I’ve gotten that before and it still baffles me. Like dang now I think how am I ever gone find someone if everyone thinks oh she must be taken already or don’t even believe I’m single 😅😔

  • @stefanierobertson101
    @stefanierobertson101 6 місяців тому +48

    Omg! Thank you so much for explaining this dilemma. I've had multiple relationships with "mid ugly men" lol, who have always felt like I was their competition when I am complimented. Which led to other problems, smh. I have had people tell me that I was too attractive for the guy and I could do better. However, I am a sapeosexual, which speaks to my choice in mid-ugly men. But, the attractive men also feel like they are in competition and feel like they are the prize 😩. It also doesn't help being a black woman with a high level degree. Lawd, I just want to be happy. 😂

    • @91earthybae
      @91earthybae 2 місяці тому +1

      I’m floating in the same boat lol!! 😂

    • @stefanierobertson101
      @stefanierobertson101 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@91earthybae😂 I feel your pain sis. But our fairy god brother is going to get US RIGGHHHHTTT 🙌🏽

    • @stefanierobertson101
      @stefanierobertson101 Місяць тому

      ​@@and93077out of 10...yes.

  • @misstrice84
    @misstrice84 6 місяців тому +15

    I've never heard the term "mid-ugly men" until today. 😅 This makes a lot of sense, thank you for sharing.

  • @Sasha-K
    @Sasha-K 2 місяці тому +11

    I keep attracting old dusty men…what does that say about me? 🤣 lawd, this is a cruel world…

  • @earthangel8399
    @earthangel8399 22 дні тому +2

    Lol.... this rating math is hysterical

  • @aprettyliltarot333
    @aprettyliltarot333 6 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for this… makes sense 🤔 interesting

  • @missfranniepants
    @missfranniepants 6 місяців тому +5

    This explains so much. I appreciate the break down.

  • @beautifullyours
    @beautifullyours 6 місяців тому +5

    Hmm interesting, Thank you!

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 2 місяці тому +3

    This is so it. The fives and sixes think that the nines they like don't settle down with them because of women like us, but it's because of women like them. They pick quantity over quality.

  • @god563616
    @god563616 Місяць тому +1

    Wow! This is eerily spot on.

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee Місяць тому +5

    not really. ugly women have the hardest time and even when we do have someone it is because he is biding his time and waiting till he can get the woman of his dream

    • @MeMyself984
      @MeMyself984 29 днів тому

      Dorothy Dandridge talked about beauty being a double edged sword. She’s right. You damned if you do and damed if you don’t in a sense. When you’re beautiful men just want to posses you, they don’t care about you or treat you better at all.

    • @theupgraded6558
      @theupgraded6558 7 днів тому +1

      true, they'll treat it like a doormat, sleep around with some other women on the side & demand 50/50 cuz he aint paying for that pussy till he can finally afford his dream woman

  • @arikinui05
    @arikinui05 Місяць тому

    Wow

  • @sinceresinclair
    @sinceresinclair Місяць тому +2

    And don’t be pretty AND bodied up!

  • @queenred.6159
    @queenred.6159 Місяць тому

    Yea once ugly always ugly unless you are really doing the work and I have never seen it