Trevor Noah | Blocks Podcast w/ Neal Brennan

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  • Опубліковано 2 чер 2024
  • Neal Brennan interviews Trevor Noah ('The Daily Show,' 'What Now?,' 'Born a Crime,' 'Where Was I' & more on Netflix) about the things that make him feel lonely, isolated, and like something's wrong - and how he is persevering despite these blocks.
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    00:00 Intro
    2:48 Life Defined by Race
    4:36 Born a Crime: Growing up in Apartheid South Africa
    12:10 Is there a value to trauma?
    13:55 Diffusing Conflict & Communication
    20:20 Relationship w/ Parents
    24:01 Depression & ADHD
    30:48 Ketamine Therapy
    32:38 Diagnosis vs. Medication
    34:50 Romantic Relationships
    48:50 Two Racial Topics for Neal’s White Audience
    1:00:35 What He Makes of Life Overall
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    Theme music by Electric Guest (unreleased).
    Edited by Will Hagle
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    #podcast #comedy #mentalhealth #standup
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  • @Musicmelishere
    @Musicmelishere 9 днів тому +185

    I am glad I watched this.
    Did anyone else catch this?
    Neal says, “your mom was a Black SA and your dad was a Swiss White man.”
    Trevor says, “they still are.”😂😂😂😂

    • @JoE_Songs
      @JoE_Songs 5 днів тому +3

      Why do I have the tendency to get exhausted, hearing him talk and been asked - since almost a decade - in almost every interview about apartheid and race? Was is a mistake to name his biography that? Or more than that, to even write a biography with 30-something and that name? yeah, I think he created himself a straightjacket that he is not really able to get out of.
      I know this is a much to deep reply, but who cares. 😂

    • @richardthegingerbo909
      @richardthegingerbo909 5 днів тому +7

      @@JoE_Songs apartheid is a hella exhausting topic

    • @Musicmelishere
      @Musicmelishere 4 дні тому +3

      @@JoE_Songs 😂😂😂😂 No worries. I write long replies too. Repeating yourself comes with the territory of being liked by many. When you open up, it is only natural for others to want to know more if they like what you showed them. The issue is, many will have their individualized but similar questions concerning what you opened up about, which will cause the person to often find themselves repeating their statements. I deal with this issue when teaching university students, but I am used to it since it comes with the job. Trevor should be used to it by now. If he is not, then I feel sorry for him.

    • @joannebaker4925
      @joannebaker4925 4 дні тому +6

      ​@JoE_Songs Really! You're entitled to your thoughts and beliefs. So, I also have the right to disagree. Some of your comments are so disheartening. He has every right to speak on his life experiences, write about them, and feel the way he feels and you have every right to not comprehend but you can't dismiss it, Hello he lived it. You'sound like you're attempting to diminish his life experience and at the same time denigrate him. This is my take away from your comment. But by all means please feel free to correct me if I misinterpreted your comments in anyway.

    • @KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo
      @KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo 4 дні тому +1

      Right! I was like wait they died?? His grandma died not his parents

  • @aparnadhanasri
    @aparnadhanasri 13 днів тому +140

    Trevor never fails to tribute his mom Patrica especially when he knows she is not even going to be listening to these videos. This is what makes him the most humble and genuine human being ❤♥

  • @sm44july
    @sm44july 8 днів тому +23

    Trevor is verrrrrry introspective, a kind soul deep down you can tell. He thinks a lot, that's how you're able to carry yourself with such a demeanor, and even better that he's funny

  • @budwithunter
    @budwithunter 17 днів тому +148

    This was helpful in so many ways: ADHD, relationships, trauma history, cultural heritage... Trevor is a treasure, and so is Neal

    • @JaydevRaol
      @JaydevRaol 16 днів тому +8

      Yeah, they covered a lot of things that were both meaningful and relatable on some level. Great conversation!

    • @susannet.401
      @susannet.401 14 днів тому +4

      I agree 💯

    • @rhiannablumberg4803
      @rhiannablumberg4803 9 днів тому +3

      100%

    • @debikala
      @debikala 17 годин тому +1

      I didn't realize solving puzzles is a symptom. At 56 I'm having the realization that I have ADHD.

  • @lorellmothiba444
    @lorellmothiba444 17 днів тому +173

    Not only is he funny but he is genuinely interesting. Thanks for having him Neal. ❤🌟

    • @Vinemaple41
      @Vinemaple41 11 днів тому

      He's funny? Not in the slightest. Otherwise bro wouldn't lose his job at The Daily Show. His ratings just suck ass lol

  • @JennyInTheHighCountry
    @JennyInTheHighCountry 15 днів тому +16

    Trevor’s era at TDS will always be an iconic era to me.
    He could talk about anything and I’d b intrigued about it.
    I find his perspectives quite interesting. Great interviewer, great laugh.

  • @gowithdflo
    @gowithdflo 14 днів тому +71

    "Your tank is always full when nothing is draining it." ...that was a word!!!

    • @Nics-D-Ace
      @Nics-D-Ace 4 дні тому +1

      This fanbase is insufferable, you all fancy your self philosophers
      Stay in your bubble for the sake of us all

    • @ebbyc1817
      @ebbyc1817 4 дні тому +3

      @@Nics-D-Ace .....and yet, here you are lol

    • @fluffyclouds555
      @fluffyclouds555 7 годин тому

      Who’s “us all”? Lol the hate watchers? Enjoy your self imposed suffering I guess

  • @user-ds6ov8jr5n
    @user-ds6ov8jr5n 10 днів тому +24

    Grandmothers saved so many remarkable people.

  • @will9001asd
    @will9001asd 17 днів тому +245

    Am I who I am because of all the things that happened to me?
    Or is who I am, the reason I survived all the things that happened to me.
    I'm never going to forget this food for thought, thank you so much.

    • @p4rt_t1me_g0d
      @p4rt_t1me_g0d 17 днів тому +16

      The simplest answer is both things are simultaneously true.
      You are the sum of your experiences and your innate personality helps you cope.

    • @Jonni1027
      @Jonni1027 17 днів тому +9

      Me too…isn’t that just fascinating?! I’m thinking that who I am/was was the reason I survived.❤

    • @a2pet
      @a2pet 17 днів тому +2

      Yeah, because nature vs nurture has never been explored.

    • @declanpatrickmacmanus5416
      @declanpatrickmacmanus5416 16 днів тому +2

      @@a2pet 😅

    • @pappaOfswe
      @pappaOfswe 16 днів тому +2

      *trigger varning in read more*
      I have no idea.
      Children can get raped and turn out to be pedofiles themself or they might be the one who kills the pedofile in prison.
      Idk wtf the desider is…

  • @marisaveeb
    @marisaveeb 10 днів тому +69

    Trevor, I have had that same thought. Fellow South African, but white, so while I didn't suffer the same as you did, we were dirt poor and had our own issues. The abuse didn't make me who I am, I broke the cycle because I am who I am. But like Bill said, who could I have been without the abuse? I have a 17 year old daughter who reminds me so much of a young me, but I've raised her in a healthy environment and by God this child is going places. How different a life would I have had if I was raised the same? The fact that we are at the mercy of others at our most vulnerable when we are children is something that has always baffled me.

    • @sheeshnotnice
      @sheeshnotnice 9 днів тому +6

      Sending a virtual hug of "ubuntu" to you. Your comment really connected with me. I'm not a parent, but I empathize.

    • @mickeyoshea2035
      @mickeyoshea2035 6 днів тому

      White folks seem incapable of not centerting themselves. Doesn't matter if the topic is about Black experience of the diaspora that literally does not apply to any non Black person.

    • @mickeyoshea2035
      @mickeyoshea2035 6 днів тому

      White folks seem incapable of not centering themselves. Even when the topic is about Black experience in the diaspora that can never apply to or even be understood by non Black folks.

    • @fluffyclouds555
      @fluffyclouds555 7 годин тому

      Your daughter is fortunate to have you ❤

    • @mickeyoshea2035
      @mickeyoshea2035 6 годин тому

      As I said, but it was removed before, I'll say it again:
      White folks seem incapable of not centering themselves. Even and especially when the topic at hand is about the Black diaspora *experience.
      *An experience to which Whiteness no matter how poor, cannot compare. White folks can become wealthy and no longer be treated as less than. Y'all will never experience the dehumanization that us Black folks experience, which perists even if our economic status climbs the rungs of capitalism.

  • @hayatotheninja
    @hayatotheninja 17 днів тому +119

    I would love to just sit and talk with Trevor for hours and hours.

  • @deaconddd
    @deaconddd 13 днів тому +61

    “if your gonna oppress people at least tell them your oppressing them” Keep it 💯

    • @hildachebii4525
      @hildachebii4525 11 днів тому +2

      You can't tell them directly of course because you are to benefit.But at least don't block or delete the information from them. Give them a chance. You are also protecting yourself that way for Christ sake 😜😜😜😜

    • @waltciii3
      @waltciii3 8 днів тому

      @@hildachebii4525 Thank you oppressor! No I know...

  • @DannetteStrader
    @DannetteStrader 6 днів тому +10

    I love Trevor, I love the way he explained politics and then make a joke of it. I have never missed his show when he did the daily show. I call him my grandson. Trevor looks exactly like my grandson, they both have that low voice and smile. I hope one day they can meet.

  • @jaxb.8351
    @jaxb.8351 15 днів тому +50

    Trevor is one of my favorite entertainers. He’s endlessly relatable. Funny, intelligent. I could listen to him talk for hrs.

  • @Yourmission9
    @Yourmission9 17 днів тому +80

    Noah is great at explaining difficult subjects with ease

  • @BecomingThePath
    @BecomingThePath 9 днів тому +16

    I love that « collateral damage » wasn’t a good example for Trevor Noah. Such high ethical standards.
    It is never okay to kill innocents in order to kill a killer. Otherwise we are just as bad as the killer. We are playing God by choosing whose life has value.
    Great podcast! Great guest and good job with the interview.

    • @Kate-ms5js
      @Kate-ms5js 8 днів тому +2

      Agreed. I adore his ethical standards.

  • @CraigSmith-qq3sr
    @CraigSmith-qq3sr 17 днів тому +27

    Trevor has one of those voices that you can listen to all day. He's a genuine,great human being 😊

  • @andreamontufasable
    @andreamontufasable 15 днів тому +44

    As a psychologist/teacher, I’ve learned more from this podcast, Blocks, and comedians about psychology than in school. Great talks!

    • @uchechukunwachuku3117
      @uchechukunwachuku3117 12 днів тому +6

      well this is a problem. i can’t dive into it tho

    • @healingartsandstars
      @healingartsandstars 5 днів тому

      So glad YOU watched it and Groked it. Hope it rubs off on your colleagues. ;)

  • @dano6306
    @dano6306 16 днів тому +13

    Holy smokes that entire section of “Depression & ADHD” stopped me dead in my tracks. I’ve never heard someone put into words SO WELL what it’s like in my head. Goddamn Trevor is a word smith. Sensational conversation, Neil!

  • @s3cr3tsquar333
    @s3cr3tsquar333 День тому +2

    trevor's thoughts on being drunk in love were poetry. how profoundly put. beautiful

  • @courto1308
    @courto1308 11 днів тому +19

    Trevor just has such a good way of taking abstract concepts we all innately know of/about society and distilling them into understandable metaphors or hypotheticals that also introduce nuance in a way that may alternately resonate strongly or surprise with a new perspective. It's delightful.

  • @christinakoch5697
    @christinakoch5697 17 днів тому +38

    This episode was fantastic! I got goosebumps when Trevor described his mother's inspiration and sacrifices. He is so relatable, and I'm so glad he did this.

    • @jynx2501
      @jynx2501 17 днів тому

      I can't relate to any of his stories. Wooo, White male, genetic lottery!

  • @naobolliger9188
    @naobolliger9188 13 днів тому +17

    Trevor is deeeeeeeep❤😂 I just admire his intelligence and humor. How interesting human being he is❤😎

  • @SocialMistica
    @SocialMistica 14 днів тому +22

    Trevor is an amazing human being, and I love the way he sees things! About the transformation of trauma, I’m with him, I think we already are who we are, and we survive just because!

    • @steggopotamus
      @steggopotamus 9 днів тому +2

      I agree. We start out strong. Life tests that strength and leaves scars. And then, we have to heal.

  • @Nine4Gy
    @Nine4Gy 15 днів тому +9

    I like how Trevor corrected him to use another example in place of the bombs 💣

  • @IzzyHasADHD
    @IzzyHasADHD 16 днів тому +32

    36:12 Felt like that, having a child. You think you're healed until there's a tiny version of you talking back at you 😂 but then you get to see endless love shaping a life without trauma and it's beautiful. As a fellow ADHD brain, diagnosed at 32, I wish you well on your journey, Trevor Noah!

    • @chelseap2071
      @chelseap2071 13 днів тому +5

      Just before this time stamp where is telling the story of listening to his friend talk about the buildup in the shower, I literally nearly started crying because it was SUCH a perfect description, plus he gave a very real tip of what a caring friend or family member can do to help us without judgement. Because the most important part of that story is that Trevor was INVESTED in his friend's problem. He CARED. His whole train of thought that followed was literally about trying to figure out what what happening to his friend and how he might help. But 90% of people just see us go down that rabbit hole and immediately judge us and accuse us of not caring. It was so healing to hear that and I want to send the clip to everyone I know.

  • @urbntvuk
    @urbntvuk 16 днів тому +17

    Seriously. The most spiritually uplifting, inspiring and motivational conversation I've ever had the pleasure of listening to. Thank you Neal. Thank you Trevor. Ppl like you give me hope that the future my children will experience as adults will actually allow them to thrive.

  • @p.l6231
    @p.l6231 10 днів тому +8

    Trevor is right about South African food. I visited for 2 wks last year in various parts: Johannesburg, Durban, Richard’s Bay, Empageni, St. Lucia.. the cuisine is all over the place from breakfast, lunch and dinner. Usually, food is one of the pillars that defines a place but it was hard to understand the country when it came to the food. I did, however enjoy the people, Zulu culture, the singing and just how beautiful the land is.

  • @andrewveto
    @andrewveto 17 днів тому +22

    This was probably the best podcast for Neal.

  • @susannet.401
    @susannet.401 14 днів тому +14

    Genuinely, this pod/conversation is a therapy session for me.. I feel seen and heard on so many levels, I understand certain things in me better And I know it’s not just me .. Trevor has the ability to break down and understand things in a way nobody can 🙌🏼👏🏼🔥

  • @gurp8051
    @gurp8051 16 днів тому +14

    living with elderly people who loved watching him on the daily show was always interesting because Trevor has a way of word walking around a potentially abrasive topic but then can still rein it back in to the point in a way that still hits but reduces the immediate dissociation i see a lot of older people go into when their world view is challenged and actually keeps them open to rethinking a bit its kind of amazing.

  • @apkanalyze3623
    @apkanalyze3623 17 днів тому +20

    I am going to watch at 0.25 speed, I don’t want this episode to finish

  • @spidrawebster
    @spidrawebster 17 днів тому +10

    This is the best episode of Blocks I've yet seen. Thank you so much for having Trevor and thank you Trevor for being on.

  • @gulleysoul187
    @gulleysoul187 17 днів тому +25

    I have been watching Blocks for a while now. This one, hands down, is my fave. Trevor hit on a lot of things that resonated with me. I feel like he was reading my journal lol😅.

  • @Chelts
    @Chelts 17 днів тому +46

    The section about communication and dealing with careless communicators is my biggest hurdle in life.

    • @mojonichols8826
      @mojonichols8826 5 днів тому +1

      It's hard, you need a tribe, I don't have it, but I did, now I have a service dog. Find something.

  • @CatFish107
    @CatFish107 16 днів тому +12

    Hoooooooooooly smokes, 34 minutes, and Trevor's explanation of a conversation is exactly the experience. I have had so much trouble in meetings with the same mental process. (Late diagnosis, too)

  • @TheOldHippiebilly
    @TheOldHippiebilly 17 днів тому +26

    What a great comic and wonderful human being. Trevor is not only highly intelligent but also incredibly sensitive and insightful. I totally agree with him that almost all human conflict of ANY kind is rooted in misunderstanding and/or faulty communication.
    Excellent conversation-- best yet in the Blocks series. ❤

  • @Lifeof728
    @Lifeof728 12 днів тому +5

    I could listen to Trevor speak his mind endlessly

  • @DrewMikeSpoon
    @DrewMikeSpoon 17 днів тому +16

    Easily one of the best of the year, & I don’t say that lightly.
    Everyone knows Trevor’s story to a degree but this opened him up so much more & I just love you both so much.
    Thank you.

  • @marquitohartman
    @marquitohartman 12 днів тому +6

    What a wonderful conversation this was. Neal and Trevor are two of the people I most admire in the world. I am currently writing a book about my experience working as a physician in South Africa many years ago and just listening to Trevor brings so many more memories. I wish I could have one day the opportunity to meet him in person.

  • @iamsaaw
    @iamsaaw 17 днів тому +17

    This might be one of the best, if not the best episode you've done so far. The conversation is effortlessly natural, which obviously comes from a pretty deep friendship. Thanks for this one Neal & Trevor.

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr День тому +1

    My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!❤

  • @birichinaxox9937
    @birichinaxox9937 12 днів тому +5

    Trevor is always so interesting to listen too. Completely explained my pet peve of "trauma made me who i/ you are" nope. Different ppl are impacted differently to come out functioning and successfully is are the lucky few. The huge collateral damage done and ppl that have worked hard to be well deserve all the credit not the monsters/ systems that hurt them in the first place.

  • @sneetchyone
    @sneetchyone 17 днів тому +18

    this was one of the best episodes because of your friendship and how just awesome Trevor is - he's sort of a sage.

  • @markusvurrgh4549
    @markusvurrgh4549 17 днів тому +15

    Trevor Noah’s communication and honesty makes me feel less broken. Thank you both for sharing the conversation/interaction.

  • @vanessawhitneypro
    @vanessawhitneypro 17 днів тому +37

    Thoughtful conversation… Thanks Neal and Trevor!

  • @franciet99
    @franciet99 10 днів тому +5

    This conversation made me feel so very normal. Trevor’s viewpoint on so many topics is so interesting!❤

  • @Eirikkanya
    @Eirikkanya 9 днів тому +4

    Trevor Noah, the Great Philosopher of the 21st Century. Love you Trev!

  • @JeremyForTheWin
    @JeremyForTheWin 17 днів тому +50

    ADHD is also perfect for comedians because we are lateral and relational thinkers to the point where we notice connections between things that a lot of people don't see.

    • @Kzds4909
      @Kzds4909 17 днів тому +3

      That's interesting. I have adhd and that makes a lot sense to me .

    • @TheVickster321
      @TheVickster321 17 днів тому

      That is so interesting and made sense to me immediately!

    • @nathanhickey8932
      @nathanhickey8932 17 днів тому

      We?

    • @JeremyForTheWin
      @JeremyForTheWin 17 днів тому +1

      @@nathanhickey8932 yes?

    • @nickmessick5471
      @nickmessick5471 17 днів тому

      This is just entertainment, it's not that deep. Nothing they've said hasn't been said before. They're not philosophical gurus, they're comedians. It's fun to watch tho

  • @kellikakes81
    @kellikakes81 9 днів тому +4

    17:55 (actually starting a bit before): I've always thought the same re: conflict is a result in 'language' breakdown, which is why I love MBTI (but studying the cognitive functions). It is a framework i can use to better understand and communicate with others. My entire existence -- I believe -- is about understanding people, for whatever reason, so studying how to communicate with different people will always ignite me.

  • @JustHereBecause
    @JustHereBecause 12 днів тому +6

    I love this man. I hope to meet him someday! Trevor you are such a gem to the world! I hope you are well! You are making a difference in this world, I hope you know! ❤

  • @waakdfms2576
    @waakdfms2576 16 днів тому +5

    What a treasure trove the world has in Trevor -- both of you guys are priceless. Love your podcast, Neal. Thanks for the laughs and amazing conversation....keep it going. Peace and love to all...

  • @chuckwestworld
    @chuckwestworld 7 днів тому +2

    I love Trevor Noah. His book was a fascinating read. He has one of the most unique perspectives I've ever heard. His life story needs to be a documentary.

  • @voice_of_a_little_lady
    @voice_of_a_little_lady 17 днів тому +14

    The sourdough analogy was a great one.

  • @bw13579_
    @bw13579_ 12 днів тому +3

    Trevor is full of wisdom, I admire his intelligence 😊

  • @LaughterSmith
    @LaughterSmith 6 днів тому +2

    I'm glad I watched this, as a Comedian, I use to say to myself how could I be depressed, I make others laugh. But if Trevor Noah can be depressed, then anybody can be depressed, then nobody is safe from depression, then that means, DEPRESSION is the BYTCH. Hehe.

  • @freeflow2
    @freeflow2 17 днів тому +9

    This is one of the best conversations I have ever witnessed. Thank you both so much.

  • @dm0016
    @dm0016 17 днів тому +5

    As a south African fan of Noah I can say this was so enlightening. The last bit about his DNA.. really made me think

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr День тому +1

    Of course, I don’t know Trevor personally, but he is a warm, kind and generous man.❤

  • @dubravka07
    @dubravka07 10 днів тому +3

    I love Trevor, obsessed with his brain and humor and read his book years ago several times! Such an intelligent and handsome man! ❤️

  • @MutethyaIVIA-mc4mo
    @MutethyaIVIA-mc4mo 6 днів тому +3

    For anyone who might care for this clarification, 'if you are from Kenya, you are Kenyan-which is a whole lot of ethnicities and tribes, and you don't speak Kenyan but might speak Swahili which is a common unifying language for the 45+ tribes who ideally have their own distint language.'

    • @CocoBanks
      @CocoBanks 2 дні тому

      Thank you! Came to the comments to say just that!

  • @eweisenfeld3070
    @eweisenfeld3070 13 днів тому +5

    wow, the part about being drunk in love and owning that it's not how you usually behave and may not continue to in the future. so well explained.

    • @Kate-ms5js
      @Kate-ms5js 8 днів тому

      I will do this in my next relationship! On point! Don’t set them up for unreachable expectations.

  • @ramanpost
    @ramanpost 17 днів тому +7

    Neal, your podcast is the real deal. Super interesting, great questions. Your interviewing skills are genuine, relatable and engaging. Love your podcast.

  • @fizzy3949
    @fizzy3949 4 дні тому

    I love the fact Trevor can express such deep issues in a light hearted manner. It's not about making anyone the enemy but getting those who don't get it to SEE it.

  • @smileawhile23
    @smileawhile23 День тому

    I could listent to Trevor talk non stop. He is so insightful its crazy.

  • @IselaAvila
    @IselaAvila 9 днів тому +3

    I can hear the friendship and how close you two are in the answers. Really wonderful to see so much honesty. Great work Neal! ❤

  • @josephbeavers6060
    @josephbeavers6060 10 годин тому

    Trevor Noah has taught me something every time I have heard him speak.
    Thank you

  • @jacobjohnson8686
    @jacobjohnson8686 3 дні тому +2

    This was a superb-quality interview. Lots of deep topics to give anyone food for deep thought, some genius humor, and Trevor put words to concepts that I've been struggling to express or even understand within myself for a long time. He also explained things from his life experiences that offered insights which others like me probably never would have thought of, deep within our own personal bubbles.
    I'm surprised it has a slightly higher-than-usual dislike ratio-why would that be??

  • @cristymartinez6135
    @cristymartinez6135 7 днів тому +2

    "Generally...nobody should ever take for granted...to live in a place, where the assumption, is were you belong.........."

  • @whizzkid182
    @whizzkid182 17 днів тому +5

    Best blocks to date, Trevor has a way with just how he speaks to draw you in, I really enjoyed this episode, thank you 🙏

  • @swiftsurerunner
    @swiftsurerunner 17 днів тому +24

    i've been waiting for the Trevor Noah blocks since it started

  • @cirquemedia
    @cirquemedia 17 днів тому +4

    Neal and Trevor's Masterclass on "Traumedy" (Trauma + Comedy).... Eye opening with class and sophistication... Great vid.

  • @LadyShiver
    @LadyShiver 9 днів тому +2

    Trevor is so damn wise. I admire him for that so much! I've never seen someone so casually wise.

  • @ryandstailey
    @ryandstailey 17 днів тому +15

    I like how Trevor says "intentions are important" without literally saying it when he discusses language breakdowns.

  • @dedwards2385
    @dedwards2385 10 днів тому +2

    I have a similar experience growing up in the Caribbean. Great way to explain in Trevor

  • @timothyjohnson6258
    @timothyjohnson6258 10 днів тому +2

    I wish I knew him. I bet I could spend days talking with him. Much admiration and respect for him. Thanks Neal.

  • @rethabilephume.5133
    @rethabilephume.5133 10 днів тому +2

    Man, you gotta love this guy. He's such an awesome person. ❤❤

  • @fluffyclouds555
    @fluffyclouds555 7 годин тому

    As a fellow seemingly crusty ass sourdough loaf who is actually soft, pillowy, and delicious on the inside, Trevor seems like an amazing friend who can genuinely see Neal’s true self. I wish I had a friend like this.

  • @jameswalterclark3696
    @jameswalterclark3696 15 днів тому +3

    Loved the podcast and just want to hang a light on how deftly they played off each other. Neal, great choices as an interviewer - when to speak, tone, great prompts - and Trevor, as ever, a very thoughtful and eloquent guest with a very graceful approach. Thanks both (and team) for a great listening experience.

  • @isophistchambers6694
    @isophistchambers6694 17 днів тому +2

    Trevor speaking of not knowing how to ask for help has given me a new way to express myself in group and individual. Thank you both

  • @boysagainstdepression
    @boysagainstdepression 17 днів тому +3

    This man really understands humans. Great podcast!!❤

  • @lalah9481
    @lalah9481 16 днів тому +5

    What a beautiful mind. You two were growing in front of our eyes-in real time; it takes repetition and reinforcement to have inner growth, wisdom, and peace.
    Just lovely to experience.
    Thank you.💖✨💖

  • @Kris10ten10M
    @Kris10ten10M 4 дні тому

    I admire Trevor Noah so much. His life story and perspectives on the world and life are phenomenal.

  • @MattyK73
    @MattyK73 14 днів тому +3

    I have to be honest. I have been putting off watching this episode because (ashamed of this) I thought I would hear Trevor talk about things that I really would not connect with. Boy, I was wrong! Great interview!

  • @kylegordon00
    @kylegordon00 17 днів тому +21

    A diagnosis is significant because it helps to inform the conclusions that you draw about yourself. You've still left the milk out and it still has to be thrown away... but now it's just about the milk, instead of being about the milk AND about how the shame I feel about how inconsiderate I am to deprive my spouse of cereal this morning.

    • @JeremyForTheWin
      @JeremyForTheWin 17 днів тому +5

      Difference between guilt and shame. Guilt is about something you did, shame is about who you are

    • @noreendunne431
      @noreendunne431 9 днів тому +1

      I love your explanation! 🤩

    • @mojonichols8826
      @mojonichols8826 5 днів тому

      And an asshole smacks you upside the head.... But he's still a person that was probably put through worse. Compassion ❤

    • @mojonichols8826
      @mojonichols8826 5 днів тому

      I try to frame my guilt as regret

    • @mojonichols8826
      @mojonichols8826 5 днів тому +1

      Similar but regret you can move on from

  • @CarolinaJoubert
    @CarolinaJoubert 3 дні тому

    These two were really enjoyable to listen to. It was refreshing to see men freely talk about mental health and celebrating their growth. Thanks for making and sharing this with us. ❤

  • @Roxisound
    @Roxisound 12 днів тому +2

    I’m doing my Masters right now to study the prevalence of neurodivergence in creative fields! As a musician with ADHD myself I’m super passionate about it! Such a fan!

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr День тому

    My two nephews who are law enforcement officers. We are very proud of them!

  • @rogersockwell
    @rogersockwell 16 днів тому +1

    This ran way deeper than expected and then somehow got to be moving and spiritually uplifting. Full of admiration for both these guys and the show.

  • @saorispencer3392
    @saorispencer3392 12 днів тому +2

    This much wisdom at his age is just astonishing. Thank you for sharing your gift. 🙏 ❤

  • @Slicktycoon
    @Slicktycoon 9 днів тому +2

    This is pure gold 🔥🔥

  • @ingalaurinaekha5588
    @ingalaurinaekha5588 3 дні тому

    Stopped listening when Neil compared “hardships makes a great comedian” with “bombing area to fight terrorism.” Respect to Trevor for keeping it straight. Will listen another podcast featuring you, Trevor. We missed you.

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro 6 днів тому +1

    I am so glad this showed up in my queue. The whole ADHD piece…my goodness…such a familiar description…has me thinking. This was such a NEEDED conversation!! Thank you Neal!!

  • @olgagraham1760
    @olgagraham1760 6 днів тому +1

    The relief of having one less thing to worry about. A little less anx

  • @HM_CKB
    @HM_CKB 7 днів тому +1

    Brilliant convo! Happiness and ease to you both! 🌞
    Thank you especially for the new concept to mull over-“I made it through because this is who I am.” There’s a ton more agency to it than the more common, “I am who I am today because of what I’ve been through.” Powerful concept. 🌱

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr День тому

    I already left a comment about the importance of ancestry. We adopted our two sons when they were newborns. Their birth mothers will always have a special place in our hearts.💕

  • @carsonwieker
    @carsonwieker 17 днів тому +5

    Incredible interview and convo. Much appreciated. Love Trevor and Neal's connection. Cheers!

  • @sheefree
    @sheefree 9 днів тому +1

    Imagine being a tiny, sparkly fairy playing in Trevor's head of hair, like an enchanted forest 💚💐🌲🌳✨

  • @tereasia
    @tereasia 17 днів тому +11

    Loved all of this so much

  • @BlackGirlMarvel
    @BlackGirlMarvel 11 днів тому +1

    Trevor Noah speaks and I listen. He always finds a way to explain in such a universal way. He has a way of helping me during random times. God bless him. Thank you.