I thank GOD I discarded my narc ex. She thought she had me wrapped around her finger but I realized that living in that tornado is NOT living. After 3 years I made the decision to move on. I changed my locks, alarm codes, blocked every form of communication. ZERO Contact now 4 months! hallelujah
Totally blown away by your video and people comments. I have experienced the same thing; the NPD playbook is the same. I also self-reflected on my behaviors and found out I have INFJ personality. The covert NPD woman, tried to play the victim testing my empathy level, subtle triangulation, tried to coerce me into sex in private. I felt her coldness, emptiness and dark soul. My intuition felt a dark spirit presence and felt attracted to her, until I saw in her eyes it was coming from inside of her. They want someone caring for them and they devalue/discard and betray that person to hurt, steal and kill their soul. I never ever had feelings of envy, jealousy towards anyone, it was very difficult for her to break my self-esteem. Would be very valuable to have more videos on female covert narcissist, as she uses sex as tool from power and control. There is something very predatory and malignant about people with NPD, they are like a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Good men and nice guys can easily fall prey to any type of abuse and being hurt for life without professional help.
She played the silent treatment card. Simply because I showed her she was being hypocritical in her critique of me, that she wasn’t always right and that I was feeling like I wasn’t a priority for her. Then after a week of ST, she reached out as if everything was fine. And I haven’t responded since.
Oh how the tables have turned. Playbook is out there. So now we know the enemy. Now if we truly know ourselves, we shall always be victorious in the end. It’s in The Art of War and it applies here.
I stayed for 28 years. It was my second marriage and I desperately wanted things to work. In the end there was police intervention Anda no contact order it took weeks to stop jumping at the slightest noise and a terror that he would return.
So true, when i saw saddistic traits she displayed, i get the f*** out of there, i was already uncomfortable, but that card get me convinced to make the escape plan, lower the profile and the exposure, she tried to hoover me, I ghosted, she tried to reclaim attention, leave, blocked everywhere and no contact. Is like they cant stop doing things that will be blatantly in their own detriment
Joe, I can't thank you enough for your your insights. Since my Narc left 6 months ago following 2 years of living together (he told me he'd fallen out of love 4 days before he packed up and went) your thoughts, talks and help has been invaluable in my steps towards my recovery.
I cannot believe this even exists. Two years later almost and I’m still shocked probably always will be.😑😑😑😑
I thank GOD I discarded my narc ex. She thought she had me wrapped around her finger but I realized that living in that tornado is NOT living. After 3 years I made the decision to move on. I changed my locks, alarm codes, blocked every form of communication. ZERO Contact now 4 months! hallelujah
This is why a narcissist needs you way more than you’ll ever need them!
They gathered allies around them to validate their twisted reality.
Totally blown away by your video and people comments. I have experienced the same thing; the NPD playbook is the same. I also self-reflected on my behaviors and found out I have INFJ personality. The covert NPD woman, tried to play the victim testing my empathy level, subtle triangulation, tried to coerce me into sex in private. I felt her coldness, emptiness and dark soul. My intuition felt a dark spirit presence and felt attracted to her, until I saw in her eyes it was coming from inside of her. They want someone caring for them and they devalue/discard and betray that person to hurt, steal and kill their soul. I never ever had feelings of envy, jealousy towards anyone, it was very difficult for her to break my self-esteem. Would be very valuable to have more videos on female covert narcissist, as she uses sex as tool from power and control. There is something very predatory and malignant about people with NPD, they are like a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Good men and nice guys can easily fall prey to any type of abuse and being hurt for life without professional help.
She played the silent treatment card. Simply because I showed her she was being hypocritical in her critique of me, that she wasn’t always right and that I was feeling like I wasn’t a priority for her. Then after a week of ST, she reached out as if everything was fine. And I haven’t responded since.
Oh how the tables have turned. Playbook is out there. So now we know the enemy. Now if we truly know ourselves, we shall always be victorious in the end. It’s in The Art of War and it applies here.
Some people can manage a narcissist by being indifferent, almost as if they do their own thing, and don't take any notice of the narcissists antics.
They will even over play a losing hand. Unbelievable.
Its like playing a game with someone and losing every time. Pretty soon you want to play the game with someone, anyone else.
Unlike normal people they don't learn from life's experiences.
I stayed for 28 years. It was my second marriage and I desperately wanted things to work. In the end there was police intervention Anda no contact order it took weeks to stop jumping at the slightest noise and a terror that he would return.
Narcissist-psychopath wife walked out on me and our 6 children to muck around overseas. Could care less about her own children.
So true, when i saw saddistic traits she displayed, i get the f*** out of there, i was already uncomfortable, but that card get me convinced to make the escape plan, lower the profile and the exposure, she tried to hoover me, I ghosted, she tried to reclaim attention, leave, blocked everywhere and no contact. Is like they cant stop doing things that will be blatantly in their own detriment
😂 u can t take these people seriously , it s hilarious
When I'm down you pick me up every time and I thank you for that Mr. Joe!!
Joe, I can't thank you enough for your your insights. Since my Narc left 6 months ago following 2 years of living together (he told me he'd fallen out of love 4 days before he packed up and went) your thoughts, talks and help has been invaluable in my steps towards my recovery.
You have to be numb or zombie like to stay with the narc. 😢
You just realize something is not normal with this person but when the disrespect comes it's time to go that Is can't do I do love me
Imho 'they' have a Spiritual/Soul disorder...not a 'mental' one. Evil...is REAL..look around. Cheers Joe, great piece