7 Comments That Easily Trigger A Narcissist's Anger

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 132

  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому +13

    Do you want to know more about what triggers a narcissist's anger and how to cope? Join me in my free webinar where I offer tips and tricks. Reserve your seat here. icanslay.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому +2

      I'll see you all there!

    • @johnsonjames702
      @johnsonjames702 Рік тому

      I want to appreciate those that
      recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
      this channel, he's very good when it comes
      to spell casting, I can testify that.....

  • @raymondclapsadle9310
    @raymondclapsadle9310 Рік тому +16

    Nobody gets angrier than a narcissist being accused of something they definitely did.

  • @Cowface
    @Cowface Рік тому +11

    I’m laughing because I said a lot of these things to her. It didn’t go over well!

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Рік тому +10

    TRUTH is what triggers and hurts narcisists the most.

  • @NopeNotTodaySatan
    @NopeNotTodaySatan Рік тому +13

    They get angry over anything & everything!! They’re delusional & just miserable. I’ve had more than my share of experience with these creatures. Thank you Rebecca for all the work you do to educate others!!

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 Рік тому +2

      Yes really just not caring or trying to explain yourself to people who are constantly invested in misunderstanding you or you know projecting on you it's just kind of circular in pointless always so just don't even talk to them I found out

  • @marciaparker1568
    @marciaparker1568 Рік тому +9

    Yes..they get angry over anything or nothing!!

  • @jackiewright5017
    @jackiewright5017 Рік тому +14

    Anytime you tell a narcissist "No" they get angry.

    • @charlottepembroke5446
      @charlottepembroke5446 Рік тому

      So true - in my case he would say 'Why not? Why not?' in a really aggressive way.

  • @lucybraun8969
    @lucybraun8969 Рік тому +5

    I'm about to the point where I don't give a flying flip if that narc gets angry. We are well past any negotiating of terms. It's almost time to expose him.

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому

      I'm not sure what you're going thru but I tried exposing them all and got 10 OFP's for my stupid reward for playing the stupid narcs games... If you play in the mud... You just end up dirty and having your attorney upset with you saying...
      "Shame on you Matthew..." Worst feeling I've ever had... Didn't even care about the 10 OFP's after she said that... (I still think she's the best)
      Exposing them isn't worth it. What do think will happen "Oh! now that you exposed me all is well now... I'll be a good person now that you exposed me..." Your health and sanity and future are more important then a narcs that just wants to smear your good name... (Please be careful~!)

  • @taraarrington2285
    @taraarrington2285 Рік тому +10

    I think these types of people are just so used to everybody kissing their ass and worshipping them and like I just kind of give him a look that like I can see straight through them and then they are out there just like trigger than they hate me

  • @taraarrington2285
    @taraarrington2285 Рік тому +14

    I think a narcissist hate me because like I can see through them

  • @salauerman7082
    @salauerman7082 Рік тому +2

    I saw the title and thought “anything you say can and WILL be used against you”, falsely even, I must add!

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому

      Growing up with narcs parents is like growing up on trial... Every thing you say will be...

  • @ghilly_one1720
    @ghilly_one1720 Рік тому +8

    Great stuff. Only recently have I suspected that my younger sib is an undiagnosed Narc/covert. I and my older sib have used 4 of these 7 not realizing these trigger the narc big time. I testify that you are absolutely correct. We have used:
    - no (in front of others)
    - you’re wrong (in front of others)
    - the world doesn’t revolve around you
    - you have issues
    The younger sib went ballistic. The narc rage is grotesque.

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому

      Everything is a reply game. Nothing you say gets absorbed. Soo frustrating! (I'm sorry you're going thru this right now!) Ive tried for decades to get the narcs to listen to me... I've failed every time!
      The rage is just training you to stay away from the unprocessed guilt and shame... I had this happen to me a few nights ago... Ended 35 years of narcs abuse and all the unprocessed emotions of over 30 years comes flooding in... It's a horrible feeling knowing you were just trying to make it thru another day of narcs abuse...
      Not even the narcs rage is and isn't real with them. It's a tool to manipulate even further and an indirect way of getting you to stop the accountability and healing process. Stay safe and get a therapist to handle this "rage"... Much love from a 35 year old scapegoat~!

    • @trailerparkcryptoking5213
      @trailerparkcryptoking5213 Рік тому

      Grind on that 🤡

  • @charlottepembroke5446
    @charlottepembroke5446 Рік тому +5

    After watching so many of Rebecca's videos, it is as if she is actually describing the narcissist I knew right down to every detail - it has helped me a lot - but I have now reached the conclusion that the best thing you can do is just keep away from them, as far away as possible, all they are going to do is cause you misery.

    • @PrettyToez07
      @PrettyToez07 Рік тому +1

      Yes. I said the same thing!! Been following her going on 2 years now.

  • @evamz9584
    @evamz9584 Рік тому +8

    List starts @ 4:07 👍 💕 I wish you well my friends 🙏

  • @highill2890
    @highill2890 Рік тому +6

    🔥 “Tell the world” 🔥

  • @jl9769
    @jl9769 Рік тому +4

    I say the world doesn’t revolve around you ( calmly and firmly) about 3 times a week- and the rest of the 6 comments I say calmly and firmly. I’m glad I saw this video. I CAN SLAY THIS !!!!

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt Місяць тому

    After the narcissist got me aware of their BS mentality, I stopped playing any games..this led to an attempt triangulation.. I left before it happened..

  • @dakotalynn1088
    @dakotalynn1088 Рік тому +5

    I tell my boyfriend he's a narcissist at least once a week! Thank God he's not violent.

    • @Inquisitor6321
      @Inquisitor6321 Рік тому +5

      WTF are doing with him?

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому

      Dump him and call me when you're single... And you don't know a narcs is violent until he finds out you're at your most weak and vulnable moment... Then you see the violence...
      And ahh... You're obviously on a narcs specialist lawyers channel for a good reason... You know he can be violent if he gets pushed a little... Get out while you don't have kids... Think about having kids with this guy... You really want your kids know about the narcs abuse cycle for the next 100 years?

    • @dakotalynn1088
      @dakotalynn1088 Рік тому

      I wish he would try to hit me. Lol. Then he'd be a dead narcissist!

  • @flowerchild89
    @flowerchild89 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Rebecca, for your support. I love your videos. You are spot on!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      I appreciate your kind words! What is something that brings you joy?

  • @joshuaanzalone2060
    @joshuaanzalone2060 Рік тому +2

    Anything offends narcs. That's why I stay away from them.

  • @CLHS1944
    @CLHS1944 Рік тому +5

    Tj the ex a covert narc gets angry over anything and everything. He requires anger management therapy and classes. He’s so very violent and dangerous when he’s in his rages of anger.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому +2

      Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/

  • @8931888
    @8931888 Рік тому

    I can and will indeed utilise these specific triggers in my case with deliberate intent to probe and lure the monster to reveal themselves exposing the true nature of the monster for necessary parties to see and all I have said will confirm credibility and discredit her character and false claims towards me as the guilty party as the abuser while she hides behind her victim facade

  • @amandacookworm
    @amandacookworm Рік тому

    Your videos are giving me so much strength and clarity!! Thank you I'm so grateful ! 💚💚💫✨️

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому +1

      Happy to help! Keep on SLAYing dear! ♥🙌

  • @KQMcKinnon
    @KQMcKinnon Рік тому +3

    I can slay this!!!

  • @patricialawrence8430
    @patricialawrence8430 Рік тому +1

    I can slay this

  • @stevenzinn5029
    @stevenzinn5029 Рік тому +1

    Thanks to you I too can slay😉 I feel like you're a psychological kung fu master that has definitely helped me..........much love and gratitude for your wisdom and compassion 🙏

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      So glad you found them helpful! this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home ❤

  • @mariamorgan8447
    @mariamorgan8447 Рік тому

    Love the miniature pinscher xxx

  • @mclaysr
    @mclaysr 17 днів тому

    I love all you have accomplished thank you Rebecca peace be with you

  • @CurlyHostile
    @CurlyHostile Рік тому +1

    Hi Rebecca's doggo in the background :) very cute

  • @maureengannaway8635
    @maureengannaway8635 Рік тому +2

    "I can slay this".

  • @davidwaynejohnson1992
    @davidwaynejohnson1992 Рік тому +2

    "I CAN SLAY THIS"

  • @ramazankokur650
    @ramazankokur650 Рік тому +1

    I CAN SLAY THIS

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      Totally! What is one point that you start using today?

  • @russellj.s.257
    @russellj.s.257 Рік тому

    I have told narcissistic people in the past and some of them would shut down and others I have heard them go off and tell me that I was wrong and that it does revolve around them.

  • @Shamage
    @Shamage Рік тому

    Right i have a bunch living beneath me and it is constantly harrassament and no privacy becouse they get mad at me and cause me to over do the most all for no reason lol it suck's like beyond horribly.great advise om the video i love it

  • @nursesteve2004
    @nursesteve2004 Рік тому

    "can we please agree to disagree?" "whatever" "No, I think you're wrong about that." "thanks, I have made up my own mind what I will do." "I'm not doing that, I'm sorry if you don't like it." "I can handle this on my own, I don't need your help." "I'm going to leave, and I'll come back when you are ready to apologize." "I hope God will forgive you."

  • @spitfire8539
    @spitfire8539 Рік тому +1

    'Tell them to do it yourself' trigger their anger. Because everyone else should always do shitty things for them.

  • @mclaysr
    @mclaysr 17 днів тому

    I all you have to offer thanks

  • @jasonroman3639
    @jasonroman3639 Рік тому +5

    Should I like use these triggers while recording a conversation with a narcissist in order to show in court how angry of a person they are?

  • @DrMoorehen
    @DrMoorehen Рік тому

    100% correct. However RZ, i get so fed up with the narc in my life....i now dont care about triggering this person...to hell with them...they don't care about my feelings....i walk away and or leave the phone down. I certainly can slay this

  • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
    @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому +7

    If you stop giving them narc supply. And they can't find any in time when you discard them... Does that mean narcs rage or just collapse?
    ACCOUNTABILITY - 1 WORD - They run for hills... Lolol

    • @popmonika
      @popmonika Рік тому +5

      They generally have a nervous breakdown.
      They wonder around trying to get some sort of supply from anywhere.

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому +6

      @@popmonika From what I've seen... This person goes int a drinking bender for a month... So kinda both rage and collapse...

    • @popmonika
      @popmonika Рік тому +2

      @@LOVEtoPLAYdrums I can only go by what I have seen in the workplace but it wouldn't surprise me if they also did this.
      Also wonder if they start to claim to have other disorders such as bipolar??
      After over a year of manipulation and basically alienating most at our workplace, they suddenly claim to another co-worker (unaware supply) that they have bipolar.
      This is despite never telling this to anyone else??
      Wouldn't surprise me if they did - at least they're having some sort of reflection and can use as leverage but bizzare they suddenly claim this when they've had all this time.

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому

      @@popmonika OK WTF! I've heard this bipolar thing covering up the narcs abuse cycle sooo many times now! My best friend from k-12 was heavy bipolar and had messed up parents... Bipolar people are awesome! They have empathy but REALLY messed up days too!
      Narcs have no empathy... So they claim bipolar instead of malignant narcs to cover up the fact of absolutely no empathy and they use "fake empathy..."
      The narcs even throw bipolar people and EVEN autistic people under the bus to cover up their personality disorders... (my sister is autistic)(they have empathy too but really bad days too) Narcs are just bad 365... All the time... No empathy to be found even with a GPS...

  • @lenaleong4894
    @lenaleong4894 Рік тому

    Thank you

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?

  • @jimfreyler2944
    @jimfreyler2944 Рік тому +2

    You can skip ahead to 4:07 before she gets to the first comment.

  • @terrypoffenroth2853
    @terrypoffenroth2853 Рік тому

    I took the garbage bag to the box ,, 60 ft , I abandoned her aaand tied the garbage bag Wrong and THat was the Trigger for OMG , Divorce 14 years ago ,, It’s Still in court argument😢

  • @ajamorgan4554
    @ajamorgan4554 Рік тому

    i can slay this!

  • @nancylucero1382
    @nancylucero1382 Рік тому +1

    I can slay this!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      Yes! so what is something that brings you joy?

    • @nancylucero1382
      @nancylucero1382 Рік тому

      After listening to you and Dr. Ramani for several months, and working with my attorney, today I strategically executed the first steps in my plan by informing my husband I was divorcing him. I was calm, centered, stayed in control and didn’t give him any supply so he’d have the energy to fight. Thank you for sharing all your wisdom and experience.

    • @nancylucero1382
      @nancylucero1382 Рік тому +1

      And I should answer your question: staying in control during what could have been an ugly encounter gave me JOY!

  • @Veraconah
    @Veraconah Рік тому +1

    She sleeps with a narcissist at night then wakes up to tell us all about it

  • @dortheelisabethpedersen3464

    I Can slay this 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @PrettyToez07
    @PrettyToez07 Рік тому +1

    Becky,
    There's no reason your videos should begin and end at 4:07 with an introduction about who you are and what you do. Most people who follow you already know how badass you are. If they're new and don't know you yet, don't beat around the bush in your videos ---get straight to the topic at hand. Most hate fast-forwarding through your videos to learn more. You're always on point, but c'mon Becky!! Love you 🤎🤎
    ******Here are the 7 comments that easily trigger a narcissist*******
    1. "The world doesn't revolve around you"
    2. "You're wrong"
    3. "It's all your fault"
    4. "Other people are more important than you are"
    5. "Everyone sees you for who you really are "
    6. "You have issues "
    7. " I don't want you anymore "

  • @judithparker4608
    @judithparker4608 Рік тому

    Absolutely Weird.....as the Youngest Independent.....Shorthand PA and Trained Country Wide MobileTechnical Librarian turned Thrilled New Mummy Aaagh !!

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 Рік тому

    What doesn’t trigger them ! If you trigger them with people around- they only make their selves look nasty & bad. Don’t walk on egg shells around them. Be direct & to the point & then just walk away.

  • @mclaysr
    @mclaysr 17 днів тому

    II can slay this

  • @dereklemire1392
    @dereklemire1392 Рік тому +1

    Like one example for common law we really don't have to pay our bills because they bill us as a corporation we don't spell our name in all capital letters that's just one thing there's also something about the social security card at birth born into debt as a baby yeah I was gambling too much in my mother's womb that's why I was early I had to get out before the house won lol and was walking by 6 months so I knew I wanted to get the hell out of here at an early age lol

  • @judithparker4608
    @judithparker4608 Рік тому

    3 Older Sisters.....all with a "Mother Issue Complex.....Each Presenting Differently"......Dangerously, my Seniors !!!

  • @myopinion6092
    @myopinion6092 Рік тому

    Wow skip past all the self back pats and self CONGRATULATIONS Go to 4:07 for the video start!

  • @kimhall2600
    @kimhall2600 Рік тому

    Need more information

  • @reneebaginski9647
    @reneebaginski9647 Рік тому +2

    Don't you want the Judge to see their true colors?

  • @seeer3240
    @seeer3240 Рік тому

    Qualifications definately DON'T equal intelligence. Did you learn that at the public fool system? How many people and families did you hurt being a prosecutor? Might not want to brag about that.

  • @johnsonjames702
    @johnsonjames702 Рік тому +1

    I want to appreciate those that
    recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
    this channel, he's very good when it comes
    to spell casting, I can testify that.....

  • @savannaswildnatureworkshop7810

    hmmm...I ciicked to see the nice mesh top...and it turned out to be clickbait...not nice.....

  • @porterhouse5095
    @porterhouse5095 Рік тому

    My ex-girlfriend resented my dog cause my dog was numero uno.

  • @jamespimentel1794
    @jamespimentel1794 Рік тому +1

    I disagree with what you say Rebecca narcissists deserve retribution they do not deserve sympathy

    • @LOVEtoPLAYdrums
      @LOVEtoPLAYdrums Рік тому +1

      LolOL~!~!~! A narcs doesn't understand or process "sympathy" ... I respect you life experience and opinion... but these people are cruel to the bone...

    • @trailerparkcryptoking5213
      @trailerparkcryptoking5213 Рік тому

      You don’t know Jack squat about narcissists, educate your ignorant self! They work different than an ordinary person!

    • @jamespimentel1794
      @jamespimentel1794 Рік тому +1

      @Matt Trites what I wrote was hard to understand so I rewrote it. You are absolutely right

    • @jamespimentel1794
      @jamespimentel1794 Рік тому +1

      And retribution should be your sole aim while communicating with them

  • @arthurh5707
    @arthurh5707 Рік тому

    Hmmm, anybody that's been around a narcissist already knows these. Scientific explanations are really sketchy.

  • @mickeymous30
    @mickeymous30 Рік тому +5

    MS. Zung. After speaking with my lawyer, and presenting my documentation, I have a strong case that is easily winnable. Filing a summons so she has to show up in court so he can cross examine her. He’s really hyped to defend my name and reputation that this female covert narcissist has tried to continuously destroy. I want to thank you for everything you do. You’re an amazing person. GOD bless you.

    • @mickeymous30
      @mickeymous30 Рік тому +1

      Narc free in 03! 🥰

    • @thecustodian1023
      @thecustodian1023 Рік тому +2

      I've recently gone through a similar event with having to do depositions against the narc in my life. They absolutely destroyed themselves.
      When you get to that point build as big of a list of personal and life function/view-based questions as you possibly can so that your lawyer has a solid baseline of questioning to work from. It really helps expose the narcs actions nd intentions big time.

  • @truesightlife
    @truesightlife Рік тому +3

    I can slay this

  • @mariamuller8984
    @mariamuller8984 Рік тому

    I CAN SLAY THIS

  • @johnsonjames702
    @johnsonjames702 Рік тому

    I want to appreciate those that
    recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on
    this channel, he's very good when it comes
    to spell casting, I can testify that.....

  • @joycebates6411
    @joycebates6411 Рік тому +2

    I can slay this

  • @danbride7221
    @danbride7221 Рік тому +2

    I can slay this

  • @debraclark9216
    @debraclark9216 Рік тому +2

    I can slay this

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Рік тому

      Definitely! 💯 What is something you're struggling with?

    • @debraclark9216
      @debraclark9216 Рік тому +2

      A malignant narsaciss. Actually 2. My husband and my daughter. I am an empath and they are destroying my heart and mind. I am learning so much from you. Thank you!

    • @jamandreindustries1033
      @jamandreindustries1033 Рік тому

      I can slay this

  • @joekilroy2965
    @joekilroy2965 Рік тому

    I can slay this