Honest Q&A | Dating Boundaries, Cussing, Sexual History
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- Опубліковано 24 сер 2019
- Honest Q&A | Dating Boundaries, Cussing, Sexual History
In this video we get really real with you guys and answer all of your questions! We discuss topics like evolution, cussing, dating apps, modesty, online dating, dating non-christians, money, cute clothes, sexual history and more! Help us hit our goal of 100K subscribers by the end of the year by SUBSCRIBING to our channel :)
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I was once told: when you in a relationship with non Christian, you're sitting on top of the tree, the non Christian is at the bottom of the tree. Your both pulling on the same string, it's easier to pull someone down, than pull someone up. Just keep that in mind.
Lilly Smith Love the analogy!
Nice
Love this!
hey that's true.
@Anna Smith stop complaining about nothing... EVERY religion n non religious person does it. They think what they follow is better. Stop making it seem like Christians only do. Asian religions did it back in the day... n to this day... theres Christian's in a country where it has a major population of a different religion n they're getting beat up for it...
I really dislike when men say "Christian women shouldn't cuss". Christian humans shouldn't cuss. It shouldn't make it worse when it comes from the mouth of a woman.
preachhh
He just means that he finds it unattractive
@@meghanodonovan8020 yeah
We agree that both men and woman shouldn't cuss. I was just saying that it's an unattractive quality for me
“Christian women shouldn’t cuss” come on, this is so true!! Gender argument actually blurs the point. If he was a girl he would’ve said “men” in place of "women”.
Praying out loud has made a huge positive impact on my relationship with God :)
I dont pray out loud... cuz my mom n family is nosey I dont want them knowing my business.
Sutton is so raw and honest, she didn't let him slide when he tried to play coy 😂
She is so likable and gorgeous.
Haha 😂 “if you’re burnin, maybe you should get married”
My husband and I would love to meet y’all!! ❤️
The Hurst Family Yes absolutely would love to! Messaged you back on IG :)
yes please!!! I watch both of your channel and that would be fantastic!
I love her reasoning behind not getting dolled up for that first photo: “If you don’t like me at that moment, then you’re just not gonna like me, because that’s how I am.” There’s a confident woman who’s comfortable in her own skin - the opposite of a catfish!
I know _I’d_ have a really hard time sending a photo that real of myself to someone if I really liked them (granted, I’m not as naturally good-looking as Sutton); I’d have to put all kinds of disclaimers on it before sending, and be like, “Sorry it’s not the best picture of me; I just got out of the shower and I don’t normally wear makeup at home, so this is just what you’d see if you walked into my room right now 😳,” and have all sorts of anxiety that he’ll see the picture and think, “Ew, that’s what you look like? We should probably just be friends.” 😅
The Lord formed you fearfully and wonderfully and the Lord doesn't make mistakes, ask the Lord to help him to help you love yourself as he does and sees you as you does!😊
Definitely confident. Sutton looked cute and fun in that photo...don't know what Nate's problem is.
You guys are one of my favorite Christian couples!! And thank you so much for another awesome video!!💜
mia pinelo you're so welcome and that makes us so happy to hear!
Thank you both for your transparency ! I really enjoyed this statement from Nate :" I think a great way to stand out as christians is to not cuss". so true !
Couronne Eclatante yes it has been very true for us!
@@nateandsutton That's a great testimony. Thank you for setting this example . we do need that
I just found y'alls channel, and I really appreciate it. I am trying to get back on track with my faith after taking a stray path for a couple of years, and y'all are truly a motivator.
Nate, you are already famous in our father's eyes. And that catfish picture tip is great, Sutton. lol Better to be safe than sorry!
I noticed that praying out loud keeps me from being distracted also. I like to write them down sometimes too. Love the Q&As!! ❤️
I laughed so hard when Nate talked about being so grateful sitting in the bathroom 😂 I’m binge watching all of your videos!
My church very much believes in speaking in tongues. I have found that when I feel anxiety and depressed I start to speak in tongues and I start to feel God's presence and peace. I believe this is such a powerful gift from God that the church everywhere should put into action.
The ability to pray in tongues is one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit, and God does not distribute the same gifts to every person. This is why churches need to encourage people to ask God to reveal their Holy Spirit gifts to them, so that people can use them in God’s favor. This does not mean tongues are not an amazing gift of the Holy Spirit, I’m saying that not everyone is made to have that gift, and it cannot just be passed on from a person. Every gift comes from God, and not every person is meant to have the ability to speak in tongues.
Vica Chekhovskiy Anybody can speak in tongues if they ask God for the gift. He withholds no good thing for His children, it’s a gift.
Mark 16:17
“And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues;”
We all have the ability, all of us just don’t have a strong enough desire
Shakerra Salter I don’t think that every believer will be able to speak in tongues God has appointed these in the church: first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, administrations, varieties of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?” 1 Corinthians 12:28-30
I enjoyed listening to your message Nate and Sutton. I like the dating boundaries the most. In my opinion, I believe when dating someone, you get to know them first and let that relationship grow. Great job and keep up the good work.
This was so good, sometimes serious, and other times cracking up at Nate's comical remarks, always great to see true honest people, keep working for the Lord and keep making videos,ideas for reaching 100k, don't do something dumb, your family needs you, but something funny to keep us laughing , that would be great😅
Hershey chocolate haha yes! Def not something dumb!
Thanks so much for the beam of light!!! Love the video and all the tips - I felt it was exactly what I had needed in my journey of Christian beliefs!
I so enjoy Sunday with you both. Your honesty is refreshing, and your passion for your faith feeds my soul. Thank you!
Katie Lupton 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Nate and Sutton, I just recently started watching y'alls videos. I greatly appreciate your honesty and transparency! Thanks for all you do! Love y'all!
Angel Helton you're so welcome and welcome to the family 💛💛
Loved it!!!!! Missed y'all and thank you for the advice😉
Your intro might be the cutest thing ever!!!!!!
Anna faith aww thank you!! 😁
Thank you for being so honest about your boundaries instead of what “should” be! So many talk about what they should be but fail to mention their own shortcomings.
I love you guys!! Thank you for sharing glimpses into your lives!
it was all fun and games until he said "i dont like that word *especially coming from a woman*" triggered
Haha right, sorry our existence is not to be attractive for you
annikastout that’s just something that’s unattractive to him I mean i don’t blame him. I know our world is all about equality and stuff these days which is good but we’re still girls and should hold ourselves to a certain standard and be proud of being a lady. you shouldn’t get triggered that a man is turned off by a fowl mouth
grace williamson it’s that it is worse for him coming from a woman than a man. Unacceptable double standard in my opinion.
@@gracewilliamson1000 I totally get being turned off by swearing, but girls don't need to hold themselves to a higher standard. Individuals can hold themselves to a higher standard, but it doesn't matter if you're a girl or boy. Guys with double standards are unattractive imo
hillerepera & annikastout I definitely see where you’re coming from and respect you’re opinion. I just interpret what he was saying differently then y’all I guess. I definitely don’t think he was directing cussing at girls specifically like I’m sure he doesn’t find men cussing great either but he was just addressing women cussing specifically because they’re talking about they’re relationship and expectations of eachother.
Thank you both for being so honest and loving! It is so refreshing to see 🙏 May God continue to work in and through you!
My new favourite duo. You guys are the funniest, goofiest, loveable, kindest people around love you two!!!! and the fam of course hahahahah
Zoë Norrish aw thank you! 💛💛
Wow the positivity in this video literally made my day.
I can’t help it, you guys make me smile when I see you two 😁. Love you guys!
I want to hear Sutton reply to more questionssssss. Like more 50/50. I believe there is richness in different perspectives; even if you're of like-mind
Sutton looks so beautiful in that picture she sent you, that made me sad😔 also about that “especially coming from a woman” comment, it’s also “such a turn off” when men are sexist btw!!!!!!!! :))))))
Sophie Rodgers I was super taken aback by that picture comment.... it was an adorable photo & I want a man who loves my most natural photos as much as my dolled up ones. Otherwise, I love watching their videos.
It's not sexist. He's talking about what is or isn't attractive to him as a straight man. On the topic of a relationship, how he personally feels about other men doesn't matter as much because he wouldn't be attracted to them anyway.
jacky o, he didn’t actually say that. He said that most people try to impress online with their photos - especially the first photo they send to whoever they’re talking with. He was actually impressed that she _didn’t_ try hard to impress him with that first photo ☝️
jacky o, you’re right, I just rewatched that bit, and he did say those things 😝 I can see how you got the impression that he thought she should have sent a better picture, but the impression I got, came more from what he said after she explained why she didn’t go through all the trouble of, you know, blow-drying and fixing her hair, putting on makeup and her best outfit just to take that “Yes, I am really me” photo to send him ☝️
Having watched some of their other videos where they talked about how they first got in touch and started getting to know each other, I recall that the photos he saw of her on Facebook before he even started talking to her were gorgeous, professional shots that made her look like a model, so I interpreted his reaction to the “holding name” photo, not as one of disappointment, but surprise that she wasn’t trying to impress him with more of that kind of look, and just sent a completely normal - even slightly goofy - snapshot of herself as she happened to be at the time. When he said, “I think it worked, because I was like, ‘Hmm! She’s not really trying to impress me too much,’ so it kinda made me more intrigued,” the impression I got was that it surprised him, but in a good way 😉
Feminist women turn of off as well
I’m 17 and never curse and all of my friends do it without realizing it. It’s one of the easiest habits. They always ask me why I don’t and I ask them why they do because there’s no reason to. I have a very good vocabulary so I don’t need to curse to get my message across.
sameee
I don't curse but my vocab sucks.
You are a blessing! I love all your videos and I look forward to them every week. You are such an inspiration for young generations. I wanted to tell you that your words and testimony are reaching people like me worldwide (I watch you from Colombia) ♡ God bless you!
laura rodriguez so amazing thank you for sharing!! 💛
Your hearts are just so beautiful. It brings me so much joy and hope seeing other people so passionate about this. Thank you so much.
Kiersten Elizabeth that's so sweet thank you!!
Lots of love from Germany
I love you guys. I’m almost 80, but still young-and BTW you will never feel old in your mind. Everyone around my age still see themselves as around middle thirties. So it is a shock sometimes to meet yourself in the mirror. One thing I sense (and it may not be so), but after watching a few of your interactive videos, Nate, you love doing them, but at the same time maybe you feel a little exposed and uncomfortable. And maybe you’re just young and not settled into yourself, yet. But it takes a lot of courage for the two of you to open up a public forum to get your love of Jesus and living a clean life out there. I pray that the seed you’re sowing falls on fertile ground, especially among the young people who find your channel.
Shirlee Campbell that’s awesome! We’re excited to be 80 and still feelin young! Thank you for sharing 💛
Thanks for letting us know how 80 will feel like, I am 42 and sometimes I think why don’t I feel old, but the mirror will remind ourselves that we are aging outside our bodies 🤨
Love yalls banter, honesty, and wisdom! Thanks for sharing!! 👊😁💯🙌🏼🙌🏼
I started praying out loud recently and now I way prefer that to praying silently! It's like I'm having a real conversation with God ☺️ I'm sad that y'all didn't really answer the question about what your boundaries were...I wanted to know lol
Just found your channel recently and love the values you guys have. These videos are so informational and help me in growing in my relationship with Christ.
Great video!! Keeping it real as always.🙌💯 Can't wait for the money Q & A. May the Lord keep blessing you guys.
You guys are awesome lol. Definitely will reach 100K by the end of the year. That honey app is awesome, thanks! God bless
Kevin B 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I love your videos!! I love that they're not just you guys doing random stuff to entertain ppl but they actually have a purpose. You guys are also such funny and holy ppl and great role models!! I love when you guys laugh with each other:).
Annie McGuffin aww thank you 🙏🏼 we try our best to give value!
I was definitely wondering about setting boundaries. Thank you for answering that and all of the questions so honestly. You guys are the cutest!
Malise you're so welcome!
Love your videos so much, thank you for sharing with us! Happy Sunday, hope y'all are having a blessed day! ❤️
THP you're so welcome it's our pleasure!
This guy is so great!
It’s so good to see the smile on their face when talking about gratefulness
omgsh i love you two!! also while watching what really stuck out to me was going to sleep angrily i feel like we all as brothers and sisters could encourage each other not to let the sun go down on our wrath... but to talk it out! or pray it out!! Ephesians 4:26
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:”
please, keep me and my family in prayer on this one! you and your family are in my prayers as well! love you all!
You guys have such amazing personalities! Lol and it’s refreshing to see that along with how transparent and HONEST you guys are with us about yourselves/your relationship! It really reminds everyone that we are all human and that Christians are not aliens. This channel is sooo different from even other Christian marriage channels. In an awesome way! God bless you guys and may he keep helping y’all spread his word and truth through here! 🤗 I’m so glad I found this channel.
I hit the like button before I started watching because I knew I'd be in for an informative and entertaining video 😊 sending y'all love from another Christian ytuber ❤
Nas Ellis you're the best Nas thank you!! 😊
Nas Ellis SAME!
I love how when Sutton said she regretted dating in high school, Nate immediately followed with “YES!” It reminds me of the Lord’s jealous love (SOS 8:6) ❤️❤️❤️
This video was in my suggestions and I can truthfully say, out of all the intros I've seen on UA-cam, this is the best one, I literally love it 😂! Liked and Subscribed 👍🏾
I love what Sutton said about sowing a seed! For me, personally, I find it really discouraging when I feel like I’ve extended an Olive branch to someone or gone out of my way to share the word and it doesn’t pay off. I’m more confident now in the fact that I have sowed the seeds, and that’s what my job is.
I am so glad this popped up on my recommendations! You guys seem like such a joyful couple spreading the love of Jesus. ❤️
Dahlia Reyes thank you and welcome to the channel! 💛
y'all are great!! I hope you never lose your honesty and transparency!
Hi guys! Just love watching the Of you..kiss Oaklan for us & thanks for sharing your hearts❣️
In agreement with the 100K😇
You both are so inspiring!! I love watching your videos!!
Maggie Kai aww thank you 🙏🏼 😊
He's okay talking about her flaws but doesn't want to talk about his?
He's talked about his own flaws in other videos, don't worry. The video they did about porn was all him.
Lauren Carducci right on!! There’s just something about this couple that doesn’t seem authentic with what they say vs. what they portray. Does anyone else agree??
Irene - I was wondering what you mean by “too white” as for religion goes
I feel like they’re like on edge with each other, idk how to explain it.
Janel Lee LoL why pressed
She’s more real than him....love it!
JessyJ318 couldn’t agree more.
He loves to preach but doesn’t love to be vulnerable
Thank you so much for being transparent in everything you say. I’m really thankful with good for your family because it was giving a much better understanding of what a Christian relationship should look like and more like real life tips. I’ll keep your family in my prayers Godbless you!✨
Sundays are reserved for Nate and Sutton 😀😊 hey best friends 👋😂
annie tandeo Hey!! 👋🏼
Love you guys so so much !! You are so insightful and passionate and truthful
Jasmine Ward so nice thank you!! 💛
Y’all are my favorite Christian couple on UA-cam. Keep up the great work y’all! Such good conversation topics.
rae_muk thank you thank you!!
I’m catholic but I love your guys’ transparency and honesty! Keep it up, praying for y’all!
You guys are the people I look up to. I always look forward to your videos and when I grow up I hope to fine a spouse that is as wise, fun, and as close to the Lord as you guys are. I love you guys so much!
Rosebud Vlogs that so sweet thank you!! We hope that for you too!! 🙏🏼
So glad I found your channel. I’m a new subscriber and as a college student, your advice really helped!:)
The clip at the end of Nate dancing is literally me every Friday night 😂😂
Nas Ellis 🤣🤣 🕺🏽
I love how honest you are💕💕 thanks for bringing us into ur lives
I've been watching your guys' channel from the start and I have loveddd seeing your personalities come out a little bit more with each video!! You guys are awesome, I love what you're doing and I love your mission here on UA-cam. I believe you're truly making a difference in His kingdom :-)
Kasey Calderon Thats awesome Kasey thank you so much for supporting and believing in what we're doing! 💛💛
I love y'alls honesty!! And your content, y'all help me so much!!
Chantel Daigrepont Yayy that makes us so happy to hear!
It's nice to see people on youtube who show that they have really thought about what they believe. The fact that you guys are open to different opinions on smaller issues debated by Christians really conveys that you see following Jesus as more important than being a "perfect" Christian. Keep up the good work! :)
i just love how you grow more and more comfortable in front of the camera sutton! you're already there, nate. since day 1, lol.
Love how real you two are. Your video both blessed me and made me laugh!😂 such great quality and wisdom! New subscriber!❤️
I'm supposed to be watching my lecture but I'm watching this instead and I have NO REGRETS!!! Love you guys, beyond happy I found your channel!
Daphna Torres hahaha uh oh! We're happy you're here too!! 😊
I love your videos...like you guys are probably my role model rn. I'm 21, a Christian and I'm saving myself for marriage!
I love how spontaneous are your videos, laughing and remembering things😂.
One of my favorite couples!!! They are so cute. Nate was in one of my classes back in high school. He is such a sweet guy and always had great advice. A true Christian ✝️
I love watching these videos! I hope you make your goal :) here to support you guys
Interconnected thank you!! 🙏🏼
You two are so fun and entertaining to watch. I, too, look forward to special Sunday. Thank you for your openness, honesty and sharing. Hope you will talk more about speaking in tongues. What a precious gift from our Father...a special prayer language. I especially like how you two react to one another....adorable! Plus you aren't afraid to admit to making mistakes in life and relationships. We are all a work in progress. Blessings and love to you! Looking forward to next Sunday!
I love your videos!! I am in high school and your videos have been very encouraging and helpful to me as being able to better myself as a christian and live biblically💖💖
Wow I agree with every single thing said in this video. Especially the evolution part. I love yall!
I love how transparent you two are because it shows how human you are and allows for other people to see even Christians make mistakes.
I just started watching you guys and I cannot stop watching!!! You guys are so cute❤❤
Love love love how honest and raw this is!!!
Sutton, the photo was not the "least flattering", you looked amazing! I agree, that was mean. Power of life and death are in the tongue, build up your wife with your words no matter how "dolled up" she is. Just my opinion, Christian woman also, married 10 years.
Y’all are THE CUTEST! Keep lifting up Jesus! We are cheering you on.❤️
Jerome & Shanna Crawford thank you! 💛💛
You two guys are an amazing couple, you are such an inspiration to me.
Lots of love from Italy ❤️
You both make me want to be a better person in every aspect in my life. You are such astonishing role models. Thank you for brightening the world, video by video!
So happy I found y’all!! Wonderful video had me smiling God bless
The thought of marrying a non Christian is so sad, because that deepest part of your most intimate self, your spirit, would be something you can't share with the other person! My husband and I are bound closer to one another by the bond of both being Christians, and I am forever grateful for that! We waited on the Lord be and each other, and married at 34/35. So worth the wait!
Thanks for sharing Kristin. That's inspirational, considering I just turned 35 last Thursday and I'm like😱😳🤪no one on the horizon, yet I'm determined to wait on the Lord.
Aaa... not to put u down... but I cant... it's too close to 40... at that time I probably would've just told god to forget it... not saying u should've done that... but that's what I would do. But I got 20 years til I'm 40.
@@futurelane3377 I hear ya, but ultimately, the end goal is being more in love with Jesus and conforming to *His* will for our lives. We choose to die to self, reminding myself not my will Lord, but Yours. I'd rather aim to be in His will than mess up my life missing His blessings for it. 🤦♀️🤷♀️I dunno; to each their own.
My dad was not a Christian when my mom met him. He started going to church and all but in the past year even after 30+ years of marriage and 11 kids my dad has stopped going to church, turned to alcohol, and now they're facing divorce. It's heartbreaking for me as I'm the youngest and I'm the only one left at home (I''m 13, I do have a 16 year old sister but she is often at work) I'm so happy that you found who God had planned for you though! It is wonderful when I get to watch others fall in love around me and experience that passion for each other and for Christ.
This is beautiful and it touched me. I am a 30 year old Christian non married woman. So thanks for reminding to keep my faith strong 💗
I think the “don’t let the sun go down on your anger” verse is more meant to tell us that at the end of the day we need to love each other and be able to tell each other that & mean it, even if things aren’t resolved, and THEN go to sleep.
You guys seem so happy all the time! You guys are great mentors and love your advice! Also are very funny😂, God bless!
Y’all are adorable thank you for sharing your faith and life and advice!! God bless❤️
So important. The essentials! Thanks for sharing!!🙂
So glad I found your channel. REFRESHING and awesome!!!
Michele Michael* welcome to the family! 💛💛
G'day guys! Been watching you guys for a couple days. Absolutely lovin ya content aye. I'm Jeremiah and watching ya from Australia! 😀😀
Nate you are insane. That picture of sutton holding the name looks phenomenal. Natural and all.
You should take a look at how not even half decent your picture looked.
Izabela W I know, she looked adorable. To me he seems way to fake and all into himself
Her picture was way better than his 😂
Literally she looks so beautiful this guy sorta seems like a douche and really like he is vain
He definitely comes off shallow at times. He should be more self aware about it
Izabela W well that’s mean.... for no apparent reason
I'm so glad I found your channel! I love watching your videos because you guys are just so genuine and share the same beliefs that I have on everything. It's so refreshing to see a Christian couple that truly represents a relationship with Christ at the center (especially on UA-cam). You guys make me excited to see what God has in store for me and the future little family he will give me haha. You're videos also never fail to make me laugh! God bless you guys always 💗
My husband and I started watching your videos and we smile the WHOLE TIME 😂😍
Olivia Threat 💛💛
Nate and Sutton, I love watching your guy's videos SO much!! You both have such awesome advice and are such an adorable, godly and happy couple! I am dating someone right now who I hope to marry, but we are both trying to take things day by day and truly listen to the Lord's voice to see, and are committed to staying pure. You guys don't even know how much your advice has helped me in my relationship! You are both so inspiring, and show me how much its gonna be worth it to do things God's way! Thank you so much for this ministry you started and please keep it up! I'm praying for you guys!
Stumbled across your guys account, and I’m so happy I did! I love the passion you guys have for Jesus and the love you have for each other. 😁
I just downloaded Honey after watching this haha! Great content as always!
Hockey Scouting Reports with Matt Levine haha it’s amazing!
You guy's advice is amazing and so encouraging! I love the way ya'll live ya'lls life in the image of God not only as each of ya'lls person but also as a relationship and family!!