Trevor's plane analogy was the the last piece of the puzzle that I didn't have before. I gained insight about my childhood from that alone. Very astute, Trevor Noah.
I love Trevor! Still miss him on The Daily Show! He gets me right in the feels, loved his book! I'd love to wrap him in bubble wrap for protection, but his wisdom, compassion, all comes from his struggles.
So much of what Trevor said resonates with me. I’m mistrusting of people but am overly trustworthy to compensate. In my mind I’d be the ideal person for someone else but don’t trust anyone to be like that with me which in turn turns people away from me. I’m intentionally closed off so I never get put into a situation where I’ll get hurt, self sabotage. But something I long for is connection.
@@sara_sofia_1984 -- Trevor's sensibilities are magnetic. His emotional intelligence, coupled with his impeccably logical mind and respectful demeanor leads me to truly admire him. He possesses qualities that are rare in most humans.
So true. You may perceive and interpret something one way, but the other person meant it in another way. Either person won’t be on the same page unless you talk about it.
I HIGHLY recommend attachment style theory for everyone. It can be an absolute eye-opener. Not necessarily to save a relationship you are currently in, but to learn about yourself, your emotions, and eventually get better. Childhood trauma can be repaired, and hypervigilance and mistrust can be replaced with a secure view on all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones.
Trevor’s whole story about relationships and childhood was actually my story and at 68 I’m not sure I will ever have the ability to surrender my self sufficiency. So hard
I can understand of being self sufficient. I am as well. Always be yourself so the right person can love you for who you are. Wish you the best Trevor and hope you find the right woman for you
Being very self-sufficient my whole life it has taken me a long time to learn how to ask for help. I’m still doing my best to practice it, but it’s probably always going to be a little difficult.
I thought this was going to be a comedy show... I kept watching anyway. The part about the pilot at the beginning yep when I told one he did a great job and it was an exciting flight he said he was really scared!
I've come across multiple social media comments over the past decade, in which 40-50 years is considered "ancient". You being annoyed that the comedian above, isn't 100 years old, is pretty much identical... Noah is in his 40's, AKA middle aged. How could he NOT have attained some wisdom on "the way of things" in those 40 years?? Especially considering his unique circumstances??
The point about parents losing credibility is SO real, especially when one parent is abusive and the other tries to pretend like everything is fine and keep telling you ‘he’ll be better this time’. My mom kept giving my alcoholic narcissistic dad second chances, never once a consequences for his childish tantrum meltdowns where he could get so violent and aggressive, and after a while ur parents are not ur parents anymore, becuz ur the one having to be self-sufficient and acting mature and completely composed trying to prevent ur abusive parent from blowing up again, appeasing and pleasing them all the time, walking on eggshells every day becuz ur other parent can’t assure you the very basic necessity of safety & security. By that time they can say all they fucking want but they’ve lost all credibility as a parent and you feel like you can’t depend on others, never trust to ask for help or trust people again.
Neal at the end of the Bill Burr section was funny and relatable. Definitely had to grow and be challenged with an emotionally intelligent and vulnerable man.
I once read in a Psychology Today Magazine that the beginning of a relationship generates a chemical in the brain similar to speed. As time passes, the chemical is more like Morphine.
It’s called the “honeymoon phase” we’re behaving from our conscious mind and later on we”ll be acting off our subconscious mind once the honeymoon phase wears off.
I feel like people think that when they get into a relationship, everything is going to get better and they're pain will alleviate and human flight is possible, etc. And they also think that not being in a relationship makes them weak or they are missing out. But, i see getting into a relationship like making your first million. Sometimes you make it in your 20s, sometimes in your 50s. You could lose it completely. Or make more. Its a game of chance and sometimes you find a great one, other times you could end up abused or cheated on. Take your time, get your shit together. Find the right one. I mean. We all saw what Courtney love did to Kurt Cobain. And we saw his down fall. Guy had it all, but couldn't handle the stress, the physical pain, and the mental pain. Thought the fame and girl would fix him. It didn't. Snl had a skit where adam sandler is a tour guide. And hes like: visiting another country wont cure your depression. You're the same sad guy in italy as you were in the US. 😅
Trevor Noah’s childhood is more or less closest to the opposite of what i’ve had to go through. i’ve been told my whole life i’m never gonna be good at anything only to find out i might be a “genius” who’s been dumped down my whole life and now accepting the fact that i am better than i’ve always been told is a completely different nuance that’s tricky and difficult to accept. i need help getting past that
3 men with 3 different philosophies. I love it. I'd listen to Bill Burr more, he seems like the kind of guy who would tell me the truth. Marc is believable and genuine, and self-aware. Trevor listens to female therapists a lot.
@@mohauntabanyane8713 sorry to break it to you but the human brain is not primed to look for the truth, it's primed for survival and that involves keeping us away from negative emotions and constantly creating narratives for justifying that avoidance. Emotions are a real thing that absolutely drives human behavior as much, or sometimes even more, than logic. If people are aware of this fact they can actually see the truth and not let their brain lie to them and hide behind a false sense of logic. In reality, judging someone for acknowledging how emotion affect their judgment, and feeling better then them is just your brain pumping up your ego and keeping those negative emotions hidden under the false sense of logic.
Focus on giving each other peacevof mind and heart. By realizing no longer faceblife alone makes relationship more meaningful. Eventually love must calming if not not love. Fix relationship or end relationship respectfully don't cheat. secure our resources protect our mrntsl health respect our relationship.
To the last segment about casual sex and not wanting anyone to get attached to them…y’all have money, maybe just pay an escort and not fuck with women’s hearts?
I don't always get the "Blocks" aspect of the full pod, though it seems like they're representative mental blocks for the subject of the interview. Sorry if this ruins the joke of it. The pace makes it difficult for me to catch on to the production of that aspect of the narrative you try to cultivate within this box. All those notes aside. This works better for me; admittedly because the subject matter resonates with me. Well done, jog on[not British, just like the turn of phrase].
lol.. this is all men talking - have u been drunk in love and then not wanted to go to the farmer's market? Lol. it wouldnt work if you were not drunk. That's what let's you do all the foolish stuff in the first place. And then you have to readjust, create a new reality. There is nothing like carefully forewarning and being ultra careful.
"Your tank is always FULL, when it's not getting DRAINED" is so poignant. And ACCURATE.
Speaking of accuracy, the quote was "Your tank is always full when there's nothing draining it."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Trevor's plane analogy was the the last piece of the puzzle that I didn't have before. I gained insight about my childhood from that alone. Very astute, Trevor Noah.
Trevor is so smart. I always am left enriched when I listen to his words.
I love Trevor! Still miss him on The Daily Show! He gets me right in the feels, loved his book! I'd love to wrap him in bubble wrap for protection, but his wisdom, compassion, all comes from his struggles.
Gonna sound strange, but what an honest comment, I feel the same.
The Daily Show is not the same since!
So much of what Trevor said resonates with me. I’m mistrusting of people but am overly trustworthy to compensate. In my mind I’d be the ideal person for someone else but don’t trust anyone to be like that with me which in turn turns people away from me. I’m intentionally closed off so I never get put into a situation where I’ll get hurt, self sabotage. But something I long for is connection.
I could’ve written this 🥹
Same 😭
❤
Same 💛
The same, i would be happy with a person who is the same trustworthy person as myself. I don’t trust anyone but can be naive ((
Trevor Noah is so wise, I love to hear his thoughts! Thank you for this 😊
And handsome 😊
@@univers368 Yes, I think he's handsome, but he's not my type. His personality is my type though...
@@sara_sofia_1984 he is my type all over, but it doesn’t mean our paths will cross. So, type or not, that’s not the point.
@@sara_sofia_1984 -- Trevor's sensibilities are magnetic. His emotional intelligence, coupled with his impeccably logical mind and respectful demeanor leads me to truly admire him. He possesses qualities that are rare in most humans.
If only Neal had the maturity to have made the most of the opportunity and rise to the occasion...
Neal is such an excellent interviewer and asks blunt and interesting questions. He always seems genuinely invested in his guest's stories.
Trevor hit the nail on the head. The communication is really the key and it sounds so bland and generic but it's true.
So true. You may perceive and interpret something one way, but the other person meant it in another way. Either person won’t be on the same page unless you talk about it.
I HIGHLY recommend attachment style theory for everyone. It can be an absolute eye-opener. Not necessarily to save a relationship you are currently in, but to learn about yourself, your emotions, and eventually get better. Childhood trauma can be repaired, and hypervigilance and mistrust can be replaced with a secure view on all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones.
Yes.
Trevor’s whole story about relationships and childhood was actually my story and at 68 I’m not sure I will ever have the ability to surrender my self sufficiency. So hard
I love how self aware Trevor is! I would loooove a convo with him.
"The great philosopher Ali Wong once said: 'Clarity is kindness'."
"I didn't wanna hug" 😂
:)
Such an insightful set of interviews especially Trevor
I can understand of being self sufficient. I am as well. Always be yourself so the right person can love you for who you are. Wish you the best Trevor and hope you find the right woman for you
Thank you ❤
I really needed to see this. It's so refreshing.
It's nice to hear about people in what sounds like healthy relationships. Further convinces me not to look back
I think me and Trevor would really get along 😊
The same 😂, everyone might think that about themselves
How’s this man’s channel not blown up by now ?!
I miss Trevor. I really enjoy watching these clips of him on interviews.
Being very self-sufficient my whole life it has taken me a long time to learn how to ask for help. I’m still doing my best to practice it, but it’s probably always going to be a little difficult.
When people cancel on me it’s the best feeling…I felt that
I thought this was going to be a comedy show... I kept watching anyway. The part about the pilot at the beginning yep when I told one he did a great job and it was an exciting flight he said he was really scared!
Wow Trevor is ME TOO THE T!
Damn Trevor gives good word 😏
Very good at oral
I am so annoyed that I learn so much from Trevor Noah's crazy reflections on life, it's not like he is 100 yrs old.
😂 It certainly can be disconcerting.
I've come across multiple social media comments over the past decade, in which 40-50 years is considered "ancient".
You being annoyed that the comedian above, isn't 100 years old, is pretty much identical...
Noah is in his 40's, AKA middle aged. How could he NOT have attained some wisdom on "the way of things" in those 40 years??
Especially considering his unique circumstances??
@@codymoe4986 LOL You know what I love? Your sense of humor.
@@sonatak304 thanks. I'm going to steal that line. God knows I'll need it
Wow, what Trevor said about seeing those clouds and not knowing if he can trust the pilot really hit.
Damn Marc, ya got me in my feels. Lol
Really enjoyed this whole segment ❤ Learned a lot about myself hearing from these beautiful honest men.
Always amazed by how insightful Trevor is !!!
wise as heck!
Hat metaphor got me. 🔥
The point about parents losing credibility is SO real, especially when one parent is abusive and the other tries to pretend like everything is fine and keep telling you ‘he’ll be better this time’. My mom kept giving my alcoholic narcissistic dad second chances, never once a consequences for his childish tantrum meltdowns where he could get so violent and aggressive, and after a while ur parents are not ur parents anymore, becuz ur the one having to be self-sufficient and acting mature and completely composed trying to prevent ur abusive parent from blowing up again, appeasing and pleasing them all the time, walking on eggshells every day becuz ur other parent can’t assure you the very basic necessity of safety & security. By that time they can say all they fucking want but they’ve lost all credibility as a parent and you feel like you can’t depend on others, never trust to ask for help or trust people again.
"I'll point to you when its your turn to talk" 😂😂😂
Hats analogy got me! If I’m one size fits all that hen I don’t know who I am.
Loved these conversations ❤️
Wow Trevor is the best!!
Neal at the end of the Bill Burr section was funny and relatable. Definitely had to grow and be challenged with an emotionally intelligent and vulnerable man.
I once read in a Psychology Today Magazine that the beginning of a relationship generates a chemical in the brain similar to speed. As time passes, the chemical is more like Morphine.
A man who goes with the truth from the get go... Oh, yes, Trevor, I'd still quarantine with you any day ❤❤❤
I can relate, Trevor
Trevor is the only celebrity I ever have/had a crush on 🥰
Trevor is spitting nothing but facts. Jeez.
Trevor is ❤❤❤
It’s called the “honeymoon phase” we’re behaving from our conscious mind and later on we”ll be acting off our subconscious mind once the honeymoon phase wears off.
Trevor Noah's an incredibly insightful guy.
Trevoarrirrrroreee 😂😂 sa pa sayy
I’m so glad I’m single.
I feel like people think that when they get into a relationship, everything is going to get better and they're pain will alleviate and human flight is possible, etc. And they also think that not being in a relationship makes them weak or they are missing out. But, i see getting into a relationship like making your first million. Sometimes you make it in your 20s, sometimes in your 50s. You could lose it completely. Or make more. Its a game of chance and sometimes you find a great one, other times you could end up abused or cheated on. Take your time, get your shit together. Find the right one. I mean. We all saw what Courtney love did to Kurt Cobain. And we saw his down fall. Guy had it all, but couldn't handle the stress, the physical pain, and the mental pain. Thought the fame and girl would fix him. It didn't. Snl had a skit where adam sandler is a tour guide. And hes like: visiting another country wont cure your depression. You're the same sad guy in italy as you were in the US. 😅
😊🙌🏽
Trevor Noah’s childhood is more or less closest to the opposite of what i’ve had to go through. i’ve been told my whole life i’m never gonna be good at anything only to find out i might be a “genius” who’s been dumped down my whole life and now accepting the fact that i am better than i’ve always been told is a completely different nuance that’s tricky and difficult to accept.
i need help getting past that
That drunkeness, in poly circles, is called New Relationship Energy (NRE).
Same me…hugs ❤
3 men with 3 different philosophies. I love it. I'd listen to Bill Burr more, he seems like the kind of guy who would tell me the truth. Marc is believable and genuine, and self-aware. Trevor listens to female therapists a lot.
Wtf does ‘listens to female therapists’ even mean? That’s a bad thing???
@@GuineaPigEveryday Trevor uses a lot of emotional language, he appeals to emotion, not the truth.
@@mohauntabanyane8713 sorry to break it to you but the human brain is not primed to look for the truth, it's primed for survival and that involves keeping us away from negative emotions and constantly creating narratives for justifying that avoidance.
Emotions are a real thing that absolutely drives human behavior as much, or sometimes even more, than logic.
If people are aware of this fact they can actually see the truth and not let their brain lie to them and hide behind a false sense of logic.
In reality, judging someone for acknowledging how emotion affect their judgment, and feeling better then them is just your brain pumping up your ego and keeping those negative emotions hidden under the false sense of logic.
Look into Alison Armstrong and Laura Doyle!
1000% !! ❤❤❤
NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT NARC AND ERKAH
yoooo neal, wassup with all the sex bots in the comments dude?
Dude for real😂
❤❤❤❤
Ice cream for breakfast?
❤
Man, Trevor Noah is attractive
Focus on giving each other peacevof mind and heart. By realizing no longer faceblife alone makes relationship more meaningful. Eventually love must calming if not not love. Fix relationship or end relationship respectfully don't cheat. secure our resources protect our mrntsl health respect our relationship.
To the last segment about casual sex and not wanting anyone to get attached to them…y’all have money, maybe just pay an escort and not fuck with women’s hearts?
Finally, a male perspective
I don't always get the "Blocks" aspect of the full pod, though it seems like they're representative mental blocks for the subject of the interview. Sorry if this ruins the joke of it. The pace makes it difficult for me to catch on to the production of that aspect of the narrative you try to cultivate within this box. All those notes aside. This works better for me; admittedly because the subject matter resonates with me. Well done, jog on[not British, just like the turn of phrase].
lol.. this is all men talking - have u been drunk in love and then not wanted to go to the farmer's market?
Lol. it wouldnt work if you were not drunk. That's what let's you do all the foolish stuff in the first place. And then you have to readjust, create a new reality.
There is nothing like carefully forewarning and being ultra careful.
Trevor: my tank is full.
Republican: Crazy Catwom- Huh? Oh. An intelligent, strategic, responsible man.
I don’t fit anybody’s else anymore 🤷🏻♀️
Whats wrong with clarity? Why is it cool to know in advance you wont see him/her again? Sad
Testosterone vs Estrogen - and the lack of emotional intelligence on both ends
One of these is not a comedian
Who would you say is not one?
Is that why he doesn’t date black women? He naturally doesn’t find us credible for safety like his mom on denial of the abuse?
Trevor Noah I’m reading your book Born A Crime and this shit is ass as fuc but my moms paying me to read it because I’ve been harsh on immigrants