Was Our Wedding Night Awkward As Virgins?
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This video is a blessing for me, because I'm a teen Christian who's also obviously therefore waiting for marriage, I hope I find a Christian guy with that same mindset too because I feel like saving yourself for marriage these days is a lot less common sadly so thanks for sharing your experience :))
Nas Ellis we hope that so much for you too!!
I feel the same exact way!!!
Nas Ellis waiting is soooo worth it!!
Anyone who hasn't waited or who is casually dismissive about past sin is not worth your time and effort. Never compromise on this.
I am in the same position of you! Girl, God’s got us ❤️
Its awkward because your whole family knows that you're gonna lose it on wedding night
I think that's awkward whether you save yourself for marriage or not lol everyone goes down to breakfast next morning in the hotel and you can see everyone thinks it. I remember when I got pregnant thinking now everyone knows I've had sex.
Kenny Li I think about that a lot... like imagine your parents going to bed and just knowing you’re doing the dirty lol
So is it awkward when your parents hold their grandchild for the first time thinking “this baby is all because my daughter/son had sex”? If you want to think of it that way then yes, but parents who very likely share the same values understand the gift it is and it’s not a big deal.
Kenny Li youre childish
OMG I never thought about that
no one:
absolutely no one:
literally no one:
my youtube suggestions: Was our wedding night awkward as virgins?
edit 1 year later: um how does this have 13k likes and no im not a virgin and i dont care
i think this video was interesting though
Same!!!
But it was a win cause I totally subscribed!
Same. Im neither religious, getting married or a virgin so idk why yt thinks I need this. It’s still interesting tho
Literally samee😂
SAME
24 years old and still a virgin! Dont know if it's wrong to pray for a virgin wife but I am trusting in the Lord!
That's amazing. I don't think it's a wrong thing, keep on praying and in God's perfect timing she will come to you. God bless you.
I'm 23, a Christian, and a virgin. I know I have the Holy Spirit to give me the strength and the patience to wait for the man He made for me. It's refreshing to see the opposite doing the same.
You are not the only one there's more like u praying for the same.
There’s nothing wrong with that, you’re admirable
Steven Gonzalez its is in God's will that you s praying for a virgin wife, i hope that God answer you prayer.
I thought I am one of the rare virgin on earth. Seems like there are people who are virgin according to comments, it just made me happy now for some reason
Don’t worry ur not alone for example Muslims stay virgins until they get married too
Pl M I’m Muslim.. :)
I had the same thought as well but seeing this video especially the comments us encouraging. Knowing that there are a lot of people waiting for marriage
Same here
Guys I lost my virginity
This is extremely refreshing.
I’m 27, never had a boyfriend, never had any sexual relationship. I too am waiting for my spouse. Thank you for talking about this sensitive subject.
It is the best thing try to keep it.
Keep waiting until the right guy girl 😊 amen
I’m 22 and waiting for my husband too 😉
that is soo me
Thank you for this comment! Sometimes I feel like the only 27 year old who's never had a boyfriends, never had a sexual relationship, etc. It's nice to know I'm not alone.
I really don't know why I'm watching this.
Mayté Chiappero Cuz they’re attractive and have great camera quality lol
same
Mayté Chiappero same
Same
me
It's interesting to see two virgins get married these days. ✌️ There is hope
There is a lot.
I don't think they fit together look wise though. He's way too focused on beauty
Hi 😍😍🌹
the muslims do that l j
@@user-pn7hr7zk6j I don't think this is about religion I mean here in turkey, which is a Muslim country but many girls in Istanbul now are not virgin...
I am still a virgin at 23. My family didn't wait until marriage for any of their children (counting aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents). My parents, both Christians, but unsaved at the time weren't virgins when they got married. I am breaking the cycle and better yet waiting for my first kiss on my wedding day! My grandma said that I wouldn't make a guy stay with those expectations. I know I have the Holy Spirit to satisfy all my needs in His timing. Yes it's hard seeing people on social media getting married and having babies, and at about every family gathering people asking if I met anyone but I know my time will come and my marriage will be great. God bless you both for waiting.
God bless you!
I'm a guy and I didn't wait; also not married yet. My "number" is somewhere in the triple digits. However, I dated a girl for years who was waiting and we didn't have sex, and that's also not why we broke up. If someone really cares about you they won't mind (unless they're an actual sex addict, which is very rare; I've only known a couple men in my life that I would consider actual sex addicts) and won't pressure you. If someone's even asking you over and over when they know you don't want to, get out. No one should coerce anyone about what they want to do with their own body, period. I would make sure the person knows you're waiting before you start officially dating though, because it's going to be a lot harder for you emotionally to get away from someone who is pressuring you if it requires breaking up with them, vs just not being official with them in the first place.
I think it’s wonderful you’re waiting but I’m baffled that you know that information about your family.
@@Rachel0731 they openly told me. They didn’t want me making the same mistakes.
@@Rachel0731 Some families are very open about things like that, and others are not. My family always was, but my sister's husband and in-laws are not. Not to mention friends of mine who have very difference experiences. Every family is different. I assume your family was not that open about those things?
You guys waited!? BOTH of you?? You deserve way more than a thumbs up! May God bless you richly!!!
Amen I wish like both of you
It’s said that those who wait til marriage their family is forever blessed, so I’m waiting to find that needle in a haystack virgin guy that is waiting til marriage too, my brothers say the same, we were all raised in a strict christain household, so we all waiting til marriage
@@KatsIsWeird24
Hey there. .. Sorry to sort of dissapoint you with what I'm going to say, but. .. Waiting until marriage is no guarantee that everything will turn out well ever after. My x-husband and I also waited until marriage, but but he turned away from the Lord like a year after we got married and broke up with me 4 years later. So, no guarantees. I'd do it again, though. If God were to bring another person into my life to marry, I'd wait until marriage again even though now I'm not a virgin but a divorced woman.
Marilena T. I’m sorry for what happened with your ex husband and I hope that you haven’t turned away from God. I will pray that you will find love once again and also don’t give up on believing that if you wait there will be a reward at the end 😊 God bless😇
@@jamilybarillas5335 Thanks, and no, I haven't turned away from God. God and I are still going strong. 😊
My husband and I were both virgins....best decision EVER! We were both 39, so we had a LOOONNGGG wait. It was amazing, so special, and it bonded us so much. Neither of us have any regrets.
Encouraging. At times you may think that you are the only virgin around. It's hard to imagine that there are make virgins above 30 years
Virgin at 39 😂😂 max respect 🙌
@@abratumwe it's hard to tell when it comes to men. at 39 I think I won't believe him.🤣
Wow, both of you were 39 and still were virgins??? THAT IS SO BLESSED! There IS hope. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🥰👏
Beautiful. :) Sex is incredibly bonding, even more so when you save it for your spouse. So many people treat it like the most intimate act possible between two humans is nothing more than a handshake.
I’m 23 waiting & saving myself till marriage! I’ve never had a bf in my whole entire life or my first kiss!
God will guide you as long as you allow Him to lead you. I lived my life the same way and have now been happily married 14 years. Enjoy your journey, it’ll be well worth it!
Same😊🖐🏾
Same! And honestly I would rather have my first boyfriend also being a virgin at least just so I can be comfortable in the relationship knowing that we both expect the same thing.
Same
I had my first kiss with my husband at 29 yrs. Way to go!
I don’t really understand why people act like being a virgin for your wedding night is a bad thing. It’s amazing beginning that journey with your best friend who you trust the most and marking the start of your marriage with it being your first time together. It’s a beautiful thing that’s just indescribable and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
Carlie Michalak I don’t think it’s a bad thing. I just think that relying on an old book written hundreds of years ago and feeling bad about yourself because you’ve “sinned” is a bad thing.
Carlie Michalak I like your view on this
What if you wait to have sex until you're married and then find out that you and your partner are not sexually compatible? You have to find out what you like in bed... satisfying sex is so important for keeping up a healthy relationship.
Carlie Michalak agreed . It’s hard tho - especially if you dated 2 years and never did anything- it needs to be taken slowly - ppl like me needed sex counseling and understanding
@@leawom All sex is for a couple is a way to bond even closer once you love each other... Also, through the years your love making will change and you get to know what your spouse likes and therefore you will be sexually satisfied to the point that you can start tearing up because it was so beautiful...
Just a reminder to the young people watching this video who didn’t wait till marriage; nothing is wrong with you and you are no less than anyone who waited till marriage. 💜💜
And Jesus renews anything that was broken . 2 corinthias 5. So we all have a chance to keep ourselves for the right person or for God's call. Take care all. Huge hugs.
Denise P thanks sis 🥺❤️
And it’s never too late to be celibate.
Jenna Marie EXACTLY!! I commented on an above message like this. Take a look.
Thank you for this comment it means a lot more then you think ❤️
*im 25 And virgin. Whose watching in Oct 2020?*
Me haha, that’s amazing wait till marriage 💕.
I’m almost 24 and still a virgin, still single, don’t have any girl I’m interested in atm, hang in there ma doodskies!!
I am 27 and virgin.. 😆
It feels good though... Waiting for marriage..
@@manishagoswami4175 That’s amazing haha keep waiting !.
@@yaboii5579 Haha that’s amazing ! Wait till marriage .
31 and still waiting. I have no regrets. It's been one of the best decisions of my life!
That's nice, keep it up sis
@Von Fields You have to make the absolute decision that it is the choice you want for your life, and stick to it. It helps a lot to think about the future and not only the present moment. Don't get into situations where there is temptation--and if you find yourself in one of those situations, get out without a second thought! Pray. Exercise. Have good and healthy friendships. Maybe I need to make a video about this! Lol!
@Von Fields I'm Catholic Christian, but there are many non-religious reasons to wait. I am in social work and it definitely also helped. When you see a lot of single moms struggling and a lot of drama due to premarital sex in many people's lives, you realize that abstinence is a good way to go!
You are amazing, sister. I’m 25 and also virgin.
@@jollygoodgordon5580 I'm proud of you! It's a great decision to make!
The hotel we were staying at had sent us this huge cake for our wedding night and when I came out of the shower, my new husband had eaten it all
😅😅😅😅😅😅
Wow. He sucks
Yay keep him forever
I'm kidding wtf is wrong with him
@@aquabitxh9770 It's been 12 years and 2 kids later..i still tease him about it.
People should stop acting like sex is everything and being a virgin longer than teen years is weird. It's society's standards of "you should have had sex now" there's never a rush and people should care who they choose to have sex with
@Irenes Concierge then why would they say "was it awkward"
It's interesting to see the general view of the society on this topic mostly in the western countries on having sex life before marriage and how much it is looked down upon and judged by the society mainly in the middle class families in the eastern countries it really saddens me when people got victimised in unnecessary situations and got suffered because of the ignorange of the society especially in the society I am living in.
I do agree with you that society makes be a virgin weird.😬😏🤫
Sex definitely is not all in a marriage. If there is not emotional intimacy, then physical intimacy is void.
@@bigfangirlofsushantsir7651 , in many cultures the young man and the young woman have nothing to say about who they want to marry. That decisions is made by the parents, and is as much a business deal as one with any romantic overtones.
26. Virgin. Engaged and cannot wait to experience this special moment 🥺❤️
Congratulations!
I’m only a teen but it’s really hard finding couples in this world who actually save them selves for marriage and I was starting to think that there was no hope. Thank you
With God I there is hope👍👊
I'm also a teenager and waiting :)
actually vast majority of people in the world get married as virgins, it is mostly particular western places where relationship mentality is messed up, those places also have very high divorce rates and family dysfunction (especially USA is by far the worst place in terms of relationships which i assume you are from)
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Literally no one:
UA-cam: Was our wedding night awkward as virgins?
This was spot on
Jessica 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My husband and I waited for our wedding night as well. Most holy and sacred experience we have ever had together :) also we both cried too 😂
Alyssa Weaver aww that's so sweet and so true! ☝🏼
Wait, is it normal for a guy to cry during sex?? I’m so confused why and I’m 20...
C K i would say that he cried out of happiness because it was our first time and a very special moment, that he was so caught up in his emotion!! I wouldn’t say that every one cries after their first time, it’s normal not to as well :)
Wow. Thanks for sharing 😊
Wow, that was awesome
I’m turning 30 this year and I’m proud to say I am still a virgin. Just did not want to give myself away and then regret it later. And I want to tell women that it’s ok to wait until you are 100% sure. I have been called a loser so many times. I cannot wait to give myself to the man of my dreams and someone who will show me the love and respect I deserve. Who’s really the loser here? 🤔🙌
sis preach!!! 💞🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Lol ok
How about not calling ANYONE a loser for their personal decisions.
Ppl who shame you for following Gods plan for you are insecure. They are the ones projecting their shame on you. Gods word literally tells us that unbelievers won’t understand so we can’t expect them to. We’re not playing their game. We’re doing something totally different. Good for you for staying the course.
I’m 25, In the same boat as you. Sooo freaking proud of us! Virtual hug 🤗
I’m a 39 year old who’s been married for 17 years and am pregnant for the 6th time. I have NO idea why this popped up on my feed🤣🤣
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This video is awesome. I'm 34 and I'm a virgin and saving myself for marriage. I want to honor God in my dating relationship and future marriage
Becky M that’s awesome! Good for you! 💪🏽
I respect that
@@amandabothma9222 me too. It's so worth it too xx
Just turned 35 and will wait. And I agree with Nate, that it's MORE ackward to explain an STD, unwanted/unplanned pregnancy, etc. I just didn't want the extra drama in my life.
you go girl! I know plenty of people like you. My religion teaches waiting and only having sexual contact with in the bonds of marriage. I belong to the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. all but a few people I know as well as their spouses waited until marriage.
Why does he remind me so much of Eugene (Flynn Ryder) from tangled 😂😂
Jasmine Ramirez omg yesss
Jasmine Ramirez Nah “they got the nose all wrong”
Me too😂
I don’t believe for one second that Eugene waited. Haha :p
omg i was looking for this!
I'm Liz, 23 and a Kenyan Christian girl. I find your video encouraging and I've been waiting patiently till I get married. It is often very tempting in relationships and I hope we can all make it as you guys did. Thanks for sharing.
I am a teen Christian and this is Perfect, Biblical and Godly advice
God bless your marriage guys!
Thank you
The question “Was it awkward?” is sad to me because that means there is not an understanding of what emotional intimacy is. Emotional intimacy is a major component of a great sex life.
It's awkward but not in a shameful way. I think there is a difference and just because it is awkward doesn't mean they weren't emotionally close (true intimacy) but they were taking it to the next level of bonding and it's just an experience. Like anything new you experience.
@@strawberryme08 Anything new you experience can be fun and exciting. It doesn't have to be awkward at all. Especially this.
@@nanaluvz5975 But even if it is awkward, it doesn't make it "wrong" either. Life is full of awkward moments especially in sex LOL
@@strawberryme08 Yah I guess so. I dont anything anyway considering im only 19 so ill have to take ur word for it lol
So true. I think its more awkward to have sex with someone you have no emotional connection with.
Their opener is INCREDIBLE.
Tricia Leftwich lol thank you!
I know a lot of couples who waited until the second night. The wedding night is just one more worry, as the couple are just too exhausted from the wedding day.
It’s so refreshing to hear stories like this. I’m waiting, too. It’s so great to see that there are many others out there. God bless you both!
sutton looks like she's gonna cry the whole video
probably just her eyebrow shape tbh
Her teeth make her laugh look fake 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i was gonna say that too LMAO
I dont think so.
@@afrohubbysbooi that's kinda..I don't even see what you meant.
I lost my virginity at age 16. At 17 I had a God encounter while praying to be made new, and I felt something heavy lift out of me and felt His presence rest on me for the first time. My bf pressured me to do it again but it felt different. I felt God looking at me heartbroken...I suddenly felt like I was so worthy and that no man who wasn't promised to me forever should ever touch me. And I have been abstinent ever since. I'm now 32. I understand the Bible verse warning, "Do not awaken love before it's time." Sometimes I feel an emptiness like my body knows what it's missing and it's incredibly lonely. I do wonder if I'll ever know intimacy within a godly marriage, but God has treated me better than any man. I live my life positively as possible doing the things I love pursuing God promises over my life, and just healing from things I've experienced. Along the way, I hope that a man who mirrors God's affection and grace will pursue and conquer my heart after all this time. Sometimes I feel that is not going to happen, but I can't make my happiness about that when life is so precious! I am just working on loving myself for who God made me to be. I haven't made as many videos as I should because I am working body confidence and often feel insecure but I know I need to! Here is my recent TED talk: ua-cam.com/video/Af6qXHccrR4/v-deo.html
May the Lord bless you abundantly
God bless you
I will say I understand you. I kept picking crappy boyfriends and though it never amounted to anything physical necessarily except for foreplay, but never intercourse yet. I always wondered if I ever would have a man who would love me that way. So I started seeing an old friend who was at first always soo kind to me and it eventually turned very hot and we did have a one night stand. But he at least stuck around after for a few months, not do it and leave the next day. Between us was super hot flames. But then I knew he couldn't committ to me, so I went looking and was then led to my now husband, who, well, sex sucks sorta, lol. But we try. And then I found out he loved abd was engaged to another girl who constantly cheated on him and then one day just walked away and never came back. But for us, we wait till our night and as I commented already, that night was amazing. It was finally a sense of relief. Cause I already knew I was to be his forever. So I was ready. But I know he asked God fir a wife by the time he turned 30. And God decided that was ok. So he brings me along, and God tells him This is your wife. Marry her. And sure enough, when he was 30 we married. But when I met him, I then began to quickly lose the thought of will I ever be loved this way. Sure I do miss the super hot fire of my friend I did it with, but I know I can be safe with my husband and someday we may get that together. And it will be 7 yrs Sept 21 we will be married. And that is amazing to the world to be married for even that long. We have visited divorce due to marital unfaithfulness by him. But God has asked me to stay and work through it. And I'm starting hopefully to see the changes and someday, he can be fully mine in a sense. So life isn't easy even when u finally find the right one. But love keeps you going even when u wanna give up.
Wow, your story is awesome.
Thank u for this verse.... honestly i need it...today my bf to be and I planned to go watch a movie together (which was my idea ) and for some reason...i just feeling something telling not to go...
Ya i do think i love him, but he's not even virgin but i am. And i love jesus more than anything in this world...and i do love him too
But, if God says no, or that is not right to date him ..then i should listen...but it's hard
I feel guilty if i do something like holding hands or kissing ...i just feel that im breaking God's heart and im literally setting myself to failure and shame....
Please pray for me, and for him to get closer to God and to find our purpose that God predestined for us
My husband and I waited until marriage and there are no regrets. We have been married for almost 22 years. Our first night was so awkward though, at least for me. I was sooo nervous about my husband seeing my body for the first time. He always made me feel beautiful but I thought he would only see the flaws I saw with my body. Obviously I got past that and sex was/is great. I think it is funny when those that are not virgins ask, “But what if the sex is not good?” Uhhh…that is the great thing about being a virgin. We get to learn together about what the other likes. We have nothing and no one to compare to, so the sex is special, meaningful, loving, selfless and good.
"How can you be bad"
I mean it is hard to compare, when you've only been with one person. As long as you both enjoy it, then, no problem!
There shouldn't be any comparisons
@@teecee6655 Why not. You get the one life. How do you know if you have compatibility in bed as well.
@@purplestripes4076 Exactly because you only have one life. Sex is not everything and is not that important. There are a lot more important things to do and it is exactly why you don't need to compare the "compatibility in bed".
If you don't compare, then there won't be any "bad comparison", and then you go on with your life.
The only bad lover is the selfish one. If you’re loving, open, honest & wanting to please your partner there’s nothing bad about that. “Compatibility in bed”.. what does that even mean? It’s usually ppl with baggage from previous sexual relationships who view it that way. When you have a deep connection w/someone & you’re not just treating them like an object or means to an end you can make it really good.
One time my friends and I were sitting around a fire, just talking, and the topic of sex came up I said I was waiting till marriage and one of my friends laughed and said “as a guy I promise you’ll never find a guy that’ll wait for you, so I’d say just go for it” I just really hope I find a guy like Nate, or Paul one day, they bring me hope that I will find a guy that will wait 💕
Nikki My husband was actually the one who wanted to wait. It was a different time in my life...I was not a virgin. I was trying everything to get him into bed, but he told me he wanted something more meaningful than just sex with me. These guys are out there. If you want to save yourself, don’t let anyone talk you out of that. ❤️
That man who said that clearly doesnt know a good man. I waited till I was married, and he wasnt a virgin but we were dating for 3+ years before we got married and he waited with me. He said it was worth it! So dont lose hope!!👍👍
You don't need 1,000 or 100 or 10 guys to wait with you, just 1.
Sex releases the love & trust hormone which is great in marriage. Even taking God out, waiting is important because that hormone blinds us & keeps us in relationships that we probably wouldn't stay in if we were not having sex
My boyfriend and I are waiting and listen there are men out there who will wait for you!
Every guy I’ve dated (3) have waited, and we’re willing to wait longer if we chose to continue the relationship. You just gotta surround yourself with people with simillar morals. It seems impossible but there are sensible men out there who are capable of self control. God bless 🙏🏽
I don't hold your same beliefs or mindset about marriage & sex, but I completely respect people who are strong in their faith and who want to wait until marriage. People should do what they feel is comfortable and what is right for them. You guys are very wholesome, I'm glad I stumbled across this video. I love seeing people so in love and strong in their faith, even if I may not hold the same beliefs. (:
That is so true! Even though I myself don’t hold the same people, I totally respect people who wish to have a different lifestyle like this! The diversity of beliefs in this world is so beautiful ^_^
So true... Also i love your mind for that
I encourage you😊😊❤
So. what you believe in sex before marriage ? I commend the couple for waiting for marriage before they had sex
This comment is amazing. Finally someone spoke on their beliefs/opinions respectfully and acknowledged someone with a complete opposite belief
I had never had a boyfriend until I was 28 and then God blesses me with a Christian man and no we are married 🙏🏼
I very nearly had sex and it was SUCH a horrible and awkward experience. I trusted the lie that “I needed experience”. I’m grateful that God protected me from going all the way but there’s still so much brokenness that I’m dealing with from that experience. I’m so grateful that you made this video so that people don’t break their own hearts and go against Jesus’ beautiful design for marriage. I’m praying for healing and restoration over myself, trusting that in God’s timing, I’ll marry my best friend and enjoy sex in the context of a Godly marriage.
I like u really add me
@SharkAttack not yet but God is leading and guiding me in healing. I know that in His perfect timing, I’ll find the one that He set aside for me but regardless of when it happens, Christ is my fullness. I’m learning to find joy in His love rather than try seek out affirmation in my own capacity. It happens in small steps. I’m grateful for the journey everyday. Thank you for asking/checking in.🌻
@SharkAttack if what you mean by self-love and intimacy in an emotional sense then I would say that I’m learning to love myself in God’s eyes. Society has a very screwed “self-love, do whatever I want as long as it fulfills me” take and I’m all for rest and restoration and treating myself as long as it enhances my walk with God and doesn’t lead to me being selfish or self involved which I already struggle with. If you mean self-love and intimacy in a physical sense then I’d say that I’m not interested in that. From my own experience, all that teaches me to do is to satisfy my flesh - almost train my flesh that pleasure is about me. It’s really not. Sex is enjoyable but the reason it’s so impactful is because it’s about the bonding of souls, the giving of the self to someone else (who we trust to hold us). Pleasuring myself is too self-focused and it leads me to just want more and more and more. It also causes objectification. Suddenly men just become images in my mind that exist solely for my satisfaction. That doesn’t lead to love. I don’t need experience. Everything I need to learn will be with my partner when we are married. God has convicted me concerning this.
@SharkAttack again, it depends what you define intimacy as. If you’re talking about physical intimacy, it’s one of the first physical urges to go away when the body is under serious threat. That just shows me that it’s something that I’m able to control. Controlling this until I’m in a committed marriage with someone I trust will only enhance the intimacy. It will simply mean more. If you’re talking about spiritual intimacy, I have that. If you’re talking about emotional intimacy, I have that too with a multitude of great friends who emotionally support me. Our society is obsessed with sex. It’s out of control. It’s at the point where children are being exposed to it way too early. Where I live, you should see the pregnancy rate of literal children. You should see the statistics for sexual assault. You should hear about the loveless stories that my gal pals have told me about their first time experiences. As I said, I feel convicted of this. I’ve done a lot of reading in the Bible and research within the Biblical context. I believe that God wants me to have the most complete intimacy sexually and so He asks me to wait. I went from out of control, sexualizing everything to being able to control my flesh by the grace of God. You’re welcome to have your beliefs. Heck, that’s the point of freewill but I firmly believe that intimacy is SO much more than society says it is. That’s from living on both sides of the fence.
@SharkAttack why do we call it self-pleasure? Does it serve any function that glorifies God? Have you researched this Biblically? Have you earnestly prayed and asked God what He truly thinks or are you convicted of this belief on your own behalf. I’ve asked God and He pretty much completely took away any sexual urges that I hyped up of my own accord, according to society standards. I know that He will awaken them again when the time is right. There’s an incredible verse in Song of Songs that says, “Do not awaken love until it is ripe and ready.” I believe that both emotionally and sexually. Again, you’re welcome to your own way of life but I’m choosing to live biblically and lead by God after a very long time of not doing so. Thank you for concern on my love life but I promise that God and I know more about what fulfills me than a stranger on the internet. 😅
Y’all approached this topic with a lot of poise, maturity, and honesty. I appreciate that! thank you!
25 year old Virgin waiting until marriage.... This is soo inspiring. The wait is not easy, and sometimes you loose hope that you will ever find someone
ZNM Siba I’d love for you to check out my reasons for waiting! I WAS A 26-YEAR-OLD VIRGIN | Why I waited to have sex until I was married ua-cam.com/video/pamokVrXnhE/v-deo.html
🙋🏻♂️ team virgin | team single | praying and waiting on the Lord to deliver me a bride to spend the rest of my life with until death parts us | at the mean time i will pray and worship while i’m waiting. you guys are such an inspiration, both virgins stood before the Lord on the alter, doing everything as God intended! May the Lord bless you and continue to use you both! please don’f stop making videos it truly helped me and i know it has help millions! God bless!
Amen❣️
Dude. You and I are of the same mind
My husband and I waited for our wedding night. It was the best decision we ever made. ❤️
Hi as a muslim woman,I’m glad to see this video from christian perspective. I wish your marriage happily ever after 😊
Same!
Please accept Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour and be saved. Please. He is the only way to heaven
Jesus is the Only way to Heaven.
@@jesuslovesyouandI no Islam is the truth 🤲🏻❤️
@@jesuslovesyouandI
Jesus was just a prophet of God
Born in a miracless way
Without a father like adam was made without a father or even a mother
Worship God only
The creator not the creation
Worship the god that jesus worshiped
I watched this video three weeks ago and it shook me to my core. I’ve been struggling with porn for 7 years and on October 2nd, 2019 I accepted Jesus as my lord and savior. I just want to thank you for your honesty and it was encouraging to here that it is possible to overcome addiction. Since giving my life to Christ I’ve joined a men’s group at my college called “Finding Freedom” which focuses on young men meeting, discussing, and praising the Lord for everything he’s done and how he teaches us to flee from sexual sin. I truly desire a deep and connected relationship with my spouse. Porn and sexual sin cannot give me that but Jesus can. Thank you so much for the encouraging story and God bless!
Matty_ice 1999 that's amazing!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Check out the website porn kills love the website. They have stuff to help you with your struggles!!
Praise Jesus!!
"I can't even beat my dick without getting convicted" 😂
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Such a blessing! So appreciate the honesty and it encourages me to not be afraid of the first time. Your peace in the Lord and his calling for your life is inspirational!
My boyfriend is not a virgin. But he is Reborn in Jesus Christ. So i think there's no problem in that.
Edit: within 3 months I broke up with him. Because he clearly loved me physically and that hurt me a lot and i had to give him up because he was a hindrance to the relationship i had with Jesus.
No. As long as he’s acknowledged that it was wrong and prayed for forgiveness. 🙏❤️
@@sophieghaffari9006 I agree 100% with you!
Great decision for him
Thank you. you made the right choice.
God will give you someone much more better!❤️ stay strong
BOTH of you were virgins? Wow! That’s amazingly beautiful......and rare to find. 😊Usually when one is a virgin, the other is not. I can only imagine the purity and level of intimacy you guys experienced. Truly God ordained. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lydia Heelu ❤️❤️❤️
That was my experience the first time around, finally had sex at 19 and lost it to a woman that had more experience. Didn’t work out, and I feel like their is a part of me that does regret not waiting a bit longer to be honest with you.
Gonzalo Mendez I hear you. I would feel the same.
I am 70 my wife passed away 6 years ago .we where both virgins ,our first night was abit of ashamble ,both nervous we couldnot conbsume our marriage I felt hopless &insecure .Eventually we got more confortable with each other 7 made love it was magic .I still remember the look in our faces .glad we where not the only ones ,great vdeo !
God bless you and your wife!
I am a virgin I am 21 turning 22 next year I am Roman Catholic. I thank you for sharing your story, and am going to hold my ground and will wait till marriage. I hope to meet the man God intended for me one day❤️.
This is such a beautiful video. 2 genuine people of God sharing their beautiful momment, reminding us not to be pressurised and gives me hope that one day I will have that rare moment. ❤️ Thank you and may God continue blessing you✨
Anyone who is thinking about waiting till marriage its completely worth it!! It means so much to me that my husband and I waited. It is such a special connection when you are someone's first and only.
Anyways great video Nate and Sutton!!
The fact that both of them are super attractive and still maintained celibacy ( trying to point out that there would’ve been so many temptations like dating someone and giving up celibacy ) . Gods grace is truly amazing
You are a beautiful expression of helping young people to walk the best path keep it up so they have a pure direct understanding about waiting and reaping the rewards!
I watched how you met in your video "God writes our Love Story" . That is sooo soooo encouraging to see how you two met. Thanks much!! ^^
God Bleesed!
“What if you’re not sexually comparable?” Really? If you’re both virgins...you’d have no comparisons or expectations. This video was great.
@Lisa Engel I agree. If there’s no past experience, there’s nothing to compare. It’s supposed to be for the couple to experience and learn together. We do not have sex to compete with anyone, we have sex to enjoy sexual pleasure and give our spouse the pleasure as well. And when the time is right, we have sex to procreate as well.
I like u really 💑❤😍🌹
Sexual compatibility isn't about performance or comparing with other people. Two people can be virgin's, marry, and then shockingly realize that they are totally imcompatilbe. How?
a)Frequency. Usually, in a sexual incompatible situation, one person wants sex much more than the other one. It's not right or wrong, they both where made differently. So either one partner is frustrated not having the sexual frequency that they want, OR the other partner feels like they are "putting out" too much.
b) Sex style. My first wife HATED me being aggressive and "in command" in bed. My second wife? She absolutely LOVES it when I'm manly and throws her around the bed like a rag doll.
As a Muslim, I love this video! We forget how similar most religions are, people change religions according to their lifestyle but forget the core of it
Christianity is not like islam at all..
I like Islam. Its encouraging. I'm a Christian but I agree with Islam but not to arranged marriage
@@Ricarica981 if you know the true islam you won't like it...there's more to it than just arranged marriages
I have a man. He wants me to be converted pls tell me
@@Ricarica981 you can ask me anything🤗
I am commenting on my Fathers account.. I just want to say this is an encouragement for me as a Christian Young lady....God bless you all.
Thanks for this. Just turned 30 and am glad I am still waiting. You guys are an inspiration (and it's comforting to see you and all these comments of other people like me). :))
The only thing that made me uncomfortable during this video was nates creased shirt....
Thanks for telling me now I'm sooo distracted
@@tamajwright7795 same
this has changed my whole perspective on waiting
Laken Copeland 🙌🏼🙌🏼
hahaaaaaa😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤗
Laken Copeland I’d love for you to check out my reasons for waiting! I WAS A 26-YEAR-OLD VIRGIN | Why I waited to have sex until I was married ua-cam.com/video/pamokVrXnhE/v-deo.html
Me and my husband always ALWAYS talk about how we wish we saved our virginities for each other.. I didn’t understand what sex really could mean to two people until I fell in love with him and him with me when we based our relationship on Jesus. May God bless you two always ❤️
laura boxwood I might base a relationship on mutual trust. I might base a relationship on kindness and friendship. But I would not base my relationship on a religious figure who died two thousand years ago.
Gary Williams when you base it on Him, all other things will follow. I hope you one day are able to receive the Truth. Bless you.
@@laura2234x I'm genuinely fascinated by how stupid this person is.
I'm genuinely fascinated by how stupid this person is.
Gary Williams you know what genuinely fascinates me? Jesus even died for those who he knew wouldn’t believe in him, lost souls just like you, for the chance that one day they too might believe. I pray for people like you because I was once just the same, probably worse than you and probably in more denial than you. Just know you people are in my heart everyday and I pray one day you will be able and willing to receive Truth. Goodbye now have a good day 🥰
I freaking love this! I'm 25 and haven't even had my first kiss yet because I'm Christian and waiting for marriage and I'm told ten times a day that I'm making a mistake and should just "live my life" but this video has cheered me up so much and I'm even more happy in my choice to follow God's law 🖤
If it feels like the good decision for you, follow it, but you should try to connect, meet and date like-minded guys in the meantime.
i dont think you should let your religion control you.. like its fine to wait till marrage but that should be your choice. not your religeon or god. you are in control of yourself :)
@@ellinunez8621 It's her choice to be religious.
@@ellinunez8621 Thank you but I'm very happy with my religion and to follow God's law but this modern day and age does make it seem difficult sometimes and I really appreciate the encouragement this video provides 🖤😸
Ohh gurl I haven't met anyone else that hasn't kissed anyone either. I haven't either and I'm 22! I'm not religious but I need to have a connection to someone and that connection just hasn't happened yet. Virgin too BTW :)
It’s such a huge blessing having a godly couple encouraging others and sharing their story! Thank you guys so much. 😊
Omg thank God you guys posted, I was feeling really overwhelmed about school & then the notification for you guys popped up, gonna start the vid now and I already know you guys will lighten my mood ❤❤❤
Nas Ellis aww you're too sweet thank you!! 💛
You both share a bond that’s indescribable. I pray to god, that one day I’ll have the connection with my spouse as you both have 😌❤️
Wow! This blessed me...saving myself and it’s worth it. Totally enjoyed this...thanks for sharing 🔥love from Nigeria 🇳🇬❤️
Is it just me or does she have this non-stop sense of worry on her face?
Sapient Existence it’s the shape of her eyebrows
Clara Braun hahahahahahaha idk why I busted out laughing over this.
I thought she was crying at first
@@GalidorDragon Same here! Lol
Sapient Existence bruhhh Im dyingggg 😂😂😂
I was smiling during the whole video..I wish and pray I found someone who would be as loving and caring as you guys❤️
bonum malum you're the best we hope that for you too!
bonum malum
ME TOO!!!
I wish that I could have found a partner like this.
Im 28 and saving myself for my future husband. This video is such a blessing. I hope and pray to find a guy someday who has the same mindset too.
Wow, it's so heart warming to see a community that actually believes in waiting til marriage. It's really frowned upon these days, I'm so glad there is hope. God bless you all.
Your videos have encouraged me a lot. I can't even begin to describe how much of a blessing you've been in my life. I always look forward to your videos. THANK YOU Nate and Sutton
winfrey dianne aww that is so encouraging to us you have no idea! Thank you for sharing that 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@nateandsutton keep going and growing. May God be with you as you continue to be a blessing. Amen.
Following God's teachings is definitely the most worth it way of living this life, and this topic is one of the best examples.
Thank you for encouraging us Nate and Sutton!
Thank you guys for posting this video. I think it's beyond beautiful that you both cried on your first night together.
My husband and I waited and it was so worth it! We have been married 22 years and still totally in love and still enjoying each other! In fact we just found out we’re pregnant with our 5th child!
Sex isnt only to procreate, i hope you know that. Enjoyment is also the best use as well. If you guys only had sex 5 times in 22 years, oh boy
I don’t live in a Christian household, and I’m not a Christian myself. But if I hadn’t been so naive as a teenager, I would have definitely waited till marriage. I personally think it’s beautiful, and it saves women from using contraception at such a young age where if messes with their bodies (like myself)
Definitely going to christen and encourage my future children this ❤️
@@DivineTheOdds There's no need to be rude. She obviously spelt it right once, and knows how to spell it. It's probably a typo. Also, the spelling isn't even the impimportant thing here.
Lily Dean great points!! I’d love for you to check out my reasons for waiting! I WAS A 26-YEAR-OLD VIRGIN | Why I waited to have sex until I was married ua-cam.com/video/pamokVrXnhE/v-deo.html
YES!!! How much better would our society be if more people agreed with you! Regardless of your religion or other beliefs. Thank you for your comment ❤️
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Thank you for these kind words, but I am encouraging you to seek Jesus and Christianity because it has been the best part of my life. God’s real and He died for me and rose again. Just so that I can be with Him. He loves me and He loves you too. I hope you see my sincerity in this that I don’t want you to go to hell. Like I know happens to people. I really want you to go to heaven and for me to see you up there. So as a sixteen year old please at least come back
Definitely can relate to this as a Muslim.
мαяιє same lol
Yeah me too i m still a vergin cuz fucking prostitues dosent count
@@mouradkadri7926 yeah they count
@@nadiinwidadi5774 yeah right next thing anal counts too
Same
This is amazing, it reminds me that I should continue to praying for my husband..... Am waiting from you God
So beautiful and encouraging for the youth and everyone else out there to hear such inspiring story. May God always bless your marriage and family!
y’all are absolutely glowing in the horseback riding photo!🥰🤩
I love how honest your videos are!
Sweet, love this, thanks. Watched it with my sweetheart. We are waiting till marriage and have run into a lot of the things y'all mentioned. Thanks again for the encouragement and perspective.
My husband and I both waited for marriage. It was worth the wait. I couldn't imagine giving myself away to anyone else. It makes it so much more beautiful knowing you saved yourself. Their is a level of trust we have between us because we both know we dont just give ourselves away and that permeates in every area of our lives. Its defintly worth the wait.
You guys are like the cutest, so innocent(that is a high compliment in my book), and your love for one another and God really shines through. Great vid
Even tho we've not met , I feel like I just love both of you . This is a beautiful testimony in the midst of a dark world. Thank you for the light!
Christopher Keys aww we love you!! 💛
Thank you guys for sharing. My husband and I were also both virgins and age 29/30 when we married. It’s something very special and something that we both think about fondly till this day.
“I don’t know how you can be bad.. I just don’t get it” You guys are so cute!!! Whole video made me smile and left me hopeful! God bless you both 🧡
This is my first time watching y’all and honestly I’ve fallen in love with you guys. I’m a 14 year old girl and it’s so amazing to see Christians have done what I want to do. ❤️
I love your outfit and curls Sutton :), this was a nice video and gives me so much hope for the future.
Really liked that you two prayed before hand :)
So much respect for you guys. Thank you for sharing this wonderful testimony to the world. We need more people like you. Stay blessed
I loved this. As a Christian in my 20s still waiting I thought yall portrayed this experience so beautifully and can only hope for something as special as this💛
Hi🙂
I am new to your channel.
I am a fifteen year old CHRISTIAN and me seeing this video means so much to me. Knowing that people still wait till marriage gives me a hope that my future husband will wait for me too, God willing. People say that experience is good but i believe that thats not always true. Thank you so much for making this video and thanks for youtube to recomend it to me.
I hardly make comments and this the longest one i have ever done. Thanks🙂
Same❤️
Arab muslim here and this is the story of our entire society 😂❤
Omnia Kadorah yeeep 😂😂
yuppp
Heck yeah. 😂😂 I think All Muslims watch these kindda videos. Although it is very rare to see practising Christians who are still virgin till their wedding.
Nermeen Moshref : they’re not pretty much the same because they have very different ideologies. Two different books all together.
@@nermeenmoshref9670 well... christianity is based on the death and resurrection of God
And... islam is all about how Allah doesn't come in a form of a human and doesn't die for sinners and in one verse in the quran they denied Issa's (Jesus) crucifixion
So nop.. not related
Oh and one more thing
In the bible: man and woman are equal and a man is only allowed to have one wife
In the quran: a woman has a half brain and a man has a full brain (weird expressions..I know) plus a man is allowed to have up to 4 wives
I have more but I leave it to your research
Btw I'm not attacking any of the two believes I'm just saying what they are
And I can give prove from the holy books if anything isn't clear...
SHOWERS ARE WONDERFUL!!! I so appreciate you both for your honesty and your sharing with all of us❤ I honestly wish I had....God Bless you both 🙏
I stumbled across this and it’s so refreshing! I am 29 and waiting for marriage. Thank you for sharing
You guys are awesome, I learn so much from your videos. Thank you for being role models to not only younger couples but couples in general! I’m 20 and I’m in a beautiful God loving relationship with my girlfriend and we watch your videos all the time and they bring us so much encouragement! 🔥❤️
Tim Rata that's amazing thank you guys so much and we are so thankful you get value out of our content!
I’m a 17 year old Catholic Christian and love your videos so much. You all are so real and make topics like this so much easier to explain to my friends
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for posting this. Please keep the honest discourse about intimacy coming. Some of us HAVE NO ONE to ask certain questions because of abusers who are still alive & may become problematic if formal counseling took place.
One of the best channels I've subscribed to this year. You guys are an inspiration. God bless you guys. Greetings from PNG 🇵🇬🇵🇬