How To Overcome Jealousy In A Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

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  • @ProjectLifeMastery
    @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому +101

    Hey Masters! If you ever find yourself triggered by something that evokes the emotional reaction of “jealousy”, then I believe it’s a great opportunity for self-growth. If you can pin-point the beliefs that are making you feel that way, then you can change it easily! I hope the perspective and mindset we share in this video can serve you and your relationship. It’s about cultivating the confidence, trust and abundance mentality that will transform your relationship.

    • @andrehenderson2488
      @andrehenderson2488 6 років тому +3

      Project Life Mastery I love and appreciate all your words of wisdom so much man you have to be my favorite you tuber

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому +1

      Thank you Andre!

    • @FokwaDivine
      @FokwaDivine 6 років тому +1

      So much wisdom. I also love the way you look at her. The love is there.

    • @tinashechikwanda9454
      @tinashechikwanda9454 6 років тому

      Thanks Stefan and Tatiana. All the way from Zimbabwe.

    • @racheljune688
      @racheljune688 3 роки тому +3

      @@ProjectLifeMastery I really need help... I'm very jealous in my relationship and I'm afraid I'm ruining it. He's done things in the past that makes it hard for me to trust him, and he swears he never would do anything again, and I've been cheated on in the past many years ago, so I'm traumatized from this... How do you not get emotionally hurt by something that truly and deeply hurts you? I feel a tormenting emotionally agony and then I go completely insane and black out and lash out. I really want to be better. Any tips? Thank you. 🙏🥺❤️ You both are so wise. I appreciate all you've said ...

  • @sheilamaeceriban6010
    @sheilamaeceriban6010 4 роки тому +320

    I want this in our relationship 😭 im so very jealous, controlling, over protective, paranoid girlfriend huhu 😭

  • @dr620
    @dr620 4 роки тому +117

    I didn't have a jealousy issue. But last August my husband cheated on me at his sister's destination wedding. I think if I have another relationship, I may get that fear of it happening again. Trust and loyalty is such a HUGE thing for me. It's like a rare precious stone. If a partner can't give you that, move on...you are worth waiting for.

  • @josephmaruri7265
    @josephmaruri7265 4 роки тому +106

    This guy just blew my mind. I’m currently trying to fix my relationship and everything he just mentioned was spot on. Everything from jealousy to insecurities. I’m going to keep watching this video to keep me reminded.

  • @mabel276
    @mabel276 4 роки тому +82

    I really enjoyed watching this video. It saved my marriage.

  • @thethreecousins5944
    @thethreecousins5944 4 роки тому +51

    This video helped alot, I'm very jealous and insecure in my current relationship and it sucks and make me not want to be in a relationship. But with that being said I have alot of growth I need to make. My fiance hates how insecure and jealous I am and makes our relationship very difficult.

  • @pamelag2036
    @pamelag2036 6 років тому +54

    The spark in her eyes @ 4:30

  • @reisnaoranda5998
    @reisnaoranda5998 5 років тому +101

    This video made me cry, thank you... I really needed this

    • @holls273
      @holls273 2 роки тому

      Me too 😭😭

  • @kerbs8652
    @kerbs8652 3 роки тому +18

    You have some interesting points here (confronting fear), but it is more difficult to subscribe to these ideas if you have "barely ever felt jealousy". How can you give advice if you cannot be empathic about and relate to what WE go through? It was an opportunity for you to help, not create an air of 'being above it'.

  • @DwayneKlassenTheCoachForMen
    @DwayneKlassenTheCoachForMen 6 років тому +58

    Mad respect! You both are an inspiration for what's possible when couples are willing to put in the effort.

  • @ewelinas26
    @ewelinas26 4 роки тому +8

    I want to have a relationship like that. I feel like he’s not giving me enough of that reassurance though. One day we’re ok, the next day he’ll angry at me for something for something trivial and threatens to end it. I do love him, I’m just tired of feeling like any little argument will just break it. Not sure what to do

  • @ricliu4538
    @ricliu4538 5 років тому +27

    Love the video...I also think when we are feeling a moment of weakness internally, that jealousy will feel a thousand times worse. Thank you both

  • @vanessa5105
    @vanessa5105 3 роки тому +9

    Wow! I am on a self discovery journey because I am so swarm by the feeling of jealousy for the past few days and could not find a good advice to open my mind. I secretly tear everytime when I was not being able to understand the struggle in mind and could not see the light. I am so relieved that I saw your video and is a bonus because there’s a female voice in this! I teared when u said you only want her to be happier if someone else could make her happy then u do. Gonna look out for more your content. Please share more of videos it touches my soul!

  • @dorisasante5998
    @dorisasante5998 3 місяці тому +1

    I pray for such openness and great communication in my relationship.

  • @miroslavdeshin
    @miroslavdeshin 4 роки тому +11

    This is the one and only video that actually helped me. You both guys are so filled with relationships knowledge and I'm so thankful with you for sharing.
    I'm facing a bad moment with my girl while the only problem that is actually going on is inside my head.
    Now I can actually make a list and now my value.

  • @eloiampi1989
    @eloiampi1989 4 роки тому +12

    Thank You Thank You! i will now treat my partner like a butterfly

  • @TracyGreenwood
    @TracyGreenwood 4 роки тому +11

    Man, these are difficult questions to ask. But there are big rewards in store if we are willing to answer honestly.

  • @baybeejaelyn
    @baybeejaelyn 4 роки тому +19

    Thanks! I really needed to hear the butterfly analogy! It really hit home.

  • @adamdygnarowicz5127
    @adamdygnarowicz5127 4 роки тому +12

    There are many different schools that teach about relationships. Stefan's and Tatiana's school is the one I like the most.
    Thank you for this video.

  • @Prettymapleleaf
    @Prettymapleleaf 6 років тому +19

    Thank you so much for this video.
    I divorced my husband of almost 10 years back in January. We still have much love for each other but we weren’t growing and we felt it was best to let go. We have taken an unusual road and have remained friends. It’s been very difficult at times especially for me because he is casually dating.
    This break has made me see different perspectives in myself, mindsets and made me face my low self esteem head on.
    I do not want to be jealous. I am happy for him and I want to continue to project that feeling and not have fear/jealousy live inside of me. I am actually seeing him today just to hang out.
    I so appreciate the both of you. Thanks again!!!

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому +7

      Thanks for sharing Laura. Hope this video could give you a different perspective. Grow emotionally and spiritually, continue to raise your consciousness to higher levels of love and wanting the best for others - that is true spiritual enlightenment!

  • @Mar-os5nf
    @Mar-os5nf 4 роки тому +10

    Great advice and perspective. I looked this vid up because i am jealous. This is Something i need to look at

  • @ritamdas3833
    @ritamdas3833 3 роки тому +6

    The way she looks at you man!
    Cheers! Love to you both

  • @edoardotarallo9081
    @edoardotarallo9081 5 років тому +12

    jeeez this video is great, completely changed the vision of everything

  • @mayafanic123
    @mayafanic123 4 роки тому +18

    I feel like a weight has been lifted after watching this

  • @hanni8659
    @hanni8659 6 років тому +16

    Your relationship is beautiful! You make her glow!:)

  • @chandralenoree
    @chandralenoree 4 роки тому +7

    Your guy’s relationship is inspiring. Thank you for sharing!!

  • @DGClass
    @DGClass 6 років тому +40

    Please keep videos like this coming, I really enjoyed your previous videos -where you talked about the 6 necessities, I showed it to my partner and it definitely helped us get over a rut we were going through. I will definitely be showing him this, since we already do many of the things you talked about, it will be refreshing for him to know we are in the right path :)

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому +3

      Tatiana and I have more relationship videos coming :-) Make sure you're subscribed!

    • @DGClass
      @DGClass 6 років тому +1

      Oh I am!
      I've been subscribed to your channel since 2013 :D

  • @naplesnc
    @naplesnc 4 роки тому +8

    absolutely eye opening video. congrats on your relationship. i was looking for this to help me. thank you.

  • @z3357224
    @z3357224 6 років тому +5

    You can really tell they have an incredible relationship.. thanks for these videos!!

  • @confidenceovercomparison
    @confidenceovercomparison 6 років тому +15

    18:54 OMGGGG CUTE! Love when you guys make videos with eachother about relationships and business!

  • @stormbrewer1169
    @stormbrewer1169 6 років тому +8

    Very powerful concepts, more couples should apply these principles, thanks for another great video!

  • @breaststroke4life632
    @breaststroke4life632 3 роки тому +5

    I really needed this, thank you guys, let's all grow💪🏾

  • @alignedmindbodysoul
    @alignedmindbodysoul 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks guys.. this helped me alot. I realise that of the age of 28 i have not yet experienced a true beautiful loving relationship.. its never to late to learn i guess..

  • @Lilfairy8D
    @Lilfairy8D 6 років тому +17

    Thank you and Tatiana for sharing this amazing and really helpful video❤ Your knowledge and wisdom really helped me change my mindset towards relationships. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart. I truly wish you the absolute best!

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому +2

      Glad we could help Nancy!

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames 6 років тому +1

    • @Lilfairy8D
      @Lilfairy8D 6 років тому

      Project Life Mastery thank you 😊

    • @Lilfairy8D
      @Lilfairy8D 6 років тому +1

      Luxx Biz thank you💕 I cannot believe that both of you replied... I think I am going to cry 😍❤

  • @marthaclayton2457
    @marthaclayton2457 3 роки тому +3

    Trust comes with times. Great video. Like everything has to give time to grow and grow the right way.

  • @danielzbel192
    @danielzbel192 3 роки тому +3

    Wow did I need to hear this talk from you two thank you from the bottom of my heart!

  • @davebrown3371
    @davebrown3371 6 років тому +6

    This video is amazing. This is something that blew me away

  • @hisuze2018
    @hisuze2018 4 роки тому +5

    This video made me feel a lot better. Thank you.

  • @LadyBug8751
    @LadyBug8751 5 років тому +4

    Thank you for your beautiful messages! Both of you!

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 6 років тому +5

    I love these relationship videos. Please keep them coming

  • @eRoTiCCrEaTiOnS
    @eRoTiCCrEaTiOnS 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video, it’s one I come back to whenever I feel jealous

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  2 роки тому

      Im happy to hear that you received value from the video! What is the core wound that gets triggered when you feel jealous by your partner?

  • @pablohippy
    @pablohippy 3 роки тому +3

    Love, trust and honesty ❤️

  • @JTT126
    @JTT126 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, you guys have such a healthy relationship.

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you! We've worked hard to create a healthy relationship. These are the 7 tips that have helped our relationship THE MOST - ua-cam.com/video/9HEAe58KMwo/v-deo.html

  • @RoselynRichardson
    @RoselynRichardson 2 місяці тому

    Thank you both of you love this video..

  • @GodiZreal
    @GodiZreal 6 років тому +17

    I really enjoyed this video and it's gems. I will save this video forever!

  • @irynadsk
    @irynadsk 4 роки тому +3

    You are SO goals guys!! love all your videos!

  • @trevorkong1079
    @trevorkong1079 6 років тому +5

    Wonderful topic and great advice from both of you! Thank you for sharing!

  • @barbararm4671
    @barbararm4671 6 років тому +5

    You two are a inspiration.❤❤

  • @jennifergeoffrey9159
    @jennifergeoffrey9159 4 роки тому +1

    I really needed this this is something I struggle every day thank you !!

  • @dennisziah9257
    @dennisziah9257 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks to you both
    I really needed to hear this.
    You made my day and I am inspired.

  • @uberredden
    @uberredden 2 роки тому +1

    This is so beautiful. My relationship is new and I wish I was as secure as you are

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  2 роки тому +1

      You and your partner can create this level of security in your relationship! If you or your partner struggle with jealousy, it is important to understand the root cause of jealousy so that the two of you can choose a more productive response the next time a trigger occurs. Watch this recent video where Tatiana and I talk about our best relationship advice that most people wont share with you - ua-cam.com/video/xVfwDgP2EGM/v-deo.html

    • @uberredden
      @uberredden 2 роки тому

      @@ProjectLifeMastery thank you for putting out such content. The world is a better place with you guys around

  • @zorayaseeram2703
    @zorayaseeram2703 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this. I needed this. Saved ❤

  • @MattiaTorresani
    @MattiaTorresani 5 років тому +3

    This video was really helpful, thank you soo much.

  • @user-gx3sn5hi8l
    @user-gx3sn5hi8l 3 місяці тому

    I never been jealous I got jealous today!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jealousy I hate it and the emotions hate it work on myself each day I got jealously.

  • @xbabyyb
    @xbabyyb 3 роки тому +4

    I needed this, thank you both ❤️

  • @NewVentureEntrepreneurs
    @NewVentureEntrepreneurs 6 років тому +4

    Great Video Stefan. Thanks for sharing!

  • @rinogeorge8232
    @rinogeorge8232 4 роки тому +2

    Love the analogy of butterfly 😍

  • @Jedessee
    @Jedessee 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you. I needed this video.

  • @PeUrmeleMantuitorului
    @PeUrmeleMantuitorului 6 років тому +4

    Wonderful! 💗

  • @stevenmazza4121
    @stevenmazza4121 4 роки тому +1

    Well said. You guys have somthing good. Thanks!

  • @JesusRodriguez-mc4mi
    @JesusRodriguez-mc4mi 3 роки тому +1

    great video i learn alot thank you this video was definitely helpful

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      Glad it was helpful! In this video, Tatiana and I talk about the 7 keys that make up a successful relationship. I hope you enjoy it - ua-cam.com/video/9HEAe58KMwo/v-deo.html

  • @yeevang8751
    @yeevang8751 3 роки тому +2

    What do you do then, when your partner is attracted to other women? I understand to talk calmly, but what’s the solution?

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому +1

      Inside this video, Tatiana and I share 7 keys for a successful relationship. I trust you will find something there that helps you - ua-cam.com/video/9HEAe58KMwo/v-deo.html

  • @Moonlvr555
    @Moonlvr555 Рік тому

    God bless your union 🙏💗! You both are so wonderful souls and such a wonderful match for each other ♥️! I’d love to hear the story of how you two met ♥️

  • @jeffreylocke7592
    @jeffreylocke7592 3 роки тому

    This is all about strong communication.

  • @reisnaoranda5998
    @reisnaoranda5998 5 років тому +1

    These videos deserve more views

  • @jordynsimpson4852
    @jordynsimpson4852 3 роки тому +3

    Shit I wouldn’t get jealous if I looked like her either 😂😂😂

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      Im a lucky man 🙏🙏🙏 If you want to get to know us on a more personal level, check out our recent Q&A - ua-cam.com/video/Gbaos-Bo-io/v-deo.html

  • @feliciabird7461
    @feliciabird7461 3 роки тому +1

    Hello my name is felicia..l need help to make me to stop being jealous over my best friend aka Partner...jacques he works with women...but how can l stop being so jealousy in my life ..and l want my couple to work in happy ..life peace and l dont want to lose my man ..

  • @nathanaldrich4781
    @nathanaldrich4781 11 місяців тому

    Great knowledge and super appreciate!

  • @shopnicolets
    @shopnicolets 6 років тому +4

    I would love to send the both of you a handmade bracelet if you are interested ❤️

  • @ashleyjohnson9971
    @ashleyjohnson9971 2 роки тому

    Thank y'all so much for the advice 💕💕💞

  • @AbdulIbrahimi
    @AbdulIbrahimi 4 роки тому +2

    You're great man❤

  • @angelolauri7456
    @angelolauri7456 6 років тому +4

    great video!!!

  • @natsdaley9615
    @natsdaley9615 3 роки тому

    I needed this today thank you guys 😊

  • @moon9942
    @moon9942 3 роки тому

    A million thanks for this ❤️

  • @tattooartbytony631
    @tattooartbytony631 2 роки тому

    I love this video !!! Thank you so much

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  2 роки тому

      You are so welcome! When we get triggered by our partner, it's our job to explore what is going on inside of ourselves. When you experience jealousy, take a step back and ask yourself, “What about this situation that triggered me to react in this way?” There are certain principles that have led Tatiana and me to be so confident in our relationship and in ourselves. Recently, we filmed a video together where we shared our best relationship advice from being together for the last 7+ years - ua-cam.com/video/xVfwDgP2EGM/v-deo.html

  • @Samlovi
    @Samlovi 3 роки тому

    Good stuff! Love the butterfly analogy.

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      Glad you liked it! In this video, Tatiana and I talk about 10 habits that will destroy a relationship if one is not careful - ua-cam.com/video/kt2o_TqPB5w/v-deo.html

  • @londonmaminka8626
    @londonmaminka8626 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video 🙏

  • @stephanieayala3620
    @stephanieayala3620 6 років тому +1

    Love you both!!!!!

  • @KnightVR2
    @KnightVR2 2 роки тому

    Thank you 😊 this was helpful.

  • @kategough7917
    @kategough7917 4 роки тому

    beautiful video - thank you

  • @sophirox2219
    @sophirox2219 Рік тому

    Wow I needed this today 😢💔

  • @vakamuse695
    @vakamuse695 4 роки тому

    This was exactly what i was looking for

  • @acube1638
    @acube1638 5 років тому +1

    So helpful!!!!!!

  • @UrtooslowSega
    @UrtooslowSega 3 роки тому

    Yeah i seriously needed this...

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому +1

      Happy to hear that it helped! In this more recent video, Tatiana and I talk about the 7 keys to a successful relationship. Hope you receive value from it - ua-cam.com/video/9HEAe58KMwo/v-deo.html

  • @juliomatos122
    @juliomatos122 2 роки тому

    Excellent video Thanks !

  • @juliomatos122
    @juliomatos122 4 роки тому

    excellent video Thank You

  • @tyez04
    @tyez04 6 років тому +14

    You're a lucky guy , she looks amazing

  • @leonardotierno4650
    @leonardotierno4650 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      You're welcome! Check out this video where Tatiana and I walk you through the 7 keys that make up a successful relationship - ua-cam.com/video/9HEAe58KMwo/v-deo.html

  • @bazarista4720
    @bazarista4720 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much !

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      You're welcome! Check out these 7 daily habits that build a strong healthy relationship - ua-cam.com/video/hUIKpeGLQCs/v-deo.html

  • @rahulbball9395
    @rahulbball9395 2 роки тому

    Thanks. This really helped me :)

  • @valentinapradilla5475
    @valentinapradilla5475 3 роки тому

    Loved this video !,

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  3 роки тому

      Awesome! If you avoid these mistakes in a relationship, you and your partner will grow and evolve together - ua-cam.com/video/kt2o_TqPB5w/v-deo.html

  • @paakwasii2882
    @paakwasii2882 4 роки тому

    You guys motivated me

  • @pic5637
    @pic5637 5 років тому

    Love the analogy

  • @asoni2011
    @asoni2011 5 років тому

    Thumbs up for you guys!

  • @linelykkealler96
    @linelykkealler96 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much

  • @DJPashn
    @DJPashn Рік тому

    Great video mate 👍

  • @b.r.bhadarge9643
    @b.r.bhadarge9643 3 роки тому +2

    Your girlfriend is so beautiful

  • @ibrahimnizamani4958
    @ibrahimnizamani4958 4 роки тому

    Thanks.

  • @lowhigh8356
    @lowhigh8356 6 років тому +1

    Inspiring 😍

    • @ProjectLifeMastery
      @ProjectLifeMastery  6 років тому

      Thank you.
      Here is another video you will love: ua-cam.com/video/7F6AJgL6yvw/v-deo.html

  • @GO-ep8pj
    @GO-ep8pj 5 років тому +1

    Perfect