Should I Leave My Wife If I Regret My Marriage?

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  • Опубліковано 19 тра 2024
  • Are you struggling with feelings of regret and uncertainty in your marriage? Join Christopher as he answers this question paraphrased from one of Dr. John Delony's shows. Explore the complexities of marriage, cultural pressures, and infidelity. Discover whether staying in your marriage is the right choice and how to navigate difficult times.
    Video from question: • I’ve Always Regretted ...
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 20

  • @BensWorkshop
    @BensWorkshop Місяць тому

    Good answers.

  • @JGComments
    @JGComments Місяць тому +8

    This is such a good word to this couple. The trials in your life are often the very arenas in which God is calling you to become holy! Temporal struggles that yield eternal rewards.

  • @MagdalenaIsaiah431
    @MagdalenaIsaiah431 Місяць тому +4

    Awesome! Very well explained.💙💙💙
    And no, I was not astute enough to figure out "Joy leads to sorrow, leads to Glory, leads to light" was a hidden/open clue pointing to the Rosary, which is my all-time favorite Catholic devotion, as a Convert🙈 Thank you I appreciate your decoding it for me so I wasn't left trying to guess....😇
    I pray the couple in this story is able to find the Faith and the strength to get past the painful crucifixion they are passing through and come to a Glorious resurrection of the LOVE that could still be with GOD'S help.❤❤❤
    I know it can happen because I've watched GOD work wonders on my unbearably painful family relationships as I have prayed the full 4 Rosaries daily for the last four years after becoming a Catholic.
    Our Lady Queen of The Holy Rosary pray for them and for us all🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️💙💙💙

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing! Please offer a decade for us!

    • @MagdalenaIsaiah431
      @MagdalenaIsaiah431 Місяць тому

      @@TheologyoftheBodyInstitute It will be my pleasure to in my next Rosary! 🙏💙🙏
      Keep up the great work❤️❤️❤️

  • @Alex-ms9tk
    @Alex-ms9tk Місяць тому

    Hi TOTBI, requesting if you could react to and breakdown Terrence Howard's philosophy of lines, shapes, and physics from the latest JRE podcast - and the potential theological ramifications / psychology of The Crucifixion of that if his philosophy is the more accurate basis to approach scientific operations. Thanks

  • @afridmohamed4560
    @afridmohamed4560 Місяць тому

    God bless you !

  • @JGComments
    @JGComments Місяць тому +3

    “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8. Go and do likewise!

  • @Sheepish-Shepherd
    @Sheepish-Shepherd Місяць тому +3

    Thank you! I feel like too many people divorce because of inconvenience

  • @amoule131
    @amoule131 Місяць тому

    Dear Christopher West, Thank You. I have a question: What would you say if someone unfortunately suffered from a mental illness, e.g. schizophrenia? Would a wedding/marriage be possible? Could you please do a talk on this topic? I think it affects some people. Thank You! Kind regards.

  • @Justyouraverageguy172
    @Justyouraverageguy172 Місяць тому +2

    Number one answer to the video question is: NO
    God himself tells us through Jesus, one man, one woman for life except if there is sexual infidelity then it’s up to one or both parties to divorce even though it’s not ideal and what God intends.
    Both people made vows before God and God does not like it when vows are broken. The real regret comes from not learning enough and discerning marriage and what it’s all about and supposed to be before rushing into it.

  • @sitka49
    @sitka49 Місяць тому

    "Every marriage has difficult times." - Very true, but this fellow sounds like he had it right from get go, and before 4 yrs ago,and he never loved her to begin with. You can always rekindle love , but if it was never there to begin with? ( This has got to be a terrible feeling) My guess he's not attracted to her, ( Didn't say if there were kids involved) and high probability that its a sexless marriage - If they haven't had kids yet , I would hold off until you get your head of straight with and personal matters in order - because life doesn't get easier with kids. ( that's a strain on a good marriage)
    My take he's got one foot out the door already - and he might do the counseling to say he tried, and to appease her, But his heart is not going to be in it. "And would she stay with him through anything? Really, anything? - 1 . She could turn out to be a doormat - and he'll know it, and know matter how many times' he cheats or behaves she'll forgive him. ( No consequences for his actions?) Or either 2, they'll work on the marriage and 10yrs her resentment will build she has and ( and she's older and wiser ) it will come to ahead, - and shut down on him. She's in fight for marriage mode, she may forgive him for whatever at this point in time? I feel for her, especially if she didn't know his feelings about this before the marriage, but if she knew she should've called off the wedding herself. - If not? What a sad feeling to be married to someone who isn't attracted or loves you, not fair to her and she could have found someone who did.

  • @GodSoLoved.Yeshua
    @GodSoLoved.Yeshua Місяць тому +20

    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her"

    • @Justyouraverageguy172
      @Justyouraverageguy172 Місяць тому +2

      Amen sister. I saw you post a comment a month ago back on one of these old videos and share your experience about masturbation and quitting the same age I did at 26 (for I am 28 and fell victim at age 12.)
      Do you think a book have helped both you and your parents exploring and discussing this topic breaking it down why it’s bad, how it destroys the body, and takes over the mind, while mentioning some of the most common triggers and reasons why people are pushed towards it with a personal testimony from someone else sharing their story and how God helped them quit? Just curious is all Since I feel and sense God telling me to do this.

    • @marcuslatrent528
      @marcuslatrent528 Місяць тому +2

      Wives obey your husband's and serve him for all of your days just as Christ demands.

  • @mrutherford5502
    @mrutherford5502 Місяць тому

    Where can I buy a crucifix like the one you showed in this video. 😇

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  Місяць тому +1

      Hello! You can find it here: shop.corproject.com/products/unity-cross-bronze-copper-imported

  • @marcuslatrent528
    @marcuslatrent528 Місяць тому +5

    We need to bring back excommunication for women who leave their husbands. Men are sometimes captors in their own marriage. Women can take half their stuff and still show up to church on sunday. We need to hold these women accountable.

  • @michaelthearchangel4646
    @michaelthearchangel4646 Місяць тому

    External pressures doesn't mean societal norms it means someone actually has a gun to your head or something or you're being drugged or whatever. These people need need stop acting like babies and grow tf up