What leads to the downfall of a narcissist? | The Narcissists' Code Ep 871
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- what normally leads to the downfall of a narcissist.
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The down fall is they get old and they can’t convince people to fall for their trap. So age will kill the narcissist.
Interesting
Mine is still going strong.😩💔
So true . I know a narcissist this happened to. He could no longer fool people into buying into his trash and this infuriated him to no end. A flip the script mentality where his victims were now problematic instead of him realizing his problem.
Yeah I always say I can't wait til my rapist ex gets old and ugly, then he won't be able to get away with the creepy shit he says 😂
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The downfall of a narcissist is the inability to ever feel sorry and mean it. No accountability and thinking they are always right.
True. True. They never hold themselves accountable but will be quick to bring up others not holding themselves so. Everybody they have encountered is wrong and they've always been right. Or it took them and them alone to correct a situation.
Old age, loss of health and attractiveness leads to their downfall.
I totally agree. Never being able to truly love someone and receive it has to be a extremely lonely place, and like you said, they end up alone mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
This is true . My 57 year old soon to be ex husband is an aging narc . He got a hair tattoo to disguise his bald spot then he signed up for a hair loss study and volunteered to take some experimental medicine to grow hair back 🙄. He even talked about getting a blepharoplasty to fix his eye bags. He’s pretty dumb so his physicality is all he has. He’s about to be struggling bad in about 5-10 years. I actually feel bad for his current or next supply.
@@carolinelaronda4523 How did his hair tattoo turn out? 🤔
From my experiences they can dish out the misery but can't take it.
Exactly my narcissist shit bricks when they saw a song about them. It was so funny
That breaks their system
Their ego, need for validation , and delusions will take them out. Leave them in the dirt where they belong and give them 2-3 years, they will age like you never seen. For the ppl who have to keep in contact with a narc, you’ll notice they will pretend their life is going well, eventually they will spill the tea on how the grass isnt greener on the other side because they screw everything up. Then they will want to be friends / upgrade their place in your life after putting up a boundary. Yet they tell ppl you were the problem
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Yep, because they will keep losing people without the ability to apologize, express true empathy etc
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They sometimes will apologize, thoroughly, to get you back into their trap. I know this all to well, smdh.
@@K_Alldayyes but not from their heary
My narcissistic husband just lost me. He about to turn 50 and he has a load of health problems. I highly doubt he will find someone to stick around as long as I did.
They practice hypocrisy at its finest!! They do all the bull crap to you but you better not dare do that to them smh. Or they might falsely accuse you of doing something to them that they are actually doing to you. NO ACCOUNTABILITY WHATSOEVER!!
That's them they can never apologize for hurting you just accuse n place the blame on someone else or try to move on to a new supply 😢😢😢
I've made some of them kill themselves, or get on drugs so bad,.. I have the power 🫶🏻 power is yours if you don't play their game and leave quickly then communicate and keep it far away and conversation short, drive them nuts
You can fool some people some of the time but you can’t fool everyone all the time.
Narcissistic people will NEVER admit they’re wrong. I’ve been working with someone who never admitted to being wrong about anything ever. Plus he’s wildly insecure, can’t take accountability for anything, list goes on.
Nothing…. If divorce, addiction, and homelessness don’t do it, nothing will. I’ve seen many narcissists have all that happen yet still refuse to change.
Very true! They will just find another way to adjust their behavior to get their needs met. Some people will think they’ve changed, but in time you’ll be able to see it was all a facade to get their needs met. My ex just altered his behaviors over and over until he found what worked to get what he needed. Very sick individual.
The avoidance of shame causes them to behave shamelessly
Very true.
I believe the downfall of toxic narcissist comes in their meanness, hatefulness and black and white mindset which leads to burning many many bridges and most people run. Eventually , their hateful ways seem to catch up to them and they are stopped from moving forward . Hatefulness leads to hatefulness coming back .. but love leads to love coming back. Over time, they destroy themselves because they are their own worst enemy.
Narcissists can´t hate and can´t love. (They are not capable of such emotions). Their downfall comes because of what Lee talked in his video. Vulnerability is the key... (Honesty is not in their book!).
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Makes a kid's storybook kind of sense, but i've seen them surround themselves with minions into late middle age. By then they have decades of experience in quickly forming a rapport with people they target very precisely. It becomes a very easy process of continuously replacing people like a shark with it's rows of teeth. They lose people when they are seen for what they are, but so what? Got another couple of friends and associates on the backburner right now.
@@IsabellaPieschwell, maybe their heart is heardened, but they definitely have evil thoughts. All eveil comes from the enemy, but they still hate. To be honest your comments is so untrue. They chose their life. And this is the result
@@rosameijering5161 They can´t chose their parents. And here is when all the evil starts. I am sorry but they are not capable of feeling emotions either love or hate. But the main thing is: People should stay away from them because nothing good comes from them.
"Vulnerability is the ability to be honest with oneself.."
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I believe their downfalls is that everyone abandons them & leaves them in the end. People get sick of their abhorrent behaviours & grow tired of them. When you only ever see hate in someone, very few people can stay long term. The one I was dealing with was attacking his friends and they were backing off as well as me walking away & his ex getting away from him. It's only a matter of time before they end up on their own, unless they seek help like Lee did.
Yes!!! They end up alone.
Just like Al Pacino in "The Godfather," the final movie. He ends up all alone.
Agreed
The more I watch Lee's videos, the more I'm sooooooo glad I left my marriage - 18yrs of misery, had no idea what an NPD was and it was a horrible struggle when I left, totally worth it, I have peace GO NO CONTACT if you can, we had no children. It's the only way to heal, you deserve peace and healing.
I hate that you went through that. I've been wanting to run too. My mom tics most of the narcissim boxes, but she doesn't believe in therapy. Then there's my bro. Oh man, diagnosed bipolar 2 and schizophrenia and theres no way he doesn't have narcissim too. Then I marry and discover my father inlaw is JUST like my mom......Now we have the 1st and only grandchild on both sides. It's pure hell. They cause so much drama that we can't even enjoy our marriage. I've been in therapy but it just didn't work for me. I don't think people realize how hard it is to get through this. I found myself to be a reactor to my mom and brother and that just makes it worse because that's what they want, to piss you off constantly because they always are mad. The only reason I hang on is because of our son. I don't want him to be without 2 grand parents and his only uncle but do I really want him seeing them in action??? I believe that's how bpd is born...NO...I'm depressed enough. I HATE THIS!!!
I recently recently left a narracist/psychopath and I’m devesatrd it’s like I miss him all of a sudden but then I remind myself of the emotional abuse I went through and I’m glad I got out.. but I’m just sad because he is now a stranger in my life whole time I thought I found love but it wasn’t I’m heartbroken nobody talks about the pain of when you feel you had to be forced to leave because you know you deserve better in the end 💔
Praying with and for you. I just was left in dark by my narc after two years and he has a new baby in way due in November I can’t explain the full story without taking all blame….I want you to know you rock , will get through this, keep pressing praying and having faith
Yes it can be painful bec. in my case my ex was a Dr. Jeckl and Mr. Hyde. We were together for a little over five years. There were some good times, what really helps me to stay away and realize I'm better off is to write down all the good and bad. The verbal, physical abuse are the two biggest factors that keep me away from ever wanting that relationship back. There are so many other negative things, too many to name, take the time to write down those experiences and that should help you deal with the pain. It's been over a year since I ended that Toxic relationship and I realize how much better I am! I do miss the good times, but that's it.
I’ve been through the whole experience. What I had to realize is that I didn’t miss him, I missed who I wanted him to be. The best thing that I ever did for myself was cut him off COMPLETELY ( no contact whatsoever). In the meantime, I took this time to heal and discover who I am. The freedom that I gained for myself is priceless. I will NEVER ever sacrifice my peace for anything or anybody ever again. God bless
@@Cynthia-ul4uhso much truth. We miss who they showed us briefly in the beginning. That was a fantasy we hold on to or want to hold on to. It isn't the reality we lived. I have to tell myself the same...its easy to slide the rose colored glasses on again...but I refuse. I wish they would shatter, I'm 3 months out and still have them in my pocket. But one day they will be crushed for good!
I'm praying that 3mos later, you are thriving. I exposed and left my narc 2wks ago. Lee has helped me so much. I'm where you were 3mos ago. 😢
To me the downfall of a narcissist is excessive pride, a belief he or she can really get away with anything.
Currently watching the downfall of my narc abuser and honestly, its a moment I never thought I'd witness in a million years. Getting hit with Karma non stop, including my final restraining order. Got kicked out 3 times by 3 people, getting into accidents because od drugs and destroying cars, 3 restraining orders, 16 new criminal charges with about 10 new arrests, on drugs, begging for money, burning bridges, getting caught in lies and manipulation. I have tried to save him for so long and had to let him go and save myself when I realized he was out to destroy me. Now my life is getting better and his life is going to hell. The empath in me wants to rescue him, but the trauma in me is slapping the hell out of me for wanting to help. Honestly, he lacks accountability, compassion and empathy and needs this reality check. I truly hope people finally see him for who he is and not the person hes been pretending to be. I hope he learns a valuable lesson and grows up and changes for the better, but I have no faith in him. Glad I chose to save myself and walk away, instead of allowing him to continue destroying me in every way imaginable. He is a monster, has always been a monster and I believe will always be a monster. I have to remind myself of that and that I deserve better.
On my previous job, my boss was a narcissist. I remember asking a question was a nightmare because rather than admit she didn't know something, she would belittle and shame you for asking the question.
Yikes. I feel for you
Or retaliate and write you up.
So sorry that this happened to you. I’ve been in that situation with two bosses. I left and went no contact.
What a terrible person to have to work for.
That's so true. They have this idea of looking dumb instead of finding the answer and you both learning together. Some have duped their way into position and really don't know their job but just won't admit it. So they lash out. I hope someone has convinced her to seek therapy
Once they give you side of their vulnerability soon after, they become upset, shameful that they exposed themselves to you. Now its something else wrong 🤦🏽♀️
Interesting comment. My ex just a few weeks before the break up stayed up all night talking to me because we were forced to while waiting for a tow truck in the middle of the night. He ended up revealing things about himself, like having psychologists trying to find out what was wrong with him. Suggesting they thought he had 4 personalities. It could have been just another way he controlled the narrative and victim story so I'd continue to feel sorry for him. But I also wondered if it was him opening up to some degree. He acted completely in love with me and so appreciative that I helped him when he was stuck on the side of the road. Then shortly after that he started to self-destruct big time and acting more angry toward me then ever. Looking for fights. It was bewildering to say the least and just when I thought we had turned a positive corner. So glad to be out of it. But it still hurts.
When they are exposed for who they really are.
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Yes mines packed up and he's leaving as we speak 😩
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@@TooPrettiShow They run if a poisoness animal were behind them. (Unbelievable!).
@@TooPrettiShow mine has been out for 2 1/2 months but he's continued to contact me constantly.
YES!!! Thank you for doing a video on the “narcissistic collapse”. Just left my ex after 3 yrs. He is experiencing narcissistic collapse. Before the breakup, he had a psychotic break.He fell into self destruct mode/ self sabotage mode. It put me in danger and i had to get out.
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I've experienced that exact same thing within the last 2 months after 9 years of marriage. had to get protective orders for myself and my kids. even though its only a piece of paper, its helped to ensure NO CONTACT
@@sambrown0229 same here. That no contact makes u feel such relief
I remember when my ex finally knew I was done he nearly assaulted our then 5 year old ( he admitted to the thought), put our sons in danger in high speed reckless driving then called and told me he was going to commit suicide while I took our oldest daughter to her golden bday pool party, stopped the whole party with his mess. I was soooo tired of the consistent text harassment as well. Glad we got out physically unscathed
@@ADR-xn6dg they do horrible things. Glad ur all safe
Not being able to control someone anymore
I think eventually people will want to find peace and wont deal with the drama and chaos that narcissists bring into their lives.
Be mindful sometimes that vulnerability is a decoy
"Inability to vulnerable" is an interesting way to put it. It almost a form of self harming. It's like a constant cycle where you keep hurting people but wont take responsibility and it gets to a point where you've done so much damage that you just can't help but repeat the cycle over and over again to avoid the shame of it all.
'I'm your favorite selfaware narcissists' Bro I feel your pain every time😂😂😂 You are the funniest narcissist ever
Yes their egos, the demons in them who wants to destroy everything and everyone around them including the body they possess. Only the Most High can release or allow narcissist to cope. Nevertheless I thank our heavenly Father for you for exposing narcissistic behavior on a level the masses can understand.
I worked for a pair of old narcissists. Not anymore. The man is pushing 80. The business is failing. His adult kids don't visit, and nearly every bridge has been burned. I left in July and they haven’t been able to replace me yet.
My former narcissist never apologized for any wrong doings. I was always fixing our issues and my boundaries were super weak. I had no awareness about NPD when i was with him.
Me leaving him and diving into self improvement and giving God!!!! All the Glory ☀️
My daughter is a narcissist and she has no problem hurting me, contacting people that have hurt me to hurt me even more and is grooming my grand daughter to hurt me and I've walked away now. Oneday she will sit there by herself and still blame other people for why she is alone, it will never be her behaviour, never be her fault and she will never change.
The constant need for drama and attention.. people get tired of it and leave them and then they spiral out of control because they can’t be by themselves
My ex's downfall was putting his hands on me and being verbally abusive.
I thank God every day for whatever monkey branch helped free my children and me from the abuse. I wasn’t strong enough to leave on my own, being discarded and replaced was the one good thing she ever did for this family.
I said being alone is the downfall of a narcissist. 🤷♀️
Ego is my answer. Creating narratives to others to protect their ego too. They have a hard time apologizing, that's my red flag when I am dealing with a narrasasist, because most individuals will admit when they are wrong to an individual they find value in. With a narrasasist, they cant do no wrong, they cannot admit to their own faults. In turn, it then puts YOU in a position of an endless cycle of watching the same actions that hurt YOU all because they can't or choose not to listen to you, care about your perspective or recognize their own maladaptive behavior.
They will abandon you 1st for challenging them (do not take this personally). If you dare to hold that mirror up to them or start treating them how they treat you... their cover is blown then...ends in them running away for periods of time until they need something 😅, but will say, you abandoned them smh...it's all they know, it's hard for them to face someone they disappointed and face their own faults. Their ego ultimately gets the best of them in the end and for those of us who are aware, we know when they move on the saga continues, we can't SAVE them.
They place their new target, their narcissistic supply on a pedestal. Once you heal and realize the supply, he/she was already in the background lol, THAT'S WHEN YOU just sit back with your popcorn and watch from afar. Pray for em😢. Don't let him/her vent to you either about their new supply, WHY? Because, after all, THE NARRASASIST, they are their own unstable, unempathetic problem 🤷🏾♀️:
My ex apologized but never changed his behavior. I think he only used the words, he was saying what he thought I wanted to hear.
@@sherrislocumb9244 you need action, time is currency, stay encouraged ok and I advise to keep a journal of thier patterns bc when they start gaslighting you, you'll have your own personal reference 🤥🙄 when you read it, you'll move on and heal emotionally, expenitually!!❣️ you'll look back girl like what the heck was I thinking. Be blessed 🫶🏾
Loosing supply, whatever or whoever that is. Being alone, abandoned...
Mass rejection. being left alone to their own devices with no one else to blame but themselves.
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In the end they find themselves alone because of a lifetime of relationships encompassing unending vengeance...
They are their own worst enemy
Contrary to what most people say here, their downfall comes from another narcissist or psychopathic individual competing them and destroying their resources/supply in order to gain authority. Yes narcissists feel sad when nice people leave them but they always manage to play the victim somewhere and suck sb in. Their demise comes from other psychopaths wanting to get their way and winning them at their game. And as there are many psychopaths out there, it does happen a lot. This is how their own energy is reflected back to them.
Now this is true,
Pride . . . Arrogance . . . Its a pity . . . When I left my ex he blocked his family his friends and workmates do not know that I left . . . He cannot begin to explain to them why I left . He is very sensitive about his image and cannot stand the thought of a dented image .
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Ego! They never give up their false self which they created in their childhood... (For nobody ...).
vulnerability is strength! It sucks when you can’t experience what comes with vulnerability. the toxic person failure of non vulnerability is sad not feeling pure joy and constantly self sabotage.
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Yes their ego is too big. They are more stubborn than a taurus in zodiac-sign. (Like myself). I know because I always had big fights with that person but I really understand. (That ego is simple too big and yes I believe that there was great hurt in childhood). Great and honest talk Lee. (Right on the point).
I commend you Lee for putting in the work to keep yourself together so that you can keep your family together. That is formidable motivation. As long as you stay on this path, you will prevail. My father DID modify his behavior. It has been a long process. And thankfully, we enjoy relative PEACE as a family. Thank you for your public service Lee. You are not only helping your own family but so many other families by educating us about narcissism. God bless you and your family!
Kudos to your father. It takes CONSISTENT effort to change the patterns of behaviour,it's beyond tough. It's exhausting to try to be a better version of yourself everyday.
Thank you!! The narc in our life has way to much ego and like you said bits and pieces of vulnerability and can not admit to being wrong
GREED,leads to they're downfall 🤷🏾♂️over consumption
Literally I needed some paperwork from my wife for our divorce. The due date was the 30th. This woman literally sent the paperwork exactly on the 30th just out of pettiness. Really crazy!
Hey last seconds of control - let her have it
Hi Lee, if you are happy to, It would be great to have your wife in an episode to give some feedback on how being in therapy has helped and affected your relationship.. thanks for all the good content🙏
She has been on many of his videos and answered you have to look for them
That's a good idea. If she's comfortable, I would like to hear her perspective
They don't realize that their reputation can follow them. They overplay their hand and don't think ppl will check their references. They think they are the smartest ppl in the room an their arrogance tricks them and they get caught in their lies. They are outta touch and can misread the room. I took the MMPI 35 year ago. I was being stalked by a dangerous narc and was also being harassed by a narc mother. The therapist said that my stress level was so high that she could get a reading on my personality. IDK if that was true or not. I ended up telling the therapist that I didn't feel that she was the right person for me. She didn't take that to well. I think she had some narc traits herself.
Their ego is so big, I'm surprised they don't trip over it.
It’s crazy how narcissist’s are willing to lose everything like family, and business because they can’t be vulnerable and accept they have problems and accept help and admit what they are causing.
Yep. I had to take the MMPI2 for my job as an air traffic controller to see if I was fit for Air Traffic Control duties. If your answers were too perfect, you had to take the second part which is to see a psychiatrist for further evaluation.
They lose so many good people cause they are afraid and can't allow their heart to flow and not be controlling.
After a while they live a sad life as they age..they can not handle criticism or to hear the truth
My narc is 61 and I came to find out he never really ended any of his old exes/sexual relationships. They were all around and on standby, these women just waiting for him to hit them up. It just blows my mind how crazy they are about him no matter if he uses them or what. None of them call him out on his sleeping around, lies or bs. I think I was maybe one of the only ones, ever. And I’m the only relationship (2 1/2 years) he didn’t try to keep after it ended. That’s pretty telling.
Definitely ego and pride finishes them off!
I agree because they cant self relect to get healing. Fear and shame of ones own self..also unforgiveness to heal from whatever happened to them early on maybe in childhood. They present that pain to everyone they meet going forward.
My husband’s narcissism almost killed me. He slipped up and spilled the beans on what I had been suspecting for 20 years. I couldn’t eat for 6 weeks. Lost 55 pounds in six weeks. Ended up in the emergency room where he abandoned me after me telling the nurse I didn’t want him to know where they were taking me. I swear his eyes turned black and he has never looked at me with such hatred I was put on lock down for 72 hours because they diagnosed me with extreme depression and hopelessness. I been marred to him for 48 years! I’m 68 him to. I took his control over me away from him. I loved where they put me. The compassion and care I received overwhelmed me. I had not felt that in many many years. It was like I was a dry sponge. My soul just soaked it up. I’m am now on day 3 of no contact. He’s been trying to contact me thru my adult kids but I stopped that. I have forgiven him for many things but what I know now is unforgivable. I never want to see him again. I’m done! Wish he was dead!
It's true what you say, he was also afraid of aging or getting sick, he always imagined illnesses, that's the fear of not finding any more supplies and the fear of no longer being able to work, they think that they're no longer worth anything . He was always very insecure, he thought people were all looking at him or when people laughed he thought they were laughing at him.
It’s my opinion:
~I’ve observed in life : therapy will never truly help the evil……It’s the Hope inside one’s heart that’s missing……Once “anyone” receive the free gift of a personal relationship with GOD and put on his armor, only then is one able to resist evil…..Nothing is possible without GOD~
Its so sad I have so many stories of friends losing absolutely ALL their friends from high-school we were all so close but the one or two of them just ended up driving everyone they ever were close with away and had to start fresh every few years. I just happened to be the last one that fell for whatever they said but once I started reaching out to others it was apparent that they definitely had a problem that I could not fix, that no one could, and they are going to spend the rest of their lives hiding and running away from their shame.
They push it just a little too far - they can’t help it
I remember constantly telling my narc ex he has too much pride.
As I age I think about spending my remaining years with someone who doesn’t care about who I am … only what I do for them…
They make too many people mad with their lying, lack of work ethic, and their near-constant complaints?
The inability to say there sorry and admit they are wrong
Ego is the worse thing they have
I think they must eventually expose their true character somehow… damaging their carefully crafted reputation & then being unable to recruit new supply… perhaps that is wishful thinking though
Most likely pride is the key to the narcissist downfall.
My narcissist has prostate cancer & need surgery.
Downfall... Being exposed for what and who they really are. But the vulnerability issue is spot on too.
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I’m subscribed as now 😊. Thanks for your in sight. I’m a super empath 57 yrs old. I have experienced decades of BS especially from my younger brother pathological liar all ✨ on the outside. No one ever believed me and said I was lying and wanting attention with a broken arm at 6yrs.
Narc dad died 35 years ago. I have pretty much been estranged from my and my whole adult life. Seven years ago he orchestrated gaining POA
As soon as he got power of attorney he stole $800K
Mum passed away over 12 months ago.
18 month later he has not lodged Probate. I feel reassured as I am lodging a formal complaint (whilst typing this) to the legal services Commissioner . Sounds like all parties involved will be in a world of hurt.
Yes . My narcissist ex doesn't seem to have a downfall . The only thing he's gone through is homelessness and even still he's cocky and arrogant meanwhile I'm fighting for my freedom from him lying on me Mr Lee sometimes your video shorts cuts off before you can finish what you're saying
Probably overt. My childrens father is the same way.
@@missb1982 I think he's a malignant narcissist his a horrible person
Yes I agree with you. He was so cold .
That is what I stated in response to another comment further down on this awesome channel.
Yes, they can not be vulnerable!
I absolutely have to get the Self Love Journal now
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He used to tell me he'd survive anywhere...desert island etc. Oh I believed the Bear Gillis narrative. He could save me too! He was impervious to covid as he vowed he'd never get it due to his omnipotence. He's 72 now and a bit concerned about the future decline of his body which has been, in his head, Adonis-esque. Increasingly, as age encroaches, his joylessness is ever more palpable. His tactics have accelerated and he seems to be, what we say in the UK, going up his own backside. The pity I feel has helped me to slowly break free and to rediscover life, and a freedom.
I did find it interesting how my ex narc friend knew shes doing something wrong and yet cant handle the shame once she had to face the consequences because now I made the decision to not put up with her bs so she would crawl to her enabler for comfort and fill up her head with nonsense.
There is just no reasoning with someone like that.
Im glad that videos like this exist to understand the mess
Proverbs 16:18 states pride is before a fall. So what you are saying is 💯 ✅
Yep......You can run, but you can't hide.
They never believe they did anything wrong
Telling them to be honest with themselves doesnt work. I tried that one on them. Its like Peter the Dragon, hiding behind a lamp post thinking that, because he can not see you, you cant see him! Immaturity to see that the world doesnt revolve around them. My mum used to say ppl were being narky! (Badly behaved)
Thanks for this Lee, it makes a lot of sense! ❤
You are so insightful About learning how to deal with the narcissist. Thank you! God bless you!
I believe their downfall is if their all alone in no relationship soaking in their thoughts
Manipulation and not taking accountability for anything
I think it leads to loneliness and inability to feel joy
Broken ego
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Love your opener. You have a very informative show. I love it!
As time moves on it comes across that you’re becoming a more balanced person in your videos Lee.
So the most important thing my husband has are his ki ds. He sees them as extra appendages.
So when I left him while pregnant fleeing for my safety and health, and that of my child (made me relapse in my PTSD and anxiety attacks causing 2 weeks of cramping. Then refused to send me to the doctor. I never saw the doctor for the first 12 weeks- untilnI left after he told me to go kill myself infront of family), I told him one thing- if you really want me to come back (which I wouldn't) then you're going to have to go see a therapist and work on your issues.
That was May of last year. Still nothing seems to have changed and no therapy has been done.
So if his kids are THAT important then it doesn't make sense to me that be wouldn't go seek help for the sake of keeping his child.
It would be nice to see the inside of the journal, and the video is so on point
@mentalhealness I don't know how you will take this, but I'm proud of you for being courageous for being open and vulnerable. It shows true worth and strength. Please keep going for yourself and those that you love. God bless.
The day I sat down with the third Marrage counc let with my husband and she lifted that vulnerability cape he bust out crying like a little 4 year old BOY. I was in shock
I felt like I could breath in the session I couldn’t believe it. Finally someone sees what I have been in during the marriage. Our marriage was garbage
I'm not a vindictive person by nature. Still, I hope my ex feels at least some of the pain he's caused me and our daughter.
Them having to tell the truth!
Their lies will eventually be exposed… cause you narcissist lie A LOT
Thank you so much for this breakdown .
You’re welcome
Thank you Lee❤
Narcs are everywhere. So beware.