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Things became chaotic when I exposed an toxic coworker and I pushed him back. But fortunately other team members realized how toxic he is and all members except him left the company.
I just got "let go" from a job where exactly this was happening... Other team member stepped in to protect me... Then I got the axe when the other member weren't on shift...
I'm really fortunate in the fact that this grandiose narc writes out everything in his own handwriting. Not only does that create instant authentication, but it will make him look weak in an annoying sense to any judge that has to read it. He also rambles on down annoying and irrelevant bunny trails that will annoy a judge. And in half of his writings, he stupidly shares information that amounts to a shooting of himself in the foot. So, the lesson learned is to KEEP EVERYTHING THEY WRITE TO YOU. You never know when it's going to conflict with something else they said or did. Consider everything potential evidence. They lie that much!
@@frau_ic - even things that aren't truly against you at all! Be careful how you word things. Anything that can be interpreted more than one way, the narc will twist as supposedly supporting something you were not intending at all. And don't overshare. The less they know about, the better. Right now, I'm working on a letter to a co-heir, revealing a lot of documented falsehoods the narc has lobbed at that co-heir about me. The narc is trying to con that co-heir into approving the narc's accounting of estate assets & expenditures that decedent set up to be handled by her lawyer. I get concerned about what the narc may do to retaliate, because the letter exposes him big time. And he has no way to dispute any of it. I wish my exit strategy was further along, but it's starting to firm up.
Somebody pinch me! Is this a dream? Two of my favorite narcissist content creators together in one video! You two are awesome and help people more than you could ever imagine! It is so awesome watching you two come from two different backgrounds and two different angles about the same subject matter! BTW you ladies look fabulous! ❤
ive been thru all this tooo many times and finally cut off the narcissist in my life and they threatened me from a fake account with just a picture of death. narcissist's are mostly evil as hell and STAY AWAY. they are the worst type of humans. they will always try and come back but just STOP. disengage. it took me way too many years to understand he was a narcissist and your videos have helped me so much.
Two of my favorite people!! Thank you both so much!! You both have been life saving for me. What do you do when the narc love bombs your attorney and your attorney defends them? Is it time to get a new attorney?
Yes. You need to feel confident that when you sit down to negotiate your settlement, it is you and your lawyer on one side, they on the other. Not you against them *and* against your lawyer. My experience has been my ex-lawyer's junior (who pulled together all the info for my mediation on behalf of my lawyer who was travelling,) and his lawyer actually colluded so that I would come out *much* poorer. The end of the story is the mediator saw via the illegitimate financials (which I never signed) that my interest was purposely being undermined and pulled the plug. I was lucky. If you know your lawyer does not have your back, find another one or suffer the consequences. All on you.
@@janeydoe1403 Not saying I know what to do but... If paid for legal protection and the attorney was just enriching him self the whole time... That's illegal... Go to your state bar with it...
@@LOVEtoPLAYdrums I agree. I am limited re funds and *still* trying to get over the finish line. I have to pick my battles and finally getting and Separation Agreement which will enable me to finally get that Divorce Decree Absolute, is my priority. I still have time to report her to the Upper Canada Law Society - and take her to small claims court to recoup the fraudulent invoicing associated with that scam.
Thank you so much for this, Thank you Rebecca and DR Ramani, You're both absolutely beautiful and smart, Peace, love to you both and everyone, Thank you universe 😁😀🥰✨️😍🌈👽🧿♾️🧝♀️💎🐉⚘️😃🐺🌷😊🦄💫🌌😁💞
Unbelievable, and you know how will try to screw you , and children, and of your relatives . Absolutely not. Men like this are absolutely horrible to be around . As a man these guys make me sick
It's been too many years now kids are grown and still not divorced. He never gave his disclosure and money ran out for lawyer so he walked away with everything.
If you have the right to pursue happiness... And the narcs target and steal happiness... How is the narcs abuse cycle not illegal? I know you can't make a "trait" illegal... But abuse is illegal... So this abuse should be illegal... But not the personality trait... Everyone has bad sides to them... But abuse is abuse is abuse...
Ine thing you have to plan on in dealing with a narc is spending a lit of time editing your moves, especially the written ones. Your writings have to be concise, no matter how much the narc inundates you. The shorter the better, because that will make a judge favor you over the rambling narc who brings in everything but the kitchen sink. Also, eliminate an acidic tone toward the narc. Much as you may want to strangle them for their latest move, don't do it in how you write about them. Employ grey rocking in your writing about them. wAs soon as you let your emotions rule the day in your writings about the narc is the day you lose the judge's favor. They hate a tit for tat fight, so just stick to the facts at issue. Does it sound like I'm setting things up for court? Well, I am. Criminal cour. If I go the civil route, I get disinherited. That narc is going down for embezzlement of estate assets. When I can share all the losses that embezzlement has cost me, I will. Suffice it to say they have been astronomical. So, no, I have no qualms about it being about the money. No money will replace Mom, but it will help me get to that happy place we all want out of this.
All the best in your quest. Technically it is about money (for them). It's about what they can get away with having to give you (not what is rightfully yours,) if anything at all, and wearing you out in the process while depleting your resources. Every penny you get is a loss to them so buckle up. Re editing, yup. Documenting their harassment and games translates into a novella. It's by design to make us look crazy and hysterical as nobody believes anybody would "x". But their deceit is so meticulous and practically teeters on criminal, you have to document the details because people can't otherwise see it. And even if they can understand what you're saying in 100 words or less, they don't understand WHY??!? because they are basically emotionally healthy, solid people.
Sorry you're going thru this right now... Very frustrating and soul draining... I had something like this happen over a $320,000 deal... Then she asked for $900,000 at closing...
AGAIN, WHAT IS THE CARICATURISTICS OF A COMPLETELY NON-NARCISSISTIC PERSON?? And why do you completely avoid this question?? For the third year straight. Both of you. Yet also state the NARCISSISTIC PERSON cannot answer such a question.
They have healthy empathy, the ability to validate correctly. They will also have a natural kind caring nature ........ They don't go around hurting people or screwing people over. They have healthy values and healthy approach to life. They are not over materialistic or envious of others. They rationalise correctly and are not assholes.
Wer did u guys make ur money this stuff is kinda pointless people stubborn an stupid I don't think every 1 is some kind of relationship genius this sounds like y'all personal thang
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I'll see you all there!
Yes I do
I want to appreciate those that
recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
this channel, he's very good when it comes
to spell casting, I can testify that.....
Is There a way that I can Speak to you? I'm NOT okay, & I need to ask some questions, really bad... PLEASE! :'(
Darling Rebecca..! I don't mean to nitpick but 'liar' is misspelt..! Totally love your videos though..!
Holy cow. The two people that helped me see that my wife at the time was a narcissist. You two are the Best
Glad you found them helpful! Keep SLAYing! 💗
Wow! You made him apologize!!!!!! They never want to!!!!!!! Not even when they are dying, my case!
Dr Ramani is awesome. 🙂
Rebecca is real smart.
Yes of course
Things became chaotic when I exposed an toxic coworker and I pushed him back. But fortunately other team members realized how toxic he is and all members except him left the company.
I just got "let go" from a job where exactly this was happening... Other team member stepped in to protect me... Then I got the axe when the other member weren't on shift...
When did that happen?
@@RebeccaZungEsq Several years ago.
I'm almost convinced that you are actually sitting together. Almost. I appreciate all you give. 💛
I'm really fortunate in the fact that this grandiose narc writes out everything in his own handwriting. Not only does that create instant authentication, but it will make him look weak in an annoying sense to any judge that has to read it. He also rambles on down annoying and irrelevant bunny trails that will annoy a judge. And in half of his writings, he stupidly shares information that amounts to a shooting of himself in the foot. So, the lesson learned is to KEEP EVERYTHING THEY WRITE TO YOU. You never know when it's going to conflict with something else they said or did. Consider everything potential evidence. They lie that much!
That's right. Because he or she will use everything against you, too, believe it or not.
True! Do you have a good support system in place? ♥
@@frau_ic - even things that aren't truly against you at all! Be careful how you word things. Anything that can be interpreted more than one way, the narc will twist as supposedly supporting something you were not intending at all. And don't overshare. The less they know about, the better. Right now, I'm working on a letter to a co-heir, revealing a lot of documented falsehoods the narc has lobbed at that co-heir about me. The narc is trying to con that co-heir into approving the narc's accounting of estate assets & expenditures that decedent set up to be handled by her lawyer. I get concerned about what the narc may do to retaliate, because the letter exposes him big time. And he has no way to dispute any of it. I wish my exit strategy was further along, but it's starting to firm up.
Somebody pinch me! Is this a dream? Two of my favorite narcissist content creators together in one video! You two are awesome and help people more than you could ever imagine! It is so awesome watching you two come from two different backgrounds and two different angles about the same subject matter! BTW you ladies look fabulous! ❤
Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it! 😊❤
NO WAY~! 2 OF THE TOP UA-camRS...
@Dr. Ramani - Still watching everyday~! Thank you for making all of your videos...
@ʀᴇʙᴇᴄᴄᴀ ᴢᴜɴɢ Silly rabbit... Trix are for kids~!
@ʀᴇʙᴇᴄᴄᴀ ᴢᴜɴɢ Oh wow~! You've been on UA-cam starting April 6th 2022... Good job bro!!!
Rebecca Zung with Dr. Ramani, Beautiful!
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
You two are great together. Thanks for the info. I always want to learn more.
You got this! Keep SLAYing!
The best of both worlds ramani and rebecca! Missing out dr les
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
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Yes, 100. Craziest experience of my life. Love bombed , 2 kids and then set up.
Female Narcs are very dangerous ...... They always have lots of enablers.
A lot of great info in this video. Thank you!
Thank you very much! So what was your favorite part of the video?
@@RebeccaZungEsq I enjoyed the conversation between you and Dr. Ramani.
ive been thru all this tooo many times and finally cut off the narcissist in my life and they threatened me from a fake account with just a picture of death. narcissist's are mostly evil as hell and STAY AWAY. they are the worst type of humans. they will always try and come back but just STOP. disengage. it took me way too many years to understand he was a narcissist and your videos have helped me so much.
Yeppp ...... Spot on !!!!!!
Total black holes and highly toxic and dangerous .
💥
Once you fall into their black hole, you have to struggle with getting out of it.😱😨
100% Agreed~!
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THANKYOU, AS ALWAYS, VERY PRECISE AND CLEAR !!
So glad you found them helpful! Keep Slaying! 🙌
Check this out - icanslay.com/
Best video ever!!
What is something that you are grateful for today? 🙌
Two of my favorite people!! Thank you both so much!! You both have been life saving for me. What do you do when the narc love bombs your attorney and your attorney defends them? Is it time to get a new attorney?
Was a tool of the charmer... Run for the hills... Start over... Brand new attorney... Your money will thank you...
Yes. You need to feel confident that when you sit down to negotiate your settlement, it is you and your lawyer on one side, they on the other. Not you against them *and* against your lawyer. My experience has been my ex-lawyer's junior (who pulled together all the info for my mediation on behalf of my lawyer who was travelling,) and his lawyer actually colluded so that I would come out *much* poorer. The end of the story is the mediator saw via the illegitimate financials (which I never signed) that my interest was purposely being undermined and pulled the plug. I was lucky. If you know your lawyer does not have your back, find another one or suffer the consequences. All on you.
@@janeydoe1403 Not saying I know what to do but... If paid for legal protection and the attorney was just enriching him self the whole time... That's illegal... Go to your state bar with it...
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@@LOVEtoPLAYdrums I agree. I am limited re funds and *still* trying to get over the finish line. I have to pick my battles and finally getting and Separation Agreement which will enable me to finally get that Divorce Decree Absolute, is my priority. I still have time to report her to the Upper Canada Law Society - and take her to small claims court to recoup the fraudulent invoicing associated with that scam.
YES! I NEED HELP, PLEASE! 😢
Thank you so much for this, Thank you Rebecca and DR Ramani, You're both absolutely beautiful and smart, Peace, love to you both and everyone, Thank you universe 😁😀🥰✨️😍🌈👽🧿♾️🧝♀️💎🐉⚘️😃🐺🌷😊🦄💫🌌😁💞
My husband wants to write his own divorce settlement
Hire an attorney!
Unbelievable, and you know how will try to screw you , and children, and of your relatives . Absolutely not. Men like this are absolutely horrible to be around . As a man these guys make me sick
🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪🤪
Don’t listen to anything he says anymore!! Retain an attorney!!
They think they are the be-all end-all of everything. My narcissistic father wrote a 28th amendment to the constitution and got mad when no one cared
Holy smokes . great content .
It's been too many years now kids are grown and still not divorced. He never gave his disclosure and money ran out for lawyer so he walked away with everything.
SHUT THEM DOWN
YES! Do you have a good support system in place?
TOTALLLY.....3 SISTERS PLUS EX !!!!
❤brilliant ❤
@RebeccaZungEsq. min
Yes.😢
Why would they want to hide they are a doctor and change their last name so that you cannot do an internet search on them?
What can u do to stay alive. We have been divorce for years.
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you have the right to pursue happiness... And the narcs target and steal happiness... How is the narcs abuse cycle not illegal? I know you can't make a "trait" illegal... But abuse is illegal... So this abuse should be illegal... But not the personality trait... Everyone has bad sides to them... But abuse is abuse is abuse...
Ine thing you have to plan on in dealing with a narc is spending a lit of time editing your moves, especially the written ones. Your writings have to be concise, no matter how much the narc inundates you. The shorter the better, because that will make a judge favor you over the rambling narc who brings in everything but the kitchen sink. Also, eliminate an acidic tone toward the narc. Much as you may want to strangle them for their latest move, don't do it in how you write about them. Employ grey rocking in your writing about them. wAs soon as you let your emotions rule the day in your writings about the narc is the day you lose the judge's favor. They hate a tit for tat fight, so just stick to the facts at issue. Does it sound like I'm setting things up for court? Well, I am. Criminal cour. If I go the civil route, I get disinherited. That narc is going down for embezzlement of estate assets. When I can share all the losses that embezzlement has cost me, I will. Suffice it to say they have been astronomical. So, no, I have no qualms about it being about the money. No money will replace Mom, but it will help me get to that happy place we all want out of this.
All the best in your quest. Technically it is about money (for them). It's about what they can get away with having to give you (not what is rightfully yours,) if anything at all, and wearing you out in the process while depleting your resources. Every penny you get is a loss to them so buckle up. Re editing, yup. Documenting their harassment and games translates into a novella. It's by design to make us look crazy and hysterical as nobody believes anybody would "x". But their deceit is so meticulous and practically teeters on criminal, you have to document the details because people can't otherwise see it. And even if they can understand what you're saying in 100 words or less, they don't understand WHY??!? because they are basically emotionally healthy, solid people.
Sorry you're going thru this right now... Very frustrating and soul draining... I had something like this happen over a $320,000 deal... Then she asked for $900,000 at closing...
Shut them down
TOTATLY
I want to appreciate those that
recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
this channel, he's very good when it comes
to spell casting, I can testify that.....
AGAIN, WHAT IS THE CARICATURISTICS OF A COMPLETELY NON-NARCISSISTIC PERSON?? And why do you completely avoid this question?? For the third year straight. Both of you. Yet also state the NARCISSISTIC PERSON cannot answer such a question.
They have healthy empathy, the ability to validate correctly. They will also have a natural kind caring nature ........ They don't go around hurting people or screwing people over. They have healthy values and healthy approach to life. They are not over materialistic or envious of others. They rationalise correctly and are not assholes.
@@flowersofthefield340 not.
@@charlestheodoreheissman8418 Re your response to Flowers of the field. If you know the answer why keep asking the question? Peace
Exactly that Flowers of the Field said is your answer!
Is your spell checker not working? 🤡🤡🤡.
Wer did u guys make ur money this stuff is kinda pointless people stubborn an stupid I don't think every 1 is some kind of relationship genius this sounds like y'all personal thang
I want to appreciate those that
recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
this channel, he's very good when it comes
to spell casting, I can testify that.....