How we keep growing our friendship from Thailand to The Netherlands and back!

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  • Опубліковано 24 сер 2023
  • Today's video is an ode to friendship! Meet Saskia, my best friend since a long time! We have even visited Thailand together for the first time more than 20 years ago! In this video we are talking about our friendship, how did we meet, and how did we manage to grow our friendship all these years.
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  • @SweetLifeLanta
    @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +14

    Today's video is an Ode to Friendship! Do you have a long-lasting friendship? Let us know about it in the comments!

    • @Neednoy2
      @Neednoy2 10 місяців тому +3

      My best friend is muslim. I'm Buddhist and we met kindergarten class in a Presbyterian school. That was mnay decades ago. We are still friends until today. ❤

    • @cfyfe7168
      @cfyfe7168 10 місяців тому

      What an awesome video and a beautiful friendship. Thank you for sharing this quality content.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      ​@narumon_bb2376 that's perfect. We learn so much when we befriend people who are different than us. Although it's often easier with friends who are the same 😂😂😂

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      ​@@cfyfe7168thank you dear friend!

    • @lisashiyun
      @lisashiyun 9 місяців тому

      Yes, I have a 30-yr friendship too and I’ve just forwarded this video and the one on Bangkok Chinatown to that friend! 😃 I told her we should go on such a trip too, just the two of us.
      Thank you for your wonderful videos!
      ~ with love from Singapore

  • @GM-cq6ez
    @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому +9

    Aside from enjoying the interaction between Mayaan and best friend, Saskia, I was super impressed with Mon's role in this video, like making sure the kids were comfortable, giving Mayaan the space to be with her friend. He's truly a champ.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      The man is not just a man, he's a legend 😂😂😂

  • @UncleDougDeli
    @UncleDougDeli 10 місяців тому +14

    I got a pen pal from Germany by the name Doris Seybold when I was 14 years old. We corresponded for awhile then both got busy with work and career. 17 years later, my wife and I was in Western Europe for our honeymoon and we were in Germany and we managed to trace her phone number with the help of the hotel staff and Germany’s telecom. We talked on the line for few minutes. We were both super excited as we spoke for the 1st time ever. I can hear she telling her husband Wolfgang that my childhood pen pal from Malaysia called. It was unbelievable. It was very emotional. It was truly special. We didn’t get to meet though 😢 Now another 30 years have passed…. time flies….. this episode will always be in my heart…. Hope Doris Seybold read this and maybe we can meet for the 1st time. God bless everyone ❤

  • @Swampzoid
    @Swampzoid 10 місяців тому +13

    I have a 41 year friendship with a woman I first met thru a penpal club in high school. We lived 2,500 miles apart. We didn't meet in person until 10 years after we started writing. She actually married one of her penpal friends 20 years after they started writing each other.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Wow that's amazing! How was it to meet? Did it click in person? Did you feel like you know each other? Sounds like the first form of online contact haha!

    • @vell2994
      @vell2994 10 місяців тому +1

      That's precious!

    • @Swampzoid
      @Swampzoid 10 місяців тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta We have become very close like family

    • @khenglim
      @khenglim 10 місяців тому +1

      Mayaan, what an amazing story of deep friendship! Like you I met Sabine (from Germany) through friends of friends whilst I was travelling through Europe when I was 18 years old (now aged 63). It was a very special bond and a deep friendship was formed. Through the years, we met up many times and explored the world together (Europe, Scandinavia, USA, Turkey, Japan, Singapore (where I am from) etc. We shared many special moments, discovering new places and adventures. Those are precious memories. Today, we still keep in touch eventhough we live thousands of miles apart (she in USA and I in Singapore).
      It's nice to know that in this ever changing world, true friendship still exist regardless of race, language or religion.
      I am glad Mayaan you found yours. Yes, it's good to have some girl time to yourself!

  • @LF-ns6zx
    @LF-ns6zx 10 місяців тому +7

    What a nice story! I‘ve lost my best friend to cancer two years ago - but whenever something stupid happens to me I hear her laughing - so she‘s always with me although she‘s gone💗👍😊

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому

      Gone but not forgotten ... although it sounds as if she's not really gone.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Oh that's heartbreaking and so beautiful at the same time. Big hugs to you

  • @Neednoy2
    @Neednoy2 10 місяців тому +2

    Your friendship is so heartwarming. Love girls friendship ❤🎉

  • @talsapir
    @talsapir 10 місяців тому +9

    An amazing friendship that bridges years and continents. Both of you are lucky to have each other ❤️

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      You are also my bestie. And I can't wait to see you again soon!

    • @talsapir
      @talsapir 10 місяців тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta
      We zijn er Bijna! We zijn er Bijna! ❤️

  • @misslottieish
    @misslottieish 10 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤💯 How nice BFF.......

  • @wendy-0101
    @wendy-0101 10 місяців тому +4

    ✨❤️❤✨👍🏼😃True friendship never dies. I have lived in Sweden 52yrs. Enjoy every moment girls. My friend has dementia & it is so sad. I help her as much as I can, but its getting harder to cope with. 💞💞💋💋🇬🇧

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Getting old is part of life but it's so tough too.

  • @anthony64632
    @anthony64632 10 місяців тому +2

    That is beautiful to cherish

  • @audreyalcantra8561
    @audreyalcantra8561 10 місяців тому +2

    Leuk ….zo’n lange vriendschap. Love this❤

  • @anna_m59
    @anna_m59 10 місяців тому +5

    Hi guys greeting from California! I do have long lasting friendship back in Switzerland and Germany. Probably that why are still lasting because we don’t see each other everyday.

  • @JacksparowLL
    @JacksparowLL 10 місяців тому +2

    It's a wonderful friendship.Have a nice trip in BKK.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Thanks! Will share it with you guys, hopefully next week!

  • @BarbaraC02
    @BarbaraC02 10 місяців тому +6

    What a wonderful friendship you have. I loved hearing about your journey together. I dearly miss my best friend, she sadly died due to an accidental fall. I hope and pray you two have many happy years together. Oh, I find it fascinating that you both speak several languages. That’s cool. Love your videos, see you next week.✨💙🌵🌷

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Thank you sweet Barbara. In The Netherlands it's very common to speak at least one second language. But even more common to speak several.

  • @jaclineheto8615
    @jaclineheto8615 15 днів тому

    🎊💐Beautiful Saskia, your dear friend ! Beautiful friendship ! 🎉💐🎊

  • @user-os8cj5kx1k
    @user-os8cj5kx1k 10 місяців тому +1

    your language is so soft ..how wonderful it would be if your kids learned it .

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      They understand it very well and hopefully speak it more in the future.

  • @sallyjaynes2433
    @sallyjaynes2433 10 місяців тому +1

    Amazing, good, great long-term bestie girlfriends. Now an ultimate trip to Bangkok together, friends adventuring friends forever ♾️ ⏩. ☮️✌️

  • @JohnKattt
    @JohnKattt 10 місяців тому +2

    Front row !!! Yay !!! Nederlands.

  • @betsylindsay8480
    @betsylindsay8480 10 місяців тому +3

    Shining example of what BFF really stands for.

  • @rie20100
    @rie20100 10 місяців тому +4

    Mayaan, this is a beautiful "heart" story! To me this video is a tribute to all who are best friends. Friends can fill a place in our heart that no one else can fill.... and that is why I call my best friend of 47 yrs. my "sister from a different mother". Much love to you, Saskia and your families!❤️🇨🇦

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      So sweet! Yes, this is definitely a tribute! To all friends out there!

  • @gabriellekelly4211
    @gabriellekelly4211 10 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful story ❤️ 😍 ..... I will meet my penpal Julie first time this February/March 2024 in Philippines since penpal (my school days) with Julie for almost 40 years 😊

  • @kirsikkamansikka8695
    @kirsikkamansikka8695 10 місяців тому +1

    This was nice to watch. Saskia seems so sweet and fun! So good to be sometimes without kids, innit!? 🙃💚

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Soooooo goooooooooooood! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pakawanmalayavech101
    @pakawanmalayavech101 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful and amazing friendship.👭🌺👍✈️💐

  • @lynnstanton7018
    @lynnstanton7018 10 місяців тому +2

    Yes i have best friend 60 yrs now. Friends since 1st grade and 66 yo now

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому

      That's amazing, and so sweet!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Amazing indeed! So special

  • @bevkinnear7366
    @bevkinnear7366 10 місяців тому +3

    And yes I have a friend that we have stayed together for 53 years! Since we are 14! We talk at least twice a week !

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +3

      Ah I believe Saskia and I can say that in 20 years!

  • @daniellehull8443
    @daniellehull8443 10 місяців тому +2

    What a great episode! I ❤'d this! I always look frwrd 2 your next episode because you share your life so freely, such special moments & focus on the most important, meaningful things! Family, food, friendship & ❤! It is a sweet life Lanta!! Your fans from DE USA🇱🇷🌏💝

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому +1

      Well said!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful! Thanks so much! I appreciate the love!

  • @ChilloutLars
    @ChilloutLars 10 місяців тому +4

    You just demonstrated the essence of a sweet life. Kindred friends fulfil our journey. Absolute goosebumps story telling this time. Even framed your friend perfectly with a rustic picture backdrop. Bravo 👏

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому

      Yes, I noticed that beautiful background, too. Mayaan has a good eye and is super talented, imo.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks Lars for your beautiful comment! I had to frame my friend well, she's a photographer! Haha... I'm so happy my video even got you some goosebumps. Next week some awesome Bangkok content with friend and no husband and kids 😂

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      ​@GM-cq6ez thanks so much dear friend for all the beautiful compliments and support.

  • @brendarosenau7567
    @brendarosenau7567 10 місяців тому +1

    So cool my dear love your friendship. Enjoy❤

  • @leamarleychnnl
    @leamarleychnnl 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful friendship story! I love it!!

  • @InaEspere1234
    @InaEspere1234 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful, lively, and lasting friendship story! Thanks also to Mon for that candid song/dance which made me smile and hope for a relationship full of honesty, love, and freedom. 💗

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Haha so sweet! I see this is your first comment! Please tell me more about you if you have a moment 😊

  • @user-xo4op4gd5c
    @user-xo4op4gd5c 10 місяців тому +2

    mooie vriendschap ik ken dat gevoel als je nieuw ben in nederland ik kwam uit suriname had het ook moeilijk in het begin maar nu is alles tofffffff

  • @toabove2
    @toabove2 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful people, beautiful friends, beautiful stories.

  • @Vonsat
    @Vonsat 10 місяців тому +3

    Hey that's awesome! I love it when us ladies get to spend time with childhood friends without the family sometimes. It's so refreshing. Have fun in Bangkok with your BFF Maayan😃 (It's so funny to see Mon doing his happy dance, LOL although I feel for Milli for missing her mama)

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Hahaha she was fine no worries. She just had a little cry and a little cuddle and then I was free to go! They all survived without me nicely and I'm gonna post some awesome bangkok content soon! (Without kids hahaha 🤣)

    • @Vonsat
      @Vonsat 10 місяців тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta I can't wait 😃

  • @unakazzored9963
    @unakazzored9963 10 місяців тому +2

    Im 60 next month my best friend only 46 died early 2023 we been around the world for 6 times together 😉😉we been together from australia when her only 18 yrs old

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry for your loss. It must be so tough. ❤❤❤

  • @soriavanwyngaardt16
    @soriavanwyngaardt16 10 місяців тому

    Dit was nou so lekker om na jou vlog te kyk en te hoor hoe jy en Saskia Nederlands praat. As a Afrikaans South African I thoroughly enjoy your vlogs. Well done!

  • @bevkinnear7366
    @bevkinnear7366 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello! It’s Bev from Canada! Staying up late so thought I would check in!

  • @BeeGirlz
    @BeeGirlz 10 місяців тому

    Beautiful video! Thank you for sharing your sweet, long-lasting friendship with us. 💝

  • @margriet5004
    @margriet5004 10 місяців тому

    You have such a respectful, lovely and positive multi cultural channel, I love it. As a Dutch Canadian it was Lovely to hear my language (Dutch) today, ❤❤ thanks for sharing

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Wow that's so wonderful! Thanks for your kind words.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 10 місяців тому +1

    That’s the life so much fun enjoy your holiday Maayan

  • @lagringa7518
    @lagringa7518 10 місяців тому +1

    Cool!

  • @JE-sf5ky
    @JE-sf5ky 10 місяців тому +4

    I live for the friendship!! I love watching your channel. It brings me such joy!

  • @BelieveInTheTruth.
    @BelieveInTheTruth. 10 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @vell2994
    @vell2994 10 місяців тому +2

    I have one too. I think it's 16 years already ❤ but we're female + male ( not romantically together) 😊
    Thank you for sharing your precious bond

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому

      I had one of those as well until one of us moved to a place of no return - a different dimension so to speak.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      😓😓😓 so sorry about that. The memories will always stay in your heart.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing!

  • @ornakenan5261
    @ornakenan5261 10 місяців тому +1

    מקסימות!

  • @erfinamoentari4509
    @erfinamoentari4509 10 місяців тому

    Zo leuk . Dat is echte vriendschap ongeacht land Ras en kleur. ❤ Godzegen en success verder 💞💞

  • @CoolInOlympia
    @CoolInOlympia 10 місяців тому +2

    So sweet to have a best friend!

  • @francisinghels9765
    @francisinghels9765 10 місяців тому +2

    Zo leuk verhaal! Was like this with my wife and myself; she was coming from Belgium (french) .We also spoken english for 1 year and she decided to go working, without knowing the language/culture.. Amazing she was and so brave. So proud of her; she is always pushing me to try everything and to be out of my comfort zone. Nothing is too difficult if we want and try.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Absoluut! Het leven is 1 grote avontuur toch?

  • @leentjea8149
    @leentjea8149 10 місяців тому +2

    Wat een gezelligheid. Leuk dat jullie elkaar regelmatig zien. Veel plezier in Bangkok.😊

  • @stevens8785
    @stevens8785 10 місяців тому +2

    nice one guys. 🤩

  • @jacquelineverboon681
    @jacquelineverboon681 10 місяців тому +2

    Wat leuk, een video in het nederlands. (Maar al je video’s zijn leuk, hoor)

  • @justicajusta.2084
    @justicajusta.2084 10 місяців тому +2

    I love you

  • @hazelleung2649
    @hazelleung2649 10 місяців тому +1

    I cal tell from your smile how happy you guys are when leaving kids to Bangkok😂

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Oh yeah baby. Next week, very fun Bangkok content without kids!

  • @darghara9082
    @darghara9082 10 місяців тому

    special life long friendships are formed in high school and with the ones you travel with! it seems to be the case here

  • @jackieanderson4108
    @jackieanderson4108 10 місяців тому +1

    It's hard watching the kids reaction to you going. But we all do diff things in life..

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      We're always together so the kids are not used to be without one of us, but they survived (and even had great time with daddy) and I got to spend amazing time in bangkok and also make beautiful content for you guys! Coming soon!

  • @anthony64632
    @anthony64632 10 місяців тому +2

    I have 50 years friendship with a girl from same school,now only just started a relationship together

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому

      Wow! Took you long enough!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Wow!

    • @anthony64632
      @anthony64632 10 місяців тому

      @GM-cq6ez we were best friends but only realised that we like each other more than friends

  • @nnijsster
    @nnijsster 10 місяців тому +1

    Zo lief, jullie!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Hee familie! Leuk dat je hier bent Nathalie!

    • @nnijsster
      @nnijsster 10 місяців тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta Voorpret voor december en januari! Gaan we elkaar vast ook ff zien 😘

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      @@nnijsster gezellig!

  • @TheLungNuad
    @TheLungNuad 10 місяців тому

    I didn't know Mayaan could speak Dutsch,French EN and more over maybe definitely a little bit Thai lang.Very good for your children.Very good.👌👌👌👍👍👍👍

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      Haha I can even speak more languages? Would you be interested in finding more about that?

  • @katewainwright
    @katewainwright 10 місяців тому

    Very familiar! My primary school best friend stayed in our hometown and had her first baby at 22 - I went and lived in different countries and we had a period of less contact. When I went back to England to have my first child at 32, she was my birth partner ❤

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Wow that's so similar and so amazing! I know! 😍😍😍

  • @cynthiakasadi5805
    @cynthiakasadi5805 10 місяців тому +2

    Hallo, het gaat zeker leuk worden.Ben van Suriname , wij praten nederlands hier. Heel veel plezier jullie 2.

  • @ajtom4987
    @ajtom4987 10 місяців тому

    It’s amazing keep going 😊

  • @spectatrix5003
    @spectatrix5003 10 місяців тому +2

    Hartstikke leuk dat het jullie is gelukt om jullie vriendschap over zo‘n lange tyd en over deze grote ruimtelyke afstand by te houden! Ik hoop dat jullie nog een hele hoop spannende avonturen samen zullen beleven!
    super fyn voor je lieve mayaan, dat je zulke waardevolle relaties hebt!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому

      Wow dankjewel! Ik heb niet vaak comments van jou gezien toch? Surinaams? Nederlands? Tell me more please!

    • @spectatrix5003
      @spectatrix5003 10 місяців тому

      klopt, ik heb hier by jou pas een of twee keer een kommentaar geschreven - maar dan op zyn engels.
      ik heb een nl paspoort, maar ben in duitsland geboren. heb 25 jaar lang in amsterdam gewoont en toen nog eens 22 jaar in berlyn, en uiteindelyk ben ik in het zuiden van duitsland ( in stuttgart ) beland…
      myn dochter en 3 kleinkinderen wonen in a‘dam, dus ik kom er nog regelmatig 😊

  • @yvonnebirch6026
    @yvonnebirch6026 10 місяців тому +2

    Wat een leuke vriendin Maayan ! Bijzonder dat jullie de vriendschap in stand hielden ondanks de afstand door de jaren heen ! Loved this video !! Love from Monterey ! 💕🇳🇱🙏

    • @GM-cq6ez
      @GM-cq6ez 10 місяців тому +1

      Monterey is a wonderful place. I agree: it's not easy maintaining a close friendship for so many years from a great distance. I lost many precious friendships b/c of moving away. It's hard to stay connected across the miles.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      En leuk dat we gewoon nederlands kunnen praten altijd met jou Yvonne!

    • @yvonnebirch6026
      @yvonnebirch6026 10 місяців тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta moet een beetje wennen. Ik ben hier al over 40 jaar.😎

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  10 місяців тому +1

      @@yvonnebirch6026 ik snap het helemaal! Na 13 jaar hier begin ik nu ook te moeten wennen..

  • @suziwankenobi8807
    @suziwankenobi8807 9 місяців тому

    💝💝💝💝💝

  • @kitsana36
    @kitsana36 10 місяців тому

    ไม่มีแปลเป็นภาษาไทยเลยครับอ่านอออแปลออกบางประโยคเท่านั้นครับ😅😅😅😅

  • @justicajusta.2084
    @justicajusta.2084 10 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤😂😂❤❤❤❤❤😂❤❤❤❤

  • @lisebjerring9197
    @lisebjerring9197 10 місяців тому +1

    Der er virkelig intet bedre end en kær veninde. En som kender din styrke men også dine svage sider......hvor du kan være dig selv. Hvor er i søde. Nyd hinandens selskab, fra Stockholm kærlige hilsner Lise