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"How we talk to our children become their inner voice." So true.
Yes
Though I actually managed to rewrite my inner voice entirely different from my parents'
This is true because self worth I believe is established during early childhood.
What no inner voice pre child? What about da voice of non parental humans?
Have you heard of "deepadees" ?
@@c.guydubois8270 what that means is the way we talk to our children leaves an impression. Hence the way our parents talk to us left an impression that develops our inner voice either positive or not.
"Never forget what a person says to you is anger because when angry people speak the truth "
My friend's mom said " I hate you ! I should've killed you when you were in my belly " when she was angry. She died trying to save him from an accident .
She loved him so much yet he held on to those words of anger all along and refused to even talk to her properly . Only after his mom was in coma, he realized how much his mom loved him . He now sufers from chronic depression born out of guilt and had to be hospitalized several times.
Please please don't hold on to what people said about you in anger . Those are never the true emotions they hold towards you. This psychological fact is WRONG .
Thank you. I agree too.
Absolutely. I have been goaded to a point beyond fury in the past and said things i had never even thought before.
A person including Mother is not in sense or balanced when upset or angry. If they were how could they be angry . A person or mother is incoherent N illogical but since angry ,...has to say something . It reflects their state of unbalanced mind .
All angry Indian mothers shout at their kids( for whom they r ready to die ANYTIME) N tell them to die or get lost . THEY DEFINITELY DONT MEAN THAT ......I am 49 , married for last 22 yrs N my wife does the same to Me N kids N she defnitely does't mean it ......
I agree 100% ... I told my daughter I hated her and I did not mean that it was out of anger because I was being intimidated .... I hated what she was saying to me and how she was acting ... She told me she hated me too 🙄 I feel like she does hate me and perhaps that's why that came out at that time she has been treating me that way and I do not know how to handle that ☺️... God forgive me 🙏
In anger people may say any thing.. it is only bcz of uncontrollable emotions couse many reasons.. .. it is far away from truth .. only bcz they don't think the right word or not at that time.
Over explaining things can be a sign that a person has been a victim of gaslighting.
Makes a lot of sense.
Or low self-esteem
Or has been neglected growing up and thus over shares because of a lack of boundaries that they failed to learn, albeit at no fault of their own
Or because the person that your trying to explain something to just don't get it..
Truth is that sometimes, people don't understand what you are trying to explain because they don't want to know. Best to move on or spend more time with receptive people
"Never forget what a person says to you in anger because when angry people speak the truth" This doesn't work for all. I usually say the opposite when I'm angry
I've known both to be true, I've seen angry people reveal a truth often unspoken, but I've also known people that while angry will say anything, having nothing to do with the truth, often even the opposite of the truth, just to hurt or shock someone.
No it’s THEIR truth of how they felt about you all along.
@MT Time01
Stop with this this “their truth” nonsense. It’s bs…😒
@@mttime0116 read me comment.
Switch the anger out with alcohol and then that saying is true. Me too when im angry i insult people
Fact:- U know u r wasting ur time but u r still doing it
So true.
I finally stopped wasting my time last night. Good bye.
So true,It cannot just be controlled.
Itna guilt dene ki zaroorat thi Nahi waise
Chalo itna guilt liya hai thoda aur Sahi 😂
True, I to end up wasting time of my day. 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬
@lou daveychill yaar tumne toh pura lesson hi likh diya 👍👍
I don't think angry people always speak the truth. When you're angry, it's easy to exaggerate because you get carried away with emotion. Also you may say hurtful things to punish the other person for disappointing you but those hurtful things might not be true. Later when you've both calmed down, you might say, "I don't really think you're the most horrible person in the whole world but I was very upset about xyz." Then you can talk things over and decide how to get on better.
I used to have a friend like that
I agree. This video lost credibility when it made that statement.
ye the video lost all its credibility with its first statement
Ye
💯
When I text someone or call someone after a long time not talking to them it’s because I want to talk to them it’s because I miss them and I love them. A lot of these “Things” are wrong.
I'm sure your going to ask a question Sooner or later silly so it's still falls in reason
Or it’s because they want something and they typically only call you only when they want something
Or you want to tell them you love and miss them!
I often think about someone when he or she is inside my mind and becomes part of me and I start to question him or her. Also if I get opposite idea from somebody i touch my ear. Everybody does that. When you touch yourbear means that you are thinking about somebody. But it's always difficukt to call to that person because he or she might have a new life with kids or lot of work or maybe that person has changed and you don't want to know what he thinks now because you habe adopted a lesson from him thay he does not use anymore. Also we didn't have phones in the stone age so we don't always call somebody who is not part of our everyday life
They will text u or call u when they need u
Fact 1: LIE!
Dude when I'm angry, I speak stupid and rubbish
I know am just trying to make people around me mad ...... Am just talking cause I can...😹😹😹
Talk about stringing together a bunch of memes and quotes. Thumbs down for lack of originality
Understood ! Try just being silent and walk away. It’s hard but you’d be the person who won the battle.
That's right. Anger makes us say things we should'nt had said.
Fortune cookie sayings-
"When asked, people (who) keep on elaborating why & how they did that, it means they are lying"... not always true. I'm, by nature, a very honest & communicative person, & I have a problem with over explaining myself. This is ultimately a character defect in me, often the shorter & more succinct explanation is plenty. People often want an answer or explanation, but don't intend to invest so much time or attention... my elaboration looks desperate for attention & needy. I know that some liars do this, but not everyone over elaborating is lying. Sometimes the person volunteering very little detail or information is the liar... js
These facts (as most psychological studies) pertain to the majority... And assume that people realize there are always exceptions. So all of these facts are in regard to most people, most of the time... but never all people all of the time.
@@technerdchic Very true. Stereotyped assertions speak to probabilities of a certain trait or traits, behavior or behaviors. In the big picture/macrocosm they do reflect tendencies or trends, but aren't typically assertable in the cases of individuals. Some of these premises are more true than others. Many liars subscribe to the less U can say the better. Less statements/lies to keep track of, less chances of outing oneself to their deceptions..
I completely agree with you, I’m the same! This was the only one I didn’t agree with in the video…it’s not 100% accurate
That's so true, I over explain things not because I'm lying, and I'm learning not to anymore whatever you want to think of me, by all means do, because it feels as though they own your life or something and sometimes it comes from a place of loneliness.
That may also suggest you experienced some Narcissistic demoralisation at some point. Cptsd, social anxiety and over explaining are entirely normal outcomes. It's less a 'character flaw', just something that can be better understood, processed, processed. Richard Grannon is among one of the better ones, imo, that may be helpful.
"If someone calls or text you after a long time it means they want to ask you something." It happens to me alot, they ask money or things or ask me to do things, sometimes i felt happy cuz they put me as a helper, but sometimes I'm sad cuz it felt like being used, cuz they only come when they need something from you.
Same here.
Truuuuu narcissist always swing back around.. Start saying No to everything and they will show there True Colors 🚨
Booty call :P
Tell them no happens to me even from my own family members.
My last boss on earth texted me just yesterday after a span of 3 years. I felt aback and overwhelmed. It's amazing!
I explain myself a lot to people i love....and i dont lie when i do that..
Agree
OK thanks
The ones Who are really for you. Will not need one.. Trust and believe🙏
@@prisrh8449 exactly
I wish you get someone who really values you understands you and deserves you ❤
"When people text you after a long time they want to ask you something.." No shit Sherlock!
I don't think this is true
Apparently you didn’t read the comment properly.
🤣
I know that was the stupidest thing ive read 😂
Lobo - They ACTAULLY WANT TO ASK YOU FOR SOMETHING!!!!
When mom is angry she said to me "son of dog"
Bruh
Answer it "mom of dog"
So funny. I love dogs.
😁
That sounds hurtful. Maybe remember that people do say some hurtful things when they get angry but it is not how they feel all the time. Maybe reply to the anger, not the words e.g. "I can hear you're angry, Mom, but I'm doing my best." or "That hurts when you say that, Mom."
" if you stay calm and don't react while someone is yelling at you, it makes them angrier and feel Shame".
Yep.
Good!!!
Absolutely true. As a gangstalking victim, I have learned that this one's a gem! Blessings upon you dear. 😁💝
"Your mind can sense someone staring at you even when asleep"
My night-terrors: *"Yup."* 👌🏼👀
😂😂😭😭😭
😂😂
My Dog used to wake me up at night just sitting next to the bed and staring at me when he needed to go out to the yard. Never whined or anything just stared then would wag his tail when I opened my eyes. He had me trained lol.
I can feel the air pressure changing when another person walks into the room. When asleep. Not all the time. Depends on how I feel. Rested or unrested . Sad ,grief or general not well. But when I'm connected to myself & nature. I know & feel my surroundings. I'm at my best when I'm in nature. That's where I belong. People are apart of nature.
That was so creepy
Especially when it's a demon'👹😁
After twenty years my high school bff texted me. She had come back to live near her old mother after her husband died. She was just trying to reconnect. She didn't ask me anything except could she take me to lunch. It was like where we left off years ago.
She wanted to "ask" for your friendship ;)
Beautiful she remembered the time spent with you
Please remember 🌭>🍑=🎉👶
When angry people speak it comes from the Heart. Not the Tongue. Sometimes people never think before they say anything.
Things said in anger are true when apology isn’t given. You know then they
meant what they said. In their mind they don’t apologize because they feel you deserved it. Run to nearest exit.
Actually things set an anger are true even when an apology is given. They are true in that moment at least because that is what the person feels he is feeling at that moment. Whether or not that feeling persists or even was correct is irrelevant. It's whatever the person feeling it perceives it is at the time. Everybody experiences this. But most understand anger and the feelings it can create in momentary instances. That psychological fact happens to be true,. But it's important to understand that these are fleeting moments and feelings... And they usually pass completely once the person calms down. in the moment however, the person is being very truthful about what they believe they are feeling. Almost every time.
@@technerdchic And there is still a need to apologize for things said in anger. When
no apology is given it seems the person doesn’t care if they have hurt the other
person.
@@dannymeyer3256 All I was pointing out to you was that this particular fact was referring specifically to an, often temporary moment of anger... And stating that in that particular moment, the person is being truthful. Anger in a relationship tends to further accentuate and even exaggerate any past or minor negative feelings or views of the person the anger is directed at. So if a husband gets angry at his wife, then something as minor as an annoying habit of biting her nails can seem like an intolerable offense when it's being thought about while in intense anger... And when he expresses his "annoyance" toward her about it... "Your nail biting is making me CRAZY!" ... His actual level of irritation may feel and be expressed in what you think is a much exaggerated way... But in that moment... He truly feels it's that bad and it's driving him to the nuthouse!! Whether it's a fact is irrelevant... Because he's sharing what he perceives it is that he's feeling in that moment... So it's his truth... Truth and fact are not the same. So he feels something he perceives as crazy-makkng madness... And says what he's feeling... Truth. Until, of course, he calms down (and realizes he's been biting his nails while trying to calm down!) Lol!
Point is... This particular psychological fun fact is solid and can be trusted to be accurate most of the time. At least, so long as you take it on face value and don't project any after thought to it like how we feel afterward when no longer angry. Because this fact wasn't about that and only stated what it was referring to... During times of anger. Period.
@@technerdchic Your response appears to be defensive. I was simply urging the need to apologize when saying bad words whether they were meant to hurt or simply said due to some frustration unrelated. I never meant to offend you in any way.
Good explanation.
mmmm, I don't know about the texting one. I recently texted a few people whom I haven't spoken with in years,, and it was only to tell them that I was thinking about them and that I hope all is well. I left it at that as I didn't have the need or desire to say anything more than that.
Perhaps by hoping all is well with them, you were asking how they are doing. I guess
You sound like a very kind person. Good for you. Problem with psychology is ghat not everyone fits on the box.
I have had people doing the same to me, while I wanted to continue the conversation further on to tighten the bonds that have become loose over time only to be left on read.
@@sun.7231 Sounds like you thought their reaching out to you was an invitation to reconnect, but that was not their intent, nor did they want to.
Wow. ☹
@@Kendall42971 Yeah I kind of get their cues. Now I take notes of them and make sure I don't repeat my mistake while still being open to any approach but not overdoing it
The part about people feeling ashamed later is absolutely true. They taught us that in customer service; and I use it in everyday life too.👌
“If someone text you after a long time, they want to ask you something.”
That’s generally how it works.
The statement about your mind being able to feel or sense someone staring at you even if you are asleep is very true. When I was about 9 or 10 yrs old, we had just moved to Mississippi.. and moved into this new house.. I was asleep and while I was, my mom went somewhere to do something and left me and my 2 brothers at home alone. Well, my stupid brothers left the front door and back doors open and were playing outside some where while I was still asleep that morning and I don't know how this guy got into our house but he did and he hid behind a door in my room and was staring at me in bed.. I sensed something and woke up and sat up in the bed cause I was staring into the eyes of this strange guy who wasn't suppose to be in our house. I pulled the covers over myself and still in a bit of shock stared at this guy , luckily he never moved and suddenly my little brother stumbled in to the house and when he noticed the guy in the house he began to shout and throw things at the guy and chased him out our house. If my little brother hadn't come in the house when he did , I am afraid to even guess what that guy had on his mind..
"These psychological facts are not always 100% true...."
Especially the thumbnail thing.....
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Actually these kind of psuedopsychology always false
Or the going to sleep part... trouble with the internet everyone is a expert fully now
"Suggestions should be told humbly" 100 % true...
Alhamdulillah,thank you for the positive advice and positive thoughts to boost myself from negative thoughts and from negative perceptions only.
So true, when in a conversation and anyone turns in another direction from the person talking, is terribly rude. If a person interrupts as if you do not exist show them the door. I have put up with company doing this in my own home. No longer do I. When they speak to me I am silent..better to be silent than show my anger..I have Won 🤗
I'm glad you said interrupt as if "you do not exist" bc my friends and I interrupt each other all the time, but out of interest / related questions ! I am working on it though.
When people tell you who they really are, believe them.
There will be 2 reasons why u meet people👍☺️
What memes like this forget to mention is how narcissistic abusers act, and how their actions and speech stay with a person until the survivor gets therapy.
"If you approach two people in the middle of a convo and they only turn their torsos not their feet it mean they don't want you to join the convo", in other words, they don't want you to join them. And that's why i never want to join with others convo when they're not ask me to join or at least i need them to look at me and i'd know if they are welcoming me to join or not. Vibes won't lie.
That last one about approaching 2 ppl in a conversation and they only turn their torso towards you and not their feet, means they don't want you in the conversation....It's happened to me in various circumstances, and not all with the same ppl. I never understood why I was ignored or given a shitty look, I figured it meant get lost, you're not in the loop, or who asked you. It's no wonder I became a loner. I don't need a brick wall to fall on me... adios muchacho....
Ignoring anger thing is totally true. People tend to get overly dramatic and scream and yell all over social media. If someone is sending negative message again and again I simply ignore them. Not block, just be there....available for them to talk to and know, but only if they’re going to be kind. They’ll come back when they end up missing you. Always been my experience. You gotta give them time ALONE to be dramatic. They’ll realize that not getting a reaction isn’t fun at all
🔔 🔔 🔔! Yes. Happens to me often LOL! 😂
Thanks for share such beautiful video.☘️☘️☘️🌺
Actually I kind of agree with the first one. It goes right with me and people in my life.
It does depend on personality of people. The kind of anger most people are talking about isn't what is in the video. That's just a normal day to day fight over small things. It's during a serious anger situation (when both of you are serious and you know it), what one says are true things.
True.
What someone says in anger is the truth. I always believe this.
read me comment.
The fact I mostly relate to is:
Before you sleep 90% of our mind imagines what u want to happen.
I agree when somebody is angry and says hurtful things to you they are telling the truth because in that moment that’s how they feel about you right there and then but obviously they are being irrational and over exaggerating whether or not later on they regret what they said after they calm down and come to their senses and apologise and take it back but still they are telling the truth because that’s how they felt at the time.
"u can not multitask"
LE ME :- Eating chips, attending online class and procastinating as wasting my time on this video at the same time (including breathing and struggling with my own decisions)
Also me :- REALLY??!ಠ_ಠ
Eating chips 😂
And then you are not mindful of (focused on) any of the individual tasks. Studies have proven that multitasking isn't productive as was once thought.
I read somewhere years ago that said "If your child says he or she hates you, then you're doing a good job."
In anger human becomes devil....so its not true that he is really telling the truth... Most he speaks wrong n take wrong decision in anger
It's all about controlling senses and use ur senses to please God.. As simple as that!!
Nice thought people don't usually think of pleasing god.
While lying it takes much more effort on mind than speaking truth.. that's why they could speak truth in anger... also speaking wrong and lying is two different things
God is there because every night i get up at two or two thiry to pray togod up to five
You are amazing 😇
"Your brain can sense someone staring at u" no wonder I lose my walk after I've passed a group of people
true facts, nice video🥰
Blushing people are trustworthy and generous. I blushed the other day when waiting outside the shop for my husband. I received a complement on my ‘beauty’ I blushed, looked away and thought only of my husband thinking he would be the one who was complemented. I don’t take complements well and that quote made me feel good. I did tell my husband and and did tell him I blushed and looked away. ☺️
I also like the ‘how you speak to your children becomes the voice in their head. I’m currently in therapy for this reason. Thank you!
100% facts exactly 💯👏
I make hand gestures each time, and apparently I was called a Liar. 🙄
I have tried the silent method and it worked
My therapist does it all the time...
I learned from years of working with the public..if someone is angry don't raise your voice...agree with why they're angry and they will calm down ..if you raise your voice or argue you have lost the war....and you'll end up angry too...and my brother texted me after I had not seen or heard from him for 20 years 5 minutes after I was informed I had cancer.
He told me he had the feeling I needed him ..it was the best text I ever got
I naturally stay calm during " confrontation " the person pretty much always comes correct in our next encounter.
Thanks for the why
In anger he says the rest of my life doesn’t involve him. Time to move on yay
I got in touch with my old boss and after some time he let me know I did the right think to leave him .... It was a relief for me .
"When you ask someone a question and they give you a partial answer, keep silent and maintain eye contact, they will give you the full answer"
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If someone is angry at you,stay calm...and the next time , whenever they will be angry at someone else or on something which was not in your control,they will shout at you in order to take out their frustration,you will become their object of aggression...
Who ever is reading this ,please don't stay calm,show them that you won't accept this attitude... staying calm is okay at work places but not in a personal relationship.Trust me, I have faced this and I am telling from my experience.
If you feel you want to drink water ....it means you are feeling thirsty ...🎉
You can feel someone staring at you even when you are asleep...now I know why I wake up so often in the middle of the night..get up and close my bedroom door because I always feel that someone is staring at me from the hallway...
Creepy
I'm the one staring at u, but u cannot see me, coz I mastered the ability of standing incredibly still that I become invisible to the eye
@@princealharthy6674 ha ha lol😂😂😂
@@princealharthy6674 😂😂😂
Maybe you have ghosts in your house.
So true “how we talk to our children becomes their inner voice”
0:54 even every single moment. That's why I'm not thinking about anything 😂😂
I feel someone stare at me when I’m asleep, my cat.
Haha same!
The sleeping part about the mind being able to tell if someone is staring at you gave me major anxiety for some reason
Thats not true. I am like a wooden stick when i sleep. Once a lightning struck a tree right behind my house, and created loud sound, and i didnt wake up at all. But i will wake up when someone staring at me when i sleep ? Yeah right
I thought that was the creepiest thing
Has this happened to me nearly had a fright
My cat would often wake me in the morning- by sitting on my nightstand STARING at me.
Just one more proof for cats being jerks... 🤪
Awesome. Just enlightenment
if a person tries to talk to you after a long time... sometimes it also means they are missing you... and didnt talk for a long time beacause you didn't approach him or her...
I wonder if that’s true about when someone stares. I notice if I’m staring at someone in a crowd they often turn around and look straight at me!😬
Someone can be a block away. I'd be a horrible spy.
I stare into space sometimes.And anyone in that direction will look at me funny.
@@cynthiacrawford1573
I might not notice. When I stare into space, I really stare into space!
“You can not multi task”
**laughs in ADHD**
Multitasking causes too much stress. It is hard to focus and solve problems when multitasking. Feeling burnout and errors are likely to happen.
@@tektekdavid8263 multi tasking doesn't cause stress or confusion... because multitasking truly doesn't exist. you can do several tasks and succession one after the other and it could be really fast switching between the tasks but you can't actually multitask you can't actually do many tasks at one time. Don't believe me? Try to think of two different topics at exactly the same time. What you'll realize really quickly, is you have to alternate between them... All-be-it, very quickly, but you will only be able to think of each topic by focusing on each one seperately. So this one is true. Multi-tasking is actually impossible.
@@technerdchic have you worked in a hospital setting, particularly in the emergency room where multitasking is at times necessary to save peoples lives and time is a constraint? It is a normal physiological reaction to feel all sorts of emotions when multitasking is needed ( stress, confusion, feeling overwhelmed) especially when short of manpower and life of one or more are top priority. In the real world, multitasking happens, eventhough it should not be, and it is not healthy for our well being.
@@tektekdavid8263 actually no. Multitasking is not possible You're thinking about things such as tasks that are in a row of each other and are switched In and out from very very rapidly. But actually doing two things at one time is not possible You have to think of one and maybe quickly shift to the next and then shift back to the one but you're not ever doing two things at one time because it would be impossible Your mind can only focus on one thing at a time. To understand what I mean, you have to break down every little step in the task. There are several tasks within a task... break down to every single motion you have to make in order to complete a task within a task. Every single time you're doing anything you're only focused on one thing at a time. think about two different topics at exactly the same time Don't shift between them Don't think of one then switch to the next one then switch to the next one really fast. Think of them both at the exact same time... it is impossible.
You can't focus on two things at one time any more than you can be in two places at the same time. what most people think of as multitasking is actually just switching between tasks very rapidly so as to get them done at almost this exact same time. But the entire time they are doing those tasks, they are actually switching between them rapidly. They're not doing them at exactly the same time. I'm talking about when you break it down to the smallest details... This is what that particular fact is referring to.
delete the music
Jake Glenn - I agree. The background music in this meme is unnecessary and annoying.
Imagine jamming out to this in your car
i agree, it's annoying
I wonder what they put in those bg music 😓👽
Uh. You have the power to mute it.
Just Subscribed!! Great info.
"If someone text you after a long time, They want to ask you something" ??!! Well is this not just stating the obvious??!!🤣
Your mind can sense someone staring at you even when you are sleeping!
That would be so scary if I open my eyes and see a person whose 👀 r just looking at me.
Amazing 😻
How we speak to our children becomes their inner voice…powerful indeed.
"your mind can sense some1 staring at u even when asleep " ...That one just gave me the creeps . Does som1 else feel the same or is it.. just me ?
I literally freaked out.
@@pumpkindreamspice Same here
If that happens to me, I'm packing and moving elsewhere
The grammar, spelling and punctuation errors are a distraction!
Awesome 👍
Great list
When you search for wisdom on UA-cam, it means you're not wise!
Funny!
While this is a very interesting compilation, and I do appreciate it, I really wish punctuation and grammar had been checked for an easier read. Or maybe I'm just too picky.
lol I was looking for a comment about it. Thanks! People don't proof read these days, they assume they did it right the first time!
You're totally right.
I love nature. It is so honest. You look very relaxed and in a beautiful setting. A little like a fire breathing dragon with the cold exposing your breath🌲
' You can not multitask.'
Mom- 'Watch me do this.'
I don't move my hands while talking a true incident, I simply tell the truth.
I disagree with 'your' psychology in this instance. In one sense, when someone says something in anger.... that is how they feel... IN THAT MOMENT. But after, meditating making up for expressing those feelings they had in anger are gone, seems replaced by feeling of love & those are just as real. In fact, as humans we demonstrate an entire spectrum of feelings & emotions. Therefore, at times of anger, words of anger may be said & at joyful times, joy may be expressed. But to insinuate that because someone expresses anger when they are anger... making a FINAL decision that's that's who they are always, or maybe they said something they didn't mean. This kind of psychological typecast thinking is what's really killing humanity. As humans, we have unlimited potential. To typecast humanity is to limit who we are and who we're meant to be. Humanity doesn't belong in a box.
I agree
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@@MK-nd2vj is that code for something?
Not sure what you're trying to say but it sounds interesting. Mind editing it again?
Yes after a while we have emotions changed for the better. We analyse things from a better angle. Love replaces all other feelings. Even self respect doesnt matter in front of love. Psychology doesn't always work though most of the time it does.
Super info!!!
SOMETIMES people say the truth in anger as their temporary impulsiveness enables them to let it out if they're withholding something. But most times people just say what they know will hurt you because they just want to hurt you in that moment. Which they'll later regret when they don't feel angry with that person anymore. These angry words are just used as a weapon to hurt you in the most effective way out of spite.
Nope. The 1st one is a fact... Please read this and I'll explain how:
Most of us have done this: You are having a huge fight with someone you claim to love, and in a rage you yell, "I hate you!" at them. Then later, most of us will claim that we "didn't mean it". Yes? Right? ...Ok... So let's ask ourselves something at that point... If we really didn't mean it, then why on earth would we have said it? Did you answer, "To hurt them"? Because if you feel you were "only" lashing out to hurt them... Then ask yourself why you would want to hurt a person you claim you only ever have caring feelings toward them?
The fact is, we all feel lots of different emotions in relationships with others... Our relationships with the people closest to us are ideally dominated by more positive feelings... but we will inevitably also feel very negative feelings from time to time as well. Even extremely negative feelings such as hatred. And like it or not, even though negative emotions can cause a lot of pain, negative emotions are essential in providing us with challenges for growth and developing stronger relationships.
By accepting a negative emotion was real, even if only felt briefly in a moment of anger... You can then figure out where the emotion came from, and what triggered it, which should give you a better understanding of how to minimize future occurances.
If, however, you deny you ever felt something... You'll never have any hope of being able to deal with it in any other way than purely your reactivity response of yelling hurtful things or doing hurtful things.
Just because you feel something negative toward a loved one in a heated moment doesn't mean you don't usually feel love for that person or that you never will again... It means that in that brief moment, you felt negatively about them... That's it. It's normal and completely natural to feel every emotion in the world... especially with the people we are closest with... (this is the reason we get close to those we've experienced more emotion for). So if you felt intense anger toward someone and said something to reflect that feeling, (Such as "I hate you!"... Own it - so you can deal with it better the next time it is triggered.
***One tip I have found helpful to minimize damage is to remember to always add, "right now" after expressing a negative emotion you are having toward someone you usually care a lot about. It is true... But also let's them know you are only speaking for that particular moment... Not in generalities.
Me who keep talking to myself when I was a kid: no wonder why my inner voice is so childlish
Bhahahahahah. Fukn Nailed it!!!!😂🙉
Your mind can sense someone staring at you even when asleep......that's pretty true
A wise friend who had also experienced trauma, told me, I’m my own bus driver and to tell that bully she has to get off my bus. I really needed to hear that and stop saying shut up in my head but to take it further and make a boundary to a deceased person whose voice had remained behind.
The "This is a lie"-Technique I can recommend!
Good Stuff
Music is very loud... Such thoughts wants to analyse in calm music.. Pls work on it
Wow....this is trure
Inner voice of children 🌸💐👍
True when people get angry they say the whole truth
after 2 years
he say "hello it's me your old friends"
2 hours later
"i want to borrow your $30000"
yeah he fucking want me !!!!
True, people in anger tend to speak the truth. New subscriber here
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Every 10 years our dream and desire changes
Me who never have a dream:
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When someone texts (in my case: calls) you after a long time, they want to ask you something" - in my case, it's usually to borrow money from me (ugh).
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Hmm very wise and true
The fact of... Before sleeping 90 percent.... Is so true for mee
The music playing just ruins my watching the video.. It distracted me
1:01
Wow then that other 10% of my brain is extremely active at night...
Angry people usually say what hurts the most to you out of anger. I am grateful that I dont feel the way I said to my daughter who curses & has taught me. If it were so I would've harmed her instead of pressing charges. Praise God! ❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
I clicked when saw "if smb is texting you after a long time... " - oh, yeah, they need smth from you, ah!
And yes, before falling asleep I imagine what I want but I do it intentionally "to manifest my dreams" so to say. It's a pleasant time:))
I recently got a text from a guy I went to school with years ago. He's a widower and I'm divorced, but he's living with a woman he met after his wife died for like 3 years now. He didn't ask me for anything, just said he enjoyed talking to me.